5 Weird Signs He's NOT Into You

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Men can act pretty weird when they aren’t into you. In this video, I’ll show you five of these signs so that you can stop wasting your time on the wrong guys and put your emotional energy in the right places.
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@LoveStrategies 3 жыл бұрын

Don’t settle! You deserve a relationship where you feel valued. Learn our Little Love Steps: lovestrategies.com/steps/

@lifeinrandom89 3 жыл бұрын

Why do guys lie they are single just to get into you?

@kimchristensen7438 3 жыл бұрын

Can I find you on Instagram

@jeanjessmommysharlyn2771 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Adam..I usually watch your videos and it's very helpful...my best friend his a Dismissive avoidant attachment style but yeah your right his kinda vampire emotional sucker ahaha what's the best thing to do with him? And how can I teach him a lesson? Because he did that to me and to other girls...

@naaphanie2069 2 жыл бұрын

Please can i have a talk with you personally?

@santhiyas1059 3 жыл бұрын

Emotional vampires do exist.. so real❤️

@diane505 3 жыл бұрын

What do they gain from this...?

@sirennem.6890 3 жыл бұрын

they dont heal themselves, dont learn ,read how to date, read 8 dates, the Attached, How to be in relationship as an adult, 4 agreemebts,etc. Most people are immature, or like their freedom more, have problems. You need to find out, not leaning back or wait

@crystalmedina1968 3 жыл бұрын

Yup I was dealing with an Orbiter. I just really don’t understand why we would text and call and talk all the time. We put all this effort into flirting and getting to know each other just for him not to make an effort to see me . . . I just don’t get the whole point of wasting each other’s time. It’s annoying

@glamniita1765 3 жыл бұрын

Omg, i'm in the same situation 🧐. It's just a waste of time. I think they're just looking for validation. So i dumped him, since i know he is also talking to other girls and this isn't getting anywhere. You should set your standard on him. 😊

@rachelarmel7547 3 жыл бұрын

@@glamniita1765 Yes..I've had a few of those too. I think you nailed it. They must be doing it for the validation and are probably lonely but are actually fearful of being in a relationship that requires more of them.

@CrankyBarista 3 жыл бұрын

Yup. They want their ego stroked, nothing more.

@genuinejade2025 3 жыл бұрын

I agree… WTF?

@babybug6462 2 жыл бұрын

I dealt with one of those guys met him at the park and added our snapchat he always took pictures of himself but he never wanted to go out I just dropped him

@AlmasiDodson 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Ladies !! This is defiantly true what Adam says if he doesn’t share the world with you that mean he doesn’t want to be fully committed to you ... Beware of these men , these are the type of men that will try to string you along in a situationship for years to come. #YouAreValueable #RememberToSmile ♥️

@cheekymonkeygirl3378 3 жыл бұрын

It’s important to not make any assumptions as to whether he likes you or not because at the end of the day, actions speaks louder than words. I have become a true believer that men pursue not women. If a guy likes you and believes that you have all the qualities that he is looking for then he will ask you out if not then don’t waste your time wondering. Be a high value woman and don’t chase a man, don’t act desperate. Just note you are the prize not him. 😁💕

@CrankyBarista 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Let them show they are intersted and only reciprocate when they have initiated. Just dont be cold the entire time... they need validation as well.

@mariapap8962 2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, neither the pursuit means anything. How many times have you been pursuit, big time, only to experience a drop in their interest a couple of months and several dates later? Consistency LONG TERM, as welll as an INCREASE in their investment in a woman is key!

@lehua16 3 жыл бұрын

Dated 1 year long distance... he only visit me. He never shared his life. I think it’s time to say ..NEXT! It’s painful 😞

@rachelarmel7547 3 жыл бұрын

We have to go by a man's actions, not his words. Read the book He's Just Not That Into You. I think we women put up with way too much bad behavior from a man. If we're constantly wondering where we stand with a guy then we probably need to move on out of respect for ourselves.

@rapidjerkytumblingmovement4340 2 жыл бұрын

"Emotional energy vampire" very on point, couldn't describe it any better 💯

@Gleyi07 3 жыл бұрын

I cut my Orbiter hahaha I told him you have a lot going on and I need someone physically present in my life. I recently met someone and we have great chemistry. He didn’t see it coming. He says he now wants to see me. Byyeeee felicio!

@bax2603 3 жыл бұрын

So happy I cannot relate , been in a healthy relationship for three years now, even he too watches your videos loll

@CrankyBarista 3 жыл бұрын

That's actually a really good sign that he watches videos you're into... that shows hes intersted in what you like and is willing to open his mind to liking it too. Good job. You've got a keeper!

@WorldsoulsWorld 3 жыл бұрын

I have actually done the "next" recently. Of course after having a serious conversation about his behavior. He had all the weird signs you mentioned. I feel so free and good now.

@amandagibellino2636 3 жыл бұрын

Emotional energy vampire and emotionally unavailable are such giveaways. The truth hurts💔but I appreciate the signs so I can move on. Next!

@phyllismontoroula6454 3 жыл бұрын

I never understand why men dont tell woman how they feel You dont like someone let them know instead leading her on.

@mariapap8962 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure they deserve the title "men" anymore. Because most of them aren't!

@cristinaalem7214 3 жыл бұрын

Number 1 gets me bored. I don’t put any effort on this. 2 no comments 3 I don’t make emotional 4 lack of empathy 5 I like consistency. If not I’m out Next... Thank you for sharing ☺️

@riyadey5783 3 жыл бұрын

Just when I need it.❤️

@aditimukherjee6225 2 жыл бұрын

I seriously need a one on one session with this guy! I have soooo many questions and it'll be awesome if he could answer some of them atleast

@flowerlullaby 3 жыл бұрын

I used to do 2 of these to men that I wasn't interested in much. I've learned better now.

@tonimontana8 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Adam for this great video! I wish i would have seen that before haha... You know I wasted my time with a man for the last year, which Im totally over with by now. But what I still dont get is, when I confronted him with his "Player Attitude" , he said that he knows that he can be hot and cold sometimes, because he is uncertain and afraid to get hurt again... and then, he looked deep into my eyes and said: "But maybe you can help me with that?..." I was confused to be honest and also a bit overwhelmed. I tried to keep in touch with him... 3 weeks later he ignored my messages and disappeared... well... it took me some time to close this chapter, but I know now he wasn't the right one for me. J. PS: I love your videos, they make me smile and helped me a lot!

@CrankyBarista 3 жыл бұрын

I call this "verbal diarrhea confessions" where they have a moment of clarity and honesty (when he says hes aware that hes hot and cold) but... then instead of taking control and trying to change it himself, he puts the responsibility back onto you ("can you help me change that?") That's an boy, not a man.

@prachiraghav4431 3 жыл бұрын

Love you my angel. You made my day today.

@lubnatoora5488 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Adam You explain facts about men At the same time you know and deeply understand women's feeling. That's really awesome Great!! Unbelievable for an Indian woman 😊

@maryamzizi2023 3 жыл бұрын

Great video Adam😊😊

@emmspac3602 3 жыл бұрын

Hi dear

@monigiselle2140 3 жыл бұрын

His life might include another man 👨 wow! Right on point.

@lindokuhlejele4627 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Adam .... Recently broke up with my first everything... The chemistry was too toxic... Passionate, emotional, draining...😁🤦 Anyway single now..4 weeks since the break up... And I don't want to make any dumb mistakes

@sierikaninaj2107 3 жыл бұрын

House address: ✅ Place of employment: ✅ Family: ✅ Still got ghosted. Yeah, I’ll get myself a vibr@tor. At least it will get the job done, won’t tell me what to do and won’t ghost me... as long as I have AA batteries or don’t forget to charge it. 😂😂😂

@leill2748 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you girl 😂😂

@mariaelizabethcepeda6409 2 жыл бұрын

OmG.... I checked✔️✔️✔️ all! Thank you for that! I will say the magic word: NEXT!!!!

@jennamejia6668 3 жыл бұрын

But still there are some men out there who will be in a relationship with you but hide something from his past... it’s important that both are honest, loyal, trustworthy and respectful... my Ex Fiancé is in a relationship with me for 1 yr 8 months but I found out the ex girlfriend is still around in his life for I don’t know the reason. They don’t share a child to raise and to connect with each other... that sucks.

@J_ac0630 3 жыл бұрын

On our second date, we sat outside the restaurant it was a bit humid he removed his socks and I didn’t get bothered at all. For me it’s a sign that he is comfortable with me already. Or what do you think?

@komalchaudhari2046 3 жыл бұрын

Great video, but as u said i have known this guy for quite a long time as friends and later on decided to go ahead to knw each other, but then there was this pandemic, we were constantly in touch via messages, and less number of calls though, he hardly open up about his family on phone, but when we met in person he did say lot of things about his family and friends, we decided to go ahead as boyfriend and girlfriend, but i don't knw, after 8 months and meeting him, it felt good, but how would i knw, that he won't waste my time, as we are long distance, and recently he is shifting to a city where i am working, so ya.. Plz guide

@cheekymonkeygirl3378 3 жыл бұрын

I would say go out with men as a friend and let them know that you are looking for a serious relationship and keeping your options open until you find a high quality guy that way they’ll know that you are looking but not desperate for his love either. ☺️💕 I’m sure if your so-called guy friend plays the cards right then he may have the eligibility to go out with you.

@angeliagarcia6304 3 жыл бұрын

Question. If he doesn't want to exchange phone numbers but wants to use Google hangout? What am I to think?

@sulyrodriguez890 Ай бұрын

Excellent! I have an Orbitter

@saraabdifara2570 3 жыл бұрын

Haaa😅 thank you so much ❤

@learningearning8385 3 жыл бұрын

I have another set of 4 letter words I’d like to give the time waster

@scorpiojustice1368 2 жыл бұрын

It's a distant flirt.. He keeps around me, he stalks, he does lot of action s... He shows how much he miss me.. He shows feeling that he don't like men talking to me, he keeps girls away when I m there.. Every thing is ok... He knows my phone number don't want to speak, even I tried to speak to him directly but he did not respond... I m in confusion... Why does he do that... Till date we hv not exchanged any words. Not even hi!... I want to know the psychology behind it

@The63mamaduke 3 жыл бұрын

Need to have that conversation with him why he has not introduced me to his family or friends. Is there something he hiding. But he been emotional with me and we been seeing each other now for 3 months but hace chatted for 7 months

@natashacarter274 2 жыл бұрын

Yep meet a couple of them emotional vampires very draining so nope don’t need any of that

@Steph-zm4mu 3 жыл бұрын

Yea..he was an emotional vampire ..ugh...😔

@melishaweston6774 3 жыл бұрын

NEXT!

@suzannaemerilinda2516 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I just tell them u not my cup of tea.. lol .. I don like mind games.. so thx u for telling me how to make them off .with this tips I can share the video to my desperate friend of mine.. asking bout the man she want and day dream to be with the man.

@celiarayner9825 2 жыл бұрын

What if he said he will text you the next day but never did

@malkaedery1500 3 жыл бұрын

your the best!

@loushka128 3 жыл бұрын

According to the book "Attached" and many similar works, men with dismissive avoidant (DA) attachment style may exhibit behaviors of dismissiveness (number 5 in your video - coming strong only at the beginning) while actually liking or even loving the woman they are with. It is funny how interpretations vary from one dating coach to another when such points are not taken into consideration. But all in all, it is not healthy to put up with DA behavior so it is better NOT to continue a relationship with them.

@tpwk5821 3 жыл бұрын

Well I’m fucked cuz the guy I’m talking to it’s doing some of these signs. We’ve been talking for 2 months, at first he really wanted to go on a date and seemed very interested in me but now he seems off. We still text everyday but idk. Last time he left me on read for like a day and I didn’t text him or anything he was the one that texted me the next day like nothing happened. 🙄

@thereforeayam 3 жыл бұрын

never trying to learn more about you ...I get that one all the time

@reader88888888 3 жыл бұрын

I shared this video with a lady I consider as a friend but I just want the best for her and if I were a woman I would most definitely find this content useful. Keep up the good work.

@ssmith543 3 жыл бұрын

I want to know where all these great guys are when you say next? Been waiting since 2005 when I said next to the guy I was dating. (Thought he was gay, but he has since gotten married to a woman.) I now live in a town of 50,000 people and these guys I would not give the time of day to.

@ChisomSan 3 жыл бұрын

Get out of your hometown. Meet new people, experience new things.

@alejandramena1942 2 жыл бұрын

Its very hard ...no one wants a relationship this guys are very weird ..i stop looking ..too much energy for nothing

@d.e.p.5624 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! The only sensible comment. The men I fancy are very few so it makes it difficult to me to recover from a break-up even when it's me to end it

@isratjahan6548 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true

@loveofmylife1758 3 жыл бұрын

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@loveofmylife1758 3 жыл бұрын

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@isratjahan6548 3 жыл бұрын

@@loveofmylife1758 shala! off jah!

@loveofmylife1758 3 жыл бұрын

@@isratjahan6548 You can text him on WhatsApp

@tamarasimmons5226 Жыл бұрын

I just bid farewell to an Orbitor, after a three year "relationship ". We hace sooo much in common, however, when we did finally meet after three years, he pretty much ghosted me. We knew what each other looked like, our love of music, which was electric, to basically be cast aside like an old shoe. I'm still scathing about his decision. What a prick!! NEXT...

@francesdiannemipana8173 2 жыл бұрын

2 out of 5 🤔.

@ArunitaG 3 жыл бұрын

How to identify the energy vampires!? Like the guy I'm seeing is opposite of all the four points mentioned here, but how do I know about the 5th thing! That is certainly a dangerous behaviour.

@toria37 3 жыл бұрын

So none of these apply... sounds great right? But he said “I like you but don’t want to lead you on.” What does this even mean?? Followed by a text reading “just thinking about you” a few days after saying that.

@Hannhbanana 3 жыл бұрын

He doesn’t like you enough. Move on. Sorry

@diane505 3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like he’s playing games

@youbeduhsexy 3 жыл бұрын

i thought this was going to be about a man... this is me. LMFAO.