4 things you must do if you like a guy

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This video is about 4 things you must do if you like a guy. If you like a guy and you want to give yourself a chance you have to follow these rules to protect yourself and maintain your self respect. Trying to get a guy to like you can be hard when you sacrifice your own dignity. If you have a crush on a guy don’t let it cause you to lower your standards. It won’t make him like you. So many women lose control over themselves when they like a guy and want him to fall in love with them. Remember these 4 rules.
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@RealityCheck1980 3 жыл бұрын

“Your standards and your emotions must be separate” “There is a difference between what you FEEL and what’s REAL”.....

@darcycaramunford4200 3 жыл бұрын

Not always easy. Standards & emotions do fight for position. Often potential partners play on the position struggle 2 the tune of.... "What's the least they can get away with" exhausting anothers emotional intelligence in the process.

@dragonflymagictarot 3 жыл бұрын

That part

@Freespiritedqueen 3 жыл бұрын

@@darcycaramunford4200 you have a point!🤔

@noel0095 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@gracegsf7426 3 жыл бұрын

I feel so called out 😔

@TheLadyQuashia 3 жыл бұрын

1.Detach your emotions from your standards 2.Know why you like him 3.Stay out of your own head 4.Immediately set the rules and standards for YOURSELF

@boobae3520 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. This information is useful at any age. I love it.

@bugeye8749 3 жыл бұрын

I came to this epiphany last week. I love myself lol

@SophieSerene25 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

@missbliss4life 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the recap!

@minahtheweirdo 3 жыл бұрын

Goat

@brittanyparistx 3 жыл бұрын

Ok but real talk- the fantasy/imagined men and relationships are actually the hardest to get over. 😂😂😂

@juliawhite7152 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣💯

@weareuniqueforareason7503 3 жыл бұрын

Facts sis

@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree!!

@alexiapappas2741 3 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@Roc469 3 жыл бұрын

It is hard getting over an illusion

@shymickey6 3 жыл бұрын

"It's just something about him." "You know why there's something about him? Because you made it up!" 😄

@DrNicolePertillar 3 жыл бұрын

I hollered!! So sad but true!!

@Vicks2418 3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao

@lisahunter2953 3 жыл бұрын

🤦🏾‍♀️

@kokolatte825 3 жыл бұрын

Man! I thought I was the only one who does that! 😆

@whitwhit5480 3 жыл бұрын

Girl!! I literally laughed out loud. No emoji needed.

@candicesd1839 3 жыл бұрын

“You wasn’t thinking. You was imagining.” 😂

@CrownedxKay 3 жыл бұрын

I HOLLERED❗😫🤣😂

@karlal3529 3 жыл бұрын

😭🥴😂

@nataschadorsey2780 3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣😭

@lotusflower33 3 жыл бұрын

That’s too funny 😂😂

@YPM498 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@toscadonna 3 жыл бұрын

Just because I like a guy, that doesn’t mean that he likes me back. My feelings have no bearing on how he acts, so I just watch what he does. If he doesn’t act like he likes me like I like him, I feel sad, but I don’t do anything about it. I cry alone and move on. I don’t want to get attached to someone that I love and doesn’t love me.

@bajsunshine 3 жыл бұрын

Facts same here

@ioannak.4690 3 жыл бұрын

Respect RESPECT! I adore your confidence and boldness

@davidmartin-tc6xq 3 жыл бұрын

It happened to the best of us

@letsgrowtogether7015 3 жыл бұрын

That's right sweetheart 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

@therealselenaselena 3 жыл бұрын

For real!👏

@cokeke78 3 жыл бұрын

"Far too many men and women create damage in moments of insecurity that they can't repair" - Kev Hicks

@andreawright3829 3 жыл бұрын

Creating a whole love story in your head, this is true.

@therealselenaselena 3 жыл бұрын

I do it all the time!

@priya3031992 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah .. it happened wid me recently .. 5 years back , there was a guy who used to follow me ..bcoz of shyness or hesitation we did not talk ... In lockdown we met again on FB we started talking .. I confessed my feeling .. he is still talking to me but he did not say anything abt liking n dating .. he never initiates conversation but he replies me within 5 mins .. he is a doctor .. dunno y he is like this ?

@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын

when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

@Burntsugaqueen 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy it’s not just me. I need to get it together😳

@SL-hq9mg 2 жыл бұрын

I plan out the wedding and how we visit my family in my head. When I talk to the guy in reality I see him as the same guy in my imagination. Needs to stop

@shelanel5348 3 жыл бұрын

There's just somethin about him, there's just somethin about him........."cuz you made it up" 😂😂😂😂😂oh my god it's so freekin true. Do I laugh or do I cry. Love you man. Thanks for keepin it real.

@daizysanya9918 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂 I relatively relate with" there's just sth abt him" phrase

@shelanel5348 3 жыл бұрын

@@daizysanya9918 sadly I'm in the same boat girl.

@katrinagovan2871 3 жыл бұрын

I watched him 2× and its ALWAYS refreshing to gear the TRUTH of reality to REMOVE the blinders . and in acting like we don't see the red flags.KEEP GIVING IT TO US RAW KEVIN. straight no chaser babee

@daizysanya9918 3 жыл бұрын

@@shelanel5348 worry not ,you're in the best space ever to know better for yourself 😌 you're bold, you're enough and you're the best

@kingdomtalkpodcast 3 жыл бұрын

I love how he’s just calmly rebuking me😂

@TammyMacMac 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@Theideapusher 3 жыл бұрын

🥴😩 yes!

@DrNicolePertillar 3 жыл бұрын

Right!!?? 🤣🤣

@learning.growing.1017 3 жыл бұрын

For real! 😂

@slims5549 3 жыл бұрын

same😂

@deannalove9073 3 жыл бұрын

"You made it up"! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bruh all this time we have been in love with ourselves 🤣

@megs3003 3 жыл бұрын

yassss!!! self love all the way hahaha

@mbenbanks 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe WE are the narcissist🤔 Into ourselves too much!

@tater822 3 жыл бұрын

Yet hoping we enough for the one that we get dreamy about lol im married to self now lmao

@Hialeah2024 3 жыл бұрын

So damn true 😍😂🤣🤣 that's what I told myself I love me so much I'm trying to put me in another's body ....preach sis

@danaik5717 3 жыл бұрын

I should remind myself this sentence more often... "there's a difference between what you FEEL and what is REAL". Thank you! 🙏

@cynthiamorley1873 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@wowso4 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@malickaneti9069 2 жыл бұрын

I SCREENSHOT IT😂👍🏽

@malickaneti9069 2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽

@malickaneti9069 2 жыл бұрын

@@cynthiamorley1873 👍🏽

@asandamkhize6018 3 жыл бұрын

“There’s just something about him” LMAO I feel attacked 😂

@sheenaj5115 3 жыл бұрын

Me toooo 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😭😭

@Dianaloveschiki 3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@tiffernut2456 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, We All Been There!

@shanice1118 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@khosipenelope5731 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@africanqueen5292 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Kev. I'm always falling in love too quick because I started imagining things😔😔

@makoaquest7756 3 жыл бұрын

Me too! Hug♥️!

@catherinehines372 3 жыл бұрын

My main problem and it never ends well

@nasarstyles8605 3 жыл бұрын

Same 🙄

@Youngboss388 3 жыл бұрын

I was same like you but now i know to control

@air10_32 3 жыл бұрын

Me 2

@Prettyblsd 3 жыл бұрын

Excuse me sir, you in my business. Don't do that. 😂😂🤣 Do you know me? I be planning the wedding and he only liked a pic. 🥴 I need help lol

@KevHick 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@LuvMiwrite 3 жыл бұрын

Me too lol We gonna be at our fake weddings together

@tabman9554 3 жыл бұрын

@@LuvMiwrite LoL 😂

@Vicks2418 3 жыл бұрын

Lmfaooooo 😂 stop

@danakarloz5845 3 жыл бұрын

@@LuvMiwrite 🤣

@asksispodcast8028 3 жыл бұрын

I realized once I overextended myself....the disrespect started... Smh. Wish I seen this video 2 months ago. Lol.

@lisitchkajojo 3 жыл бұрын

Same 🤦‍♀️

@mileyroe4877 3 жыл бұрын

Same here. This is so frustrating.

@kivakay8124 3 жыл бұрын

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@sashaalexander3684 3 жыл бұрын

Foreal!!

@kikicouture10 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, the moment you become to available or easily accessible that’s when everything will go to shits.

@RadicalforGod 3 жыл бұрын

That’s where I messed up. I acted with my emotions and not with my standards.

@RadicalforGod 3 жыл бұрын

@UMN Mode she’s a black Barbie

@IamKarryanne 3 жыл бұрын

“BECAUSE YOU MADE IT UP IN YOUR HEAD “ 🗣🗣🗣🥴🤕

@juliawhite7152 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@ShaniTheBurningTree 3 жыл бұрын

Kev just shredded my whole desire to text this man that I’ve been digging so much. He hasn’t made time for me, so what am I doing even considering texting again? What kind of nonsense is in my head? And yet i have another suitor who is consistent even though he owns businesses and keeps me focused on my goals. But I want the hot guy. Argh!

@juanitaw7056 3 жыл бұрын

Me too I need to stop

@ayotfreda5536 3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@ayotfreda5536 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos has made me delete the guys number even

@mistyjenkins3045 3 жыл бұрын

Girl same.. wtf

@neffyiffy 3 жыл бұрын

Gurl same!!!! I feel u!!!! Hahah

@laja82 3 жыл бұрын

"Don't create shame by letting your insecurities get in front of you." This is probably the most important video (to me) that you've ever done.

@ms.x1669 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@kimmcdade1831 2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@seattlered3018 Жыл бұрын

"sometimes the best thing you can do, is nothing." Great advice 😊

@yw6502 3 жыл бұрын

Why did I not see this when I was 18? 🤦🏾‍♀️ Thanks you Kevin, simple FACTS. It’s a fantasy in your head...

@shutit4024 3 жыл бұрын

Same!!!! Ugh 2 years later still trying to get over that “situation “

@sw-ri7bl 3 жыл бұрын

"Stay out of your own head" *now time to put it into practice ❤

@KevHick 3 жыл бұрын

Hey member 🙌🏾

@sw-ri7bl 3 жыл бұрын

@@KevHick ❤👏

@bakihanma5102 3 жыл бұрын

Hardest lesson I am continuously learning: Don't assume that any time, money, emotion or efforts given to others will be reciprocated. Once you give it away, know it's gone, so be cautious who you give it to.

@muslimgirl51 3 жыл бұрын

“It’s because you made it up” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 this whole video cracked me up. The straight face made it even funnier. But big favtssss this video helped me make a decision I been fighting ❤️❤️❤️

@certifiedslay2469 3 жыл бұрын

I know right 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that line was funny

@mariamorarodriguez2210 3 жыл бұрын

That line killled me too 🤣

@kivakay8124 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@gabssan4824 3 жыл бұрын

Omg😂😂😂😂

@lamya5193 Жыл бұрын

'Most wars are won or lost in the mind.' I felt that. ♥️♥️♥️

@shortsweetness876 3 жыл бұрын

#2 😭😭 I'm guilty asf. I start imagining how our life would be great together 😭😭😭

@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын

when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

@erinkristin6536 3 жыл бұрын

I'm guilty too 😩 with a guy I like a lot right now 😭😭...

@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын

@@erinkristin6536 it’s ok miss! Are you still on date with the guy?

@erinkristin6536 3 жыл бұрын

@@richardrivas3294 yes, he is still around.

@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын

@@erinkristin6536 where are you from n how old?

@horserider8963 3 жыл бұрын

“There is just something about him” this sentence ruined a lot of women’ lives....indeed we are Toxics 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Giveintolove94 2 жыл бұрын

Guilty... it hurt me worse than my divorce.

@_autobiographer 3 жыл бұрын

Idk how the algorithm got me here but this is more than relationship advice, this is just good life advice.

@Stainless009 3 жыл бұрын

So True , esp overgiving and its consequences with people in general

@kaydykes9916 3 жыл бұрын

It’s really hard for most people to be mad at themselves. Often times it’s easier to be a victim, but often times there are no victims, just volunteers. We don’t want to admit we ignored that little voice warning us. you keep trying and giving, but getting no results. You can only control yourself so don’t waste time waiting for someone to change, or trying to change them. They will change when they put in the effort. It hurts because you wanna be that girl they put in the effort for… But if it’s not happening then do yourself a favor and walk

@jazzyladyjae7669 3 жыл бұрын

@ Kay Dukes I ❤❤❤ This!! ... Speak on it!! ... Preach!! .... Thank You!💕

@dinaoser3129 3 жыл бұрын

Greatest Advice? Don't Walk...RUN

@katrinagovan2871 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent explanation. I love it. Bravo.

@SindyAkpolo 3 жыл бұрын

Detach your emotions from your standards Know why you like him Stay out of your head Immediately set the rules and standards for yourself Wow this is just the best I’ve ever heard. Thank you Kev

@TheeGirlabouttown 3 жыл бұрын

"you know why it's just something about him? because you made it up!" 😂😂😂😂 Kev you did not need to come for my neck like this!

@venicethevoice6380 2 жыл бұрын

1. Detach your emotions from your standards. 2. Know why you like him( e.g tangible reasons like how he may treat you, stop imagining and start paying attention so you know real reasons of why you might like him. You might be liking only what you're imagining. 3. Stay out of your own head. Women end up imagining things and start social media stalking etc. What you feel is not always real. You don't have to act out of insecurity and start sending someone a lot of texts because of what you're thinking or imagining. Sometimes the best thing you can do is nothing, people cause irreparable damage. 4. Immediately set the boundaries and the rules when you're dealing with him. Keeping YOU in check is the most healthy thing you can do for yourself in the relationship. Know what you will and won't do for love, to impress a guy. Make sure you know what you're willing to do and what you're not willing to do. Make sure that you hold yourself to your own standards. Notes taken sir, thank you. With love from South Africa. 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

@wyzasukitan 3 жыл бұрын

THE FREE CHIPS PART 🤣🤣🤣😭 DAMMIT

@IamKarryanne 3 жыл бұрын

😭😭

@trackstar6466 3 жыл бұрын

Wow every woman needs to hear this !!!

@XtremFaith 3 жыл бұрын

"You wasn't thinking, you was imagining". 😂 That hit home.

@datnursenicky3022 3 жыл бұрын

“Detach your emotions from your standards”

@sannndia 3 жыл бұрын

you’re right it’s not these guys, it’s me.... im the toxic one 😭😭

@mirembeleahaisha 3 жыл бұрын

Emotions and standards. you choose one for the relationship to work out. Have a reason why you fell in love with that person. Stop imagining There's a difference between what you feel and reality Set up your standards. I have loved everything. thanks so much. I have picked a leaf

@raejeanie9480 3 жыл бұрын

“...because you’ve made it up” WELL GAHD DANG, that hit me 😭😭

@megs3003 3 жыл бұрын

if im being honest, 99% of the time we make it up ahah

@theblackbookexperience8325 3 жыл бұрын

Whew child! Some women are going to feel attacked ...it's me I am some women. Because I have done all of these things and I had to learn. But the way you said it opened my eyes to some different aspects!

@adrianaxcx777 3 жыл бұрын

7:13 "There's a difference between what you feel and what is real" 💯💯💯

@yoshikiwiseman7573 3 жыл бұрын

I like him because he’s a man of God, family oriented and he’s there for me when I need support or encouragement.

@Kiky812 3 жыл бұрын

My ex ex non boyfriend: the only thing I could say about him "there's just something about him" SMH 🤮

@sing_talk_comment6778 3 жыл бұрын

I made all 4 mistakes 😅 when I fell in love for the first time in my life at the age of 29 🚂 💥 Man do I hope this never happens to me again You are brilliant Kev!! ♥️

@shanice1118 3 жыл бұрын

I just made this mistakes I hope I can fix them now 🤣🤣🤣.

@sing_talk_comment6778 3 жыл бұрын

Muna hahaha you should be able to. In my case the guy had a girlfriend, who had moved away for a year and they got back together when she returned. If there is no drama like this, you can do it! ☺️🤜

@asksispodcast8028 3 жыл бұрын

I was in the exact situation. Oh it hurt had... Lol. We live and learn !

@sing_talk_comment6778 3 жыл бұрын

Ask Sis Podcast I guess a lot of us go through it in their lifetime. Hope you’re over it now ✊

@sing_talk_comment6778 3 жыл бұрын

@Shade oh yaaa.. such a late bloomer 😂😂it’s not all bad 💪

@tanyaglover8781 3 жыл бұрын

I've learned that self-love includes protecting myself totally...If what I want to do or give a man is going to make me feel bad about myself or possibly harm me emotionally in any way, I can't do it...I must keep me safe at all times...Get some boundaries...draw the line somewhere...

@HankiMaus 3 жыл бұрын

Yup... professional line drawer here.🙄🤚🏼 Thank you, Kev... I expected something totally different from this video... but I admit, I like the reality way better, even though it hurts a little.🥴🙈

@saras.2173 7 күн бұрын

This is the talk I’ve been needing someone to have with me for a while. I felt like a daughter whose dad loves her and is looking out for her as I was listening. Thank you for telling it like it is.

@lalalalaaAa123 3 жыл бұрын

YES sponsorship!! We love to see it for you sir! 👏🏾

@sandragailgoudelock1531 3 жыл бұрын

I've listened to tons of your advice but this was totally fabulous. I wish I had access to your advice ages ago it would have saved me a whole lot of heartbreak and tears.

@yudiththeeg308 3 жыл бұрын

Yesss thaaaaaank u!!! You're so smart and well spoken 💋💚💋

@skybri69 3 жыл бұрын

I was just telling my friend this earlier. I really like a guy, but I’m realistic about how things can end up, since he’s thinking of moving cities. about an hour and a half a way. Not far, but still a transition. I’m not expecting anything. If the guy is willing to go through with a relationship, I’m down. If not, then I have no reason to invest. I’m willing to let him go. This is the first time I’ve really liked someone, while simultaneously knowing the reality of a potential outcome. I’m happy with myself, I don’t need him, love so many thing about him. Never caved into sex, either. We’ll see where it goes.

@tiffanysbeautifuljourney 3 жыл бұрын

What’s interesting about both of you ladies experience I’m in that exact space as we speak. Except I’m the one that moved to another state. The reality for me is!!! we were friends first, then we bonded, and after 3 yrs of celibacy on my end I shared my most intimate self with him, all the while knowing I was relocating to another state. We said we would keep in touch although no commitment or committed relationship was established, and we’ve talked about visiting and keeping the lines of communication open, but after a month of being in a different state. I realize I simply just want more, but I also know my reality is it’s not going to happen. I’m heartbroken because I allowed myself to become emotionally attached knowing ultimately we were on two different paths I was moving away... Spare yourself the hurt if you can and if no commitment is made don’t invest anything further emotionally , it hurt waaaay to bad...💯💯💕💕

@skybri69 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ladies for your feedback, it is MUCH appreciated. I’ve been down the same route before and it left me fucking broken, so definitely protecting myself this time around. That’s why I haven’t had sex with the dude, which he’s been incredibly respectful of. But he’s just not pursuing the same, so I’m gonna take a step back. If he pursues, I know where he stands. If he doesn’t, then I know where I stand. ❤️

@teresadockery8043 2 жыл бұрын

Gosh, same here. I’m really digging a guy who isn’t putting forth any kind of effort to pursue or date me. It’s disappointing but I refuse to put myself on the line emotionally like how I used to do. I value myself, peace of mind, and body too much to allow a man to toy with my emotions. I really like how Kev said we have to respect our OWN BOUNDARIES first. That’s what I’m doing now. It’s tough, but, it starts with me first and foremost. The right one will eventually cross my path.

@pulithesouthafrican7869 3 жыл бұрын

Yay. Here early today. Love the ad too. Love to see our brother secure the bag🙌👌

@pulithesouthafrican7869 3 жыл бұрын

1. Detach your emotions from your standards. These two must be kept separate at all times. There's a difference between what you feel and what is real. Don't let your emotions win over your standards, if you do, it will most probably end in tears. Let your standards remain in place no matter how strongly you feel about him. 2. Know why you like him. When a dating coach asks why you like him, you should be able to say why. If you can't list why you like him, it is probably because you made him out of your head. Sorry, not sorry. If it's real, you know why you like him or liked him even if you break up. 3. Stay out of your head. Don't act on your insecurities. Don't be emotional, beg a man, text him, stalk him, etc. out of insecurity because most times your insecurities aren't based on reality. Don't act on your insecurity or anxiety,or you will regret it. Sometimes doing nothing is the best thing. 4. Immediately set rules and boundaries for yourself. Sometimes it's not them it's you in your pursuit to win him over. Your over extensions. What you give freely. And why would a man turn down what you offer for free? People love free s÷!t. Keep yourself in check. Have standards for yourself and uphold them. 😘🙌

@esther7142 3 жыл бұрын

Take a bolt😂lol

@kelleybright3113 3 жыл бұрын

Yessssss sys its such a joy fo Kev we luh u big bro queen if all queens brown gyrls

@cmlady0437 3 жыл бұрын

And that's the real truth... Love the ad too! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@lindaachieng4520 3 жыл бұрын

Wow...I needed this I was about to text a guy about my feelings for him then I saw this😂😂 I think am gonna take a step back💯...thanks kev

@blubell2244 3 жыл бұрын

This is defo on point. Made me think about the emotions vs standards thing and made me realise I’m guilty of advising others against the stuff I freely allow at times! Great point 👏🏾

@milenabertolini79 3 жыл бұрын

OMG!!! You nailed #2....I fully conscious I imagine a lot of things and love to be in that "feeling" I created about the person.

@tonyajones1546 3 жыл бұрын

You have just summarized every video I've listened to from you! I will still keep listening however. If you never make another video, you will forever be remembered for this one. Maybe because it has instantly set me free because have intentionally let it. Not only does it speak to female /male relationships but relationships with everybody, everywhere at all times. Wisdom prevails, thank you!

@sicksadworld6221 3 жыл бұрын

💯🎯

@shishikonye6301 3 жыл бұрын

i needed to hear this..

@AndiPandi2024 3 жыл бұрын

Kevin Hicks, this was really powerful. Thank you.

@princessaleiah 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Kev Hick for being in my life. You are speaking FACTS! Much love from Barbados 🖤🦋

@scooby1970m 3 жыл бұрын

Phenomenal information 👏🏾. Helping us women to be accountable to ourselves

@legal_beagle5294 3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear, at the perfect moment!!

@Mindsetolympics 2 жыл бұрын

“Theres a different between what you feel and what’s real.” ☮️🕊✌🏿

@drshondagarnerbrooks515 2 жыл бұрын

Never wrote this before. Thank you! My standards the things I need from my partner: Attention, loyalty, trustworthy, intelligent (not formal education), passionate, interesting, confident, vocal, take charge/lead,

@angeleyes9212 3 жыл бұрын

You are so on point Kev. I just realized it's best for me to stay single and work on myself. My life, career and self-esteem.

@Lollita23 3 жыл бұрын

You're a gift to us all. Some of the best advice I've EVER heard. Thank you💜

@starchildgoddess_3335 3 жыл бұрын

Wow.. so so deep!! Very good advice.. thank you!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

@inishametcalf7840 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Kevin! Excellent coaching and advice. Millions of women need your videos. It is helping me. " Detach your emotions from reality" was profound to me. Much success to you and your family!

@getitherething.2653 3 жыл бұрын

Lol number two... so true. Man dude. You’re a walking talking quote machine. Very good.

@soulrarity9890 3 жыл бұрын

You the realest everrr! Damn I didn’t realize I lived in my imagination so long !

@Bunnzie87 3 жыл бұрын

I wish I knew about this channel a long time ago. I am still learning and I know for sure I would have saved myself heartache and suffering if I knew Kev Hick awhile back. I feel kinda dumb...

@cynthiastraker4872 3 жыл бұрын

We live and learn....not dum much 🙏

@acquabablair5524 2 жыл бұрын

You’re not dumb my dear, we’re in constant learning and evolving…life never stop teaching YS until we learn!!🙏🤭

@katrinadodd9015 3 жыл бұрын

Keep YOU in check. Thanks Kev.

@Peendee 3 жыл бұрын

The way you speak with clarity ... I have no choice but to hear your

@powermovement247 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent video! I will add this: When we first meet someone we form an "image" of that person in our own mind. The image is ideal and seldom is the reality of who that person really is. Because they can not meet up to the image that we habe created, we feel disappointment and resentment. It is always best to give a relationship time to reveal the true character of the individual before any decisions are made as to their placement in our lives. Sometimes they may not fit at all. No time is wasted. No love is lost.

@tztyles 3 жыл бұрын

I am in a relationship and I always have to check myself and not get carried away by my fantasies. I try my best to keep myself grounded and it’s helped a lot ❤️

@cmgcintentionmeditation4378 Жыл бұрын

Daaaaaammmmmmmnnnn this is REAL TALK! I needed this! "Stop imagining" ✋🏿. I did exit left, right away, but I was in my head and almost reached out. Thank you. I know I'm late to the party, but I needed this NOW....

@thehumblehygienist2805 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! I’ve been preaching “self check” for years!

@SGWndrWmn1211 3 жыл бұрын

I wasn't thinking, I was imagining😂😭

@SophieSerene25 3 жыл бұрын

Lord, I needed to hear this 👏🏾

@carolinafelici9645 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being real and explaining the truth about how to separate emotion from imagination created in my head

@CancerianLadii 3 жыл бұрын

Kev, I have followed you for a very long time now but at this point in my healing journey... I needed THIS right here RIGHT NOW!!! Thank you so much for all of your advice & also for being a coach that seems genuine, gives it to us straight, & is never biased!

@scoobychanell 3 жыл бұрын

You just gone read us like this?? 😫😂 Luckily I've learned but this was spot on. Thank you for these honest videos. Women have to know their standards and stick to them. You will not be happy in the long run if you keep allowing people to give you mediocre treatment.

@therealselenaselena 3 жыл бұрын

U are wise. I have to remember to " stay out of my head!"

@truelovetlc1758 3 жыл бұрын

You are hitting the nail on the head with this one!!! So true!!!

@cassidyblake6914 3 жыл бұрын

Correct on standards ……… facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 the “stay out of my head ,” spoke to me …… I’ve started to read or watched videos to stop and not react … I’ve had to slow down my anxiety and detach … you are correct ! Thanks spot on advice 👏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

@1Skorpia 3 жыл бұрын

This should be shown in high school. I always believed relationship 101 should be taught to children.

@oxSoNyAxo 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Kev, thank you so much for your channel! I'm not even in a relationship right now, because your videos have taught me how to love myself, set better boundaries and standards for myself... I'm able to recognize my old insecurities and behaviours now that I'm done repeating. I'm starting to feel that from leveling up I'll be much more prepared when the right guy comes along. Much respect and love. I really appreciate your videos 🙏🏼💗✨

@sistertonyah8039 3 жыл бұрын

I like this!! Especially the commercial at the beginning. Thank You for all of it.

@nappyfries 3 жыл бұрын

#4!!!!! The best thing I ever did was create boundaries for myself. It can be hard to stick to & I don’t always do it perfectly but I’m not gonna make myself look stupid by doing too much for a guy that would let do the same for me.

@divinelynat144 3 жыл бұрын

First of all, I feel like you was out here reading me. Secondly, I'm over dying at "...or something stupid like that." 🤣🤣🤣 I love that you keep it a hundred always. Definitely needed this video

@kimberlydots2909 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u Kev I’m gona put this on repeat until ur 4 points is my new lifestyle

@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын

when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

@angeleyes9212 3 жыл бұрын

Right on Kev, thank you so much for this information. I'm so happy you are doing these videos. A lot of women in this world including myself really need and appreciate you. God bless you!

@gfw2293 3 жыл бұрын

You kept it so real. Thank you. One of the best videos I've ever watched.

@kimtomkins9361 3 жыл бұрын

Love it! Without bashing.. this is the most truthful, honest and powerful advice I’ve heard!! So on point. Thank you Kevin for sharing. After getting out of a short “getting to know you relationship” I found myself fighting with my emotions vs standards. This man spoke a good game & I had been attracted to him for awhile before actually trying to get to know him. You hit on something, trying to find reasons to make him work ( whew I felt that) When he fell short on most of the qualities I looked for in a man, basic simple things, i did that, I started negotiating. Then the struggle within myself began. I was getting more agitated with him or maybe myself because my spirit was telling me he’s not the one ( you know that spirit of discernment)? Not to be ignored. I really had to turn to GOD who never fails, I had to readjust myself. My fear of disappointing GOD became greater & stronger then my emotional ties with this man. I already know what is true... GOD’s love, he wants the very best for me .. there is no confusion in that. Mourning Love ❤️ In any relationship when your fear of disappointing GOD is stronger and greater then your emotional attachment to that person..you will never lower your standards & values for anyone. Always put him first.

@omg703 3 жыл бұрын

Okay, Kev - you got me! I'm normally like... "TELL THEM"... when I watch these videos. But today, I was like... "so you gonna call me out like that" lol. I am definitely guilty of 2 and 3. Thank you, Kev for calling out and making me see my flaws!!!! Smh

@eps4560 3 жыл бұрын

Straight forward, user friendly, succinct speech, enlightened guru. Finally. May your career and life be blessed dude.

@donnavenegas6877 3 жыл бұрын

Kev, you are right on! Thank you for your honesty, most of us know this but never put it into practice. Why you ask??? All humans just naturally want to be wanted, needed and loved.

@blessingegbeama8203 3 жыл бұрын

thank you!! this video helped me a lot. I realized i was in love with my imagination of my coworker i only spoke to like 3 times, without even knowing him well.

@korinneleal644 3 жыл бұрын

"Free Chips!" 😂😂👏🏽👏🏽🤣 I love this video! You always have great advice! 🙌🏽

@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын

when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

@nadiaconseillant8616 2 жыл бұрын

Preach!!!very good. I am glad to see a young man with knowledge and wisdom. Ty for sharing son women need this today. I am from the old school. Where serenades were proper and gallant men ruled the land who were called gentlemen and women were LADIES

@marthagee6689 2 жыл бұрын

This guy is an angel. OMG I love your advice. From now on ladies don't lower your standards for a guy. Your standards should be fixed no matter how much love you feel for some dude.