Dam right👌🏾👍🏽👍🏽

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Save yourself so much time, energy, effort, money, and no domestic abuse etc

True, but there is no reason those are the only two options.

I'm with you because I'd rather be happy and single than married and miserable. People should be able to live their life the way they want to without being judged.

Oh poor you, you're too picky so you're single 😭

Yes girl. You are worth more than anyone makes you feel like less

Single women live longer, single men die sooner. So think about who really needs a relationship

Yep! Be your own party and love yourself! Better than being in a toxic relationship!!!!

True that sister ♡

Gwen Lee: Right! 👍

I guess you are still young

Channel Tools Care to elaborate on this comment? I’m not having a go, I’m just genuinely curious why being young is an excuse to have this mentality.

@@Ken-dm5xt because when you are a woman and in your late 30s, it's not fun to be single. Society pressure and biological clock, you know

Channel Tools I see

awwww, what a nice thing to say

I agree 💯! She’s got that special quality in talking to people who struggle with tough topics and people. Thanks Stefanie!

I 110% agree!!!

Agree ! She is a light. Very wise

Yes I agree with you 🙌🏾

SL Life I wish i had stayed single.

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Cant wait to be single. Peace is all i want

@@artgirl7480 you can still do., Why do you regret your present?

@@sialo6373 I am making my present moments as meaningful as possible. I married a man whose personality changed after I married him. He was no longer fun loving and easy going. He is demanding and controlling. I make my present moments as positive as I can and I avoid being around him as much as possible.

keep lying to yourself

@@bennyblanco6317 how do you know that ?

@@bennyblanco6317 WDYM?

@@bennyblanco6317keep being desperate for attention instead of first loving yourself.

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Gee thanks internet Dad

WOW!!! PROFOUND AND SO TRUE!!! YOU ARE SO MY GOD OF THE MOMENT!!!

@@stevemajic2958 lower-case g. ;)

"Oh God, I'm dying..."

Giovanni Proietto great point 💯💯

Yes spot on

Too true. Only you can make you happy. Even in a relationship you just choose to live around someone.

I was thinking about the same thing this is why I don't have no social Media anymore.. I don't need no one knowing my business anymore .. especially who I am .. I am going to get better at things

I even did a fake proposal just to show her friends that i am proposing to her! FAKE EMOTIONS! A PROPOSAL IS SUPPOSE TO BE A SURPRISE, NOT PLANNED!!! My partner if a pretender! Too much jealousy and insecurities on social media!

Well said

Facts on facts I really think that's the reason why ppl wanna be in a relationship soooo bad. Social Media made it a trend, I rather have something real that will lasts (in real life) not fast ( for the pics, tags etc) just to prove others I got "somebody"

Once I was walking around the park & I saw a couple.. they were sitting normal but when they noticed me they kissing each other for a minute 😂🤣

Yes!

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Cant wait til i get like this

I'm jealous I want to be like that

@@Nokss87 Hey don't worry you will be it only takes practice, It's like learning a new language. The first few months you're really rubbish at it and then a few years later, you're fluent, and you can't even remember what it was like not to speak the language.

Wow ....this is good to hear because I have felt that way for some time now... I have guy who says that he is my friend but always tries to make me feel guilty about my singleness...I just not interested in him that way at all ...I am divorced and good with being single, and yes there are times that get lonely but I stay too busy to let it bother me.......

@Tony Rowan Y'know, I think, if we were all that way we would probably have healthier relationships with each other. As people. Without expectations.

God*

Yes me.too..I can do anything what I want

@@happydogg312 that's my brother you idiot

Have you been to Disney alone? I have been alone twice and that is how I prefer it, it's a great experience.

I definitely enjoy alone too, but I'm learning to let myself open up and connect with people as before I would just be more closed off and I realized this wasn't healthy for me. (Not saying you, because I don't like to assume -it's one of my pet peeves, lol.. just sharing me personally. And definitely Jesus Christ.. 🤗😍

Me too God is first in my life always in Jesus name 🙏🙏

Amen. Btw the Bible says that it’s not good for a man to be alone. Me: Welp. I think I’m gonna die alone. And I’m fine with that.

Ups. It did NOT helped me. I was sooooo incredibly happy as a single person, living alone for 10 years. Then I got married and in 5 years of marriage, I gradually lost my happiness until I realized that I'm not happy any more and divorced. I was happy again single again. Somehow, this tool didn't serve me in marriage.

Where did you begin

@@user-ee5om8wy7u That's because being happy single is not a teaching tool for being happy married.

Yes Nikola Tesla would agree with you there!

Yessss

J G amen

Relationships don't equal drama and abuse. If you have relationships with drama and abuse, the first thing you need to look at is you.

@@themacocko6311 yes self analysis & self reflection is good. I’m aware I’ve been an enabler & fixer in the past & I am fixing that! Victim blaming is not so good!

Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

I hope one day if you are with someone then it is someone that brings you every happiness in life

We’re not taught how to do this stuff. Just takes time and patients with yourself 💗

Thanks for teaching us, Stephanie!

I could not agree more!

Then do so! God bless you in your journey!

keep lying to yourself

@@bennyblanco6317 WDYM?????

❤❤ same!!

I think all attractive women are taken. You would not have a problem finding a good man.

Nice to know others feel the same about the organic relationship outside of today's narcisstic society. Did you end up finding someone, this comment is 3 years old.

Me too. I feel like its normal and natural to want to be with a partner..we're social beings..

Don't try,just be happy with yourself otherwise you come across as needy ,show the world you are comfortable and they will want to be with you 🌸

Yes. Woman over 50 are not invisible. We can be advised as well. We are here. We are not low hanging fruit

I’m SO glad I was able to help during those times 🙌 you are not alone!

That person will come.yall will find each other.

One part in her video I really paid attention to, is to have faith always, to know that that person will come along..... until then work on yourself, accomplish small goals and shower yourself with love. When you do that your married friends will be jealous of you!

My mother did all of those things you listed married, plus she cooked and cleaned the house. That was in the 60s.The American people have become a bunch of pansies!

glad you found freedom as a single, it feels great to have control over your own life, friends and pets can often be better companions than a spouse!

Same here. Then through 5 years of divorce with poor health. Unmarried for the last 6 years, still healing

May God grant you your heart desires

I always listen to speakers mom working out… I would say 80% of the time I’m listening to some kind of a motivational person! Best time to be feeding your mind 🙌

Line something special up for yourself,create your very own holiday traditions,you are worth it🌸

Great! All the best! It is better to alone than be with a miserable man!

Love it!

M H I wish you all the best and love and happiness in this life ♥️♥️♥️♥️

I feel you