Um akchually you can 🤓☝️

that one hit for me too.

​@@Nyxar-2077 that's not what they meant and you know that, i know exactly what they meant

But what if I tell them illegal stuff

i dont understand.

Sadly that isn't really true if we r talking about romantic relationships cus if we look at science/statistics , there's more males than females. So yeah even if all females have a partner , not all males will have a partner. Aside from that , let's say males and females have the same percentage/number of people. We still gotta take account for those people who r gay/bi , people that dosent want a relationship and more. So yup. As much as I wish this was true. It won't be

@@unknown-hn7ibdont be negative

❤

I wish I can always remember

Let me be a part of this subscription

Yes that's the only way to encounter loneliness and take it positively...

Well said

Great line, love it ❤

❤❤❤

Beautiful lines

We will get this ❤

Yup

As a man too, because you know what happens to men who try to share their true feelings and their emotional side, they soon realize exactly why they weren't sharing it in the first place

@@blackbullet4254 yeah, true

same fr

Yes!❤

why not this one

@@nalbinalbii888 Aww just for you to know, If you ever want to come to Argentina, you have a friend here

@@Val-sx4je idk if u meant to reply to me but that’s so sweet

​@@Val-sx4je🇦🇷❤️

and in this universe i would like to be your friend

Jessie j song

Tell that to men who lost the girls they loved because they showed vulnerability...

@@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier “some people wont be able to handle your heart and thats okay.”

tell them everything trust me its better than letting it accumulate and it will cause more harm than it should , i dont promise anything about their response but i wish someone told me to do so earlier, and i wish you a happy life regardless of their unswer . good luck .

Let them know, release yourself of this burden, the suffering you may endure as a result of rejection is nothing compared to the suffering of perpetual anxiety

Let them know dawg, don’t live life in fear it prevents you from doing so much.

❤❤❤

Rejection pain is better than the pain of never knowing. So tell them, even if you’re scared it’ll go wrong.

That is so beautiful, you can be so proud of yourself for building up the courage and tell him about your feelings and love without conditions 🫶🏽 one day it will come back to you in abundance

You're grateful for that? For me it feels miserable. Knowing that your feelings won't be reciprocated but not being able to get rid of those feelings is like a knife that is constantly being twisted inside you

Its nice to feel love even if unreciprocated. It's a beautiful feeling. It also is wonderful to wish the best for them

@@furiousdestroyah9999it does feel miserable but everyone processes grief differently. unreciprocated love is a grief, a grief of something that won’t happen or be felt. But slowly overtime like in the video, you’ll be able to feel love again when you notice the different kinds of love you’ll feel yourself n someone will notice that authentic love or you’ll feel that authentic love from others. the goal rn is js to heal n be at peace w your emotions fully without harsh treatment to them. it’s not your fault it’s unreciprocated so don’t be too hard on yourself during this grieving process.

I told a girl that I liked her during 4 - 5 years, she said "I need time" I was like "absolutely, no pressure" then 4 month later she told me she had someone for 1 year and half lol, she apologized, I said it's ok, and now I'm back to feeling lonely, but I gotta admit, during these 4 months there was some hope and a weird feeling of happiness

Fellow 21 years single here, hoping both of us find the love we seek 💐

Here I am, adding to the list of 21 year old single hopeless romantics

Hopefully, our true love will find us.Wishing you good from another 21 years old..

i think philosophy comes at play here

I wish someone would have given me this quote 20 years ago... Now she's married with kids, and I've got nothing to do but accept it'll never happen.

lol it’s also sort of a Simpsons quote

Bless you

I’m so happy for you 🥹

Share more of the story ! Sounds really nice ❤

thats so unfair mate i acc hurt for u so bad, i think when ur somewhere like that no matter how fucked up and unjust the situation is you need to stick with what you have, which is yourself. Even if when u go outside and everything u see seems to be working against you or you get rejected or fucked over, the one thing you can control is yourself right? liking and even loving yourself is hard when ur lacking external validation, but that means that when you finally get there itll be all the more true, and you won't need to worry about it collapsing if someone leaves your life, cause you made it yourself, and it's something that, even nowadays, not many people have. You're infinitely more valuable than your money or social skills or looks because you're a person and a life that can't be wasted. Don't wait for someone else to make you live it. And i promise what comes after is better than temporary happiness, it's contentment. And that lives forever and will nurture you through any other hardships you face, which im sure you'd have the strength to push through anyway. idk i just really wanted to reply and let you know that you're worth a friendship with yourself. Im a serial waffler i hope that made sense but idk how to word it any better. anyways love u stay safe mate

@@cherryantacids Thanks...i hope i can turn things around soon.

What @cherryantacids said was brilliant on its own, but I could add some rare or original knowledge that isn't readily apparent: Other than you get to keep all your own good memories without others distorting them or projecting negatively against what you know to be true. Also, my best lasting memories of relationships, friendships and love interests, never needed any of the things conventional ""wisdom"" throws at you. I didn't need money, clout, credentials or success for them to happen and many people who have those things, unfortunately never had or felt any of the things I have experienced or lived through. Truly though, I think people who don't appreciate others are the ones who are found lacking in humaneness and a proper sense of ethics. If I have been able to turn enemies good, how is it that others can't even do the same with people who aren't even hostile or diametrically opposed? In this way, I have come to realize that most fixate on the wrong things from the outset. A common example is being asked "What do you do?", as if the whole of one's life experiences beyond it can be irreversibly reduced to how they make their money... if any. None of my loves asked me this, and it's considered poor etiquette to do so if the conversation isn't already about mutual fields of expertise or gathering references for potential networking. Speaking of which, people can find each other on meetup. Since there is no excessive checklists of prerequisites unless a group is using it in that way. You are sure to eventually form bonds with whoever you share hobbies or interests with. So consider checking that out. 🤷🏻 Besides that, make your own "mind palace" for sanctuary in your head to recoup and your best memories will paint internal decorations more vivid than whatever misery may be out in the world. And you get to carry that beauty within you as something foundational to who you are, as something that begins to shine outward. Once you build yourself up enough, you become even more resilient against what others say or do. Their flawed perspectives shouldn't be allowed to overwrite the good & unique aspects of how a person really is.. as we are our own exceptions, not our common failings. And the next time you see your reflection, see yourself as someone else you were looking at and ignore anything you don't like, as if it doesn't matter at that moment; to focus on anything good until it positively alters your perspective. It doesn't have to take long, but it counters all sorts of dismorpha, even if it's projected from other people or "beauty standards". Since the gracefulness of beauty comes from an internal source, so it's already there somewhere, you just have to acknowledge it in yourself. Plenty of pretty people lack a sense of their own beauty without considerations like this, yet everyone has some kind of endearing qualities that are hidden from, even from themselves. Express yourself in a good mirror(cameras can lie) and you'll begin to notice them, as well as the ones that don't fit who you are on the inside, eventually shedding what doesn't represent you. And the expression of rose tinted glasses originates from good actual things, you just have to remember to use them on yourself from time to time. The Penrose Wave Function Collapse in quantum physics proves that some aspects of reality, is entirely subjective. And the context of several of my life's work demonstrably confirms that. In other words: the essence of what that Edith Paif song about living a life "in pink", is correct. So make what you will of yourself, since it's not the canvas you chose, but the palettes you paint with.

I understand all that or people say love yourself and this and that i do all the time but then i realised i want a relationship not need one so i’m basically desperate so i realised you need to live your life without searching for one and the right person will come looking for you not the other way around sort of i don’t chase i attract vibe

@@Auren23im also facing a similar situation but with family issues which isn’t helping me either.

never really thought of it this way; very insightful

I get this. A vary special boy has taught me exactly that.

Totally resonated to this, thank you. Growing up and being surrounded by toxic family members, it’s hard to find love while you’re also healing yourself. It’s a sad reality.

Agreed 🥹💖

Agree but we will heal when we meet the right person , keep believin

Beras pero beras yo soy yo soy hasi como mes de día de noche ,,,, no cambio..,...lo que entiendo es porque me ves ,,,, conosiendo tipo de personas si ho ke imagínate... y si te estás burlando pues porque lo hases???? ((4444))!!!!////😊😊😊😊 si ha ty! nunca te hecho nada.,;.....

As a fellow demiromantic demisexual, I needed that. Thank you.

i hope in return u become that hopeless romantic for your self n the ppl who u gave your love to were js the wrong ones who don’t appreciate what a good soul n being of a person you are. it’s not your fault it didn’t work out but if that’s who you are naturally, there is no shame in loving that way. many ppl feel and love differently and your way is not wrong from theirs. as a hopeless romantic i do feel ur fear but if u feel drained or hurt it’s bc we forget to give that same love to ourself when giving it. plz bring happiness to yourself, your soul, and your energy bc i believe hopeless romantics have the most beautiful pure love in the world. 🫂

don’t close off your heart to people romantic or not, with time it will get better, you can and you will trust in that I’ve been through it too.

same. i feel u stranger :’)

Sameeee 😢

It’s gonna be okay. You’ll will go through this. I think you can still be a romantic, just do it with healthy boundaries. Being love is not only appreciating every single joy like this video has said, but imo being love is loving yourself enough to acknowledge that you deserve better. From this, you will know the difference between people who genuinely care and love you and those who don’t. Just don’t allow the world and the bad people in it to suck your joy; be even more loving and appreciative despite of it.

To know if you will get a "heartbroken" try to choose the right person for their personality, see how his mindset is and if he is a loyal and genuine guy

Wow i’ve never related to something so much this is exactly me but at the same time i’m a hopeless romantic

girl same

dude this was so me in my teenage. Never had a relationship till now (i am 25) while all my friends had bfs since highschool. Now i believe i've worked upon myself and my insecurities to the point that i dont mind taking such a risk of heartbreak and being abandoned for the right person. I dont know what future holds for me and my guy but i want things to unfold in the most real way be it good or bad. Trust the process, you'll grow out of your fear

Hey! How are you doing after 4 weeks? I'm in similar situation to your right now, 3 days just passed... In my 26 year old life he's the first man I was able to tell I truly love. He decided we need to go back to being friends when he defined his path in life. And I feel like two separate beings right now - shrinking inside in grief but on the other hand with a new potential, with all good things I've taken from this situationship, on top that I need to love people openly and just be generous with sharing myself... How is your life developing, do you still grief sometimes after the lost or did you find some deep meaning in your lost and the life that awaits for you?

@@bierkad3691 Hi ! first of all, I totally understand what you feel, this feeling of being abandoned overnight is very frustrating, isn't it? what you feel right now is valid. for several days I cried, until no tears fell. when I met her several times after "our break up" ( it feels like it !), it was weird to me, she also found someone very quickly, as if nothing that we had experienced had mattered in her eyes. But this moment made me realise that I deserve better! You deserve better ! someone who doesn't hide from you and shows you that he loves you. This is painful to hear, isn't it? I understand. when the sadness passes, the anger will arrive, personally, I started to notice traits in her personality that I don't like at all, but that i was never able to see because i was in love, but finally I got the ick. and then, time does things. focus on yourself. you're not late, you're only 26, you're young! life will offer you lots of things. this man was a great experience, and a lesson, it's up to you to know what the meaning of this lesson was! Hope this helped ! Send you love and light❤️✨️

That was sort of me 2 years ago i had a crush on my guy best friend for 2 years and he was oblivious about it and he invited me to hangout with him and a girl and told me they were dating i basically third wheeled their date and that day my heart broke i went home and cried my eyes out all night. At the same time he never knew i liked him and i never told him so it wasn’t his fault but still being his friend it hurt more after 2 months i distanced myself and hung out with new friends and never talked with him again 2 years later i’m fully healed and over him. It does get better

Good for you! I wish you luck and happiness :)

@@seekingclaireity Thank you and you too

ayy same its 3 am for me rn

hey it's totally fine to feel unloved I feel that all the time, boys don't seem interested in me romantically and my female friends just don't like me as much as I do like them but I always make sure to give my love to everyone without expecting anything in return and if you feel ugly and I know that feeling, it's like blaming the way you look for not receiving love, appearance brings you attention but confident, being loving and loving yourself is what brings you true love if you feel like the people around you don't love you it's alright, cut them off if they make you feel bad about yourself, embrace isolation and practice self love and inshallah you'll find people who love you even more it's just a matter of time and self love and if you'd like to vent it's totally okay❤‍🩹

Thank you all. 💗❤️‍🩹

I have always loved people more than they love me I always try my best in my friendships But people still take me for granted I'm still not the chosen one in their lives I'm just a "friend" For people whom I consider my best friends I always feel ugly and undeserving of love from someone gentle and caring because I think I am not worthy of someone like that But I'm so tired of loving the wrong people, people who only want things from me and dont even consider my feelings my emotions My ex tried so hard to get me back just because he's not doing well mentally and he says he needs me But that same guy didn't even ask me when I was literally drowning and he didn't even noticed and i tried to tell him but he was so busy with his success he forgot about me

Hey, I’m sorry to hear you feel this way but know that you’re on a journey. Tell me more, I’d love to chat to you. Truly. I’m sure things will work out for you, just take some time and understand that everything works out. There will be someone for you, I know it, and I’m sure you’re not ugly there is no such thing, however you feel isn’t a permanent feeling, feelings come and go and you will feel great when the time comes. I’d love to chat. Stay well and best wishes to you 😃

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I agree with everything you said here. This comment also helps as a reminder for me 💖