if you'd JUST let them go, you'd have them

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In this video, we're going to talk about detachment, and how it can help you to separate yourself from your specific person in order to manifest a relationship with them.
Letting go and withdrawing/detaching yourself from someone you love, can be difficult to achieve, but once you understand how it works it can be a powerful tool for attracting the love you want. In this video, we're going to explore the concept of detachment and letting go of your specific person so we can understand why it's necessary in attracting love.
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@thegod4222 11 ай бұрын

Thank you i think i needed that

@thegod4222 11 ай бұрын

Wow , i didnt see myself on video when i comment lol now im shocked and guys just a little update , since i priotize my feelings like feeling attractive , being in perfect love being grateful for perfect relationship it goes very well . She texted me morning and night every day , she was cold but now she is saying i missed you and what not. Im not in the end of my goal but process going very well since i dwell on the feelings who would i be if she loved me. I prioritize my Good feelings like how im grateful for my relationship and how attractive i am things like that . Thank for the analyzing me btw love you ❤️. Edit: i will update too when i get my desired end which i happy lovely pasionate relationship .

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

told you I'd make a video for you hon😊

@thegod4222 11 ай бұрын

@@maleekaismyguardianangel that video really resonated me and to be honest i am really eased and happy Because all puzzle collected for me with that video because i also found my other issue with manifesting now i get . Thank you my favourite KZfaqr and my dear scorpio friend 🫠

@lauraleesimons1966 11 ай бұрын

Wouldn’t it be better just to ask for a date? To ask for communication? To shoot some shots that are visible and if nothing comes of it to move on? If anything to be manifested. Manifest the opportunity to rendezvous, manifest clear communication, manifest the ability to see if who they are aligns with a life you want, manifest your person seeing you for who you are and allowing them the choice to approve or disapprove. In the end if you decide on the route of manipulation maybe the manifestation should be to become that person that they would approve of. That means you have to be ok with the person you become and okay with transforming yourself and letting go of your own traits. That way all parties at least have choices. Less manipulation involved.

@cosmicconnection6719 11 ай бұрын

Preach 👏👏👏

@torileslie530 11 ай бұрын

“If you treat them like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan” best thing I heard

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

YES! Yes! Exaactly!!!🩷

@nessalight8681 11 ай бұрын

Oooh that one hits

@caramelapple4053 11 ай бұрын

On point. Love this❤

@WisdomWorldrx 11 ай бұрын

This is only the case with insecure people as a secure person will reciprocate the energy

@PhillP3833 11 ай бұрын

Yeah - that's pretty good!

@bella-rj5ch 11 ай бұрын

It’s like when you stop having a crush on someone who isn’t really that great, and suddenly the fog lifts and you see all their flaws that you can’t believe you missed before.

@thesoutherngossip4548 11 ай бұрын

FACTS

@tamasapatra397 11 ай бұрын

😊

@h7pubg 11 ай бұрын

what do you do if you are on the receiving end of this? the person I have mutually loved for almost 5 years within the past month has had this realization in her head, where she lost feeling and suddenly her mind is into selective bias where she only sees the mistakes i have made and flaws I have over time, and made this decision in her head that invalidates all of our time of love and care, without giving me the chance to work on it. I think we all will make mistakes and I have been too needy and sometimes had an attitude etc, but she was always the only person I ever wanted, I always loved her, and I don’t know how to get her to see me in the crush light again. I see my mistakes, but I don’t have the chance to work on them and I feel so helpless and full of remorse.

@blubarbii 11 ай бұрын

⁠⁠@@h7pubgwhy do you feel that you can’t work on them?

@h7pubg 11 ай бұрын

@@blubarbii because she left me and moved on so rapidly, within a month if not weeks of telling me the problems, I tried to work on them but they didn’t matter to her anymore

@jackiek4159 11 ай бұрын

Stop chasing and become the chased! Amen to this sister! xx

@ronaldclaude1892 11 ай бұрын

Hello, How would you suggest on how to learn to do that? I mean to stop chasing and become the chaser. I don’t call, nor text my ex, but I cannot stop thinking about her. Of course, I try to have for the most part positive thoughts. Please, is there anything else you think I can do? Thanks

@diywithjadyn9790 11 ай бұрын

@@ronaldclaude1892⁠ It wont be easy to stop thinking about someone you once loved, though missing someone is a good thing because it shows you are healing❤️. to become the chased, put all the love & energy you want to give to your ex to yourself and you will soon attract that love, push yourself to go out and try new things and let yourself have so much fun you forget about everything else around you. take risks, buy yourself flowers, read a good book, spoil yourself with gifts, eat your favorite foods. this is essential, alot of times in relationships we forget about ourselves because we tend to spend all of our time money and energy on our partner. whereas you cant love someone if you dont love yourself. so when you’re thinking about your ex try doing things you love to do, put all of your energy into yourself and love will flow to you.❤️ try looking in the mirror every morning whilst taking deep breathes and say “ i love myself, i dont chase love , i let love flow to me “ atleast 3 times😊

@davidcoppotelli3957 11 ай бұрын

Amen to this is it is Right and Correct Brothers.

@OFCINC 11 ай бұрын

@@ronaldclaude1892 look up Kevin Samuel, or Alpha Male strategies, you have to work on your value first

@ilikepancakes2368 10 ай бұрын

But if everyone follows this rule, no one is getting chased so it makes no sense.

@ningningshining2831 11 ай бұрын

this literally works 💀, just wanna share my story for a moment. The moment u stop giving a fuck and focus on urself and realize u attract the people who u think deserve to be in ur life, u change ur mindset, have high confidence THESE PEOPLE COME RUNNIN BRO WHAT

@yasoelg7731 11 ай бұрын

Please what did you do to become confident ?

@sleepy4782 6 ай бұрын

@@yasoelg7731 delevop a personal ego, self love, self discipline, etc. a KZfaqr that helped me is tykwondoe

@user-ci2qo2ds1y 3 ай бұрын

Only works for girls maybe😅

@Sanna-zx8vf 24 күн бұрын

Can you tell your story then?

@fr1910 11 ай бұрын

i was reading the art of seduction last night and a particular line came up that cleared the fog in my head “you cannot seduce someone who is already satisfied” i understand now that you will not feel dependent or reliant on external sources of validation, love, acceptance, etc when you are already satisfied with it from yourself

@h7pubg 11 ай бұрын

how do you seduce someone who is satisfied? don’t you want your partner to be satisfied and happy with themselves and their life? my 5 year relationship fell off a cliff over the last month, and I think it’s over, the issue is, that as my partners life improved, she had less time to spend with me, and I became clingy to that time which made me look like i didn’t accept or support her changes, she said she was happy with her life and her social life and didn’t get fulfillment from me anymore, I can’t hate who she is over the past month when the 56 months before that she has been so unconditionally loving and my best friend. she is worth fighting for but I don’t know where to begin, i want her to be happy with her life

@QWERTY-hl6wm 11 ай бұрын

trueee, guy was chasing me, then he stopped, I started to chase him and guess what he had a gf already, so it is true :)))

@rhubarbrubes9378 11 ай бұрын

THE TIMING IS INSANE

@nathaliem1013 11 ай бұрын

TRUEEEE

@KirbyScruples 11 ай бұрын

It's Venus retrograde & will be retrograde till September 3rd. So, yes, the time of this video is perfect.

@charlottemonteyne390 11 ай бұрын

SAME REACTION HERE!!

@bands6245 11 ай бұрын

Real.

@chanellepeoples6190 11 ай бұрын

Omg yess exactly. When I saw this on my feed, my mouth dropped

@godiva444 11 ай бұрын

6:35 "they can feel you idealizing them" love this ✨️❤

@Antonia072 7 ай бұрын

"tHeY cAn FeEl It" I think that's bullshit. They can see it because of your behaviour/how you act towards them. I think it puts unnecessary pressure on yourself if you think that they can sense any emotion or thought that you have.

@user-bu2nj4gx3l 5 ай бұрын

It's love, when you look at someone and you can see only the best of them. And love always win at the end.

@heatherchandler1184 4 ай бұрын

@@Antonia072you honestly can’t sense what some people are feeling when you’re around them? Extremely odd.

@SOPHIA-wh6uq 11 ай бұрын

I was manifesting a specific person and I wasn’t sure if i should or not and this is the message I needed I’m learning how to love myself and pour more into myself

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

exactly🩷 just try this and watch what happens💜

@solomonwalker6883 6 ай бұрын

@@maleekaismyguardianangel so is manifesting an ex counter productive ??

@youme4904 6 ай бұрын

@@solomonwalker6883No, go for it!

@user-ph4mg1mh9c 11 ай бұрын

This is so true. Have had a crush on someone for nearly 2 years and nothing. The last few days, started viewing myself as being the catch and bingo……he’s changed up his energy toward me 180 degrees 😊

@feliciaboston6365 11 ай бұрын

I disagree with this. If a man only puts you on a pedestal after you learned your worth it means you taught him how you want to be treated which is wrong. Your dream man will know these things without you telling them

@kristinen1692 11 ай бұрын

@@feliciaboston6365 so true

@mazelovesosa 11 ай бұрын

@@feliciaboston6365that’s… because she changed her self concept? And since everyone is you pushed out

@liabw05 11 ай бұрын

@@feliciaboston6365this is very idealistic. There is no perfect lover. Relationships require strong communication and an openness to get to know each other’s boundaries and needs. Expecting your partner to read your mind is a disaster waiting to happen

@Marcianamusic_ 11 ай бұрын

When this happens, it means both's people's self image and self concept (a kind of self esteem) is healthy already. This is the best case scenario, but since as humans we're flawed, it is also very natural to develop self esteem while being in a relationship. Having a good self esteem in relationships also means showing people around us how we want to be treated and setting boundaries. Yes, that also means love interests, libera and spouses too. There no healthy relationship without healthy self esteem. I see nothing wrong in your love interests changing attitude once your self esteem gets better. What would worry me is if he didn't change is behaviour at all.

@lilymulligan8180 11 ай бұрын

The idea of someone stringing you along because they like being admired and adored by you is sooooo real. I dated someone for almost 5 years, but never really "had" him because I put him on a pedestal. He was never gonna give me the commitment I wanted, because I was so desperate for it, and I ACTED desperate. He kept me around solely because I built up his ego and constantly gave him compliments. He even told me as much. I wasted half of my 20s on that man because my self esteem was so low that I believed that if I could just make him love me then I could finally love myself. Don't be like me. My life has improved dramatically since we broke up almost 2 years ago and I stopped trying to mold myself into his perfect woman.

@Prophecyofthedragon93 8 ай бұрын

When you stopped did he start hovering back?

@amkblessed9120 8 ай бұрын

This was me 3 years ago. I have worked on myself and am in such a better place now

@BeckyEllis-vd8on 6 ай бұрын

Oof are you me? 😮

@deepaatin 6 ай бұрын

The same thing happened to me. 5 years of my life just gone. When the breakup happened he asked me to stay friends with him. And guess what I agreed. But eventually it got really hard for me to see him with other girls. So I told him to just forget about me and blocked him from everywhere. This was my first relationship. All this happened today. Feels like I can't breathe but i also know it will get better eventually. Out of sight out of mind. Now I don't have the courage to ever be in another relationship.

@Darkempress45 5 ай бұрын

@@Prophecyofthedragon93the ones you don’t want always comes back. Release him and go on about your life as if you don’t want him. I’m sure you’ve had a guy that you weren’t that into that just keeps texting and calling you and you’re just like “Ugh will he go tf away?!?!” But he never does. It’s because you don’t want him. That’s how you get chased. Act like you have so many other important things to do. Act like you’re the prize. Once you do that, you change the energetic vibrations and voila, u miraculously get a text back. Don’t worry about the timeframe. I guarantee it probably won’t happen when you want it to 😂

@TalcomoelSol 11 ай бұрын

"If you're currently trying to manifest a specific person, you may have put them on a pedestal, because we only attempt to manifest things that we consider to be ideal." Real Rap 🤚😎

@thisismarlonanthony 11 ай бұрын

This was an absolute beautiful video. For months on end I was trying to get my ex back and I put them way high up on a pedestal. After time I slowly realized that for one there’s really nothing you can say or do to change someone’s thoughts and opinions about you especially if you have made mistakes in the past. I also came to a realization that I was pushing them away instead of pulling them in with my desperate energy. I’ll just say this. I never thought we would ever communicate again but we are currently in contact. The only difference is that I became tired of chasing and I told myself you know what I’m done. If they don’t see me for me or see that I’ve changed then that’s on them. I still care and love them and maybe we will or will not get back together but that’s not in the forefront of my mind anymore. Ever since I changed my energy and thoughts about this person they have been way more responsive and more wanting to chat. I don’t know where this will go but if I had to give any advice from my personal experience is to seriously focus on yourself and stop worrying about another person. If they are meant to be they will be. You said everything right in this video Maleeka! Much love xx (I wanted to add this also.. I still have my moments and get extremely sad… so don’t feel like you have to just “not care” you can care a lot but understand that you need to create space and value yourself.)

@maytale.7184 11 ай бұрын

Thank you 🫶🏽

@ethereallou8022 11 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@ronaldclaude1892 11 ай бұрын

Wow, I have to say that our situation is similar. I do have my sad moments.

@emilija6187 11 ай бұрын

wow thank you❤

@madhatter97 11 ай бұрын

😢Going through the same thanks for your words 🙏🏽

@salmasaeed6133 11 ай бұрын

The moment I let go entirely, the moment I lost all my feelings toward him, started thinking he wasn’t all that, he’s liking my pics watching my stories and god knows what’s next! I hate it. I hate that when you want something it doesn’t happen and when you don’t want it it happens. Because now all I want is another guy’s attention and I’m not getting it

@ajaybritton7924 11 ай бұрын

This was a breakthrough moment for me. I put the people i like on a mountain of a pedestal. I think irrationally high of them. Thank you for the clarity and self awareness.

@julieboyce4268 5 ай бұрын

Me too,I need to start pouring into myself, I need to reprogram my brain

@hollywoodprincess888 11 ай бұрын

after spending a couple weeks being desperate and anxious, i realised it led to nothing but misery. the reason why me and my specific person aren’t where i want to be is because i was deeply insecure. i had super low self esteem and ruined the loving relationship we had. that was the problem! and that’s what i’m doing now, taking care of myself and taking them off this imaginary “pedestal”. your video came at the right time reinforcing what i should keep doing. great sign from the universe. thank you for this video, i absolutely adore your channel! sending hugs and light :)

@medman6649 6 ай бұрын

I think if we're here watching this, it may best to move on. Focus on yourself and chalk up your last relationship as experience. Do your best not to make the same mistake twice.

@carlf.9035 6 ай бұрын

Good thought

@rockchalkmarie 11 ай бұрын

Good timing. I’ve really let go of my desire and attachment to them recently. I feel so much better without them on my mind. It’s like they were holding me back. So many more important things to focus on.

@BriannaGlenn7 11 ай бұрын

While it is important that we never prioritize anyone and have a God like concept of them in our minds we also do not want to mistake talking to an emotionally unavailable person with being extremely open and available. One thing I’ve learned is you are never going to be too needy to those that truly love you and I have had my fair share of emotionally unavailable individuals and I can tell you now if you have to pull away your energy for someone to acknowledge you it’s not even worth your time.

@Jewelsessences 11 ай бұрын

This. If the low lives didn’t appreciate your love & are waiting for you to be indifferent that’s disgusting

@waverider6133 11 ай бұрын

tru, but this is earth and people we are dealing with. it will be a little raggedy regardless. i have dated and married kind, loving millionaires.. and they had equally bad proclivities & internal issues. choose the man and decide whether you can deal with their flavor of foolishness. everyone has a flavor of foolishness.

@jobn3129 6 ай бұрын

Let the ungrateful stay miserable if they can't appreciate your love and goodness 🙏

@korN72 7 ай бұрын

actually teared up when you talked abt practicing self care and how exhausting it is to be chasing someone. Thank you sm for popping up in my recommended

@Laura-sd5lw 6 ай бұрын

I have put somebody on a pedestal for one year and he couldn't care less. Somehow I have really improved my life during the year after (more money, more friends, trips on my own, a strong project). I was still seeing him at the same time but not giving as much and being focused on how to see him for who it was. Deep down I know the only way to save this relationship was to let him go in my mind and let him chase me. Trust me, he is now acting so well and doing the things I have always dream off. The fact that month after month he has seen me change, being more confident and putting me at the same position as him has really changed everything. Now I have to be careful to not go back to who I was !!

@pilyangmaarte1551 11 ай бұрын

Been talking to this guy since January and been manifesting him for months too. I felt my SP is breadcrumbing me and put him on pedestal (based on what you said). I told him today we should stop talking. I still like him tho but I don't want to be in a "situationship." I deserve a committed relationship so I'm letting go. I don't want to chase. If we're meant to be together it will happen. I hope I did the right thing.

@jadedkorean 10 ай бұрын

you did the right thing

@RaeNicole17 11 ай бұрын

I love this perspective as always. Although I feel I’ve manifested my person and happy, I’m trying to stabilize my business. And I feel I’m chasing instead of being what my business requires me to be…so thank you my sister. I feel calmer and more sure of myself and my capabilities

@lilymulligan8180 11 ай бұрын

Oh I love this! There are so many parallels between business/work and relationships. This advice totally applies to attracting clients as well as a partner. Thanks for sharing 🥰

@lankstonpeterson8641 11 ай бұрын

I broke up with my girlfriend of two years just about two months ago due to my depression and not being able to give her the energy she deserved at the time. I have since regretted it deeply and have spent time chasing her and idealizing her specifically, which has only pushed her further away. Other videos have not helped as much as this one. Thank you for this wonderful advice and I am hoping that one day I can become the person on my pedestal; eventually attracting her back or the next great opportunity. Thanks again for your wonderful words.

@tatelang6155 11 ай бұрын

People often say we should take others off of pedestals, put ourselves first and stop chasing. What happens when most people are doing this and no one is willing to pursue the other anymore? Because of how popular this concept is becoming I've found many women I'm interested in that follow this and were initially chasing me later become unresponsive when I become the one to pursue. This starts to feel like a waste of time and energy and so I stop chasing and it either dies out completely or the cycle of running and chasing keeps repeating back and forth. There's gotta be a better way for healthy relationships than just detaching and making people feel insecure enough to chase us. You said yourself that that has us question that persons worth. So why do we want to be the one who is chased? I'm writing this because I want an answer from the Universe and I'm not satisfied with a life of non-attachment. There must be a form of healthy attachment where both people are putting in effort and also not so attached that they desperately need the other. Hoping that this becomes the new normal for relationships 🙏 Anyone else been asking these same questions to themselves?

@markfennell1167 11 ай бұрын

Good question. I often believe that we are designed to share our souls and sexuality with others. I do not believe in being self contained. As if I could get all my needs with myself. I just don’t see that as physically possible.

@tatelang6155 11 ай бұрын

@@markfennell1167 I completely agree! We are here as physical and social beings beings to enjoy relationships with others otherwise I can't see what the point of all this would be. It also seems that we have certain desires for connection with other people that may be necessary for our wellbeing. Learning to be detached and meeting my own needs helps in some ways to not be desperate or too needy but once it goes to the extreme of "not needing others" I think it can cause problems. We probably do need to meet some needs through others or at the least life becomes so much better when we do meet certain needs with others and there's nothing wrong with making life better 😉

@JiminsLeftElbow 11 ай бұрын

Been wondering this for the longest.. is there a realm in the universe where we can just love on one another while we are both interested without the other getting scared.. wasnt love suppose to be that?

@tatelang6155 11 ай бұрын

@@JiminsLeftElbow That's a great way to put it! Love should work that way, that's what I thought it was until I had negative experiences that changed my beliefs. I think if both people are healthy and secure enough then this could still be the truth. If we weren't all walking around with traumas, stuff from the past, and limiting beliefs then we could probably just love without all this fear and manipulation 🤷‍♂️

@fairlyenjoyable 11 ай бұрын

I was looking for this comment because I feel the same way!

@gusta9306 8 ай бұрын

Thank you! I will not chase him anymore. I put myself on a pedestal. It feels good.💗

@maleekaismyguardianangel 8 ай бұрын

You’re welcome 😊

@lorelai6616 4 ай бұрын

this made me realize i deserve someone that loves me as unconditionally as i love him. i love him but i deserve better, right now he isnt "better" and i deserve someone that would manifest me everyday for a year the same way i was doing. i think i just finally detached. thank you. i love you. i owe you my life.

@lorelai6616 4 ай бұрын

every single day for a year ive been in pain, i thought i was detached from it but i am finally aligned.

@prettybrown6247 11 ай бұрын

Girl your video came right on time. Was just telling my friend last night I’m off my SP when it comes to trying and putting in effort. I’ve already put out the energy that I desire something with him so now I’m practicing on letting go and trusting I’m getting what I want. Wow 😮

@humzanafees9348 11 ай бұрын

How long did it take you to get you what you want?

@user-xu4xj2cd2j 9 ай бұрын

Did you get him back

@4subs330 8 ай бұрын

update??

@ArpitRBesra 4 ай бұрын

Master tip to depedestalizing them: Be okay with not having them in your life. Be okay when you think of never ending up with them. Secondly and more importantly, do not let them in on so easily. Make them earn it. It's like, I've got a secret about you and I'm going to toy with you for it. It's hilarious.

@joefranco4371 4 ай бұрын

I needed this... this woman that I have in my life means everything to me but due to so many issues I have due to my trauma I had so many toxic ways about myself that made her feel indifferent. to the fellas in this chat don't do that, if you got issues and your early in the relationship please go to therapy. Don't chase her away... be her safe space.

@winifredchan7939 11 ай бұрын

Accidentally clicked this video and you’ve taught me something I never heard about manifest a specific person. Thank you for your kindness and genuine, you make me sync. ❤

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

You are so welcome hon💜

@keishatheauthentic3475 8 ай бұрын

@@maleekaismyguardianangelI hope you get a chance too respond so should I stop listening too affirmations and subliminals about manifesting my specific person and just listen too affirmations about self love, self and self concept ? So basically I’m asking is listening too affirmations about manifesting your Sp still the same as chasing?

@shylaod 11 ай бұрын

That tiktok audio of "he's just some guy! Hit him with your car!" Kept popping me head while watching this 😂

@sol3611 11 ай бұрын

no bs, two days after I applied this knowledge to my life my sp reached out after not speaking to me for a month

@trendingasmr 11 ай бұрын

I was the same when young. I was incredibly spoiled but ignorant. Thanks for your honesty

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

we all have a past😊

@Dame28 7 ай бұрын

People don’t always want you, they just want you to want them

@kardelenkoc9746 11 ай бұрын

if somebody is running away from you for no reason try understand them and communicate but if they still want to go let them go. not in the hopes of them coming back but just because you can't force any type of relationship

@_thingsthatmatter Ай бұрын

Really needed to hear this

@reesnonsense 11 ай бұрын

LLOL THAT ONE DRAKE PIC RANDOMLY HAS ME IN TEARS

@bethanyvaughn7938 11 ай бұрын

This video is EVERYTHING!!!! Thank you soooo much for your realness and vulnerability. I’ve watched you off and on for a year and a half and your videos have matured sooo much parallel to my maturity around manifesting. I grew up in a religious household, similar to you. And, I, too lost my sister many years ago and the other day I remembered how she manifested MANY trips to Europe and all over with her bestie. And trust me when I say my sister did NOT have money like that. You brought manifesting full circle with this video. ❤

@biggiecheese362 8 ай бұрын

this is some of the kindest energy i’ve ever felt. i usually don’t watch longer videos but i watched this one fully - thank you.

@rojinsarmast2151 11 ай бұрын

Love how authentic you are!

@emmaterrestrial892 11 ай бұрын

you are the most eloquent, thought-provoking, & uniquely-minded person who talks about manifesting that i have ever found. well done, always. your videos actually just keep getting better & better. you have this extremely intelligent & concise way of summing up concepts that people have been talking about for ages; i just really enjoy your mind & words! thank you thank you

@daboz8753 11 ай бұрын

I can't even begin to tell you how truly wonderful and comforting your videos are...sometimes if I'm finding meditative frequency videos aren't quieting my mind, I just put on one of your videos, and that always helps soothe me. Thank you so much❤

@amberm7116 11 ай бұрын

I could love this over and over again! Girl I recently been stepping into the energy of completely stop being the chaser!! It’s been getting way easier and seeing this has only reinforced it stronger with more knowledge about it!! Thank you girl!!

@ceencha 11 ай бұрын

Your video came at the right time in my life. I will stop chasing him. I’ll be focusing on myself from now on. Thank you so much for this ❤

@kimara9748 11 ай бұрын

This was a very important message! My mind is blown at how you eloquently and logically explained this. Thank you 🙏

@moongirlswanderlust 11 ай бұрын

You’re one of the realest KZfaqrs out there… thank you so much for this video sis 💕

@alifalfian.s 7 ай бұрын

you don't know how much i feel understood, vulnerable, yet at the same time pacifying. thank you for creating this content, keep it up! love from mee~

@adrianuuhg1 11 ай бұрын

This is the best description of this I've ever heard, thank you so much for sharing

@artemisthehuntress1076 11 ай бұрын

This eases the pressure in my chest about trying to manifest my SP for the longest time unsuccessfully. You made this so easy to follow Thank you

@Frugal637 11 ай бұрын

I can’t be bothered trying to manifest someone who is not appearing to be giving me the same energy . No thanks

@sithembisokhuzwayo9745 10 ай бұрын

How has it helped? I'm lost at how any of what was said can be taken as "manifesting someone"... I'm truly lost and hopefully your reply will show me something I missed

@fitforfreelance 11 ай бұрын

Love the candor in this! If you treat someone like a celebrity, they'll treat you like a fan

@lareal5929 11 ай бұрын

Insane timing. Seriously. Thanks for this girl x

@heyzero1414 9 ай бұрын

You explain manifestation like no other, seriously youre are extremely enlighted

@ravenlovejoi 11 ай бұрын

This video was freakin beautiful! All of Robert Greene’s books are amazing! We have to remember that people are just blobs of energy. I heard a comment from another channel that you should think of your specific person’s mortality(not in a morbid way), but that will humanize them and take them off the pedestal. Good luck to all!

@Masz.67 6 ай бұрын

OMG no one ever explained it this way, now I completely understand and I can see why I don’t succeed in my relationships. Thank you so much. I just found your channel and subscribed ❤️

@EmpressEveLove 11 ай бұрын

Exactly what I needed to hear when needed to hear it. I sobbed at the take of easy on yourself. New subscriber here, thank you for the message

@subjecttochange2069 11 ай бұрын

Watching your videos is my favorite form of self care

@savvy1128 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate this! I have definitely given in to the desperation of needing a partner, and chased my person. I have let things flow as they’ve came as well, but I am grateful to know who I am. I am worthy, I am that Divine Goodness… who is also imperfect, but worth it all!

@kyrsten777 3 ай бұрын

ur videos rlly help me focus on myself. self love is so important. putting this person on a pedestal, will make them feel like a celebrity. ur a fan. like that quote. love this viddo

@catthestar1687 6 ай бұрын

So glad I found your channel. Hopefully this means that I’m beginning to become back aligned with who I truly am since my terrible relationships. Thank you! ❤️

@prabhleenramnani8125 11 ай бұрын

You literally literally a Diva I tell u.... You surely desrves a yt diamond button.. I feel so encouraged and addicted wen I started seeing you.. and learnin much more ahead.. U really deserve applause please don't stop.. tysm...🧿🧿❤️❤️

@annaquist3472 11 ай бұрын

i feel like you speak with confidence when you say you have succeeded every time with manifesting an SP it makes me believe that it is truly, truly possible for me to also do that! to also succeed! thank you lotsss!!

@someZH 11 ай бұрын

Wow this is the most honest thing I’ve ever seen on KZfaq.Saw other KZfaqrs telling us to manifest things or people . but it couldn’t happen because that person /thing didn’t come to us as we wished, this is just true if you treat them like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan, this is real i just realize that now omg I’ve been treating people i want to be with like they have no flaws and they are always disappointed me at the end ,and i always end up running away from them

@TheRealJosephM 11 ай бұрын

Insightful video! Your explanation on detachment for manifesting love is powerful. Understanding its importance has been a game-changer. Thanks for the guidance! Can't wait to implement these principles. Keep up the great work!

@tiffanyjones3852 11 ай бұрын

I needed this... it was all so beautifully delivered and with such love and care. Thank you thank you thank you ❤

@Johnny_Hipp 10 ай бұрын

I am so grateful for this video on so many levels. This was way more powerful and successful than I expected it to be! I truly let go of my pedestaled person, and the universe suddenly provided in the most dramatically unexpected way possible. A beautiful new co-worker recently started at my work today and she came right up to me, and pretty much asked me out. Even though this is more of a synchronicity, I still feel overwhelmingly thankful for all of this wisdom you imparted before all this took place. I was most likely resonating on a higher frequency after meditation, and she certainly picked up on that on our first meeting... You are truly the real deal in the Manifestation guru field! I never fully understood this science before now! I most definitely promise to be my very best self to this amazing new person on this exciting new unexpected journey!

@aaaabbbb2988 11 ай бұрын

Thank you. I needed that reminder that I've been putting everything in my life on a pedestal (again) and nothing can ever be 100% perfect and that is also tge beauty in it.

@SJ-jg1zn 11 ай бұрын

This was literally perfect timing, thank you for this!

@alexanderjentes 11 ай бұрын

Your energy is infectious! I had no idea that “pedestalization” was even a term/word - until now! Thank you for the golden advice, Maleeka! ❤🙏🏼

@Msbabbby 11 ай бұрын

Wow ✨✨✨ perfect timing ! And great meaning . You couldn’t haved said it ANY BETTER ! Thank you . I now see a whole different perspective. I am unapologetically ME

@dynamicpisces 11 ай бұрын

Wow!! This was so grounding!!! This video should be required viewing for anyone wanting to deliberately manifest anything especially a SP!🥰🥰🥰

@jck9055 4 ай бұрын

i'm not used to these videos actually making sense; i think you really helped me today. thank you 💗

@mks5631 11 ай бұрын

Girl!!! Yes! Keep these coming. We really must give ourselves a taller pedestal then we place others on! Because from up top you can see everything 👀 thank you xx

@sarahpeterson9177 11 ай бұрын

Chelsea, this video brought me to tears. This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you so much!

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

You're very welcome sweetie 🩵

@taghazoutmoon5031 11 ай бұрын

Same

@richvidadh1 6 ай бұрын

I thank you so much for this post.. If reassure my perspective as I was going through a recent breakup that I was having a difficult time shaking off and letting go.. And after seeing this video I was putting this person on a pedestal and pulling away from my energy. I recently made the nearest resolution the pull my energy back and bring it inwards. admitting our insecurities and guarantee defects just be sure that we all are human and no one person is better than the other but find the love within ourselves.. Thank you for your video and peace be with you! 🙏 Rich- Miami, FL

@c__hawk8764 5 ай бұрын

THANK YOU MALEEKA!! I TRULY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS MESSAGE!! THE LAST PART ABOUT THAT SP KNOWING THEY LOVE THEM BUT WILL USED THAT TO MANIPULATE WAS POWERFUL!! MUCH LOVE ❤️ MALEEKA!!

@Lovergirlstudiio 11 ай бұрын

I have to subscribe after watching this, this is GOLD. I am sure this topic has been explained in so many ways by different teachers but the way you broke this down! ✨

@maleekaismyguardianangel 11 ай бұрын

Welcome aboard🙂

@Pfx1990_ 11 ай бұрын

I have been dm’ing you and I actually manifested that I get an answer from you. And you actually made a video on this. I actually cried mid video. You have no idea how much this means to me. God bless you ❤

@sp123 10 ай бұрын

you need to manifest a girl in your immediate surroundings. This internet stuff aint real bro.

@joelbedulla4 7 ай бұрын

You are such a queen. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom, this channel might have become my favorite channel to watch before sleep.

@streetsocietymotors 11 ай бұрын

I have to say, Thank you! You are one of the teachers who really say things that stick, Certain metaphors that really stick with me for life. When you deal with break ups with an SP it is honestly can be a big deal and a dark lonely time, up until you learn self concept and being carefree and not give the topic so much weight and density. Dealing with an SP for four years I have listened to you for over a year, Putting you on during the gym when I felt lost and alone, then we would reconnect, then break up, your videos bring me back into alignment. Thank you for the energy and effort you put into the videos. Your backgrounds are very calming and comforting. Thank you for your energy and wisdom you share.

@symoneh. 11 ай бұрын

I love these videos. They are so calming and a snap back into reality.

@netiamcintosh 11 ай бұрын

This video was spot on to what I was thinking as I am getting results from my ex’s and not my sp. Seeing his flaws really helps more with my position In appreciating myself more than anything. I found myself forgetting him sometimes.

@NOZH777 2 ай бұрын

You explain things so well, I was doing homework and listening to you at the same time but I had to stop doing my homework to continuously listen to you

@scatainternet 9 ай бұрын

You are brave to see your old ways of breaking the golden rule and share it with the world . Thanks for this empowering message.

@alexandriabrown3427 11 ай бұрын

Girl is out here changing lives. Sharing wisdom that me, and many others, REALLY needed to hear. I wrote down everything and really hope to solidify this into my life. I feel like I'm getting really close to being exactly where I need to be in this life and I can't thank you enough for playing a part in that. I'm sorry to hear about your sister, I hope that I too can stay true to her advice because this has been so stressful for me and I realize now why, and it is such a blessing to be freed.

@WinterScarlet 11 ай бұрын

wow, this is different from other videos on manifestation that I've watched. And I've watched a lot. Thank you so much for your insights, it is definitely not an easy task to put myself on a pedestal, and exercise self-love.. when that specific person really consumes my mind. But I'm willing to give it a try, to ultimately become the chased and manifested one. I'm so glad I came across your video today ❤

@asmaarafferty5032 6 ай бұрын

You are the most realistic and convincing person I have ever heard

@Z5Z5Z5 9 ай бұрын

Your channel feels very refreshing. Different perspective of the law of assumption

@chrissy1503 11 ай бұрын

Wow. Extremely powerful and beautiful message.

@ludel1023 6 ай бұрын

Thank you.. Your words came right after asking God for guidance regarding a pull I feel towards someone and internally waiting for them to come. I heard, focus on yourself then your video popped up on my feed. Confirmation! 💙

@moonlightxcv 3 ай бұрын

At 12:08 - 14:10 i don’t have a sister but this gave me big sister energy bc this is exactly what I needed to hear & it put me to tears. Thanks sis 🩶

@kenzaalaofari 3 ай бұрын

i really appreciate this video and the energy you exude in it. I think i really needed someone to talk to me like that, thank you. You're very beautiful

@bsgrizzzly1684 11 ай бұрын

This video was so good! Thanks for the reminding me that I needed to put myself on a pedestal. I am the event😌💅🏾

@SolDeaAmoris 11 ай бұрын

I had unconsciously been following these steps. Thank you for bringing it to my attention. 💛💛

@cliffto6 11 ай бұрын

This is exactly what we need about SP, usually it just about us fantasizing the best part of us, but like u said if we put someone as SP we essentially 'bringing" them in pedestal since we see them as perfect human. Thanks a lot

@lisabiondo6228 16 күн бұрын

I appreciate the warning at the beginning of the video. I know how tempting it can be to use it for bad ends when you realize your power and the things you can accomplish with it. It's human. But I also see that you've had to learn and evolve enormously to overcome this and become aware of it, which leads me to express not only my gratitude for your advice (that i'll use with the sole vocation of love and infinite intelligence) as well as my admiration for your spiritual growth.

@lavlivingentertainment2481 11 ай бұрын

congratulations on your spiritual journey.. You have a wonderful grasp on this divine simulation . much love

@Raptor717 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate your words. Very well done. 💘

@lucianodaiuto3442 11 ай бұрын

This is truly the best speech i heard in a long time.Thank tou so much

@Claire_Daley 16 күн бұрын

I feel soothed by this video and your calm aura. thanks x

@JazzyJ96771 6 ай бұрын

a lot of people say to take them down from the pedestal but never go into detail with that, leaving me unable to know how to do that. With you saying that they do all the things we do, forget to brush their teeth, fart, burp etc... that helps me to ground the person in my mind and take them down from a pedestal.