Exactly my girl was texting a guy co-worker and never toll me. She was acting weird for 3 months that make me think she was up to something found out she was texting a guy friend super late at night. I called the guy and he most likely lie to my face. and mentioned nothing was going on. She broke up with me saying I did not trusted her. I know she was up to something and she did once she left me. I hope i never get to see her again.

Both partners have to be transparent and open communication. I was extremely open and honest with my partner and she accused me of cheating still. I even have her full access to my phone at any time and she still accused me. Tore my heart apart. Finally dumped her when she gave me an ultimatum

Well said Ms.Alfi

100% correct👍

Thank you very much

What if the other person was only talking to his co-worker? That's why you need to talk and LISTEN

​​@@elianas5374 stay away from coworkers no married men should not have their female coworkers number. One thing lead to another Self awareness is key And let me add that actually some people behavior are so suspicious that it can turn a secure person into somebody that dont trust you anymore .

​@@noneofyourbuizness tf.

Well said

💔

Insecurities kill all when you program your mind for never then NEVER will be the outcome

Can’t agree more !

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@Kara Mira u should go to jail you are a horrible person to be in a relationship with i hope your husband dose break off with u and dose type someone else because you show no trust your not supposed to monitor your husband like a child u have to trust him or your just gonna push him away without knowing it.

@@karamira7809 qa

Nothing involving 2 people is ever simple, but good point.

So hide that I’m texting some one instead of us being comfortable talking to other people in front of each other GOT IT

Great

Yes! True!

but what if that “insecurity” is the very thing protecting you

​@@sagewatlington9238insecurity and intuition are two different things

If your partner are insecure so its your job that to be secure them in relationship…🌸

just get a divorce

​@@sagerealestate101Sorry for writing such a long story. The reason why I am sharing all this is to tell you that if you are in a controlling relationship, please come out of it right now. I'm a 27 years old man. My mind is in so much pain. 2 months ago, in an extremely distressing and painful emotional situation, I hit my head against the headboard of my bed. Actually, that same day in the afternoon, I was with my girlfriend that I love so much. She always shared her talks with her other male coworkers and I was absolutely okay with that. I never showed any insecurity. Now almost 2 months ago, I was sitting with her in a resturant, and showed her the profile picture of my PhD female class fellow from whatsapp. And guess what? In a very disrespectful manner, she left the resturant immediately. That phd classmate of mine is married and has a daughter too. From afternoon till midnight, I kept on explaining to my girlfriend through whatsapp that my classmate is already married and I only talk to her in a very formal way. In the resturant, she had herself checked my messages and discovered nothing flirty or informal. I even sent my girlfriend the voice messages of that girl that the conversation was purely academic, related to phD classes. She did not listen at all and said extremely hurtful things. I don't know what happened to me that night, my girlfriend I loved so much not listening to me at all and showing apathy drove me insane and I smashed my head against the headboard of my bed in my room. Now I have a minor cut on my forehead. People can't really notice it but I so much wish it fades away over time. It has impacted my self esteem quite negatively. All the time, I am conscious of myself. Every morning I wake up and get scared by seeing myself in the mirror as it reminds me my disturbing situation. I repeatedly keep on asking myself questions like how could I do that to myself. But believe me, that moment was emotionally intensely suffocating and stressful for me. I wanted to scream alot to ease my pain that night but did not wish to disturb my parents. She used to tell me that men praise her beauty and I always showed no insecurity and laughed and told her that yes she deserves this appraisal. Don't know how could she show such mistrust while my conversation with my phd classmate was purely academic related to research work. Another important thing to mention here is that I have never ever checked the phone of my girlfriend till this very day. I always valued trust above everything.

@@user-pl1ki3ok6g Wow, i found this today and i am deeply moved. I know that you don t know me, but I just have to say that I m so sorry you experienced that. It s hard and I hope that you are in a better place now. Please take care of yourself

The Revenant People usually say trust..... I think loyalty is the key factor. Trust is the byproduct of loyalty With loyalty you will create trust. Trust is earned Loyalty is what we give to earn it

So true

@@inaaranur1611 Everything you said,EXACTLY!!!

But what happens when the trust is broken by the person whom u trusted more than yourself.... is it possible to trust them again??

@@suprademon6905 That's a really good question.

Dude, thank you for making this comment. People usually side step this fact, so they can do what they want.

He was literally texting a friend from work, her being female doesnt say anything, not everyone things men and women cant be friends and checking your so's phone is fucked up and shows u dont trust them although he didnt do anything that would be normally getting someone to be distrustful so its definitely her problem.

Raystee I KNOW RIGHT!- I don’t get why these people are attacking the man rather than the woman for not respecting her space!

Definitely true.

totally agree.

So you can’t have friends then. Fucking pathetic. Hope y’all never get with a guy

@@spaghettiioassassin8151 you should be able to have friends as long as there are barriers placed then overtime y pi infant trust them. That is the exception.

@@spaghettiioassassin8151 Totally true. Society is making people distrusting each other. Literally, how we can trust others when we hear stories full of negativity, that life is hard and mean, that we should look for a proof all the time. When someone has the problem and they speak to friends, the first reaction of the most of the people:Just dump him. I have came to the point, that I would rather be the stupid and naive one, than to spoil something potentionally beautiful. Thats not the way to live.

Jilin Joseph I totally agree. If they ask you something you should answer, not askin them back your question and not answering theirs. If I want my boy to be secure I will tell him everything that he wants to know. No place for insecurity

plus the answer from the guy "i leave, its not you concerned" its exactly what a cheater would do. Cheater attack their partner when they feel trap into a bad moment

Keep quiet

😄😄😄WOMAN HIS PHONE WAS HIS PRIVACY SAME AS YOURS IF YOU TRUST UR BF WHY YOU NEED TO KNOW EVERY DETAILS OF HIS PHONE 😄😄😄UR CRAZY

**ugh so true. Like my boyfriend knows all my friends and i share them with him. But he won’t do the same back... I’m so confused sometimes.

Right. Then your girlfriend will ask you why you only text that girl when you're alone? What are you hiding? (I speak from experience.)

If one has to play games to keep her sane ~ then ditch her !!

If texting makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell her about this. If she then loses the plot, then ditch her !! Sane adult to sane adult is the only way to go !!

@@lisazorro979 Amen Lisa. Sanity is absolutely key. I will never understand why people want to be in relationships that drive them insane.

I agree. Or when shes not there if she doesnt know her too

Yes exactly

It's is disrespectful just amagen you doing it to her always on your fon have a few nights that don't need fons just each other good luck

Almost always disrespect, and when it wasn’t, he should have politely explained why.he was doing this.

and visa versa

he already said that she's a friend of work nothing else

@@goldbeanie9638 however , the key of any relationship which is confidence and peace of mind are not there , it will be such a drag

If I feel that I can't trust my partner, I would rather walk away and do some reflection. Is it my past relationship that has fuelled that insecurity or is it his action that has aroused my suspicion? I would not enjoy going round suspecting anybody. I want to sit back and relax to enjoy the relationship.

Cristina Wisniewski oh no you wouldn’t want someone to look at your phone even if you have nothing on you’d still be defensive

It's possible that this isn't the first time she's brought something like this up and he has tried being reasonable about it on other occasions. He could be tired of answering all of the questions and reassuring her again and again. I have no problem being totally open and honest about anything in a relationship, but sometimes the accusations can get frustrating.

Neha Gurung Ri8 said... He's an amazing man! 😍

Lmao foh going through my phone

nc song astha 😍

me too😢

Yup! I spent some time with my mom yesterday and my girlfriend thought I was spending time with my ex-girlfriend at my mom’s house because my mom made a comment once that she would like to catch up with my ex. I was appalled that she would even think such a thing and it turned into a fight that lasted several hours last night. It’s very disheartening when you didn’t do anything and the other person is damaged.