Aww that is so endearing❤

That’s adorable

YOUR ACCOUNTNAME THO LMAO 🤣

AWWW

that's like my grandpa whenever he hears of anything metal music related as i'm a massive metalhead - love supportive grandparents

Your grandpa is a treasure! Take care of him ❤

Your grandpa sounds so wonderful!

@@momamiandkiddokelsi9027he really is, I love him so much

@@sovietdoge.7369he’s really great.

He's probably senile & couldn't be bothered

That’s a quote from Julian K Jarboe, who, if I remember correctly, is Jewish

@@greyflannelsuit Makes a lot of sense, I knew it was one of three monotheistic religions. I didn't know who it was by though, so couldn't look it up. Thanks dude!

I love this quote so much ❤❤. I 100% agree with this theology, as a Christian pastor

I love that

“God made me trans because he knew if I was cis I would rule the world”

I’m so happy for you. And I love how old people can surprise us. I guess we tend to forget that they lived so long that they have probably seen all kinds of things and there isn’t a lot that can surprise them anymore

Picturing an old Irish lady berating those who misgender you is the heartwarming image I needed today !

Your grandma sounds awesome!

This warms my trans mama bear heart! Please hug your grandma for me and then hug her again and tell her she's an amazing human being! She sounds like an absolute treasure 💖

@@lalas181 Thank you! I certainly think so 😊

Most of my friends are trans/enby as well, I literally only know one person who's cis and it's hilarious now that I think about it 🤭

That is like when my best friend came out to me as bi. I told her that I no longer had a straight friend

That happened to me too!!

I was the first one in my friend group to come out sophomore year of high school, and before we graduated 2 years later, everyone else (like 9 other people) had all also come out except one person. They later came out as NB about 3 years later when they moved out from their controlling parents' home. So now I have no straight and/or cis friends from high school

😂 Thank you for sharing your story! I hope yor and your friend have a wonderful day! You both are amazing!

Aw. I hope you meet your grandad again someday, he sounds like a lot of fun.

Sounds like he was an absolute delight!

❤

Trans person with unwanted boobs here- Do you want mine? Because i don’t!

lol so true

My sister I know exactly what you mean. I went in for laser hair removal on my chest, and let me tell you, I *did not know how to feel about being bare chested*...

Honestly, for me that was puberty in a nutshell. Boobs grow = not allowed anymore to even accidentally show your nipples. So weird really.

I (mtf) was a shirtless kid. My dad hated it and always demanded I put one on. Now I wear one to cover my boobs, so he got his wish in some twisted way 😂. And if anything I love being shirtless even more now, too bad it’s not “appropriate”.

I keep telling my mother that the reason I was breech was because I was presenting the bits that were problematic. They just yeeted me out without addressing my complaints. (For context, every year for 43 years she recounts my breech birth.)

I'm running man software on woman hardware 🤣

@@KateWick1997oh boy it’s back

I can debunk your whole ideology in one sentence. "No. It's not about being who you are, it's about being who you AREN'T"

@@John-nk3ej idk if you're here to troll or what but i can say that i hope you learn and grow 🤷

That's basically what my therapist told me. She was like... you need to stop living for other people

This is what i eventually had to tell myself honestly. When i was little (about 5th grade) I started to question why i got so uncomfortable and unhappy when i was called “she/her” and how even if i was being complemented i still felt bad about being called that, and at the time I really wanted to ask my mom about why i felt that way but stopped myself because I could see that stuff made HER happy and I felt she was going to get upset with me for saying it felt wrong so I decided to keep her happy and shelf my discomfort to keep her happy. Then it wouldn’t be until i was in the 10th grade that i was able to figure out what made me happy and come to the conclusion that I couldn’t keep only trying to make other people comfortable. Its a tough pill to swallow but very important to acknowledge

that ultimately was what pushed me to transition. live as myself or die as what everyone else wanted.

Thank you for sharing! That's an enlightening thought, and I am sure that it'll help so many. I'm glad you had someone who was able to help you follow your heart and be happy! I hope you have managed to find others who are also happy for you! You are incredible! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

Were you having a conversation with this person or did they just say it out of the blue? I have an image in my head of a character in a film who just walks past and says something seemingly odd that later turns out to be wise. 😂

My ex, who is like the sweetest person ever... told me when I finally came out to them as a trans man that apparently every fem presenting person they've ever dated seriously ended up being trans. Like... boo... you got trans-dar up in there or something???

hey, this happened to me, too! after i broke up with the last person i dated, we both ended up coming out as trans a few years later 😂 fast forward a little more and she's been on e for a year now and looks amazing and i've been on t for a little more than 4 months!

Me when that one friend from childhood that I'm still friends with turns out to also be an aroace egg

For me it was friendships, but I had a longtime friend who came out as a trans man several years after I met him. Years later when I came out as nonbinary myself, I found out that another longtime friend was genderqueer, and a friend I'd recently made was nonbinary as well. People with similar lived experiences tend to gravitate towards each other, even if they're not aware of the exact reasons why.

“For some reason, Trans eggs are subconsciously drawn to each other, even if they’ve never met.”

Sometimes people need a little time to adjust to new things/ideas. Not everyone is able to adjust immediately, doesn't necessarily mean they're not supportive. Could be, they're unsure of how to act.

I'm glad she's supportive now! Also love the Toothless pfp :]

I'm so glad that your mama came around! We trans mama bears are fierce, though I think I knew my daughter was trans before she did 🏳️‍⚧️

My mom still has some doubts about my transition (and transition in general) but she's become very loving and supportive of my identity. Studies have shown that just knowing someone who is LGBTQ can make people less hateful of them, and our moms are living proof of that!! To clarify, her doubts mostly revolve around women transitioning to a different gender identity. She's concerned that those people are allowing stereotypes about what a woman is to affect them to the point that they decided to change their identities, when they could be a woman and still defy those stereotypes. She's also concerned about losing women that support feminism. I think she's starting to get it now that I've transitioned to genderfluid. Her points are valid, she's just misunderstanding why people transition in the first place. I wonder if that's what your mom was thinking before?

​@@catdownthestreeti'm in the exact same situation, only thing is that it's my dad, not my mom. He's not against me being trans per se, but he's said the "maybe it's a phase" line multiple times. It's not meant in an actual harming way, he's just worried I'll 'grow out of it' and'll regret stuff. I don't blame him, even through his phrasing is kind of... eh.

Omg yeah ik the feeling! It’s weird a third of my school think I’m a cis guy, a third think I’m a cis girl/ non binary and the last third know I’m transmasc

hey have some positive affirmations, u are a guy, just born with the wrong body

LOLLL that's funny. I hope it wasn't too uncomfortable for you.

@@ArtsyKnox25 nah, it actually made me feel rlly happy.

Correction: they didn't realize you weren't a _cis_ guy

That's so cool, my grandfather was a piece of Porcilin Thorne fodder.

That's so sweet! I'm glad you have supportive grandparents, it's so important to have people who love you as you grow and change

I'm so glad you had such positive reactions and support in your life! Thank you for sharing your story! You are amazing, and I hope others in your life have been as affirming in your journey! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🦕🦖

You must be a very young looking 28 😸

@@silverghostcat1924some transmascs look younger than they are, lol. Means they’ll age great though

If it makes you feel any better I'm a cis fem who once got carded for a balloon. They were only giving them out to people who were with their parents. I was 19...

@@dragonshadow4145 it has been interesting how I've come to view aging as "being in my favor" -- love that.

@@silverghostcat1924 I'm yet to start T, but some say I already pass long as I don't say a word 😂

I'd suspect people can just instinctively tell someone's in puberty (even if that's their second) and just connect that with teenage years.

Omg, that’s amazing 🤣 when I was in college and still thought I was a cis girl, someone thought I was in my mid-40s. I was 22 at that time. Now I’m 34 and I’ll hopefully go on T soon and I’m really curious how that’ll affect how old I look 🤣

I very much second this statement!

WOMP WOMP

​@@MrphantomMrphantomno one cares

@@ArtsyKnox25 Then why did you reply? Lmao 🤣

@@ArtsyKnox25 Womp womp

It's a good joke, just really bad timing

You are male or female Very little to figure out.If you are having other mental health issues go see a professional

I have gotten the " mame Sir mame" and also the " dude?". If I am in sweats or have a suit jacket on and shirt hair, people get confused. I am non-binary AFAB.

Last winter on the bus when I was in thick winter clothes and wore a covid mask an elderly man had a question about the bus schedule and called me “young man” and it made me so happy. I didn’t even know I was trans back then, but still. And then I was sure he’d “correct” himself once he heard my voice, but he didn’t. That was amazing 😁

@@Pa5an1 as a kid I had moments like that. I tended to let my hair grow long and wear clothes that obscured my body and got called sweetie and other things boys just didn't get called. I was pretty great.

You are a man Non binary is a made up term

I'm trans-masc enby and I definitely get the warm fuzzies when someone addresses me as sir! Also, funny story- picking up some guy after an OD and he was awake when we got there but super hyped and shouting and flaily and as I was trying to talk him down a bit to calm him down he's like "Ok. I know. I'm sorry sir....ma'am? Sir? I'm sorry, I can't tell." Then went right back to being loud and flaily. Kind of a hilarious moment to get the warm fuzzies when I'm giving someone Versed to calm down so we can get an IV established.

❤️🧡💕🪷🫡 Me, too! Even if a hystetectomy doesn't happen (though it did for me) 60 years of living can happen...(did for me). To everything there is a Season...😉🙃🌱🌷🌿🌹🪷🌾🌻🍁🍂❄️

❤

You've been that girl the whole time and I'm glad you're finally getting to show it. I'm a mom of a teenage trans girl and I'm sending mom hugs and best wishes to you and your transition! 💖🏳️‍⚧️

I'm a similar age, and similarly did not realize I was trans until a couple years ago. There will always be a part of me that wishes I could have known sooner, so I could have started transitioning earlier. However, the language and tools simply did not exist when I was growing up, and I don't know if I would have been mature or informed enough to figure things out at the time. Everyone grows at their own pace, and you're ready when you're ready. It's never too late, and you're never too old to be who you were meant to be.

I know exactly what you mean! I'm 48 and my egg just cracked a year ago. I had gotten so close to figuring it out in college, but the people I turned to for help back then didn't point me in the right direction. I wish I could go back to 14, so I could have the experience of going through high school and college as a girl. (Sure, technically "I was a girl the whole time", but I didn't get the experience of it, because that's not how people saw me, and I didn't even fully realize it myself.) Actually, I wish I could go back to age 5 or so, because at that age, I really wanted to be a Girl Scout. I still feel like I missed out on something.

I’m 34 and only figured out a few months ago that I’m a guy. It’s always so affirming to find other people whose egg cracked late, cause you see trans people who have always known so often. That was probably one of the reasons I figured myself out so late, cause “if I was really trans, I would’ve known as a kid already”. I wish you folks all the best. We got this! 😁

You are not born in the wrong body, you just have autism.

Yes! I've been saying this for years!

lol makes me think of one of my friends, a trans guy, who is carrying his first child and thinking of planning a fakeout "gender reveal" party. as in, go through all the motions like a simple one, but have the reveal color be yellow (I also suggested the trans flag, which he thought would be funny too) just to spite their more conservative family XD

@@Mangaka718 only women can get pregnant

Thanks for letting us know!! Prageru is evil and gross.

I'm glad there's a fix! I thought I was gonna have to watch that bull before great videos all the time!

@@sovietdoge.7369 Me too!

Does Jamie have a reddit, that's how we pushed it to OT? Also, anyone that wants to copy paste this to get attention to it, please do. I just want it seen.

On the positive side, she's like halfway there! Maybe sitting her down and having a talk why she feels she needs to 'correct' herself could help?

Some parents (I am one) are a bit slow. Hopefully she'll get over herself sooner than later. Please accept some mama hugs. 💙💗🤍💗💙

This happens to me a lot lol, also, ANOTHER NIRVANA FAN! What’s your favorite song, mine is aneurysm. Sorry it’s been a long time since I’ve met an actual Nirvana fan and not someone who just wears the shirt 😅

@@Dino.Nuggetsart OMG ANEURYSM IS MY FAVOURITE TOO! Sorry I just got really excited lmao. I also really like Blew and Swap Meet!!

@@YourLocalNirvanaFan yessss!! Theyre soo good

That's so precious!!

LMAO 😂

You go wild, you beast! /pos Sincerely, not Jammidodger

nothing more satisfying than going full goblin-mode on some snacks, fr fr you live your best goblin life! 💜🤍🖤🤍💚

Okay, I hear you. But counterpoint: [photo of a cat]

@@ninjoshday I will eat with my hands whith that cat

@@ninjoshday also give the cat a napkin snd fancy cat friendly versions of normal food but go goblin mode

Thank you

Thank you!!!

You too friend :3 thanks for being so nice! :D

im not but ok

So are ye, my friend

Aye fellow Jamie, Click, OT watcher that's a trans guy! Solidarity🤝

@@Bunny_Bill Trans, yes, guy, no. I do however have a case of Schrödinger's gender 🌚

@@catdownthestreet I see😨 you're too powerful, breaking the concrete of gender to the point that you can mould it like fluid😦💥

@@Bunny_Bill I am a being beyond my own understanding!

@@Bunny_Bill LMAO, gender is a non-Newtonian solid. solid when pressure is applied, fluid when at rest.

I look forward to this day for you, my friend. Sending trans mama bear hugs and best wishes to you! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

you'll get there. if I could swap you, I'd give you the beard I don't want.

Best of luck on your journey! 💙💗🤍💗💙

Don't be influenced by him...get some therapy..there are better ways to live your life. He does this for money

@@MikeSteele-gt7td I don’t care- leave my comment alone

Congratulations on coming out and on having a kick-ass, supportive family!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

Thank you!!

That's so awesome dude! Good luck man ❤

Congratulations

I feel the same way! … kinda… there *are* times I wonder… but then I think about being referred to as a different gender, and I get this weirdly adverse reaction that makes me feel like what I think dysphoria might feel like…? It’s a curious thing, but I’m a cis woman for sure. With that in mind, I have a best friend from when I was literally still a toddler in preschool, and he and I grew up thinking we were both cis, just happened to be tomboys. Mainly because that was the only term we had. Once we were older and had the term trans, he figured himself out, and came out to me. After that I wondered a bit, and eventually settled on being cis after an interaction where someone online called me sir, and my immediate reaction was to correct them, even though at the time I was testing out nonbinary/gender fluid online, and felt really uncomfortable when I didn’t correct them… and in that moment I knew I was cis. All this to say, both my best friend and I were “tomboys” growing up, but, after having the term trans, only one of us turned out to be an actual boy all along. Proof that telling someone about trans people won’t make someone trans. It’s innate and something you know. It’s just hard to figure out until you try to go by different pronouns and learn if you like them or not.

That’s actually really good to know. I figured out I’m a trans guy super late and just a few months ago. I was a “tomboy” too, absolutely hated what puberty did to me but I didn’t even know about trans people until I was an adult, I just thought all afab people hated being afab cause patriarchy or whatever. And I always loved when someone thought I was a boy/man. It only happened a handful of times in my life, but I remember each of them fondly

Yep, it sure is and I love that the bigot was left confused and hopefully annoyed while the person who left the message got joy out of it. p.s. yeah having it can be super annoying

Also happens with Autism.

Congratulations on starting T! The day my trans daughter started her HRT was a big day and being with her during her transition has been so joyful. We get to celebrate her first "girl birthday" in a couple of months! Mom hugs to you!!

That's a lucky coincidence

@@ninjoshday Fr

You mean confused and attention seeker

lmao at least you get a confirmation people think you're nice

Best wishes and trans mama hugs to you for a smooth transition!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

@@hellokristi Thank you so much. I have found myself feeling happier since I figured myself out.

Indeed for I too have found meeting hate with indifference tends to render the hater confused. And confused is good because confusion causes folk to think.

In my country we get a passport at 14 :D This means that before this age you'd need an another, international passport to travel abroad, and a birth certificate to deal with other stuff that usually require a passport tbh I thought this system was everywhere so I'm a bit surprised that some never heard of it

In Germany you get your ID card (sufficient for travel within most of Europe) between 14 and 16, before that, a simpler 'children's pass' is enough. For further traveling, an internationally recognized passport is needed regardless of age afaik.

Best of luck to you, good sir. Congratulations on coming out and I hope it goes well! Big trans mama hugs to you!! 💖🏳️‍⚧️

Good luck❤

Thanks to both of you! 🏳️‍⚧️

I (European) have a Brazilian coworker who supports Bolsonaro and is also very catholic and almost 50. I came out as trans to everyone at work last week and she was among the people I expected to show at least some signs of transphobia, but she’s been super supportive. Today she messaged me cause she noticed my birth name on some work document and asked if I want it changed, then we talked a bit about my transition and she asked some questions and told me how things are for trans people in Brazil and all. I’m not even close with her and we even had some arguments in the past, so I was surprised. So I wish you the best of luck, but I’m sure she’ll be accepting :)

My 17-year-old trans daughter gets hit on by older male customers a lot. It is super creepy, but she calls it "eewphoria." Hopefully, in spite of the creep factor, it is still enby-affirming for you!

We know but at least I am just like:oh no, I hope it isn't too hard for them pain-wise etc...

Congrats, mines on the way.

YOOO BINDER POG

Based, good luck with everything fam. Any haters are just miserable with themselves and insecure