I know Teddy Pendergrass said turn off the lights, but after his car accident it all made sense to me as to why HE said that, but for me at least, turn them on to get a quick looks C at what you may be getting into. If you know what I mean. No pun intended.

Okay and you're either stupid or complacent . There's absolutely no way this young black man did not know this 40-year-old white man wasn't a 28-year-old white woman he knew he did it because he wanted to do it and what's more discussing is that he did it for $50 that's what a w**** does . This was all about this black man getting away with murdering a white man that's all it was and anyone who says anything differently is a racist so you're probably a racist and that's okay be a racist if that's what you want to be but don't act like you're not a racist when somebody calls you out on it this was not about some young black inexperienced man having sex with some 40-year-old white man pretending he didn't know it was a 40 year old white man he know it was a 40 year old white man he took the $50 28 year old white women who suck your dick do not give you $50 okay ! I know from experience ! This was a young black man participating willingly in gay sex for money and just killed a gay man there's no other explanation for that he killed him because he did not want to be associated with gay sex but he wanted the money and he wanted a b****** that's all it was and to make anything more of it is ridiculous the fact is he's a murderer and he should be in prison the fact that he got off for killing a gay man and most importantly a gay white man because you know gay white men have all that privilege speaks for itself he killed a gay white man because like I said gay white people have all that privilege and got away with that he's walking now but here's the only good thing that's going to come out of it he has to live with killing a gay white man the rest of his life and I assure you as a gay white man all do everything I can do to ensure that that black man gets called out for killing a gay white man everywhere he goes if he applies for a job I'll send him an email if he applies for a car a car loan a home loan anything he applies for I'm going to send the email to that financer I hope he never makes it in life I hope he suffers all of his life hope he never has a wife never has children and is beat down underground every day for the rest of his God damn life cuz he's a goddamn filthy disgusting cold-blooded murderer .

I agree

Exactly.

Yep he got clowned.😄

@jimmie parker it was obvious

#facts

@Kurt Bennett that's how much they don't value gay men. And that's why there are so many undercover men now. And yet, they still don't understand. On the mere fact that the others left showed that he didn't exercise good judgement. He could have beat that man ass but he didn't have to beat him so bad that he killed him. I'd like to know how many bruises and how many blows were suspected because 1 or 2 blows probably can kill someone. The opposing lawyer should have went after lesser charges considering that there was deceit and a your word vs my word situation and the guy was dead. At least that boy would have gotten some time. It would not surprise me if that football player end up being in some type of gay relationship later...but I do know he better keep it super super under the radar. Karma does not play.

@@ericmckinney4607Kurt has commented on many people comments he's perfect and has never given Grace. Don't waste your breath 🤣

@Kurt Bennett , yep. White corrupted cops does all the time. It's almost like it's normal

2:32 Blame their black single mothers For these names😔

Frfr, Lord have mercy🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Sad part , I can see in the comments they find it hard this young man can be young and naive and think they know it all like many adults.

You ain’t never lied

gurl he knew that was a man! then it was his second time! but I forgot black men are SLOW!

Paul probably told no lies

@@montprice6722 you are slow. Everyone else he knew walked away from it. He deserves jail time.

Yes very lustful. He was handsome young dude same age as me some of these young boys my age be so desperate they let it cloud their judgment.

truth is based off of the fact that the other young men walked away from the situation and this boy was a handsome tall young guy with plenty of potential, he should have gotten some type of sentence. You mean to tell me there was no young lady ready to engage with him that he could actually "See". It's your responsibility to know what you are sticking your dick into...his lawyer should have attempted a lesser sentence that he knew for sure would have landed. He may very well kill or seriously injure someone again.

I agree. He done this many many times before and got away with it but not this time. Sad because the young man may have been found not guilty yet will always be labeled suspect of being DL or undercover.

Yes, I’m sure this wasn’t Jerry’s first rodeo.

@@valerieholsendorff752 DL or undercover?! What about being labeled a murderer? You’re more focused on his sexuality than the murder😳

@@valerieholsendorff752 you sound like a clown.

his luck ran out? Really. That lil thug will be in jail soon.

Very possible!!

Exactly he knew. He meet him once before when back to the man room.. .. He gay..He need to be in jail.. SMH... Dirty game played... 🤔🤔🤔😢

That’s possible but it’s a big no in our community 🇬🇲

Periodt!

Talking out of ur ass.

Show me the perfect Christian and I'll show you a liar.

God is not in these churches.

@@SWiseman He never has been!

Clapping

@@ericmckinney4607 Just because someone sits in church for an hour on Sunday does not make anyone a Christian! You are correct just another phony Christian!

So he really thought a woman would invite a man into her apartment (with the lights out), perform oral sex on him, and pay him $50? No way! He knew it was likely a man.

@@MaeSekou he was acquitted because he played football

I absolutely agree. I am shocked he was found not guilty.

This sounds more plausible than the story he gave...

Agree, plus the $50

So sorry for your loss Dawson🙏

They always do

I'm not a bit surprised. Most of these guys who cry wolf aren't being tricked.

If he knew why did he go with friends? Don’t blame dude because that weirdo just can’t be honest

He was young and probably was naive

Right! And you get paid $50... he knew

Exactly I’m sick of the excuses he knew!!!

I didn't hear the (WHOLE) story before, sounds suspect

boom exactly! this goes on in the GAY world everyday! he knew it was not a woman and he was cool with that!

This!!!

That's what I said! The jury would've been hung if I was on there.

The one group that conservative white people hate more than black people: Gays.

THE SOB should be in prison.

But she probably couldn't give him $50.

I agree but I will say if that man had not lied on his profile he wouldn't be dead and as for the football player there is no excuse for taking some ones life and I hope he learn something from this and I pray that every one that go on dating sites will think be for acting because you never know what you be getting and also I pray that the ones that lied on the dating sites will think be for posting as something they're not because we are living in a world we're people will hurt you over lying over a dating site and condolences to the family that lost their loved one

U dumb if u think Craigslist has good quality.🤣🤣🤣🤣

lol right

I think it he’s straight. A straight man is attracted to the image of a woman. A lot of men do pretend to be a woman, or dressing up like women, and Tgirls on dating apps on the m4w side most of them won’t even tell you at all because they do it so much and some dudes do go alone with it. It’s really a lot of this going on. I think he could’ve pretended to maybe be a Tgirl but he’s a cross dresser. It’s a difference to a lot people and they would be highly upset about that. I believe he thought he was at least meeting a tgirl and I believe the gay male did pretend to be different than what he actually is.

If that's the case he should've got some time

That part, he should've just found a gay dude on campus.

@@emperor1470 Exactly

That's what I think. Who has to go back to verify a person's gender after they've been intimate together? I really feel like this young man got away with murder.

@@kathyrodriguez820 Exactly!

@@kidchocolate9253 I’m sure those hands seemed to have a very tight grip!

@@lisag2627 Right!

He is a Damm lie

Sorry bruh......I get Jerry was being deceitful but it's not grounds for being murdered.

@@pcharl01 Well Jerry was old enough to know that deceiving someone about his sexuality would eventually get him where he is now. Both parties definitely were wrong however, Jerry knew not only was this risky but extremely dangerous.

They both got what they deserved! There are a million stories of DL men being deceived and being xXX & just like women are told Never to go to an apartment alone…slow men should obviously take this advice too because of obviously reasons.

@@edwardgresham exactly

Exactly. Cool story bro! Now what really happened?

Interesting tell us how you came to that conclusion cause it sounds like your talking out of ur ass

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But I still say us your own picture because we are living in a world we're people don't play you lying on a dating site so that way you protect yourself and others or just don't mess with the dating sites and wait on God to bless you with some one to spend your life with because dating sites is not for everyone.

Low self-esteem smh

@@ericmckinney4607 no I didn’t lol now I do.

Lol

and only one paid the cost of losing their life.

lies. being disguised as a woman does not mean someone can kill you.

the boy was an adult not a child. you sound crazy thinking that murdering people is okay.

@@chilepleasestop9118 stop saying murder because it’s not. He beat his ass and the man died whether he intended that or not is near impossible to prove. However this man did really intend to deceive people including teenagers? Eww

@@joefreeman3772 a football player in college is a grown arse man. Stop with your disgusting homophobic foolishness low vibrational arse chump.

he wanted it pitch black cause he wanted the guy to believe he was with a woman.

How many people are going to have any type of intimacy in a dark room with someone they don't know? He wasn't catfished. He just made a dumb decision.

Still, what girl would invite a man to a dark room? Back in the day glory holes, were filled men in front of and behind the holes. He knew. He got called out and felt embarrassed and angry. If this remained a secret, he wouldn’t have minded

I'm glad actual women were spared from this degenerate behavior.

grown man jaws💀💀

Lmao big facts! Man I’m on the floor crying laughing! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

And what woman gives a man money after a sexual experience?

Yep. Everything about his behavior screams self-hating closet case who took his anger at himself out on his victim. ALL of his involved teammates had the common sense to be leery and go home EXCEPT him. The ballplayer took time out of his day that he could have been pursuing real women to RETURN to the person's apartment a whole month later and "investigate". Why was someone he suspects is not a woman even be on his mind a month later? Most straight guys who suspect they were tricked just wouldn't go back PERIOD (like his teammates), and most straight guys would be leery of receiving a $50 gift in exchange for a blow from a woman; that sounds more like "trade" shenanigans. Also, college football players typically have easy sexual access to tons of visible female groupie coeds right at school, so there'd really be no need to leave school and go into a stranger's dark home to have sex with someone whom he didn't even get the benefit of seeing clearly. Quite a few DL guys tell blatant lies about being tricked, but they tell the lie because they know bigoted people will believe it.

@@MimiB1974 Whew, That Part Right There!!!!! Big Flag!

@@MimiB1974 add to that one who won’t show her face ? Not buying it. He knew.

@@ericmckinney4607 and had it not been for that he knew had a $50 gig.

Exactly! 🎯🎯🎯

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only downlow men go in darknrooms for sexual pleasure and not know who is giving them oral. that is in the closet behavior.

This was still murder, he is so lucky.

Agreed! I’ve heard them speak of this and wonder why incidents like this happen! Do NOT take someone’s choice from them!

Exactly what if it was a woman setting him up to be murdered or robbed too damn desperate

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@@alicewhashintong555 you just nailed it I just said the same thing he's gay or only they down low and didn't want his teammates to know. He better go somewhere and sit his butt downs and be thanking God. You're in Virginia do I need to say anymore you might not be so lucky the next time your face is out there please go somewhere and sit down

@@gracecorbin5905 If he went there the first time. He talk with the man before.. second time he went back for a reason again.... now he claiming he didn't know that was a man.. maybe the other guys didn't know that was a Guy . They didn't trust going in the room But he went in the room.. for a reason . Why would the man have a gun? Did they find a 🔫? He didn't wanted the guy to know that he was gay. So he kill the man. The room wasn't that dark. So he just allow the man to give him O*** fishy story . 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 He just beat the man to death.. sad..He had a conversation with the guy.. Why go back the second time.. he lying 🤥.

He went back because he wasn't as "tricked" as he pretended to be. I've never heard of a woman giving a man 50 bucks to give HIM oral, but I have heard of such arrangements taking place in down low/trade interactions in the LGBTQ world. That's what I suspect was taking place here. That ballplayer was no real victim of deceit.

if his friends knew...he knew! lol! he just wanted some head and didn't like the fact that his friends made fun of him

@@montprice6722 Right. You mean to tell me that ALL of the team members who went with him knew that this was man EXCEPT him?! I don't buy that lie for one minute. This football player is simply another down low brother who cried wolf to salvage his "straight" reputation.

I was waiting for it 😂

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exactly. he deserved some time. not saying for the rest of his life, but definitely some time. This thread alone is telling. These people think that it's okay to murder somebody, because they sucked your peen. This dude got pleasured and paid.

Even if you're tricking people -- you still can't go around killing people

Exactly! How many times had this man invited strangers to his dark room. I bet many!!!

Amen

Like walking into a stranger’s dark apartment. He knew the name of the game…

@@MimiB1974 you’re a Karen, accusing people based on your perceptions.

Condolences to the man who raped him? Oh ok

@Kurt Bennett disguising one's identity and gender and engaging in sexual activities with a unsuspecting person who believes his partner to be a woman is cruel. The football player probably thought the woman was hiding her unattractiveness for fear of being rejected. Also, maybe he knows the other football players are judgmental and he's more accepting? Either way, this situation is unfortunate and neither of them deserved to lose their life or freedom behind one person's cruel dishonesty.

@@whisper2284 💯

@@whisper2284 murder is cruel. so what there was a disguise. if gender mattered that much he should have verified. And murdering someone is life changing. Perhaps he'll learn how to control his emotions. You people are so ignorant.

They use common sense. They just want their diccks sucked. And if a man would do it. So be it. And I know this for a fact. Period

Young one. That was a whole grown man. 🤣😂😅

@@ramonpchi Young "one" is in reference to the fact that he is a college football player and he's a son and/or grandson (early 20s); physically a man, but not fully mature mentally.

Think about that… what woman offers a man money to give HIM a bj?? Who walks into a dark apartment and let a whole stranger you never talked to give you a bj? This young man will come out as gay or bi in the future… he was ok with the whole scenario till his friends started clowning him

@@ramonpchi maybe it is wherever you come from, but 19 years old is not a whole grown man

Exactly… he knew… but allowed his friends to mess with his ego. The whole story makes no sense

You r contradicting yourself. You said he knew then u said he went back to find out. So which one is it?

@@beautifulqueen2579 I did not contradic myself, I said what I said! He knew or had some speculation that wasn't a female. His boys made fun about it it gets mad and goes back to find out. What he speculated was true. That's point blank and the period .

Right! That’s what I’ve been trying to figure out. Who paid who $50?

Right, I don’t know any woman who pays to give a man oral sex. Sounds suspect

The same type of jurors that allow cops to get away with murdering black people every day.

I think one of the reasons he got off is because of his location. He’s from a small conservative town in Virginia. So Homophobia definitely played apart, if this has happened in NY or Cali he would of gotten the book thrown at him

Most men DO NOT care about anything except getting their 🥜. Men will stick their 🍆 in pretty much anyone with a pulse. He wanted to get off and the other guy was on some beefhunter 💩

sweetie you must be new lol! men agree to meet people they can't see everyday baby for sex and head😂 baby in the gay world it goes down and straight men participate all day😂 one day yall gone learn what really goes on in the dark that they truly like doing in the dark what they can't get from yall lol

Word🤔

He look bisexuaal

Men are more prone to take free/ dumb no strings attached sex!

He whooped that boy ass so that's good for that guy

@@mentalhealthstigma2902 especially if you playing games like that

Right. So did he text or call or speak to the victim in person while the deed was going on?? There is no way any person is that dumb. He knew it was a man!! I said what I said

@@Theinfamouskiki411 EXACTLY! It only becomes a problem if there’s a chance someone will find out. Half these dudes out here will let *antybody* service them if they can keep it on the low.

@@Theinfamouskiki411 I totally hear what you're saying, and the fact, you went back

What a load of bullshit. Is it his fault that dude wants to Catfish people then can’t even take an ass whoopin’ ?

Facts

@@spirituallifecoachinginsti7207 That's what I was thinking too! They'll "work their jelly" to accommodate their "star players"

Those friends better be careful around him.

Race was mentioned alot in your comment and has absolutely NOTHING to do with this case! Since you want to bring race into it mention how this middle aged white man lured these Black youngsters!!! Keep race out of it! Was he right for taking his life? Absolutely not! Was Jerry right for misleading him? Absolutely not! Both parties are guilty of wrong doing! Leave race alone and stick with facts! And you reached waaaaay beyond any facts given stating the player must have been abused. That was a definite reach! You should be a fiction or suspense writer because you definitely have a knack for it!

Amen

@Kurt Bennett so glad to know you are prefect in all you do, a sin is a sin . You have been given Grace many times & so should he.

I totally agree with u 100%

How wen he was found not guilty

@@kaine4755 Well I'm very surprised he was. Lucky him.

Because he wanted to be there… but was ashamed of himself

Why didn’t Jerry just be honest then we can really know whether the dude was into rather than speculating like some Karens

I doubt that he is slow probably he is into that DL stuff but covered it up by snapping and killing him knowing that as an African he can get killed (since he is not South Africa)for that act or disowned by his family or perhaps it’s really went down how it happen 🤔🇬🇲🇬🇲.

@@NiniBonita Very true. His name sounds Nigerian and it doesn’t seem like homosexuality is too much accepted in their community.