Right! I said it over and over again in my head so I’ll remember this quote.

@@usieq9727 Amen to that. 🤓

Yeah but thats thinking of lying from the perspective of someone who is honest, me myself a compulsive liar for many years now will just alter the story and create a new reality right there and then works

So, basically a liar's weakpoint is their memory. Thank you. Pce

Mmmm... Yes and no.

How're you doing?

@Mike Knight That's probably a problem. Be honest about everything - to yourself first and foremost. This doesn't mean open up completely to everyone

You shall get there. We all will

Experiences hard wire your brain during childhood. The likelihood you will truly escape the psychological hole you have dug yourself is low, because most people that do lie are weak like you said and give up before making any real progress because it takes real effort and the ability to admit when you're wrong to be able to change those things. Most people are too ego driven to do it. But when they are 50 and all alone and no one wants their wrinkly narcissistic ass, they will be too far in that hole to EVER escape it and will die alone with no one. No kids, no wife/husband, no friends... nothing. All because they ALLOWED their ego to control their behavior for immediate and temporary self gratification that is meaningless in the grander scheme of things. Not only that, but liars entirely destroy their own credibility. Completely annihilated. People might believe a few lies at first, but after a while you will say something that contradicts what you said earlier and people will catch on to the lie. It can be the smallest tiniest detail, if it's not consistent with reality and what you say, people get suspicious of you and stop taking what you say as anything that holds real weight and is actually worth listening to. People don't want to waste their time with it. And I dont blame them! You have to really truly want to change your ways. That desire 100% has to come from within you. No one else. Not from people telling you over and over to stop doing something, because that more often than not makes people do the opposite out of spite (another narcissistic trait I might add).. the desire has to come from you. You have to truly see the upsides to constant truth telling for that desire to really ignite in you. And you'll either develop that desire for authentic change after boxing yourself in with lies so many times over your life and eventually you will get tired of it, because people WILL see through it, or your ego will take 100% possession of your inner self and you'll completely lose what little bit of yourself you have left. I've seen it enough in other people and believe me, you don't want that to happen to you! It's a vicious cycle of self destruction and the destruction of those in your immediate circle. But that's how it leaves you alone and alienated as life goes on. As a person who is a truth teller and values authenticity in my daily life, I hope you are able to find a way to see through to the other side and come to the decision that will leave you feeling so much more complete and a well rounded overall happy person. The path you take is up to you, but keep in mind their ends are entirely polar opposite. Just something to think about... best of luck to you in your endeavors 😎

I lied about myself in relationships. It was painful. I hate being a liar, it's not worth it

evening greys lolllllllll

An honest lol there my dude.

Judging the book by the cover I see... CX

evening greys This is not the mans introduction, this is just an analogy that he brought up during his lecture. Analogies are the best ways to learn.

THAT'S NATURE

@James Toney thats some deep shit bruh

James toney was one if not the greatest of sll time. Best damn shoulder roll defensd i ever saw.

@@atlas1542 i know man that was deep ax fuck

And Issac Newton wants my gravity

The thief and the liar are the same. A liar steals you the right to know the truth.

Not only thieves, but every kind of sinner imaginable. Lies can even lead to death.

Yes true, lies seem to lead to other sins or evils.

Kevin Hornbuckle It's totally possible for the truth to lead to death as well...

The truth might lead do death while a lie might not. Then what is the right decision?

ot chuk sekira, truth does not lead to death, it can only free you. If someone does not want you to be free, a murderer might kill you. Truth does not lead to death, madness leads to death. So whatever truth you suspect might kill you - keep it to yourself until a better time, or unless you absolutely have to say it to save someone.

No memory is capable enough to save a single lie - the smallest of truth has the power over all the greatest of lies. It would be so - that nothing would be possible if truth didn't have it so.

Great way to lie and remember your lies is to be conscientious about how you normally talk and what mannerisms you use in normal conversations and apply them into your lies, also never over explain when lying, and most of all, convince yourself that the lie is true. Maybe im just a sociopath but i cant tell you how many horrible things ive gotten away with completely haha. Big issue with that is dealing with the pretty deep guilt when remembering those things though

@@barnacleboi2595 that is correct. I know by experience that some people are just fabulous liars using similar techniques.

@@barnacleboi2595 like what

I hate lying, that's why I still remember my previous lies.

good point.

vexelreglage not sort ourselves out.

Why would anyone need to pay alot of money to go to a shrink, when they can hear out Prof. Peterson's lectures on KZfaq? Listen and learn from him, and you can work out the demons in your life. He speaks true stuff, he speaks the workings of the mind.

beat off...

We'd be unable to sort ourselves oat

10/10 speech + 10 speech = 110/10 speech = 11 speech

I do not speak to public, I just do not. #missdiagnozed a 3rd time

@@adam.maqavoy Oh hi, Mark

Pulling the Strings than your just like everyone else

@@darnellthankya5076 what's wrong with being just like everyone else?

@Pulling the Strings I didn't lie. I actually was too truthful

@@darnellthankya5076 and they took advantage of my friendly nature

That actually is the truth Not that I hurt them..... They took advantage and when I was wrecked I made mistakes that every person does

@@markomilan1702 😂

No question he is very experienced in his field of study but if you go to any University you will find the same thing

@@reudensplasher1659 LOL. You have no clue.

Marko Milan yeah but endlessness

Lol you are mate

I don't believe you.

You lied to yourself 😂

that's all I do is lie my whole life is a sham

Yes they do! My wife is this way. Trying to fix it but we shall see.

pLeAsE eXpLaIn HoW tHiS wOrKs

How has life been so far?​@@battleforutopia1247

"...and the truth will set you free." -Jesus of Nazareth

The book of Ecclesiastes only has 12 chapters. There is no 20:26. Your comment is a lie.

I found your comment very appropriate for the video under discussion but then found that the book of Ecclesiasticus is not the same as Ecclesiastes.

Artur Bondarenco "......and we killed him and we will never wash off the blood"

@@wesskedelly507 He's quoting the apocryphal book Ecclesiasticus, not Ecclesiastes

It certainly doesn't stop some people from trying.

Beautiful ❤️🙏

This statement is naive in nature, it will allow sociopaths and the psychopaths to prey on you.

​@@JourneymanLinemanI would appreciate it if you are willing to elaborate. Your perspective on this idea has peaked my interest. Thanks

⁠@@RitaMcCloudHe means that if you go into a conversation under the assumption you’ll be able to tell lies from the truth everytime you can easily fall prey to psychopaths whose second nature is basically to lie, charm and manipulate you for their own personal gain. To be naive is to be an easy victim

how long did you deal with the compulsive lying for before you changed your ways? I'm dealing with this issue currently and am worried I may be in too far to fix it...

Probably 6/7 years? I don't necessarily think so. I kind of think of the lie as contorting yourself to fit into something that isn't you. It's also what you've managed to come up with as the best solution for dealing with whatever problem you have. You just have to let go of the lie but simultaneously see that there's a better solution which is telling the truth in every sense of your being, just like JP says "The truth is the antidote for suffering".

Compulsive lying is a tricky slope. The more frequently you lie the better you get, your lies become truth in your own mind and eventually you are even able to convince yourself of your own lies. You begin to build false realities in your mind and get so sucked up into those realities that you forget about everyone and everything, all you know and care about is the delicate reality you have meticulously constructed within your own mind. You build a fake persona, you begin to watch people, learn what makes them tick and eventually manipulate them to see you as a "God". Relationships fail, because nothing about you was build on truth. So beware. These people are hard to spot and they will drag you into their spiral deception and make you feel as though you are the insane one, and when that happens you are FUCKED. Sociopaths and narcissists are great liars and great manipulators, to the point that it is an art form. But they all have their tells. My advice to you.

David - well said. my personal story is similar.

Hey guys, thanks for this. It's a real edifying post which I thoroughly enjoyed and learned from. I hope others can add to the discussion.

Then if you hate your boss I suggest you tell them or YOUR lying to yourself, go go it.

​@@stevewildeagle965eh?

or maybe keep your mouth shut hahaha@@stevewildeagle965

😂😂😂😂

One time this chick in Bethlehem lied about how she got pregnant and that got completely out of control.

😂😂😂😂😂

This cannot be understated.

Could be the answer to spontaneous combustion

Hate?! Hate?! Loathe perhaps. But HATE. When I think of hate i think of the Nazis. Very strong word; be careful how you use it.

I hate honest people who never accept people who are cripplingly lonely until they have to lie to be accepted by them.

@@TheHollandHS If you have to lie to become accepted, then change so you can be accepted rather than lie about who you are??? If you got negative traits, then lying is a quick fix, actually changing your behaviour will be hard but long lasting and way more rewarding on all planes for everyone involved. To be honest you sound like you are someone that just want to wallow in misery and have an emotional tampon around to dump your shit on to make yourself feel better.. But i could be wrong.

"You go to great length to explain an insignificant event." -Raul Julia, 'Tequila Sunrise'

@@genofire3304 Let's be friends.

The default is, and should be, "you have to earn trust". Which is why I'm hyper-aware around nice people (but almost instantly feel guilty about it, which then kick-starts an interesting cycle of reactions).

My wife is that way... I’m getting far away from her... don’t like the surveillance... and she was so concerned about me lying and turns out she’s the biggest liar I’ve ever met!!!

You just seem like an extreme empath. Maybe you should do an eq test. I also do the same and scored rather high.

But you have to be someone who cares what someone outside of you thinks about for anything you said to matter, which means you need others to validate you.

Everyone wants others to validate them. The idea that they don't is another deception, although it's worthwhile to forego this desire at times when the cost of validation is higher than its actual worth.

I am not afraid, I was born to do this.... excellent synopsis! Ive found that all liars are complete hypocrites. Im surrounded by liars and a group of people who blame every mistake on others. No accountability. It disgusts me!!!

I completely agree with your statement

thats pure narcisism in action

Liars lie because they're afraid of the consequences of telling an uncomfortable truth. Then they become afraid of people discovering that they've lied. Don't be so harsh on them, show them that you won't judge them negatively for being truthful

Frito Not in every case, like narcissistics who sometimes lie in order to keep their dominance and other things they get from their manipulation on others, and when confronted with facts they cannot run from, turn in denial and violent as if they where outraged.

Miau Frito exactly understanding from others is key

Miau Frito they are very hard on themselves.

MIke does the truth always come out? I've been the victim of a cover -up.

Sometimes not speaking is wrong coz we'll be the victim here and they won't see that they're wrong

Not speaking can also make you look more dubious by providing no feedback that will implicate you and no I'm not talking about time to process incoming information when you have all the information, I'm talking about having received all the information and realising give been caught.. especially when she says loudly " I slept with him... Is that what you want to hear? My ultimate response is.. only if that's what happened.... After that the subject was off limits but she left the room after she shut it down which indicates to me she wants to distance herself of the topic..

Amen 🙏

She might have had bipolar disorder

being truthful to the point of hurting people is bad too

@@blob5907 The truth hurts by default. Since we all want to hear the truth, we should be prepared to face the inevitable hurt.

@@tolutaiwo5416 did you not hear what jordan peterson said about the truth?

I understand that reference

Luke Schreiter how?

I think he means in his way of explaining things, because he's so clever and well spoken. I don't think he meant monster as in "bad person".

Neither of these comments are sense-able to a degree of understand the train of thought.

Adam Maqavoy he meant it like hes a beast

LeanneGC101 I love that Jesus picture- I made a massive poster using that exact same painting and it’s stunning- good on you

I dont think the apostles even knew how blessed they were. You don't know what you got till its raved about by others who don't have it.

Yes. Liars are time wasters. Every minute you spend with a liar is a wasted minute with no refund.

If you don’t lie the other person will and they will look better then you because of those lies and they will be in a better position, you need to lie strategically

I think it’s karma...hilarious karma

But you are if you do ..

@@iThiink im still telling lies as jokes now but i tell them it was a lie right after, work like a charm, stil got the laugh out of em and no karma afterward xD

You're not alone man

Why not write a journal of your daily life activities truthfully. So that it keeps you grounded in the direction of truth.

Perception is reality "You and me baby ain't nothin but mammals..."

The Truth never forgets tho

FlatEarthHypothesis cliffhanger

Cliffhanger... He told his story to the cop, The cop didn't care and asked him to move to the other line and he did EXACTLY what the officer said (as planned). ;-)

@louis p constant : that sounds realistic.

Is Judas Iscariot one of ye because that guy would never lie especially if there was some money in it for him ;)

Why?

You can be both, the problem is if you can admit it.

clicked on your timestamp and literally started laughing. your comment fit so well.

Both Clintons, HRC & WJC, proved themselves incapable of holding a consistent truth or reality, other than what they said, goes...for a while. A very *long* while. They set the lowered-bar standard we'll live with for several more decades.

He admitted he smoked marijuana and it became a nonissue. He lied about having a sexual relationship with Monica Lewinsky and it followed him (and her) forever.

Bill has also lied about being on Paedo Island with Prince Andrew and their blackmailer Epstein..who is now dead.

Because when you go too deep, you might accidentally manipulate the other person. The same way you manipulate yourself on daily basis (self-deception).