Every. Single. Time. When I'm struggling with something, Dr K drops a video just about that He's definitely maxed out his telepathy skills and I'm grateful af

As someone who studied something 4 years in undergrad and then 6 years in grad school only to not use those degrees at all, I assure you it's not "wasted time," whatever that means. It took years for me to come to terms with this concept. Life is for living, experiencing, learning, etc. Studying something as interesting as architecture can never be a waste, even if it doesn't contribute to your ultimate career. We're so ingrained with the concept of "life = career" that it never occurs to us that a job can be the means to actually live life.

Just to give all y'all 20-something year olds some reassurance of not being alone in the struggle... It doesn't go away in your 30s either haha. But it does feel less intense which can allow you to make bolder decisions without tiptoeing around your dreams if you haven't followed the traditional path of family and children (which I have chosen not to take)

i learned this from a driving instructor on youtube, it's his catchphrase "choose the best answer, not necessarily the right answer" and that lowkey changed my life lol

I’m moving across the country with a business degree… to train dogs. Life doesn’t always go the way you planned and sometimes your passion wins.

I'm so glad you didn't become a cardiologist, you've seriously changed my life. I think you have made more of a difference in my life than most people in my life if not you have made the most difference in my life. Thank you

"We're trying to live a life without regrets" Dr K out here spitting bars. This is truly how I feel and have felt for the longest time.

I relate a lot to this video, here are the main points: 1. Fear of not making a mistake is what actually creates regret in your life. 2. Look at external factors as to why you're thinking "passion vs normal job". Part of why you might be feeling this way is that the company that you're working for sucks, or your colleagues suck or the project you're working on sucks. Maybe changing some of those factors might make the choice between "passion vs normal job" not seem as important, because in general your work environment has overall positive vibes. TLDR; It might not be the profession but your work environment that you dont' like. 3. In the same vein of the point above. Ask yourself why you are asking this questions of "passion vs normal job" now. Why not years ago when you were pursuing an education in that particular field? 4. You can't see the future, so how do I make a choice? "Wasted" time is the price to figuring it all out. How the hell are you supposed to know without even trying lol. 5. Try to come back to reality for a little bit. Look at the roommates you're living with, your parents, the people walking down the street, your neighbours. These are most likely people you've never heard about that are living "normal" lives. Keep in mind that the people we see on youtube, instagram, that are "successful" represent a tiny tiny fraction of the population. I don't think this is to discourage people from pursuing that but just to give perspective that just as a fact, most people don't have that lifestyle. 6. Recognize that you could be making a mistake. You need to dive in and try. 7. If you've invested a lot of time into a field, the safe choice would be to (If you're generally happy) to keep pursuing it while keeping your passion on the side UNTIL you feel ready to give up the other field. 8. How do I know I'm ready to leave that "normal" field? You've done it for a while and it just becomes so intolerable that it really just leaves you with no choice other than to quit it lol. Paradoxically...reaching this point will make you have no regrets because well... there's no other choice to make in your mind. 9. Unhappiness is going to be your compass. It will guide you through what you're supposed to do. Trying to avoid unhappiness ironically will set you back in terms of making a decision you will not regret. 10. Doing something that you don't necessarily like for a long period of time will develop a great work ethic. So if you do switch to something you're more "passionate" about it will give you a better emotional gauge since you can't base success on your passion/interest but your work ethic. 11. Financial stability is definitely important. 12. "Rest of your life" Mostly bullshit, you don't have to do something for the rest of your life. TLDR; 20:20 - 22:30 Summarizes it pretty well. 22:03 - If you've invested a heavy amount of time, think about the temporal circumstances that are making you feel this way and try to address those. Be ok with making a mistake. I think that's pretty much it. If anyone wants to contribute more to this you are more than welcome to.

My parents always told me that dreams will always be dreams and that its almost impossible to come true so I gave up on all of my dreams when I was around the age of 10. One of my biggest mistakes yet.

One of my favorite mangaka, Tsutomu Nihei, studied architecture before doing manga. Now he's published several incredible works (which I think may turn out to be very inspiring to other storytellers) and had a few Netflix original adaptations. You never know.

Personally, I came to accept that slow progress is still progress, I know I was talking to my friend about handling online school and her office job (she wants to do graphic design) and she chose to do both full time and ended up dropping out the online. I asked her "why not do part time online" and she was like "because full time is like 3 years and part time is 6 years" which fair enough but you always have to be realistic imo when it comes to responsibilities and what you can handle at a time, some people can juggle a lot of stuff at once, others not so much. If you feel like you can do 6 years and not 3 years, there's no shame in that, it's better to do slowly than just outright drop it and potentially never do it again because you can't do it fast enough. It's physically not possible for majority of people, we kinda need to eliminate the "you gotta be successful FAST or you will never EVER EVER be successful, YOU'LL BE A LOSER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE" kinda mentality in our society overall that is expected on young people and be more lenient. TLDR version: I believe in you 🙏

I feel like my whole life has been a series of people telling me “don’t be afraid to make mistakes” but then the world giving me every reason to be deathly afraid of making mistakes. Like it’s a nice thought but that’s not the way the world works. I can’t just cover my eyes and ears and pretend there’s no consequences for my actions

"It's our avoidance of making mistakes that causes us to live with regret" - Dr. K

I love this video so much. When I was 18, I joined the military because; 1) my family was not in a financial spot to support college, 2) I was(still am to a degree) an irresponsible teen, and I knew I would've wasted my time and money, and 3) I didn't know what I wanted to do in life. Those 4 years I spent in the military helped me rediscover, funnily enough, a passion for art and storytelling that I'd suppressed because my parents had told me as a child that it wasn't a viable option. Now that I'm out of the military, I took advantage of college benefits and am trying to pursue my passion at an art school(I'd love to create comics/manga one day). I've still got my own share of hurdles but you most definitely do need to make mistakes to find out what's right for you, and those mistakes certainly do create an even more intense passion to chase your dreams

Reframe your dream. You like storytelling- why? How can you relate that passion to any career. Scientists tell stories, psychologists tell stories, doctors tell stories- you can reframe those things. A 21 year old probably doesn’t know their lifelong passion. That’s something you develop and make.

"The fear of making mistakes leads to regret" 🙏

This stems from how capitalism and love doesn't go well together. It's not a product you buy. A career is a messy path we all go through

it's like standing at the pool or beach for the first time. you've dipped your toes in but it's so cold that the pain from the cold keeps you from going in. but will you even enjoy it? you will never know until you test the waters and experience it. and once you go in, and your body gets used to the cold, you finally try swimming and playing in the water. you can then assess if you enjoy swimming or playing in the water. had you have known this if you continued standing at the water? you are not wasting time by gaining this valuable data.

“We don’t change until our situation becomes more uncomfortable than the change required.” I butchered this quote from another therapist, but I think that fact would conclude this video well.

I wish colleges had more people come in and explain there career paths, I think a lot of people who end up getting far in there career had jobs all over the place before they found what fit. Like if you are in your 20s or 30s you still have at least 30 more years of work ahead of you that's an insane amount of time.

I went with an option of having a stable career and the passion as a hobby. For now I am happy, I feel like making your hobby a job might destroy your passion for the hobby,

Architecture graduate here. Came from the most recent video, the one about "being spoiled". The advice about taking note of your day to day activies of a job is something that should be more talked about to young people in the midst of choosing their career path! It's honestly so important to match your personality to the type of work enviroment you want to work in. And relevant to the architecture field, since the shock between college and office work is a big factor in why a lot of people decide to leave the profession. I think it depends a lot on the context of your country too, since not all architecture jobs are well paid or have an ok office culture. I've related a lot to these last two videos and they've been really helpful. Seeing as it's such a common theme, especially in architecture, here's a bit of my story that might help someone: I finished architecture school from a sort of inertia - even though it wasn't my "passion", but it was presented to me as a safe bet that would fit my skills. Seeing as I was a smart artsy kid, being a painter, video director, or even just an interior designer was considered to be beneath me and things I could do after college anyway. So, two years of prep before college and I was burnt out out already and wanted to quit and switch paths right before admission. This only repeated at the end of every college year... The fact that I wasn't that passionate about it, coupled with probably an undiagnosed adhd made it even harder to get through college. Long working hours, a lot of procrastination and projects submitted the last minute. What kept me going was my curiosity in all of the different subjects that you had to study and a great collective. Plus, what I really wanted to do seemed so far away and scary and as time passed, the time and work invested grew. But it was obvious that people who were more passionate about it got better at it. Meanwhile, I was excelling at the humanities subjects, while being mediocre at the rest. If your heart's not in it, you'll face a lot of resistance trying to keep up with the people that actually enjoy doing it. And that resistance translates to a lot of wasted energy, shame, overall a bad mental and physical health space. Fast-forward, almost 2 years after graduating (so 8 years of studying it and one year and a half of working in three different offices) I realised I don't want to work in an architecture office enviroment ever again, from the same reason that Dr. K cited - you spend 8 hours or more in front of the computer, clicking away your day. Plus, it's reaaally underpaid for the amounf of stress and work you do, especially as a junior. So after I quit my last job, I've been working some projects as a freelancer, trying to have a more flexible work schedule and enviroment, while doing some photography and trying to switch to that more. I'm still interested in the theoretical and aesthetic part of it, thinking about how spaces or cities could be improved, but I realised that the reality of working at a desk full time is too static for me and painful to my soul. Also, I don't seem to mind sitting at a desk writing for hours, since I can atribute more meaning to that and get into a flow state. I've also realised that freelancing on your own is not that easy, can be lonely and working in a collective can be a good learning op. Also, trying to switch to something that I enjoy more hasn't been easy. I started to accept that and try to take it step by step, enjoying life along the way. And last but not least, making peace with the notion that those years were not wasted is important for moving forward - I'm grateful I got a good education in a complex field, which thaught me a lot. But thinking back, I wish I quit while in college and went down a different route, more suited to my skills and personality. I wish society didn't put all this pressure to choose a career path while in high school, especially long, complex ones like architecture, medicine or engineering. The burnout is real and some people actually get sick from all the stress and pressure. Also, a gap year between high school and college would've been a great idea, but in cultures where it's not common, people don't do it out of fear of remaining behind from their generation peers and losing friends. So, hang in there architecture students, or anyone trying to get in a competitive, high achieving field. Know that it's ok to have second thoughts, to even take a freeze year if possible, quit or switch to something maybe connected, even if it's deemed as a "less socially valued" field to work in. But it's best to take a decision, rather than mull over it endlessly and lose time and energy that way. Also, there are a lot of work branches related to architecture and, to come back full circle to the day to day activities bit, not all require working in an office. Maybe you want to continue in academia, be an architecture photographer, write about it, etc. I guess we just need to weave our education with our skills and see how to best work in an enviroment that suits our personalities, because that's how you bring the most value to the world. Peace and health

-I dropped out of uni 2nd year because it's bad -Decided to all-in on art -The fact Im on my own gives me fear -Fear made me avoid failure -Spent 2 years figuring out motivation -Saw that the theories work - min/max-ed out everything - "failed" on purpose as much as possible - beat your ego to a pulp so you cant defend something that isn't there - no fear, even a little pleasure, since I know how to get up from failure now (guess this is confidence) - now I'm unironically the smigma male meme - I am now the guy I wished I was 2 years ago when I only played games. I actually achieve stuff - get ego again lmao Tl;dr: fix urself first, get ur ass humiliated until you have 0 ego to defend, now u have thicc skin to tolerate hard shit. Also remember u need a strong enough passion to make all the pain worth it.

This reminds me of how burn out feels like such a waste of time, but it also makes you develop tools that will make the rest of your life so much better that it actually isn't a waste at all

I felt this in my soul. You struck a particular chord because I grew up with a lot of pressure from parents to be "successful" aka go to a school, get a degree (in architecture), make a shit load of money and so on. "Oh Ian you're so smart, you're so creative and good at math, this would be perfect for you!" But it in fact wasn't, and I dropped out of a program after a couple of years. Then, I picked up a camera and started doing photography. My creative outlet found a landing point, ten years ago, and I haven't looked back since. Although, ironically, I have a "real job" I work as a retail manager, which is of course the safe job. Photography is my "passion". The same people who told me I wasted money on a camera all those years ago are now telling me I should be a professional photographer, but I'm not sure that would really work out either. Meanwhile, my "real job" has ebbs and flows, and some days I feel like I suck at it and maybe should've picked something else, when things don't go well. It's all so difficult. Anyways, your advice is pretty spot on. So thank you.

When there is a decision to make and you're the type who prefers to be in control: Don't wonder too much, what would be better. Make a choice! If you don't, time passes and so your chance passes. Then life will choose for you. And believe me, most people don't like the outcome.

Sometimes those safety nets become a web that entangles you. I spent years working towards writing and storytelling then halted again recently. Lately I've felt like things have been off. Now after several different things, I've decided to refocus. It's a lot of work as an older man with kids. I've chosen to remove my own frivolities and put those resources into the craft. At the same time, I can work at taking care of my family. Its a delicate balance but I've strategized and all that it now requires is my own determination. It's rough for sure, but lately I feel like the mask is cracking.

"I'll not betray my dream. That is all"

Another idea that I was just learning, that I think fits really well with this, is the idea of focusing on the pursuit or process of things, rather than the outcome. It's something that I find can be very difficult to do, especially as you start to get older and have a tendency to feel like "time is running out." But I think focusing on outcomes means that we look at things in terms of results, which we generally divide into wins or losses. Alternatively, focusing on processes means that we embrace the journey that we're on and the hills and valleys that it comes with.

In the US we have to talk about healthcare accesibility and how that impacts how free we are to pursue our passion. If you have any type of chronic condition you can't rely on a high deductible marketplace plan. You need an employer provided plan with reasonable premiums, deductibles and copays or you will have to choose between food and meds.

Perfect timing I was just hopping in the shower to contemplate life and all it’s meaning post workout!

Thank you so, so much. I love you Dr. K! 💙

what a coincidence. my dad has been bugging me to invest my time in programming even though i have no interest whatsoever. I am passionate about drawing but i also feel like i should do it as a side thing since i may regret it in the future. the thing is though, i don't know what will happen if i take any of these paths. This video is helpful. Thanks doc

I've always been told by a close family friend. "When a job, becomes a job, it's time to move on"

Back in 2017 I was at a job that was making me miserable, but was within my passion I worked sewing uniform polos; designing and sewing are my passions. I quit the factory for a better sewing opportunity. Same field, but different temporary factors. Better working conditions, better coworkers. I always kept in mind: If I hadn't worked in the factory, I might not have appreciated this job as much. Having a shitty job made this one feel so much better.

Soul has really help realize that life doesn't just end when you get that dream job. Yes, it's cool to follow your passion but there's more to life than just following your passion. I still want to do art as a career but now I don't see life as success/failure of whether you should follow yours dream.

The problem is a lot of people can't afford to go to college for 6 years and figure out they don't want that. It's all or nothing for people that don't have that kind of money.

But how can I not be afraid of failure, when, for example, entering the work force is increseangly harder as you get older? How do you deal with the tension and contradiction of taking risks and no screwing opportunities?

I had no regrets quitting my safe, retirement guaranteed job for my own cleaning business. It was scary as hell after quitting because I had no idea how to have a business. I took it day by day to not overwhelm myself with the pressure of doing it all by myself. I dont make as much money but i enjoy the work 100% more. I still get overwhelmed about taxes and being my own boss.

I quit my job a few years back to follow my passion. I think the thing that solidified it for me was the fact that my old jobs in IT were really great. I had smart coworkers and bosses who all looked out for one another, I was always well compensated (especially considering I didn't have a college degree), I was loved by clients, I was challenged by dynamic and ever changing work, I was encouraged and compensated for bettering myself in the field, and I did a damn good job at what I did... But it just wasn't right for me.

Dr K is like if someone took the idea of Frasier Crane and put it into an a stable, calming and actually helpful person's body.

Ah yes I love coping with my uncertainties with escapism

Let experience guide you. It's not time wasted if you have this confidence from giving it a fair shot.

This is priceless and hit me right in the heart. Thank you so much for your work and for psychologically educating everyone! *sending love*

I stuck with a job past the point of wanting to quit, it became unbearable. Weirdly, holding out that long has left me with little feeling of regret, even if it was so painful.

I really liked this message. I quit medicine after my first year of residency because I hated where I was and the people I was working with, the actual job was draining at times, but overall fine. Although I was super stressed throughout the first year, it was only until I quit that a clinical depression was triggered for the first time in my adult life. I moved countries, and some doctors encourage me to pursue residency in this country, which has been super tempting but I decided to transition to tech. All this to say, if I had done more years, I may have left with less initial regrets, and not have triggered that depression, but overall it worked out and I'm much happier now.

This is literally the best video to pop up in my feed thank you DrK!!

This was so unbelievably comforting/motivating. I definitely feel like I'm on my last last respawn in life and it's definitely giving me the tenacity you're talking about.

As someone who is about to graduate with a BA in theatre, you my friend should design sets. You can tell stories and put your architectural knowledge to good use.

So grateful for this video 🙏 Since I've somehow rediscovered your channel every video you put out actually deals with struggles that I deal with on a daily basis. So thankful for your support to the community and people ❤ Wish you all the best and I hope you'll reach 1 million subs soon.

Your words are healing me, thank you.

This was so helpful. I’m in the same position but I’m 34. I love the very simple yet sage advice that the “wasted time” is basically the cost of entry in the choices of Life. It makes perfect sense and I feel so much less bad about that. Thank you Dr. K

Man this one really good. I'm always thinking about passion vs career. I hope I make the right choice! 🙏

Thank you so much, I've having the same feeling these couples days and the timing of this video couldn't have been any better for me.

I really appreciate this video. I've tried and re-tried a lot of different pursuits of passion and a few carreer fields. After a while I decided on something l, but put it off to focus on my life, friends, and family. I thought of a lot that time as wasted with how some things turned out, but this made me rethink that.

It certainly is wild seeing others struggle with this at 25 and leading a life I thought I missed out on. I'm 29 now and just beginning to get things in order, but I've walked that road of failure already. This was such a fantastic video. I know right where I'm at, and honestly it's where I need to be. Thanks Dr. K, and thanks to the community that keeps sending him these great questions

Awesome video! I have made the choice of leaving too early before and have regretted, but also have learned throughout that experience what drives me through my work/dream balance. I also had the safety net of my parents, which I’m extremely grateful for, and now can really enjoy my work and also work towards my dreams! 🎉

I didn’t realize how much I needed this video, thank you

Oh. My. God. This is literally what I have been struggling for months and years .. Thank you, thank you so much dr. K. Everything just make sense now. I feel like I never had this kind of clarity in my head before. Your story and journey to where you are now is just a-ma-zing. Just show that in the end, it's keep being persevere that matters. This is another comment to remind you to please .. PLEASE, keep do whatever you are doing. It save me today!

Definately needed to hear this, thank you

This is timed so perfectly!! I'm literally two days away from a major career change and have been stressing about it for weeks!

Amazing video. Thank you!

Making mistakes is not something I ever regretted. The things I regret are when I was too afraid to try, or talked myself out of something that was obviously not going to work. Especially when that thing wouldn't have had any lasting consequences. Looking back I realize maybe it would have worked out, but either way it was a life experience I missed out on.

You have no idea how much I needed this video right now, seriously this advice is life changing

This is amazing!!! What an eye-opener. You've confirmed some things I intuitively knew and you've really brought me clarity. Amazing content. This is such wisdom that should reach everyone everywhere. You deserve to have more than just a million subscribers!

God, how I needed to hear this. Thank you so much! I'm studying german language, literature and culture studies and I like it, but I hate writing papers. Growing up thinking, and my ex made me think this too, that it's wasting time doing something you won't extend on, but I came to the conclusion that that's not true. I know now that working in a field of science is not what I want and that's totally fine. All the knowledge I gained is gonna pay off in some way some time. But, moving cities, taking a break from being a musician, made me realize that I love music even more than I thought. I always came back to it through educational videos on YT. Back than I didn't cherish it, because it was always there. So now, I want to engage it again but my "I-wanna-be-perfect-in-something-that-takes-years-to-master"-mindset is holding be back, but I'm working on it.

You are amazing and your content is life changing. You deserve everything you have, Dr. K❤️

Thank you! This video is so helpful!

Man this video truly came at a perfect time in my life. I'm 20 now but I feel like I have to rush into my passion so if it fails then I know early but if it does good then I can enjoy it longer. Jumping into something you love is so difficult. Which is weird cause you think it wouldn't be. I want to work in a field that makes my heart race and i'm super passionate about. But it's scary and the thought of failing at this thing i'm so passionate about makes me nervous to try it. Because i'm not this passionate about anything else really. Great video man, your work is truly appreciated. ❤️

Man Dr.K you have contributed so much to my mental health, ability to make life choices and being able to actually love life in general. I hope someday I'll be able to give you a hug and buy you a meal. GGWP

thanks for providing insigh to us you really help the world specially now when the pressure its double on half of daily aspects of life

Just, thank you. And thanks for helping me realize how greatfull I am for the friends I have and for how much they can teach me just by their actions alone (ex. orienting me towards this video)

Ty Dr.K this helped me immensely with potential regret, guilt and making a mistake.

This one really spoke to me. Love how he can speak so broadly and you can kind of attribute some things to your own situation.

Dr. K videos have been on fire, he’s always been great but damn!, last videos have given me a lot to think about.

I'm so grateful I learned a lot of these lessons growing up with a parent who changed careers radically in his mid 40s. I still struggle with regrets and "damn why tf didn't I do this sooner" but it's all good when I look at the bigger picture. I pretty much figured out what I want in my late 20s but it took some more years to get rid of a lot of mental blocks to actually make it happen.

It's an amazing talk!! Experience itself has meaning regardless of the result

One think I learned by trying diferent courses in diferent ares is that: you need to challange your identity. I was in his situation: art kid, struggling a lot. Then I tried nursing cause I kind liked medicine and pathology....best decision I ever made! Before I had the identity of "the introverted", now I know why I was not getting well being a digital artist: It's lonely as f. I need to see people, I need to talk with then and I am getting better at doing it with time, made friends... Still want to do art but I will not quit nursing because of that. I had changed thanks to this, and for the better. Now I know how I want to use my art, to further heal people.

Thank u Dr. K

I really enjoyed this kind of video. Thanks!

This hits close to home. Doing a masters in Engineering but having regrets. Thanks Dr. K. I think I can push forward now.

Listening to this while at the job I hate is very appropriate timing.

This gave me so much motivation

Thank you, Dr. K share so much wisdom and reminds us that time is experience. Never truly wasted. Ill be gone soon from this place to play music for people I dont and will never know. Im not afraid anymore to take this chance. We will all make it friends, Stay the course till ends meet earth and the sky falls.

This is a wonderful topic - would like to see more like this or a more in depth discussion around it.

This is for me quite revolutionary thought - to listen to my soul which will tell me if the change/experience I'm going through makes me happy or unhappy. That our emotions are guiding us and telling us if we are on the right place and so even bad emotions or mistakes or unhappiness is all part of it. It is only like a two years that I'm able to feel my feelings, paying them attention, since childhood I was almost like a stone because of some trauma. So I'm learning to listen to my inner experience and also see my inner conflicts, too.

this makes me feel so much better about not knowing how to answer the ''what will you do when you grow up'' question. there is so much to life and creative outlets to turn in to a career. I either wanted to be a vet, cartoonist, something in the medical field or an author. but as I grew I realized I had no talent or skill at all. I know I couldn't be a good tattoo artist, author, musician or some kind of athlete. right now I'm looking after my kids but now at 25 i think I really want to work on a movie or tv series set. either making the set, creating the props or creating the character and costume. I really love learning how its all done and I'm blown away by the magic of it. right now I'm just stuck at where the hell do I start. I was horrible at school and what courses and certifications would I need. also im really glad i stumbled across this channel. everything ive seen so far has made so much sense

ive not watched the video yet, but from the tittle, Tim Ferris' ''Fear Setting'' concept comes to mind which helps me personally overcome this peculiar fear. essentially: you make a list of positions you would Not want to be in (i.e what your life/circumstances will eventually look like if you don't go for what you want) it can be a great way to semi realistically visualise Potential outcomes for your possible decisions and act as an aid in deciding what to do/not do when you come up against a big decision

Working towards doing character design for animation for the past 5 years now. My struggle was to sustain focus, consistent effort towards the craft. Found out I have adhd, started treatment and for the first time I worked on my portfolio and in two months I'm ready to apply for jobs. So you can totally do it, in two years you can learn and be good enough to start working and go from there. I took longer cause of gaming and inertia, you can do it much faster than I. Perfecting the craft is a life long journey tho, so don't stress about it. Love, camo

I’m so glad Dr. K zigzagged his way to us. I can’t imagine my life without his help.

This has got to be my favorite video from Dr. K

This is so wise and time is never wasted. Even if you completely reorient your life. Knowledge is powerful.

This video appears just in a perfect timing... I've been dealing with this issue for so long, but with different case. And my local psychologist doesn't help the issue at all. And worst of all they all told me the same thing :"Give up that dream and see the reality" But just as I planned of really letting go of the things I love, this video appears in my timeline. And it really saved me and rekindle my purpose of life... I'm truly blessed for this channel to exist and I hope it could help a lot of people with different issue... The world really need a psychologist like you... 🥰

Really good video. Can confirm all of this :)

This is pure gold.

Feeling mega greatful for these vids

This changed my view on everything. I am currently in the exact same situation (only studying law school instead of architecture) and this finally opened my eyes. I cannot be grateful enough. Thank you a lot. It means everything to me.

22:22 very true! I feel better now with my decisions :)

Holy shit, that’s some real solid advice. Some people would just go “yeah pick your passion and drop out lol follow yer dreams”. Which is plainly horrible advice. Alok really knows what’s up.

these videos make me so happy