“AFTER” IS EVERYTHING WRONG WITH YA FICTION | BAD MOVIES & A BEAT| KennieJD

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Not sure that saying "any and all problems can be solved with sex" to teens is a good idea...... js
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@blueladybug4767 4 жыл бұрын

His character is so ew. When he said "Don't flatter yourself." when she reacted to him breaking into her room, I wanted to smack him.

@wendyyy5573 4 жыл бұрын

Harry would never say that irl! ☹️☹️😔

@arjaneb 4 жыл бұрын

shit Hero is fine. he did well as Hardin, when i saw that seen when he was in her room. i would be like “hello!”

@savannawilliams1955 4 жыл бұрын

Honestly dude was just good at his job because he acted just how his character was writ.

@christakingsley8789 4 жыл бұрын

I would have beaten him up if he talked to me like that

@Nuffsaid22 4 жыл бұрын

yeeeesss hahahaha.

@mel42862 4 жыл бұрын

the fact that sex in high school is so normalized makes me uncomfortable. i know a lot of teenagers actually do it, but i hate when shows or movies make it seem like a person is weird cause they didn't have sex while they were in school

@Frooti.loopz23 4 жыл бұрын

Highscoolers are in general sexualised and it creeps me out. Riverdale is really bad at this

@ZovestaDark 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100x

@primrosett 4 жыл бұрын

Theyre in college in this movie, its just that the boyfriend is a year younger than the mc

@missironmouse 4 жыл бұрын

It’s super uncomfortable! Why does Hollywood wanna sexualize high schoolers (essentially children) so much? It’s disturbing

@mel42862 4 жыл бұрын

@@Overquoted well I guess it just makes me uncomfortable since I'm only a freshman and couldn't even imagine doing something like that anytime soon. But I guess it depends on the person. But what I found really weird in the movie was that when the girl told them she was a virgin they acted like that was so crazy. And I'm not saying it's wrong to do it in high school, I'm just saying in general I really don't understand why the media makes loosing your virginity seem like a thing you HAVE to do while you're in high school or else it's weird.

@rubensmuse 4 жыл бұрын

TBH, that whole "You Made Me Into A Better Person" thing is only arguably good when it's actually "You Inspired Me To Re-Examine And Work To Improve Myself". Not "You Became My Life Coach And Assumed All My Emotional Burdens". And DEFINITELY not "You Became My Therapist". Unless it's a relationship between a patient and a therapist, which has its own separate massive issues.

@bella6843 4 жыл бұрын

I agree except are you saying that there are massive issues with regular patient/therapist relationships or that there are massive issues with romantic relationships between a patient and therapist?

@rubensmuse 4 жыл бұрын

@@bella6843 I meant romantic specifically, sorry for the poor phrasing

@bella6843 4 жыл бұрын

Madi H you’re good I was just confused😊

@rubensmuse 4 жыл бұрын

@@bella6843 Yeah naw therapists are good. Everyone deserves a good relationship w/ their therapist

@ijwaldbillig 4 жыл бұрын

Harley Quinn x The Joker: 👁👄👁 👁👄👁

@painandsuffering7130 4 жыл бұрын

"Don't flatter yourself"? With what? Thinking of myself as a human being deserving personal space and respect? If this is flattering for our lovely bad boy then I almost pity his self esteem.

@fightingmedialounge519 4 жыл бұрын

It was more about her self esteem.

@mintfudgecupcakes 3 жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSSS

@MsSilverTulip 3 жыл бұрын

Basically he was negging her, berating her looks as not something worthy of his attention. Wanker pick up artists are taught to break down a woman's self esteem to make her more likely to give the man what he wants.

@sm1purplmurderedme583 2 жыл бұрын

LMAO tru

@emilycallahan4805 4 жыл бұрын

"Don't flatter yourself. I'm not looking." That ain't really the point tho, sir.

@starrsmith3810 4 жыл бұрын

@succulent kool-aid bileve me it's not.

@kenmakozume3492 4 жыл бұрын

🤣💯

@hailey7368 4 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY! Even if you're not looking, gtfo of her room you asshole! She should've called security on his ass.

@missmerbella 4 жыл бұрын

YEP. I hate how these YA authors keep romanticizing narcissistic assholes.

@yveaperez8253 4 жыл бұрын

@@alit7181 i- ew omg

@damascus9876 4 жыл бұрын

“They treat sex as a Goal as opposed to something you just do if you’re ready?” OMG THANK YOU WHY DOES EVERY MOVIE DO THIS?!

@pastelhotmess9299 4 жыл бұрын

Because HOLLYWEIRD!!!!

@sophiatroanska1432 4 жыл бұрын

It made me treat it as a goal. I was not ready and I made a lot of bad decisions because of it.

@damascus9876 4 жыл бұрын

Sophia Troanska same girl, it gets better 💕

@UltimateDorito 4 жыл бұрын

It used to be a bigger deal but humanity is evolving. Hollywood just hasn't caught up that this is a dated concept.

@NegaRenGenX2gay2lift 4 жыл бұрын

every american pie knock off in the 2000s

@Sammiwashere 4 жыл бұрын

I want the directors and the writer to wake up and realize that there really isn’t any social hierarchy in college. College is just getting your education so you can get a job.

@amateurfilmlovers6473 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I never understood this dynamic in college films. Granted, I dropped out after the first semester but, during my short time there I just went to school and went to work. I know there's a social life in college but there's no way people are worried about individuals on a huge campus (where you most likely won't know most people) when you pay to be there.

@kevinyeh8891 3 жыл бұрын

fun fact: the writer never went to college.

@wonderlust1308 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah there’s no “popularity” thing in college. All that is left behind in school. You’re a little more grown in college and all you care about and focus on is your grades and projects and assignments. Everyone is a stranger in college (outside of your friends of course) so there’s no “populars” or “nerds”. I remember reading a story on Wattpad years and years ago and it was set in college but there was populars and cliques and someone in the comments said the story was obviously written by a high schooler bc college doesn’t do that shi.t

@i_only_simp_for_myself800 3 жыл бұрын

@@wonderlust1308 even some high schools don’t do that irl. Plus yeah college is definitely not like that, cause most people here have better thing to worry about than who’s loosing his virginity.

@sinqobilemyende8824 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for clearing this up. I thought it’s an American tertiary institution thing because here it’s just vibes, we don’t give a damn man. At all. We just be minding our own business 😂😂

@daisymae5901 4 жыл бұрын

Kennie: “The twist is-“ Ad: *”I wouldn’t be caught dead at a Donald Trump rally”* Well okay then

@ari1758 3 жыл бұрын

I mean I bet that's true for kennie 😂😂😂

@saininj 3 жыл бұрын

OMG, PragerU 😂

@bealol1016 3 жыл бұрын

I already have to see how bad After is I don’t need another bad thing here 😁 #FûckTrump

@sophielemieux4963 3 жыл бұрын

I got The twist is- I’m a venuuus

@shanonymous3551 Жыл бұрын

"The twist is that it's hard to believe the mint mobile plan is just $15 per person"

@gabbyfleiss5500 4 жыл бұрын

Ok but can we talk about the fact that she went with him to a location he wouldn't reveal for a reason she didn't know alone in his car into the forest after knowing him for like a week. And it ended in them kissing and not getting murdered. Cuz ya know. Romance.

@ZovestaDark 4 жыл бұрын

I watched more true crime than romance as a kid/teen and my hackles are raised just knowing that happened omfg who would ever be so stupid

@gabbyfleiss5500 4 жыл бұрын

@@ZovestaDark i kept feeling like it was going to turn into a horror movie honestly y i k e s

@gabbyfleiss5500 4 жыл бұрын

@CrappyOneshots HONESTLY like if when they were at the lake (SO creepy she just went with him to the middle of nowhere when she barely knows him) he coulda just been like "hold your breath" and instead of having an uwu softboi deep moment of wow quiet is peaceful who'd have thought I'm not like other boys i like quiet how deep and different, he could have just tried to like drown her like that would have been both a cool twist and more realistic damn that's reality for ya bois don't go with strangers to the woods who will watch you change after you asked them to turn around OOOF

@arinad2 4 жыл бұрын

I kept expecting it to turn into something along the lines of “you”

@TheOMGRamen 4 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!!! LEGIT was thinking the SAME Why would you ever go to the forest/woods where you don't know the area with some guy you barely know? The scene baffled me lol

@candaceswart4471 4 жыл бұрын

Damn she really was spitting straight facts about the whole sex issue

@isimp9231 4 жыл бұрын

I'll be the frost commenter XD

@user-dh8nt5mj5t 4 жыл бұрын

as a fan-fiction writer, I feel offended by this fanfiction and movie based on it cause we can do so much better D:

@user-dh8nt5mj5t 3 жыл бұрын

@Thanos the Farmer some fanfictions are really an award worthy

@onthevirgooftears 3 жыл бұрын

Yes *Award worthy* I litterally read way to many house of anubis fanfics but *Scarred* and a *Dangerous Arrangement* are AMAZING

@diadino2548 3 жыл бұрын

I've read fanfics that have made me weep. Like. We can do so much better. Hollywood pay attention

@intensestare5027 3 жыл бұрын

Fr some of these fics have actually changed my life

@LxstinNeverland 3 жыл бұрын

I feel this. I've written fanfiction myself, and I've read it and some of the fanfiction I've read is SO AMAZING and I just... why can't that be made into movies? 🤣

@maggiecampbell8503 3 жыл бұрын

The idea that "my love can fix you" is literally the reason why my stepmom is still with my physically abusive dad. It's so so messed up that little girls are being taught this stuff.

@jimenaroman1999 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you.. this book series pissed me of bc the author romanized toxic relationship and I’m like that shit and cute irl the guy never changes for the girl. My mom was stuck in a domestic violence relationship. He never physically hurt her pretty much like Hardin towards Tessa all of it was emotional and he was abusive towards me too. So this movie just makes me want to tell little teenage girls that LOVE doesn’t fix the guy it just makes him more abusive because he realizes how devoted you are towards him and how much you are willing to do for him.

@earthgirl2929 3 жыл бұрын

Jeez I’m sorry to hear that, it’s truly heartbreaking that these movies make you think it’s okay to tolerate those things because you see a fiction character doing so.

@jimenaroman1999 3 жыл бұрын

@@earthgirl2929 yeah I’m tired of authors romantizing abusive relationships and they really did it now with 365 days. With all the women power movement going on and they dare make such a shitty movie. It just makes me sick that WOMEN are the ones writing these books.

@earthgirl2929 3 жыл бұрын

@@jimenaroman1999 Yea I really don’t understand it at all like this all stemmed from twilight to be honest.

@Sims4T 3 жыл бұрын

For some reason women like to romanize toxic relationships as “complex and deep” just watched a show called Sex/Life where she is married to a great guy but keeps cheating with her ex boyfriend because he was a toxic Bad Boy would refused to respect her boundaries and constantly ignored when she said no or stop. Not that I like the main character at all because I don’t like her, but come on writers wtf

@Kellie9 4 жыл бұрын

I hate how the movie adds to the expectations that women should be these free psychiatrist/therapists for their boyfriends. Its already a big issue in real life

@catcollector1257 4 жыл бұрын

big facts, if a dude shows signs of looking for a free therapist/mother figure I just dip ✌️ no woman is obligated to perform emotional labor for anyone else

@Flatcetera 4 жыл бұрын

@@catcollector1257 unfortunately this obviously reflects on reality since this was written by a teenager girl who thinks this is the ideal relationship. Big yikes.

@fruitygarlic3601 4 жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-vw4zf "...women like you act [like] toxic trash." Whoa, some pretty loaded personal criticism against someone you haven't even met. Your conjecture is based on something I don't think belgium fan even said themself. Not wanting to be someone's therapist or mother figure is not being emotionally unavailable, and is completely valid, as those are extremely exhausting positions one needs to be qualified and stable to fill. Needing to prioritise your own comfort and mental health, and cutting off a relationship because the burdens that come along with it may too much for you to handle is not selfish. Perhaps it is even *selfless,* because someone in pain needs a platonic friend or qualified mental health professional more than romance, and demanding their love to you as their girlfriend can hurt them. Hell, being responsible for someone's mental health while having that sort of intimate connection (with or w/o sex) can be very coercive and harmful; you're not allowed to date your therapist for a very good reason. I've heard of ordinarily reasonable people swallowing some small form of "redpill," but I sure hope you're not one of the ones gagging on it.

@JohnDoe-vw4zf 4 жыл бұрын

@@fruitygarlic3601 I'm skipping all the red pill qualified bullshit because I know you know that op and fan were both being metaphorical cupcake.

@fruitygarlic3601 4 жыл бұрын

This kind of scares me, as someone who is doing psychology next year with hopes of a job related to it, because I know that I have a lot of shit to sort out before I even *get* in a relationship. I'm aware of the way that our culture enforces certain dynamics for gender, and how that can very negatively impact men, but I don't have the energy or stability to deal with the deeper emotional issues of every boyfriend -- and I worry that being a woman and having a general interest in psych will make people think I can handle it, when I cannot. I think Olly Thorn goes into the women-as-therapists thing from a man's perspective, but he's not the first one to introduce the concept. Like, you wanna give a helping hand to someone because you care for them and you've made the choice, but you're not prepared to hack off your own arm? Idk, sis, I'm mad rambling.

@calletanofillspipe830 4 жыл бұрын

“don’t flatter yourself” BOY I WILL YOU REPORT YOU GET OUT OF MY ROOM

@jade3866 4 жыл бұрын

Calletano Fillspipe I love ya profile pic 😭❤️

@queeniejmelanin 4 жыл бұрын

Me and her was like “ughhhh” at the same time too😂😂

@shaw-qwanredmond 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 right

@phookiephook1043 4 жыл бұрын

Whether the person watching me get dressed is attracted to me or not I don’t want anyone watching me get dressed without my consent wtf???

@jyana719 4 жыл бұрын

I would hit him with the “do I need to call the RA on duty?“

@howUdo 4 жыл бұрын

Society frowns upon teenage sex but makes it a goal in the television

@PM-rp4bl 3 жыл бұрын

"she took my hand... and led me out of the DOKness"

@panielrosebud 3 жыл бұрын

This comment SLAPPED me

@yomommasofatthanoshadtosna3479 2 жыл бұрын

I'm dying 😂

@jhingbautista4519 4 жыл бұрын

And in the words of Astrid Young: "It was never my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not."

@krystalharris1259 4 жыл бұрын

YES!!!! Ever since I read crazy Rich Asians and I watch the movie Inside how it was executed beautifully.. I think that that should be every girl's for just every females every person's go to when explaining to a man why they should not be with them. Why they should not put up with the mess

@Butterflier00 4 жыл бұрын

AND THEN SHE WALKED OUT OF THAT APARTMENT WITH HER 1.2 MILLION DOLLAR EARRINGS. AN ICON.

@ameliar6374 4 жыл бұрын

Rj Bautista sounds very similar to something joan holloway said to her husband in mad men

@erumiqbal7499 4 жыл бұрын

I loved that part of the movie!!!! Finally a movie that shows a healthy way to deal with men like these.. I was so darn proud of Astrid I have no words...

@ARMY-rk9bk 4 жыл бұрын

My all-time favourite movie ✊🏾😌

@babylonprojectillustration2014 4 жыл бұрын

Girl, After is one of the most toxic things I've ever heard of. The main character literally cheats on her boyfriend, and we're supposed to feel bad for her when her relationship with the creepiest dude at school doesn't work out? The guy that doesn't even blink? And 👏 there's 👏 so 👏 many 👏 other 👏 problems. 👏 Long story short, I'm gonna love this video.

@mds7157 4 жыл бұрын

Babylon's Mediocre Art let’s not forget she’s incredibly annoying, seems like every chapter she was crying about something

@justcallmeteacup4711 4 жыл бұрын

Lmao he really didn't blink omg 😂

@guggvcjhh3713 4 жыл бұрын

Babylon's Mediocre Art it’s reality

@ranrae3712 4 жыл бұрын

Babylon's Mediocre Art I remember reading it when i was 15 and literally stopped halfway , it was too much even for a 15yo

@isidroorianna15 4 жыл бұрын

I also read the book but towards the end I just had to skip chapters I didn't like any of the characters whatsoever. I haven't even watched the movie cause I just know it ain't gone be good

@clairehenri9224 4 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I never fantasized or idealised these toxic relationships and really wanted to cuddle with someone while watching a movie and my boyfriend being cheesily nice to me. The way media presents the ‘best’ relationship through abuse, physical, mental, and emotional smh.

@saragarofano9727 4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad

@mau6068 3 жыл бұрын

Claire Henri same I love hugs and being soft 😂

@Em-fz5uh 3 жыл бұрын

Me too. The only movie/serie relationship I dream about is Morticia and Gomez Addams. It's crazy how often toxic relationships are portrayed as great and inspiring.

@Baer99Z 2 жыл бұрын

Ikr I'm here dreaming of having someone to watch terrible movies with and make fun of them, not someone who'll straight up break into my room and then use me as a free therapist lmao

@kingslair686 4 жыл бұрын

and can we just talk about tessa's unnatural reaction when she finds a random british guy on her bed?

@livingdeadgirl5691 3 жыл бұрын

I think that most of us whould: a.) Start running b.) Start screaming like Laure Strode in Halloween c.) Catch a case But no, she just GASPS that one time and stares at a random stranger all love struck and stuff...

@ana-mariabobe1762 4 жыл бұрын

I'm a 25 year old virign and when my collegues found out on an outing all they had to say was ok, that's cool. Nobody made any issue out of it, because it's not. It's not special nor is it a disease. Jesus.

@vernicegirl8987 4 жыл бұрын

Ana-Maria Bobe lucky for you. Some people I know be making such a big deal about my virginity. Like are you my vagina? Mind your business! It’s so weird. 😭😭

@Fanylorena 4 жыл бұрын

Ana-Maria Bobe I’m 22 and a Virgin and I get 1 out of 2 reactions. 1, some congratulate me, and just say “good for you, save yourself for someone that deserves you” or “nah, I don’t believe you. That’s not true, you’re lying”

@woainae 4 жыл бұрын

I’m 24 and a virgin and it’s just whatever to me. Nothing special, nothing crazy, and whenever sex is brought up in conversation I sometimes just casually mention it. People congratulate me/say I’m lucky and to save it- and I’m just all “Yup /shrugs;” lol

@TRexRAWWR1 4 жыл бұрын

and guess what? Nothing is wrong with that, if you want to save yourself for someone and haven't met the right person or if you don't want to have sex at all. It doesn't matter, it isn't anyone elses business.

@tigergirl305 4 жыл бұрын

Ngl this makes me feel a lil better about my virginity. I'm waiting 'till marriage (Lord knows when that'll be lol), and I sometimes worry about what people will think if I tell them. Nice to know that even at 25, people can be chill about it.

@cookiecat3324 4 жыл бұрын

The best thing that came from this book series and movies is that Harry Styles blocked the author on social media.

@beyzaa9682 4 жыл бұрын

Cookiecat 33 for real?

@cookiecat3324 4 жыл бұрын

@@beyzaa9682 Yeah! It's amazing.

@yagirlmirmz9450 4 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@footpicsfor50dollars35 4 жыл бұрын

it's what she deserves😔✊

@yagirlmirmz9450 4 жыл бұрын

@@footpicsfor50dollars35 so true tho......

@girlq6494 4 жыл бұрын

I read the fanfiction and they softened the movie a lot. The bet was about him being able to take her virginity and he did and he took the bed spread with her „virgin blood“ to his friends to prove it. He still tried to and successfully pulled the „but Tessa at that point I already loved you“ card. He is more violent in the fanfic. She also gets her job and everything because of him. She gets essentially isolated from her environment and home and technically school and it all gets directed towards Harry/Hardin. It is also a smut, so it is very quickly very sexual. It gets worse. I think fanfic is fanfic for a reason. Don’t make movies out of it

@nichelleniks4526 2 жыл бұрын

Dear God that sounds absolutely awful 😳

@teresa18870 2 жыл бұрын

What the….😧

@abrokecollegestudent3507 11 ай бұрын

I never read it but I watched the video of that girl who did called "I read the After series so you don't have to" or something like that. I wasn't interested in watching or reading the series when it first came out anyway but after i watched that video and heard just how disgusting of a person the main love interest is throughout the entire series I didn't even wanna directly hate watch it. Listening to what he did to that one girl from his past and how he ruined her life because he couldn't keep his sexcapades to himself was disgusting even worse was that he didn't care about what he did to her.

@Rita_Arya 9 ай бұрын

Thank God i never read the fanfic! I was told it is a very popular fic and i should read it (when i was in my Wattpad days). I read 1/2 chapters and noped out pretty fast

@diamondmonroe7910 3 жыл бұрын

Thats why I love K-dramas. America love stories: *sees a guy* Same episode- *sex* K-drama: *sees the guy*- 7 episodes later *they are holding hands* They actually show how they grow and how they love each other

@mariumkhalid7388 3 жыл бұрын

Lol yeah I love Kdramas also. But they ain't realistic def. Such perfect guys don't exist irl 😭

@XxxMuseluverxxX 3 жыл бұрын

Thats honestly one of the best parts of kdramas! They build up everything and even the most innocent things have a lot of emotional payoff 😭 what’s some of your fave kdramas?

@mariumkhalid7388 3 жыл бұрын

@@XxxMuseluverxxX it's okay to not be okay, Chicago typewriter, touch your heart, what's wrong with secretary kim, crash landing on you. Too many good ones to choose from lol

@jasminecrawford42 3 жыл бұрын

Mmmm, may be kDramas have changed then since I was into them bc plenty had lots of sexual assault scenes (forced, surprise me kisses)and just as much toxicity and abuse as alot of these shitty wattpad stories. The 2nd lead usually was a shit ton nicer, which created the "2nd lead syndrome". Hand holding and cute shit usually only started for me AFTER the dude FINALLY stopped being a pos 😂.

@mariumkhalid7388 3 жыл бұрын

@@jasminecrawford42 ah yeah a loooot of older kdramas were like that. Most Chinese dramas are still like that. But it's definitely getting better. Nowadays kdramas generally have well written strong female leads and the male lead isn't a douchebag most of the time thankfully!

@inioluwaadeboye9923 4 жыл бұрын

I feel like Kennie could sing "riSe ANd ShiNE" impeccably

@missallsundayx 4 жыл бұрын

Inioluwa Adeboye I need to know how I was thinking of that meme, right before I saw this comment wow

@tigergirl305 4 жыл бұрын

I'd love a story where the character stays a virgin the whole way through and isn't made out as someone who needs to change for that reason

@juniperlee6642 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ArturGlass.C 4 жыл бұрын

They should make more asexuals characters and that would happen quite a lot.

@leleste5465 4 жыл бұрын

To all the boys I ever loved before

@leleste5465 4 жыл бұрын

Juniper Lee To all the boys I ever loved before

@leleste5465 4 жыл бұрын

Laureen Berger To all the boys I ever loved before

@lennoxvazquez 3 жыл бұрын

Coming from a demisexual: I love how you explain how movies tend to focus on sex as a milestone for teens or any relationship. Like yeah, it could be good sex or whatever, but have you just had comfortable silence while cuddling? Sex doesn't need to happen. People don't need it or need to want it. And if someone does like having a lot of sex? Great, they just need to use protection and test more often. I don't understand why it's this impending doom if you're a virgin in college or if you have "too much" sex

@strawberry_sapphic5007 3 жыл бұрын

@Seems Legit Another ace here and you took the words right out my mouth. People have begun to think that asexuals just want to feel special or that they can’t hold down a relationship because of the messages society, especially media, is putting out there.

@lotusrain4102 3 жыл бұрын

I think u should come live in southeast asia, bcuz being virgin is like the norm for young adults here.😂😂😂 The only thing couples in our university do together is studying in the freaking library. As a demisexual, it's super easy here, since there's zero peer pressure abt sex or sth.

@anissa2361 2 жыл бұрын

Right I hate how people make it seem like if you haven't had sex yet you're behind in life. I have a guy friend who makes it a big deal sometimes.

@cniknik9863 2 жыл бұрын

@Seems Legit Sex can be (and many actually do think of it as) a symbol of love. Something you do when you are fully ready to give all of yourself to a person you trust. But it doesn't equal love. Like these relationships in movies or TV make it as if sex is the glue keeps relationships together.

@nobirapals974 2 жыл бұрын

@@lotusrain4102 until you’re pressured to get married since apparently we have expiry date to be seen as marriageable. then comes the request of grandchild, then another one and so on

@wise_girl9388 2 жыл бұрын

"Don't flatter yourself. I'm not looking." He says as he's looking *right* at her

@ronie1844 4 жыл бұрын

How y’all gunna tell me he British like me with an accent like that 💀

@syeyonkang8956 4 жыл бұрын

OMG GIRL, I've been on youtube for yearsss and ive never found someone else with the same name/username as me! Except mine is spelt 세연.

@moonlite 4 жыл бұрын

SAE-Yeon새연 i thought his accent was fake so i was confused when i discovered it was real😭

@raerivers 4 жыл бұрын

Hero Fiennes-Tiffin- the actor of Hardin- IS actually British, he’s from London, but he definitely did try to exaggerate the accent and it make it sound worse

@kaih4967 4 жыл бұрын

Errr babe im from london and that is our accent.... this posh accent u guys think we have.. theres different areas with different accents lmao

@S.ianaxx 4 жыл бұрын

It sounds like his accent has been "watered down" from probably living in LA

@vuyokumbeya4701 4 жыл бұрын

the 'you must fix a man and make him better' narrative along with this 'im not whole without you' narrative needs to stop...that man needs to fix himself

@Cristyface 4 жыл бұрын

Or what about a relationship that's almost over cause she is tired of his shit, but he realizes that he has to be an actual good person to be able to have a relationship with her and actively tries to fix himself.

@shanchan8247 4 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👍🏾

@natsuki4021 4 жыл бұрын

True. I hate the whole "man has some serious issues and needs this girls love to fix him" trope. Its so weird. He doesn't need a girlfriend he needs a therapist lol

@ultimategleelover1 4 жыл бұрын

That man needs a licensed professional. And I haven't been to anybody's school of psychiatry or psychology. Whatever he needs, I'm not it.

@gaslightgatekeepgirlboss6321 4 жыл бұрын

I get the appeal of like the love and support from a partner can bring you out of a dark place, and that does happen, but that shouldn't be the only motivating factor and he shouldn't simply rely on her to fix him with love and support, but instead use it as a motivator (among other things) as a reason as to why he should fix himself.

@mushu6928 4 жыл бұрын

i felt so bad for the boyfriend, i only carried on watching to see if he got some sort of revenge edit: the boyfriend who got cheated on i mean

@kurzler 4 жыл бұрын

OMG THAT PISSED ME OFF SO MUCH like,,,tessa sis,,,you have a bf,,,s t o p

@brilynnharvey8256 4 жыл бұрын

강은주 IKKKKK AND HE WAS SO CHILL ABOUT IT ISTG.

@abyssmal_23 4 жыл бұрын

I hated this movie because their relationship was low-key toxic and only really sex driven, and they made it seem like that was okay. You have to remember that young teens and young adults are the ones who are watching this. Normalizing toxicity is not okay at all and teaching young people- who may not know a whole lot about relationships- that is not okay.

@abrokecollegestudent3507 11 ай бұрын

From what I know about the author and her writing this series, she was very much an adult when she wrote this series. She was sexualizing a teenage Harry Styles as a grown adult.

@catdogis 4 жыл бұрын

“she took my hand and led me out of the daHKnuss” i made the UGLIEST SOUND

@makeda6530 4 жыл бұрын

That part had me like, 'bruh!'

@mercuryisbi 4 жыл бұрын

i'm fuckin wheezing

@AAAAAMMM 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god I knew it was coming and I still dry heaved

@wolvesteeeth 4 жыл бұрын

I also made a gross sound when I heard that blechhh

@gabriellaboutte4921 4 жыл бұрын

Omg SAME 😂😂😂😂

@victorialord7837 4 жыл бұрын

"fun fact: when you're attracted to the brokenness in people, you only attract broken people" This hit hard... 😂😂😂

@aliciabell6688 4 жыл бұрын

Same! So glad I stopped.

@EleanorGrey13 4 жыл бұрын

When you realise Hardin is the young Voldemort.......

@kendalbryant2425 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh..he is literally the epitome of a psychopath Tom riddle this you

@insomnia5448 3 жыл бұрын

@@kendalbryant2425 brooo dafuq happened here?

@d.ani.6882 2 жыл бұрын

@@kendalbryant2425 Even though I liked this, please don't compare Hardin to ✨Tom Riddle✨ I don't even like Tom Riddle, but compared to Hardin he is far more desirable and shows more/better emotion despite being written as someone who is devoid of normal human responses. 😭

@gammawolf3 2 жыл бұрын

So this comment sent me on a Google odyssey and I found out that 1: this is true (he played Baby Voldi in the orphanage) and 2: the actor's actual name is "Hero Beauregard" and now I can't stop laughing

@chickenfoot2423 2 жыл бұрын

@@gammawolf3 also isnt ralph fiennes, actual voldemort, his uncle?!

@_.Intranet._ 3 жыл бұрын

'It's not the duty of a woman to make her partner feel like a man' - crazy rich Asians

@UltimateDorito 4 жыл бұрын

"I used to fantasize about the most toxic relationships." SAME. Because that's what we were sold. Love has to overcome all or it's not worth having. You can't just meet someone and have a healthy relationship, you have to sUfFeR 😫😫😫😒

@sailormoon6848 4 жыл бұрын

I just used to fantasize about waltzes an picnics...I still do

@UltimateDorito 4 жыл бұрын

@@sailormoon6848 that is so pure 💖

@pcarebear1 4 жыл бұрын

Telenovelas and animes are full of toxic relationships LOL I'm still waiting for my serenata though...I'll probably be 80yrs old

@Zonnyzone96 4 жыл бұрын

A lot of older women justify these books as fantasy. No woman actually want to date someone like that and I'm like what about the young girls?

@LLCoolJ_25 4 жыл бұрын

I feel like this is why my relationship was toxic, Bc that’s all I fantasized about in middle school and part of high school

@data_storytelling9167 4 жыл бұрын

Kendall getting angry "you are not herbert stop acting like him" 😂

@oliviajeanette1065 4 жыл бұрын

rip herbert, we loved you

@theAngryscotman 4 жыл бұрын

"How dare you fly where he flew!"

@moxiesoxie9374 4 жыл бұрын

“You don’t belong here” 😂 oh I do love KENNIE

@lemonpeppafish4452 4 жыл бұрын

“The twist is that- *WHEN ALLERGIES FILL YOU NOSE WITH DREAD, USE PUFFS INSTEAD* “ bruh sometimes ads can be funny

@insomnia5448 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I got a airwick ad

@user-kw8io4vd5z 3 жыл бұрын

The only time I approve of the "immature male and smart and articulate female" relationship is when it doesn't become toxic. Proof: Peraltiago, Romione, Percabeth.

@kiyu2582 3 жыл бұрын

Can you name the movies where these ships are from please ? ( except Romione, I already know it )

@yashwanthyanbazhagan4437 3 жыл бұрын

Peraltiago - it's from a show called Brooklyn 99 Percabeth - it's a book called Percy Jackson

@yourgirl_dearshney 3 жыл бұрын

Louder for Percy Jackson 😭❤️

@mst3kharris 3 жыл бұрын

Until my dying day, I will believe Ron was so amazed to be married to Hermione that he was thrilled to do everything he could to support her. I do not care what Rowling or the fandom says.

@yourgirl_dearshney 3 жыл бұрын

@@mst3kharris facts

@cheesychi8317 4 жыл бұрын

“I wear black and smiling physically pains me.” Bruh, best line.

@luchia712 4 жыл бұрын

Kennie : "The twist is that-" Me: *gets ad* What a twist

@lauraleelawrence5897 4 жыл бұрын

matcha Frappuccino omg same. I was like da-da-dum cliffhanger !

@BleedingLiar17 4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@lynettetyler8257 4 жыл бұрын

Was looking for this comment exact same happened to me

@user-rr7du4ds2x 4 жыл бұрын

Switch to chromebook! 😂😂

@tracy_cakkes 4 жыл бұрын

Lynette Tyler saaame 😂😂😂

@bambirose6490 4 жыл бұрын

“Wasn’t she’s all that written by a sixteen year old girl too?” LMAOOO I DIED

@staffofthoma8283 4 жыл бұрын

Can toxic relationships stop being viewed as romantic plz

@SirenOfStyxx 4 жыл бұрын

I want a romance movie were there is no sex, just focusing on the romance angle and it has A plot that makes sense and isn't as dry as styrofoam

@snikrdoodls14 4 жыл бұрын

Carlie I haven’t watched many myself, but a lot of romance movies from 90s are pretty good in that area. They’re still cliche in a few ways but not ‘in your face’ kinda thing. Check out Notting Hill. All the ones I’ve watched always ended with a kiss and never had any sex scenes what so ever. Sadly I can’t remember any of the titles. I’m sorry!

@auliaseptiana1770 4 жыл бұрын

Try to watch Korean drama then

@navaafriat9424 4 жыл бұрын

@@snikrdoodls14 pride and prejudice! the romance in itself is so passionate and sexy, but they don't even kiss until the final scene

@nypry 4 жыл бұрын

Howls moving castle- the movie is about the personal transformation for each character, without either of them forcing each other to do so - low key romance

@thisuserisfoxxy 4 жыл бұрын

nypry oh I’ve heard of that and really wanted to watch it ^^

@amara6135 4 жыл бұрын

it irritates me that almost all romance feeds into the “fix them” narrative. it’s as though the protagonist, particularly women, are taking on a new “project”. ugh.

@nessyness5447 4 жыл бұрын

it's terrible and it encourages girls to stay in abusive relationships.

@brilynnharvey8256 4 жыл бұрын

amart furniture ugh ikr I (unfortunately) read the books and it was even worse. They need to fix themselves before they damage their SO.

@SirDankington 4 жыл бұрын

Not to mention how incredibly insulting it is to have someone think they can "fix" you. Yes, im aware i have issues, no that doesn't mean you can treat me like im your fucking psychology project

@tabitha9723 4 жыл бұрын

The only diy I’m doing is my furniture not my man

@marammaaroufi6093 4 жыл бұрын

@@tabitha9723 Yes QUEEN!

@depgabby 4 жыл бұрын

one of the only movie where the “good girl” trope is done correctly is A Walk To Remember.

@oldsorrownewtomorrow8232 4 жыл бұрын

Loved a walk to remember

@lindsay16 4 жыл бұрын

That movie was everything and actually showed a Romantic, healthy relationship.

@lovestumacher 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I loved that movie!

@avonjoiyambot5737 3 жыл бұрын

Best part, no sex scenes

@depgabby 3 жыл бұрын

@@avonjoiyambot5737 I agree ! I only like sex scenes when they are suggested only and not shown. I think revealing sex scenes are very awkward to watch especially when the characters are supposed to be teenagers

@madelinevance8954 3 жыл бұрын

Let’s petition for a movie about a girl who tries to heal a broken bad boy and fails. And then she realizes it his problem not hers and she finds someone else.

@jimenaroman1999 4 жыл бұрын

It’s just horrible they made this based Harry Styles...

@gabylessthan3 4 жыл бұрын

Jimena Roman it’s a fanfic... what’d you expect

@jimenaroman1999 4 жыл бұрын

Dallgi I know but it’s just messed up how they portray him as an asshole even if it’s not real... and after isn’t the only story to do that.. and Harry was upset about this because he blocked the author.

@mitchierainbow7353 4 жыл бұрын

Poor harry 😳(he's rich but I hope you get it)

@SuperSara924 4 жыл бұрын

He actually ended up blocking the author on twitter.

@thisuserisfoxxy 4 жыл бұрын

Half Blood Scum oh god imagine having a story like that, that was inspired by your existence💀

@katekursive1370 4 жыл бұрын

There's a ton of high-quality amazing fanfics yet the ones getting attention are the worst fandom has to offer smh

@dawnmayflower4422 4 жыл бұрын

Kate Kursive Yes! I HATE that.

@elumi0 4 жыл бұрын

I really hate how most people think that smut and shit fanfic is all we offer!

@jessatotalmess8106 4 жыл бұрын

Im legit just waiting for those "oh I sold you to someone" or the "humans are slaves to vampires" or those "rejected soulmate" stories

@jaymeerenee2357 4 жыл бұрын

Right! I mean I read some fanfics and there are some amazing ones that never get turned into a movie and I'm just like ffs so these shitty ones can!?? Like wtff

@split776 4 жыл бұрын

Right??? I hate it I think maybe it's because all the high-quality fanfics are so fandom-specific that you just can't change the names and go whoop there's a movie, like, I just finished reading the most amazing hurt/comfort (and HEALTHIEST RELATIONSHIP) Good Omens fic, but you can't just go "oh there's a generic angel and demon, off they go on a road trip" and still make it work, but all the shitty ones? All the OOC bullshit and Fifty Shades and My Immortal? That shit is MADE for the general-est audience

@adeleaslan8182 3 жыл бұрын

A girl in my class said this was her favorite movie. I was actually speechless

@teshc4795 4 жыл бұрын

"Don't flatter yourself." I was like BIIISH! GET OUT OF MY ROOM! I think that's my problem with all these "chick flicks" or whatever... the characters just fall in love! Just like that! And it's sooooo deep, sooooo truuueee, sooooo pure and I'm just there like "huh?" Y'all literally just met. Sooooo true cause I remember I used to be attracted to a guy for their sob story like "come, let me heal you!" Great review!

@viktorialiskova7111 4 жыл бұрын

ok things o find wrong with this movie: 1. TESSA AND HARDIN LOOK LIKE FREAKING SIBLINGS 2. tessa cheated on her boyfriend at that time and we were supposed to feel bad for her 3. its literally every episode story like make something original 4. they relationship is based on sex (its more about sex in the book) 5. they relationship seems so toxic like i can't😂💀 6. they make virgins seem like crazy people 7.hardin is like the f boy that every girl would be into and tessa is like the girl that would be like omg i don't like him blah blah and they still would end up together 8. this movie is something u would imagine in 7. grade about some guy u thought was cute 9. HARDINS FACE IS SO PUNCHABLE 10. this movie gives false hopes to some dumb teenagers that thing is they will act misterious then some "hot" guy would start to like them 11. its like every pov on tik tok 12. its just twilight🤦‍♀️ 13. i hate hardins voice

@Vorloks 4 жыл бұрын

14. This punchable-faced loser is named after a Pokémon move

@kuroyuki6254 4 жыл бұрын

Some things I like about this movie. 1. You can make puns and bad jokes out of Hardin's name 2. You can laugh at how idiotic those people are

@gingerkatherina 4 жыл бұрын

YAAS to the punchable fact 👌

@darkdream1469 4 жыл бұрын

I though I was the only one who thought that they looked reeeaaallly similar 😭

@arjaneb 4 жыл бұрын

Viktoria Liskova well, the 2nd movie is coming this year in April (guessing the month) and i’m seeing it😂

@ToriTheDormouse 4 жыл бұрын

With 16-18 years old I was in exactly this kind of relationship, where I thought I could save the guy with my love, if I was there for him, had sex with him, showed him that he wasn't alone and he was worthy of love. And even though he constantly told me how I was just second choice, how I wasn't the one he wanted to be with, how he just basically put up with me only until someone better came along, I stayed, because movies and books had told me, that a broken man can be healed by a woman's love as long as she doesn't give up. And even though I am in a healthy and stable relationship now, this scarred me, possibly for life, and it makes me quite upset that there are so many movies that romanticize this idea.

@Missy-zz6ll 4 жыл бұрын

Dormouse I’m sorry this even happened to you

@kenmakozume3492 4 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry something like this happened to you that guy is trash 😡

@ArturGlass.C 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah in another way this dumb expectation ruins people life I am aromantic (doesn't feel romantic attraction and therefore can't feel romantic feelings) and I felt like I was failing as a woman and as a person in general because I couldn't give that love to the broken men in my life who took an interest in me. If my love was the only way to fix them and I couldn't give it to them, I felt like I was directly responsible for them becoming worse and worse. I forced myself despite that to be in miserable situation because I felt like I had to and was just waiting on the feelings to come so I could eventually help them. It contributed a lot to my already existing depression.

@malissamia2120 3 жыл бұрын

@@ArturGlass.C same thing happened to me I'm not aromantic but I was to broken to fall in love again but he had no patience and kind of forced me into the relationship and I kept waiting for the day I fall for him that on one side and my ex on the other side who couldn't deal with the fact that I moved on after he left me for someone else and started bullying me and starting rumors about me so my bf leaves me and he could get me back (because when you're single you automatically go back to your shitty ex) it's Scarry how that sounds romantic according to these "books"

@Splexsychiick 3 жыл бұрын

Wow. Thats kind of slow. Hopefully you arent still making those mistake.... Remember and make sure to teach your future children (if you have any) or any young person to not fall for those silly ideals

@cachephelmin9591 4 жыл бұрын

"This fly bout to get smacked my guy; You are NOT Herbert and you acting like you own the place LIKE Herbert and you about to catch all of these palms and all of these hands." No fly could ever replace Herbert in our hearts, RIP🙏

@destinywatty4113 4 жыл бұрын

I know I'm late, but the movie is sooooo much less toxic than the book. In the book, the bet was that he could take her virginity. The first time they had sex she bled on the sheets and Harry/Haden said he would throw it away. He actually kept it in the trunk of his car for awhile, because he was debating whether to show it to his friends as proof that he actually had sex with her.

@reynadelikat6410 3 жыл бұрын

Wut😶

@sm1purplmurderedme583 2 жыл бұрын

WTF

@rvbydolls Жыл бұрын

OH LORDT

@vuyokumbeya4701 4 жыл бұрын

he literally came off as a creeper through out the whole movie and idg how Tess got 'attracted' to him...was it Stockholm syndrome

@laoaidan2400 4 жыл бұрын

Creeper Aww man (I contribute nothing to society)

@tosinakin2508 4 жыл бұрын

No, Stockholm syndrome is more complex than that. He is terrible though.

@vuyokumbeya4701 4 жыл бұрын

@@tosinakin2508 ik that i just struggled to find an English word to describe the whole thing also my bad attempt to mix it in with the 'is it crack' meme

@ameliaj8791 4 жыл бұрын

pfft stockholm syndrome... 😏 who’s this shadow hol-

@shaw-qwanredmond 4 жыл бұрын

Amelia Jones 😂😂

@justoyama 4 жыл бұрын

When you said "And fun fact: when you're attracted to the brokenness in people ... you attract broken people" you really came for me .

@glo.v 2 жыл бұрын

16:15 "It's really dangerous to basically tell young girls that it's their responsibility to be the reason why a man becomes a better person or not. As opposed to him becoming a better person on his own." 18:10 "This just fosters a relationship where you feel like you can't leave because you're the reason for them being a better person..." I was cringing out of my skin watching this movie, and the whole way through, a word kept crossing my mind: "dangerous". Romanticization of toxic love (and sex) is horrible. You developed this thought so well and put great emphasis on it, so thank you, I'm relieved. PS : fire makeup.

@Zeerotohero 4 жыл бұрын

He acts the same way in this that he did as Tom riddle who was... an actual psychopath

@Soulociraptr 4 жыл бұрын

Is it just me or does anyone else hate the name "Hardin" as well? It honestly sounds like a name that tries too damn hard.

@nessyness5447 4 жыл бұрын

is that a pun? XD

@catalayalafaye5337 4 жыл бұрын

It was the only thing I liked about the character.😅

@imi9209 4 жыл бұрын

But mostly I’m British and it sounds fucking ridiculous with our accent. It’s such an American name

@trinaa_zz 4 жыл бұрын

When I watched the movie I tried so hard not to laugh everytime his name was mentioned. Hardin translates as garden in our language.

@-aiko9313 4 жыл бұрын

Imogen Holly Moss it really does ..🙁😬

@Kirsten4260 4 жыл бұрын

THE BLACK GUY IS ACTUALLY SO CUTE THOUGH HARDIN GET OUTTA MY FACE

@juniperlee6642 4 жыл бұрын

Agree with you. He's way better looking than the so-called Harden.

@TravelersGarden_dgdr 4 жыл бұрын

I think he fits a lot better to Tessa. Their character is very similar & he seems like a really good guy. Harden on the other hand is really unlikable.

@sweetner844 4 жыл бұрын

Traveler's Garden - Der Garten der Reisenden FUCK NO Tessa doesn’t deserve him at all.

@TravelersGarden_dgdr 4 жыл бұрын

@@sweetner844 Yeah...you got a point. She is a cheater after all...forgot about that.

@panicontheargo7034 4 жыл бұрын

Traveler's Garden - Der Garten der Reisenden see, I would have shipped them, but then I realized that he deserved somebody wayyyy better than Tessa

@VikingHorseCreations 4 жыл бұрын

"I read smut right at the table" Same sis. Same😂

@SmammieWhammie 3 жыл бұрын

When she said “and the twist of the movie was...” I got a ad that said, “cheesy stuffed twisty bread.” I.... I cannot stress how much I laughed... Thank you, so much random ads.

@snazzi3672 4 жыл бұрын

The film was definitely bad, I ended up reading the books and god- "Harden" or rather harry was sooo toxic, controlling and violent it was just so weird, he basically treated her like shit and mad her cry a lot but no "They Love each other! Forget the fact he's emotionally abusing her"

@tajhea8682 4 жыл бұрын

Azure Sparky Omg that book was toxic AS FUCK.

@kuphine 4 жыл бұрын

I decided to watch a few after scenes and read the book a bit, and the comments are like "omg I want a bf like Hardin." I even told my classmate about after (who happens to be a twilight stan, so no surprise about the next thing i'll say) and she fricken fangirled. *child, N O*

@nurhierunterwegs8797 4 жыл бұрын

In the book she was a piece of shit too. They tried to make her character "smart" but she was actually stupid af. At some point I was like "I'm happy he treats u like shit bc u deserve what u stay around for".

@shmeepness1700 4 жыл бұрын

Jesus, I never realised how toxic it was, sadly I was one of the kids who thought that was a normal relationship and wanted Tessa to go back to Harry every time they broke up

@sarahimfeld7034 4 жыл бұрын

I read the first book like... 2 years ago? So I was 16 and I thought it was sooooo good. Well... I started the second book 1 week later and never started the third book. I do not understand anymore how I liked it. It's just so wrong! Making us young girls think that it is okay if someone treats you like that as long as they "supposably" love you and that it is okay for someone to act like freaking ass Hardin if you had a bad past. Like... huh????? And really... why does tessa always go back to him? He literally doesn't do anything to get better and the whole book series (at least the 2 I read) were them fighting, having sex and repeat. Just not a book you should give to kids in their puberty where they are just growing up

@phebeestuke8118 4 жыл бұрын

“After” reminded me of the app called “Episode”. Like it was Episode in a movie. 👀

@krystalharris1259 4 жыл бұрын

Or the love island app... "I love him. He's got the banter..#😏

@thestorm3784 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I thought of lmao

@myristicina. 4 жыл бұрын

Choices is the best type of interactive story app since the stories aren’t over sexual and don’t stupid ass apps

@kottonkandy0962 4 жыл бұрын

LMAO that’s true. I still have Episode on my phone but it’s literally not good anymore. There’s only like 4 stories that I like and most of them still have the ridiculousness of Episode logic in them.

@heythere4410 4 жыл бұрын

@@kottonkandy0962 the only story i like is the demi lovato series, like that's it. The other stories are just getting too messy

@ellaswartz8786 Жыл бұрын

“Inspiring” a person to change is different from “changing” a person. That’s the part that these kinds of movies don’t ever show. My husband inspires me to be the best me. He definitely holds me accountable when I’m being a butthead. And vice versa

@user-hw6ls4rh7m 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel insecure about my writing. Then I remember shit like this got a movie adaptation.

@taliaanyabuike4460 4 жыл бұрын

The saddest thing is that the movie is less problematic than the books, by like a mile.

@jacobrichards3680 4 жыл бұрын

What happened in the book?

@taliaanyabuike4460 4 жыл бұрын

@@jacobrichards3680 whew so much but the two standout things were Hardin kept the used condom and the sheets (they had Tessa's virginal blood on them) to prove to his friends as evidence that they had sex and then refused to let her come during one time they were getting with each other unless she agreed to do everything he said.

@jacobrichards3680 4 жыл бұрын

@@taliaanyabuike4460 Yikes I...

@chamopss 4 жыл бұрын

I've only seen a few examples but he was way more manipulative and more trashy. He walked in drunk and when Tessa was all "go away, you're drunk" he went "but you know how I get when I'm alone" and like ik being emotionally distant is sucky but jesus this ain't it

@Clara-kj6rw 4 жыл бұрын

@@jacobrichards3680 I'm reading the books, and Hardin is SO creepy and just overall abusive, the second book starts with his dumb monologue about how Tessa is his and only he can have her, and he treats her like literal trash and keeps refering to her as his and just his. And also kinda hits her when he gets drunk sooo

@mitchierainbow7353 4 жыл бұрын

Tessa's boyfriend (Noah) was actually a cool guy and mostly unproblematic. I really felt sorry for him. Justice for noah✊

@soradanam8160 4 жыл бұрын

I'll take him, if she doesn't want him, I'll treat him real good, hahaha😁😁😁

@coriannem5208 4 жыл бұрын

Noah was kind of a dick in the books

@soradanam8160 4 жыл бұрын

@@coriannem5208 How?

@coriannem5208 4 жыл бұрын

@@soradanam8160 he was a snitch and everything she did even if if was something small he would tell her mom and sometimes didn't even think that she can have another opinion and didn't hear it like he was so set with his opinions about her and about people he just met and he became better in like the third book i think but in the first two books he was a dick and there was more about why they where together and about the cheating

@soradanam8160 4 жыл бұрын

@@coriannem5208 Well, I didn't see him like that, and if she had such an issue with him then she should've broke up with him.

@i_only_simp_for_myself800 3 жыл бұрын

Hardin: Love is just a transaction. If his classmates were genZ: okay Kyle. Who hurt you??

@buzzyworld2669 4 жыл бұрын

"I wear black and smiling physically pains me". This revue was actually funny too. Great content!

@justcallmeteacup4711 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah fun fact for all you budding Y/As: Dudes with anger issues and weird relationships with their family (especially their mom) are not fun. Had one. 2/10 would not reccomend. They're not evil but if they haven't worked through their problems prior to your arrival, it's really not worth the effort and emotional strain they put you through. Find you a man that is emotionally stable and loves his mom

@laoaidan2400 4 жыл бұрын

I thought the trend was Daddy issues, Mommy issues is new to me but ok

@justcallmeteacup4711 4 жыл бұрын

@@laoaidan2400 Both is a problem really, I'm just adding mom issues because I see that one more often in real life

@LangBellsChannel 4 жыл бұрын

Girls who romanticize bad boys are probably into bdsm in real life.

@cadence5156 4 жыл бұрын

LangBellsChannel more like they aren’t able to distinguish the difference between mutually consensual bdsm and genuine abuse

@laustin2832 4 жыл бұрын

You are 1000% on point

@arariddley3314 4 жыл бұрын

" I hated him, I hated the creepiness of the situation,I hated his face! I hated his demeanour, I hated his voice!" I'm gonna use this when I'm talking to my friends about a bad date.

@biancajames2351 4 жыл бұрын

Literally, read this as she said it!

@grace-qp2gw 4 жыл бұрын

My 13 year old sister watched the film so MANY GODDAMN TIMES. She could probably tell you the whole plot. Worst of it all is that she finds it "cute" and her "ideal relationship". I've tried telling her it's toxic and abusive but she just won't listen to me. I'm worried these type of films will teach her that those type of relationships are healthy and she'll end up hurt 🙃.

@arianashurn6109 4 жыл бұрын

Best wishes to your sister that she grows out of that mentality 😓✊

@13Maria.Cortez13 Жыл бұрын

I've seen it b4. I've not read the book. I've seen the Fifty Shades of Grey. Why is it always based on sex not love, trust, being faithful, loyal in a relationship? Instead, it's based on lies, cheating, ghosting, gaslighting, mind games, playing the victim, etc. I like a film/movie with a plot, A story, A twist, A meaningful relationship. 💯!

@DistressedDamsel79 4 жыл бұрын

Idk but the actor and actress who play the main characters kinda look like fraternal twins. Something about their eyes, eyebrows and side profiles

@Cherabel 4 жыл бұрын

DistressedDamsel79 sweet home Alabama plays in the distance

@sophiayamagughi 4 жыл бұрын

Jfc yeah xD

@shanettequao9043 4 жыл бұрын

DistressedDamsel79 OH GOD!

@plastictree7635 4 жыл бұрын

Literally they look like siblings

@syndeybinch 4 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@chelanmoly8281 4 жыл бұрын

"Fun fact! When you're attracted to the brokenness in people, you only attract broken people." DAMN STRAIGHT.

@Ventus-bt6xs 4 жыл бұрын

The "heart throb" reminds me Gu Jun-Pyo from 'Boys before Flowers', whom I've hated over the entirety of the show.

@daphneepaul9740 3 жыл бұрын

i know right he even pranked geum jan-di and made her so traumatized at the school that she ran into the hallway to cry :/ it's interesting though because we get to see it develop over the course of the show as we see him realize that love isn't buying things for people (necessarily or out of the blue) and then get to see him get more humble even though they aren't dating and she isn't "fixing" him....to the point where they are in the air lift whatever and she makes it clear that she's planning on staying a virgin till marriage,she goes to med school, and he is in america staying loyal to her until he comes back. so they never truly got to date and you know all the drama messed it up between her and i forgot the one with the blonde hair's name but yeah but i liked how he developed BEFORE she gave him love and all of that but at first i was rooting for the blonde one who was there for her

@svedhak 3 жыл бұрын

@@daphneepaul9740 exactly, like its 16 episodes were he actually gets a character arc where jandi literally does not accept his rich boy tantrums at any given time. She does not try to fix him, but does let him know that as he is right now she is not interested.

@XxxMuseluverxxX 3 жыл бұрын

@@svedhak Jandi was such a Queen, tbh-she messed up sometimes but her strength really made Gu Junpyo realize that he himself had to become a better man to be able to be with her happily :)

@thisasiankidistrashfordram374 3 жыл бұрын

I agree somewhat. Still an insult to Gu Jun-Pyo because *he actually took it upon himself to change & improve* because he wanted to be better for her. He learned stuff from her without her putting in all the work. Jandi didn't actively Try to change him. She just pointed out his crap. She didn't start liking him till later on when he changed. He waited for her while she was in Med School.

@Loriana93 4 жыл бұрын

It's an insult to Harry Styles that they thought that actor resembles him! 😂

@bosses9820 Жыл бұрын

no need to insult the actual actor now...

@livo326 4 жыл бұрын

When she said she was a Fanfiction.net girl, I felt that 😂.

@BleedingLiar17 4 жыл бұрын

Same here 😂😭🤣

@FantasyFinalFiend 4 жыл бұрын

Lol yes still am and an AO3!

@cammyed1261 4 жыл бұрын

Still read to this day.

@shafaghb 4 жыл бұрын

Me too. I was addicted to everything final fantasy on fanfiction.

@41052 4 жыл бұрын

HeyItsKeeKee can you explain how to use Fanfiction.net cause a sis can’t work it (Mobile and laptop). I really need to know

@Danny-zm9ek 4 жыл бұрын

When he said "don't flatter yourself" in that tone I immediately thought: _oh yeah. This kid probably watches Rick & Morty unironically_ lol

@natanickii99 4 жыл бұрын

*i watch rick and morty unironically*

@nessyness5447 4 жыл бұрын

but rick and morty is funny...

@mmaantj 4 жыл бұрын

nessy ness do you know that part where the scientist accidentally turned himself into a pickle? I swear, funniest shit ive ever seen

@nessyness5447 4 жыл бұрын

@@mmaantj yeah hahaha the only part i haven't seen yet is the last season ( season 4)

@creativeweirdo6193 4 жыл бұрын

This dude deffo wouldn’t understand rick and morty humour

@ashleyx9803 4 жыл бұрын

I didn’t really get that most fanfics and young adult romance movies did this until I read this book called entanglement. At one point in the book the main characters are discussing how their day was and the female lead starts to reflect on how far their relationship had progressed and she comes to the realization that she likes the guy as a person/friend “I like him as a person. Stripping all the attraction, chemistry, and love away, I genuinely like who he is as a human being.” (Entanglement by Sooaura)

@thatsdisco 2 жыл бұрын

oh my god that is so cute!! And I think it's a pretty accurate on how feelings like that develop in a healthy, loving relationship

@Cherabreena Жыл бұрын

Super late to the party on this one, but I'm so happy you're talking about this. I hate this trope so much, because in real life it's not fun, cute, it doesn't work and is a likely ticked to abuse. You cannot love toxic/abusive/emotional unavailable people into changing. Often their behavior is pathological anyway or a personality disorder and you can't "cure" that by loving someone into someone they are not. End of story. Save yourself the heartache and find an emotionally stable and healthy person from the beginning!

@14omoon 4 жыл бұрын

"I wear black and smiling physically pains me!" 😂😂😂

@xJxUxLxZx 4 жыл бұрын

Made me happy when you praised ‘the girl who played tessa’. I went to school with Jo and she is super talented and an all round lovely person ☺️ I haven’t seen the movie yet but I’m stoked that people are seeing how talented she is

@vanillakitten1210 4 жыл бұрын

That's so cool! I'm interested to see her grow and work with material that isn't shit! was she a stage actor at your school?

@xJxUxLxZx 4 жыл бұрын

carriex2 she was great in drama and school stage productions but by year 11 (junior year) she was already on TV ads and other stuff. Something I don’t think everyone realises is how smart she is though, she excelled in everything

@alexroberts3402 4 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome. Honestly I hated the movie but Jo was probably the one thing that prevented it from being worse than it was. She really surprised me, I didn’t expect her to be quite good of an actress. She deserves better roles.

@thaissa215 4 жыл бұрын

Omg she like, CARRIED this movie. Seriously, if she wasn't as good an actress Tessa would be insufferable. Hope to see her on more stuff!

@chosenuwu 4 жыл бұрын

aww, so sweet you speak out your praise for her in the comments too

@hades_town Жыл бұрын

i so appreciate you talking about movies that idealize toxic relationships, I definitely grew up on those movies and it definitely has affected my relationships as an adult

@Cfaerify 4 жыл бұрын

What I also hate about these YA stories is that most of the time one person won't be into the other and pushing the other person away but the main character PUSHES THROUGH and suffers because that's how they'll earn the person's love? Like, no? It sends the message to girls that as long as they stick with being treated like garbage the man will eventually turn into a prince and be into them when in reality if a dude tells you he's not into you or treats you like garbage, YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE THEM.

@charmainearongay6448 4 жыл бұрын

*fly enters Kennie: You come into MY HOUSE buzzing like MY SON-

@dexa6623 3 жыл бұрын

I really love it when you talk about the abuse in these stories, because too many other bad movie reviewers just go "Woman dumb", or "she has no personality" and thats it, where you actually talk about the characters, and the toxic traits to avoid.

@thetnrwoman1052 3 жыл бұрын

I 110% agree! I HATE the trope of the woman's love being the "savior" for men with emotional/mental issues. It teaches women that it is our duty to "fix" men. And by implying that true love "cures" all, it is inadvertently telling women that if we can't "fix" these men, it is either our fault for not trying hard enough, OR he must not love us enough! Basically, this is encouraging women to be in codependent relationships. When, the truth is, if someone is dealing with mental/emotional issues that they are not working on, there is little-to-no chance of them maintaining a healthy and successful relationship! I believe the great RuPaul put it best when she said "If you can't love yourself, how in the Hell are you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen?!?!"

@michaelmohamed6739 4 жыл бұрын

Hardin: H- Me, a British boy: _ *n o* _

@deleted6991 4 жыл бұрын

lol

@pyreworks5210 4 жыл бұрын

@Phoebe TonQueen Their acting is not bad but hardin's face always looks he is scrunching so it kinda looks like he is always in pain lol

@pyreworks5210 4 жыл бұрын

@Phoebe TonQueen lmao

@aliciafield5106 3 жыл бұрын

@@pyreworks5210 I just found that he plays the young voldemort from the sixth harry potter

@oghenerukevwekofi7976 4 жыл бұрын

"and then they have sex, now we're like 80% through the movie"

@Minsi40 4 жыл бұрын

Sad thing is, I literally write this to get over mind blocks in my story for the romantic scenes. It helps get the creative juices flowing, lol.

@cactojuice 4 жыл бұрын

His voice is one of the many varieties of London accent, but with hella added mumbling, trust me a fair few people sound like him at my school

@stusiiiii 3 жыл бұрын

Fun fact, the actual bet in the book was for Hardin to take Tessa's virginity but the directors clearly thought that was the only morally problematic message they should've taken out of the movie

@eclectickells8844 4 жыл бұрын

I've been using Wattpad since launch and I remember when After was being written. I read the first chapter and I INSTANTLY deleted that shit from my library. I can't stand that book or any in the series. There's so many genuinely good authors and books on that app like Sir Rob or kpgcatlover and I've never been able to understand why After got so popular. [definitely bc of fandom support and the fact it was the one, and probably the first, novel fanfic the fandom had seen]. Call me whatever you'd like but I've been saying it since day 1, After and the series is trash that just got lucky based on it's background and the fact people eat up the Fifty Shades, hetero, toxic relationship dynamic like it's cocaine in a 80's night club.

@gracerose2549 4 жыл бұрын

When After first came out I was against reading it. It was so overpopulated. But then one night, I was stupid and was like, let's just see what all this craze is about. That first page sucked me in and I'm surprised you had the opposite effect! Interesting though that happened. I loved the series but I reread them a few months ago, it had been 5 years since I first read them. And oh my god, they are bad. The message they give is horrible. Stay with the abusive guy because you think you can change him? No! I agree it got lucky because of its background. It's sad it's glorified.

@raerivers 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t like After because their relationships toxic, in fact, I hate that, I like After because I can relate to it- which yes, I know, isn’t a good thing- but there are so many things that Hardin has said that has almost exactly been said to me, and Tessa’s confusion and struggle and hurt and inability to walk away, I relate to it. No one wants a toxic relationship, and it’s not like the people in them don’t care about each other, in fact that’s the biggest problem, because they love each other so much they desperately want it to work, but sometimes relationships just don’t. But after doesn't sugar coat it or have this whole ‘love solves everything’ mentality that isn’t at all realistic, instead, it shows that no matter how much they try to be better, they don’t actually progress into a healthy relationship until they spend YEARS apart

@eclectickells8844 4 жыл бұрын

@@raerivers My biggest complaint is the writing. I think it's poorly executed and the plot is overall bad [take this lightly bc the books I usually read are classic English literature.] It also sends horrible messages to teenagers and glorifies toxic relationships. Not trying to start an argument, I respect that you like them. We just share different viewpoints on them and that's okay.

@shayla106 4 жыл бұрын

Soph xoxo Still promotes a toxic relationship because in the end after all the hell they put each other through that, I’m sorry can’t fix still get a happy ending.

@raerivers 4 жыл бұрын

@@eclectickells8844 Yes I completely agree with your last point, I really don't want to engage in some internet feud about a fictional couple and I respect that you don't like them. But for me- as someone who read these books while in a toxic situation myself- they helped me realize how much I saw myself in Tessa, and how that wasn't a good thing at all. Tessa's exhaustion, her feeling like her relationship with Hardin was one big back and forth cycle you can't escape, I related to, and I truly don't believe it glorified their relationship because it was a huge part in me realizing I had to get out of my own. If Anna had romanticized their relationship, I would have thought that mine was okay- healthy, even- so maybe the only reason I feel so strongly about them is because of how much the books helped me. I guess it's one of those situations that you need to experience to fully understand? I don't know

@biancaperez1056 4 жыл бұрын

His voice is like caught in his throat, like that one terrible inspirational-speech-headass girl on vine

@dougdimmadomeownerofdimmsd770 4 жыл бұрын

Bianca Perez i HATE that i know who you mean

@moxiesoxie9374 4 жыл бұрын

Like he has a mouth full of marbles and mashed potatoes.

@mmem4264 2 жыл бұрын

One good thing about this series is H never changes, their relationship gets more and more toxic, and T is never able to save him w her love. It shows that solving all problems w sex is a myth and how stressful and chaotic dating someone like him could be.