Such an interesting video Nathalie! I see a lot of this in the relationship dynamic of my parents. My mom has always been a stay at home mom, and when my dad moved out it was financially horrible for her. She had to go back to the only job she could get with her big gap, which was cleaning houses. She was SO tired of that job afterwards, she was basically doing for someone else the same chores she did at home because no one would help her (I was young, stupid and wouldn't help lol). My dad moved back in a couple years ago and financially they're doing better. Don't get me wrong, he's a nice dude! It's just a matter of how incompatible they are. My mom has said time and time again that she regrets not having her own money, not having a career or a profession, and how much she regrets it cause she feels like he (my dad) questions all her purchase decisions because she overspends on clothes (a whole different story XD but she should be able to spend her money on whatever she chooses).

On spot! Loved it!

Hey there my handsome and pretty little cobras! I wanted to share with my cobrababies my take on the "stay at home gf" trend. I know I'm a bit late to the trend but better late than never. I know this is a take no one asked for, but I like to talk about things of interest to me! My channel, my rules. Comment down below what's your thoughts on this trend! I fully enjoy Nara smith content, it's super inspiring and entertaining to watch (but it's also good to look at topics with a critical eye)!

I would like someone who is actually married to comment on this lol I feel like I only see younger single or in a relationship but not married women talking about this issue like it has anything to do with them or they have the experience when they don’t. Marriage is *supposed* to be about entering a binding contract between 2 people who love and want to support each other and you should trust your spouse over your blood-related family when it comes down to it. I understand divorce exists but when you enter into a marriage the intention is supposed to be that you are together forever through thick and thin and I’m sorry but why would you EVER marry someone who you think one day might leave you or you think you need to hide away your own money *just in case*. That’s not a real marriage. I love and trust my husband and I’m about to quit my job to be a stay at home mom to our first daughter and not once have I thought that I need to stash away my own separate money because I know the man I married and we both made a mutual commitment to each other and our family. Don’t marry someone who you think you can’t 100% trust and I get that some people will say that they did feel that way first about their spouse and then things changed but when you find someone who takes the promise of marriage actually seriously and you are bound by something bigger than yourselves there’s no reason to be worried that one day they might abandon you. I also think women who are afraid to “ask their man for money” are in an abusive relationship bc every conversation about money should be mutual and not “oh can I please have money?” Like that’s not a mutual partnership of respect. You can be a SAH wife/mom who takes on more traditional roles but is still treated like an adult by your spouse.

Nathalie whenever you posts a new vlog it's put a big smile on my face..😀😀✨💗 and I am always always looking forward to your vlogs so so so much

TikTok Trend? Need to get rid of EVERYTHING right now😂

I am a stay at home mother who has been married to my husband for six years. To us marriage was a means for us to build a family together. We didn't get married to be happy or to have a lot of romance. Maybe because we thought so hard about the utility of marriage we managed to build a lovely little family together. I think a big part of that is because we didn't "try each other out" by living together before we were engaged. (We lived together for a month before marriage) We jumped in together feet first and dealt with the awkwardness of learning to share our space without a fallback. Also I disagree with working when I have small children. I am not going to work until my children are in school. Once they are in school I will resume working. I am not worried about the gap in my resume, giving my children a safe and stable childhood is worth the risk.

its 2024. Stay at home wife/gf is no no in this time. Girl wanna do work or whatever she want will it be. Trad wives are out too.

Nathalie you forgot to give me heart comment in my main comment 😭😅😅😅😅