Right I almost thought he was lyin just from how he was speaking

@@DGrant86 same!!

I still don't believe him. Although he wasn't convicted, she had medical proof and probably he wasn't convicted because she may not have shown up to court several times to see it through. Especially since she kept going back. Then he took the baby and moved to a different state. He's definitely abusive. And manipulative. Manipulative people come off as well put together

@@dikajohnson2220 that's because you're biased.

Not necessarily. Facts can be proven, hence the arrests and medical bills for the broken fingers and such. She already stated that she kept going back so why would she show up to have him convicted? Him bringing photos of her also says a lot about his temperament as well as unlawfully taking the child to another state. He's using the child as leverage, as do women. And is very manipulative. The devil is in the detail.

Give it 5 yrs before his simping self learn what he got himself into

Oh please he's BITTER...... .

@@americalove9495 About what?

@@americalove9495 bitter about taking care of his child and she being vindictive? You sound delusional.

Yessss, Im so glad he won🙏🏼

@@fuller8705 💯 how you not able to know what school(s) your own child goes to?

Yeah I don't know why she felt ok coming to court for $1000 when he's been taking care of her primarily.

Bc she sorry asf these females be delusional and feel entitled (I am a female btw)

It’s sad really, I’ve seen instances where (similar to this case) the man has full/primary custody of the child and the mother still seeks child support. Like the audacity is beyond me honestly and such a shame

Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.

@@josl1345 Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.

Facts

Yup talking about some damn Disney world...the picts say it all

Right‼️

Looks like

Don't all of them? 🤣

Bet the new guy is abusing her now!

She sincerely didn't deny anything.

So a mother can’t go to a club? And a man going to college makes him legit? What a backwards and misogynistic way to think.

She sounded legit to me as well but that's why hearing both sides of a story is CRUCIAL!

EXACTLY!! Thank you!!

Simping husband wanna fight because they lost the case and gotta pay that money

EXACTLY! And some people say he was using the child as a crutch basically. And how was he doing that if he was going to college and got two job offerings that he loss trying to make a life for his daughter and proof that he was taking care of his child all along. Letters from doctors and school etc. Comes to show the absence from her and not him. I believed he was going to win his case the whole time. Did you hear her having proof in this video of any medical records of him breaking her two fingers? Cause I didn’t hear that as someone stated in another comment. I’ll have to go back and replay this video cause the only proof I heard of was the one when she had a copy of her child support she had paid. That’s it!!

I wouldn't side with people like this man 😡

@@dorisjohns9861 What do you know about him to say that?

@Pretty girl Tee 🤔

First off. I been through this two years ago with a child I raised solely by myself for 13 years. He acted respectful in court too and lied and stole my baby . So no respect to him. He’s weird. And lying like my bd great liar

But she was trying to talk over him. Could never say anything about her child but she doesn't spend time with the child,smh

Yep!! dead Giveaway!! and as soon as he started talking... she shaking her head, she interrupting and trying to contradict. The truth is in the body language.

A TRUE GENTLEMEN

Exactly

Because it was true. Hit dog holler and I see a lot of bitter Betty’s in the comments with the cape on for her

@@jasonr.9863 hit dog will holler lol

lol

@@jasonr.9863 Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.

@@graeson8 I think you may have a problem listening because he kept saying that was on paper and while “on paper” they had joint custody, she was not involved with the child until she got with the husband.

Exactly! Even if it is a so called over payment The money went to care for YOUR CHILD!!! Something definitely wrong with her

cuz he didn't use a condom.

Agree

And I don’t like where it’s going with the new husband… if the child is a priority, respecting her father is expected. I’d be sideeyeing anyone ready to bring violence to my child’s other parent. Harm done to a caring parent is a threat to the child’s well-being.

Yes he did!! He saw right through her lies!!

Judge Mathis 👀 HE DOESN'T PLAY! And HE CAN read people like a BOOK.

I am not going to lie. I thought he was guilty and it turn it around real quick. Good Job on Mathis for not being bias and hearing the facts.

Me too

Same here … this hold time I was trying to figure out why she’s suing him for something that the judge ordered her to pay. I’m still trying to figure out why she’s suing to get back the child support that the judge ordered her to pay lol ..

🎯🎯🎯

Im watching it now again...feel like I miss something too..

I'm about to watch it again to figure out how she lost

What got me was the fact that she didn't even refute NOT even knowing the school where her child attended. It wasn't a problem until she got married and her new husband probably told her to make him bring the child back so that the Defendant could start paying child support!!! SMH

A Fabio 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@angelicrealtor1 I found that creepy. You don't want to have your Daughter around until you found a man. She was clubbing and living it up now she wants to play house.

@@isitmeeTV Right. Gave off abusive vibes.

@@isitmeeTV 🤣🤣🤣

Agreed. She is a liar.

Another Amber Turd shananigans smh😂

Everytime

Abuse often times works both ways and it’s shown here a lot on the JM show - the audience laughs when men detail how their partner hurt them, I remember one case specifically where the woman immediately gave off vibes of “I’ll throw hands on ya” and she was at least double the dude’s size and she hit him with a CHAIR while he was sleeping and the audience got a good chuckle out of that but can you imagine how jarring that would be and how much it would hurt? I admittedly used to have violent or vindictive tendencies, I’ve hit BFs, broken laptops and as soon as they’d retaliate in any kind of way I definitely played that dang “but I’m a GIRL!” card. It’s been many years since I’ve been that way. It took being with someone truly violent and crazy that calmed me down because you honestly are always in fear because the slightest thing can set them off and they’re destroying your stuff and hurting you, either hurling heavy things your way or straight up hurtling towards you and choking you out. I left as soon as I felt safe and the crazy thing was, I was never violent towards him. But it made me look back and realize how shitty and crazy I used to be, I once cut up my boyfriend’s clothes, not all of them but still and I don’t even remember why now! I don’t have contact with any of those anymore (probably for obvious reasons lol, I was really very crazy and unstable) but I do my best to be patient and quiet in relationships and talk rather than yell. I understand a lot of abused women stick around longer than they should for a lot of different reasons but you’re right on this particular case and a lot of others I’ve seen - they just always resort to that like it’s their get out of jail free card. I’ll say this much - when I was in a truly terrifying relationship where I legitimately feared my partner I called the cops any time he started acting up and breaking shit if he hadn’t already broken my phone by then (I think he broke like 5 of them in the course of a year). He called the cops my “babysitters” but thank god they showed up, even if they couldn’t always cuff him. They at least got him to leave for a while so I could compose myself and leave of my own accord. Sorry for the novel. I just feel strongly about domestic violence, I had to stay in a battered women’s shelter for two months before I could get on my feet and I was so thankful for that and some stories were truly horrifying and then you’d have people using us state resources and beds saying stuff like “he called me a bitch and I just couldn’t take it”

@@K7NGB lol men have their lines too don’t get too excited

Exactly she was smirking too much

True but that's why he said she's a cheater

Right!!!!

Yes! she could have known him for longer than two weeks, but he if watch this case and look at her body language, and facial expression he should be gone within two weeks. She only married him if you ask my to make herself look good.

Right

Truth!😂

😂😂😂

Nope he's all in. Beta male written all over him.

That part!

Ikr

Rightttttttttt...like

Well that doesn’t always prove anything. I know people who are functional alcoholics and you would never know they had a problem while they were at work.

U have a 👉

College classes aren’t 7 days A week

He was arrested for it…..and she did have hospital proof. So its possible 😒

For real tho

Exactly

Facts

👌🏾

Right!

I'm so proud of him being unbiased in this proceeding.

Nah he was low key fooled till she showed who she really was..

@lifeof.jariya Yea you can tell the judge was definitely fooled at first by how he had an attitude toward the defendant until he peeped the lies the plaintiff was telling

@@pooneyheat facts

Defendant was reeeeaaadeeeee! I had to spell it with an (e) for emphasis lol

Jus don't get pregnant lmao

Too late I been with hubby since 17 and I'm 34 lol....and Ik I won't go through that! One of the fortunate few❤

@@kimberly6200awww

Yea because that's dumb that's like your friend shooting u and u get back cool with them now u telling everybody he shot u like who cares shit don't mean nun atp especially if they never went to jail for it

Right

This woman is a liar I don’t believe a damn thing she said! She abandoned her baby, was ordered to pay child support, then tried to sue him to get it back

@@904baybeecakes I agree with you. Too many times I see females use the abuse card and rape card against their partners. It not right to lie to gain sympathy. She as no character, who sues for the money that is spent on their own child?

Her husband probably abuses her

Wow that’s crazy and sad

Lied my ass, with 2 cast on her hands??

Did you see the casts? Lol

Clearly, y’all must have a problem with listening because the court order said they both had joint custody which means they both legally on paper take care of the child. At the time he went and filed for child support. The child was with her on a vacation plus, they wouldn’t have thrown the order for child support out if he was the sole/primary caregiver to this child. And as for the abuse claims, we do not know if those were true or not. She said she dropped the charges because at the time they were still in a relationship and she was still in love with him and didn’t want him to go to jail which is the very real thing that a lots of women do doesn’t necessarily mean he did or didn’t abuse her it just means she dropped the charges for whatever reason.

Because the alleged battery charges were dismissed, JM couldn't consider her allegations of abuse, even if she had pictures.

0p

MAKES ME SO DAMN HEATED

She wasn't being physically and mentally abused as he stated the mother was trying to get sole custody.

@@TimeisNeutral she was and still is.

Exactly!

HE BEAT HER WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT.. SHE WAS ADMITTED TO THE HOSPITAL.. SHE SHOULD'VE SHOWED JM THAT PAPER WORK AT THE BEGINNING.. HE SHOULDN'T HAVE WON.

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yea judge Mathis was wrong, but I knew he didn’t like her for opening cases and not following through

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yes he should have won. She was suing for a child support refund, not “beatings”. If this was a man coming to court with this claim you would call him “dusty” and “deadbeat father”

If he beat her like she says then why did the court give him custody and order her to pay child support? Why didn’t she press charges if he beat her? She is a big liar and it’s very sad because there are women and men who really are abusive relationships and need help

Your RIGHT... JUDGE MATHIS JUST BASICALLY PAID HIM FOR A BREAK-IN THE COURTS ORDER..💯.. HE SHOULD HAVE GOT PERMISSION BEFORE TAKING THE CHILD TO FLORIDA 💯LIKE THE COURT ORDER SAID. HE DIDN'T AND WHILE DOWN IN FLORIDA HE USED HE PUT THE MOTHER ON CHILD SUPPORT 💯 THAT'S WHAT SHE'S SUING FOR 💯IF HE WOULD NEVER RUN DOWN TO FLORIDA💯 SHE WOULD NEVER HAD TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT 👉JUDGE MATHIS WAS EMOTIONAL 👉AND HE WASN'T BASIC HIS EVIDENCE ON LOGIC AND FACTS.

Your WRONG

Why would he keep beating her??

"Alleged" abuse

Word. Youth will make you look past obvious problematic issues just to be with someone.

I try to tell them Curtis.

She only doing what most women know how to do best, which is playing the victim

He ABUSED HER.. SMFH. I SEE RIGHT THRU HIS MANIPULATIVE, NARCISSISTIC AHH..

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 😒

No he didn’t

@@relaxitsme_alex9104 the truth is I agree if a woman is claiming a man is beating and abusing her why is she still with him that's her fault but that doesn't mean she's lying about the abuse she could just be a dumb B all humans are supposed to accept responsibility for they own actions so if he did beat her he still shares some of the burden I'm not sexist against women no matter what a man isn't supposed to put they hand on a woman not even sometimes in self defense I see it like this if a woman forces you to put your hands on them just leave and find another woman

@@danawilliams9778 Exactly. I do not believe that she is lying about the abuse that she endured. She even had hospital records that the judge refused to acknowledge.

It’s a no for real mothers but an IDC for mothers who would rather party than raise their children.

Yes he is, and I don’t think he should’ve got 5,000

When a man takes charge of his household paying the bills taking care of the children handling Dr appointments and schooling it's controlling. If the woman came off like this she would be called "strong and independent"

@@isitmeeTV he tried to keep the kid from her.. but he’s a commendable father!!!!!

@@ayana188 what mother doesn’t know where their child goes to school or who the doctor is? She didn’t even speak against that but smiled and shook her head. She didn’t try hard to be in her daughters life. She just wants to be a mother now because she’s married and ready to settle but she shouldn’t uproot the child because she’s finished partying. Family court almost always rules in favor of the mother and for their judge to grant joint custody… says a lot if all that abuse was a real issue

All they need to do is take photos and they will still press charges this means there was no evidence 😊😊😊

@@bobleeswagger2290 ik that I'm just saying that's y she didn't show up....

I believe that he hit her also.

How do you know he hit her when he was never convicted and why would a judge grant them joint custody if he hit her? Please explain that? Why did the daughter live with him? When he moved Why didn't she go back to court? Because he had the child all along I don't advocate a Man or Women putting hands on each other

I believe SHE hit him first and he MAY have hit her back but clearly she’s a liar so who knows what really happened. I’m glad she lost and his was granted 😂

@@marvinsmith1652 I did not say that I knew anything. I just told you what I believe. People are always able to manipulate situations. I know abusive men who have still been able to get custody of their children.

@@marvinsmith1652 Besides, the judge refused to acknowledge her hospital records.

You ain’t lying. 💯

So if the parents cant come to a decision who the child should go with who other the the court should determine that?

That’s not how abuse works and comments like this don’t help against the stigma

I agree. She was halfway there, considering she filed police reports etc., but she still went back to him anyway.

Exactly

@Yung Not trying to help it because I just know how to leave situations that aren't beneficial to me...very easy to do. Not only that I will whoop ass to defend myself if needed but if you establish rules at the start you usually don't have to worry about anyone f**king with you.

I would think her newly acquired spouse to be a sharp knife in the drawer, but failed to instruct her on all things pertaining to evidence (like photographic) to back up allegations of physical abuse. Maybe he did, after the fact?

Lmao he did deny the abuse. She wasn’t also being a mom anyways. She was ok with him moving clearly if you listened. She’s a trash ass parent that’s moving different men in and being fast in the streets while HE was taking care of their child. I swear most of y’all women are dense asf. Now her dumb ass wants the money back she spent on their child, made him lose his good jobs. She’s horrible and he should have custody and she’s a liar

Yes..... It seems that the few like us see through the B.S..... HE VIOLATED THE COURT ORDER and Now he want Money for that... Please JM was wrong... He really likes men... Her husband had nothing to do with it and he brought him up.... Jealousy..

Abused in this trial.