Her saying why would I wear my expensive dress with my natural hair. So babes you telling me that you don't think your own hair matches with expensive garments 😱 that's LOW self-esteem!!!!

I must say the way you have your hair is 1000% more classy and elegant than the wigs they had on

I worked in an environment where majority of Black women wore wigs. They really believed the wig was their hair! And the wigs were so dramatic and unrealistic. How did we, as Black women, get here where wigs/weaves are the norm?? My daughter has locs. My hair is natural and I wear wash and go, twists, twist outs, head wraps. I can’t imagine throwing on a wig and calling it a day.

I think it’s just sad… it’s really self-hate and you can’t really be mad at them cause they’re victims. But at the same time they’re part of the problem too

Women are at their best when they wear their natural hair. PERIOD!!!

These are the same women that wear bonnets in public but refuse to rock a TWA or Twisties.

Black Natural hair will always ruffles someone’s feathers … is our hair that powerful ?! 😅

The black women in the 1970s were top tier. They had beautiful soft natural hair, fit lean bodies and soft yet sexy energy. I ADORE 70s black women! The confidence and beauty they had is unmatched🧡 Times have certainly changed..........

Us Africans are still very colonised mentally sends us thoughts and prayers. We are a work in progress 😢

They probably don't know how to style their natural hair 🤷🏾‍♀️ black women spend alot of time and money on wigs & weaves and if we invest half as much into our natural hair the results would be amazing!! Natural hair is so beautiful and elegant we've been brainwashed to think otherwise. Furthermore i don't care how good someone lays a wig you can always always see the screen door part.

Nah I'm not buying it. She is walking that statement back because she's getting dragged for it online. The thing that stood out to me is she admitted that her name is in drama often and she's used to it. Only people who are professionals at being toxic make statements like that. There were no major cuts in that clip that went viral, her statement was her statement and she needs either stand 10 toes down on it or apologize for her ignorance. Blaming it on producers is a cowardice way to absolving yourself from any responsibility.

The self-hate is real! There is something toxic within a person who encourages someone to hide the hair that way it grows from their scalp.

A African man once try putting me down by saying, I’m not wearing Brazilian hair so I don’t have money. He was also bleaching his skin as was the woman with him. It didn’t go how he thought because I burst out laughing, it was so stupid to me😂😂😂

I'm Nigerian and that's a classic case of someone who's self esteem has taken a beating for the longest time, found a way to get her acceptance from people and decided she needs to hate everything about herself that she's been bullied for and never accepted about herself. I'd wanted to make a video about it but looking through her self esteem issues and the bullying she's been through, I let it slide.

Every time I go to events I get compliments about my natural hair. I don't know what she's talking about

It is sad that the same type of women from the 90's still exist. I'm 51 next week with my 4c hair, still fly as ever. The same women who mocked my hair, are now buying 'natural hair'. Let us raise up our girls. Not erase their roots.

My cousins wife wore her locs for their wedding she was gorgeous it fit her I love seeing black women embrace their natural hair

Her statement was so insulting and embarrassing. I am black and proud of all of me

The way 🥚 people laugh behind our backs when we wear these cheap looking wigs doesn’t matter but it’s embarrassing when WE are acting like a wig is more beautiful then our hair. And this is directly related to the skin bleaching issue. At the end of the day it’s a rejection (for whatever reason) of who we are and that’s ok when you know you’ll get treated better at work ect but not when you yourself believe the hype.

I asked my mum why do Nigerians love wigs and she said she taught it was class thing and having a wig means you have money and you attract the right man

I find it sad that many Nigerian women feel this way about their natural hair 😢

She's from Lagos (Nigeria) they currently have an obsession with wigs and its a competition of who is wearing the most expensive hair.

I'm so tired of people speaking as if artifical hair and makeup is what makes a (Black) woman beautiful or put together. I always make a point of being well-dressed and presentable...I also wear my natural hair at all times and do not wear any makeup other than occasional lip gloss. I could have altered my look to appeal to more men, but I would rather be with someone who appreciates me as I am. And guess what? It worked. My partner compliments my hair all the time, and we both like that he can touch my face without having to worry about smudging anything. When women put these strict standards on other women they really are revealing their own insecurities: the fear that they are undesirable and unlovable without the add-ons. I feel for them to certain extent because I know how painful it is to have that level of self-loathing...but I was also a teenager when I believed those things, and I matured. I also never pushed those ideas onto other people. At some point people need to mature and stop focusing on such superficial things (especially a pastor!).

My daughter is 17, and she has never had her hair processed, she was about 10 years old and I took her to the hair salon and asked the hairdresser to blow dry it bone straight, my daughter kept insisting she do not like it I said well it has to be straight for your wrap, long story short when we got home she accidentally wet her entire head in the shower, Instead of being upset that truly was my wake up moment. She loved her hair in its natural state and I love that she loves her hair. It’s thick beautiful and I wished I could just go out without my wraps and my wigs but due to significant damage I can’t, and I’m in awe of her resilience of not wanting that bone dry silk wrap at 10!

The self-hate is real! Even Asians are curling their hair in tiny rollers to imitate afro hair! We are the bomb, in our natural hair!❤

we really are our own worst enemy. the saddest part is always how obviously fake most of those wigs and weaves are. the women wearing them look like Lego people, with removable/interchangeable plastic hairpieces. i cringe whenever they use the term "protective style" on the rare occasion that they go natural... like they need an excuse, or they're apologizing for not being up their own standard of beauty in those moments .

I work for a great company full time I show up 5 days with my natural hair, I will never change my hair, natural all the way up

It's amazing how you wearing your natural hair right now, looks effortlessly elegant and this blows her theory out the water.💯💯💯

Bad thing about them too is they don’t realize the wigs their wearing look awful. It could at least look real. It’s giving low budget street walker. They don’t look good enough to be at any classy event…smh

You are so beautiful!! Please continue to represent the natural beauty in black women. I can not believe the bad wig wearing women and the self loathing.

To Klassically Kept: I'm a Nigerian man. Both of these ladies are Nigerian, first lady Abiri (KokoByKhloe) is a popular Yoruba content provider and the second by complexion is probably Igbo. You are correct, that mostly there is no external discrimination based on hair, which is why Abiri said what she said comfortably - the "trauma" about "bad hair" is not there. But of course, the viewpoint is still a big issue. So, how did we get here? (i) erasure of traditional Nigerian values/culture, (ii) western media and (iii) Black American women (sorry). Based on the direction of media dating back some twenty years or so ago, the contemporary look is always influenced by America (WORLDWIDE). However, if you think Black Americans take things from 0-100, Nigerians take it 0-1000000.. and with the social media era, everything is now coming full circle. While most Nigerians are progressing a high-order status quo, some others - particularly Nigerian-Americans - are giving the world "soft life", "Christian BBL" and all types of nonsense. Plus keeping up with the Joneses is real in Nigeria (Lagos)... b/c you have actual, stinking wealthy people (dollar billionaires and millionaires) side by side with many stinking broke people and the latter are always trying to keep up. So we're all black, but there's diff cultural elements at play with this hair stuff as well. My conclusion: people like you are VERY important to the culture so please stand on your square, which I humbly agree is right. Particularly, in this global age, where trends are springing from each corner. I think if black women everywhere see obviously pretty, classy, trendy, well-to-do smart women (i.e., the "beauty status quo") rocking their well-kept natural hair, it will re-establish this as IDEAL (not just passable). Some Nigerian KZfaqrs are pushing the same message as well, such as Maraji's World. you should check her out. Why do I care? Because I hope to have daughters one day, and swear rn I'm super shooketh!

I didn't feel this stigma in the '80s OR 90s. Actually, I didn't wear my first wig until 2016.

Reading the comments 😅. It went from the hot comb/Marcel to relaxers/jerry curls and now wigs/weaves. This has been going on for generations. I used to work at a beauty supply store back in 2017. I had women my moms age coming in with locs looking for a straight wig because of their jobs. It never occurred to me that the issue wasn’t based on us not loving our hair but mainly society not allowing us to do so.

Alot of black women think and feel this way about their own hair. She just said it out loud and further perpetuated the stigma.

That woman said what she said. We understand her mindset regarding natural hair

I’m just going to say this, I personally don’t think you could look your best when you look like you are imitating someone one else. Your natural hair or natural looking hair (including braids, natural looking wigs…) cannot be duplicated, because it’s unique to you. It’s unfortunate that this continues to be an issue.

Our hair has history. Before colonization, our hair was used to tell stories (about one's tribe, status, and so forth). Further, afrotextured hair was designed to keep African people cooler in hot climates. Both of the women touting Eurocentric wigs are obviously ashamed of their own heritage. They brought even more shame to black heritage, not just for disparaging afrotextured hair, but doing it while wearing horrendous Eurocentric wigs. This left me speechless. They need to decolonize their minds and STOP dispensing beauty advice.

This’s so sad other Africans like Moroccan, Eritreans, Somalis and Sudanese are proud of their features they literally feel better looking than other races and always talk about their features I wish our people feel the same

She’s not sorry she is just sorry she got caught and mad she got called out.

I went to the gas station, less than a mile away, I saw the black woman, with a wig, the lace unglued, barely hanging on her head. I wondered to myself, why is she wearing it in the first place. It's just a gas station

I’d rather have any type of natural hair over those plastic looking wigs they got on 😂 *also, your hair is absolutely elegant, it’s giving Bridgerton for sure ❤

It’s sad that these comments are coming from us and not other races judging us. Self hatred is so sad. I hate those wigs. I would rather style my own hair. That’s led me to this channel.

I would like to add, my youngest granddaughter has pretty brown with reddish highlight 4c hair, shoulder length. When she would visit with us I'd wash condition, twist and sometimes blow dry out when she wanted to shake her hair. Then her mother started sending her over with these cheap off colored extensions, 7, 8, 9 years old. I'd snatch that mess out of her hair and remind her how beautiful her hair is. Black mothers please stop slapping up your girls when you have to deal with the 4c hair and they're crying because you yank and pull and complain about they're nappy hair. THIS is where it starts. There are more products and better made brushes and combs then when I was growing up. Stop being lazy and teach them to love their hair!

Colonization of the mind!

Great reviews, Sis! Both of those ladies look crazy in their wigs. I wouldn’t be caught dead in either one of them. 🤦🏽‍♀️

My man was telling me that he doesn't like the idea of wearing someone else hair cause you could carry their bad luck, spirit and so on. I was arguing at first but I realize I never really put the effort to style my hair. And he always praised my natural hair so that was a motivation to start putting the effort in

I get it. It’s a culture and UNFORTUNATELY I think it starts with us. I’m an African American and my family from NJ couldn’t believe that I went natural. I NEVER wore wigs and I don’t like fake hair. It’s not for me. At 52 I am still discovering my natural hair, after using chemical relaxers since I was a child. It is sad that we’re taught to hate our hair and not love, groom, learn and care for it.

Self hate is so real🤯 "Don't bring your natural hair to my event" is so ignorant. Pray for the little girl who calls her mom😩

I choose to change the narrative about my hair as a teenager. I decided that my natural is not only acceptable but it’s beautiful. I taught my daughter to love her hair also. Black woman have to decide to choose self love. It’s a decision that we need to make about ourselves. I know too many black women who choose self hate.

Translation: "I don't feel my *MOST* beautiful in my natural hair." That's is her "issue" but judging another who is wearing natural hair= *she is fully and completely in the wrong* God bless the person interviews for a job from her as employer.

I don't like when people try to dissuade the conversation or dismiss the conversation by simply saying you shouldn't be checking how other people are looking the reality of it is there's a very specific image that is being pushed right now of what a black girl and woman should look like and it's not normal and therefore it affects me. So, we have to check that. I really appreciate this video because the discourse around black women's hair is such a contentious one and it doesn't need to be and it shouldn't be, we need to be real and honest about this conversation.

Is she saying all of that wearing a headband wig? 💀🫢

She said afro hair is NOT good enough... it's not premium. SMH. As far as wearing wigs AIN'T no way my husband (may he RIP) would have gone for me wearing a wig. He didn't like me wearing makeup, he said it didn't do anything for me. All the men I dated didn't care for me to wear makeup. I've always tried to take good care of my skin and hair. I've never worn wigs, worn braids twice, and eye makeup and lip gloss.

She needs to take a few seats. Her wig is actully attached to that head band too lazy too put on a good one I guess. .She said what she meant that was not edited , she was upset because it didn't go over the way she thought it would. Pastor you say, ummm nope. I do agree it's a shame that mothers are not teaching their childdren they are beautiful just the way they are. The other thing is that you can get a man with natural hair men like all types of women. I wonder if some of these women think that having straight hair will get them a better calibre of man. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.🎄

I stopped wearing wigs because I realized they just don’t look good. I wanted to look like my hair but it never did and I wasn’t guna pay someone’s rent check for a real human hair well made wig. I ended up getting sister locs almost 3 years ago now and I’ve really grown love my own hair and it’s texture but also other women’s hair. I see black women with their natural hairstyles that are absolutely stunning. I refused to instill that kind of self hate in my daughter.

It's a shame but I believe a lot of African women feel that way. I was watching a documentary and most kids felt that their hair had to be straightened and long to feel beautiful. So perms, braids and wigs would be their solution.

I’m also assuming that she doesn’t think natural hair is appropriate to wear at work. Which falls in line with the discrimination and work place abuses that black women suffer from at the hands of their white bosses. Wow!

I'm sorry, I will have to keep running this back because I can't focus on what you are saying for staring at your beautifully and elegantly coiffed hair...your whole demeanor is taking me back to ladies from the 40's 50's , the women we grew up with.. I love it!!!

My mother is African. Kenyan in fact. She told me the only reason why she kept chemically straightening her hair was because of my father - African father - liking it more that way. As a young woman she liked to keep it short and natural. Now because of how much relaxing has weakened her strands and she’s getting older (so having a bit more hair fall + the weakening of it chemically) she switched to sister locks. She imposed doubt about my natural hair onto me all because my BM father didn’t prefer natural hair… this is common for black women.

Hello. Seeing you talk about this gives me so much joy. The two videos you reacted to are from Nigerian women and as a Nigerian living in Nigeria, it is really disheartening to see this, there are even hair vendors that sell wigs for toddlers and young children. The most comments I have gotten on my hair are from women and they most times ask or imagine my hair being relaxed. I am so grateful for my mom who taught me how to love and take care of my natural hair even when all my classmates were using relaxers in their hair. At some point I legit felt like the odd one out, I am happy I grew out of that phase. Right now I wear my long full natural hair even to work and events. And just to put this out there, there is a large community of natural hair women in Nigeria who love and appreciate their God given hair. Also I looooove all your videos. Kudos

I tried a weave once in 2008 it looked funny but everyone said it looked nice i felt uncomfortable with it on my head!!. Never tried weave again For me natural looks better on ME! To each their own✊🖤👑

I've had long hair most of my life. I cut it a few yrs ago, short to go natural. Until it grew back, i switched focus to my personal style and wearing my face. I'm a no makeup woman. It was liberating not to focus on hair, and surprisingly, i got a lot more attention. If you need wigs and weaves as self-esteem builders, what does that make you without them?

As a GROWN WOMAN you should be able to wear your hair in whatever way you like.. Its no one else business to be monitoring someone else or clothing or hair . Natural Hair to Weave , Everyone trying to be nasty and hateful and one up each other. or feel like they are better in some way. I am very selective with whom i deal with now . Cause its so many petty childish ignorant so called grown people. At The End of the Day worry about You.! Cant Police what another person put on and wear.

Thank goodness I've finally reached a stage in life of loving everything about myself from head to toe unapologetically. That's exactly why I have started rockin locs and will make sure my daughter loves herself and her hair just the way it is, period!!!!! 💅

I did not grow up wearing wigs weaves etc, tbh for me growing up it was the exact opposite. People would think my hair was a weave or people would and still ask annoying questions about my natural hair. The older I get the more I appreciate my hair wether it be naturally styled or if I choose to straighten it. I understand the pressures of being in society, when it comes to wearing our natural hair it’s not easy but, our hair that grows out of our head is apart of who we are individually. We’re all on our own journeys when it comes to self love.

That is a Nigerians opinion does not represent all african women, natural hair is a trend in Ghana so much so people actually have natural hair wigs, and there are natural hair salons, people even style their natural hair for weddings. Nigerians love wigs and even rate it above braids doesn't apply to all africans

Hey ladies if you wanna wear wigs for convenience (granted the underneath is taken care of 👀) it’s fine especially if you manipulate your hair often. However, I think opting for more natural wigs are the way to go like 4c fro, kinky straight, kinky blowout, even yaki straight (since it’s your natural texture YOU WONT NEED GLUE). I found that these look the most natural on me and are a real confidence booster while being convenient whilst maintaining a ✨classy✨ look and 3:23 growing your hair out.

She has the NERVE to have that bad hairhat on while she is saying that. I'm not bullying, I'm keeping it real. Edit: I commented before you mentioned it. But you did so in your klassy way as usual.

It’s the ugly cycle of the so-called beauty standards. The “European” look is what most acceptable. Many blk men push, hence their choice in intimate relationships, and the constant ridicule of blk women wearing natural hair, but have scathing remarks when we wear wigs too. There’s no balance for us. Which is why we need to embrace our natural hair, make it look nice, even if the choice is made to relax it. Too, we need to stop ridiculing one another perpetuating the hate projected onto us. I am loc’d, been so 21 years now. Wouldn’t change it for the world.

*sigh* there is so much that I could say on this topic, but I will say this first your hair looks beautiful. Second colonialism has really done a number on us. And lastly, it’s so sad to see our learning and unlearning being played out before the world, whether it’s Black women and our issues and concerns, including our hair, gender wars, our family concerns, mental health concerns for Black men, any, and everything that we need to discuss as a family is literally on display for the world and we we don’t have access to that when it comes to other cultures. I appreciate your work as a first time viewer. ❤

Thank you for breaking this down. She doesn’t like herself or her hair. She needs to stop devaluing the black hair that grows naturally. Black Women have various hair types and we have to learn to care for our hair and value the gift. This woman could have been born bald. Accept the blessing and quit cutting down others-which is her choice.

I was in a bank hall in Lagos some weeks back. And all the women(customers and workers) there were on corn rows or twist. I was the only one with a wig. I observed same pattern on my way back, many Nigerian women and girls are embracing their natural hair. I work remotely so I hardly go out. I quickly branched at a nearby salon and braided my natural hair. It's happening. Some women are being classist with their wigs but there is a silent revolution going on. Natural hair seems to be winning!

as a woman from the African community, some of these African sisters man... dont even maintain their natural hair correctly, so of course it looks dry and broken. We also deal with the topic of texturism and (long hair desirability) there's a small percentage of African ladies with kinky texture and long hair (past waist length when not stretched), so yeah even if said hair is freshly twisted, they need added hair to make it more... glam like to match this expensive dress and accessories, and it's alot of effort... so if they're going that route might as well put on a stringy hair weave

This is tough. I have been natural for 12 years my natural hair is BSL. But I have sooo much hair and I am not one for 2 and 3 day processes to have it presentable for my corporate job. I have invested sooo much time, money and energy over 12 years to nail the natural looks but for my day to day life I invested in a custom $1k wig (no glue required) and I love that I can keep my hair protected and feel put together and save my sanity every morning. Lastly I had 2 Christmas parties in 2 different cities and honestly I wore my wig and felt I still represented. Yes, I wash my wig. Oil my scalp and I maintain both well. My desire would be to wear my own hair all the time but it seems like I may need to go back to relaxing just to get to a place of everyday manageability this is my own internal battle. 🙏🏾

This is not surprising to me as a Nigerian-American, black people are the first to hate on my natural hair from both America and Nigeria smh. Unless it's long and flowing down your back (which is still considered rare in our community).

It's not a custom. It's self-hate. Africans are the original people so we had many important events with our natural hair. Yes, many times it was always in braids or twists but we didn't have relaxers until after colonization. Plenty of AA women and especially AA men feel the same way. I was googling nature hairstyles for weddings and there are nowhere near as many natural dos as wig dos when it comes to black women. The wig isn't even kinky straight or kinky curly. (All of this association with natural hair being undone hair is also related to hypergamy in Nigeria. All the women trying to secure a wealthy African man will not get them unless their 4c is to their butt or they buy a 30-inch wig. I went back to my country (Nigeria) and the way my cousins forced me to lay my edges was ridiculous. I have the same problems in America with black people. Either they hate natural hair or they want natural hair in a specific way (laid edges, gel-ed up, extremely long, etc). It is absurd. So y'all but wigs to do a messy bun in but I can't walk around with my edges untouched and moisturized? 🙄)

If I ever got married, this is exactly how I would want my hair to look. 🥰

This hairstyle is beautiful! 😍 You look so elegant

Several years ago, my hair was just as kinky and matted like it was no tomorrow. I just looked at myself finally in the mirror and said....'Pamela, you're black'. A point of gentle acceptance of what I agreed to be. From that day forward, I still turn heads, in terms of how I look 🤗🤗🤗

i love my natural hair

The sad reality is that African women grow up being reminded constantly that their natural hair is undesirable. That Eurocentric beauty standards are ideal . That's why colourism and in extension bleaching is a big issue in most parts of Africa especially West African. Some workplaces still don't allow people to show up in their natural hair....watch primetime TV especially News you will never/rarely see natural hair which is sad considering how powerful media can be in setting agenda and changing attitudes. The podcaster should have been more responsible than that. Luckily,the natural hair movement has revived and people are actually very proud of their natural hair. Personally,I started doing curly kit then perm just like my Mom at 13 until I hit 30 and I just didn't want to do it anymore.My Mom went natural first and our hair being fine meant all those years of chemicals had really done a number on our hair. I still see young girls hair being plaited or manipulated way too early and I don't get it... There's a lot of miseducation about natural hair but beneath most people 's wigs&weaves is a head of hair they love. Wigs&weaves should remain just a protective style,not your entire personality or identity. When it comes to Black women,our struggles are eeringly similar. She should really watch the documentary #GoodHair and read the book #PoliticsofBlackHair Not surprised at all this happened in Nigeria but it's sad coz most Nigerian women I know have thick and beautiful set of coils.

This is classic self hatred it’s so sad, because they don’t realize how crazy those wigs look.

The level of SUCCESS that the colonizers had in making people of African descent feel unacceptable is actually shocking, and it's time that we of African descent fight back against that narrative. It's really insane how deep it runs.

I just subscribed. I love what you’re saying so far. It is so true about the way we look at black hair and elegance. When you look at the history of black hair, it is so amazing that our hair is so versatile and to diminish the versatility and beauty of our hair is so criminal.Her statement speaks to the level of self-hate and internalized racism that many of us have taken on. I remember growing up and having to have everything be pressed or straight for an event and how our natural hair was never considered pretty enough. It was not until I started college and left home that I could get connected with my own natural hair because my mother was not having it in her house. Thank you for speaking up on this.

❤ I went natural as a teenager and endured mockery (from people around me and even strangers) for more than a decade until the recent natural hair 'rave'. I'm not sure who told people that some humans were inferior to others.

I can't stop laughing at the woman wearing that ridiculous wig. She looks like she's in the witness protection program.

My natural hair is priceless! No expensive clothes come close to the value of my natural hair. How people project their insecurities on others is amazing.

how ironic your natural hair is GORGEOUSSSSSS and the way you are wearing it is so elegant! I have no idea who you are this is the first video I've seen of yours i'm following you asap. As far as the video, her views are clearly drenched in self hate. If I can't wear the hair God gave me outdoors do I really believe I love myself??? It's absurd and the self hate is strooong.

I ligitamently followed after seeing your hair. You exclude such elegance and class, I know I'll need to catch up on the rest of your videos now.👏🏾

I really like the way you responded. It was a classy read. Your observations were on point.

Thank you for discussing this issue. I naturally have always worn my hair how it is: oiled and taken care of. But the older I got, I have seen other black women stare at me almost judging that I am wearing my natural hair. It at times has made me insecure but luckily my mom has always supported me and made sure I was confident in my hair and who I am with my hair.

I was genuinely shocked when I saw you😂 I read the comments first before starting the vid and they were not lying in the slightest 🖤

Happy Holidays! I so appreciate your comments! And yes, you look a thousand percent better than the podcasters with your own thick, healthy, beautiful natural hair!! This is the second year of my own natural hair journey. I was surprised, first to even know what the hair on my head looked like as I had not seen it really in it's natural state since I was 14 years old. I was also surprised as to how easy it was to take care of, once I knew how. It was sad that I didn't know how. That the only information I had been given was to perm my hair vs. taking care of it! The beauty industry is finally catching on--- realizing the goldmine involved with creating effective natural hair products. It is easier, less time consuming and less expensive than the chemical treatments I had been getting for decades. To your point, denying and concealing our natural beauty has been harmful and has obscured the truth about who we are and our value. Truths that we need to celebrate and appreciate!

A lot of natural hair KZfaqrs are bringing this to light. I watched the whole “bahd and boujee” interview! She said what she said confidently and wholeheartedly. Nothing seemed to be edited or taken out of context. My bridesmaids and I wore our natural hair to my wedding in our expensive dresses lol and it was beautiful. She also shared other ideas of beauty, and she contradicts herself several times, that I didn’t agree with either. Which is fine but, somewhere she took to heart that she is not good enough and it showed throughout the interview. I have to watch the 2nd clip you talked about now!

Wig is not my hair. I will not come to the event..period

I'm so happy to see your showing your real eyelashes!

The entire time you’re talking, I’m staring at your hair style knowing full well it’s beautiful in ANY elegant event!!

Are we not tired of talking about hair?

This is the first time I have seen your channel.....I have one thing to say.....AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!! You have discussed an issue/problem in a thoughtful, intelligent, articulate, respectful manner. Your commentary/observations and in particular this video should be required viewing for every black woman and girl....By the way, you yourself are gorgeous...thank you for this important, relevant and needed content

Beautiful. Please continue to promote natural hair and its beauty. I have twist-locs and it works for me. I like up-dos and one to two braids. A couple of the younger girls in my neighborhood have commented positively about my hair and now they are going nature. Their hair is growing and looking healthy. Also, their faces light up when I see them and a weight has been lifted. Our hair represents our grown, let's treat it as such and give honor and respect by accepting its luster. Please, keep spreading and promoting acceptance of the grown we were born with. Job well done.