How to make him chase you

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Persephonesmind

Күн бұрын

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@taslimaakther3016 8 ай бұрын

"If a man wants an angel, he will create heaven for her. Because angels don't live in hell." This hit hard

@najiya002 5 ай бұрын

oh gohhhd

@serenitygilles7064 4 ай бұрын

ouch and whoa

@hikayatsokayenh 3 ай бұрын

i love it, in the end it's his choice 😍

@godxrocker8684 22 күн бұрын

But if the angel is not putting efforts as well in a relationship then he’ll simply walk away with his heaven.Men also hopes for gifts,flowers,compliments from his girl.

@omojciastkowy4498 9 ай бұрын

'A man will do everything for his dream girl. He would never do anything that will make him lose her'

@basicinfo2022 9 ай бұрын

toxic men have dream girls but they do not have the character to keep their dream girl. dont take it personal. you could be his dream girl but he is not worthy of you.

@adr_x1114 9 ай бұрын

yess, a lot of them actually chase toxicity and a lot of times when they find the perfect girl they self sabotage their relationships@@basicinfo2022

@bleepbloop27 9 ай бұрын

cap of a lifetime

@haileyjohnson7787 9 ай бұрын

@@basicinfo2022agreed

@duh9947 8 ай бұрын

Ew. Sounds like a perverted man to me

@aaravbutola4996 17 күн бұрын

It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest

@Minnie-dl2um 5 ай бұрын

"It hurts our ego to be rejected " "Match his energy"

@belkhirferdaousse 2 ай бұрын

Fax

@paulinepmd6261 10 ай бұрын

Once I felt in love with a man, but when I discovered that he met with another girl, I blocked him. The whole situation hurt me really long time, but Alessia made me realize it was correct behavior. After that he wanted to get me back, but there is no more possibility for this man. Ladies, know your worth

@user-th3ez5sj9y 10 ай бұрын

Same thing happened, I was starting to get deeper feelings for a guy, then I found out he had emotionally abused some girls in the past for YEARS, he resulted to be a covert narcissist. As soon as I found out I dumped him and ofc it hurt me but I will always put myself first

@ethiopiazoldyk4667 10 ай бұрын

@@user-th3ez5sj9ythat's good. I'm glad you had the courage to leave him.

@duygu7848 8 ай бұрын

queen

@truthseeker4084 7 ай бұрын

Same happened to me, he told me in the beginning he has dated girls who were crazy, one wanted to study medicine just because of him, he had women standing in front of his house, he talked to his ex on the phone while I was in the same room claiming it was work related. I should have walked out right there but I gave him a chance. I regret it so much. NEVER AGAIN. @@user-th3ez5sj9y

@crystalreyescarn 4 ай бұрын

the best revenge is a self glow up

@peanutbutter4978 7 ай бұрын

Important Notes: +Neediness is unattractive and pushes people away from you. +When someone doesn't want you, it makes you want them more. +A man will do anything for his dream girl. +Masculine energy: wanting to provide with what he has, willing to care for you and do everything to make you happy.

@drek9k2 6 ай бұрын

#2 is a very stupid and very easy way to get blown off and ignored by a guy who has a crush on you. This is literally one of the biggest, easiest fuckups a woman can do with us. This is 10x more true in the post metoo bullshit. Any woman acts like she doesn't want a man in this day and age, she WILL lose him. This is the same kind of stupid game playing shit that, like making a guy chase you, playing hot and cold, trying to flirt with all the guys but him, is going to be taken for being a dishonest and manipulative woman that is a complete turn off and he's going to blow you off and ignore you. I bet you guys tried this already, didn't you? And he stopped chasing you and started ignoring you too, didn't he? When you pretend to not want someone you better be ready for them ignoring you, because men don't work like women. We don't do this stupid shit with reverse psychology. We want women that want us. "I would never want a man this easy to get" you, yeah that's YOU. Don't be hard to get. Not putting out isn't the same as being hard to get. All of these stupid games are the kind of shit you can probably pull with some inexperienced fuckboys but you just try and watch what happens when you pull this on any kind of a man who's older, who's more experienced, or has any kind of integrity or standards just watch how fast he blows you off entirely. 3:57 this is stupid and terrible advice. Watch however many women here tried this. And watch how he pulls back. Watch how he ignores you. And if you try and act like you don't like him, and do this being hard to get shit, he's eventually going to pull back so far now YOU are stuck chasing HIM. I've seen women do this shit so many times, and each time some dumb young woman does this she looks like a total ass in front of all the other women, because maybe a lot of the men don't, but the women definitely know what just happened and why. He won't pull back because you gave too much, he's going to pull back when you pull back. My God this is stupid.

@peanutbutter4978 5 ай бұрын

OML Thank you for the likes

@godxrocker8684 22 күн бұрын

Only an immature fool could agree with the second one.Wise person walk away when the person doesn’t like back.

@Reiko29DBS 10 ай бұрын

Your channel is singlehandedly helping me get over my ex. Thank you.

@ablahere2090 10 ай бұрын

NO ITS LITERALLY THE POINT DONT

@Reemafahad1023 10 ай бұрын

whattt!@@ablahere2090

@cubanadelrey 9 ай бұрын

@@ablahere2090…huh? read their comment again lmfao

@inspirationalguy81 7 ай бұрын

As a man I want to advise women - never get intimate with a man until your wedding night. This may not be the "traditional" thing to do nowadays, however it is one of the reasons why there are so many people getting used abd discarded. If they try it with you then tell them that if they are actually serious then they will wait until the wedding night. That way you will get rid of those with the wrong intentions. Many men will tell you anything just for you to fall for them so that thry can get intimate with you. Once you give them what they want then they will very quickly lose interest and respect for you. If he really wants you then he will marry you. Even if your engaged then do not do it under the assumption that your going to get married anyway, as I've seen many engagements crumble for various reasons. Also when you get intimate with a relationship partner then when things go wrong then you wont be as hurt as you would be if you gave yourself fully to them. So wait until your wedding night. That way you will filter out the wrong types of men. Intimacy is sacred and not to be dished out to a person that you may or may not end up with in the long run. In constantly doing so, then you'll end up having a body count of double figures by the time you actually end up with the right person for the long term. You owe yourself much more respect and self love than that. Only one person should ever be entitled to intimacy with you and that is your marriage partner.

@falakchanga8435 6 ай бұрын

love your comment❤❤

@i_comment_on_everything 6 ай бұрын

Yess!!!!

@uberbabe585 4 ай бұрын

What if I find out he's impotent 😂😂😂

@btskz_eeta1347 4 ай бұрын

@falakchanga8435 my bf and I are still young. We didn't have s£x but...we did get intimate....we saw each others' bodies, despite I told him that I wanna wait till marriage....but I ended up giving in...he doesn't love me just for physical relationship..I hope ...but does it mean that he disrespected me? But the fact that I was not okay with being intimate at such an early stage before even dating, I ended up being OK with going to his house to have "fun"

@roxanasan1013 3 ай бұрын

Kudos for such a true and valid view! I wish more men thought like you!

@2077yume 10 ай бұрын

finally someone stated that feminine energy doesn’t work for everyone , especially for those who went through much and who are willing to take responsibility and challenges.

@Persephonesmind 10 ай бұрын

Exactly. Some people thrive being in their masculine energy and that’s totally okay. We just need to be aware of what works best for us 🤍

@2077yume 10 ай бұрын

@@Persephonesmind u replied ?? i feel honored

@samiksha6913 10 ай бұрын

THE TIMING IS SO ACCURATE, MOTHER U HEAR MY INNER VOICE 😭💕

@ihatemath2770 10 ай бұрын

SAME 😭😭😭

@angel-cy6fh 9 ай бұрын

GIRL SAMEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZ

@tanisha2596 10 ай бұрын

HOW DOES SHE KNOW WHAT I NEED WHEN I NEED IT ILY 💗

@DNfordeadlynightshade 10 ай бұрын

Idk me neither 😭

@jaqenhgar 10 ай бұрын

Mother is mothering 🎉😭

@deftkqtes 10 ай бұрын

ikr 😭😭

@yongieverbubu6904 10 ай бұрын

@@deftkqtesit!

@ramlakorean9161 7 ай бұрын

@@DNfordeadlynightshadegive him a sign show him that u want this thing indirectly if he still can’t get it for u move on to the next

@shrushtipatil06 8 ай бұрын

“Are you in love with him or with what you made him to be in your head “ …… wow !

@snehachoudhary1958 6 ай бұрын

A man who is not satisfied with his only one will never be satisfied with other hundreds

@Marta.MentalDiet.RiseandThrive 9 ай бұрын

Alessia, I adore listening to your 'No!' right after you described a bad behaviour. It's iconic at this point and so spot on! I learn a lot from you, greetings from The Netherlands, neighbour 😊

@lin5754 9 ай бұрын

this was so inspirational I usually don't watch videos like these all the way through, but I respect you so much for giving us confidence and reminding females that we are powerful as we are.

@haileyjohnson7787 9 ай бұрын

same!!!

@drek9k2 6 ай бұрын

I'm literally watching videos like these so I can redflag women more easily. I want to be able to disqualify gold diggers and entitled, narcissistic, shallow, high maintenance women without needing to waste more than one dinner on any of them.

@monzanassi7524 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Alessia for this lesson , I felt like I was devaluing myself for so long and now I can feel my worth

@LizStrawberryFlor 5 ай бұрын

I'm so thankful for this channel. I recently found it, and I'm learning so much. I'm on my journey to healing.

@mybrokenfingerz 10 ай бұрын

i started my healing journey 9 months ago and ive noticed ive been more comfortable recieving and being in my feminine energy. even if you have had to be in your masculine energy because of trauma, with time, you can heal yourself. remember to be patient loves, i can assure you it gets better

@saturnbye 10 ай бұрын

thank u sm for all u do for us, u heal part of us u didn’t break and u taught me to see things for what they really are and not what I created in my head, thank u sm Ilysm 💜

@barbiegirlpuddin8206 10 ай бұрын

God bless you, Alessia. This video has found me in divine timing. I needed to hear this. Thank you🌼🫶🏻

@beingagirlisheck6517 7 ай бұрын

This actually helps a lot, my crush seems to be testing me and I was almost caught up trying to chase him. Thank you so much for the advice!

@user-hx8ru4rl6k 7 ай бұрын

Having people like you on KZfaq is a blessing

@Natsrodrigo 3 ай бұрын

Thankyou for making time for people who are beginning their self development journey, you will always be a part of their success!

@LilySbliliz 4 ай бұрын

I needed it. Thank you

@bunnyprincessash 10 ай бұрын

thank you❤ this made me realize i can do so much better, my ex best friend set my standards because he used to take me orchestras and Musicals and id get all fancy and dressed up, but all my new bfs aren't even doing the bare minimum

@Dr.Mrug1111 10 ай бұрын

Such a wise & high value queen you're.🥰 every woman needs to hear this❤

@laurenbootoff2164 9 ай бұрын

When I’m light and feminine men take advantage of me. When I’m masculine I can just be left alone.

@zyriahangdush509 9 ай бұрын

Same.

@fatimamebarki4599 6 ай бұрын

Fr like men are gonna take advantage of being "submissive"

@eylulbasakcetinkanat4352 4 ай бұрын

Become the dark feminine and watch them chase you!

@chrischatfield8550 9 ай бұрын

Persephone thank you for your words,they are very comforting and you are such a Nice lady you deserve Love as you share yours with us and thats your greatest gift x

@romaneiroromaneiro4957 9 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for subtitles and for your clear understandable pronunciation and speech!

@felitagraham3883 7 ай бұрын

Definitely great advice. I just dealt with a situation like this and I handled it just how you described it in this video. Thanks for the confirmation.

@xyz-gx9oy 3 ай бұрын

This is one of the best videos I have seen on this subject; You are easy to understand and very clear, unlike other videos. Thank you so much! ❤

@lailaharris3009 4 ай бұрын

GOD this is so good ! I’m going to watch your channel more often. My self worth just insanely increased. Thank you ❤

@souna5468 10 ай бұрын

He's not an IKEA furniture sent me😭 ily this video is truly incredible just like all of your videos, they're a true blessing just like you are🩷

@secilperkins 10 ай бұрын

Oh my god thank you so much for the video. It’s been quite a while since we talked and i was really thinking about throwing a little hint to him but since the ball in his court he needs to apologize and approach to me. NEVER REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@glowshine8102 10 ай бұрын

I clicked eventhough I am not interested "to make" anyone chase me. I am here , trusting someday when it's the right person , he will do that without me having to do anything for me. If I really liked someone the biggest thing I can do is smile ❤ wishing you fulfilling love people

@ophelia4662 10 ай бұрын

I really needed the reminder, thank you

@Mr.Jessie.c 3 ай бұрын

Very well said and beautifully put

@happywanderer5215 9 ай бұрын

Thank you. I needed to remind myself of this. I like him, but he's getting more energy than deserved from me right now vs his amount of effort. He has done nice things so far don't get me wrong. He brought me books as a gift. And I love books so I do appreciate it and let him know. But it's still not enough effort to see me around his schedule. I feel I should pull away but he constantly keeps contacting me. Any adadvice is appreciated so that he steps his dating game up. I feel intuitively it's a good connection.

@mario33378 9 ай бұрын

Your words are so powerful thank you soo much for this ❤

@c.m.3329 7 ай бұрын

My goodness, this has helped me a lot. And i confess i was guilty of falling for my own illusions. I wanted him to do this and that, always asking for attention and always explaining. But thank God i woke up from that, i am building myself up now. And i will never settle for less than i want. Love you ❤

@antowIA 10 ай бұрын

I LOVE YOUU, literally this is so real, never ever reward bad behaviour, i learned the lesson

@mihikadcruz8160 10 ай бұрын

I got so excited to see the title of the video. But when i saw i felt so ashamed and i cried whole heartedly because it triggered the part where she told us not to do certain things to man and i did that exactly and for the good four years , i have tried to mold him, i have waited for him but he never did anything for me. Though its been two days and i have left him. I hope i will heal myself soon. And I truly love your videos. Thank you so much.

@cafeconlyssa 10 ай бұрын

needed this reminder today, thanks queen

@Houndouru 3 ай бұрын

this is what in needed rn, thank u 🖤

@shirleyohara5943 9 ай бұрын

Feminine is powerful and am glad I've gown into who I really am.

@annaskaldina609 5 ай бұрын

Your Majesty, Alessia, thank you for this adorable video 💕 the phrase "don't fall in love with your own illusion of someone" opened my eyes on my life...

@stephanie_love01 10 ай бұрын

You’re so right! I think this video was really helpful, we should have standards and respect them. It would be awesome if you could expand more into how to enter our feminine energy and also some good traits every nice woman should have. For example men are expected to be gentlemen and provide, but what about women? I would like to be my best version to attract a partner who is his best version too :) thanks!

@MarijaMagdalenaPetkovic 9 күн бұрын

Match his energy, love this!

@JustcallmeSonia 10 ай бұрын

I literally gasp every time i see u uploaded a new video!!!🤍 thankssss queen💓

@Lou-zr3ii 10 ай бұрын

I wish I had heard this advice years ago. Thank you

@aesthetic_galaxy_ 5 ай бұрын

You just saved me love like I did all the things and after listening to you my mind goes like crazy 😭 now i will make my self better I let him chase I want that men but this time I am not going to beg I will attract and this is what I learn from you you are too adorable ily💗✨

@goncolistanlolipopu 10 ай бұрын

you are literally so adorable I love your soul, mind and advices

@moonlight_44_ 10 ай бұрын

I love you so much Alessia. thank you for sharing your wisdom with us ❤

@justagirlonyoutube-x8t 10 ай бұрын

AAAAA I love you! Thank you for all your videos!❤

@casper1343 9 ай бұрын

you are literally saving my life rn ilysm ❤️

@marry8235 4 ай бұрын

I love you so much. That’s what i needed❤

@nersyc731 10 ай бұрын

I really needed this video 3 years ago hahaha I was "in love" so badly with a guy that didn't want me, and I knew he was bad for me, so I had to fight my own feelings, it was awful omg😮‍💨 😂

@sjonesblue 7 ай бұрын

Amen, Sister! Preach.

@parshiapushpa703 7 ай бұрын

I just love herrrrrrrr In this video she discussed all my insecurity Thank you girl for making me feel like i am not useless

@meghnakhamrui2886 8 ай бұрын

This is your first video I have watched..and just fall in love with your channel 🌸💗💘love you girllll!!! For raising my standards

@dearxdiary 10 ай бұрын

BRUH BEST MOMENT EVER. I WAS KIND OF SAD AND JUST SAW YOU UPLOADED. THANK YOU MOTHER YOU'RE THE BEST 💗🥺

@dii1609 21 күн бұрын

Finally someone explaining and making clear the most important part 🎉

@FaTima-zi6ud 10 ай бұрын

أحب الطريقة التي تتحدثين بيها هادئة جداً ومريحة للعين ❤

@trexiane1637 4 күн бұрын

I also love you Persphone😘

@tiamydear 2 ай бұрын

she really know what we really need she did something really helpful!! thank you!! ❤

@blackertheberry922 6 ай бұрын

i needed this video , subscribed, going to check this channel everyday for a daily wake up call

@gh0st_scar 10 ай бұрын

Truly, thank you so much!!! 💕

@Mawrvllus 10 ай бұрын

istg i needed this rn!! THANKS !!

@user-dy4js6io9c 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video, it is so inspirational!

@wardenslayzz 5 ай бұрын

Important life lesson, just be nice, kind and understanding these alone shall get you far in life, never expect things from people in return always just do good and good comes back in some way shape or form. I also think that good personality is the most atractive thing on this planet looks are just a bonus and everyone needs someone who cares and looks after them wether you are male or female at the end of the day we are all human beings and we have feelings/emotions.

@horan4president 2 ай бұрын

much needed reality check

@cybrnova 7 ай бұрын

"im better off alone then to be with someone who does not give me exactly what i want."

@Aarti_joshi08 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much , I'm really grateful for this video ❤️

@Maria-sm2hd 7 ай бұрын

I don’t understand because a lot of people say that to attract men you have to be independent, You have to be the woman who don’t need anyone you have to be the woman with personality who don’t need a man and peoples said that it’s what men like ,but after your video, I think that you’re right and that’s better for me because i prefer that someone take care of me, and I love to be feminine, so thank you so much

@veekay6142 9 ай бұрын

This video is very helpful, thank you. I am sending you positive energy.

@hopefulforbetterdays 10 ай бұрын

whenever i see you post a new video my heart sings with joy. i love you, i love you, i love you, i love you. 🤍

@AM-ut7dg 9 ай бұрын

This is extremely good advice. Subscribed.

@NikkiAquarius-wc8vj 7 ай бұрын

Like really good advice. Very well explained. I've seen other videos that sought it but never made it as clear as you did. Thank you.

@flexin9720 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely amazing ❤

@KiomoiOvO 10 ай бұрын

Since I’m not in a relationship I’ll use it as if it’s about a friendship

@thatgirlirl 10 ай бұрын

OMG I love it when my queen posts!💟😭

@RosiaAsha 9 ай бұрын

girlie ur so gorgeous i genuinely need a makeup tutorial i beg uuuuu

@laradaureliocoaching 3 ай бұрын

„he‘s not an ikea furniture to build“ 😂 i can‘t hahaha

@tarko9 7 ай бұрын

I would also consider that being feminine is having balanced feminine approach. As an example: As a man, I always considered to be conditioned to be more in my feminine through the trauma that I experienced. I was just too passive. being too passive, so to speak, can also be a trait of an unbalanced feminine approach. Thank you for this video.

@flexin9720 4 ай бұрын

We need a part two pleaseee ❤❤❤

@spirituallydivineevibess 10 ай бұрын

Ur like Liz’s little sister! Ur so pretty and so wise. Thank u for ur wonderful video. God bless ❤

@sadsfdgbnmlikjhgf-xc6jy 10 ай бұрын

Girl your makeup/skin is on point

@muskankhanve4614 9 ай бұрын

My goodness , you spoke so many facts in min words

@carolina04y 8 ай бұрын

I needed it, thank you ❤

@aashiii4703 10 ай бұрын

We want more topics on relationship issue 💯 you litreally explain soo good ❤️

@ulkerram111 10 ай бұрын

you're too good for this world, Alessia

@wonyoung.97 10 ай бұрын

Wud luv a vid on ur make up,u r literally the definition of beauty

@Chariskate03 10 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤ this is so helpful

@kklashio1280 6 ай бұрын

I saw your video randomly. I got mesmerized by your beauty. And then I opened the video just to watch you.

@Kirstenn1242 7 ай бұрын

U make me confident in my widows peak fr you’re gorgeous

@maddieplayz4922 Ай бұрын

Your an angel thank you so much for this video the world is great duo to have you ❤

@carmencatalina9086 10 ай бұрын

Everything was right. Wish my family members knew this truth. I’m gone lead by example. 😊

@myworld6458 9 ай бұрын

Watched your vid. first time n really loved it.

@kazumikanade 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video ! Where did you get your shirt ? It’s so classy especially on you !

@saloni_gavde 10 ай бұрын

This video was exactly I needed at the moment:))