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As a former iiluminaughtii subscriber, I am legally required to watch the tea scald her.

The irony of Blair having done an exposé on another candle company that was making explosive candles and dodging responsibility, only to now dodge responsibility for her own candle company selling explosive candles as well.

Anyone who says they have a blackmail list isn’t a good person. Good people don’t blackmail people. You can make folders of proof to defend yourself, but blackmail is just malicious.

Blair doesn't want to be a good person- she wants US to believe she's a good person.

Pretty sure Blair's google doc will say everyone owes her at least $50 for the privilege of existing on the Earth at the same time as her blessed self

It’s also interesting that she called Oz a narcissist when she’s the one basically saying “oh when this is all over and everyone loves me again” like lmao girl just stop

The way she tearfully cried about OZ, while trying to take his house away from him, is truly sick in the head.

Beware people who constantly tell you what a good person they are. They are usually the worst people.

Blair is the personification of an "unreliable narrator".

She actually hasn't been silent publicly, she's been using burners and throwaways to harrass people.

Based on the messages, she seems to be surrounding herself with young queer people - at least that's the impression I got from what they talked about and how. As an older queer it's just something I noticed and it's slightly upsetting in a way I can't quite put into words. Young queer people might naively trust anyone who doesn't hurl slurs at them and reassures them that they're accepted and welcome. They might have lost family or friendships, or they might feel unsafe in their life. Online queer communities are often the only source of emotional support for many of us, because we might be stuck in a situation where it's not safe to come out, and we tend to get attached to our online friends for this reason. It just seems like another sphere where she can access people that she can manipulate and abuse. I'm kinda worried about those kids.

Can we please stop giving Blair the benefit of the doubt when 1) she doesn't provide evidence, 2) she has been proven as a liar many times, 3) she keeps shit talking people behind their backs and 4) she keeps telling people how great she is. Show the clear evidence then we will give her the benefit of the doubt. We giving her the benefit of the doubt based solely on "trust me, bro. I'm holier than Jesus" is absurd.

People who have done nothing wrong dont have Google drives full of blackmail 🤷🏻‍♀️

She's so busy throwing everyone under the bus- from past employees, to ex boyfriends, to family members- its like she cant see how awful that makes her look. Just the power dynamics she allows herself to create in these professional and personal relationships are so concerning, its hard to believe She's not the abusive "mastermind" here.

It’s really short sighted of Blair not to have considered that not everyone in that discord channel was there in good faith. Embarrassing.

What’s even worse is that she’s burnt bridges with her former audience who were calling her out and is doubling down anyone still doing it.

Saying so casually that she might “become an adjunct professor and teach business ethics” because she “has a lot to offer undergrads” is actually so crazy. You need more than a nice professor and a master’s degree to become a professor. But also, how ethical can this ethics professor be if she’s apparently been following this discourse and is fully siding with Blaire?!

If I've learned one thing in my 36 years on this earth, it's that if someone feels the constant need to scream "I'M SUCH A GOOD PERSON!" from the rooftops... they definitely aren't.

8:41 All this started when Blair went after LegalEagle.... something SHE did. How would Oz have known that "the channel was going down soon, so they'd need to find new work." Blair made the bed and she must lie in it.

If she's actually spoken to a lawyer, then it was a terrible lawyer since he apparently didn't tell her to STOP TALKING. Or she just didn't listen because they didn't say she couldn't siiiIIIiiiinnggg

Honestly I just can't find myself surprised anymore. I used to be a big fan of hers and thought what she did was amazing. Then all of it came out, her pathetic response (aka playing victim and attacking the other members of sadmilk) and it just keeps getting worse.

Every time new info gets out about her, I keep thinking she can't get any worse, then always surprises me.

One thing I haven't seen ppl mention is one of the leaked messages had Blair saying how maybe she could've "done more" like show her messages to Click were at 9am her time (so 3pm Click's) so Click being asleep is a lie. EXCEPT that if you go to her iilluminaughtii exposed video, she provides those texts and it clearly says 9pm her time, which would be 3am Click's. So the dumbass is lying to her few remaining stans with stuff that is easy to prove false! Tried commenting that on Blair's channel but Im one of the many muted accounts🙄

As someone who was unfortunately a former supporter, and was actually close to becoming a Patreon before the evidence was enough, to me, that she wasn't a good person, this is all unbelievable. First off, if someone was abusing me and we broke up, I'm the type of person to cut them off for good. So why would she go in a video to her followers and paint him in such a wonderful way and almost as if HE ended things and she was so sad there was no chance to repair even a friendship. Why would you even say that if he was so bad? You would just not mention him at all if you didn't want to paint him badly... Why even put that section in the video? And now she paints him as the bad guy because he finally stood up for himself and said something. This is insane and super narcissistic to just paint herself as the victim and everything is someone else's fault, never hers. Even in the initial issue that even brought us to this point now, the thing with Legal Eagle, it wasn't her overreacting, it was the mods telling her a different story and she went with the narrative. Girl please take responsibility for once.

Oz mentioned in his video that Blair used his childhood trauma of his mom going to prison for embezzlement against him, saying that she(Blair) committed embezzlement for him. I wouldn’t be surprised if Blair is twisting that around onto her sister. Of course, this is all still alleged, but I wouldn’t be surprised if this is the case.

For someone so evil she's quite childish too. She seems to think that saying that the other person did this or that bad thing equals to "debunking" what they said about her. I mean, even if Oz had sent a video with animal cruelty that doesn't mean what he said about her is not true.

This really just feels like a classic case of DARVO which basicly means Deny, Attack and Reverse Victim and Offender. Like she really likes to use that last one to her advandge.

iilluminaughtii: "Everyone's telling me to take accountability. Why did Oz name his house something so stupid?"

"Might be writing a book about being cancelled." Of course she is. 😐

Thankfully, the views on her videos have been sinking like a stone. Also, she's been caught deleting comments critical of her. But I'm glad that we haven't forgotten.

Not Blair using the “rose colored glasses” quote. Brother in Christ, you are the red flag.

"after this is over, the channel is going to pick back up!" Projared completely vindicated himself with receipts...and his channel has yet to recover, years later.

The image of her was formed by matching mosaic pieces of numerous independent victims, while her supposed truth is based only on her phrases. Even if, they underline the image of a desperate person who, having reached the end of her arguments, is ready to drag everything down with her, thus underlining what others have to say about her. No further questions, your honor.

Her blackmail google drive is probably just more things people trusted her with like a gd suicide note 🤬

She basically is saying I can utterly destroy him. I can make them homeless and kick him into the gutters. Oh yeah Blair sounds like a real peach. She's so kind. She's so busy with all her businesses that she has time to sit there and just trash talk everyone. Just maybe the energy into her multi business, then worrying about what other people are saying or doing and making lies. Then just maybe she wouldn't be in the predicament she is in and have a successful business.

All she had to do was drink her water and mind her business. Being pretentious isn't a good look and can cost you as we see here

Actually, what you said about someone acting like they're in a movie is the hallmark of malignant narcissists. It's a warning sign that you should run as fast as you can away from such a person.

Wow. How did Diesel keep it a secret for so long??? Anazing.

In additional to all the others, I feel for Blair's sister. It feels like everyone she interacts with gets exposed to massive legal, finacial or emotional damage. Imagine accusing someone who supported you through hard times of insurance fraud when you are also her boss. Also, are exploding candles a common issue? I've never heard of this issue before and now I know of two?

People can get into financially abusive situations where even if they have the higher income, they feel like they have to support the other person, or the relationship becomes so transactional that they feel like if they cut off money or take control over their money, the relationship will end. But honestly I DON'T think that's what happened here. Blair doesn't seem trustworthy, and especially given how much older than Oz she was, it really looks bad on her part. She was almost ten years older than him and it just really looks like she took advantage of a young man with very little experience in the world.

Out of all the people who have come out against her, she is going after the weakest among them. Even though all of them have said the same things about her. She is dangerous. I am not a doctor, so I'm not going to diagnose her but she reminds of a family member I have who has been diagnosed and no one is safe around her.

DARVO is a classic abuser defense tactic, so like... Ultimately, her saying he was the abuser actually is basically as "Deny/Attack/Reverse Victim and Offender" as you can get.

8:55 but also… how could anyone possibly plot BLAIR deciding to accuse A WHOLE ASS COPYRIGHT LAWYER OF PLAGIARISM?? How did Oz plot Blair kicking this shit off??

Imagine collecting and uploading a folder of blackmail material to the cloud, then telling people about it, then going to bed that night and thinking, "yeah, I'm doing the right things. My channel will bounce back!" What a wild worldview this woman has.

For people who might be wavering on who to believe, Blair or Oz, here is some information to help you decide. On one side we have Blair, who has been shown in multiple response videos to be … less than truthful in how she presents information. On the other side we have Oz, who got this response from Diesel when someone asked about it in his livestream on the discord: I've had countless calls with Oz. Not once has Oz been cagey, manipulative, tried to win me over. Oz has been forthcoming when giving evidence. Oz has been very kind. Oz is a very good person." You can take from that what you want.

Oz is such a genuine and nice content creator it's hard to imagine how anyone could treat him like that. It puts the entire history of his content my feels weren't ready for when he revealed everything. Around the last year of their relationship, his content was further and further apart. Every video started with him apologizing for not releasing more often for his fans. The self-deprecating and depression humor jokes became a huge part of his comedy. The frustration and defeat in his voice talking about anything related to financial problems like crippling bills and debt. It sucks because a lot of his stuff was perfect delivery, relatable, well edited, and funny. Now watching back you have that thought in your mind, what headspace was he in making this video.

Blair always had a ‘holier than thou’ vibe that rubbed me the wrong way. I’m both surprised and not surprised to see the absolute insanity that’s been playing out from her actions.

I just checked her channel, I'm happy to report that she's lost 400k subs and none of her videos over the past two weeks have been hitting even 20k

So the thing with the sister might be even more insidious. If I recall correctly before all this dropped, illumiati was saying that she was in the process of transferring her managerial role of her candle company to her sister. It wouldn't be the first allegation that she had transferred the blame to someone else.

I don’t believe Blair about her abuse claims just on the premise that a few months ago in her own rebuttal video, she still was trying to “reconcile” with Oz. If anyone is a bitter ex trying to rewrite history, well…her own behavior is pretty telling.

I can't believe I used to be a fan of this woman.

The person with the higher income can be financially abused too. I had a partner that didn't work or contribute his share enough, putting me in the position of having to pay all our bills or risk losing our home because I had a little more money, and he also forbade me from doing a higher paying job I wanted. I do Not think that is what happened here however, seems like she owned everything and made way more

I unironically believe that Blaire is a cult leader, or at the very least an aspiring one.

I just wanna drop in and say that... In my opinion If someone with more power over you traps you What you do next doesnt count as abuse. If someone takes advantage of you to trap you and then treats you like shit once youre trapped You are not obligated to be nice to that person You are not obligated to be reasonable You are not obligated to respect them Some people will disagree. But if youre being abused and you feel bad about fighting back? Nah b. Thats honor in my book

She probably did “help” her sister, in the same way she “helped” Wonder!!!!!🙄🙄🙄

This rabbit hole is so deep it should be at the earth’s core by now

Illuminaughtii is the kind of person who wants a gold star for doing the bare minimum

i hope these men get peace. what she's done to them is unconscionable, especially to Oz. it's rare to see men who are victims of abuse get the vindication they deserve, and it's good they aren't being written off. too often men get brushed off or told they're exaggerating or even weak when they're abused, especially by women. Blair can claim she's innocent until the cows come home, but it won't change the fact these men deserve justice, peace, and closure. and, as much as it's horrific all of this had to happen, hopefully it'll shed light on the fact men get abused too, and, yes, by women.

Her problem is she thinks she's the main character instead of just a character.

My God, the guy who did this really took one for the team! Man, at this point she is just digging her own rabbit hole...

So Illi decides to house her candle factory in the same warehouse that she keeps her servers in...and then blames the people making the candles for doing candle-making things around her servers. I mean....

I actually laughed at the over dramatic way Blair typed the message of how hurt she was that the Leftist Mafia team "betrayed" her, like no one normally types like that unless you are purposely being dramatic. Indigo

I got issue. If Oz Media was such an abuser, and she was throwing Sad Milk under the bus, why didn’t she bring that up in the apology video? She had nothing but glowing things to say about him. Why the back peddling? I was use that apology video against her in court….

Diesel is the investigative drama commentary guy. He knew about the Oz and Blair relationship long ago but did not say anything about it, because he has journalistic integrity.

It's ironic that she is calling Oz evil when she herself did terrible things to others in the past and now her reputation is ruined and she is losing views and subscribers and cries crocodile tears when she doesn't get her way.

There's a FOUR year old video about her THREATENING her boyfriend, at the time. To say SHE'S getting abused is sus. It's possible, but base on how she's treating people, INCLUDING a PREGNANT woman. You can't blame people for pressing F to doubt.

Even if she is proven innocent in the court of law, she will always be guilty in the court of opinion.

I hope Oz stays safe.

What an ironic name for the sponsor. Blair actually did try to delete me and many others by shadow banning us from her comments. This causes her channel to die even faster somehow

go to court, be legally obligated to show all the dirty laundry. go on.

The "teaching business ethics" is my favourite part because aside from the fact that she clearly doesn't respect proper business practices at all, I'm also like, you made a bunch of KZfaq videos so you think you are an expert now? Hilarious

Blair calling Oz a Narcissist is super projecting i'd never call her that word willy nilly, but it's funny how everything she accuses other people of being and doing she does and is

Her comment on the oceangate incident is just an instance of "Heartbreaking: the worst person you know just made a great point"

Even IF tons of evidence comes out and she is revealed to be an awesome person (won't happen), I still won't go back to watching her videos. Putting out that video where she revealed a former employee's mental health condition without his consent was the only and last straw in my book. You just don't do that to other people. Plus, you know, the blatant plagiarism where she stole from other works word for word. That was just icing on the cake after the legal eagle thing, but still. I used to watch every video of hers when they came out back in the day. Really disappointing.

Paying yourself less also isn't a gold star special thing. She needs the people who work for her (since she basically does none of the work on her channel, and it's her revenue stream), and it's illegal to make them work without paying them. She's hoping to ride out the controversy and recover, but it's not good-hearted to pay herself less. She's the owner, she gets the profits. If there's less profit, she gets less money. If you worked at Mc Donald's your boss couldn't suddenly decide to pay you only $5/hour because it was a slow day. Your pay rate is your pay rate. The fact that she's framing not breaking the law as some kind of saintly move says a lot honestly.

Girl you better give blair credit for using her highlighter effect on her DMs or she's going to send you a cease and desist.

It’s one thing for someone to make a mistake and unknowingly treat someone in a way that hurts them. But the difference between good and bad people is that good people admit their mistakes, learn from them, grow and don’t repeat them. Bad people never take accountability, deflect and continue to behavior that hurts others. Blair is most definitely a BAD person.

Ummm...her sister needs to see this. Illuminaughti just basically said "I committed insurance fraud and I'm gonna frame my sister for it". They always tell on themselves.

Blair teaching business ethics is like Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt teaching child-rearing. Basically, if anyone actually hires her for such a job, they need to be investigated.

Yeah to think she would need a real job... and a lot of employers will check social media for things that they'd feel would be problematic.

The idea of having a google drive full of dirt on someone you think wronged you is modern age psychopath. I hope she gets help before she ends up REALLY hurting somebody. If you can’t become a billionaire without stepping on a few people then humanity has no need for billionaires.

I'm so glad I sold my illuminaughty plush a week before this happened, I had one that was made wrong, the head being sewn on backwards but my axolotl needed medical attention and factory malfunction dolls are suprizingly worth a lot so win win ig

Did she actually not have the brain to realise anyone joining her patreon at that time or after might just be looking for evidence???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I know a lot of people do it when accused of something publicly, but character assassinations are not proof of innocence. Even if (big if) Oz is as horrible as Illuminaughtii says he is, even if he is the most immoral person in the world, none of that means that she didn't abuse him. Then again, I guess given that she said she doesn't mind billionaires suffering since they "probably" did something bad, I guess in her eyes she doesn't need to defend herself, just prove that Oz "deserved it." Which doesn't sound toxic at all. Also, green.

She really is a textbook narcissist. ✨allegedly ✨

I thought someone asked the candle company about Blair and was told she is no longer affiliated with the company. I have my doubts about that, but either way, I'm curious what the timeline between wanting to fire her sister and her sister committing insurance fraud looks like.

In my opinion anyone who charges $30 of any currency for the privilege of talking to them on a super special club channel just wants a group of yesmen.

I'm honestly really disappointed with her bc I truly loved her content, watched countless hours of her videos and learned things from her channel. Not only did I learn things about certain businesses from her channel, I also learned how she's a real pos. When I first seen the drama unfold, before the nonapology video, I didn't want to believe what was being said. All she had to do was state an apology and move on but no. She threw everyone around her under the bus and lied. I couldn't believe it. She always talked about how someone was treated wrong or how certain businesses have horrible morals. It could have never been her, right? I am really ashamed.

23:50 “Does she realize that viewers are real people?” Nope. Not even a little. Because no one is real to her except herself

For the parts that don't make sense to you (like her claim of being financially abused by Ozmedia) it's very simple, really: Narcissistic projection. Whatever she's accused of she accuses others. A form of mirroring, a form of deflection. Narcissists do that all the time, whether the specific projection makes sense or not.

24:38 My narcissistic sister has said this same exact thing before when it came to some drama that was happening. She said "go find the facts for yourself dont ask me about it" and we were like "you're one of the only ones who know whats going on, so... we kinda got to ask you"

It's obvious she has no one else on her side IRL if she's so desperate as to trust patreons with a paper trail

Can we all just sit back and appreciate that this video is going to get more views in two hours than any of Blair's videos in the past month or two. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Blair's terms: Brain dead people fill in the gaps that I didn't carefully fill in Me terms: People who are actually 'not' brain dead and easily see through her lies and rely on facts over words alone. While having a group of people vs one doesn't always mean the group is in the right, it does make it worth giving more credence to. Each person that has had issues with Blair has come forward with their own story and when you lay those stories side by side, none of them clash with each other. They can blend in and don't contradict each other. This goes for more than just the Sad Milk crew. Her ex boyfriend from years back, Tipster, and even Cruel World Happy Minds stories have a similar ring to Blair's behavior. Many of them knew each other, yes, but others haven't met or interacted with each other to bounce off facts or ideas to attempt any malicious attempt to "gang up" on her. Her own recorded words and tone show how she treats others when angry. In a recorded message from her ex boyfriend (not Oz) where she said, "Because your cash cow left you!" in such a spiteful tone. It those words were an action, I'd compare it to jabbing someone with a pen. People say mean things when they're angry, sure, but her actions have shown that it goes deeper than a reactive emotion shining through. Her demeanor and actions when she's calm paints a picture of someone who's primal thought would be something like "How can I make myself the hero and them the villain?" She doesn't seem to realize that friends and family is for comfort and kinship. Not for self profit and exploitation. btw, my favorite color is Purple. lol.

Honestly, at this point, I hope LegalEagle is just digging in on behalf of Oz. The irony would be *Chef's Kiss* I can't wait for her to find out that "Blackmail Drive" is going to be part of discovery now that it's information out in the open, and I really, really, hope that she takes the HUGE L that's coming her way if/when this goes to court.

I know it's called a "private" group chat, but if people can pay to join, it's not private.... As a former fan I thought she was smarter than that, but it seems she really thought she'd get away with saying whatever she wanted behind the scenes. Honestly, for some people (not me, I've got bills to pay) $30 a month is nothing.... She brought this upon herself.

How can she claim that EVERYBODY on this entire thing is lying about her when everyone BUT her showed proof for their claim 😶

Had she kept just making videos about her usual topics I guarantee you a lot of people who not have even known about her nonsense in the background. I was completely unaware about the stuff with Sad Milk and most everything else. It wasn't until she dropped her video about it that I started looking into it and seeing how bad she actually is.

I know others who have claimed "I'm only paying myself X amount, so I can make sure my employees get paid". It's typically a half truth. They work out of their house, so they don't consider the mortgage, power bill, water, phone, or car payment as part of their pay. So what she's really saying is I only pay myself X amount that I can put in my savings.