To all the lonely people out there i give a big embrace i feel your pain i live with it too you all matter and are special.

I've been a loner all my life. Ive never had confidence and have always been socially awkward. Then once someone accepts me, I get to attached too easily which usually doesn't turn out well. And it becomes a never ending cycle.

Too many young people feeling so lonely. Unfortunately loneliness is a part of growing old all to often (children not having time for you, divorce, death of a spouse but loneliness should NOT be a part of youth. Praying for everyone who is lonely 🌹🌸💞

Hope this helps someone. I set goals. I have coffee with friends. I redecorate a room or a renovation. Taking up a musical instrument. Exercising at a gym or some type of regular exercise. Getting books from the library to read. Realizing we are not alone. A lot of people going through the same thing.

When I joined a church group( I'm not religious either ) I didn't feel as lonely . There are very friendly supportive people there .

yeah ur right it is the worst feeling.... I've been like this for months n it feels like forever... I just wana escape now.

1) Reach out to someone! what a BS. I am alone, so how can I reach out to someone!!! alone person means he/she knows no body., do you know what does alone mean? That is why I do not listen to those people because they do not know what they are talking about. They are not empathetic (not been in someone's else shoes)

So true loneliness is harsh. I try to keep positive

When I feel lonely i go to hair salon, shopping center, listen some happy music, I clean my room, I watch comedy movies, walk, do yoga, I’m learning new language...

"itty, bitty, shitty committee! Lol!.....indeed. laughed so hard when she said that!

my own negativty eats at me alot. must be why i feel like crap alot. its hard to be my own best friend because i dont know how to be a friend. see, thats my insecurity. i feel unworthy.

Kinda feel the same, I'm socially awkward and I'm trying to change. Hope it gets better for me in the future.

This is advice for someone who is lonely for a day. Long-term loneliness can almost be chronic. Just be positive is not good advice. You have to fight, and fight hard to stay positive otherwise the negativity just tends to creep back in from the periphery..

Do something that keeps your mind off from telling you you’re lonely. Take time off from social media, and do whatever is good for your soul.

I feel so lonely and sad. I am not doing anything to help myself, instead I just start to cry because of my miserable existence, thinking everyday that no one needs me. I have social anxiety and it's hard living with it. I spend too much time in the Internet watching KZfaq videos, but what else can I do? I don't want to stair at the wall because I never do anything, and I stoped even caring about my future and my hobbies😭, this is one of the worst Christmas I had and I don't feel loved at all💔

I am feeling alone at every single time.. i am reading , i am working, i am talking with my friends but i dont feel good. i am still feeling alone.

It is such a strong feeling that it make u overthink. I lived large part of my life lonely even i have so much loving people. But this comes from within

There is one who sticks closer than a brother. Jesus. I am lonely sometimes but God is just a breath away and gets me through it.

help me I feel lonely cause I don't fit in with my friends

Reading these comments actually help I been going thru the same thing

Sometimes loneliness make us deppress...

Share your feeling with someone , If there is no one to talk, talk to oneself, It surely helps.We don't know it but let me tell you ,"I" am my best friend, this best friend never fails oneself , but we people always look for others by ignoring the self.

feeling lonely feeling helpless

i feel so lonely sometimes :( maybe bc i am depending on someone but doesnt satisfied me with love and support . naaaaaaaah ! idk , or maybe im just too dramatic sometimes :( being introvert is hard .

I believe the lack of community connection is the #1 reason people are so lonely nowadays.

those tips are great for primare loneliness... but what about a deep one?

Its been almost 7months since my break up. I still feel lonely and suffocated sometimes...

There seems to be a lot of people that have watch this video and reached out I would love to figure out a way to get people to gather that are struggling with loneliness Does anyone have any suggestions

I was never knew that i m going to be the victim of this...but wanna to be happy again

I used to feel lonely all the time and with that came anxiety and depression and now I want to help people feel less lonely nobody should feel lonely very good tips and i really like that you are helping people

How i wish i can get out this loneliness. No one i can reach out.

When i get in them crying moods and lonely I scream and cry and soak my pillow with tears ✌🏼😢

I'm lonely because my mother said to me "always be yourself". I have always done this and people don't like my personality. Which is open honest and fairly humorous. It seems people form unofficial gangs, not true friendships.

Let me give people a tip U should give yourself time Say one whole day and think like what am i best at what could be the thing i can do that nobody can Maybe like Dancing Cooking Vloging Magics Songs writing Journalist and many others Then u create a goal like i can achieve this and i want to be like this Then u sorround yourself with those people with same interest And Chase that dream You can truely get out of loneliness Believe me

The voice in my head which tells me negative things even has a name and it's Cheryl.

With this Covid 19 I have spent many months isolated to myself. I have a cat, and that helps. I also talk to God and do things like writing Christian books and that has helped me a lot. Also I lived 9 or 10 years in the mountains of northern California in cabins, so I am accustomed to a certain amount of isolation and loneliness. Also at night I listen to some Christian KZfaq videos that are talk downs and help me to find mental comfort. When I was 19 I had a severe mental breakdown but with help back then and experience in life, I have done pretty good alone. I do like occasional one on one conversation rather than a lot of noisy crowds. I do have my times and my struggles, but I have found that the Lord helps to bring me through those periods and returns me to an inner quietness. When God speaks, He often speaks in a "still small voice" and I hear Him better when I am quiet. Still people are created as relational beings. We need time with others in particular someone of the opposite sex. When God created Adam, He gave him the job of classifying all the animals but there was no one comparable for Adam. Then God said, "It is not good for man to be alone." So He created Eve. When Adam first saw Eve, he said, "At last! This is bone of my bone and flesh. She shall be called woman...." So it is not good to be all alone, but for me it can be lonelier being around people too. Thank you for your video. I am concerned that as I get older I will be alone and I am not sure what that will be like for me. I am somewhat self sufficient and hope that I will be able to manage my life even as an older person. My best friend will always be Jesus. Without Him you have not a hope or a prayer, but with Him you become a child of the living God.

i kept on losing my school friends and peoples i loved and finally i had no one, but a girl found me. meeting her was like listening to a song for the first time and i knew it was gonna be my favorite. thankfully we were together, i was the happiest, i had a legit reason to live and to be happy being alive, but suddenly she said she lost feelings for me, she doesnt wants to be with me, when i told her i love her she said i sound pathetic. and i am not able to talk to her since then and i miss her so bad, i love her so bad but i know this is wrong, i cant make her happy because she doesnt loves me anymore and she has lots of peoples to talk to and she is a good girl and has lots of friends but just knowing she is happy without me makes me feel relieved for some reasons that i dont even know. i will be able to talk to again after 6 years because she told me to come back then, i will do that just to let her know i love her. i decided to make her the last person i love, i dont want to be in love anymore but i love her so bad, i am sure i will be happy seeing her happy, ofcourse i will feel sad because its not me but still she made me feel alive more than anyone or anything else, so i will always keep her inside my heart. i wont love anyone except her, i wont have any relations with other persons. atleast i have someone to love unlike before when i had no one and everyone left me. i just wish everyone will always be happy and i had powers to disappear and when i disappear everyone who knows me will lost every memories of me and will not be able to tell if i existed.

Thankyou 😀 for making this world 🌎 a better place

There is light at the end of the tunnel....I have been so called lonely most of my life, but now, after soaking myself with the word of God, attending church, and tons of personal development information, BABY, LIFE IS GOOD, AND I AM WORTHY. Learning to love yourself is stepping into the 5th dimension...loneliness is a 3rd dimension illusion. Self Pity is Addictive

Let me tell u something thats really gonna help Find a purpose of doing something u like Take a day to look up for ur passion and push yourself to the limits sky is your limit For eg. if u choose dancing viist institutions partners videos etc and chase dream

I just feel that social media like Facebook and Instagram and video games have really messed with my mental health and make me feel lonely. I usually feel pretty depressed so I have deleted Facebook and Instagram and have taken a break from gaming. I will see if this works.

I'm not gonna lie but I cried when I watched this. I don't even know why I cried. but I have been feeling lonely without any clear reason. everytime I am in my room (I live alone in a house-dorm) I always wanted to go home. for the last 5 months I didn't feel it because there are 2 other people in this house-dorm. but now they both moved out, I am alone here. Friends in college does help me to forget about this loneliness,but after I got back to my room, I always want to go home like crazy, I want to meet my family so much, I really want to cry all the time and just sleep all the time so I could forget this pain. but it is so hard... I really don't know what to do at all..

Thanks I was feeling lonely. Most of my family is in a different state.

you know the feeling when you've been in bed all day not wanting to get out, just want to lay there forever and cry because you have nobody? family doesn't support, don't have any friends, depression and anxiety rule me. I procrastinate all the time, I feel so so lonely and I wish I never existed and everything and everybody sucks. can't reach out to anybody because I have nobody. seeing others live a great life makes me feel so sad. have sucidical thoughts often, because I feel like there's no meaning to this life. build a relationship with myself? tell me how do I build a relationship with myself when I hate myself to the core? I know nobody is gonna read this but okay

Feeling lonely and broken 💔

I hope for all of us that one day we will be brought into a beautiful life that makes us at peace ☮️ and we are overjoyed with nothing but happiness 😊 and love 💗. I love 💕 you all.

every time i try to talk to someone of my family they start talking too or they give me a task .....i never feel they're interrested at all eventhough i always listen to them .that's why i keep my self away from them......and my friend ....well the're not real friend all they do is judje me ...

I dont have any friends, even when i want to go out i have nobody to hangout with and i sucks

Reach out to someone??????? There IS NOONE! That's what lonely is!!!!!!

I feel lonely cuz i miss my sister. :((

Go outside. Get FRESH AIR. Have a walk around the block. Hold the door for someone, say hello to the busdriver, the cashier, a passerby 🌻🍁🌷 Smile at people. Smile at yourself. Know there are others who are also lonely. Wish them well. Know there are others much, much worse off than yourself. Self-talk positively to yourself. When you get home, write down 5+ reasons why you should be thankful. Stick the note to the bathroom mirror and repeat the list aloud when you get up and when to go to bed 🌹 La vita e bella 🙋

I was born in Paraguay, grow up in Argentina and now I live in USA. Is hard, I feel lonely most of the time.

My ex hurt me so bad he made me feel so great and happy and now that he broke up with me I'm so lonely and sad

This is tripe. Most lonely people have no one available to reach out to. That is why they are lonely. They may be stuck at home with disability, for instance. What good is cultivating self love if it is not able to be shared and reflected back from others? Instead of giving lonely people advice they may not be in a position to follow, why not encourage communities to seek out lonely people and offer some company? Yeah, I get it. No one's got time.

Long term loneliness saps the confidence and you become so socially paralised that little or no change can be made...

I liked that quote tho from your friend 👌✌

Not so easy to do when you're depressed I have no friends I have no Pals and I'm lonely depressed and questioning everything and getting nowhere

i live in a hostel and lonliness is the worst

Jodie Aman? I beg to differ. Jodie Awoman!

I have social anxiety in school I'm very shy and quiet many people judge me whenever a teacher picks on me to answer a question I blush (turn red) everybody stares and sometimes laughs people call me "quiet" and "shy" I have no friends in school my 2 friends well they... ugh well one of them was using me because when her friend was "sick" from school she came running back to me and my stupid self said yes... she left me the next week she's done it for months now and it's made me develop loneliness and depression and my other friend she just made other friends and left me... it annoys me because she always talks about how all of her friends betrayed her and how she has such a bad life but she's so confident and she has so many friends like 3 or something 😭 somebody tell me what to do...

I have 1 friend... n can u give more examples of improve rlsp with urself... n doing things wit purpose...

I did !! Over no words ( but that's Ok

Loneliness causes Languishing which goes hand in hand with lack of motivation....It's a vicious cycle..The only way out is to do something no matter how small to make yourself happy......I took up painting....

I have no appetite and want to sleep all day!

realised that its true 😊

it's not that easy......

Which comes first: Being alone or indulging the thoughts of loneliness in your brain? I think it is the thoughts that you choose too indulge yourself in, followed by the existential state of loneliness. If instead one thinks about what they can do for someone else then goes out where other people are in need one will get involved helping others. If you are obsessed about your own needs, about what you need for other people to do for you, then you will not like yourself because you will realize that you are engaged in selfishness, and other people will not like someone so engaged. You will spiral downwards into self hate.

I’m very lonely and I’m thinking of ways to change it but In another way I don’t want to do anything about it, But I know in order for it to change it is I who has to do something, join a club, join the church, join the library So far I’m not doing anything....

Excuse me? I'm been having a big problem having Sad life, and I can't get rid of it😞

I would rather be on my own then people treat me like shit

When loneliness really kicks in. None of these ways will work. Tried them all and they are jack shit.

Thank you so much 🙂

Very nice points helpful... Thankyou.... Ma'am..

the lolenlyness i feel just never seems to disapear you may tell me to block em out but that just gives me more emptyness blocking out negativity with positivy still doesnt change anything theres still negativity just wearing mask of the positivity my grammar may be bad but thats how i feel when i tried to follow your advice

Easier said than done

I love playing videos games, thus makes me happy a lot. But that's what my parents doesn't want me to do I'm So no games for me leading to over thinking & loneliness Always finding ways to myself happy but still doesn't work😕

I need a woman lol feel like no girl really likes me..

God bless you for points

what do I do? when I don't have anyone to reach out to?

But ma'am I have no good friend to spending time so what I do ,,,,

But nobody is even in my house all of them are in england

I'm so lonely now😢

Nice video.... keep it up..!!!

I have no friend

don't ever feel lonely because we have our life for once which we could not get back again for what you are how you are what matters is you to be happy n make others jealous of you that you are happy in such little things n let those jealous peoples fins the way of your happiness n get reveal on it and consider yourself that you are the lucky one to feel this painful world... cheer up n be happy n try this get rid of that word loneliness....

My friend feels lonely .He thinks that even his family dont care about him so he do smoking and drugs . And the worst part is he is only 15 year old Please suggest something

Very nice

i found this video helpful

I m lonely all da tym.. no babies..husbnd spend only 2 hours wid me dur to work... 😢😓

If we can able to reach out someone why we're in loneliness

Great points than you

That "silent is violent" reminded me of Car Radio. Great song.

what should I do please help

ya.. That may helps .. But the First step itself a difficult one.. There is no body to reach.. That's y am feeling lonely?? Its like "I don't have a apple" so u gave a solution that "Buy a apple" .. It seems silly

No body wants me....if I call them they shout at me...maybe I don't have a way to get rid of my lonliness.

caus kindly all the comments says ther're lonely , why should is do a lonely club ? 😂

What if you reach out to them and they don't fucking care?

If you have just moved somewhere new, none of this applies.

i so lonely now

Have no one to reach out to.