When you listen to Jocko too much: you expect the first answer to be 'Brazilian Jiu Jitsu'.

TELL HIM TO WAKE UP AT 430 IN THE MORNING?! HAHAHAHA DUDE I LOVE ECHO CHARLES’ HUMOR! Always subtle but piquant

Start dating his mom; works everytime.

It's not your job to deal with a jealous ex. It's hers. If she doesn't, then bounce.

You tell him Jocko is your Dad 🤣

"What do you think I'm gonna tell em" ... " probably to wake up at 430 in the morning" got me dying haha

“don’t wrestle with the pig in the mud because you’ll both get dirty but the pig will like it”.

Jocko definitely has a crazy ex girlfriend named Jessica... and so do I and this is helping me to laugh it off. Thank you Jocko. To hell with Jessica's antics

None of this is worth a gym rat. She's still into the ex and she's using the new guy to get the ex jealous. Move on. Shell just drag you down to her level. Shell never lift you above where you currently are.

There is definitely a flattering feeling a girl gets by having a guy jealous over her, BUT if she really values the man she’s with and not that old relationship she’ll cut him off, swallow the debt he owes and call it a stupid tax on herself for being dumb enough to lend someone money who is irresponsible. She should not allow this to plague her current relationship unless she likes to have that attention and drama which is definitely a thing. I speak as a woman in a great marriage, I would NOT put up with this guy if I was truly into the one writing in the question. Lamb until Lion necessary

“Give me a second…probably tell him to wake up at 4:30?” Lol Echos funny as hell

Step 1: File a police report about the stalker so you have stuff on file that can be referenced in legal proceedings later. If he ever commits a crime or tries to sue you himself, having that file in the cops' computers, complete with timestamp and all, will be really helpful.

I’ll pass on any woman with a jealous ex boyfriend my friends are either in the slammer or in the ground most times she’s using you to make him that way.

Girl is obviously not over the guy or she wouldn't let this happen. Imagine if the roles were reversed, and how she would act in that situation. The guy in this scenario really needs to think about his priorities.

Echo's little "...probably tell 'em to wake up at 4:30 in the morning..." mumble had me rolling lol

To know that "other people see the crazy behaviour" is such a silent assassin in this situation....because when you are in the situation, it feels so isolated. I've had a similar scenario happen, and it took 5yrs for observers (not even friends) to come out n say "I was so impressed with how you dealt with that situation. You didn't get dragged into the weeds with it, you held strong, you kept your integrity"

Damn, first half is expected "no factor" Jocko stuff, and then in the second half the REAL GOLD is on the table. Most likely the regulars at the gym are like "oh shit Jessica got a new boy to do drama about"

You have one simple question to ask her: How much is the debt? The answer will lead you to what you should do. It's either a small enough debt that she should let it go, but isn't (why is that??) or a large enough debt to make her story seem logical and sensible (why would she loan someone THAT much money??) Either way, seems like it is not worth it. Not to be "tough guy" but the whole taking pictures of my car and sending them to her or whatever would REALLY piss me off. I grew up down the street from a psycho neighbor who threatened my mom both verbally and physically so I take nut job behavior like that very seriously. I'd get rid of the girl, or make her get rid of the guy...and to be honest, you shouldn't have to do the latter. If she hasn't done it, you need to ask yourself why.

Yeah, even as a female i think I'm in line with a lot of male commentors here, stating if she's not clear of baggage before she's jumping into the next relationship, it's not a good thing. I've known girls like that who jump back and forth between relationships bc they can't get rid of the drama until they've realized they need to be the one to cut all ties to the ex and let it go, regardless of what the hang up is.. the hang up is ONLY THERE because they STILL want the drama and they're not done with it yet. However, on the other hand, if this other guy is actually a threat and stalking her too, not just following you around, then consider regardless of if there is a new boyfriend she's got hanging around, the old boyfriend MIGHT be dangerous to her either way, and need to be reported to the police!!!!! Maybe she's coming to you for safety bc she doesn't know what to do and she thinks another male will scare him off. Maybe he's already been abusive and that's why she trying to leave him!!!! I also had a friend go through that similar situation. The new male in her life was a breath of fresh air for her bc she was so used to being treated like crap, and verbally and emotionally abused, that she kind of had to get out of it for a couple months to realize what a shit hole she was in.. but then had to go back to finalize things and break off all ties... but only after the ex started getting physically violent with her. And she DID have to call the cops!

Stalking = unstable and potentially dangerous. The idea that her debt may be more important than her BF's safety is astounding.

Never shit where you eat.. Greatest advice I've ever gotten...!

As soon as he said he is badmouthing him and his workout buddy, I immediately thought, “Then there’s a 2 vs 1 opportunity.”

Jocko! I'm working out now because of you.

Agreed with Echo, I think a girl would 100% cut off an ex if she really cared about her current relationship. She wouldn’t sacrifice her current relationship over drama of her past, and because she seems like she is, unless she’s incredibly insecure, she seems like a passive participant promoting the drama.

Very Good advices🔥

Love this! Echo cracks me up “it’s in play” 😂😂🇺🇸

Taking the high road is being strategic. Love it jocko

This is great advice!!

The advice I needed when I was young, thanks Echo for taking care of the young among us

Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen

Love the new shirts dudes🤘🤘

Wouldn't the easy solution be to block and move on? A lot of guys don't see the trap of making a girl your world. It's a loser mentality

The jokes in this comment section are often awesome but a quick serious observation - full credit to Jocko for how proportionate and wise this answer is. Drama people and genuine fixated behaviour can go real bad - be calm but be careful is superb advice in so many scenarios.

what a great answer of a mature Man! Thanks

Wow! Don’t be paranoid, take the high road, don’t be naïve! Great words of wisdom form jocko!

*Jocko Willink is the Reluctant Leader we need.* .....We know you've done enough, but your Nation needs you. 🇺🇸 *2024* 🦅

This guy is stalking him, pretty sure it's illegal. I would definitely check up on both sides to see if they are both nuts. This is probably not the first time this has happened so other people closed to them will probably have that information. Also if your source is a female or someone really close to him you might need multiple sources especially if it is one of her party buddies. I have seen the drama addicted females be a large part of this stuff far more than I would have thought possible.

ECHO 😂🤣 Tell him to wake up 430 in the morning LMAOOOOOO

The wisdom I needed.

I have to Many options to put up with Drama from a woman and ex . .kick Rocks

Needed this a month ago 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

_"He was a habitual line-stepper.."_

When I was single I never dated men from places I didn't want to give up like the gym, Sunday school class, work. In this case I think it's the girl, I would forget about the money and block the guy, I wouldn't date a guy who needs money from me.

Sadly dating and getting to know woman nowadays involves dealing with insecure petty jealous dudes. There's a lot of hyper sexual insecure guys/chics who only goal is to get laid and get attention. In reality it's the minority of people but sometimes it doesn't feel that way.

Shiiiiiit.... I had a stalker for 12 years. I don't like drama, the courts ruled a restraining order against him in 2 countries... PHEW! This was very validating. Don't be paranoid and don't be naive. Thank you.

New women are all over the place. Usually she's not worth it and Jockos right, they thrive in the chaos. You don't want to smoke some dude sneaking around your yard in the AM over a girl

Good advice. I had to take the high road very recently

I'd say I don't even care, and walk away, and make him look even dumber, while keeping an eye on him. Making him feel like nothing, a menial zip, notta, nothing.

Jocko needs to be our Commander in Chief

"So what do you think I'm gonna say ?" "Ehh, gimme a minute, idk, tell him to...idk, tell him to wake up @ 4:30 in the morning" _L M F A O_ yo that shit killed me.

This really does work.

Just show up with Jocko and have him stare at the jealous ex boyfriend for one minute straight. He will never bother anybody ever again

I agree completely.

Her: “oh no I think my ex is at the door pls help” Me (puts on Origin gi): “*GOOD*”

Echo nailed it

Your girlfriend has a jealous ex? GOOD.

Jocko got this one 100%. Damn good answer!

Like the colour Jocko and Echo.

Had that situation happen to me, he told everyone for two states how he was going to killed lol. I told the authorities just to cover my back. He did approach me in a parking lot. I told him to think real hard this is not going to end well. The authorities know if he hurts me is reported if I hurt him it was self defense. Once I got him to think it was over. Great vid thanks

Ironically i clip the notification for this at the gym. At 4:34 💪

AS you get older and wiser you will realize to always take the high ground , more than likely the girl you're dating is more drama than the ex jealous boyfriend .

It makes a lot of terrific sense to do what Jocko Willink is explaining to do. It would definitely work. Because taking the high ground would effectively work. Handling things by taking the low ground doesn"t make sense because it would worsen the situation.

Don't date women who stay in contact with ex's who owe them money but act crazy af.

Dang I want those shirts!

How do I deal with my wife’s boyfriends?

I am so glad Jocko brought up paying his debt. (depending on the amount and the person's financial situation) it is a test for the girl and that answer is really important. And it is another way of taking the high ground, and putting yourself in a positive spot. Money isn't as important as peace. even if you have to give her some money each month to get the dude gone. $400 bucks for peace of mind and this person is gone? I would make that deal all day.

Love Jocko

Lol 😂 in Echos analogy toward the end, did he just reply to Jocko's, "are you gonna get your ass beat right now?" By saying, "yeah, i run that risk." 😂😂😂 oh, Lord, Echo. You guys crack me up.

Usually, if youre dealing with a jerk, you arent going to get your money back once you break it off with him. When i broke up with my ex, he owed me 500 and i didnt even bother asking for it back because it would have been a waste of my breath. I blocked him on everything. These guys actually make a good point, maybe her holding onto the 400 dollars thing and continuing to have contact with him could be a sign "jessica" is shady

Echo is such a badass. Jocko is such a badass. Even as badasses they conclude the best attack is to take the high ground. Take the high ground but don't be naive. And don't let those creeps bother good women.

Jocko doesn’t strike me as someone who would call the cops lol

It smells like narcissism and you're being triangle .

In all these relationship videos, the girls name is “Jessica” which cracks me up every time because my girl’s name is Jessica😂

The owing money thing is bs. Tell her to completely cut ties with dude or you & her are done. Then completely ignore dude.

My ex owes me thousands. I still broke off all contact.

Also you can just tell your girlfriend you don't need that stuff in your life and she needs to properly defuse the situation. Tell the guy the same thing straight off the bat. Tell them to work out their bullshit before involving you in their life.

I love how Jocko acts ego. 😁

Leave her until her drama and baggage is sorted out.

It’s simple file a restraining order or don’t involve yourself in it at all. Once you deal with an ex especially the one who’s possessive you’re dealing with irrational actions.

Good advice, as not everyone is a BJJ instructor!

An incredibly proportional response

12:50 Yeah, I have several times (and this is why I clicked on this video) start talking with a girl and she's single to my best knowledge and sometimes I am unaware of an ex or sometimes she recently broke up with him but I'll text her and then I'll get some super jealous angry text from her number "Why are you texting my girl this??!" and if it happens once.. Ok MAYBE.. he was there for some reason and took her phone.. but if it happens multiple times I feel like she wants him to see it and she's allowing him to take her phone and it's totally the girl. It's very common it's a "low brow" thing .. low brow, low vibration whatever you wanna call it. It's something that those kind of people like to do. They like drama.

Relationship issues are the most common reason people are unable to purchase certain equipment and also go to Jail. Walk away from toxic people early and completely.

Yes

I've shut down jealous ex boyfriends real quick. But I've gotten jealous of exes in the past. Being 19-22 and dating girls my age who have been with dudes in their 30s. Probably picked the wrong girls. But that drove me up the wall. Jealous current bf lol

When jocko mentions the baggage, I have actually been there. That's why I know think it is better to get to know someone before you date them and not go straight ahead every single time. Specially in an environment you are not familiar with, like a new town.

The girl is the one stirring up drama 100%. Bro doesn’t have all the facts and is naive to how manipulative women can be.

Echo: tell them to wake up at 4:30am 😂

Jacko has a valid point. She could be baiting you. There’s an entire world or people that are not right out there.

The back of one is the front of another!!LOL

I just imagine Dana White’s “that’s fucking illegal” clip on every interaction between the guy and the ex 😂😂

Been there. The owes her money thing is BS. It's an excuse for a line of communication. He should leave that situation.

Hire a private detective.

Restraining order.

Echo is right

Echo Charles knows!

I’ve had this exact situation. Leave. IMO. It’s never been the other guy in my anecdotal experiences.

Had both my tires slashed so they definitely have issues.

It's funny and aggravating 🤣 and that makes them crazy. Yes. Issues. Try to stay away from an angry man. Serious.

Do an extra three sets and take full responsibility.