I used to think and say, "everybody is a bit bisexual" until one day it hit me that people are literally only attracted to one gender. That's when I found out I'm bi.

"But don't you have a preference?" "Sure, but preferring lettuce to liver doesn't make me a vegan." Best bisexual response ever, from a long-defunct web comic.

“In theory I’m bisexual in practice I’m frightened” made me crack up for over a minute 😭 it’s so true for me 🥺

"in theory I'm bisexual, in practice I'm frightened" is the most relatable bi thing I've ever heard

"Find a different career" Shout out to that professor. No one should have to be afraid to go to a doctor just because they don't know if they're going to treat you well or not.

One of my homies is bi and he’s got a non-binary partner rn who recently decided that they are most comfortable being referred to as my friends boyfriend. And holy shit it makes me so happy to hear my homie say “my boyfriend”! I know he had a hard time coming to terms with his bisexuality so to hear him talk about his boyfriend so casually and affectionately is just amazing!

My sister realised she was bi, a few years ago and when she told her boyfriend, he said, "I thought you already knew?" They've been together for several years now and he spent the whole relationship thinking she'd already came out, though he still can't explain how he knew other than it was just obvious to him.

Came out as Bisexual to my friends recently, and when the girls of the group turned to me, I was like, "Don' worry, I have standards."

Always wanna appreciate whenever I'm reminded, Rosa Diaz both coming out and saying the actual word bisexual on TV made me cry. B99 may be about cops in theory but I'm practice it's the most wholesome show

First of all, as an ace-spec guy dating a bi girl, the thing about "straight" couples at Pride hit home. Second, the best part about dating a bi person is that you know they like you better than not only everyone of your gender, but better than everyone!

“I’m not saying no bisexual person is desperate.” Thank you Jamie, 15 year old me feels seen.

For those people who get biphobia from people they were going to date. You dodged a bullet. I went out with a girl who near the end of the date we walked by the LGBTQ+ center and I waved to some friends there. She was confused and I came out to her (I was still newly out and was awkward) she proceeded to tell me how it doesn't line up with her religious beliefs the rest of the way to her dorm. I can't believe I split a cinnamon roll on top of ice cream with her.

One of my favorite bisexual experiences is being in a relationship with another bisexual, and just walking around and admiring hot people

Some rando (with a wedding ring) tried to invalidate my bisexual self while I was eating a cookie at my uni, the whole "You can't be Bi, you are engaged to a man" bs. I don't know what possessed me that day but Iawnsered back "are you saying I have to have a man and a woman at the same time to be Bi? Because I know your wife is going to love that" and continued eating my cookie.

I had a straight colleague try to tell me I "picked a side" when got married. "You love [wife] more than anything. You think she's the most perfect person." "Just because I'm not looking to date them doesn't mean people stop being good-looking." "They did for me." "Really? You don't wanna see Chris Hemsworth shirtless?" "Everyone wants to see that man shirtless, that doesn't mean anything." "Okay. Now imagine there's more than one of him."

Sometimes it’s hard to feel valid since I’m bi but I’m a woman married to a man. So thank you for this! ❤

My partner is friends with a lesbian couple that is SO BIPHOBIC its ridiculous! They spout such BS that bisexual women are more likely to cheat and they would never date one because clearly they prefer men 🙄 One time I drunkenly told one of these women that she's biohobic but I love her anyway and then she got really defensive and denied it so much for weeks after. It's so uncomfortable being rejected by your own community and not being believed that you like women. I feel that I constantly have to prove to people that I like women because I'm in a relationship with a man.

I can concur with the “in theory bisexual, in practice frightened” one. I know I’m bi (or something similar) but I’ve never had a genuine relationship and I have no clue how to get into one and the thought of trying scares the crap out of me.

Just a reminder: You aren't "just confused." You know how u feel better than other ppl do, don't let them gaslight you. Also, erasure is very real, especially when ppl are faced with an experience they haven't seen or interacted with. A lot of the time instead of asking questions so they can understand, they just say whatever ur talking about doesn't exist.

I spend a lot of time feeling erased or even like I'm a LGBTQ+ lesser because I'm a Bi woman dating a man. Videos like this really warm my heart & hug my soul. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 💗💜💙

The biphobia from lgtb+ community is unreal. Like we're literally the B in the acronym, but still trying to prove our existence and validity within the community.

My doctor/GP had me in today (trans unrelated) for the first time since I changed my gender (and name) with my insurance company. The only question that arose was at the front desk, one staff member to the other "do I confirm this box or do I have to check this to transfer the data?" and making sure I'm me by asking for my date of birth. My doctor did ask if I already had top surgery, but that was very clearly medically related because I was in for chest pain in the area scars would go. Nobody batted an eye or asked anything not related to the issue at hand. 💜

Hi everyone! I'm bi and back in the closet after being invalidated so often by people close to me. The "opposite sex relationships make you straight" stigma is so hurtful:( Still I feel so happy writing this and always get euphoria while watching queer content:) Someday I will be validated and will be able to express it freely I hope:D

9:17 Always makes me smile to see this one. My household isn’t necessarily homophobic, but they don’t believe I’m bi because I only ever point out men as being attractive in tv shows. I don’t feel attracted to women as easily as men, but it is *definitely* still there. But whenever I did point out women, it wasn’t someone that was obviously supposed to be attractive for the show, so they thought I was just trying to be quirky or something. It doesn’t help that they don’ think that you can be gay and trans or bi and trans or whatever (I’m a trans man), so they just think that I’m a straight cis woman who is being attention-seeking. And I know that they’re not trying to be mean, they are just looking out for me, but they clearly don’t understand and it’s just frustrating sometimes. Anyway, this post always makes me feel better whenever I see it because it reminds me that I don’t have to feel equally attracted to women and men, and that my taste in women is just way more specific than my taste in men. I feel like there is why too much out there saying that you have to be equally attracted to both genders to be bi. You certainly can be, but you don’t have to be, and that’s something I feel is important to remember :)

Pansexual here: the worst is when women will try to queerbait me at bars/parties for male attention. That shit bothers me. I'm not a prop, I'm a human with feelings. Lol definitely heard a lot of negative things like "oh you're just greedy" 🙄 not greedy- I'm just attracted to personalities, not meat suits. Lol

I'm a recovering biphobe. As a gay man who was treated poorly in my early sexlife by bisexual guys, I let it form a general opinion that later proved to be false as I am married to a bisexual man and I turned out to be trans feminine non-binary. We can always learn and grow. 😊

I remember vividly my mom and some of her friends talking about some people who were "switching teams" and that they said that they were bisexual, but my mom and her friends saying, "There's no such thing as bisexual. They just don't know which team they are on yet. They'll figure it out." This messed me up for YEARS.

One time I told someone I was bi and they didn’t know what it was. I explained and they asked, “Wait, are you lesbian or straight?” And I said, neither and they said “Wait so you’re asexual?” I told them what I was again and they asked if I was confused and I was rolling around laughing but also super annoyed

Something I've always said is that I feel too gay for straight people and too straight for gay people. Not sure if that makes sense but it's sad how it's a double-edged sword for us - we get flack from outside and inside the community. And being ace and bi you hear things...but anyway, love these videos because they never fail to make me laugh at how ridiculous some people can be!

Prawn the cat is so cute!!! Being in the bi, ace, and aro communities I've received a lot of hate from inside the LGBT+ community and out over the years and I'm so happy to see so many of the memes today were wholesome! Makes me hopeful that the community won't attack itself forever :)

9:00 Basically 100% me in highschool, except with being pan, a bunch a girls for my class were like: them: "so you'd actually date a girl?" me: "girl, boy, non-binary, again, gender doesn't partically matter too me" them: "so would you date any of us?" me: "no I have standards, I'm pan not desperate"

Goodbye? More like good bi!! Jamie's a good bi, doing his bit for the community, and I greatly appreciate him for it 🥰

Phobia in the LGBT+ community makes no sense. The other day, my "friend" (who is a bisexual) refused to use my pronouns, deadnamed me, and then called me an object. AND THEN BEFORE THAT, HE WAS EVEN CONFUSED THAT I WAS BI??? LIKE, SIR, ITS THE SAME AS YOU???

Absolutely love the pizza girl story! As a cis/bi gal, I get really bummed out when there is Biphobia, Panphobia, Transphobia or any other kind of nonsense like that in the LGBTQA+ community. Isn't our slogan supposed to be Love is Love? We really need to practice what we preach.

That first one! My Dad kept telling me that whenever a bi guy was on TV "he's just gay". Sad to admit that I kind-of believed him until a few years ago I realised I had a massive crush on a guy while working at my last job. Then I was like "OH GOSH, they are real, and I am ONE OF THEM!!!"

I love that last story. And a shout out to that professor. No one should be in the medical field if they cannot leave their prejudices at the door.

I always find it so funny and weird when people try to tell bi people 'you're just confused', because I feel like it would be *easiest* to know if you're bi or pan, since you would have felt attraction to multiple people of different genders. But if you're only attracted to one gender, or none, then you get the 'you just haven't met the right one yet'. It's also just weird in general when people try to say 'you're just confused', because I daresay we know our own feelings better than some random karen?

As a Welsh bisexual, this flag made my day!!! Found my new wall piece…

1:22 Just want to point out that, as a medical professional, you need to treat disabled people differently sometimes. They have different needs and in some cases treating them the same way as someone who's not disabled could be dangerous. I know this isn't what you meant, but it's important that's recognised.

Thank you for being so amazing needed this tonight .

The professor is on point. Not only will they have to treat people with different believes, but they might also have to treat prisoners. If the institution is well known for their expertise, prisons might send very ill prisoners there to be treated. Also gang members or political leaders, etc. If you can't deal with helping people with views/lifestyles different to yours, find a career that doesn't involve human contact (or much of it).

I feel, as a Demi-sexual, an intense kinship with the Bisexuals. Particularly around my identity being erased or treated as somehow not fundamental if I’m in a relationship...like, I’m still on the ace spectrum...this...this is literally what Demi is, I picked a person and we’re in love...still ace... I feel like the Demi’s and the Bi’s should form an alliance!

The sad thing is, I am Bi and I am so scared to tell my parents... They told me like 4 years ago, that they would still love me... But 2 weeks ago I was sleeping, but still hearing... So my aunt, my mom and my dad talked about being a part of the lqbtq community... My dad: "I THINK ALL BI PEOPLE AND TRANS PEOPLE AND THAT SHIT ARE SO ANNOYING! WE GET IT,THAT THEY THINK LIKE THAT BUT I DON'T CARE!" I nearly started crying... I really wanted to run away... What should I do now? 😐

Whenever I doubt my bisexuality, I watch this video, because afterwards I feel really valid ❤️

As a white, cis lesbian, I would like to apologise for the biphobia, transphobia and racism that exists within the lgbt+ Community. It hurts my heart when I hear it. Prawn is adorable!!!!

I'm bi (maybe pan? Still figuring that part out) and when I came out to my mom a few years ago, she just told me that it's normal for women to like both men and other women. After all, she feels the same way that I do! ..mom.....that's called being bisexual. You literally just told me that you are also bisexual. I wasn't able to convince her of that though, which is just hilarious to me. She just whole-ass believes that all women are bisexual but that it isn't called bisexuality. I mean, I couldn't have asked for a more accepting response than "yeah lol me too" but I also laugh a lot when I think about this. If you're reading this: love you, mom! That being said, thank you for this video. I rarely tell people my sexual orientation anymore specifically because I am tired of catching shit for it. Seeing your reactions was validating.

First of all, love the hoodie Also, we need more bi-ace-allyship. Loved these

Prawn and also this made me smile. Thanks Jammi!

7:42 I love this but in my case it's my mom and her bf taking me to pride to be supportive. The thing is, they are the gayest looking straight couple i've ever seen in my life. Like, seriously. Oh my god. And then there is me. The one who can't look gay to save my life. People always think i'm some teen who's parents dragged me here but no no. I'm the gay one not them. Yes i know he's wearing eyeliner and cuffed jeans but i swear he says he's straight

This video is like that feeling you get when you breathe in fresh air and realise how taking a breath Can actually feel. A few years ago I was following a lesbian account on Instagram, they were asking people to share their first experiences with being gay, but they kept encouraging people to send in their stories while posting very few. Since there was a clear lack of contributions and I didn't mind sharing my story I thought I would give it a go, despite being bi, or likely pan. My story might not fit on their page, I thought, but at least it would give them an option to share it should they choose to (I prefaced the message with me being bi for this reason). I didn't receive an answer at all, and when they kept asking for stories I wrote them to see if they had received my message. They then wrote me that they wouldn't share my story because they wanted their page to be "a safe space" for lesbians, and that just still takes my breath away. Fair enough if they didn't think it fit on their page, fair enough if only experiences from lesbians were welcome, fair enough if they had simply made the choice to not post it because it didn't fit within those parameters - but to make it out to be _unsafe_ for people for me to share my first feelings towards women, simply because I also possess the ability to have those feelings for men, it just, I can't, I still can't find words for that. Something just goes quiet inside of me when I think of this. It's not a big thing. It's this small, very still little thing. But it is also loud. So loud that it drowns out all other sounds, and that uncomfortable stillness that comes with that lack of noise still takes my breath away.

It was a lovely video, but the ending farewell was really the cherry on top! My smile is THIIISSS big! :)

Oh I love that last one. The turn was great! Also love you Prawn, damp little one

The “finally found a community” thing works for realizing I was ace and then realizing there’s so much toxicity in the community. (Seen so many posts from people saying ace/aros don’t belong, etc). I didn’t see that one coming.

I really don’t know what it seems everyone has against bi men. Some of the coolest guys I know are bi and, while I may be biased as a bi woman, if I’m going to date a guy I’d prefer him to be bi/pan/etc. because of the similar experiences and they seem to just be so chill. And yes I am currently dating a pan guy and he is wonderful and I love him so much

The add I got halfway through the video was Jamie doing a read. I really thought it was just the sponsorship read of the video until I saw the “skip ad” button 😂😂

I know I'm like a month late catching up on videos, but I still thank you and Shabba for all your awesome content and information that helped me research terminology to discover I can shut many people up and educate the rest when I say I'm pan and demi-sexual.

My lovely girlfriend recently realized that they really don't have a preference for pronouns and is pretty genderfluid, which is dope because I was already bi when I started dating her 😂 On TOP of both of us realizing that we're both ace at the same time lmaoo

As someone who recently realized I’m bisexual (or at least biromantic), the “in theory I’m bisexual but in practice I’m frightened” meme is so relatable. I’m terrified of flirting with either gender 😳

4:26 I'm not a haunted house bisexual... I'm an overlooking a foggy shoreline bisexual. And yes: more dragons, more dinosaurs, just more animals and cool stuff on pride flags. I'm tired of looking at pride flags and remembering I need to repaint my house.

Thank you! And Prawn is gorgeous!!

i spent most of my latest relationship explaining to my ex that i wasnt going to leave her just because im bi. She also tried to convince me that I wasnt really bi since I was together with a girl. It was really frustrating and made me question my sexuality alot. But since we broke up Ive grown much more confident in myself and can finally see my place in the LGBT+ community!

As a fellow Beyonce in a straight looking relationship I really needed this video, thanks Jammi. Also your cat is the cutest little thing ever.

I'm bisexual in a het marriage and I always feel like I need to turn in my queer badge.

Thank you, I've been having a rough time with my bi-ness as of late and this made me feel a bit more accepted. Again, thank you

My partner is a detransitioned (for medical reasons) Trans woman who now identifies with omnigender but presents masculine. and im afab nonbinary. We're both pansexual. But we appear very much as a straight couple. We're hoping to go to pride this year together, so I hope we don't get any shit from assumers

I had to screenshot the "in theory/in reality" meme. My best friend is bi, but we live in a VERY conservative area. He is afraid to ever approach a man for fear that he may get harmed physically. Its a real concern

people: lgbt+ people don't exist! me: if I don't exist, I can't be arrested. also, lovely video, I love watching your content

I love this video. As of now I have not put a label on myself as I sometimes feel like I am too straight to be bi. But the you are attracted to guy 90% of the time and girls 10% or the time (as a girl) = still bi. Made me feel seen. I don't like how this sentiment is sometimes seen as not valid and it makes me feel like I don't belong. Love how Jamie always creates a warm place

"We need more dragons and dinosaurs on pride flags" Me in trans woman being meta: "But what about plushy sharks?"

2:25 ugh yes. this infuriates me so much. there is no wrong way of liking multiple genders. just because one person likes 1 gender more than the other doesnt mean the other has to too.

I loved it SO MUCH!!! And I'm bi and non binary (last part I FINALLY realized in December 😀) I love your content. And this one was my favorite 🌺❤

I love the way you laugh, it's very contagious.

This was so good!! I am bisexual female in a committed 28 year relationship with my husband. I choose a person for sure. I just choose not to tell a lot of people because I have been in such a long relationship. He knows and he loves me for me. I am glad to see it said that it doesn't invalidate my bisexuality. It makes me feel so happy! Thank you for this lovely video I needed it today!

I'm bisexual and I just came out to my mom last week. My husband has known for years and supports me for who I am. I am coming out after being married for almost a decade because I am finally feeling comfortable enough with my sexuality to share it with friends and family. Growing up in church and being told you will go to hell if you are attracted to the same sex really messes you up and it takes a long time to get those sort of thoughts out of your head to really start accepting yourself for who you are.

I love watching your videos they are so comforting for some reason:)

I love your Prawn floof, your content and your videos ❤️❤️💖

Bi-romantic asexual trans girl here! Took me some time to figure out my sexuality though, but I feel that describes me well. When I was in denial of my transness, I leaned more towards girls but now I lean more towards guys, but I’d still be fine with girls.

I'm Welsh and my school has a whole group of students dedicated to making sure that lgbtq people are supported and welcomed but what this meant is that during pride they get out the rainbow flags with a huge dragon on the front its great

this video was soooo validating!!!

I’m bi and so many of these where so relatable lol, also I love your cat

"In theory, I'm bisexual, in practice, I'm frightened." Yeah, that's me.

I only recently found out that I’m bisexual and came out to my friend two weeks ago. To all LGBTQ+ people, thank you for being my family now❤️ I just wanted to share this🏳️‍🌈

The kitty is sooo FLOOFY!!

I love the bi dragon flag! I love dragons and the design in general is so cool!

Prawn is adorable, I still can't believe someone returned him for being "too ugly"

So this is a story my friend told me about today. It has the same energy as the professor and student meme. So it was art class and everything was calm when suddenly a kid named Jax just yelled out of nowhere that he wanted to live in Russia because apparently LGBTQ+ people get executed there. I think he thought this was really funny or something. Anyway the art teacher (a very nice and chill women who hasn't raised her voice once even when's she's mad in all the time I've known her) started yelling at him and had to stop herself from swearing at him. He ended up getting detention for the rest of the year. I love that art teacher even more now.

OH MY GOODNESS Prawn broke my heart with the cuteness 😭😭

"I'm sorry, Sir, you're a little bit damp." Thank you for making me laugh today 💜

been rly awkward to identify as bi when im like 96% attracted to men and 4% to women but the 4% is still there so hi im bi

The scene with Rosa always makes me cry. Makes me very grateful that I have accepting parents, and sad for all the other bisexual people out there who don't. :( Hang in there. Things will improve. 💖💜💙

I discovered that I was bisexual/romantic my senior year of high school, but I never really came to terms with it until I discovered your bisexual related videos and it made me feel more comfortable and happy with my sexuality, and proud to be who I am. Just know that even if you're just looking at memes, to other people these videos are very important. Thank you

Prawn!!!!! Such a pretty kitty!!!! We need more Prawn in future videos!!!!! 😻😻😻

I love your content! After I found your videos, I found out I'm ace, and I also understand my nonbinary and demigirl friends

Closeted bisexual cis man in a long term committed relationship with a bisexual cis woman here (phew long intro). Love watching your videos. They always make me smile Edit: cis*

Hi Prawn! I hope I spelled that right lol. I'm bi and I recently decided to be out to my family again (came out at 15, they disapproved and I have only dated two men so I suspect they think I turned straight) by just dropping hints and it's super freeing lol. Thanks for the bi memes!

Been out for a while to the general public, but I always love the bi memes. Happy pride!

love you bro you really helped me realize I was trans when I was younger and now i’m a month and a half on T :) 🏳️‍⚧️

And THAT is why I, as a cis-presenting, non-binary pan-sexual, did not find any support or understanding in the LGBTQI+ community. I'd rather take s... from straight cis-folks, than people who complain about the discrimination and prejudise when they in fact are just as judgemental and hatefull.

Prawn is one of the most adorable cats I’ve ever seen🥺💗

Love memes and i love this hoodie jammie 🔥❤🙌