Hey I’m Gen X and childfree. Here’s what it means to be childfree from an older gens perspective. If you’re in a relationship, you will have MUCH less conflict. Children are a huge stressor in a relationship. The flip side, is that children could be the only thing that is really bringing you together w your partner so when the kids grow up, you may realize you have nothing in common w your partner bc it’s all been about the kids. For the childfree, we have much more disposable income, can freely be in creative fields without worrying too much about finances and just have so much more freedom - you can do weekend trips wherever you want, you can eat whatever you want and you have so much less responsibility. Here’s something else no one talks about. Giving birth and having children puts a lot of stress on your body. No joke, me and my husband both look ten years younger. Sure that’s partly genetics but I think it’s mostly that we don’t have children and the stress of keeping little ones alive. Anyway that’s an older generations perspective. Love your channel, Shelby!

You should make a doc style video about the economics of people who own tennis clubs. I feel like it’s a business that is never really spoke about and seems fairly low cost to startup.

You’ve inspired me to play tennis again! I signed up for a club and have reconnected with my childhood passion again. I have found that I’m also bonding with my Dad more because of tennis! Thank you for sharing your 🎾 journey with us!

The day is always better when Shelby posts

You're videos from both of your channels have always been entertaining from beginning to end. I normally don't like watching vlogs, but your style of editing keeps my attention.

So happy to hear you're doing okay after that rooftop find. I saw something similar at a bus stop in Phoenix years ago. The memory still sticks and can't help but feel awful for that person.

Shelby, I always look forward in what you are doing. I love how you had your advertisement up on the wall. Plus, you love ❤️ tennis. This vlog had so many different components and I loved every moment. Thank you!

Can't wait for the Joshua Tree project to finally start 😎

Also- a commentary video that I think would be really interesting is the longevity of influencers/people who gain a ton of fame overnight (an example from rn would be reesa Teesa) or people who got famous from memes or other things similar to that. Think Brittany broski and then see how they’ve made a career out of overnight fame and then look at people who did not have the longevity of people like Brittany.

Your place is looking really put together!

I haven't played in years but my parents' new condo has a board and I'm going to hit it up when I go and visit them! Thanks for the inspo.🎾

Yay!!! It's a good day cause you posted. Love your energy.

Thank you putting up blogs. I love putting them on when I'm eating alone or even just getting ready for my day. Vlogs are itttt

Shelby makes our weekend better when she post a video.

Saturday evening here.Great to see you on Walmart live / shoutout to LL 😉

You are getting so much better at Tennis, you can really see it over the last year!

Something I learnt about working out recently that might help you: Strength training boosts your metabolic rate so you continue burning calories faster even when not working out, whereas cardio just burns calories in the moment. A good mix of both is ideal.

The food at the restaurant looks so good. YUMMY! LOL!

Look forward to seeing the Joshua build.

Hey Shelbs!!!!!! I am so glad I get to watch a vlog today. Love ya!!!!!!!

Excited for the Joshua Tree build! These things always take a long time but it will be great for your channel. Appointing a builder already is great

Thanks for the episode-- my right before bed relaxer with tea and snacks 🙂

The option for pickleball and tennis is definitely the way to go over a slightly less aesthetic- fellow Airbnb owner!

I'm feeling down because of the gloomy/rainy weather. :( 🌧 But watching you makes me feel better! :)❤

Can’t wait to see your JT project get going. I am visiting JT/PS for just 24 hours on our way from Sedona to San Diego. I’m def interesting in going for a longer stay sometime. Always love your vlogs❤

Shelby, you are an excellent tennis player! Twice in one day, means; you are fit! One day, you will be teaching a class. 🎾 I haven't played in over 20 years. Now, I hate that I stopped. I also could not believe the "Fab-Fit Haul!" You scored amazing products! Congrats on the Joshua Tree House! 😊

Shelby you're like a breath of fresh air when you pop up on #KZfaq. Always wondered what happened to Joshua tree!

You rocked that blusher.

Love your channel ❤

Looking glam for the party what a fashion icon.

Ok fab fit fun really pulling thru this month

Love the bracelets!

I actually don't mind seeing that bookcase thing there! I think you should keep it!

Tennis looks intense but fun. Good for you girl!

I love to see how your tennis is getting better! A quick, unsolicited tip: I think you can work on straightening your back and your posture when running to the ball. Keep your core tight and shoulders back!

So much rain in LA in your vlogs lately - bringing that Seattle vibe with you lol

What are the opinions on the tennis shoes now you've used them for a while? Would recommend?

I have a 55 calorie 'Dance' entry in my Apple Fitness, every Saturday, 4 pmish, except when somebody has gas!

Honestly I know people are hating on the billboard ads but i think its a really cool and different way to integrate ads without interrupting the content 😁

Good to you, Tara, & Jill together again. How are your new tennis shoes?

I love seeing how into tennis you are! I feel like these days so many people are focused just on working out instead of enjoying a sport and it’s inspired me to try out a few to find one I really like!

You go Shelby Graf 🎾 👍.

Does anyone remember Tretorn tennis shoes? I wish they still made them.

Because you are versatile!

So I’ve been trying to look up videos to listen to for real estate lately, do you have any recommendations?

I got an Oscea cleanser that smelled like skittles!😅 good video Shelby

You should try a drop set workout, it will help you know when the ending is, and it pushes you because you know when the time is up. I see you use the treadmill so you could do a workout where you do 3:00 treadmill, 30 reps of a arm workout, 30 reps of abs, 30 reps of legs, and then go back to treadmill for 2:00 and repeat 20 reps of each exercise and get back on treadmill for 1:00 and 10 reps for each exercise. You could also choose 4 of your favorite exercises (variety is best) and do 10 reps the first round of each exercise then 9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1 reps of each exercise for each round. I stare at clock too, and these workouts really help me on days that I feel sluggish.

Can you still recommend T-Mobile? With your internet issues

I wouldn't worry about Joshua Tree, you can also end up renting or selling it if AirBnb rules change. It should make a profit anyway

daam u look so good and healthy, definitely i should workout too

The weekend and a blog from Shelby is the best combination 🎉

Do you do more planning and brainstorming on your main channel compared your Vlog channel?

Hi 👋 Idk if you know this but people should only wear their sport shoe for the sport and then change into another shoe to walk around. I used to run 🏃‍♀️ and that was a big thing that I was taught. The shoe forms to your foot and provides the best fit for that sport. Just thought I’d give a tip, hope no one minds 😅😊

I subscribe to fabfit fun box and I definitely didn't near the amount or even the things you got. I think the ONLY thing I got that you got was the Osea cleanser. 😳

You should of shown the whole fab fit fun box, I was gripped!

I think it would be interesting how much do you have to spend in LA to play tennis. It seems a lot per month

Other than calories you can also look at heart rate to compare workouts

The blush is a slay Shelby!!!! So good

If you have a court in Joshua Tree, how do you keep random people from using it?

How are your new tennis shoes?

I've never been this early

I really want to play tennis now haha

Do you upload your videos during the day or at night?

I had bought land and built a house from scratch and it was a lot of work. I buy lots now and flip them. Less work. I do pretty well selling lots.

Pickleball court net is lower in height than tennis courts. FYI. I love PB!

Why not get a lav mic instead of holding that big SM7? Or, at least switch to a SM58 or Beta58.

infra red lights - do Night Tennis like they do night bowling

great to see your keeping active. im wondering why you don't serve in the proper way ?

Please do a video on Gen Z vs Millennials and why Gen Z are aging faster.

What’s going on with the animated Charles Schwab ad on the living groom wal 20 seconds in…?

I don’t mind the ads bc they are very unobtrusive. It’s like the most chill form of advertising 🤷‍♀️ I can’t complain about it lol. Dno what the complainers expect. You’ve got to make an income on the channel to keep it going, so don’t mind those people;)

Andermatt Switzerland is a great place for foreign investors in real estate

I have noticed that in past videos, the subject was always discussed first and would have to scroll through the video to find the answer. I would love if I could see the subject discussed in the thumbnail itself first. I am typical viewer of both your channel and blog, and would love to know where you get your music from as they find it super awesome. Lastly,I would love it if you could share a direct link to Joshua Tree as the creator had mentioned discussing it at the end of a video.

Since when did Apple Care stop covering the full cost of repairs?

I'll put things by the door not to forget it if I feel it's important.

I think a very interesting video for you to do is the San Andreas fault! I lived in Vancouver in 80s when I first heard about it and was worried sick as scientists have been saying any day now since back then! It’s going to be a big one as the two plates are not side by side, ie the plates are sitting on one another and one is going to slide off the other and cause a +10 Richter scale quake! People don’t have plans in place and they say falling glass from buildings will be a huge issue!

Oh wow we have to pay for tennis courts now? I remember going to the local park and hoping a court is open.

Shelby or anyone in the comments: Does anyone know the name and brand of Shelby's black top that she's wearing at the 17:00 minute mark?

Cool thing about ON tennis, Roger Federer is minority owner vs just sponsored athlete

Idk I really think you should get out of the Joshua Tree house. You’ve seen how hard it can be with your other house, and how little profit you end up making. Is it really worth having another expensive massive headache, especially when most people now specifically avoid airbnb when they travel? It just feel like trying to get into something years after the fad has passed.

At least you’re eating healthy! I feel like I need to Acquire some skills with cooking fish. The manager of the local Perkins has kept me in coupons 20% off, so I go there for fish or shrimp. It gets me out…

The funnier Shelby is the more attractive she becomes, I think she’s fun with a good sense of humour ✌️❤️🇬🇧

Love how the ads are there but don't interrupt the content. Love it! Keep up the amazing work

These ads just ain’t it 😬😬😬

You should try not to say "like" so much in your reels Shelby! I know we all struggle with it but it makes you sound less professional

Why does KZfaq keep unsubscribing??

Isn’t boxes like that just a huge waste of resources. You get a lot of stuff you don’t really need or will never use.

Who is rob? Is he a business partner ?

post more lol

How come by fab fit fun boxes have like 5 items including cough drops?! I do understand that it was curated for you to probably promote … but definitely feels misleading 😩 (not by you, by the company).

Why is this vlog flopping?!

damn.... get to the point of the video....

I know the money is just too good to say no to, but these tacky billboard ads are so cheap and is making your video look like grand theft auto.

I'm so sorry but these weird new integrated ads are absolutely killing your videos for me. 😣 They are so invasive.

Joshua is jew i don like that support Israel