This Is Why You FEEL LOST, LAZY & UNMOTIVATED In Life...

This Is Why You FEEL LOST, LAZY & UNMOTIVATED In Life... | Brené Brown

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This is audio podcast number #536 with Brené Brown
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Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston where she holds the Huffington Foundation-Brené Brown Endowed Chair at The Graduate College of Social Work. She has spent the past sixteen years studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy and is the author of three #1 New York Times bestsellers - The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly and Rising Strong. Her latest book, Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and The Courage to Stand Alone, will be released Fall 2017. Brené’s TED talk - The Power of Vulnerability - is one of the top five most viewed TED talks in the world with over 30 million views. In addition to her research and writing, Brené is the Founder and CEO of BRAVE LEADERS INC - an organization that brings empirically-based courage-building programs to teams, leaders, entrepreneurs, change-makers, and culture shifters. Brené lives in Houston, Texas, with her husband, Steve, and their children, Ellen and Charlie.
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@keithlee7735 5 жыл бұрын

About 10 days after this was published I attempted to take my own life. After some recovery, a friend suggested watching Ted talks - I used them as a distraction to take my mind from my life. Then, I found Brené's talk on vulnerability and shame. I wanted to hear more and so found this interview with Lewis. Through Lewis, I found Tom Bileyu. These people have guided in changing my mindset and are helping me to save my life.

@toveelisabethsveen644 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! I love to hear that!

@dawnjewell1960 4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you were unsuccessful in your attempt to "end it". I I understand that depth of despair.

@annewalker9221 4 жыл бұрын

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@dapsolita 4 жыл бұрын

Same👍💓

@zenamatthews9380 4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, Keith, for what happened to you that led to your attempt....I'm glad you found a way out. I hope you find happiness! A world with Keith is better than without :)

@sharlawells7829 11 ай бұрын

“I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is or who I’m with, as long as I never betray myself. And the minute I become who you want me to be, in order to fit in and make sure people like me, is the moment I no longer belong anywhere.” - Brene Brown Wow! That’s life changing!

@hopester19 3 жыл бұрын

The way she stops to think before she answers - so natural and sincere.

@johnlombardo7816 Жыл бұрын

Omg that is my favorite part of her! So genuinely thoughtful and mindful of everything she puts out ❤❤

@manzil3242 2 ай бұрын

I hope you have a great life ahead ❤

@lisalph8922 4 жыл бұрын

So proud of Louis for being publicly open about being sexually abused. This happened to my husband when he was around 11 or 12. After a few years of dating he told me, "I have to tell you something and you may not want to be with me after you hear this." He told me how this friend of his uncle's convinced him to sleep without anything on and then he woke up to the man raping him. OMG, my heart went out to him so deeply. How could he think I wouldn't want to be with me because some rapist took advantage of him when he was a kid? I felt so bad for him that he carried a false sense of shame about this for so many years. It wasn't his fault! Why did he feel responsible for the depravity of another human being? Please know that if you were ever abused as a child, IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT!

@kalinshic1 6 жыл бұрын

I love how she has the courage and the confidence to take the time she needs to answer a question. By letting the Silence BE she gives even more POWER to her message. #INSPIRING

@adelekamelmarcsheldon-moti3451 6 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!

@FallenAngel-wb4ub 6 жыл бұрын

Yes, I noticed this too!

@anadampling666 6 жыл бұрын

Valérie Djoumessi yesss

@madeinaotearoanz 6 жыл бұрын

Agree, and she's so comfortable with sharing her own vulnerability. She's incredibly inspiring.

@IanMcCausland 6 жыл бұрын

you know this interview isn't fluff and talking points, she's doing the work right in front of you.

@CultureFuzz 5 жыл бұрын

To the 1% reading this... I wish you nothing but prosperity and success

@KatieMonk 4 жыл бұрын

Same to you 🙏🌈

@kittyreese6269 4 жыл бұрын

May you receive 10 fold back. This is going to be an amazing year for you!

@JennaLeeAnderson 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you and the same to you too

@keepcreationprocess 3 жыл бұрын

Huh? What is the downside of this..

@kathleen4376 3 жыл бұрын

Culture Fuzz likewise! Blessings

@kristinmcnulty518 3 жыл бұрын

"I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is or who I'm with, as long as I never betray myself."

@jollymollyramram9702 Жыл бұрын

Love this👏

@stardust7176 9 ай бұрын

Yeah but it is very lonely

@SteadyruReady 7 ай бұрын

@@stardust7176Tell that truth

@My_Mental_Algorithm 5 ай бұрын

That's the highlight for me

@mattm8765 2 ай бұрын

Can be difficult to find the balance between being yourself and adapting/being open to other ways of thinking. I guess it’s just important to stay alert to it and, as long as you’re respecting your own perspective while still being open and willing to change it if necessary, you’re facing in the right direction.

@sannajohanna5579 3 жыл бұрын

There is one simple word to tell who you are, Brene and Lewis: you are LIGHTWORKERS.

@awakeninganna 3 жыл бұрын

Ugh telling your kids “you always belong here” made me cry I grew up in a family of 7 and none of us ever felt like we belonged I am a mama of three boys and I will always remember to integrate this and instill this into them that we value them and love them no matter what! I also love how true you are to yourself the way that you admit to being a chameleon and how you practice not trying to be who others WANT you to be in order to belong, wow such an amazing and admirable VOICE you have thank you for being authentic and raw. ❤️🙏🏼

@stephanieevans22 Жыл бұрын

Anna I am the oldest of 7kids so close to age and now we are adults we talk about how we never felt like belonging. Every single one of us are struggling with our own traumas

@Aninram1985 6 жыл бұрын

How incredibly real, humble and inspiring. Why don't we have people like this running our government??

@LizIsaacsLizWhoMotivates 6 жыл бұрын

Love it, Brene for office :)

@samirasf3001 5 жыл бұрын

It would be a better world to live in.

@narcissismcentral8228 5 жыл бұрын

Marni M for that very reason

@gemelse2674 5 жыл бұрын

how fucking good would that be. sorry for f word . I m from England and we could do woth her running our country too xxxx

@zhengpaul1456 5 жыл бұрын

We need people to be this honest, and authetic, only when you are being authetic could you attract others who are authetic as well :)

@slivertoe 5 жыл бұрын

"The opposite of belonging is fitting in." That's... I have no words. Wow.

@malibongwemdwaba Жыл бұрын

I know this years ago but please help with locating this line

@mbselliott6800 6 жыл бұрын

This interviewer is so filled with love it's just amazing. And he is actually humble.

@IvanaSkoko 4 жыл бұрын

I agree, it's so easy and enjoyable listening his interviews

@TheBatman777 3 жыл бұрын

And judgement of others. Very politically assuming.

@nataliephilippe7771 3 жыл бұрын

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@jackhe972 2 жыл бұрын

He definitely won me over!!

@peopleperson4444 Жыл бұрын

Really? I had to turn off the interview. “Other people wanted you here, now they can stop asking” then proceeds to monologue. Not my jam.

@kairosculturedfoods 3 жыл бұрын

this man is an absolute sweetheart I love how open he is

@laurenbarrett8394 4 жыл бұрын

I'm helping my inner child by listening to this and re-mothering myself

@Patriot1789 3 жыл бұрын

So, in short, you are using the same kind of techniques that good therapists use.

@helenaville5939 3 жыл бұрын

One of my favourite sayings is "It's never too late to have a wonderful childhood" and that includes nurturing the child within.

@keepcreationprocess 3 жыл бұрын

She is like a mirror and a healer at the same time...... She speaks about a human thing.... Our emptiness..

@unapologeticallyme7664 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@angieholt736 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@KatieOstreko 6 жыл бұрын

"Our tolerance for discomfort is zero." Amazing quote!

@jonquist9950 5 жыл бұрын

Mine is even less than zero. I anticipate future discomfort & get nervous about it before it happens. Lol

@orianagalardi-este9211 4 жыл бұрын

So true! But it's in that discomfort that our freedom is hiding!

@andymusicstudio2485 3 жыл бұрын

Oh is it egoist or just hedonist path ?

@olwynross8779 3 жыл бұрын

@@andymusicstudio2485 7

@misslollypops187 Жыл бұрын

I have been the lowest I have ever been in my life recently. I've been soo vulnerable it has been hard to talk to anyone at all but I started speaking to someone I know from decade ago that called me brave. I didn't see what he meant until I listened to this. I shouldn't be ashamed of being vulnerable it is my strength

@Klein101 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear of your struggles...I have been going through similar times, very up and down, but I realized it's because I'm growing and changing for the better. Look up Dark Knight of the Soul.... might help... be kind to yourself.

@nanaman Жыл бұрын

I have been trying so hard to make sure everyone else is doing OK but I’m so miserable …. I can relate with this

@beatrizpaula9432 Жыл бұрын

First of all, i'm so proud of you for taking the iniciative and talking to someone even though that its hard for you, (and i have the same problem with opening up to other people and asking for help, just like you do, so i tottaly relate to that), but you were able to put your fears aside to put yourself first and that is one of the bravest things someone can do. And second of all, a lot of people NEVER realize ao much strengh it takes to be vulnerable and never leave the stereotype around vulnerability, and YOU DID, so you only have reasons to be proud of yourself like i am for you❤. Be safe, TAKE CARE of yourself and keep being brave. Happiness is something that is ALWAYS worth fighting for because at the end of the day...that's what we live for💞

@beatrizpaula9432 Жыл бұрын

@@nanaman Hi 👋i know that you probably are never seeing my coment and that i'm just a random stranger to you, but i couldn't be indiferent towards what you said about your situation. I just wanted to let you know that it's ok to NOT BE OK and thar your never going to be selfish for putting yourself or your happiness first for once. It's amazing that you want to makw shure that the people that you love are doing good, but i'm pretty shure that if they like you and care about you, they would want you happy and they certainly wouldn't be mad at you for taking care of yourself for once, because your well being matters as much as theirs and they'll support you. Taking care of other people is important but taking care of the only person that is gonna be with you forever is even more. DON'T BE AFRAID OF ASKING FOR HELP!! Because putting your fears aside to put yourself first is the bravest thing someome can do, trust me. I'm here for you, you're not alone and you never will be. You'll get trough this❤ I believe in you❤

@nelehle683 6 жыл бұрын

I've known Brene's talks and books for some time and I really love her work and personality. But in this talk I am especially impressed by and grateful towards Lewis. It almost never happens that a man openly lets himself be truely seen in front of other people. Sharing your story and owning it shows such a great amount of currage and strength!!! Thank you so much for you're honesty! I love belonging to a generation where men start to come back to life emotionally and claim the right to feel and love and connect authentically. As far as I know, Lewis has not yet been interviewd by Oprah, I'd love to see that interview...

@TheBeethovenrox1770 4 жыл бұрын

It is refreshing to see him make bold attempts to relate. He is well younger than her and yet she is listening. May we all have the courage to listen.

@keepcreationprocess 3 жыл бұрын

He has been soo open...

@unapologeticallyme7664 3 жыл бұрын

I agree. He's a beautiful person 💙

@JanetMacCallum 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, he's very impressive

@himal_pillay 3 жыл бұрын

Who else discovered this in 2020!? 100% Necessary especially with all that is going on. Thank you!

@jc1636 3 жыл бұрын

YES. Even after Biden's election, it still is.

@kellylauder2213 3 жыл бұрын

Brené’s research has always been so valuable and it is now more valuable than ever.❤️

@RenataSantos-oe2sq 3 жыл бұрын

Me!

@jessicapenuela6575 3 жыл бұрын

I just discovered it yesterday lol and it still ALL APPLIES!

@teresaportugal1663 Жыл бұрын

2022!

@justevolving3780 6 жыл бұрын

I've watched Brene Brown interviews for a few years now. This is by far one of the best, engaging, and authentic interview I have watched. I am not familiar with the interviewer but he just gained a fan. Great listener, excellent follow up questions, just overall superb job.

@pe9147 10 ай бұрын

“Belonging is the courage to stand alone and to belong to yourself above all else”

@stardust7176 9 ай бұрын

Ok, and now tell me where to find people who like that too so I'm not so alone. People have problems with honesty and authenticy. They back away from it.

@fredheimuli5913 6 жыл бұрын

"you can lose yourself in the fitting in; but you can also lose yourself in the rebuttal of fitting in". VERY deep thought. I've seen this extreme with both groups--those who just want to be accepted by everyone and those who at every instance rebel against everything just to be perceived as revolutionary and relevant. And both groups are usually FAR from the truth. It's the biggest challenge of being social beings--first and foremost, being authentic and accepting of yourself.

@CRBCoaching 4 жыл бұрын

Totally agreed, it's taken me a life time to first "like me" then to move on to "love me"...of all the people on this tiny blue planet, I am the only one I will never lose, or leave, so the first and single most important thing to do, is learn self love, then we have love to share. . . Namaste'

@andymusicstudio2485 3 жыл бұрын

A key is to fit with a good and grow but not fit with a bad and shrink.. but it requires a wisdom and grace from Lord

@kellymatthews3732 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve always felt alone in this world never truly fitting in. Now I’ve found everything within myself and that’s enough. Truly at peace.

@Gringavaitecontar Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏👏👏

@shivanthikulasingham6131 3 жыл бұрын

"To own your story and love yourself through that process. That is greatness to me." I have read all of her books and listened to her for years. She continues to amaze me! What a remarkable interview. Wow!!

@chuckabean1 5 жыл бұрын

"The opposite of belonging is fitting in, because you are changing yourself to be what others want." BB

@donnafoster5215 4 ай бұрын

That doesn’t feel right to me. I have boundaries based on my values, but changing just means I’m flexible.

@JubileeCreatesSomethingAmazing 4 жыл бұрын

4 questions you NEVER answer and yet the road to deeper answers heal self and the world 1) Who am I? 2) Who/where are my people? 3) What is my purpose? 4) what do I need?

@centurygarage 3 жыл бұрын

3) What is my purpose? I have decided what my purpose is and now the hard work begins to realize it....

@darkfeather6857 4 жыл бұрын

46:26 Wow! This woman is brilliant! Her ability to always find the perfect quote about a situation and then to explain in depth how the quote relates to her topic is amazing to me.

@josephinelisowski6485 3 жыл бұрын

Fantastic and natural interview. No *agents* pausing the video, correcting her responses. Zero edits. No fluffy music. Lots of silence. SUPERB QUESTIONS! She TAKES HER TIME to reply. I don't think BB ever says ummmmm.... neither does Lewis. Yes, so many have commented how humble Lewis is as an interviewer! He obviously has a tremendous heart and learned a lot about females through his mother and sisters ♥️ female friends and the first breakup he shared about. He even *finishes* her sentences! Such a candid man! #Braveheart! 🤜🤛🥇💯 Talk about healthy!!! Beautiful heart. Beautiful. Raw and #legit dialogue.

@melonmint5683 6 жыл бұрын

the Charlottesville portion of this talk, was amazing to watch. This was a perfect example of being uncomfortable, vulnerable and BRAVE. THANK YOU so much for sharing!!

@wow50plus9 6 жыл бұрын

Our global problems and stand offs come down to issues of the heart; pride, thirst for power, desperation, fear, they are all heart issues. Come to the table willing to have clear conversations with humility, transparency and authenticity and many of these issues will be dealt with in a civil and agreeable manner.

@cavelleardiel 6 жыл бұрын

My parent's generation (they would be in their 80's now) experienced very tough circumstances and did the best they could. I respect how they parented now that I am older. I grieve for them in that they missed out on a lot of happiness and exploring their gifts and dreams because they couldn't. They had to survive.

@muddyshoes4517 2 жыл бұрын

"I belong everywhere I go, as long as I don't betray myself or become who you want me to be. As long as I belong to myself." Yessss!!!! Love this work 🧡

@leeny1708 6 жыл бұрын

YEEEEES LEWIS THANK YOU!!!!!! You guys are literally changing the world with this podcast. So, so, so much richness and wisdom and juicy delicious truth and guidance. I am 25 years old and am soooo grateful that my generation has access to this kind of stuff. How extraordinary!!! Especially compared to earlier generations. We are changing the world and despite what some people say, I truly believe the world is becoming brighter and lighter and more pain- and shame-free every day. And it's partly due to content like yours. Connecting and healing, one step at a time. Thank you!!!!!

@hollycline2427 6 жыл бұрын

leonaleo Well said , me too 💖

@eleanor4759 3 жыл бұрын

I hope so 🙏

@user-onyoutube868 6 жыл бұрын

How very grateful Brene Brown must be not to have made the drill team. What a wonderful gift to the world it is to the world to have her beautiful heart to guide us away from "cookie cutter" attitudes that so many think of as success.

@NickoseLayne 6 жыл бұрын

I love this woman for her work and willingness to share so lovingly. My heart was beating fast throughout most of this interview.

@hjkim8550 5 жыл бұрын

I love that line "I belong to me", it's good, thank you :)

@kristinmcnulty518 3 жыл бұрын

"No one wants to be vulnerable and everyone wants to be brave. It doesn't work like that."

@melissaarchie5686 6 жыл бұрын

She's awesomely human, genuine and courageous. Appreciate you Brene!

@ultravioletpisces3666 Жыл бұрын

"Be smoking hot and brilliant but don't ever look like you're putting any effort towards it." 💅 nailed it 🔨

@KMarieLaVigna 4 ай бұрын

This is an old interview, but i just listened to it today. I was glued to every word---very wise, loving and encouraging.

@lewishowes 4 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@sarahsmith5045 29 күн бұрын

This popped up and I'm watching it now.. I'm crying my eyes out as a mother of 2 grown up sons 2 grandchildren whom I reared on my own.. both run successful businesses the oldest boy 35 years old told me he was abused at 9 years old by a in law family member. It has made him do things in his life because of this trauma.. my heart breaks as I blamed myself but more importantly I told him he's not to blame. Heartbroken to say the least. I can relate to this woman.

@KMarieLaVigna 29 күн бұрын

@@sarahsmith5045 yes it is wonderful. i think i am going to watch it again. much love to you.

@codydaley9036 6 жыл бұрын

A wonderful conversation by two inspiring humanitarians, Brene Brown and Lewis Howes. "Peace, love and global unity."

@littlenikki15 6 жыл бұрын

Dude, you are so good! I love Brene and was excited to watch HER but had no idea that I'd end up loving you so much too. Amazing stuff.

@sandrad.8205 5 жыл бұрын

I feel the exact same way.

@hikeseek9624 3 жыл бұрын

“Own your story and love yourself through that process. That’s greatness to me.” -BB

@LD-mv3bk 6 жыл бұрын

I just love her!! She is so authentic and she makes me feel normal because we have vary similar personalities!! Thank you for this

@EchotaisHealing 6 жыл бұрын

This is the greatest interview I've watched in such a long time. I have no idea how I've not seen this channel before but Lewis, you are a spectacular interviewer - I love these thoughtful and meaningful questions. I was moved to tears several times throughout this interview - I love Brene, I love how she paused and really thought about her responses and how none of that is edited out. The silence is part of the space, and that's a beautiful thing. This just blew me away, every bit of it. I look forward to watching more of this channel, and reading Brene's book. Thank you KZfaq for suggesting this to me, finally something worth watching!

@JT-zm3pn 6 жыл бұрын

You've been interviewing really quality people lately. Keep it up!

@Dariuspersepolis Жыл бұрын

As a clinical Psychological Dr. Brown is the primary source of inspiration I recommend to my patients. She is a national treasure.

@superjonz9958 6 жыл бұрын

Brene truly explained the misconception about men at 48:29 ! That's on point and absolutely fact! We are all wired up with the idea and misconception that men are supposed to be strong, dominate and lead where in fact men are equally as vulnerable like women or any other gender orientations. Brene is correct by saying that the problem about men is to perceived as weak!!!!

@ayshaakif3784 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honesty Lewis so inspiring to hear a real man own his story and share it so that others know they are not alone, very powerful and as discussed, demonstrates your courage and strength 💪🏽Brene Brown is such a refreshingly honest inspiration I love how she is clear about who she is and explains how we must be vulnerable to be real, belong and give and receive love. I have discovered Brene and yourself this year during a particularly challenging time in my life and I feel so grateful 🙏🏼 Thank you Brene for acknowledging the power of your privilege to address the most important of issues even though you know that you will receive criticism 🌟you have both inspired me to be real and speak my truth and be kind to myself when I make mistakes along the way 🙋🏻X

@raybankes7668 5 жыл бұрын

@Black Knight Fool why so much judgment sir for him owning his life story? lots of judgment seen from you so far. can u talk more about that and why its important for you to attack the person, with labels rather than the idea or content?

@lanawebster2078 3 жыл бұрын

Lewis, I know I have told you before but I will say it again. You sharing your personal story of being picked last and how it motivated you to become a sports super star but left you empty.. is so powerful at this time in history. We need young men like you to speak out and be vulnerable which is so attractive in relationships. You are on track. Thank you for being brave and vulnerable. And Brene, from a fellow Texan, so proud of you and your dedication to your sharing your results from all your research. You are an amazing young mind and I salute you! Thank you!

@mjhaynes89 5 жыл бұрын

"Discomfort is the great enemy of courage." B.B. I love that. I always take so much away from Brene, and this was a great conversation between you two.

@birgip.m.1236 2 жыл бұрын

I would say comfort is the enemy of courage. Comfort & courage don't go together.

@hfortenberry 3 жыл бұрын

God I just love her so much and he's an amazing person and interviewer. Thank you Lewis and Brene. I cried like 5 times during this interview. There is SO MUCH love here. These are the faces of true heroes....showing up when it's not easy.

@sharongarrison9317 10 ай бұрын

I have met her twice in person. She really is as wonderful as she appears and perhaps even more so.

@sharonkinsella7435 6 жыл бұрын

Wow, such honesty and authenticity, thank you... What a beautiful, respectful, and deep human interaction. Powerful. ♡

@tomjones6709 6 жыл бұрын

Sharon Kinsella

@brigittesutmuller3933 6 жыл бұрын

Standing here in my little kitchen with tears of gratefulness and being touched in the midst of my heart❣🤗🤗 Thank you Brené❣ Thank you Lewis and team❣ Your conversation covers the core of my needs❣🙏🙏 May The All There Is bless you more than ever before💞 To me this is like a 'Soul-Erotic' as my Centre of Being feels at Home💚

@phyliciatarver1401 5 жыл бұрын

Just so beautiful. The entire conversation. The end nearly brought me to tears. So genuine.

@pe9147 10 ай бұрын

This particular part was profound: “the opposite of belonging is fitting in. Fitting in changes who we are betraying who you are. True belonging never asks us to change who we are, it demands we BE who we are.”

@jmorton2585 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the insight of vulnerability to the guest Mrs. Brown. Thanks for all you do. I apologize for the long comments. I just realize so much more goodness in life exists, enough to move forward by listening to your show again and again. I am so grateful for your content, because I can keep getting a better sense of self beyond the little frustrations among the daily routine that can beat me down. Honestly, I never knew how well connected on KZfaq that compassion ever could be as displayed until viewing your channel. Makes me feel really better within to see the breadth of sanity in the world. And my fear of the world is subsiding.

@thankfulforlife 3 ай бұрын

Vulnerability is HUMANITY.

@mirelladlima5278 3 жыл бұрын

"I belong to me" this is so significant to our self esteem and self integration. We constantly feel the need to fit in, to belong but that does not work.🙏

@susanaperez524 3 жыл бұрын

Lewis has such a sweet loving personality. It's reflected on his face and reactions. I'd wosh to work for him and otherwise couls work on one podcast with him. And in the pause dance a salsasong. But actually the message is that I really like the way he communicates. He's is like a teddybear with all the respects. He is warm, open, tender, smart, interested and so much more. Thank you for all these nice interviews and example of being. 🙏

@adelekamelmarcsheldon-moti3451 6 жыл бұрын

You can really tell you we're both in a secure zone of sharing, love this

@jeselise22 3 жыл бұрын

"I can't imagine a way through what needs to happen in the next decade...that does not involve understanding pain." My God. Well. That's true.

@lorrettawesseldine281 2 ай бұрын

😮😢❤This though I am curious if I belong and Believe in something just myself but not something Greater than one’s self Our Worth Value Searching to Define this elusive “ it” A knowing Higher Power? God? Is then that a sense of Belonging ?

@yasebelik6072 Ай бұрын

Greatness is to own your story and to love yourself through that process.

@nosebirdy 6 жыл бұрын

This is, without a doubt, one of the most deeply insightful interviews I've ever seen. I am in awe.

@nosebirdy 6 жыл бұрын

I saw your Radio Station interview on HOT97; men speaking truth about their pain, that was something also.

@hollyking7999 6 жыл бұрын

Lewis, thank you for interviewing Brene Brown, she has long been the voice of wisdom I look to when I feel lost, she radiates authenticity and that's rare. And thank you for being candid about your own experiences. I think what you're doing is amazing and you continually inspire me and a lot of other people. I hope you know that. Big love to both you and Brene

@kslight7602 6 жыл бұрын

The end of that interview actually brought tears to my eyes. Such an amazing interview. Superb questions. Even the silence between the questions where she deeply thought about the answers where great. Her definition of greatness is the best answer I've ever heard!! Thanks Lewis! 👏🏼

@vanessap2814 2 жыл бұрын

She is humble, genuine, open minded, grateful and wholehearted. It is a good healing to watch her!

@valalijevic3489 6 жыл бұрын

Always inspiring to listen to Brené... Thank you for this interview!

@rocioruiz6210 Жыл бұрын

¨Greatness: to own your story and love yourself through that process¨

@vivibleue7659 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lewis for these interview !!!! gratitude et belle journée !

@lisajane4330 Жыл бұрын

"I belong to me" that's so powerful. The challenge is real because we're social creatures who do need others. I found similar people to me while growing up, but I did have to suppress so much because of the religion I was raised in.

@lauranelson9994 4 жыл бұрын

Just found this podcast. I love Lewis and Brene Brown, so I am so excited to watch this. Thanks for your amazing content Lewis. Dr. Brown, you have changed my life. Thank you both!

@silviar.7438 6 жыл бұрын

Love your interviews Lewis, yours is one of the best KZfaq interview shows online, top notch !!

@IS491 6 жыл бұрын

Love, Love, Love Brene... Thank you for honest, thoughtful answers!!!

@alejandrogaray2648 Ай бұрын

I may be late to this party, but I want to say that I love Brené. Thank you so much Lewis for this interview and for spreading good all over the world!

@lewishowes Ай бұрын

You're welcome, thank you for watching!

@trinaflowers1675 22 күн бұрын

❤ Amen and bless this message.

@trinaflowers1675 22 күн бұрын

@@lewishowes oops! The thumbs down button should be disabled for such content. You thank others for watching... We should thank y'all for providing. Providing this sort of insight saves lives. I remember seeing my Marines at their lowest when I truly lacked the means to really save them. Pain is something we share... Sharing compassion as well might be an idea?

@sandrad.8205 5 жыл бұрын

One of the most powerful interviews l have watched...l know l will have to watch it again and again and again to absorb everything...Brené, l feel the love and l thank you for all the good that you do...Lewis you are an amazing interviewer and l thank you for sharing your story.

@Spiral.Dynamics 5 жыл бұрын

Nailed it. Love and belonging come from within. If you try to get it from circumstance you suffer. Try giving love and acceptance to others instead of getting it from them. ✌️❤️🕉

@kingbb1 6 жыл бұрын

One of your finest yet ....Thank You

@michelleireland4909 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brené and Lewis for your work. You are both such kind souls.

@jenniferritter9089 4 жыл бұрын

I love the way you interview. You are so kind and so empathetic. I love the human being that you are! You are kind, compassionate, wise, humble, funny, loving, caring, smart, strong, vulnerable, etc. I am so impressed!

@maricakez 6 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite videos of all time. Thank you Lewis and Dr Brown!

@catswaxingstudio 6 жыл бұрын

GREATNESS! Thank you Lewis for this🤗

@meganferda-mowery4300 6 жыл бұрын

I've read a lot of Brene and watched a lot of her interviews. You did an awesome job Lewis. This is my favorite. Thank you for your work and your vulnerability here.

@survivorship4290 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent, Excellent questions, Lewis!! Brought tears to my eyes the one you asked of her words to men with their headphones on to listen. And the response you gave, Dr Brown was SPOT ON!! Well said!! Powerful...

@elvansavkli6186 6 жыл бұрын

What I love in this speech is what you both said at the beginning of your talk. You both are still figuring out who you are. It is so refreshing to hear this. Where I came from everybody pretends like they are so sure of everything and they always say they know who they are.And as you could imagine this could be so so very confusing.

@vitasolano3272 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for interviewing Brene 🌺🌺👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

@jenniferbriggs7992 6 жыл бұрын

I love your interviewing style Lewis! You give your guests the quiet pockets of time to really think about their answers and express themselves completely. I find that refreshing:)) Thank you!!

@autumnmoran49 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brene and Lewis. I have watched this interview several times and today I found it to affect me more powerfully than ever!

@jesicahurstel275 5 жыл бұрын

Ok, I wanna hug these 2 people...hell I wanna hug everyone! Loved it!

@nikim.1547 6 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh!!! Yesss! Rescheduling what I was going to do just so I can watch this! I need this in my life! Brene + Lewis does it get any better than this?!

@willowbrookie57 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your vulnerability and challenges. It's so relatable. And there is such comfort in knowing that everyone struggles and tries to interpret the best way to cope and assimilate and can do it without losing themselves.

@zuzanakyselova1561 6 жыл бұрын

The most beautiful definition of greatness!!! To own your story and love yourself through that process.

@charliechase7390 6 жыл бұрын

Excellent interview once again Lewis. Thank you for being so brave Brene. Unconditional Love

@jo-annahicks3324 5 жыл бұрын

This was one of the best interviews, I have watched in my entire life. Thank you beyond measure ♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥

@stephaniegilbert9299 3 жыл бұрын

Sooo good to hear this conversation again!!! I heard a while back n I truly admire both of them!!!! Thank you Brene... For your wit, courage, and wisdom!!! God bless!!!!!!

@naoseidenada4502 6 жыл бұрын

I’ve just finished this video in tears. Thank Lewis and Brené.

@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! What a great important interview! 💮🐝

@katyeproctorfreelon7158 6 жыл бұрын

Beautiful interview!

@sharonderricks4708 6 жыл бұрын

Love Brene Brown thanks Lewis for being so vulnerable and sharing your connection.

@kimberlyjohnson9307 5 жыл бұрын

Loved this real, emotional at times, discussion! I am a new fan of Brene Brown but this real heart to heart talk with a man that outwardly looks like "he has it all together" but needs encouragement, just like everyone else, clears up the true meaning of vulnerability. Thank you!!