The 51% Rule (and 3 More Strategies to Think Like a Millionaire) with Steven Bartlett

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Do you want to learn the 4 essential steps towards better decision making that will lead you to more #success, #happiness, and #opportunity?
Because here’s the truth: if you want to change your life, you have to understand how to change your decision making.
And today you are going to learn the tools that you can use, from one of the world’s best thinkers and most successful people, to make better decisions.
Steven Bartlett is an entrepreneur, speaker, investor, author, and host of Europe’s #1 podcast, @TheDiaryOfACEO . He has cracked the code on how to leverage your business online, rise above any obstacle, and excel in anything you set your mind to.
There is a reason he sits on the boards of many global brands - because he has one of the greatest entrepreneurial success stories of all time. Steven was a broke university dropout at age 18 when he built an industry-leading social media marketing company. At 28, he co-founded Flight Story, a marketing and communications company and a software platform, which was valued at $600M. He then went on to launch the #1 ranked The Diary Of A CEO podcast.
Today, he is sharing the 4 tactics he uses to make any decision for the best results. The tactics he shares are from his personal life as well as top-tier industry and thought leaders, entrepreneurs, entertainers, and athletes that he interviews on his wildly successful show.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:
- The art of decision making
- How to determine what drives you (and why it’s important to know)
- How The 51% Rule will help you make better decisions
- The difference between Type 1 and Type 2 decisions (and why it matters)
- What to do when you feel trapped in your job or relationship
- Why Steven says you are operating at 1% of your potential
- One of the most successful CEOs says THIS is how to launch any business
- The ONE question to always ask before you go to others for answers
- The #1 goal for entrepreneurs must always be this
- 20% of relationship issues come from this one thing
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I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode.
In this episode:
00:00: Intro
09:14: How Steven’s feeling of being ‘not enough’ pushed him.
10:57: What is the art and science of decision making?
11:47: What’s it like growing up with an addicted parent?
13:02: How to determine what drives you (and why it’s important).
14:41: Steven didn’t think he needed ‘normal’ schooling, so this is what he did.
20:57: Do you tell yourself “it won't work out for me”?
22:48: Does wanting to be ‘good enough’ drive you?
24:44: If you’re feeling trapped in the job or relationship, do this.
27:02 A entrepreneurs #1 goal must always be this.
30:21: The difference between type 1 and type 2 decisions.
36:19: Why risk and urgency in decision making is essential.
39:04: The surprising reason why failure is a good thing.
40:03: What you need to do today if you want to start a business.
41:53: Ask yourself this ONE question before you go to others for answers.
43:16: 10-20% of relationship issues come from this one thing.
46:02: Did you know you’re operating at 1% of your potential?
50:18: The Steven Bartlett way to launch your business.
59:46: The 3 decisions you make everyday that rob you of success and happiness.
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@kaoverme 4 ай бұрын

I just finished a post Masters in Nursing at age 70!!! Never too late!

@SOEsan-vw5ze 3 ай бұрын

That is brilliant! WELL DONE YOU!! 👏🏾

@v_secret1775 2 ай бұрын

🎉Congratulations! You are a superhero!

@OyindaAkinyanju 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations!! 🎉

@belovedone8207 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations 🎉 … and thanks for the reminder. It’s so easy to forget.

@kdouglas4387 2 ай бұрын

Yes!

@LauritsVad 29 күн бұрын

*I'm 55 years and I retired at 51. I was able to do this because I understand four pricinciples of financial planning success think long term with goals and investing, spend less than you earn maintain liquidity (an emergency savings) minimize the use of debt*

@Clara46630 29 күн бұрын

Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits, such as regularly setting aside money for sound investment.. .

@ArthurJenkins-cy9ty 29 күн бұрын

Money invested is far better than money saved, when you invest it gives you an opportunity to increase your financial worth

@ScottGonzalez-yl6ze 29 күн бұрын

It's remarkable how long term advantage people like us have gotten trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent

@TeresaFroster 29 күн бұрын

The wisest thing that should be on everyone's mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government paycheck. Especially with the current economic crisis around the world , this is still a time to invest in Stocks, Forex and Digital currencies

@BrielleSmith-in5fd 29 күн бұрын

Even with the right technique and assets some investors would still make more than others.. As an investor, you should've known by now nothing beats experience and that's final. Personally i had to reach out to a financial adviso (Ava Brenda Harry) for guidance which is how i was able to grow my losing account back to $150, 000 withdraw my profile right before the corrections and now I'm buying again.

@RacelBacongaZoleta 3 ай бұрын

I left my nursing career to start a business. It’s the best decision I’ve ever made. I am in my happiest. ❤ Thank God!

@DMarietheJDnurse 2 ай бұрын

What business did you start?

@RacelBacongaZoleta 2 ай бұрын

@@DMarietheJDnurse hi 👋 It’s digital marketing.

@DMarietheJDnurse 2 ай бұрын

@RacelBacongaZoleta Oh wow! That's awesome and a complete pivot from nursing. Kudos to you 👏🏾

@RacelBacongaZoleta 2 ай бұрын

Thank you very much! @@DMarietheJDnurse ❤🥰

@jessicaortiz373 2 ай бұрын

This is something i want to do! How did you start? if you dont mind

@mannya_realtor 3 ай бұрын

The 51% rule is exactly what I needed to hear. I try my hardest to be 90+ percent sure and it’s making me spend way too much time on analysis and less time on activity. I spend more time thinking about all the ways it’s not going to happen rather than thinking about all the ways it IS going to happen. Thank you Mel!

@karenandersonrealtor 4 ай бұрын

Every time I watch your podcasts, I get incredibly juicy nuggets of wisdom. This one with Stephen Bartlett was so inspiring. Hard to believe how much wisdom spewed out of such a young man but old soul. I love the 51% rule. As always, lots of note taking in my journal. Love you Mel!!!

@EternalLife42 4 ай бұрын

Yes she's coming to pick me up

@emilyerickson5452 4 ай бұрын

I was on a walk with my dog and thought about calling a family member I’ve been putting off and putting off. We have an unfortunately very divided family. Due to past trauma. I get it. I miss this person more than anything and worry about being denied. Anyway, thanks to your video that talks about overthinking which was exactly what I was doing, and putting it off. I did it! I called him!!! It went wonderfully. Of course there was this elephant in the room, but I wanted to talk and catch up. I got off the phone thinking “I loved that” it was therapeutic. Long story short, thank you for this video ❤ it was exactly what I needed!

@mariabrinia8426 4 ай бұрын

My mom is the ambassador of his sayings!! An orphan her self decided on how to earn her life and happiness...she is 87.....yessssss

@debbieobrien1598 4 ай бұрын

I haven't even finished watching the video and am blown away by the wisdom of Steven Bartlett. I have been questioning for the last few years about what society says about women over 60 and finding it mostly false. I am embracing my beauty and wisdom. I am also accepting people to express themselves the way they are most comfortable at. I am looking for more fun, experiences, joy, happiness, peace and success at this time in my life than ever before!

@anu55 4 ай бұрын

Love it! You go Queen! It's never too late to live your best life!

@katiedid1983 4 ай бұрын

I wanted to be a teacher but I stuck with business, not because I was too afraid to change professions but because I couldn't support myself enough on a teachers salary. But I loooove to learn and I love to teach.... so I worked for a long time in a lot of different roles but now I'm a professional trainer for the company I work for so I teach AND make enough to support my family on much more comfortably.

@M43721 4 ай бұрын

That's great to hear. What was the first step in actually making that transition?

@katiedid1983 4 ай бұрын

@M43721 I took an entry-level role with the company I worked at and I became a subject matter expert in my role. I took that knowledge and did some smaller projects and stiff until a position as a trainer opened and I went for it.

@M43721 4 ай бұрын

@@katiedid1983 nice!! :)

@smoofollowingqalroundthewo206 3 ай бұрын

And you can tutor kids on the weekends if you want! 😊

@kadetoure6153 2 ай бұрын

I think you just proved there are so many types of teachers, and that is not just limited to being in a classroom. Congrats on finding a way to do what you love!

@TalesOfTrillions Ай бұрын

The 51% rule sounds like the perfect antidote to overthinking paralysis! I'm all in for making decisions with just enough certainty to get started.

@joycewanjiru6396 Ай бұрын

The vulnerability of steve is beautiful n makes him so relatable. Got lots of action points from this interviews, its life changing 🙌

@Jamielee7100 4 ай бұрын

This is one of my favorite podcasts that you have done😊

@victors16811 4 ай бұрын

Loves when Mel breaks the video to intervene and makes sure we listen to something important!! That’s unique!

@katiegasson6259 4 ай бұрын

yes me too, its very valuable, as she says 'the highlighter going over the words' 🥰

@monsterdubstudio5533 3 ай бұрын

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@laviniapoholarz3923 3 ай бұрын

❤yes!!!!

@SouthpawAutoworks 3 ай бұрын

Totally agree.

@Gagnante-xb1bt 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate that so much. Her competitive advantage

@leadgenjay 4 ай бұрын

The insights from Steven Bartlett on decision-making are pure gold for any entrepreneur. For those looking to apply this, remember that Type 1 decisions are reversible and should be made quickly to maintain momentum, while Type 2 decisions are high-stakes and require more deliberation. It's a game-changer to classify your decisions and approach them with the appropriate urgency and caution.

@deniecebrady6328 4 ай бұрын

In Australia there is an old saying “ Have a go you mug”. Or “nothing ventured nothing gained”. This podcast was great - thank you.

@christianleonel2717 4 ай бұрын

Hi, Mell. I’m also 31 y/o. I have found confirmation through him that I am doing the right thing. I feel I am radical when I make my decisions. I do things in a non-conventional way, and sometimes I wonder if I'm doing the right thing, but so far it is working amazingly and living an amazing reality. I see others living by the “book” that aren't living as happy or as successful. It's comforting to get some sort of confirmation that I am doing the right thing through this interview.

@myrinaDM 4 ай бұрын

I am right now in a phase of my life, in which I have to make, perhaps, my biggest decision... And just today, I'm already listening to your talk. It was exactly what I needed to hear, the help I needed and the stabilization of my thoughts and fears. As you said before, random things don't happen to us in life. :) Thank you so much for your impeccable support, the confidence you give us, and the help to navigate our inner selves. Best regards!

@theExperiencewithAudrey 2 ай бұрын

The 51% Rule!!! Mel and Steven, Omgoodness, I’m learning this principle at almost age 50… I’ve always waited, more like procrastinated on making any decision until I was like 90-100%, and I’ve wasted so much of my life living in indecisiveness. 🤯 This was an amazing podcast that will be a catalyst to turning my life around and moving me forward. We’re only 1 decision away from the best life possible!! Take action, as that first step will lead you to the next step and beyond!! Thank you!! ❤

@b.casamgmt5030 27 күн бұрын

Two of my fav interviewers - can’t get enough of your sit downs

@IuliaTetteh 5 күн бұрын

This man. Everytime he speaks he is so so calm. I love it!

@lindasimetic386 4 ай бұрын

Mel, I'm 55 as well and you are so relatable. I feel that I am actually channelling your spirit/voice and Steve's when I'm teaching....! You both share your vulnerabilities (being human) and your hacks to overcome them. Mel, I swear, when my alarm goes off at 5am, I hear your voice- no kidding. Steve, your sharp focus and drive, motivate and inspire me, as well. Thank you to both of you. Great partnership! Windsor, Ontario, Canada

@carolynfox965 4 ай бұрын

I was riveted by the Steven's story. Thanks for the share. From the depths comes strength. Mel, I made a 51% decision right after New Year's. Best decision of my life. Loved this interview. Not just the accent but the fortitude. Oh one last thing. Mel, gotta say...Love the love at the end of the show...makes me feel #hugged.

@wendy1479 4 ай бұрын

MELLLLLLLL!!!! Oh my gosh- this video finally showed me, at FIFTY ONE that my whole career has been chasing jobs/titled that my peers and loved ones thought were "worthy of your intellect."

@JaneASmyth 4 ай бұрын

I've been a fan of Steven's for a while. Brilliant young man. Thanks for this episode, Mel. Excellent.

@MrQuadcity 4 ай бұрын

Key takeaways are: 1. **Background and Resilience**: Stephen Bartlett's journey from poverty and adversity, including racial challenges and personal struggles, to recognizing his potential, underscores the importance of resilience and the impact of supportive figures in overcoming difficult circumstances. 2. **Decision-Making's Role**: The emphasis on decision-making highlights its fundamental role in shaping our lives. The concept that we make numerous decisions daily, which can have far-reaching consequences, underlines the importance of improving decision-making skills for a better life. 3. **Overcoming Perfectionism**: The 51% Rule is presented as a practical strategy to combat perfectionism and self-doubt by encouraging action over prolonged deliberation, emphasizing that the act of deciding is often more critical than the decision itself. 4. **First Principles Thinking**: Distinguishing between fast and slow decisions and advocating for first principles thinking illustrates a methodical approach to problem-solving by breaking down complex issues into basic elements, facilitating better decision-making. 5. **Intuition and Risk-Taking**: Bartlett's reliance on intuition and his stance on the necessity of taking risks to overcome self-imposed limitations highlight the importance of trusting one's instincts and the potential regrets associated with inaction or complacency. 6. **Personal Growth through Teaching**: The Fryman technique and the practice of sharing daily reflections on social media are suggested as tools for personal growth and self-awareness, emphasizing the value of introspection and the educational power of teaching. 7. **Setting Boundaries and Learning from Mistakes**: The discussion on setting boundaries, especially with family, and the value of learning from mistakes points to the importance of personal responsibility and the sometimes tough love required for true personal development and success.

@flowergurl0575 3 ай бұрын

Truthfully these are two of my faves teachers of how to build a great life. Steve and Mel I am so grateful to continue to learn with you both on eachs’ podcast 🤩🙋🏻‍♀️

@lindasimetic386 4 ай бұрын

This episode is a WOW! My favourite 2 podcasters creatively using Steve's set (Mel in Steve's chair) and Mel recapping the main ideas. I literally got out my phone and started a daily recap on my phone because of Steve's story about sharing his day's learning with the world. Not wasting TIME was a huge take away. As a teacher here in Canada, with lots of options in my life, I truly got a lot out of the decision making ideas from these two world class podcasters ('podcasters' doesn't feel good enough of a title here). What a great partnership, Mel and Steve!

@vinniemerrill6683 4 ай бұрын

Mel! Mel! Mel! YOU MOVE ME! I decided today, in this moment, that I'm going to stand out to you. I am going to comment in some *specifical* (my own made up word that totally sounds legit) way, every single time I finish watching an episode, something that I take away from it. The doors you can't walk back thru.. Holy. Holy. My deepest inner self thanks you & your incredible guest, for convincing me into taking action at 51% belief... BOOM!

@myraperson6520 4 ай бұрын

🤯 The risk is not in taking the step but in staying exactly where you are. What a mind shift!! We are taught standing still is a good thing because we are safe but really we are more at risk for additional bad choices. First podcast I’ve listened to and LOVED it. Thank you Mel and Steven.

@nycoleandherways 4 ай бұрын

Wow! I couldn’t wait to hear this episode, I listen to both of your podcasts daily. What a treat to have the both of you together! Thank you for your wisdom. ❤

@ohhhhgeorge 4 ай бұрын

Through these 2 amazing people, I changed and realised soo many things. I never understood, why people accept "the simple answer" I always question everything and do it my way. I always thought, I'm sooo different but special. I still think I'm way ahead of everyone around me. So hearing all these hours of podcasts shaped me. Teached me acceptance and I will always and forever be thankful. Also, totally random, while Mel says "where other people fire up a blunt..." I realized how Stevens big toe is hugging the chair legs. Maybe cause in that moment I lighted my good night blunt. 🤭🤭🤭❤

@therealsusanmiles 4 ай бұрын

This gave me soooo much! Especially the different perspectives on how I truly can choose how I look at everything! All my decisions! And to really question everything and DO experiments! ❤❤❤ ...also, you mentioned you never know what to do/say when someone compliments you during their interview...how about what you did plus, "I receive that." It's some reason hard for us women to open our hearts to truly receive. And you deserve the same love you give out Mel!!! 😘

@dr.kundhavisenthilkumar7175 4 ай бұрын

This show was amazing. I felt like I’m coming out of a wisdom masterclass. I’ve watched Steven interview great people but seeing him interviewed is one of the best things! Learnt a lot in this 60 mins!! A Mel Robbins podcast was a thing on my podcast list for long and I’m happy it started off great! Thank you Mel for doing this. Few things were very relatable. Especially loved the type 1 and type 2 decisions of which majority is type 2 and from now on whenever I’m going to have to decide anything I’m not going to sit and let it brew rather go for it real quick despite the result. The best thing that happened today. Thank you to both of you.

@soniachtereva 4 ай бұрын

Steven is so open and confident, and the fact that he is filming without shoes shows how trustworthy he is❤

@akagabbie 4 ай бұрын

This! This has to be one of my favorites. So much gold! Thank you, Steven. Thank you, Mel.

@karenlopez5441 4 ай бұрын

Wowww!! 2 of my favorite personal growth leaders (and their podcasts) TOGETHER! What a way to start my morning. Mel , thank you for challenging Steven with your always relevant questions and, Steven, you are just inspiring. Going through a major time of change in my midlife and the revelations in your talk truly gave me a kick in the backside where I’ve turned some Type 1 decisions into Type 2s and set my mind to them already. I feel big changes coming ! Thank you thank you

@flowergurl0575 3 ай бұрын

Right 🤩 they are both super awesome and have such an amazing influence in the community of growth in one’s life

@biana7775 4 ай бұрын

Wow! Amazing interview! There's so much information, I look forward to re-listening to it so that I could get the most out of it! As someone who's tried and failed at multiple careers, I'm inspired to try and fail (again!) because all failure is something I could learn from. I think that most people (especially myself) get stuck in analysis paralysis and that stops them from making a decision. And when we rely on conventional knowledge (rather than our inner knowing), we get stuck in thinking that it's better off being a banker than exploring what it would be like to work with kids.

@MiszBxRoyalty 4 ай бұрын

The excitement I felt when I saw the video thumbnail!

@faithmhlanga7282 Ай бұрын

We are watching and listening to two great gurus doing what they are good at.

@clevelandgirl3226 4 ай бұрын

This was one of your BEST podcasts, and you have always set a very high bar! 😊 I particularly loved the discussion about type 1 and type 2 decisions. Never really thought of it that way, and the 51% threshold for making a decision--Incredible advice for the many of us who are stuck in the mud and afraid to move forward. Thanks again, and what a wonderful guest!

@ritikachauhan7480 4 ай бұрын

This was the bessst ever podcast I have ever came across. 👍🔥 From doing something crazy like creating and Instagram page for your business even before starting it to.. Telling or saying NO to your close ones because it's for their good.. I felt like everything was literally meant to shake me and wake me up and push me to go and take the first step towards my goals. 😀 Thanks Mel, for this amazing episode. ❤❤

@mskaruhluheevon 4 ай бұрын

This is probably one of my favorite episodes! Thank you Mel! ❤

@marlycecartie7032 4 ай бұрын

Love. Love. Love ♥️ The two of you are amazing!

@abrayadh7113 3 ай бұрын

Wow, you have Nigerian roots! That's truly amazing. I'm not sure why, but this revelation brings me such joy on a day that's been rather challenging. It's incredibly inspiring to see how successful you've become, especially knowing the struggles you've had to overcome. Your journey is a testament to resilience and determination. Keep shining!

@michellerichardson7611 4 ай бұрын

So happy to see my two favorite speakers together! Thank you 🙏🏾 Greetings from Trinidad and Tobago

@pattyleong902 4 ай бұрын

Love Steven, and listen to him every morning!

@tinadreshek4689 4 ай бұрын

Thank you, thank you this was an amazing pod cast!

@MamaRhiPlans 4 ай бұрын

Mel - you are just killing this podcast thing lately!! :) THANK YOU SO MUCH, I CAN'T GET ENOUGH!!!

@LeslieNicole 4 ай бұрын

This was so good. 2 of my favorite podcasters together! Mel, you did such a great job interviewing Steven. I liked how you paused the interview from time to time to really dissect and digest certain points. This is one of those podcasts that I am going to have to review the transcript because there were some very key ideas - especially on risk-taking. Definitely some quotable ideas in here as well. (I keep inspiring quotes of things I learn in an app.)

@cynthiabrown5468 4 ай бұрын

Great podcast. My fav young man and Mel. I'm listening to it for the second time. Great message that pushes against societal norms. Keep pushing. Society needs to hear this message and more than once.

@LanaLana-sz1wz 4 ай бұрын

Thanks so MUCH for this Mel and Steven. I follow the both of you on KZfaq and LOVE your work!

@faith.action.bravery5117 4 ай бұрын

This is one of my favorite podcasts from both of you.

@jimperezcadena 3 ай бұрын

I love Steve and this was an amazing interview. My quick takeaways to put to use are: question everything, choose quickly, start your business on Instagram. And of course, which I agree 100%, don’t freaking write a business plan. Just take the first step and then another every day. This was a very fun and educational podcast. By the way, I subscribed. Thanks. PS I’m going to summarize my days and release my findings to the world on a new Instagram/Twitter account.

@jillypopsmagic 4 ай бұрын

My two favourites together again. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Always learning so much from each of you, and so often the topics discussed are so relevant. ❤️❤️

@lesliewilliams3732 4 ай бұрын

Such an amazing episode! Stunning and life altering! Thank you, Mel!

@rebeccadinsmore5913 4 ай бұрын

Yes!! My 2 most favorite and inspiring people I have discovered in 2024😍👏🏼 love them both so much🔥

@heroshamaalanasingh3323 4 ай бұрын

Mel’s podcasts as feel good .. I have definitely learnt so much from this!

@nettadebeer9936 4 ай бұрын

Just great… Incredible…learning every day a bit more Thank you Mel…. Although I listen till the end …I went back and listen again

@andiereyes746 4 ай бұрын

I loved this podcast! Learned a lot about myself and why I do some of the things that I do. What resonated most was the definitions of a Type 1 and Type 2 decision making. Also the 51% rule. I felt like Steven was talking about me when he spoke on conventional vs non-conventional processes when it comes to everyday life and the sleep scenario. I had not heard of this guy until today - love his motivation and ideals. Makes a lot of sense! Thank you!

@caminhosdecura6469 4 ай бұрын

Lov you, Mel❤

@DailyPayWithRamella 4 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@evekko10 4 ай бұрын

This was the best show i've seen so far! Amazing and so helpful!

@user-qj8yy1wg3u 4 ай бұрын

My two favourite people! I listened to it on Spotify first, which is a slightly shorter version, then decided to watch on KZfaq. Prefer audio, so it sinks in better without the visual distraction. PS. I can’t help sensing the chill between them for some reason…. nevertheless super interesting, powerful and helpful! Huge thank you both!🙏🏻❤

@thebodyprojectbygretamikan6496 3 ай бұрын

2 of my favourite Podcasters! Mel and Steve, love you both, excellent content!

@ananyarittitarm1705 4 ай бұрын

I LOVE STEVEN!!! Thank you for having him on your show. It's such a good inspiration to hear him from another side of the chair ❤

@thesingingdiva 4 ай бұрын

This was incredible. So many good takeaways. Thank you Mel and Steven!!❤

@mincedtofu 4 ай бұрын

Steven just describing himself as an avoidant attacher. Quickly to leave situations that do not serve him and feeling proud of having done all 'on his own', afraid of shame and rejection.

@Junga-K 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for asking every question I would have wanted to ask Steven!

@hollywinchell3412 4 ай бұрын

Yay!! Two of my absolute favorite podcasters together! Thank you Mel and Steven, you both provide a lot of inspiration and motivation.

@dianamutheu33 4 ай бұрын

This is the best podcast I have listened...I listen to all your podcast every week

@crbradbury8282 Ай бұрын

I love the interview. Dont love the frequency of Ads though. 🤔🧐

@Houseofjermar 4 ай бұрын

This podcast was so inspiring! Stephen is so focused and passionate about his approach.

@harrieth.hormillosargcphd7759 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, Mel and Steven! That was awesome!

@zhour-8929 4 ай бұрын

This is inspirational!! What an episode!!! Thanks a lot 🙏🏾

@leahculberson3665 3 ай бұрын

This is my favorite podcast you’ve done, Mel. The mutual respect and trust between you and Steven created beautiful freedom of heart, dialogue. Thank you.

@mynheer1 4 ай бұрын

I absolutely love your podcast and enjoy watching every episode. This episode really reached me and now I have the tools to move forward in my life. I am reading a very good book on sitting boundaries for myself. I am a people pleaser and I am learning to stop that. Yes, it is hard especially since I am in my late fifties. The anxiety is horrible and I got to do this for myself and my marriage. I am with the most wonderful man; who is helping me to work through my anxiety and learn how to set boundaries. I am so grateful for him. I am grateful for you for helping me with your podcast and the young gentleman has me as a subscriber for awhile now and was so happy to see you guys together. Please keep communicating and visit each other’s podcast. I learned so much from you both. His girlfriend is so lucky and so is he. They found one another and working together to make it work. My Husband and I don’t sleep together since he is a night owl and I enjoy going to bed early and getting up early so I can watch your all’s podcast while I am having my coffee. Our marriage is perfect for us and that is all that matters to us. Love you guys and keep up the great work!!!

@evelynjulia6787 Ай бұрын

Very encouraging! Thank you both!! Love you Steven!! Mel, you rock!! ❤

@Sophie-nd3yj 4 ай бұрын

I just love you both so much - the generosity with which you share your wisdom actually just moved me to tears 😅

@danabruckner6371 4 ай бұрын

Steven you are so open when you are talking to Mel Robbins, I love this interview!

@Gasous1 4 ай бұрын

I loved this podcast thank you Mel and Steven for the motivation

@philippaross269 4 ай бұрын

Priceless. Such a scrummy heartfelt and real conversation. Thanks a million

@SouthpawAutoworks 3 ай бұрын

This episode sucked me in...like a tractor beam. It took me back to my childhood. It also has me looking inward regarding the present (personal life and business). Loved the boardroom story (father and son). I can see that I'm currently limited by type 2 decisions (fail forward). It's cruel to not have boundaries. Eye-opening... Thanks Mel! Thanks Steven! What a great contribution to the platform. Time to get off of YT, and go implement this stuff. Wishing you both all the best. -Robert

@kimbeckett1486 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for having Steven on. I watch him all the time. He has the greatest guests! I always wanted to know more about him.

@smoofollowingqalroundthewo206 3 ай бұрын

I had never heard of Steven Bartlett before this interview (although I recognize the face from something). His ability to trust his inner compass at such a young age is commendable and hope he gets in front of kids as often as he can - because they desperately need that in today’s world. Really loved listening to this. ❤

@lisaspitzer4333 4 ай бұрын

This is the first time I was so sad this podcast ended! Both if you are a treasure! Just shared this with my husband and 20 year old daughter who is a junior at Purdue and confused about the future! Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

@saraa404 4 ай бұрын

Thanks a million Mel for this amazing video. I have decided to make notes from your podcast now. I need this inspiration over and over again and it would be good just opening my diary and going through the key points.

@albao1253 4 ай бұрын

Love listening to your podcast! Always so much to learn! Also love listening to Steven’s podcast as well both of you have great insight to how to solve things!❤ Have learned so much about myself with every podcast I listen to!

@cynthiaperez9425 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and understanding of life.

@juliedavis520 9 күн бұрын

Steven speaks to my spirit... I've been realizing this over the past ten years,!!!! I've really never heard anyone speak on it as he has ..love it.

@M43721 4 ай бұрын

I like the steps to heightening self-awareness. What Steven suggests aligns well with adult learning best practices. I can relate to what he described about being able to see new patterns after reflecting in this way day after day.