Exactly. If you want an expensive object buy what you want. If you want a good man,and you measure his goodness on what he bought,that says a lot about you.

Why by a ring in the first place

😈😈😈

My ring was $281 (maybe less but he got a warranty for it) and it's my fave color and fave stone. I get compliments ALL THE TIME on it. It's more meaningful than a worthless diamond anyway.

They are women. Money is all that matters. Love talking is all a show.

Renie Nostalgic AMENNNNNN!

Exactly

Awwww ❤️

I respect it. Two thumbs up

Thank you!

The ring. And what the ring represents.

@@ryanphillips5591 Vanity?

What she meant is That her husband would put efford on it. And not as an excuse being cheap. You know. He should do it with a bit efford for his wife what she likes. Not just lazy and saying I don't have money or so. Because a lot lazy men comes cheap with their real reasons

That probably why so many couples divorce 🤷🏿‍♀️

the ring needs to be worth more than 2k in the case of divorce

"People?"...you mean women.

Blue Indigo no, I mean both men and women. The engagement ring is most applicable to women but there are countless other examples in which men may have shallow desires. Do you really think women are the only one’s guilty of this? We all need humility.

Caleb Cousins in my lifetime yes. Women are much more shallow then men.

Caleb Cousins and no it’s not just the women I’ve been hanging around

Todd Leroy if that’s the case why are men more than twice as likely to cheat on their spouse? That couldn’t possibly be shallow at all... I’m just waiting for the excuse “oh well there’s underlying causes that push men away and force them to cheat.”

Damn right!

Some people just want to flaunt it is social media to envy others. So childish.

The size of her ass matters too.

Curtis Reese 2969 damn skippy!

Facts!

Golddiggers

Yes

exactly. preach!!!!

ilikemonkeys b amazed u got a ring upgrade later!

Amen

And you want to marty wth a glass ring right?

s k I am really sorry for your loss.

Ba Be 💕

im sorry for your loss.

Mmm...That was very Real and Mature.

Condolences

Sameee

Same Girl!!! 😂😂😂

me too girl

Same girl same

My mom actually lost her really nice really expensive engagement ring IN A MALL and only realized once she got home👀

gigglyfitzgirl omg yaaas😂😂😂😂

They already got married.

This is out of date, because Amy got married in February. It was fast, because Amy and Chris, a chef, had only been dating a few short months.

Vi W Oh wow. Thanks! Yeah I don't keep up with Amy at all and I don't keep up with The Real like I used to.

gigglyfitzgirl and I think that’s why she didn’t want a huge ring because she’s low key with her relationship so her ring reflects ts

Selena Bryant Preach!

Yes

Not always in fact stats show thwyre typically traditionalists and traditionalist statistically divorce less. Now whether or not they're happy within those relationships are another story

Yup. Those types of people look to be served but do not serve in return. Besides here is my perspective. If your not content with the size of the ring your significant other gifts you, then Talk! open your mouth and express to him whatever reason it is that you may not be content with the ring. There could be so many reasons behind the factvtgat he bought a small ring. Maybe he thought it was your taste, Maybe he thought it would flatter your hand better. Don't just give the could shoulder to a man becuase he didn't fullfill a shallow expectation of yours. Give him a chance to explain and if his explanation concludes that he just didn't wanna put the work in for a nicer ring then that is a deal breaker for me. At the end of the day if rather have a small modest ring but a man with a heart of gold who listens, loves, and caters to my needs. There is so much more to a man than his money.. nough said.

Or will never be proposed to

yes . shes very loud

Linny Cin You almost have to, with Adrienne on the panel. She will talk over you.

Latin are naturally loud, sometimes i even ask my mom to stop being so loud and guess what.....i ask her loudly to stop being loud😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it's just uncontrollable.

Laura Reynolds she was yelling when Adrienne wasn’t talking though.

Linny Cin She also comes off like she's trying to act like Cardi.. but thats just me. She's beautiful though!

I agree loudness is annoying. But I completely agree with her points. If a man can do better but isn't, then he isn't the one. Women need to know that they shouldn't settle. Men too.

She's a dominican ,its normal🤣🤣🤣

Some people say worthless diamond this or that. To be honest. Expensive cars or iPhone or buying any material stuff it's all because people like it. It has nothing to do with the prices. The only thing is we people all like things that look nice. Weather it's buying a Playstation or anything that don't needed in daily life. But we like it. So it's about if you want to give the significant other also what she likes and you still can love eachother and live they a family till the day your old. And small rings or no rings can also be like a big diamond no meaning. Some of you say small ring but he is good to me. No hunney. You can not tell as the big ring that small ring that your man is better. Both ways isn't true. Finally two living together and happy with eachother weather small or big. Both has nothing to do with it but it's nice to get one if he would want to get you something he could put efford in it to give you as a a reminder. You giving birth and everythjng. So give your lady something you would want to give yourself yoo

You Go Girl!! BLESSS YOUU!

Please tell these ladies what you just said :)

Get a new ring

Preach. The size of a ring does not equal how much a man loves u.

Annastacia Green-Malcolm Now that's what I'm talking about! You know what's really important when going into a marriage. All the best to you.

And if it's big that's a bonus

👎🏾👎🏾

My husband did the same thing.

Andeavor thank you and exactly. The whole concept of a diamond ring started as simply an advertisement ploy. Look up the roots and the connection between diamond rings and it’s correlation to marriage and love. “Diamonds are a girls best friend” blah blah blah. People need to THINK for themselves and live for themselves. Diamonds are worthless 🤷🏾‍♀️ and marriage is a contract nothing to do with love really. Love is personal

Agreed!

I actually heard that some real crystals or other rocks have more value than a diamond yet they're cheaper? Does anyone know if this is true :-0

Leibnizth Martin Del Campo Yep, rubies as well!

Humble Chiq wow that's so interesting! Thank you for answering my question :-)

i like a woman like you.build your home not on engagement ring, and let me add not only also spend lot of money on the wedding preparation.

So is a house. This is an entirely new argument that is a little ridiculous. You could also just put that money in the bank and let it accrue interest or invest it. This is such nonsense.

Your comment is nonsensical and I have no idea what point you are trying to make. The money you save up to purchase a ring can just go into a bank and be kept for a rainy day. Have you ever tried to sell a diamond ring for what you purchased it for, or more? As someone with 15 years in the diamond business said: "Diamonds are not an investment - they are a retail product like any other. People explain away spending thousands of dollars on a little stone because they mistakenly believe that the diamond is a solid investment. Are there any other investment classes where the person selling you the asset makes a minimum 10 percent profit margin (usually much more)? Most people would be lucky to get half of what they paid if they tried to sell a ring the day after they bought it. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that buying a diamond is a safe place to put away money for a rainy day."

Lydia B Diamonds lose 50% of value when you buy them and aren't even rare, they are just solid carbon. So that isn't even a good point cause you lose more cash than you gain.

Yesss W.S I feel u on that comment

Yeah these entitled botches need to quit lol

No they’re just the honest ones.

And sadly most of them were black. :(

@@toddleroy2772 then you're not surrounded by the right type of women because that's not the majority of women. All of my married friends, myself Included got rings under $300 and are very happy with our unique rings.

Cheyenne Michelle-Rena you’re lying to yourself. That or your man is particularly dominant.

I kind of like it for some reason

Shes beautiful, but undercuts that by being loud and tacky.

Cuz she needs BBC

She is tacky

I literally jus wondered ehy she was yelling. But I dunno maybe being in the studio or the applauding affects her hearing!

Something u can wear n public n not b afraid of getting robbed

Yes, it's very practical to have a small ring so that it doesn't get in the way when you do things

I think what she means is that he would do anything to make her happy and loved. If a big ring was what she wanted, then he'd work as hard as possible to make her happy.

What she meant is That her husband would put efford on it. And not as an excuse being cheap. You know. He should do it with a bit efford for his wife what she likes. Not just lazy and saying I don't have money or so. Because a lot lazy men comes cheap with their real reasons

Tiffany Rayne exactly

say it louder for the people in the back!

I work in healthcare and have to take my ring on and off constantly. Get me something that won't make me have a heart attack when I lose it.

I, Adaora engagement rings arent even needed. I know tons of people who just made the girls day specially and proposed without a ring. I even know women who proposed. My moms ring was super small and I always wanted it. Unfortunately she sold it. Her wedding dress cost more than her ring.

Zireling Personally, I am a bit old fashioned, in that I want to wear a ring of some kind that tells the world that a good man asked for my hand. I don't need to be there when he picks it out and I don't need to know how much it cost. But I think the man is the most important thing - how he loves you and how he cherishes you is what counts in my opinion (and everything I said before is how I feel). And he loves you by picking out what he can afford and if you truly love someone you would accept what they can afford to give you. Loved hearing your opinion.

Girl....

I agree with you. Alota the reason ppl rush into relationships and unstable marriages is becuase they're desperately wanting to feel loved and valued. We rush without thoroughly evaluating the person who were about to spend our lives with.

I, Adaora 👏👏 YES absolutely. You took the biggest hammer of logic and hit it right on the nail

nbcguitar this whole show is why almost no men are getting married honestly

They clearly said marriage is more than the wedding or the ring 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

nbcguitar Less men are getting married because women don’t want to marry

nbcguitar Men used to spend more back in the day, they are spending less now and getting married less 🤔 so ur point makes no sense

Men havent wanted to marry long before this video. I still have no idea what a man gets out of marriage anyway.

Bangtan9795 exactly

It's 2018 people don't care about that (women)

Yung activist speak for yourself, 2018 has nothing to do with being grateful for what you get

Elias that's exactly what I'm saying, size shouldn't be a make or break factor. You're literally saying the same thing I'm saying. It being 2018 doesn't play a part in the situation.

He should get her a ring that she loves and appreciates and if he wants her to wear it everyday he should take in to consideration what she actually likes and if thats a bigger rock then thats what hes gonna have to do😁

if you know your husband. then thats different.

That’s the main issue. It’s about showing off. People don’t understand that the average man makes 40k a year. A 10k ring isn’t going to work

She is, but she detracts from her beauty by being loud and gaudy.

sometimes I think that she's painted

Lek Rosa why do you think she is painted? What color do you think she should be? Sky blue? Hot pink?

Lela Robinson Sometimes I think she forces herself into black. Look at her hands. I have NEVER seen Black people with dirty hands like that. It looks like ink

Lek Rosa my grandpa has hands like that and my great grandma and I knew another black man who’s palms were completely black(he was a coal miner I think)

Roberta Benson u sound like a gold digger

Roberta Benson That's exactly what a gold digger would say

what if he can't? Then you sound like one, I'm sorry

Roberta Benson I’m glad you know what you sound like

I agree tbh

make sure to let that girl know hubby also swingin in all the right ways. ring dont mean more/less than the person behind it,, a small ring from a giant of a good man is a giant ring,,, a giant ring from a small and petty man is still a small ring.....

Yall better stop it 😂

There's a whole list of people lol

Exactly

Jenna Smith we don’t know anything about Kim K’s marriage though. You’d be better off using Beyoncè as an example. She got cheated on, Kanye has been faithful.

@@captainamerica6545 cheated on several times.

Me too! I would love ring pop

Nah at least get a band

Lizzie Robertson Thank you-you're so sweet

April Oritz lol

April Oritz my kinda girl lol

Why can’t the focus just be having a good relationship, not a ring, not looks, not a ton of money?

Bingo!

💯

Travis Brunson who cares, she isn't here

Wasn't her husband (who got her the "right" ring) arrested for hitting her? Doesn't sound like he's the right man...

Lol she would 😂

😂😂😂 totally something she would say 😩

ChrissyG ok

Some people say worthless diamond this or that. To be honest. Expensive cars or iPhone or buying any material stuff it's all because people like it. It has nothing to do with the prices. The only thing is we people all like things that look nice. Weather it's buying a Playstation or anything that don't needed in daily life. But we like it. So it's about if you want to give the significant other also what she likes and you still can love eachother and live they a family till the day your old. And small rings or no rings can also be like a big diamond no meaning. Some of you say small ring but he is good to me. No hunney. You can not tell as the big ring that small ring that your man is better. Both ways isn't true. Finally two living together and happy with eachother weather small or big. Both has nothing to do with it but it's nice to get one if he would want to get you something he could put efford in it to give you as a a reminder. You giving birth and everythjng. So give your lady something you would want to give yourself yoo

Saarti Aipinge 😂😂😂 I can't imagine a female wanting to spend a bunch of money on an engagement ring the day that actually happens is the day engagement rings will stop being a thing.

I got my husband one... But it wasn't anywhere near as expensive as mine was 😬 lol

Smyrne Hawkinson... That's amazing. But what was it something you discussed with your man before hand or you just bought it and surprised him?

Saarti Aipinge surprised him.

whygiveup11 I totally agree with you, I wouldn't want to spend bunches of money in a ring that belongs to my man either. But at the same time I feel like it would have been interesting and fair enough if a guy could just buy two rings, one for himself and the other for lady, so that they all have the sign which signifies that they are officially off market.

Absolutely.... I second you 109%

Its as simple as that!

Well it doesn't hurt to know what your future wife likes, but women should not base the relationship on what kind of ring she gets. Why should they even get a ring in the first place? Just get married and be happy with that. The ring means nothing in the long run. In my country, engagement rings aren't that common. Usually the couple gets plain matching rings for the wedding ceremony and that's it.

its a sign that you are taken and a symbol for love. i like small diamonds, but other stones. and i want a medium sized ring. not too big not too small. and my husband will know that.

Engagement ring are not that common? Where do you live? I live in a really small country in europe and engagement rings are a must for a wedding. If you want me to marry you will buy that ring. In our country you can get an engagement ring for about 80€ which is nothing. If that`s to much.....by. Wedding rings are a lot more. And you can only buy one ring and have it as engagement and a wedding ring.

NOt as much as people think. An overwhelming number of young women still want to get married.

Myronn Coleman damn you ALWAYS say that?!? How much is you talking bout rings

Myronn Coleman First of all diamonds are NOT RARE! it's just solid carbon. There are millions of diamonds in Africa. They are only expensive because a jewelry company used it as a marketing ploy for what a man should buy for his fiance in the 1920s. In other words diamonds ain't worth shit😂😂😂

jonny davis thanks for your unwanted research / input about diamonds... I didn't ask

Yeppp

Bc she's Latina haha

well thats bc they are both afrolatina

Simone Umba yep you right.

AWWW

Lol that is super cute

Miyaaa. You have fat fingers because you want to..... lose weight they won’t be fat anymore. Bullshit excuses... big or small who cares as long as it’s cute that’s all it matters. Gold digger

Liliana Santos why you right away telling someone to lose weight just cuz she mentiones having bigger fingers? 🙄

Because she's ignorant.

I have fat fingers too due to the middle bone being too wide and Im not overweight. That comment was so unnecessary.

Are you going to do the best you can for his ring? And spend just as much?

Men should run for the hills if ring size is even mentioned

MGTOW

Abdelmelik Farooq Alwahid Alahh akkbaarrr

Abdelmelik Farooq Alwahid U gay already go ur own way since u don’t like women and cover them up with a black sheet

Just get z ring

AngieMaliNos no its not

I didn't pick my ring, my husband did and he did an amazing job!!! The ring can always be added to in the future anyway

Yes! and the ring is not a representation of how much someone loves you..

It's definitely not lol.

How tf are engagement rings an American thing ??

Mara Writes You’re not. But she does have the face of a doll, though. I guess something had to give.

Damn that was deep👏👏

BOO on the ring thief

I agree, but if some women expect an expensive engagement ring then they need to contribute financially towards the ring as well. It’s so stupid that only men are expected to pay for an expensive engagement ring.

@@97I30T welcome to 2021 equality

Lol yea the ring is more important than buying a house right 😂

Aww

Alisson Gil making fun of her tiny ring? Lol 😂 Who do you work with a bunch of children jeez

What factory made women like you?