Against the Sexual Revolution | Louise Perry

Against the Sexual Revolution | Louise Perry | EP 331

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Ep. 331
Dr Jordan B Peterson and Louise Perry discuss the current state of feminism, the corruption of porn, the gray areas of consent, and the failure of the sexual revolution.
Louise Perry is a journalist and author based in London. Her first book, “The Case Against the Sexual Revolution,” was published in 2022. She is the director of The Other Half, a new non-partisan feminist think tank, and the host of Maiden Mother Matriarch, a podcast about sexual politics.
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(0:00) Coming up
(1:16) Intro
(2:45) The emergence of pornography, Playboy
(6:20) Marilyn Monroe: the short game and misery
(8:36) Technical morality and mating strategies
(14:01) Launching Playboy, cover folds without consent
(16:51) Fatherlessness, early puberty, a deadly combination
(20:00) Madonna: becoming your own parody
(21:30) Maiden, mother, matriarch
(26:00) Are men and women different?
(27:40) The pill, voluntary reproductive control
(31:45) Trivializing the body, living for the mind
(35:18) Is all sexual expression valuable?
(38:08) A reinvention of marriage
(41:10) Removing the principles of sex
(46:02) Death grip syndrome, impotence
(48:10) Desperation reduction and detrimental self-training
(52:14) AI, robotics, and the monetization of decay
(54:06) OnlyFans: women cease to be women
(56:31) Short-term and long-term female attractiveness
(59:30) Temperance: Alcohol fuels sexual and domestic abuse
(1:02:00) Is marriage consent? Gray areas and #MeToo
(1:07:31) The plight of the unsophisticated male
(1:09:07) The difference between male and female status
(1:15:25) The incoming sexual counter-revolution
(1:18:20) Women test men for aggression
(1:19:16) Men test women for impulsivity
(1:23:25) Nietzsche: prudishness is a guise for cowardice
(1:24:34) The pill removed the ease of assertiveness for women
(1:25:50) Is rape a property crime?
(1:28:00) The plight of the unsophisticated female
(1:31:12) Christianity and feminism
(1:34:42) Listen to your mother
(1:37:02) Women and starting businesses
(1:39:30) The tide is turning
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@CINETRONN Жыл бұрын

Porn and sexuality is completely surrounding us yet NO ONE talks about the effect it's having on children and society as a whole. Thanks for this.

@janetstead7032 Жыл бұрын

Quite so. It’s so shocking.

@johnbaker6125 Жыл бұрын

What is really disturbing is that young people who view tend to think what they see is "normal" which it is far from being. The expectations of what they think their first sexual encounters should be like is terribly distorted.

@janetstead7032 Жыл бұрын

@@johnbaker6125 true; which has had a very tragic effect on how young women have to project themselves to attract partners. Sassy, seductive and sexy is now more preferable to feminine, natural and alluring.

@ZephaniahL Жыл бұрын

It's left to rightists, which is puzzling. One SHOULD NOT need to be on the right to fight the monsters pushing this.

@davidr2299 Жыл бұрын

maybe yours are distorted. There is no “universal” standard or metric by which sexuality should be seen other than culture. There is NO universal arbiter of “morality” and sexuality has nothing to do with morality no matter how much mental gymnastics the religious zealots do to argue otherwise. You lost me at magical sky daddy

@lindsay833 Жыл бұрын

I recently got married. My husband and I lost our virginities on our wedding night. It was the most satisfying, beautiful, fulfilling, loving, and gentle experience of my whole life. I feel a great sense of power and pride in knowing "no" delivered me to my outstanding husband. I am so thankful this conversation is happening.

@brians7100 Жыл бұрын

Based

@chrisr7597 Жыл бұрын

Your strength of character should be celebrated. A light to be seen in a dark lost world.

@kristyleavitt8007 Жыл бұрын

Good for you guys! My husband and I lost our virginities on our wedding night too, and we’re so glad we chose to wait! There’s a peace and security in knowing that we’ve only ever had sex with each other ❤

@Munya_Tales Жыл бұрын

This is amazing

@PKTraceur Жыл бұрын

I’m glad I did with my first love, we had to wait 4 years until we could be together when we were both 20, but I’m glad it happened the way it did. Casual sex is an empty promise, self gratification.

@suzanneallen5755 Жыл бұрын

I grew up in Southern California in the late 60’s and early 70’s. There was so much pressure to leap into exploring sex at a young age and it was all meaningless. I hope young women today will learn to avoid this trap. Thank you, Louise and Dr Peterson.

@NowioART Жыл бұрын

You had your fun, though. Just hope you didn’t expose your kids to the same behaviour.

@vincentsanabria Жыл бұрын

It goes both ways, not as many but men are also sought after used etc

@maricamaas2326 Жыл бұрын

@@vincentsanabria While raising mostly girls for over two decades, had noticed young women becoming increasingly seductive, and sexually agressive - in competition with one another - in their pursuit of over-powering men; to the point of being predatorial. What they do not realize, is that by making themselves as available, they are in reality giving away their power.

@ellasoes8325 Жыл бұрын

@@NowioART She didn't say that, actually. She simply pointed out the environment she grew up in. In my time, it was so, too. Doesn't mean I "had my fun"...I had very conservative parents who controlled the reins.

@karentrevino6904 Жыл бұрын

If in those years, they have that level of pressure, imagine what it is like now a days...

@danielmitchell4919 Жыл бұрын

Years ago I dated a girl 17; I was 19, and she was very sexually active prior to our meeting. I said no to premarital sex. she was so impressed I became her true boyfriend. We now have five adult children and seven grandchildren and have been married 61 years.

@dyingculture1 Жыл бұрын

That was 61 years ago. Try doing that nowadays, and she will laugh at you, call you an incel, and then ghost you.

@debragriffin4081 Жыл бұрын

@@dyingculture1 I’m a grandma who came of age in the 70’s. Maybe many girls today behave as you described and I don’t doubt you. But those are the ones who will make terrible wives and mothers. Way below the standards of such a fine, forward thinking man whose marriage/family will become a crown jewel in his community

@juelz4444 Жыл бұрын

@@debragriffin4081 well said

@davelaz5582 Жыл бұрын

I am proud of you both. If my Wife did not die in 2014, it would have been 36 years this year.

@AB-by8xu Жыл бұрын

@@dyingculture1 i dont know anyone of that age using the term incel or ghosting 😂

@kleexxos Жыл бұрын

I experienced sexual trauma as an early teen, and as many do, swung into hypersexuality as a defense mechanism. I felt cheered on by the sex-positivity and "free woman" narrative I saw in the media, but the reality is, I was self-destructing. I've healed, but I still feel so much shame and regret around how much meaningless sex I had. It left me so empty. I'm deeply angry at society for telling me as a young girl that I was doing the right thing. As a teacher, I'm doing my best to prevent my students from ever making the same mistakes I did. Edit: there are more comments than I can get to individually but I just wanted to say thank you to everybody who has responded so kindly. It's beautiful to see so much empathy in a conversation that is usually held with bitterness from both sides. All the best.

@kevinng1702 Жыл бұрын

Do not feel guilty…it is a life lesson…live and learn and move on…life is too short to remember your past…live in the present moment…every morning, looking into the mirror and say to yourself…I love myself…do it daily…you will see the difference within yourself…Good luck…

@sucaadshardi9650 Жыл бұрын

It's Very Typical how women always put the blame on themselves it's what the society wants . In My View feminism has been very positive, I don't have to blame myself for the things I had no control of

@zombieslayer7759 Жыл бұрын

@@sucaadshardi9650 Yeah, Feminism has been very positive alright. Just ask the 63 million dead babies who were murdered because they were inconvenient to the desires of narcissistic people.

@zombieslayer7759 Жыл бұрын

It's alright. You acknowledge that what you did was wrong, which takes courage and humility to do. If you haven't already, humble yourself before God, pray for his forgiveness (with sincerity) and promise to do better, and he'll help you get in the right direction. Best of luck, and God bless you ma'am. 🙏🏻

@MYOB2023 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for speaking up and helping others. Your students are lucky to have you. ♥️

@beefchillingham6790 Жыл бұрын

I listened to this episode shortly after it came out. I’m just here to say that Jordan Peterson saved my new formed relationship with his view on women saying no to sex. She came back to my place after the fourth date. It didn’t take long before we were kissing and caressing each other. I attempt to step it up but she kindly said no. We hung out for a little bit long and then she went home. The next day I listened to a manosphere video that talked about this situation. Their take was that a woman who refuses to put out after a certain date is taking you for a ride. For a minute that was making complete sense. For whatever reason, I decided to check out Jordan Peterson and this was one of the most recent episodes. Once I heard him talk about women saying no, it clicked. I changed my outlook on it we are officially dating and every day is better than the last. Thank you once again Doctor Peterson.

@alaia-awakened Жыл бұрын

THIS! If she's not 'putting out', it could just be that she thinks that there could be something really special here. Best of luck to you!

@maxcontralto Жыл бұрын

Funny, I still just plow them real quick within their own reciprocal invite. Listen, if you are 6’2 230 pounds in muscles. With 10.000 usd over monthly, even girls from church would sin with you. Loser. Makes sure you ask her bodycount. She will say less then “ 3 “for sure.

@gordias1046 Жыл бұрын

@@alaia-awakened True, assuming she is not seeing other men. If she is with other men, but making one guy wait, then Manosphere would be correct. She is playing the guy for emotional support and financial gain.

@beefchillingham6790 Жыл бұрын

@@gordias1046 since the posting of my original comment we have since had sex. I found out recently that she has never been on brith control and therefore takes sex pretty seriously. She was nervous to admit that which really makes me feel bad for watching those damn manosphere videos and thinking some pretty negative thoughts. I’m glad that she isn’t on birth control because that is really hard on their bodies. We just waited until it was optimal with her cycle.. Bottom line is I placed a lot of emphasis on sex and really shouldn’t have. It nearly cost me what’s shaping up to be the best relationship I’ve ever had.

@dontfeelcold Жыл бұрын

The manosphere is correct SOMETIMES. Some women will withhold sex as a means of control. Some women will unconsciously delay sex as an act of femininity (being reserved). This is one sign of a good one to have a family with.

@4chispita Жыл бұрын

I wish my 20 years old self would have had access to this video back then. Its never to late to learn to value and love yourself. So glad this content reached me eventually. All young women and men should listen closely to this. Thank you for this content! 🙏

@mrsmuir81 Жыл бұрын

Made the mistake thinking this was an actual interview/debate, with Louise Perry. I would have loved to hear her input and opinions more. The woman is incredibly patient and polite.

@markaurelius61 4 ай бұрын

It was a good discussion. What are you complaining about? Read her book

@thebalance4207 3 ай бұрын

YES. Would've been nice to hear her input rather than a preview Peterson's next book or something. 😒

@solaveritas2 Жыл бұрын

As a young woman I was surprised by how many men tried getting me into bed on the first night out and I always said no, not yet, I have to get to know you better, or something like that, and every time, they disappeared immediately. It hurt me tremendously because I felt they didn't value me one little bit as a person, not even enough to make it to another date or two. I carried this all my life until recently it dawned on me that they ran away because I stood my ground and my stance exposed their lack of morals, they were not man enough to pursue me with confidence. This was a healing realisation. Btw, I ended up making love for the first time in my life to the man who later became my husband, and over 30 years later we still have a good sex life. It's invaluable to know we have only ever been with each other. I never regretted not sleeping around! So hopefully this may inspire some young woman. Value yourself so much that you do not allow some immature man to use you.

@grannyannie2948 Жыл бұрын

In my mid teens I came to a similar realisation. I married very young by today's standards, indeed a year younger than is now legal in my country. There is something to be said about growing together over several decades, that young people are nolonger taught to value.

@grannyannie2948 Жыл бұрын

@@shadowfax333 I actually think it was worse in the 70s and 80s, our mothers and aunts had missed the sexual revolution and we had no one to teach us anything. My millennial children are all happily married, and I dare say the grandkids will when they grow up.

@grannyannie2948 Жыл бұрын

@@shadowfax333 What a lovely message. I strongly suspect we are on different continents. But there is a saying, late bloomer, and it refers to the fact men often do not come into their own until their late twenties or early thirties. Another suggestion I often make is single mothers. This is often met with derision from Americans and British. Obviously I don't refer to the stereotypical over weight woman with five kids to six dads. But over the years I've known many young women who were abandoned by modern dating practices, and refused to kill their baby, regardless of what the babies father and feminists told them. They've gone through the maturity learning curve. Their values are nolonger partying and one night stands. The downside is you may at times financially contribute to another man's child. But the plus side is you get to see in advance exactly how your children will be mothered. Another thing I recently read an article on in my country that made a lot of sense. Is the subject of friend zoning. Set your own standards. Decide for yourself that for example you would not have sex with a woman who was willing to have sex without a commitment or a relationship. This sets you free. You don't have to fear being friend zoned, because you've already friend zoned them. Nor do you have to fear rejection, you've already rejected them. * But it will teach you how to overcome being shy. *There is a funny song about this, from the 70s - Don't fall in love, girls with short skirts and no ties. As a matriarch I swear this is the same advice I'll give my grandson's in another few years.

@spockskynet Жыл бұрын

@@shadowfax333 I get the impression she'd consider them not "real men" for spending their time doing things other than pursuing her in her perceived perfectness.

@marksouthern7542 Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for younger women today, because they have lost the capacity to say no. And they are often in a loop of 'friends with benefits' because they still have their own need for sex and intimacy. I have met several younger women who have never been in a romantic relationship, but had several 'friends'.

@janmariolle Жыл бұрын

Louise Perry, “listen to your mother.” Yes. Such wise words. Those of us who grew up during the 60-70s know all too well how hollow the “sexual revolution” really was. Thank you for the brilliant interview.❤

@mademoiselledusfonctionell1609 Жыл бұрын

I grew up later, and with a mother who grew up well before and was not someone that one would ask about these things. But I understood anyhow and on my own in my early teens that women, especially young women and girls, are so much more vulnerable than men because they can't run from a pregnancy. My take on it was that a man knows that a woman loves him when a woman sleeps with him, and a woman needs to know that a man loves her before sleeping with him, and that society had come up with marriage as the answer to this conflict of interest. I also understood that sex tends to make you fall in love, and that means risking spending time, energy and heartache on the wrong person. Free sex is not a young person's game. (Though it might work for (some) older divorcees.)

@janmariolle Жыл бұрын

@@mademoiselledusfonctionell1609 Great comment.❤️

@susancapizzi7703 Жыл бұрын

While "Ask your mother" sounds like sound advice, for those younger than the Baby Boomers, their mothers are PART of the sexual revolution and thus just as clueless as the young women today. Realistically most young women would need to ask their grandmothers who grew up BEFORE the sexual revolution for advice.

@BirdTurdMemes Жыл бұрын

Aren't the women who grew up in the 60s and 70s those that started this whole thing?

@mademoiselledusfonctionell1609 Жыл бұрын

@@BirdTurdMemes My mum grew up in the 30s and 40s and I in the 70s and 80s. We are both innocent.

@shawnrossi6364 Жыл бұрын

10 years into my marriage I made some big changes a couple years ago. Cut porn out of my lifeand relie solely on my wife. We have a strong passion now luckily she stood strong by me as we figured out this journey through our own struggles

@Refiningforge Жыл бұрын

That’s wonderful. Good job sir, blessings to you and your wife

@bababooey3579 11 ай бұрын

I'm really wanting my husband to do the same. We've only been married for 2 years and the porn is burdening me and our marriage to the point that it's hard for me to love him or feel sexual attraction

@guillermomaciasrojas7912 10 ай бұрын

@@bababooey3579are you having enough sex with him? By his standards. Because every man that is in the position of your husband would prefer to have sex with his wife if it were satisfying enough than watch porn while feeling lonely af

@sotiriosnovatsis4529 9 ай бұрын

How interesting that our stories are so similar. My name is also Shaun and I recently cut pornography completely out of my life after about 11.5 years of marriage. My wife became my sole source of sexual fulfilment, even in my thoughts, and it has transformed our marriage and my spirituality. This came about after returning to my Christian faith and I’m very grateful for God’s intervention. I also thank Jordan Peterson because he was a very significant factor in why I started reading the Bible again and he, along with the Bible, is also why I cut out pornography, to which I finally admit I was addicted to.

@loanicastillo3327 8 ай бұрын

More love, affection, talking, going into nature and less raw passion. Passion from the waist up must be in all case. From a fellow Christian. Cheers! 🙏

@davelaz5582 Жыл бұрын

I am age 65 now. I was a virgin as was my wife at age 30, both faithful Catholics. We were married for 26 years in 1987 until she died in 2014. Our first act of sex was our wedding night. Both with a body count of one. We had two sons. I was an attorney. She had a major in physics and minor in math but wanted to be a full time housewife. I have remained celibate since she died. Best choices everyone!

@Dr.Danielavercruysse Жыл бұрын

Beautiful life

@baltimorewhisperer Жыл бұрын

based grandpa

@davelaz5582 Жыл бұрын

@@baltimorewhisperer Not a grandfather yet!

@davelaz5582 Жыл бұрын

@@portraitofman2063 God's loving embrace always awaits you and that of the Most Blessed Virgin!

@TinLizzy1 Жыл бұрын

You are a strong, loving, good man, Dave. Counter-cultural. A man who can stay virtuous in these situations, can do anything with God.

@LA52484 Жыл бұрын

I fell into this feminist mindset and regret some of the things I did. I started to listen to Dr. JP and he was a part of my catalyst to turn my life around about 4 years ago. Thank you so much Dr. Peterson for the work that you do! You are changing lives everyday! You have been a vital part of the change in trajectory of my life. Words cannot express how thankful I am! May God bless you and your family.

@ronizielinski4048 Жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. If you are gen x or an older millennial,we got the message to be a badd azz babe, lol..girls were literally getting tatts to prove they weren't the boring good girl 😪

@asitallfallsdown5914 Жыл бұрын

Sexual deviance is an act that can't taken back, only denounced and further damage avoided. All new husbands and wives deserve a spouse who is virgin, if they themselves are. That leaves those who wasted their grace to be with those who did so as well, or to widows/widowers/ the divorced. The severity must be punctuated to mitigate the fall of others so they don't brush it off as just a pleasure tryst to have some fun and patch some scratches later like nothing happened. I've done many things I regret myself and try not to let my weaknesses alter my perception of right and wrong. (I'm not being contentious, just reinforcing the context that is a little undersold by leaving it at just regret.)

@Notmyrealname099 Жыл бұрын

@@asitallfallsdown5914 It sounds too categorical and unrealistic. As soon as you change your behaviour and start to act straight you deserve to be valued regardless of your past mistakes. As we all are human and came to the world to learn how to live, we all make mistakes. The virginity can be an ideal, but it doesn’t make a person of the best quality automatically, or a saint.

@MIbra96 Жыл бұрын

@@Notmyrealname099 Agreed.

@DeutscherGospel Жыл бұрын

Christ died for your sins to make it possible for you to get your lost virginity back - in a spiritual sense!

@HeyCutie90 Жыл бұрын

So happy to see Louis here. I find her delivery and message deeply relatable. I wish I’d had more guidance on this subject when I was younger. Casual sex is not empowering, and I dislike that we harp on this notion to young women.

@KD400_ Жыл бұрын

Dont engage in it. I as a young man don't sleep around. I'm glad u understand the dangers.too many women ignore people like me who try to save them.

@grannyannie2948 Жыл бұрын

As a teen I remember a feminist of my mother's generation (Germain Greer) saying, little girls the sexual revolution is not about you. If a boy tells you if you really love me you'd have sex with me, tell him if he really loves you, he'd be on his knees with an engagement ring. For me this made so much sense, and I've shared it with many younger women.

@user-fn7vq9xf6h Жыл бұрын

Yes me too! Guidance is so important & it’s like parents are just letting their children figure it out & make one of the biggest mistakes not waited for marriage! I wish people would understand how important this is! It’s Our bodies & should mean SOMETHING!

@goldenboy06 Жыл бұрын

@@KD400_as if its an option for most young men.

@KD400_ Жыл бұрын

@@goldenboy06 its not an option but it can be done. But my point was that women get decieved by it easily

@pnw_greens 9 ай бұрын

As a woman who married at 20 and became a mother at 22, I can’t express how hard it is to find a group of friends in this day and age. I’m a GEN Z, and the way my peers view relationships, marriage, and EVEN motherhood breaks my heart. And so, because of the decisions I’ve made, I definitely feel old, and I’m sure it’s also due to my health/diet. I will be 24 tomorrow, thank you for this video ❤

@dennisdelapena9932 8 ай бұрын

Same here, my wife is 20, and we were teen parents, completely understand how you feel she wishes she could have friends who understand

@nandiphanondaba9251 7 ай бұрын

Trust me you are not missing out on anything. There's nothing good on these streets, it just full of traumatized and empty people. Your life is beautiful and planned, thus less traumas.❤❤

@christiansgrignoli3351 6 ай бұрын

I'm a millennial male and for what it's worth I have alot of respect for you 🙏

@jcdentoid 4 ай бұрын

I'm a zoomer too, I'm jealous of you. You have a very good chance of meeting your great grand kids, something a lot of people wont get the chance to.

@komicsreviewer8505 3 ай бұрын

The decline and evaporation of Community in America is irreversible. Get some AI fds!

@biologicalwoman4364 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved this book and this interview. I reccomend it to all my friends and especially young women. Louise said everything that I have been thinking my whole adult life in a lovely, witty way. What a role model ❤

@memymomalex Жыл бұрын

Many girls will say "Well, my mom didn't wait, so why should i?" And many women will say "How can I tell my daughter to wait when I didn't?" Well, my mother and father taught me to wait. They were honest and said they wished they had waited, and that always stuck with me. I trusted my parents wisdom, what they learned from their mistakes. So I did wait, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best lesson my mother passed to me. And I'm glad that I can teach my daughter to wait, and I can speak from experience. The experience of their mother and grandmother, that waiting is prudent and wise, it will save you from a lot of heartache.

@dorab2402 Жыл бұрын

@@kc6810 How can it be dangerous to wait until you are married to partake in activity that could possibly result in the lifelong commitment of caring for an child. My sisters and I all waited, and there were plenty of boyfriends, and there was never a feeling of being rushed. I’m the oldest, happily married to a man who waited for years to marry me. I chose to marry until we were both done with school and financially ready. We have careers we are happy with, a child, happy marriage, and financial freedom. It was the best decision I ever made and it’s definitely a sacrifice that pays off. No pain no gain 🤷🏽‍♀️

@liquidgal9867 Жыл бұрын

@dorab2402 to each their own.

@Cerrah311 Жыл бұрын

With the crazy STD statistics right now….. waiting saves

@thomaspicolet5304 Жыл бұрын

Glad you could learn from their mistakes

@mattn9349 Жыл бұрын

@T B So true... in 0.00001% of cases.

@jorgecarlosatristainlopez2759 Жыл бұрын

With all my admiration and respect towards Mr. Peterson, with absolute zero intention to upset or bother anyone reading this comment and a secret fingered crossed hope that he gets this message. I would love it if JP realized that we who follow him, have already listened to his general perspective on most of the topics he talks about. I would really love it if he gave a chance to the one in front of him to use the time required , just as he takes it, for the guest to articulate their ideas and go deeper, or at least just finish them, so we could listen to the interviewed presentation, views and reasons a bit more. Please, sometimes you tend to go solo, regulate the dialogue. You are still awesome, by the way.

@creeping_deth2761 Жыл бұрын

1:30:10 made me physically cringe.

@Joe-or1bg Жыл бұрын

Also, adds are very lame. You shouldnt need all that money at this age and social standing, comes off as greedy from someone like Jordan (whom I love very much)

@bvz4351 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! I've noticed the same in other interviews as well and I feel like it's a missed opportunity for the guests and listeners.

@lanceg2533 Жыл бұрын

He is hosting the guest and therefore directing the conversation. He is also running a business and needs the financial return from the time he is taking to provide decades of psychological knowledge to you for free (less the 5 seconds it takes you to skip an ad).

@say4992 Жыл бұрын

Maybe. I wonder if listening to her until she had gone thru much more of her work might have actually sold less of her book. I had that thought and I can't prove it. Just possible.

@trishd.405 Жыл бұрын

Maiden, mother and matriarch... This is what I have become, but I didn't know how to explain it. I love that I can become either at will. My husband adores me and loves this about me. As we get older, we learn so much !!!!

@gillymac9363 Жыл бұрын

The most engrossing, well articulated discussion I've had the privelege of hearing for a considerable time. Thank you.

@annefine7135 Жыл бұрын

Oh, how I wish my mother/father had had the words and the wisdom to explain the male/female dynamic to me like this! Would have saved me so much heartache in younger years. My daughter will know this.

@nkatimagoro287 Жыл бұрын

It is great that you can pass on the message

@Dee-nonamnamrson8718 Жыл бұрын

You probably wouldn't have listened. I know I didn't, unfortunately.

@ancientancient-jv1pw 11 ай бұрын

They never do, then they get old and need attention but didn't prepare their next generation...etc

@user-zk7qw6lj1q 11 ай бұрын

Me too, how do i teach this to my kids? I’m trying to figure out where to even start

@stadot1427 9 ай бұрын

@@user-zk7qw6lj1q from someone who did listen to their parents, establishing a moral authority for everyone in the house at a very young age was essential. They used the Bible, and not only did they teach it to us, but they practiced it themselves and were open to challenges to their own behavior based on it. The biggest problems with purity culture are the ineffectual shaming and the misogyny/double standards. But when the parents are honest about their own failings and acknowledge they too have sinned, that removes a lot of the shame. When they teach all the children to be responsible for what they expose themselves and others to, then there is equality and no misogyny.

@rb2950 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! So many times I have had a loss in how to express or explain my thoughts and it’s wonderful to have someone who is interested and so insightful to share their thoughts. I am so thankful for you both!

@tonirodriguez6649 Жыл бұрын

Great conversation. I'm going to be sharing to my mother & matriarchal friends as well as my son who has a teenage daughter. Love & thank you thank you 🙏

@Pikawarps Жыл бұрын

As a recovering porn addict I’m having a new perspective on just how sexualized our culture is. Before i had the worst of the worst to compare commercials and ads to, but having been away from porn for a few weeks I’m realizing JUST how prevalent ‘sex icons’ are in advertisements and media, both online and billboards/magazines pushing products

@alvareo92 Жыл бұрын

and social media making it so you are not valuable unless you're sexually attractive. And that it is somehow empowering to post photos of your body on the internet.

@ahmedel-mahmoud1253 Жыл бұрын

Hi! I d’ like to tap From from your recovery program and history. Thank you

@Pikawarps Жыл бұрын

@@ahmedel-mahmoud1253 الخطوة الأولى كانت الاعتراف بأنني مشكلة سيئة. قلت لنفسي إنني أستطيع التوقف متى أردت ، كنت أكذب على نفسي. بعد أن اعترفت بأنني واجهت مشكلة ، انتقلت إلى إبطاء عدد المرات التي أشاهد فيها المواد المحظورة. ذهبت من عدة مرات في اليوم إلى مرة واحدة في الليلة. ثم مرات الرسم في الأسبوع قبل النوم. مرتين في الأسبوع. من هناك اتجهت للذهاب إلى المعبد مرتين في الأسبوع. مع العلم أن ذلك ممنوع من قبل ديني كان حافزًا كبيرًا للتوقف ، وتوقفت عن المشاهدة تمامًا منذ أسبوعين أو ثلاثة أسابيع.

@Pikawarps Жыл бұрын

آسف إذا لم تكن هذه ترجمة مثالية ، فقد استخدمت أحد التطبيقات

@yengsabio5315 Жыл бұрын

You have better things to use your dopamine & drive outside of sex, mate. Don't get me wrong. Sex, in its proper context, is a good thing. But done wrongfully, it can wreak havoc.

@theleague383 Жыл бұрын

I am porn free for about 3 months now (been trying to quit for almost 7 years now) and my views on women in general are changing DRAMATICALLY! I use to view women as just sexual objects for instant gratification since that is what porn teaches you. Lets kill this horrible habit for good. God bless you Dr. Peterson

@DaveM86 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, and no offense is meant here, you likely have a personality or worldview that predisposes you to view women in this way and porn reinforced it. It's not normal to view women as "sexual objects for instant gratification", no matter how much porn you watch. I've watched porn (and often regretted it - I'm not defending porn here) since I was about 12, and I'm nearly 37 now - that's nearly twenty-five YEARS of porn consumption, and I've never in my life thought of women in that way. I think my experience is likely more common than your own. Most men I've known in my life have longed for a good relationship with a woman and have used porn as a way to cope when they have no actual access to sex.

@mbaci0430 Жыл бұрын

Keep strong brother, one day at a time. I've been struggling for a long time as well. I hope it gets easier.

@seonggihun5069 Жыл бұрын

If watching some porn made you view all women as sexual objects I feel sorry for you. It certainly didn't make me feel that way. Ultimately I don't think porn is a real problem

@TinLizzy1 Жыл бұрын

So awesome that you are having healing!!!

@manhattanreject3530 Жыл бұрын

Decided to quit myself but having some trouble avoiding the temptation . Any advice? What strategies worked for you?

@OldCroDad Жыл бұрын

Such an awesome conversation that needed to be had and needs to continue! Loved hearing from both of you and honestly it illuminated so many things about my life past and present.

@OnlyKidWithCamera Жыл бұрын

There were several times, while I was watching this that I felt like shouting hallelujah! I’ve watched all of Jordan Peterson‘s videos, and this is one of the absolute best. The conversation is so important in our culture right now. This author shared so many excellent points, which were then validated and broaden by George’s input. I can’t explain, but this was just such a great conversation; and one of the very best I’ve ever heard on this subject. Thank you to both participants. If you’re a viewer, share this video with anyone you think should see it. It’s an excellent education.

@joshuaandlizzimeyer1931 Жыл бұрын

Something to think about, my wife and I waited till marriage and were unable to sleep with one another (I'll leave out the details as to why). We had based our relationship on our strong bond with each other while dating and after 2 years we overcame the boundaries we were facing and now have 3 beautiful daughters. When you base your relationship in real tangible things and not just physical attraction, you can make it through the tough times. Stay safe guys.

@Statupalmambarbacot3345 Жыл бұрын

Good for you man!

@di3486 Жыл бұрын

You guys are not alone. I also was that lucky 😏

@remarkable4 Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@modestmouse2889 Жыл бұрын

MY EX WIFE AND i WAITED FOR MARRIAGE TOO THEN THE BITCH LEFT ME and said I wanted sex too much.

@di3486 Жыл бұрын

@@modestmouse2889 I can tell why she left just by your writing lol

@linked9257 Жыл бұрын

Im a 23 yr old woman, and probably a late bloomer in terms of feminine qualities. In my experience girls arn't taught how to become women anymore, as she talks about here we get lost from transitioning from maiden to mother. Its taking alot of research and self exploration to define what being a woman is to me, and Im still getting there. Just wanted to thank you for this discussion and I will be checking out Louises book

@masterson0713 Жыл бұрын

Do ya like history? Any thoughts on Mormons? Hi, btw

@di3486 Жыл бұрын

Hehe try having your bloom in your 30s

@di3486 Жыл бұрын

@@masterson0713 It’s not for everyone. I was highly harmed by the culture of Mormonism so I left, I am happier now.

@masterson0713 Жыл бұрын

@@di3486 would you mind elaborating? I just started talking to them.

@mariahspapaya Жыл бұрын

The year I turned 26 was for me the time when I finally started to feel like a woman. Whereas before when you are young and naive, and still figuring yourself out, you feel more like a “girl” and the idea of womanhood is far off. I used to be embarrassed to be feminine when I was younger since I have a lot of masculine energy. It takes some experimenting and playfulness but once you get there, you’ll know. Growing into yourself is a very nice feeling :)

@megapint8598 Жыл бұрын

O M G .... You just changed my life. The power and the status of no. Breathtakingly perceptive. Life changingly correct. THANK YOU! A fantastic interview. I revelled in every word from both of you.

@waylanddavick9459 Жыл бұрын

The discussion at around 21min regarding the 'maiden, mother, matriarch' life-progression is incredibly insightful on the part of Louise Perry. A brilliant woman - I look forward to hearing more from her in future.

@Ultimate.Meaning Жыл бұрын

We need God back in our lives.

@taskcasburn6086 Жыл бұрын

Very much so. Kicking Him out, was when all this social madness began and has continued, ever since.

@masterfoggy88 Жыл бұрын

Why would you resurrect dead lie though?

@abeismain Жыл бұрын

You mean Jesus. Get your Jesus bling on.

@edwardtookes6065 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@mark8200 Жыл бұрын

@abeismain No god, Jesus was probably a wives tale that got out of hand, no reason to pick up the jesus baggage along with god.

@JasonSilverMusic Жыл бұрын

This is so important for us to hear and understand.

@mitsuha4788 Жыл бұрын

It is. This lowly perception of an act so sacred is truly sad. And to see people waste their sexual potential on things that demand nothing but their downfall is heartbreaking. We must do better. We must make sex sacred again.

@JasonSilverMusic Жыл бұрын

@@mitsuha4788 Yes. Protecting our own innocence, caring for ourselves spiritually - the whole person - these are challenges in our sex-crazed world, but I think key to saving the West.

@KristopherBaker Жыл бұрын

which part?

@mr.blackhawk142 Жыл бұрын

Do you like to standUNDER people? I actually RAISE my consciousness ABOVE the herds'. It works for me.

@sup9542 Жыл бұрын

The actual conversation was really bad. So many words without saying anything. The basic premise is right but man, they just went on and on, especially Peterson.

@sally0404 Жыл бұрын

I really love Dr Peterson and it’s clear he has so much knowledge but I wish he would let his guests speak. I’m interested in hearing what they have to say and it’s rare that they can get a sentence out without being interrupted and then several minutes of Dr Peterson’s perspective (which is amazing and valid but I’m left feeling like I have no idea what the guests think) Having said all that always edifying and I always leave feeling like I’ve learned so much

@marnew1000 Жыл бұрын

I’m a male in my mid to late 50s now, very happily married for 22 years. But even when I was single guy I always made a point of never sleeping with any of my girlfriends until three months had passed. Just my personal ways, but it worked for me. Just ordered Louise’s book and looking forward to reading it. My thanks to you JP

@spudm6839 10 ай бұрын

Is the 10th date an okay threshold?

@loanicastillo3327 8 ай бұрын

In the Dominican Republic after passing the job interview you enter the company in a three months trial or probation. When you have a baby, you go to work after only three months which is abusive to both the woman and the baby. But if you were going to sleep with a person in a bed, that is one thing (I like the idea of sleeping with a loved one), but sex is another very dirty that was meant for conception otherwise.

@marks2807 7 ай бұрын

No woman will wait three months today. They will call you an incel, and move on.

@dnbjedi 5 ай бұрын

That’s exceedingly rare for a male to do- but it’s a great strategy.

@dnbjedi 5 ай бұрын

Well-- it was. Nowadays women would consider you inept or ‘asexual’. Or, “boring”

@ET_LWO Жыл бұрын

“Training themselves to view women as targets of short term gratification… that’s like training in psychopathy.”

@zyzzer Жыл бұрын

I'd love to see a part 2 of this conversation where we flip it and JP listens while she does 80% of the talking 😏 love ya JP and I know you're full of knowledge just waiting to burst out. But one thing I hope is that you separate your conversations where the guest is talking 80% of the time and then at the end of you want a monologue, go for it! I really feel for her because I'm sure she expected to talk a lot more about her book and her findings but instead she attended a JP university lecture which referenced her book.

@marksouthern7542 Жыл бұрын

Haha... i noticed that too. That is a JP trait in lots of interviews. He also did this with Judith Curry and Richard Lindzen (both high level scientists). However, I think he has earned his place and the right to speak, and I think generally his interviewees know this too and are happy.

@ostclanadventures Жыл бұрын

I commented the same thing! 😂 He’s brilliant, but it’s can come across as self absorbed if he’s not carful. I’m going to go watch her in other interviews so I can actually hear from her.

@DELO480 Жыл бұрын

I agree with a part 2 if she's up for it. This particular subject, I would say, merits detailed perspective from lived experiences of both sexes. Beyond that, I'm happy to listen to public conversation of serious things. I'm overthinking, but I consider the mobbing from the other side of the table over minutia.

@rezamirsadeghi3738 Жыл бұрын

Agree 100%. I'd heard Louise Perry before and she's got a really interesting and important viewpoint that's really worth listening to. But here, unfortunately JP didn't give her a chance to speak.

@steinsgate514 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree. He made some great points but I really wanted to hear what she had to say.

@Emotionallyattachedtorocks Жыл бұрын

I am so glad these conversations are taking place! I’ve always felt like an outcast thinking these things.

@ronizielinski4048 Жыл бұрын

Truth. Especially for older millennials and young gen xers. This stuff was off the table in year 2005!!!!

@ktwashere5637 Жыл бұрын

I think many of us secretly felt this but got shouted down if we tried to articulate it.

@komicsreviewer8505 3 ай бұрын

Well, you are an outcast.

@leticiagarcia5311 10 ай бұрын

As a young women who grew up believing all the lies that society told me I am so proud that I can see it all now for what i really is. This is definitely one of my favorite episodes and was well articulated!!!

@DL-idk Жыл бұрын

The concept of matriarch is very interesting. I've noticed that among my family and friends' families, it's always from when the grandma dies the adult children stop coming back for traditional festivals. And that's when the clan truly falls apart. People don't come back for grandpas. They visit them, but because grandpas don't organize family assemblies and they don't know how to even if they want, they don't have the same power of summoning children as the matriarchs do. When grandmas die, they take the glue away with them and the adult children begin to scatter and start their own little clans.

@grannyannie2948 Жыл бұрын

My mother passed away a little more than a year after I became a grandmother. I found after the funeral and the settling of mum's affairs, our siblings and I stopped visiting each other, whilst my line of adult children and grandchildren definitely became a clan. We all moved to a different state together. We would never have moved to a different state than my mother when she was alive.

@aninymouse1651 Жыл бұрын

My father is the big party planner type guy, though my mother is the one who enjoys making mountains of food. They're a good, hard-working team.

@elizabethbeunaiche6470 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true, more than 1/2 our family of 8 never show up for family reunions anymore.

@mr.blackhawk142 Жыл бұрын

That's interesting, and actually THOUGHT-provoking. Too bad you chose a STERILE username, and a BLANK usericon. I like to know WHO is relaying this message.

@thorinhannahs4614 Жыл бұрын

I am sure that applies to the majority but my grandmothers on both sides are still alive and they are not "family glue" or "children summoners." Also I believe they were the first link in the divorce chain that runs through my family. That might have something to do with it.

@shalomfernando6998 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for bringing this conversation to light. As a 31 year old single male, I can mirror the values you both presented and this is the beacon of hope that we need for society. many thanks for introducign the book. I just ordered it right away.

@jeffgojail Жыл бұрын

You're literally taking dating advice from one of the most unfuckable men on the planet. His voice alone could dry a woman's vagina in 6 seconds flat. He cries every 5 minutes like a little fking bitch. This is the guy you're going to look up to? Spoiler alert: you're going to be single for a hell of a longtime pal. Do yourself a favor, the next time you're going to spend money on a Jordan Peterman anything, just take that money and go buy a hooker. It might be your only chance to get laid.

@arycawithana839 10 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this conversation. I also admire you for thanking everyone right down to the camera production people. Very cool of you. Thank you.

@Mary_Quaid Жыл бұрын

Fantastic conversation! I wish I had listened to this in my youth!

@comegetzome Жыл бұрын

Absolutely love Perry. She’s brilliant & she has an air about her that demonstrates self-control & integrity & i found her book compelling. She’s marvelous.

@_.BitcoinUniversity.. Жыл бұрын

👉👉👉 Thanks for watching! You can contact me anytime I've something special to introduce you to....

@ricksduman Жыл бұрын

One of the best lines, “Women were offered a promise that they can live just like a man , you can have sex just like a man, and they are profoundly miserable and they do recognize that deep down that promise is an empty one.”

@courtneyfrost915 Жыл бұрын

Great comment! I did not fall for it. No regrets.

@TGP109 Жыл бұрын

I'm 55 years old and have heard that quote in one form or another for decades, but only from pundits and Conservatives, never in real life. All women know they have only so much time to get what they want out of life but I've never met one woman who regretted never marrying or forgoing children. I say this as a Conservative myself.

@dearbrave4183 Жыл бұрын

This implies that sex just like a man isn't empty for men. They are not mentally ill by en large for no reason.

@dearbrave4183 Жыл бұрын

@@TGP109 True. different from the popular conservative narrative that the single or childless woman is miserable. I have yet to meet one who is. Unless if this was not by choice.

@catherineball7584 Жыл бұрын

Men more often than not say they feel empty after meaningless sex, though.

@FlunkyKong Жыл бұрын

Love this conversation. It can get confusing in daily life with so much noise. My wife and I are about to have our first child, a daughter. All I want is to protect her while being a good male role model. Thank you both for this insight.

@BlackTVPicasso Жыл бұрын

monologue

@daves-c8919 Жыл бұрын

Hey Scott, I became a father not very long ago. My daughter is now 2. Just keep in mind that no matte how well you protect a child, they eventually find the apple they were told not to eat… Protection only gets you so far. Eventually, you’ll have to prepare her. Best of luck. I mean it, I wish you and your little family a beautiful life. I don’t know you, but I’m completely rooting for you.

@TinLizzy1 Жыл бұрын

You are already on the right track Scott, by being a part of your daughter’s life and desiring to raise her with good morals and virtue.

@susanhopi5611 Жыл бұрын

@@daves-c8919 exactly

@karenk2409 Жыл бұрын

You have all the instincts of a great husband and father. I had a Greatest Generation father, he was the Rock of Gibraltar for me and my brothers, who all grew up to be honorable men. It doesn't protect your family from difficulties or adolescent stupidities, but in the end, your daughter will honor you, I promise. Be the Rock, it's the greatest thing a man can do for his family.

@christienebotha6363 Жыл бұрын

This was one of the best discussions I've heard in a long time 👌👌👌EXCELLENT! Love Louise's insightful research in her topic /Book! I will definitely buy the book 💯❤️👌

@genniebeeXCU Жыл бұрын

Wish I had someone to explain all of this to me when I was a teenager. What amazing insights they both have on this topic!

@koshobai Жыл бұрын

The gift that keeps on giving. Now I know of Louise Perry. Thank you two for these insights.

@Applepie910 Жыл бұрын

Gosh, this interview is a dream come true. I've been reading Louise's book in small amounts to truly understand it. It has a healing effect on me. Thank you!

@triggerhappy3034 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic conversation - the kind we need more of. Thank you! ✨

@franziskani 5 ай бұрын

This was a conversation ? I thought this was HIS lecture and her getting in a word occasionally (rarely).

@mh007sha Жыл бұрын

Thanks JBP & Louise Perry for the great Episode

@hectorrenemelendez Жыл бұрын

Louise Perry's focus on the harmful consequences of the sexual revolution and its impact on society was well articulated. It is important to recognize that there are often unintended consequences to even the most well-intentioned social movements, and her analysis brought attention to the need for a more balanced and thoughtful approach to these issues.

@Hearth123 Жыл бұрын

I love the Maiden, Mother, Matriarch conceptual framework, it really helps explain things I've been trying to put into words

@JohnJohnson-wy6fk Жыл бұрын

Yeah me too. I was just having a fun conversation with my wife explaining why escorts,strippers, and porn stars ( in general) were not great choices for marriage and this MMM framework would have been helpful in making my case. Being stuck in the Maiden phase seems to work out badly in the long run.

@JohnJohnson-wy6fk Жыл бұрын

@@minagica Not all, but many wind up that way who fail to realize that beauty doesn't last forever and the opportunities it brings. Making 1000 a night typically destroys ones ability to delay gratification and any incentive for honest work.

@terrathunderstorms3701 Жыл бұрын

That's a lovely way of putting it. I confess that I am deeply disappointed in conservative commentators' inability to provide women a dignified structure instead of "marry fast before you hit the wall, and in the meantime you're either a failure or a whore" diatribe. It's a mess, and I appreciate Dr. Peterson having someone to fix this.

@Hearth123 Жыл бұрын

@@terrathunderstorms3701 Yes, a dignified life path! Accept the phases of your life and stop trying to relive the past.

@roboparks Жыл бұрын

Women are Chaos unless they are married and have man to control then -JPs view

@lauraboatright6381 Жыл бұрын

I love your guests, Jordan. I struggle with your interviews bc too often you talk more than they do and as much as I enjoy your intellect and insight, I really want to hear from your guests.

@pmarkhill519 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful discussion! I’ve been married 45 years. Had 3 children, grandchildren, and full career with a Master’s Degree. I fully concur with you BOTH. God bless!

@komicsreviewer8505 3 ай бұрын

Why did you have to post your credentials?

@ZubyMusic Жыл бұрын

An excellent and necessary conversation!

@moresquatsmoretwats6298 Жыл бұрын

True

@clanwargods Жыл бұрын

Amen

@underlord3761 Жыл бұрын

Ayoo zuby!!

@thecommonword6996 Жыл бұрын

Precisely. And it's encouraging to see people from different backgrounds arriving at the same set of insights about the harmfulness of pornography and hookup culture.

@LilSyl05 Жыл бұрын

She shouuld go on FnF That would be a clash between the young girls and her

@daisyhaven9831 Жыл бұрын

I'd love to see more of Louise Perry, she is very interesting to listen too. Just wish she got more of a chance to talk here.

@justahumanbeing.709 Жыл бұрын

check out her Triggernometry and Chris Williamson interviews.

@Rebecca-hv2rb Жыл бұрын

I came from a poor family, 5th child and last in line. My advantage was having a mother born in 1924, Rosie the Riverter, depression era woman. After all my siblings moved away, my dad , mom and I moved all over the country. I was an average looking girl. However, my folks raised me up in a solid Christian faith. I took it upon myself to read the bible. My favorite book was PROVERBS. The truths and guidelines held in that book is for everyone. Even if one isn't God believeing. Straight philosophical truths applicable for anyone with a brain. Being a Christian girl, I carried myself with grace because God deemed me valuable and I was grateful. I respected boys/men with a high regard. And, in turn it came back to me 10 fold. By the time I was 18 , I had many marriage offers from high status men. From successful businessmen, pilots in the Air Force, doctors, lawyers all kinds. Fast forward, I have been married to an Industrial Engineer for 20 years. He is an elegant man. We both were NOT causal sex people. All good things come to those who are willing to wait.

@christiansgrignoli3351 6 ай бұрын

This is what men with values actually want

@kathyj3584 Жыл бұрын

Incredible content backed up with indisputable facts, delivered in a way that is easy to understand and apply. 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

@jakemortiki Жыл бұрын

For a single 22 year old male, i always find you both bring hope to my mind on the front of relationships, thank you both!

@safetythirdified Жыл бұрын

Your generation is going to have it rough. I wish you the best. I'm sorry the generation before me (boomer), and the one I'm in (millennial), messed things up so bad for you.

@etcwhatever Жыл бұрын

If you believe in God i advise you to find a wife in a church context. But someone with a good personality. Theres disfunctional people in Church too but at least most people arent playing games.

@linked9257 Жыл бұрын

Im a 23 yr old woman, and I find it hard to connect with like minded people my own age on topics like this one here. Its reassuring to know that there are people like you listening and learning along with me!

@jakemortiki Жыл бұрын

Theirs no place to connect, no one goes dancing anymore theirs no reason to dress up, theirs no reason to present your self with respect. So we must make our own, im just glad to see us all reassuring each other. May fate smile upon you all and thank you.

@boogers5760 Жыл бұрын

@@safetythirdified don't apologize..... pr0n saved me multiple times from bad dates that people set me up to. Just lie and say your busy. Then grab some tissues a smartphone and enjoy

@vincentlaw1415 Жыл бұрын

"Gynecological" is maybe the funniest and most dry adjective to describe modern porn 😂

@NickNicometi Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't say dry, but slightly moist.

@evieblue959 Жыл бұрын

@@NickNicometi your faculty for making a statement drastically worse is impressive. please stop.

@NickNicometi Жыл бұрын

@@evieblue959 You should be so lucky to see the capacity of my faculty! Cleary, your sense of humor is quite arid, as I'm sure are all your parts.

@albertlevins9191 Жыл бұрын

Agreed! Ha!!!

@claranadine1086 Жыл бұрын

@@NickNicometi oh my goshhhh 😭😂🤣

@georger6624 11 ай бұрын

Thank you very much Professor Jordan Peterson, for pointing out things in such great detail. Why thank you

@thecaldwells3 Жыл бұрын

As always Dr. Peterson shows just how smart and well versed he is on this and so many things. I would have liked to hear her speak more but grateful for the content.

@JH-sn8kg Жыл бұрын

As a recovering porn addict myself, I must say what a conversation this is. I only wish these conversations were taking place back when I was addicted over ten years ago. I could have saved so much time. Porn ruined many relationships and nearly my reputation as well.

@Francis-kw9ui Жыл бұрын

Many Pastors are snagged by this temptation of porn calling it harder to quit than addictive drugs… not a relationship support

@SadRahne Жыл бұрын

Porn nearly destroyed my marriage. Nobody should choose pornography over real life sex and intimacy in a relationship.

@liquidgal9867 Жыл бұрын

@SadRahne you were married, why would you fantasize over pretend images when you had the real deal. I think men are also lead astray.

@KirisutonoNeko Жыл бұрын

This is very sad. I remember conversations like this from over ten years ago, so they were happening, but it seems even now they do not always reach the ears of all who need to hear them.

@KirisutonoNeko Жыл бұрын

@@RadiantStar8997 In addition to what polly said, once you are a part of a reply chain, sometimes you’ll get messages in your notifications and be able to read and respond to them, but find that they are missing from the publicly viewable replies section.

@tonermitchell7705 Жыл бұрын

I love Louise Perry. A suggestion, when interviewing male and female guests, you usually command an overwhelming portion of the conversation with the women. Maybe it's the female agreeableness factor you commonly refer to. All the guests are fabulous, but it would be great to hear more of what the women have to say, more of a dialogue like what you had with Epstein, Lomborg, etc. I know Louise Perry from her appearance on Meghan Daum's Unspeakable podcast; she was amazing and your listeners would have benefitted by hearing more of her.

@redbrown7355 Жыл бұрын

I hear what you're saying. I enjoy Jordan Peterson very much, however, it seems like his interviews have more to do with his opinions as opposed to his guests opinion. Hopefully he picks up on this and figures out how to restructure his show and realize that this is not his University classrooms, but instead, a platform for his subscribers to learn more about his guest.

@rubyshoes9195 Жыл бұрын

Agreed, I find you don’t get to hear enough from any guests, but the women less so. Except the woman with autism who was explaining how her brain worked - he didn’t know how to handle her!

@daisyhaven9831 Жыл бұрын

Agree, I would have liked to hear more of Louise, she didn't get much of a chance to say anything.

@tonermitchell7705 Жыл бұрын

@@rubyshoes9195 "Here are my views against a background of Louise Perry." "Here are my views against a backdrop of Konstantin Kisin."

@ramadev2309 Жыл бұрын

It was a bit painful to see that happening sometimes, I'd not heard of her before, so her viewpoint was much more interesting to me than Jordan's exposition of some of his ideas, beautifully woven into sentences and full paragraphs, and contextualized and brilliant as they may be. Plus her most pleasant voice, accent and parlance, and her just plainly lovely countenance are quite something to behold.

@gardenladyjimenez1257 11 ай бұрын

The power of this book/interview is its treatment of ALL the human desires and relationships destroyed by the Sexual Revolution. At age 70+ I have witnessed all the destructive impact on men/women relationships...including a rejection of marriage, formation of families and welcoming children. My children were teens when we invented the mantra "Safe Sex" promising they would avoid HIV (new to our world) and avoid "unplanned pregnancy." This drew me into a lifelong involvement with groups speaking to the benefit of healthy men/women marriages that welcome life. I feel deep pain for the world we have created for young people. It is painful for me to watch and talk about.

@youtubeforkidz1394 Жыл бұрын

This was one of the most educational and needed videos in my opinion. I learned alot

@randyrawdingii5135 Жыл бұрын

I love that it's pointed out we no longer attach status to mothers and matriarchs, as we once did. I'm grateful both my parents have instilled in me the instinctive value that knowledge, wisdom and discretion are traits most elders have, and to be respectful, regardless of them reflecting such. Thankful for the examples in my life.

@princetonscholar5723 Жыл бұрын

Women are anesthesiologists, orthopedic surgeons, corporate attorneys etc. - that’s our status 🎉

@KLKosi123 Жыл бұрын

I don’t really think this is true. I’m pregnant for the first time now and I have never in my life been lauded and praised so much for anything as I am for this - for a natural bodily process. Society definitely still values motherhood intensely. No matter what else a woman does in her life, this is what she’ll be most admired for.

@freebird7017 Жыл бұрын

@@KLKosi123 And rightly so, imo. But being pregnant and bringing a baby into the world isn’t the real thing to respect. The real respect should be given for being able to bring that child up to be an asset to society. Hard work that too many parents just don’t live up to which mostly creates a viscous cycle of more people who don’t know how to or aren’t prepared to parent properly. I wish you joy with your little one and much strength and wisdom to bring him or her up well.

@randyrawdingii5135 Жыл бұрын

@@freebird7017 I cannot bear children and respect the ability to give birth immensely, but bringing a child up well and making them a productive member of society who brings value is truly an accomplishment. As the saying that goes that I love so much, "The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world"... God bless.

@randyrawdingii5135 Жыл бұрын

@@KLKosi123 Glad to see you've been uplifted by compliments of people noticing your pregnancy. I think in general, the leaders in our country are against motherhood as a whole but thank God that the people you've surrounded yourself with are so supportive of you. That's fantastic! And congrats! God bless you and your growing family 😃

@sharronhagen8442 Жыл бұрын

1:03 A much needed conversation for all ages. At 66 years of age I am going to explore further the attributes of being a matriarch. I want to leave a spiritual and financial legacy for my children and grandchildren. I keep in constant contact with my family and encourage my 14-year-old grandson to be the best he can be by spending time with him, through conversation and answering his questions. Life is very challenging for this age group. Jordan and Louise, thank you.

@encouraginglegacy Жыл бұрын

A matriach?

@sucaadshardi9650 Жыл бұрын

@@encouraginglegacy whats wrong with matriarch ?

@encouraginglegacy Жыл бұрын

@@sucaadshardi9650 What's wrong with me reassuring? Did I say there's something wrong with it, lad?

@Supsboredrn Жыл бұрын

Is Jordan Peterson a trans man??

@droneon6419 9 ай бұрын

This was an absolute gem! If it is still around, I hope to show this to my daughter When she's older here in a decade or so

@franksimonds04 Жыл бұрын

Another wonderful, intelligent, informative conversation. Thank you Dr. Peterson.

@SKingA803 Жыл бұрын

One of the most important and valuable interviews yet. Sex, male/female relationships and our ideas around it are the driving factor for the way our world develops and changes. It is so important that we get this right. Great interview. Everyone should watch this.

@gordoncameraon Жыл бұрын

Louise is brilliant. Can't believe I hadn't heard of her before Chris Williamson's podcast. Really refreshing to hear a woman's logical perspective. Her book sounds like a must buy!

@chrisbarrett2117 Жыл бұрын

Yeah maybe if JP would let her speak we could tell that.

@karentrevino6904 Жыл бұрын

@@chrisbarrett2117😂 you're exaggerating, you can check all the conversation on his platform though

@DBEdwards 11 ай бұрын

Jordans commentary is brilliant, profound and refreshing. The truth is revealed.

@lydiajoymcdowell-davis3390 10 ай бұрын

Wonderful conversation! Thank you!

@carlosraymundomartinezesq3396 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been addicted to a many things in my life, alcohol, drugs, even women, but porn is the one addiction I still desperately struggle with. Everything they say here rings true for me. I’m old enough to grow up before the internet. I can’t imagine growing up with a smart phone and always having access to hardcore porn from a very young age. It started with magazines for me and that was destructive enough. This needs to addressed openly in our society, and it’s not happening.

@Opal5674 Жыл бұрын

My EX husband told me after divorce that he was exposed to intent p0rn by age 10 and in his words addicted by age 13. It messed him up badly.

@carlosraymundomartinezesq3396 Жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 I’m sorry for both of you. Porn is destroying men and women like this. I’m sure any divorce is hell.

@kellysouter4381 Жыл бұрын

I'm also of the generation pre internet. I disapprove of parents who give children unsupervised access. It's like leaving the front door of your house open and letting anyone who wants to come in and interact with your child. You don't know whether those strangers are good people or not. Your child, for whom you are responsible, will bear the brunt.

@carlosraymundomartinezesq3396 Жыл бұрын

@@kellysouter4381 it’s like leaving cocaine on the coffee table. Its that addictive. Hijacks the dopamine system just like hard, dopaminergic drugs like cocaine and meth.

@pocnit Жыл бұрын

@@carlosraymundomartinezesq3396 Nowhere close to hard drugs.

@miriamhodges5632 Жыл бұрын

I've been waiting for an episode from Jordan on this exact topic! Already know this will be an amazing interview. Thank you, Dr Peterson, for having discussions like this!

@apairofbrowneyes77 11 ай бұрын

This talk was, to me, both incredibly validating on the human values front and enourmously saddening on the value of humans side. As someone who deeply appreciates the principles of the "good path", of balance as the source of happiness (which doesn't necessarily equals everlasting euphoria or joy) either for the individual and the collective, the part about the need for self regulation (not necessarily repression by others) of our behaviours really resonated with me. Some years ago, I came to the conclusion that the 7 deadly sins of our Christian tradition are descriptions of exasperated behaviours unchecked by a sense of communal good. They're deadly not exactly because they "kill" you but because they prevent you and those aroubd you from fully living a blessed life. In that sense, sloth is unbalanced rest, rath is unbalanced initiative, envy is unbalanced ambition, lust is unbalanced desire and so on. Like so many things in life, virtues and vices differ in amount, not in nature. But the value of humans part of the talk, that was disheartening, it brought tears to my eyes, actually. All that talk about the positioning of people on an hierarchical scale of high Vs. low status/value/worth, making use of highly biased and absolutely unscientific by modern standards, biological and physiological analogies (I am also a biologist, very disapointed with the whole field of ethology and psycho-biology, which has historicaly served as a poor justification for right-wing segregationist and sexist ideologies) just made my heart sink. I am a Christian in the sense that I really value and treasure Christian ideals of brotherly love and equality among human beings. And this is not being in denial of reality or wishfully thinking that relationships among humans should be something they could never be. It's affirming that people are not capital nor resources and that rigid hierarchies are not ingrained on human DNA, they are an artifact of the domination paradigm. Another way is possible.

@SuperFata 11 ай бұрын

Half an hour in and, as much as I love listening to JP; this seems 90 % him. I think JP should give more room to the guest. Otherwise an amazing talk, as always.

@sarahhannah9647 13 күн бұрын

I agree

@Melody-st4df Жыл бұрын

P.S. When I was a tiny weeny baby my mother taught me my First word : "No!" and she told me that this word would stand me in good stead throughout my life. My mother was Right. So many women can't use this potent word and they miss out on so much Respect. And I'm not only talking about sexuality.

@Crimson-katanas Жыл бұрын

You give strength to people who need it most, while at the same time trying your best to bring awareness to the delusional people who use their persuasive power to knowingly damage individuals. You are a national 🇨🇦 treasure

@trewloveofficial 10 ай бұрын

This is the most validating interview I’ve ever watched

@nata.galvez.m Жыл бұрын

I love loved loved this, very inspiring and refreshing ❤🎉 thank you both 🙏🏽

@alqoshgirl Жыл бұрын

What I’m missing in this conversation is amazing moral men that wouldn’t even try to damage a girl but protect her as a jewel while courting her. The conversation turned all on the woman saying no. And how great that is to keep a man in line. Sorry, but any man that tried things with me was a huge turn off and prove to me they weren’t husband material. The thing I loved about my husband is the fact that he protected me as a jewel and we have a great intimate marriage because of our moral standard

@EveofPyrite Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. A man who doesn't even try to gave sex is a real king.

@curtishancock432 Жыл бұрын

@@EveofPyritethe problem is that men want sex. Really bad. Even " good" men want sex. This society doesn't reward that from either men or women.

@AR-mu4zq Жыл бұрын

Your not "damaged" by having sex though.

@monicalillis3294 Жыл бұрын

@@AR-mu4zq It causes a lot of damage, physically as in Std's, Aids, and psychologically to Individuals and to society who pay the economic price.

@CountryOfClocks Жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking while listening to Jordan Peterson too. I've broken up with people over tests like that because I take it to mean they don't care about my desire to wait until marriage. Though in these cases I've already communicated my intention, and they pushed the boundaries anyway. I certainly wouldn't ever see someone trying to seduce me into sex as a test to see if I have self control to remain loyal in a long term relationship.

@LisaPlumbMFT Жыл бұрын

Her work is so important, she is brilliant, and Jordan is brilliant, I wanted to hear more of her, please have her on again

@mrb6916 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr. Peterson & Louise Perry 😊

@tedoymisojos 11 ай бұрын

Amazing conversation. Thank you!

@BlueSkyLtd. Жыл бұрын

Louise Perry is wonderful to listen to. I look forward to reading her book. Thank-you for this interview!

@kirstyclarke6249 Жыл бұрын

It’s such a relief to see a video like this. Felt really accurate

@mr.blackhawk142 Жыл бұрын

"Felt really accurate" is NOT a complete sentence.

@kirstyclarke6249 Жыл бұрын

@@mr.blackhawk142 that’s true 🤷‍♀️

@luct1016 Жыл бұрын

Thank both of you for your incredibly important job

@elizabethdavis2483 10 ай бұрын

An important conversation. Thank you both.

@karamathenia9537 Жыл бұрын

I was able to see Dr Peterson when he and Tammy were in Seattle,WA. Highly recommend to go if he's in your area. I've been watching him for several years. Excited that he's become a Christian and has brought so much of his thoughts and insites to the Bible. I have listened to hundreds hours of his lectures and interviews and have been enriched by them. Turned many others on to him also. He is a blessing. Thank you Dr Peterson

@AllySun3 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for coming to speak for us here in Fort Worth, Dr. Peterson. My husband and I had fun! Your son played beautifully and Tammy is superb! Excellent to listen live and we appreciate your presence here in Texas. 🙏🏼❤

@amypatterson-bocchi2514 Жыл бұрын

I love these long form exploratory conversations, but I’d love to also have clips of important points that I could share with my teenage sons.

@awsambdaman Жыл бұрын

She’s brilliant. Great discussion

@jukkaahonen6557 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the camera and tech people behind the scenes, for making possible this great show!

@madsquishy3410 Жыл бұрын

Clicked on this so fast when I saw the title!! I just recently finished her book, and it opened my eyes to so many things that I think I already knew but just didn't ever have the words for.

@mr.blackhawk142 Жыл бұрын

Many people now do not know right from wrong, and many do not care either. It's VERY disturbing to me.

@alexb7641 Жыл бұрын

Holy shit I read the comment, then looked at your name. Idk if you already knew lol

@sarahd1706 10 ай бұрын

I am so grateful for religion that has taught me that sexual relations are sacred & meant to be only between husband & wife. Trying to live as God teaches, I have not had to stress about the consequences spoken about in this interview (except that my dating pool is small as I look for men with similar values). My peace of mind or physical health have not been robbed by the moment’s pleasure or by being pressured by some man. I don’t even have to worry about the side effects of the pill & how it messes with the body. The blessings of following the law of chastity are greater than this discussion has touched on. For anyone reading, it’s not too late to change & choose to wait for the full commitment of marriage. It can seem hard in todays culture & since we naturally have impulses to procreate, but it is very doable & worth it. We have power of choice & we have more power than our impulses & feelings do. Helpful tips are: to not give into the excuse/lie that everyone does it (even if it were true, who cares), understand the why behind chastity, choose not to be entertained by movies & such with sexual acts (sacred acts being cheapened/trampled), keep your mind & language clean/disciplined (actions come from thoughts & feelings), & making sure to date respectful men (/women) (learning how to recognize them, & not worry about rejecting them if you find out they’re not respectul after all. I’ve gotten to the point where I can see & sense the light of virtue or lack of light they have. I can smell porn use & I personally stay away). Most of all I’ve relied on God’s strength & He gives me confidence, peace & self respect-men or physical pleasure have no power to give me that. I’m a virgin in my 40s who has dated a lot, & I have no regrets in this area, & want to encourage everyone that it’s very doable. I’ve known many others who live this way too. Whatever your past is (i.e. you don’t have to be a virgin), let’s change the culture, even for the non religious.

@Newman2296 10 ай бұрын

Hope you soon find a good man who is a believer that deserves you. Unbelievable.