We can totes do that! Everything will be in total chaos, this partnership will be awesome! Yes, I’m a fellow ESTP- 😂

ESTP here. Let's get it.

Woo! xD

i wish I could come up with a good comment about this. I failed. -ISTP

Double interested 🌚🌝🌚🌝🌚🌝

Indeed. I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ESTP. He is smart as fuck, and is always in tune with the environment. He observes and notices things in the environment with such an incredible quickness that it often overwhelm me.

Agreed, it’s a cool superpower to have ~ Nathan

I’m an ESTP, and I am this way with music and history

Dude, easy peasy, but intuition is what we lack, it kinda bothers me...

@@Guts33 There are always trade offs. We INFJs can see around corners, ESTP s can actually see the corners

This is a very ESTP comment indeed ~ Nathan

Thanks :)

Bless Parco Rodriguez same lady, estp here i’ll straight up die before I punk out to someone who doesnt deserve my respect what are they gonna do force me? Good luck ya know.

@@nathanieljohnson5555 cool :)

What you said resonates extremely with me- that's what makes us quintessentially ESTP.

i’m an ESTP and one of my old friends was always slightly paranoid that i could read their mind

Yep

i think this is true, i suspect myself a lot for years

@_Hudera_ 5w3 i think, but id have to double check to be sure

Sure but when you start observing them and you will find they are very predictable and whatever they do has a cause behind if some how you counter them with multiple possibilities and actions they will start worrying like scared rats.

Estp here. Look at Alan watts

@@Gtjsn Aww your story makes me feel sentimental. I hope you find an even better man for yourself in the near future!

@@Gtjsn where ru from?

@@Gtjsn just curious, for more context

@@Gtjsn Gonna admit, I'm somewhat invested in your bitter sweet love story, so I kinda want to know just a little bit more, if you don't mind.

Cheers from "up above"...aka northern hemisphere. What I have observed over the years is that where there are ESTP family members, you will often find an INFJ, be it a parent/child or siblings. In my extended family network we several sets of ESTP/INFJ sibling pairs, myself included

@@stevedavenport1202 Oh shit, I'm an ESTP and I have an INFJ little sister!

@@tjz6202 See what I mean? 😀

Hahahahhahahaha im infj and i think my dad could get edtp after a test. And i got difficulties in the comunication, and most of the time we have fun, the funniest thing is that we use to laugh at a different things in the same conversation.

I must say, that sounds like fun. ~ Nathan

Sounds like an amazing human and relationship!

@@lovewho whats your type? Please?

Sounds like fun

@@jaeloniala4672 he is an intj

SAME

@@sofiamayelaresendezmedina2753 many passions and that’s ok. To be successful we have to discipline ourselves to follow through.

I would say that isn't true, You have to think outside of the societal spectrum of desire. You're welcome. No doubt an ESTP.

I relate to that. I've been longing to relate to something of mbti personalities for a few years Thank you

Just lemme charm ya ;)

I think ESFP are more everyone's favorite. ESTP can be too be edgy and offensive lol.

Kati Bird ESTPs suck!😁

Bitches who don’t like us are just player haters 😂😂

Nicole Harris who hurt u ?

As a musician who also prefers to improvise, I agree with your comment! ~ Nathan

DUDE, that's exactly my position. Thank you

same!

i have an ESTP friend like that as well

estp (pretty sure LMAO) musician here. Accurate

Hru doing now

@@markqq4487 I now Travel the World, making money online. Live is good, to all my ESTP fellows, keep chasing your dreams.

@@lukasschmidt5778 🙌

​@@lukasschmidt5778ayeee good job!

Agreed! I’m a comp sci and cog sci double graduate and love a good philosophical, drunken night 😁

What do you think of INTPs?

cool! I am an entp scientist. science needs a variety of people like many other endeavors. some subfields or career paths may be unsuitable for Se (or Ne) doms but they nevertheless can have valuable skills and successful paths!

I (INFP) used to try to rein in my ESTP brothers chaotic actions but 1) he's a lot bigger than me and 2) despite how messed up some of his actions are, people seem to genuinely find him charming. I'm both terrified and envious of whatever dark magic he possesses.

@@Takisan111 hey, don't be jealous. you are charming in your own way. trust me.

same lol

Soooo trueee

Same here.

I'm glad he didn't do that as well. My brother is ESTP and he's one of the most terrifyingly brilliant people I know. While he could have been an athlete due to his build, he uses his size more as a tool in his crazy schemes. I was seriously convinced growing up that he had psychic powers since he always knew the exact thing to say to get whatever response he was looking for. The only times it didn't work were when he failed to realize just how angry, sad, or stressed out his targets were... Which is actually very easy to happen with me (INFP)

@@Takisan111 i(infp) relate ,my bro(estp) does the same

Another ESTP here, I pretty much experience the same thing! But I gotta say that there has yet to be a situation where I fail to form a closer bond with someone that I want to have a deeper connection with. Which doesn’t happen often as I too move on really quickly.

Omg....so accurate

broo im an estp and i agree so much on the deep connection part, idk i just think opening up is hard and i would rather just have fun and chill

Sounds pretty accurate! Hope you liked the video!

Your ESTP husband is probably cheating on you...

@@lucianabolissima923 i doubt it. lol We have been together since we were kids. Started to have our babies early in life and our marriage has surpassed ALL of my siblings...they use to make cracks on how things wouldn't last: we defied the odds on so many levels, because we had each other and were very resourceful when the years were lean. that taught us much. .We lacked for nothing because we had cultivated that life early on and that taught us how rich life is and many of the unhealthy ways to navigate. Also, have two adult children. Were not going anywhere. I think ppl may get the wrong idea on good friendly ppl. We know ourselves and each other too well.

@@lucianabolissima923 this is just my opinion, but I think it's a bit disrespectful to the op to assume that her husband cheats on her basing on his cognitive function...? (I'm not estp, I'm infp btw). I'm sorry that you may had bad experiences with estps (I don't know your experiences) but we don't know op's life either...

ESTPs are really honest and loyal. If they do make a mistake they'll usually be honest about it

Interesting!

Army👁👄👁

So true as an estp I try my best to make people day better like I actually go to a stranger and tell her or him she looks good💖🙏🏻

@@yxumi Wow are you sure you're an ESTP? I'm an ESTP and I only sacrifice my time and energy for the people I care about. I usually act plainly transactional with cashiers/janitors/waiters/waitresses, but never without respect though, unless they don't do their job.

@@tjz6202 What do you think of INTPs?

Ohh interesting. What was the podcast? ~ Nathan

@@lovewho It was Sam Harris's podcast with a guy named Chris Voss

@@Gtjsn In socionics it would be considered normal for INFJ to match with ESTP really well as friends or romantically, but the key to a relationship is both parties would have to be mature enough. Especially in your younger years, the ESTP might not value Ni-style commitment yet and you might lack the Se to be bold enough in your communication. That's just a guess though, hope it works out for you in the future

Another ISTP here, I wholeheartedly agree

Thank you! I asked my stepdad to give me a cigarette, everyone thought I'd taken up smoking as my New Years resolution ~ Nathan

Love Who 😂

I’m an ESTP and though I’m an athlete and very adventurous, I really enjoy long conversations. I don’t shy away from emotions and philosophy. I can do both. Maybe that’s why I like INFJs

Haha . They sound fun

Is there any ESTP who isn't ? 😄

If they could only feel one day the way we do, theyll understand it. How fun it is, how exciting

Hope it didn't disappoint ~ Nathan

Thank you! Glad you liked it! ~ Nathan

Thats a fascinating dynamic that I haven't thought of that much. Thank you for sharing your thoughts... feel free to share more! ~ Nathan

I would be the one who came up with the idea of going to a place (let’s say a beach with a cliff) , and be so excited about it, for him (estp) not much reaction (do they even have any emotional reaction?), and then when the moment comes, he would be the first one cliff diving and I would be the one standing behind just falling in love with my idea coming into reality (but not so much with the present moment).

And also I still have a hard time typing him wether if he is as an ISTP or an ESTP... Whenever there is no immediate need for action especially when he is alone, he would always be busy with video games, word games, intellectual games, watching tv and be happy staying at home, (like an introvert). Not unless he is called by a friend to go out and socialize and drink which he will be happy with even at the most uninviting time of the night. Thanks for reading Nathan ~

we are walking reality checks. Some types can't deal with it

@@lovewho Nathan, it's not good for romance. you will both be frustrated. It's better as amazing friends. I mean of course anything will work, but...it is very hard when you have conflict. Your processes are so different

Wow, that’s some serious deductive powers right there!! Hope you enjoyed the video ~Nathan

@@lovewho Sure did, it was awesome, also waaaay more accurate then some others I have seen. ;>

@@okbutwhatif9905 From what I remember from the books, ESTP does seem to fit. ESTPs have an uncanny ability to read people and tend to use reckless actions in pursuit of goals. There's also Book Sherlocks decent athletic abilities, his need to drugs to chill him out so he can think straight, and I'm pretty sure chasing Moriarty over a waterfall is not most peoples first choice. If anyone is the INTP, I'd say it's his brother.

One interesting observation I found myself is how drastic personality can fluctuate during different stages of life. As a kid I was a major book worm, spent hours playing with figures, building stuff, drawing etc. then as soon as puberty hit I became the exact opposite, onlyt ofind myself back over the course of like 6 years. Now I'm probably as nerdy again as I was as a kid, mixed with a small fraction of that "phase" or perhaps development I had as a teen

He collects plastic weapons and does push-ups although he's a skinny 8-years old, he can't undress without throwing his clothes across the room, he tries to sell stuff (drawings...) to people in the park to get cash, he's a funky dancer, he hates schools except for sciences and sports...

@@Gibil934 Sounds just like my 8 year old ESTP. He buys things with advance planning: who he will share with as a buddy, who he will share with to gain favor, who he will share with to reward, and who he will sell to in order to make a deal. He bursts on the scene in every situation in his vicinity. He cannot stand to be alone. He knows no strangers and loves to rally a team to get a job done, yet will gleefully play the protagonists to expose and weed out the weaklings. He will then feel sorry for the one he has humiliated and try to help them. I have to remind myself each day that he has to learn by action and hands on. And no he is not thinking before he dive bombs people, places, objects, and situations, acrobatically leaping, or immediately doing whatever he sees. But this is his learning style I again remind myself. I cringe and hold my breath constantly wondering what reaction will be unleashed on a moment to moment basis from random people, objects, and situations. I tell myself there is allot I can learn from him. And then see him do and say things for shock value and I shrink in embarrassment or scowl in indignation. Then there's the times we just cuddle after he is finally worn out, physically, not mentally, and I remember he just wants to have fun. And win. And that tommorow is a new day. And he will be the first one up in the morning ready to conquer it and whoever stands in his charming, lovable way.

@@gabriellavictory3080 I guess I have to learn from mine too, especially to live in the moment :)

Lol true, ESTPs will notice every character trait of yours, and if you piss us off be prepared to know your worst

Intp here your introvert half and I feel the same way with a Estp coworker. I like to feel free but I notice I restrict myself with them. They can be a lose cannon sometimes.

I think both ENTPs and ESTPs will receive this insult at least once in their life of being an arse hole 😂. I guess this secondary Ti + tertiary Fe makes you very at ease with people and argumentative. You guys sadly usually give a bad rep to Fe users cause I feel like Tertiary Fe is really different. It's more used as a tool but not so authentically in a compassionate way. This creates a weird behavior of confident because of Ne/Se, but charming unsensitive arse holes. I think INTPs are more concerned about getting to the truth without wanting to look entertaining first or anything so people can take the criticizm more fairly while ExTPs just sound like they criticized you and mock you to no end, which is simply a despicable behavior let's be honest because people do care. I think criticizms and fun should just be disconnected cause the thing is it usually just comes off as incredibly disrespectful. I think that's just the reason why ExTPs are often rejected in social situations.

I was thinking the same, but was to lazy to write it down :)))

YEP. INFJ here. Learnt the hard way to steer clear f ENTPs and ESTPs. They tend to pick me out on their radar very fast though. But now that I know them, I run away like hell. I know what you are upto.

@@jaeloniala4672 😅 but infjs are so nice!

@@taydupreez8555 yep. Thats why you love us. LOL

ESTP is just an INFJ with reversed strengths and weaknesses. The Fe function means that if we meet in a bar it’s like two spies or detectives running into each other and not wanting to be noticed but noticing each other right away! (I’m INFJ)

You too! ~ Nathan

manager-nim its true man especially if I’m looking for it, when I hear or see a lie its like they have a neon sign above their heads that say they are lying, my b.s meter is very tuned- ESTP

I believe they'll pick up more the superficial signs. So body language & voice tone, for example. They make snap judgement of of it and can be often right. But I believe INFJ and ENFJ might be better at reading a person fully, they'll go into the deeper layer.

@@nathanieljohnson5555 you guys are the only ones who can freak me out with your super power Our battle will be legendary!

@@RuthParodies true as an infj I just recognize patterns in people that help me figure them out on a deep level

@@manager-nim2623 I love you profile picture of wwh 💜

Thank you! ~ Nathan

Ok this is fascinating!!! That two extraverts of a similar type can behave so differently. Love that story btw.

This is so interesting! Lu

Love Who Lol now that I’m reading this over again, I realize I’m sounding like a whiney lil b****. 😅 But, yeah, I definitely preserve a lot of energy because I get drained so quickly. My husband wakes up in a cheerful mood every morning ready to take on the day 😂. Whereas I have to get a workout in and consume a bunch of material (music, podcasts, YT, etc.) before I’m ready to start using play at work. Hope that makes sense! Are you and your husband different in that way??

Glad you’re enjoying the videos and happy new year to Greece from us here in Wales in the UK! ~ Nathan

Nope. getting ordered around wouldn't be fun... Maybe a squad leader would be good. a better choice😂😂

I'd imagine ESTPs being great as spies. They can fit into any social situation, and exploit the weaknesses of others while still appearing to be on the same side. And if they are compromised, they can act quickly to cool down the situation and craft a plan B. Such smooth operators, they are...

@@hasith_dissanayake can't they will burn everything

@@eva.1826 Only if it would help get the task done

@@hasith_dissanayake yeah but 😶i can't imagine us being in milatery

Your comment didn't get get a +1 from Nathan either? Tsk tsk....

Busted...

Yes. Same.

My ESTP brother honestly scared me a little growing up. He can be funny and charming but behind closed doors he knows just the right thing to say to make me have a serious emotional reaction. Granted it's not very hard with me but I really didn't need someone actively pushing for it. He always knew what I was insecure about at the time and would make a big display for others to potentially see. I'm really not sure how so many people keep overlooking all the horrible things he's said over the years and still adore him so much. If I said even a fraction of the things he did, I'd never have friends again. What sort of dark magic is this and how do I make it go away? He's chilled a little recently due to meeting his match with our seriously unstable ENTP sister but it's clearly still there.

@@Takisan111 he said horrible things but it was all true isn't it? So why would people be mad for so long, people expect that from him not from you that's just him

Same .. All hateable (Backstabbing, Opportunist) people I've encountered have been Estp.

Oh my goshhhh thanks!!!!

Sorry for your pain Victoria...ESTP, becoming ghastly more aware of my many flaws! 😢

Victoria Nastav INTJs are very honest and direct while ESTPs are cunning liars and manipulative people...at least in my experience

He sounds moreso abusive than just ESTP. Hope you're in a happier place today ❤

Thank you! Are you an ESTP? ~ Nathan

@@lovewho No, I'm an INFJ :-)

@@klaramolitva Interesting! ~ Nathan

Ideal candidate for Jordan Peterson YT video binges till something comes to the forefront.

same actually

same

PERSONALLY I LOVE INFJ’s

Run

OMG SAMEEEE

Can I ask your successful achievements?

@@markqq4487 I rose from the shop floor to senior management - and stayed there. I am often deployed, or employed in crisis situations to bring a stable head and hands to problems. I am also able to find unique solutions to things my peers often have yet to have dreamt up - trust me being the only ESTP in my line of business is really fun, or incredibly frustrating.

How was he deadly? Ive known some charismatic ESTPs.

​@@Peonies925 I meant that figuratively, but he was known to have a lot of conquests, if you know what I mean, both male and female. Plus, although I wouldn't call him the life of anything, he was often the center of attention at social gatherings. Strangers sometimes comment on the impact of his presence. He had well developed Ni for an ESTP, and it was fairly balanced with his Se. When he wanted to, he could be extremely present and engaging, even charming. He can focus very intently on another person, but this focus can go from what seems like a warm glow to a predatory stare in almost an instant. Then you may find out what he's really made of, which is bitterness, fear, and cruelty. Once he gets into a cruel mindset, he is obsessive and relentless. Of course, I do not believe that most ESTPs are cruel and obsessive.

@@RacerMMXXII ha ha yes… i knew you meant “deadly” in a figurative way. I was just thinking about the ESTP s ive known and they too had a lot of conquests. They were womanizers! And slick in manipulative ways!

Have a look into socionics! ~ Nathan

ok, thxz

I'm and INFP and my older brother is an ISTP. We have never been close, I can see how intuitives and sensors can repel each other because we filter the world so differently. We didn't hate each other and we did have laughing times as kids. Sounds like your sister wanted to persuade you a lot lol

Wow! Well...good to know ~ Nathan

After reading Quora, I prefer to regard him as TP right now! Which means he is so good at Ti, Se and Ne.

He is likely an ESTP with a hero Ti-Ni sleep animal

The Romantic Rationalist How can you not know what type you are?

I don't know what I want but I do know what I don't want