I argued with my grandma about this. She said my way of thinking wasn’t godly, traditional, or respectable. As an atheist, I laughed and asked who she wants me to go to for advice. She said the church. I said ok, good idea, I’ll get womanly advice from the nuns. The childfree nuns, the unmarried nuns, the nuns who don’t associate with men, the nuns who focus on their career as a messenger of God and not a traditional lifestyle. The virginal nuns who live on church grounds that grew abortifactants for no reason I’m sure. There have ALWAYS been childfree women. Nuns and shamans and “witches” all over the world. They made spaces for us to fit into their rules, because they knew if they didn’t we would fight their power entirely. We are not a new phenomenon. We have always been here and we’re here to stay. I’m tired of hearing it as “new age ideas” when it’s an idea as old as humanity itself. They’re just mad we don’t need their rules to follow our own will anymore.
@maam-yj8ph Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Some women were not sexually desirable and still had to work for their subsistence. Not every man or woman is desperate for a partner.
@Raebrained Жыл бұрын
Honestly..I've always wanted to be a nun 😂
@user-jp7ms1zt7r Жыл бұрын
Many religious people package their family values into their religion. They typically have no idea how inconsistent their beliefs about mandatory marriage and childbearing are with their religion's history.
@elaineoliver2901 Жыл бұрын
Speak. ALWAYS BEEN CHILDFREE WOMEN. Even in societies where motherhood is physically forced on underage girls, they physically fight for their bodies. They fight for their freedom. Being a mother is not a 'natural course' for females, it is and should be just a lifestyle choice and women around the world who are able to choose for themselves often choose education and career over motherhood. In developing nation after developing nation, the more educated women there are, the fewer children there are. I think that speaks volumes about what women really are driven towards.
@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Жыл бұрын
I laughed right with you 😂, the gaslighting from elders is hilarious at this point
@HopeRele Жыл бұрын
Striaght men hardly partake in raising children yet they're the loudest about child free women when they don't even know the size of their child's shoes, what grade their in or their allegories
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
Yes exactly
@MariaDavids Жыл бұрын
THIS!!!! 💯
@jara9385 Жыл бұрын
True 👍and they tell you that they are like that in their Nature but Then They know exactly the Bra size of the girl next door 🥴😵💫 or how many tattoos that other girl had on her @$$ 😖and what's the favourite drink of a pecific b*tch in a bar that they used to see....modern men they just focus what's outside their house then what's inside their house unfortunately....🤦♀️🤷♀️ And believe me men can know more and can focus thousands times more then women but only *if they care* or *if they want to*
@queeniequeen949 Жыл бұрын
THIS HERE. 🥰👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾
@sherelljasper8837 Жыл бұрын
I think that's odd. They barely pat the kids on the head from time to time.
@tflenderson9636 Жыл бұрын
Men actually desire to have children more than women based on recent studies. I think the anomosity comes from them wanting children but not wanting to put equal effort & now they're finding it hard to trick women into believing they wanted the children and therefore should shoulder the burden.
@aphrojitex8972 Жыл бұрын
I was wondering if someone would mention this. Men don’t want kids for the same reason as women who desire having children. Men often want to continue a “Legacy” they don’t think of the hardships, they don’t think of the fact that you’re RISKING your life. Just for them to not even care..why would anyone with self-respect commit to that? Senseless.
@latteknowsbest6365 Жыл бұрын
Gotta be womb envy or something
@user-sm6od4tx2p Жыл бұрын
They don't they just wanna spread seed. It's an animal instinct every animal on earth wants to spread their genes.
@kalopsiawitch9538 Жыл бұрын
I saw TikTok (I thought I saved it but I guess not 😅) a woman goes on a podcast and says that if she had been born a man she would probably want children, and a lot at that. However, because she is a women and she understands the pain, the risk, the labor and THE LABOR. She definitely doesn’t want them.
@BT-jm3ww Жыл бұрын
Exactly....children are men's legacy not ours. No thank you. Children are gifts and legacies yet men abandon them/their families....No thank you.
@sheritownsend5359 Жыл бұрын
1. I love the idea that women are deciding whether or not to have children based on what's best for them. This is the first time women are making conscious decisions about their bodies instead of being society's robots simply doing what's expected of them. 2. For women raising children is a responsibility. For most men, it's a legacy.
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
You are so right 💯
@Lifeishard237 Жыл бұрын
Exactly I don’t know any woman that sees children as a legacy but I know plenty of men that do.
@ErutaniaRose Жыл бұрын
I wanna start by saying I LOVE your comment. And I just wanted to add that I am someone who would love to be a parent one day if I can (financially). I am AFAB and NB so I tech do not fit the "woman" category, lol--but if I had to say anything about a legacy. IMO I would hope my possible kids show a legacy of kindness based on what they learned in life, and I would hope they lead mostly happy lives, and lives far better and less traumatizing than mine. I would hope my legacy through them would be the kindness and resources to have a good life. I know for many the idea of a legacy is based on bloodline and having it continue, but for me, I see it as a way of passing on your thoughts and wisdom to help younger generations and kids in your care--regardless of if they are biologically yours or not--to have and lead lives that make them happy. That your legacy is the kindness you give to others. I've heard similar sentiments from some women who wanna be parents or are parents, so thought I would share the additional information and possibly give some positive light to the dark realities of being a woman, of being female, and of being a mother or not wanting to be a mother. Just some happy thoughts so things don't feel hopeless. And lastly I just wanna say--I don't think you need to be a parent to have a legacy, and I support child-free people 100%. It's your life.
@NaunetBastet Жыл бұрын
I mean it's not the first time at all, but it is a time when women are able to make those choices far easier.
@C.Church Жыл бұрын
@@NaunetBastetIt's why even as it ebbs and flows to prominent to underground, there is always a murmuring among men discussing how "women ruined society and ruined the family and women entering the workforce is how it happened" (which is false. Men are collectively poor leaders and never set up REAL merit based systems to begin with, which allows women outliers to follow interests, and outlier men to stay home, and all deadbeats fall to the bottom). The endgame (men always have a game) is to convince women all is well so we can relax now. Fast forward. Generation later women are stuck at home again, few choices. Next generation of boys INSTANTLY back in the mindset that boys own the world and girls are there to serve and ask permission. Uphill battle against the fake merit based system all over again.
@DeluluIsTheSolulu Жыл бұрын
The bloodline ends with me and there's nothing my family can do about it. I refuse to get pregnant or have kids in any way, shape, or form.
@whitneyanders5945 Жыл бұрын
Bloodline continuation is a hilarious reason to have kids anyway. We are all basically made up of the same DNA and 99.999% of humans are not inbred royalty where things like bloodlines matter. Also, the only bloodlines that would definitely be worth preserving or continuing would be those with super human genetic mutations that have some advantage over other humans . So far, these people don’t exist.
@cadavher Жыл бұрын
Lmao this is what happened with both sides on my family. My brother got snipped, and I'm 34 childless and will not have children. My cousins who grew up wanting kids, one decided they don't want them anymore and the other is only considering because his wife wants one. The bloodline dies with us. Kind of sad, but I know I am not a good paternal figure, and I'm not screwing up a human being forcing myself to have one.
@Loveddeeply626 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 “the bloodline ends with me”
@teoleno4019 Жыл бұрын
Same. Am only child here. The men can kick rocks!
@YellaBellaReno Жыл бұрын
@@Loveddeeply626that’s my new battle cry! 😂
@learningit8732 Жыл бұрын
The same men who hate single mothers? 😂 The same ones who said choose better? The same ones who said don't have kids you can't afford?
@MariaDavids Жыл бұрын
The same ones now saying you will regret not having kids 😅
@learningit8732 Жыл бұрын
@@MariaDavids 🤣
@thetrollminator4975 Жыл бұрын
Chile it's "slap ya knees" hilarious 🤦
@jara9385 Жыл бұрын
You forgot... The same men that say mothers ruined their child and should be blamed for everything
@indigoGoddess7 Жыл бұрын
The same men who will complain if you put them on child support. The same men who say that marriage only benefits women… The same men who say that women are whores and should save themselves for marriage The same men who say that women are the reason to blame for the high divorce rate The same men who say that women can’t be trusted 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@1CurlyB Жыл бұрын
Why are men so worried about it? Akon said they don't need us to create life. Go get a incubator (like the nincompoop said) and leave us the hell alone.
@attitudeproblem6462 Жыл бұрын
Shyt, _Expeditiously!_ 💅🏾
@simonebrooks202 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 akon and his horrible wig wearing brainless self thought he did something 😂😂😂
@camie94 Жыл бұрын
They know it's not possible so once again the empty barrels are making the most noise.
@biomedlib Жыл бұрын
Then they'll be looking for someone to raise them.🤔🤔
@eflychique Жыл бұрын
if we're not there to take the work they leave us to do kids are no fun
@evaphillips2102 Жыл бұрын
These dudes need to get off women who don’t want kids and start shaming the dudes who aren’t taking care of their kids.
@tinyking1110 ай бұрын
💯💯🔥🔥🙌🏽
@kwilliams217910 ай бұрын
THANK YOU ❤🎉😊
@strudelh10 ай бұрын
Yes ! put that energy towards to the MANY neglectful and deadbeat dads ‼️
@elizabethr41077 ай бұрын
Amen
@ajilariyike5 ай бұрын
Fact
@laurenpointer7048 Жыл бұрын
Why is there such a push for reproduction but no push for strong foundations to be built? A lot of men are "concerned" about childless women by choice. I am highly convinced that a lot of men just want to entrap women with heavy loads of responsibility that even they don't want. Being a mother is a dire consequence not really a goal or desire.
@N3V3rSettle Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Worried about Women having children but not worried about stable families and homes. Marriage should come first, period. Women need to stop engaging in pre marital relations so easily with these types of men. When he start asking you about making babies, ask him about getting married and watch how quickly his story changes...
@missnlahi Жыл бұрын
**snap, snap** the men never call their selves to improvement
@cosmicreef5858 Жыл бұрын
Not a goal or desire AT ALL It is a CHOICE made by people who are ACTUALLY READY to HELP a brand new life to bloom If you can not raise children yourself then you have NO RIGHTS to complain about others not being able to do the same If you DO know then you understood how gigantic of a responsibility it is and would not make dumb comments in the first place
@ms.pirate10 ай бұрын
We have over 8 billion humans on the planet. What is there to be afraid of? We aren't going to be extincted! If people want children they'll have children! Its better to not have abusive parents of children they never wanted in the first place! It breaks my hearts seeing kids who are so abused by their parents. If anyone don't want kids, don't have them. Don't listen to society. We don't need traumatized adults who were abused from a young age
@monikakaushal57427 ай бұрын
Not to mention the complications in childbirth, surgery and still expected to be a perfect partner admist everything. The c - section puts a woman's body to hell.
@KevinSamuelsPowerBottom Жыл бұрын
It's so wild how men need women to feel validated via motherhood in order to mask the fact that their need to feel needed is validated by rooting her via motherhood. I do not desire struggle motherhood.
@ebonyeyes22 Жыл бұрын
I love the Thumbnail picture
@greenytaddict Жыл бұрын
Hey Kitten😆
@zee608 Жыл бұрын
Oh love you profile pic🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@dw6317 Жыл бұрын
Men seems to be worried about everything we do and don’t do all while simultaneously not contributing to absolutely nothing.
@michelleandreya720811 ай бұрын
Right! That part🤷🏿♀️
@lunam3311 ай бұрын
100! Even the data shows they are a net negative, literally a man is a liability at this point. And they want you to take on this liability, sacrifice yourself, while they have literally nothing of value to offer, not even on a sexual level because most women fake orgasms, and they refuse to acknowledge that they are a problem and they need to evolve, and they will get violent about it, that why nature is trying to delete them, and they can't see the writing on the wall because they think the universe centers around the male. It doesn't!
@1675loof11 ай бұрын
They are crazy hysterical dogs
@crestfire800810 ай бұрын
Men 🍼
@jaetarminks14969 ай бұрын
Typical men
@FlamyMcMuffn Жыл бұрын
I'm 41, single, childfree, and I'm so happy I didn't let people guilt me into having kids and a husband that I NEVER wanted. And here's something to consider, perhaps our foremothers did not want kids but didn't have a choice. Perhaps they are happy that we get to make the choices that are best for US and don't have to do what some funky ass man wants us to do. If you know you don't want kids, you won't suddenly want them at 40. That's a LIE people tell because they want you to be miserable, or they just dont know any better. 🤣 My mom and I are super close, and she has always been a wonderful mom. I recently said to her "motherhood seems like slavery to me". She paused, thought about it, and said "it is." And we chuckled gleefully as we enjoyed shopping without wrangling kids. Ladies, please live your lives for you and do wtf you want.
@Lilzki Жыл бұрын
Well said. I don’t understand how anyone feels that it is their right to tell you how to live your life. As a woman I often find myself in a position trying to defend myself against all the crap that men say women should do or he like. It is so exhausting. Maybe we should go around telling these type of lunatic men not to have children, let them deal with people telling them what to do for a change !
@kaylawaters269111 ай бұрын
Same to all of this. I am the same age and thankfully childfree. I will play with cute babies or buy them stuff (maybe) but never had a desire to have babies or a husband.
@corainight537810 ай бұрын
Ty for this.
@ms.pirate10 ай бұрын
I don't want to have any partner, I don't even wanna make children ether. I rather adopt or be child free. I'm so confused on this so I need too hear the child free arguments. I'm 23, and I don't want kids in my 20s, I'm way too young to be a mom
@ms.pirate10 ай бұрын
@@Lilzki men see's women as robot maids that makes babies while looking h0t. Yes, objects. Why not see men the same way they see us?
@liveesunflower Жыл бұрын
I just hate how men like him pretend to care about our regrets. Like please
@DeemanThomasАй бұрын
I bet he got lots of 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎 on his video
@rthcats2 Жыл бұрын
I felt insulted when that guy called women liars for not wanting children. Some of us have genetic health problems that we do not want to risk passing down to our offspring. That man needs to go do his homework!
@magnarcreed3801 Жыл бұрын
This! It’s so selfish to do that and people still just want women to breed!
@HannaBenana11 ай бұрын
Agreed
@magnarcreed380111 ай бұрын
@@1675loof Or women that were stupid and are now miserable.
@1675loof11 ай бұрын
@@magnarcreed3801 that is also true. Stupid people definitely exist. But those usually aren't the ones going around fear mongering childfree women that "the clock is ticking. When You hit the wall you'll regret it. You"ll be lonely and sad. You're undesirable that's why y got no kids and husband"... Ect
@xitzbit92611 ай бұрын
The only ones who are lying (constantly) are men.
@Fat-bananas Жыл бұрын
As a man who doesnt want children, i support women who wish to remain childree as well. No one openly talks about the difficulties, the stress, the financial hit, the complete change in lifestyle you need to incur when you have kids. For whatever reason you do or dont want children, NO ONE should be scrutinized for making their own personal choices that are of no consequence or detriment to anyone else.
@airilove17 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Men are not pressured to have children the way women are. Men have the easier job of making children. Women can literally die from it. A hard pass. Also I don't like pain.😂
@melindaharrington6632 Жыл бұрын
Hi. Not to be in your business but do you (or have) get backlash or interrogated like us CF by Choice women?
@biashacker9 ай бұрын
I am a man, I am with you. I am never having kids because this world is terrible and is not getting any better. Women should not be forced to have kids for the reasons you explained above. In addition, what I have experienced in life is that people want you to do many things, including having kids, but never seem to be around when you need help. The whole thing is a farce. It is simply a control mechanism.
@NotFound-d1z7 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊🦋
@elaineoliver2901 Жыл бұрын
I bet that boy speaking about women not wanting kids was absolutely FLABBERGASTED when he told a girl he wanted her to have his child and she flat out refused. He couldn't understand why she wouldn't want to even though EVERYBODY watching this can totally see why not. I don't have or want kids, never have. I'm 36, unmarried, self-employed, and happy with my life.
@sophiam9886 Жыл бұрын
To add insult to injury, this dude is sitting up there ranting about wom&n not wanting to reproduce. Yet, he looks and sounds slow.😅 It's definitely obvious why he's not able to trap a wom¤n with his baby.😩🤣🤣
@lmusima3275 Жыл бұрын
I’m 45, single and childless. Although I love children as I have nieces and nephews, I’m ok bring childless. I live my own life without stress and drama 🎭
@Raddiebaddie Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@jewdy891511 ай бұрын
I’m you in 9 years. I paid $700 for heating oil and $500 for car insurance yesterday before picking up my dog at the vet because the little idiot scratched his tonsil chewing a stick to the tune of $550. If I had kids, that large unexpected bill would have hurt on the heels of the large expected ones. And there would be more of both bills! Financial stability is so much easier without so many burdens on your finances.
@darcy57619 ай бұрын
I've talked with many women and while most of the mothers regretted giving up their dreams to have children,not one child free woman regretted her decision.
@lythris1622 Жыл бұрын
I've had 4 kids. I love the people my kids have become, but the job of motherhood sucks. No amount of "motherly" love makes the job easier, and let's face it - MEN DON'T PULL THEIR FAIR SHARE OF RAISING KIDS AND KEEPING THE HOUSE. I've always worked outside the house, and my day ended when the kids went to sleep, but Dad's day ended once his job shift was over. In fact, the father of the kids made MORE work for me than when I was a single mom. Men are a dead weight, so if their really this butt-hurt about women not having their kids, maybe they should provide women an incentive. And no, your penis and your personality is not an incentive - there's nothing special about it.
@magnarcreed3801 Жыл бұрын
Hope you dropped the man child.
@mapulemaake7129 Жыл бұрын
Preach
@bunnitrixelstrange3594 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@AsMo888811 ай бұрын
FACTS
@theteleisewilliamsexperience11 ай бұрын
When I was married I did zero housework, my ex husband was still a piece of 💩
@theMermaidRhonda Жыл бұрын
I always find it funny when a man thinks he knows what women want in life. I've been with the same man for 31 years, married for going on 28 and neither of us ever wanted kids. I grew up in a good, stable home and my parents are still married and happy. They both helped me and my brother with our homework, took us to baseball games and recitals, etc, and yet, I never had the desire to be a mother. Not once. Not when I was in my twenties, not when my husband and I had been married for a few years, not when I hit forty and not even now, at 56. I have absolutely no regrets. My brother had three kids and I love them dearly. A lot of my friends have kids and they're all great, but it never made me want one of my own. My husband and I rescue cats and we're completely happy. I can honestly say we have never had a huge fight and we love being able to go on vacation whenever we decide to. Never let society dictate what you need to do...do what makes YOU happy! :)
@unicorn73212 Жыл бұрын
Relationships are actually better without kids in the way. I never had kids and me and my boyfriend have a great relationship going on 10 years now. My aunt never had kids either and now her and her husband are living off an inheritance from my grandmother and they have a farm with horses in it. You can't have all that with kids in the way because a lot of times your life gets put on hold and you can never really buy anything for yourself other than food and hygeine products. Having low fertility is a blessing from God. I'm not sure why some of them push for kids because the uterous does not work on your husband's command. If it doesn't like you it will reject you.
@selliepaddie2066 Жыл бұрын
And there's literally nothing wrong with that, that's great, people are acting like you have to have kids but it's more of a take it or leave it thing and I don't think either is wrong if it's what makes you happy, people need to mind their own business lol
@jadibdraws Жыл бұрын
I've also never had a desire to be a mom nor to get married to be completely honest and that came from seeing how literally every single woman around me was being muled & mistreated in their marriages. And its crazy how many ppl have tried to convince me otherwise, like, why are you trying to force me to make major life decisions that I have to live with and you don't?
@Raddiebaddie Жыл бұрын
I love hearing from others who have made this choice before. It’s so validating because I’ve never wanted kids either. I love kids in small doses like nieces, nephews, students, friends kids, but I absolutely love my free time more and have never had the desire to birth or raise children in my own house
@chocolatedaisy Жыл бұрын
Saaame, I don't believe that guy in the vid when he said "you'll regret it in your 40s" because I actually decided I didn't want kids WHEN I was a kid at 8 years old lmao. And that hasn't changed and I'm 34 now, and have not ever had a desire for kids. I don't think that's gonna suddenly change in my 40s 😂
@FireSilver25 Жыл бұрын
I’m 47, had lots of men try to tie me down and being child free is the BEST decision I ever made. My life is sooooo peaceful and fun. I look n feel ten years younger, can travel, have hobbies, only have to cook/clean for myself, have lots of great friends, and my maternal instincts go to my garden. I’m sure I’m happier n better off than most married mothers out there.
@MariaDavids Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@chaneldiva8484 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like the good life. Im 39 with no kids. Life gets even better with no kids I see 😊
@C4TC4T7 ай бұрын
Honestly that sounds so fun! Do you have any pets? Your lifestyle sounds like how I might want mine in the future, except I want a few cats 🙂
@briparker5914 Жыл бұрын
I met a LOT of men who "wanted" to have children but had no idea what the father role entailed or meant for themselves. They just wanted to MAKE children. I watched men almost recoil at my interest in wanting a capable father who had an active goal to raise a baby into a successful adult. A 25 year+, 24/7 Role. The actual truth is that our lack of rites of passage for men has led to so many men, who should never have gotten the chance to even touch a woman, making children they are jealous of, hateful toward, or emotional detached from. Women who don't want children are seeing the society men have built around parenthood from the female perspective and the cost-benefit analysis isn't benefiting them well enough.
@chrissy430111 ай бұрын
*chef's kiss* Sad yet well put.
@specialtwice497511 ай бұрын
As a kid I watched my mom struggle as a single parent just to make ends meet. My dad would pick us up from school, on his days off, then plop himself onto the couch, and relax with his feet up, watching football on our tv. (Which wasted electricity) Then my mom would come home, exhausted from an 8 hour shift, and see 1/4 of the food in the fridge gone and a mess of wrappers and junk food in the living room. Why? Because my dad ate all the food. "What? I wanted a snack." was his response. He took barely any part in raising us and only did what he wanted. Once in a while, he would take us to the movies or out to macdonalds, but that was only when he felt like it/when he was free. All his neighbors and friends would say "Awwww, what a great dad!" But in reality he didn't even help with homework or buy us clothes at Walmart. "Well, can't your mom do that?" would be his response. Fast forward 20 years, and I'm grown up. Now one of my siblings doesn't talk to him, at all, and I barely talk to him.
@dian27710 ай бұрын
technically, men will have to do more than women either making more money, do more house work or spend more time with their children, to make it truly equal, because men can never be equal with women in sharing the work of pregnancy and child birth and the risk they came with.
@unionunicorn677610 ай бұрын
There almost zero benefits to having children, especially in the USA. That’s why the just straight up said if you get pregnant, forced birth. No exceptions. God forbid they actually tried to make motherhood any less of a burden or living hell for women, oh no. Let’s just force them into it like Handmaid’s Tale…
@biashacker9 ай бұрын
You are right about that.
@MissEbo1985 Жыл бұрын
All of the women were absolutely right & finally a real man who understands why some women dont want kids. Men be making kids creating broken homes then go on to the next woman & have the nerve to speak on childfree women 😂. Thats why we women push hard for the degrees, great jobs etc so we are financially secure in our future so we wont be stuck. Some men are really afraid that their "legacy" will die thats really what its all about.
@queeniequeen949 Жыл бұрын
This. THIS is the NUMBER reason I’m childfree and single BY CHOICE!!!! I refuse and I’ll be damned if I allow ANY man to put me in a position where I’d end up with a child and I can’t count on him for support. It’s NOT worth the risk for me. If it takes 2 to make a family it should take 2 to raise and maintain a family. A skyscraper can’t be built by ONE person. I CANNOT do it all!! Husband or NO husband. PERIOD.
@attitudeproblem6462 Жыл бұрын
A “legacy” that they have _no intentions_ of helping to cultivate.😒🙄 And if/when the child(ren) grows up and makes the wrong choices, they’re going to blame it on _mama!_ It’s gon’ be allll *her* fault! 😒🖕🏾
@queeniequeen949 Жыл бұрын
@@attitudeproblem6462 yessssss!!! Well freaking said! 🥰🙌🏾💯
@MissEbo1985 Жыл бұрын
@@attitudeproblem6462 exactly women get blamed for everything smh
@magau3698 Жыл бұрын
Well. Some legacies should not even continue. These men today are horrific
@cassidyhector9958 Жыл бұрын
The fact he said not wanting kids is an insult to all mothers is such a failed manipulative attempt at making women feel bad for not wanting kids. 😂
@denesejamerson235611 ай бұрын
Will only work on a weak minded woman.
@Kingofthenet211 ай бұрын
I know right. It’s a gross and twisted way of manipulating us. Absolutely appalling
@happyhoochie Жыл бұрын
I love that they've convinced themselves that women are created for motherhood and we will want children eventually.. These men will have an ontological crisis when they learn that child free life is the happiest a woman could live.😅 They've convinced themselves of so many lies about women.
@lunam3311 ай бұрын
They think the universe centers around them because of patriarchy that they didn't take the time to consider that women are actual real human beings. its so dehumanizing and disgusting. They literally see women as objects to be used and nothing else, that is why they have no empathy for women or consider her needs and wants, because its all his selfish ego. Men are like the lowest life form on the planet, even an animal shows more empathy than a human male. A dog as companion is better.
@darcy57613 ай бұрын
They need a woman trapped with kids to take care of him the big whiny man baby.
@starry446 Жыл бұрын
Why are they so concerned with people that they don't want to support or care for?
@debrameyer1125 Жыл бұрын
This man is so mad because women don't want him. They won't let men control them and leave them while they move on to the next girl. Women are done being poor, barefoot and pregnant.
@darcy57613 ай бұрын
100%true!
@user-on7go6qc5w11 ай бұрын
Men complain about women not wanting kids,but dont even be sticking around to raise theirs.
@leonildes86 Жыл бұрын
They act like they’ve spoken to every 40 year old child free women about this. I have spoken to some and haven’t met one that has regretted not having children. They also are the most vibrant beings I have met. It’s crazy how opposite it is to what men claim.
@jesmey4902 Жыл бұрын
Yep, 45 here and since I was 15 I knew I never want children. Not once a single thought or regret in these 30 years. These men are just desperate that they never get a woman and lash out to get the younger ladies insecure enough to change their minds.
@gemmad-m3083 Жыл бұрын
Also, they speak like at 40 you are supposed to go through menopause. They say at 40 you gonna want kid ? Then so if I want im gonna have kids. But the manosphere tells to them that menopause is at 30 and never they opened a book 😂 Then you have child after 40 the same guys gonna tell you, you are too old to be a mother... but we dont give a F... 💅
@wrenbyrd1093 Жыл бұрын
@@gemmad-m3083I agree with what you say but my mother had me a little older than other women (36) and it causes problems when the child ages. Each 5-10 years older you are having a kid takes that many years away from the child and their grandparents/parents. I really think about it now since my mother is mid-70’s and if she’d had me at 25 she would be 11 years younger. That’s a lot of time with family that’s stolen. Then you are young with more dead family members which is sad. Just something to think about when having kids when older. I’ve got health problems with no kids and no intention to have any, personality. I can’t take care of them.
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 Жыл бұрын
@@wrenbyrd1093people can die at any age. I know someone who lost their mother at 16 and father at 18 & they weren’t in their 70s. Some people have great grandparents that died at 95, some have parents that died at 45. It is what it is.
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 Жыл бұрын
@@gemmad-m3083exactly my mother had a child at 44 😂 a woman can still have kids in her 40s.
@legslikewhoa Жыл бұрын
Plenty of women would want kids if we could be the Disney Dad. 🐸 🍵 But as it stands, it’s a trap for women to make the sacrifice of their bodies to pregnancy, motherhood, and permanent career/ retirement setback. The fact that Stuffy is trying to speak for mothers is insane. More proof that men choose not to hear women’s voices. We all know the unfair sacrifice, lonliness, and misery that women have faced being the primary caregiver to children with no help from a purposely incompetent/ emotionally unavailable husband, or worse, abandonment! Nothing is stopping HIM from fostering children if he thinks it’s so enriching. I’ll wait.
@biomedlib Жыл бұрын
Well put...
@cosmicreef5858 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@unionunicorn677610 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@nalanimulcahy845110 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@darcy57619 ай бұрын
Sorry,a caring for or caring about the children you created is woman's work
@toscadonna11 ай бұрын
Actually, the older I got , and the more male fuckery I encountered, the less I wanted children. I started out wanting children and to be a good wife at age 17. I didn’t meet males with the same aspirations to be a good parent and partner. Each male I met that was acting like a cretin made me realize that being single is freedom. It’s wonderful to not be crying over the antics of some male and being abandoned by a male after you’ve had his child is one of the worst things I can imagine.
@nicolewong5971 Жыл бұрын
When my grandmothers were young... There wasn't options for birth control... Some people are so delusional to think the world couldn't exist without them
@biomedlib Жыл бұрын
I'm a 72 years young BW. My grandmother became aware that birth control(BC) was available when she was a housekeeper for WW. After she had my uncle, at 36 years young, she shared the BC information with her physician. He told her she was mistaken. So, my grandmother saved her coins and purchased twin beds. When my grandparents retired for the evening, my grandmother pointed out which bed my grandfather was sleeping in.😊😊 My uncle was her last child. My mother is the remaining living child of six children.
@indigoGoddess7 Жыл бұрын
My paternal grandmother RIP openly admitted that if birth control was accessible to her, she probably wouldn’t have had any kids.
@1675loof11 ай бұрын
@@indigoGoddess7might her soul RIP
@milliontimesover218010 ай бұрын
@biomedlib omg they denied BC to us too😢
@biomedlib10 ай бұрын
@@milliontimesover2180 Yes. The more children the poor have, their future is poverty.
@isabelmariaguzmanmiranda70610 ай бұрын
"Being respected by a man is more important than being desired". I can't believe it's taken some women all these years to relalize this. Kudos for realizing that.
@goldeneye8913 Жыл бұрын
So butt hurt you'd think he was getting paid smh
@Sesj02 Жыл бұрын
After watching my mom have several mental breakdowns as a child over the stress of taking care of 5 kids I knew motherhood would never be for me
@leli470010 ай бұрын
I had breakdown even with 1 child.
@FNFIHOCTW Жыл бұрын
My Mom and Grandma went through drama and terrible husbands! These men sound scared that they wont find anyone to bear their babies while they do whatever they want!
@Pompomeranian711 ай бұрын
The reason men don't like child free women is that they don't have a way to establish control over her. Lots of abusive men use their children to manipulate the woman, keep her too exhausted with childcare and broke from continued pregnancy and inability to work to find a way out from under his thumb. She becomes financially dependent on him and will stay with him longer "for the kids"
@Polecat-qz5om Жыл бұрын
Can we just make the men have it
@maam-yj8ph Жыл бұрын
I agree. We need to flip the script as far as men need to prove by their actions that they actually want to be fathers.
@savagesweetheart90 Жыл бұрын
Please, they'll be complaining WAY more than us about the entire process 😂
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
That's a great idea 😂🤣👍
@MariaDavids Жыл бұрын
😀😀😀
@geneford3423 Жыл бұрын
Because the human race would die out. Them po' babies can't even deal with a common cold 😂
@xxwoman Жыл бұрын
His faux concern for women is disgusting. What he’s doing is a perfect example of gaslighting. He’s whining like a baby and throwing a public tantrum because he’s not getting what HE WANTS. Period.
@CatsOverBrats Жыл бұрын
I'm 42. No regrets. Never wanted children, never will. People need to stop spreading the myth that we'll regret not having children. A child should be 100% wanted. There's a 0% want here.
@RIP1985111 ай бұрын
I am 38 male and I don’t want children it’s my choice
@SardineNipplesXX Жыл бұрын
A “friend” said that the only thing a woman can give him is a child. That’s it. No companionship, love, etc. Nothing. 😒😒
@emmamartin404511 ай бұрын
Let’s hope none of us gives him one.
@SardineNipplesXX11 ай бұрын
@@emmamartin4045 I hope not, there’s a reason why he’s 37 and still single lol.
@LunarDeity Жыл бұрын
I'm 52. Never wanted kids and have no regrets. My 59 year old husband feels the same. It such bullshit some random man trying to tell a woman how she should feel or not feel about having children. They're so ignorant. No one gets to tell us how we feel or think.
@GG-tg5ub Жыл бұрын
I've known since middle school that I never wanted kids. Currently, 48 with a full bank account, able to travel, sleep in and do whatever I want. Absolutely zero regrets.
@77Tadams Жыл бұрын
You do not have to have kids as a woman to live a good life.
@queenartly3323 Жыл бұрын
My question is: does he have kids? Or is he planning to raise children in the future and be active father?
@sheilagorney5909 Жыл бұрын
It’s not “bared” It’s “bore.” He needs to focus on English and stay out of women’s business.
@billybobkumar9231 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@biomedlib Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@monas6 ай бұрын
😂
@marieo3055 ай бұрын
Was looking for this comment. As a european (english= 3rd language) this irked me so much.
@weathamorris4251 Жыл бұрын
Women want children the problem is a lot of these men aren’t ready or willing to make the same sacrifices women make. They speak from both their mouths by telling us we choose wrong when they leave us with the kids they created with us. Men leave and never look back on the children they create and wonder why more women are opting out of motherhood.
@RepentImmediately Жыл бұрын
A lot of women, including those who have children, don't want children
@thomaslawrence63537 ай бұрын
As a man, I cannot even comprehend what is must be like to bear a child and as such I do not blame any woman for choosing to not have any kids. What I can comprehend is how misogynistic, unhinged, narcissistic, controlling, arrogant, condescending, deluded, immature and creepy it is to berate women (or men even) for simply having no desire or intentions of ever having kids.
@emocoffeedarklord Жыл бұрын
I love women sticking up to the man. They created their own problems, and they can sit with it. ❤
@detectivemittens3114 Жыл бұрын
"when youre 40 you'll want kids" .. 40 year old woman here... NOPE, I'm good, living my best life with my bf and 2 cats... getting plenty of sleep and living stressfree :)
@pce12345 Жыл бұрын
Love it ❤
@apopuffkin1717 Жыл бұрын
To be honest, I don't know how some do it at 40, there is no way I wanted to be chasing toddlers while I'm over 40 years old. Told my grown kids, if they have kids after I am 50 - don't expect overnight babysitting. I'm 45 now and can only handle the young nieces/nephews for a few hours at a time and then I have to give them back before my patience and energy run out.
@denesejamerson235611 ай бұрын
63 yrs old here, childless and at peace with my life. Come and go as I please, cook when I wanna can drive a new car every 4yrs with the money I make make house repairs with my money Take trips when I wanna Only worry I have is running into men who are in-appropriate and dangerous!
@talkswithcookie Жыл бұрын
I have a high school friend that I recently reconnected with 😂😂😂😂 this man has 7 children and offered for me to be a stay at home mom and give him 3 more 😂😂😂😂 when I told him hell no I don’t want that life he ‘had a call come in’ even though we were on ft and for those who use ft you know when someone has a call and it was a bold face lie. We haven’t spoke since 😂😂😂
@tiffanymcdaniels5652 Жыл бұрын
Chile..
@ohhshitimhere5162 Жыл бұрын
You can have kids in your 40's. Women do it all the time, it happens more than you think. It's not impossible, it blows my mind when I hear anyone say that by the time a woman is 35 tops, that's her last chance to have a child. Until you officially hit meta pause, you can have kids. Your fertile to have kids until you hit meta pause. My mom just turned 49 and is still getting her periods and cramps every month just like when she was in her 20's. I'm 26 now and I do want to have at least one kid, but not for a while. I'm very comfortable and okay with having a child when I'm in my 40's. And if it doesn't happen, well I rather regret not having kids then regret having kids when I wasn't ready and not with the right man.
@petttroville5510 Жыл бұрын
@@mindoabluesseems like that's her risk to take and not some man trying to explain female fertility FYI nobody cares anymore and women don't need to push children out. Having children later doesn't necessarily mean she will carry. Age begets financial security so a surrogate is always a choice we live in 2023. 😒
@petttroville5510 Жыл бұрын
@@mindoablues a life will be on the line regardless. The OPs if she has a kid young or old and the surrogates. Birthing children isn't easy for anyone and if someone wants to be paid for using their womb, why not? Not a very good reason why a woman should have children younger. BTW you can still have children with down syndrome and autism while young. If you're really a woman then you should know all of this already.
@petttroville5510 Жыл бұрын
@@mindoablues I didnt miss your point. I pushed back by saying those complications can happen to anyone regardless of age and I suggested solutions around those complications love.
@petttroville5510 Жыл бұрын
@@mindoablues oh I saw it thought it was silly since you do not know every older parent that have kids. It was opinion not fact.
@petttroville5510 Жыл бұрын
@@mindoablues happens every day. I buried my mother at 13, she was 40 and had me at 27. My father buried both his parents at 12 and he is from the Caribbean, they start having children in their teens. Life isnt guaranteed to anybody, a child can bury their parent at any age. As for a woman choosing to have kids in her 40s, you dont know her fitness level or how her health is. You have no idea what you say is true. You have assumptions and anecdotal data which isn't data at all.
@StushgyalTV Жыл бұрын
As a woman with a child 😂😂😂😂😂😂 women stay strong DO NOT BARE their children!!!!!!! F*** them 💪🏿✊🏿👍🏿 good job women!!!! Happy for y’all ❤❤❤❤
@camiba677310 ай бұрын
Say it again for the people in the back
@shaypope4732 Жыл бұрын
It's a 24/7 thankless job lol why would anyone sign up for that...i bet if men had to push them out they would change their minds
@tricieb.5921 Жыл бұрын
It's funny how these men who are worried about childfree women don't have the same care factor when it comes to their baby mamas and wives.
@denesejamerson235611 ай бұрын
Them fools just wanna say they have a child and that's all they have to show for their pitiful existence! YEAH I said it!
@lilycollegemythbusters5532 Жыл бұрын
I am childfree by choice, had my tubes tied when I was 37 years old. Now I am 48 years old and loving life!
@saliormoon553411 ай бұрын
😊
@queeniequeen949 Жыл бұрын
9:02 This. THIS is why I’m single and childfree by choice!!!!!!! I can’t be bothered with the fact that there is a possibility that I could be a single mother regardless of whether I get married or not. I was raised by a single mother and grandmother and NEVER had a relationship with my dad. I don’t understand why I would be expected to destroy MY BODY in order to create life because someone else wanted ME to have children more than I ever did. Then most of the work of being a parent will fall on ME if the relationship/marriage does not work out. My potential husband/baby daddy would be out living HIS best life like his “legacy kids” do not exist while I gotta freaking struggle to maintain and raise the family that most people say they want. Some people want the title of a parent but none of the responsibilities that come with it. I REFUSE to be in a position to have children and can’t count on my potential husband/baby daddy for support even if he WAS there. HARD PASS!!! 🙅🏾♀️🚫🙅🏾♀️🚫🙅🏾♀️🚫🙅🏾♀️🚫#childfreeforlife #cantdoitall #comeforme #idgaf #notimeforit #stayoutmyuterus #pleaseandthankyou
@AntoinetteMarie530 Жыл бұрын
You're a smart woman
@queeniequeen949 Жыл бұрын
@@AntoinetteMarie530 thank you!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@Tee-Star Жыл бұрын
That's where a sperm bank comes in, for those having the concerns u have. Unless not having kids is your choice, regardless of whether u have a good man or not.
@queeniequeen949 Жыл бұрын
@@Tee-Star If you are suggesting that I use a “sPeRm BaNk” in order to have a child I DON’T want, then honey, you got another thing coming. NO Ma’am!! Absolutely NOT. I will NEVER carry and have a child by a man who I possibly will never meet. I will NEVER carry and have a child by a man who is NOT MY HUSBAND and will NEVER be there to help shoulder that responsibility of child rearing. I surely WILL NOT have children out of wedlock either. Even if I have a desire to have children I will be MARRIED first. If me and a potential husband can’t work together as a team to build a home and family, I don’t see ANY benefit of having one. I realize that there is a possibility that we could get a divorce or the potential husband will pass away. I don’t have the time or the desire to find that out. I’ll pass away one day too and I didn’t ask to be here. I didn’t ask to have to grow up without a dad. It wouldn’t be fair to ANY child to be born to parents who didn’t want him/her. I will stick with my choice to be child free for the foreseeable future. Thanks for your concern but NO ma’am. 🙅🏾♀️👎🏾🚫
@LadyCoyKoi Жыл бұрын
#NoMore
@asiatic_lily_kitty4819 Жыл бұрын
I don't want kids for a couple of reasons, 1. This world 2. I don't want to pass down the trauma that my own mom gave me 3. I'm not mentally ready or financially ready
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 Жыл бұрын
If men think it’s “unrealistic” for a man to be able to pay all the bills then I don’t understand the urgency in having kids. If you cannot even afford to financial take care of yourself, let alone your wife, what makes you think you’re going to be able to financially afford a kid? Which means that you as a man, expect a woman to not only financially contribute to the household in order to elevate you in your financial burden, she is also expected to work in order to afford to take care of the kid that you want to have. Men still think that a woman’s ultimate and most fulfilling role is domestic servitude to him and “his” (cause it’s “his” legacy) yet can’t afford a woman to be a *domestic* (as in stay at home) servant. They want us to go to work, help them with bills, and have the child all while being the main caregiver to them and the kids allllll while STILL wanting to be seen as the “man” of the house.
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
How dare any man judge a woman who doesn't want to have children I made the decision to never have children because I don't want to repeat the dysfunctional cycle like my parents did especially my father he was a horrible father to me and my brother and half brother because all he wanted to do was sleep around and do drugs he was in and out of jail most of my childhood
@Lilzki Жыл бұрын
Exactly how dare they judge a woman for not wanting children. Perhaps it is time we turned the tables and told these types of men not to have children
@RavancheII Жыл бұрын
I don't feel bothered in the least by the fact that I am childfree by choice. Choice. What a Beautiful Right.
@ebonyeyes22 Жыл бұрын
Alot of men are scared of that, hence why roe vs wade was overturned
@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Жыл бұрын
Which was a stupid decision that was made. They think we are the women of the past. We will go without sex before we end up having kids we don’t want leaving them even more like an incel or forced to have sex with one another
@airilove17 Жыл бұрын
Which is actually backfiring. This is only going to increase the number of women not wanting children. There's nothing they can do to convince women to want reproduce with heartless creatures.
@ebonyeyes22 Жыл бұрын
@@airilove17 amen girl
@Nightmaregnosis Жыл бұрын
@@airilove17exactly, more of us are realizing that casual sex benefits men more than us and that we can achieve pleasure on our own and avoid unwanted pregnancy 🤗
@magnarcreed3801 Жыл бұрын
@@Nightmaregnosis Yep. And for us lucky women, other women! XD
@awg7068 Жыл бұрын
I'm a mom, I'm perfectly fine that my daughter doesn't want kids, and is focusing on her career. My cousin, who is 50 and passed on marriage and kids, had a wonderful life. She looks half her age, and is free as a bird to do whatever she wants. Men don't help enough with raising kids, I look older than I am because my ex couldn't be bothered to participate in the marriage and family stuff that he helped produce. IF men want kids, let them adopt. Everything the women said in this video is 100% true.
@whitneyrful Жыл бұрын
Hahaha…..My grandmother was told to drop out school and find a husband. My grandmother was very pissed off that not 1 but 3 of her husbands left her with the children she had with them. They went off to start new families and were not very active in their children’s lives and started new families. All of my aunts and uncles except 1 uncle had children out of wedlock because they saw it didn’t matter if they were married. Now my cousins and I, 8 of us have no children and are not married we only have bf and gfs. All of us have made sure to not repeat what has happened in the past. Yeah we’d like to be married but we are making sure it is with the right person.
@naediggs4816 Жыл бұрын
Do any of these uncles hound you guys, asking why there are no children??
@coreymyers7409 Жыл бұрын
Nope my womb is closed to black men.
@T-Law. Жыл бұрын
Mines just closed. Nope. Never having kids.
@melanatedthinking Жыл бұрын
Same here 😂 no BM allowed ✋🏾🛑 for those of y’all saying it’s not all of them. I don’t care. It’s the majority.
@swiitdoll Жыл бұрын
Mine is closed to ALL men.
@The_torero Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Thequeensavedthequeen11 ай бұрын
Mine is closed to all males! My grandma told me, “All men are the same just pick a face and wallet that you like.”
@talkswithcookie Жыл бұрын
He can’t even fully articulate his words so I wouldn’t even care what he’s saying. Lmfao the fact that they think this hasn’t BEEN a thing but is just advertised on social media is funny as hell. My grandmother on my fathers side had 10 children, 8 girls and 6 DID NOT have children lol like nobody cared.
@toicarter5525 Жыл бұрын
and there are some hereditary conditions they could pass down to there children they don't want their children to inherit.
@toicarter5525 Жыл бұрын
😊
@toicarter5525 Жыл бұрын
😊
@NaunetBastet Жыл бұрын
Woman in my 40s here, don't regret not having kids for even one second. But I do love to hear from these young male 'experts' who know best about what 40 year old women want 😂😂😂 This video can be summed up as 'young male shocked to discover women arent a hive mind that only care about doing what men want'
@Bitter_Fact Жыл бұрын
How is he going to tell ME what I want?
@maddart4445 Жыл бұрын
I can’t afford kids. I always saw marriage as slavery and never wanted to be a single mother.
@ameekasoar11 ай бұрын
They took away abortion rights so women closed the shop. As they should
@Lokian_Mermaid Жыл бұрын
Having children isn't for everyone. A child is a LIFE, not a trophy or toy to show off. Many ppl know their limits and they're doing the right thing by not having their own children. I love kids and had two. They were MY dream but I'm smart enough to grasp that life isn't "one size fits all". Humans are individuals with different dreams and goals. My children don't want their own kids and I have no issue with that. I didn't bring them into the world with an expectation for them to be my own personal surrogates. I want them to be good ppl and to lead happy lives. Leave the parenting to those of us that want it. The less f-ed up ppl have kids, the less f-ed up kids there will be that grow into f-ed uped adults. The more mentally stable ppl in the world, the better world it'll be.
@amymarquess818810 ай бұрын
I love this comment, and it kind of describes my worldview. I don't want to perpetuate the damage that I went through, and I don't trust myself to be a good parent and raise kids well, at least not as the primary parent. I struggle enough just to keep myself together. I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if I fucked a child up.
@AL-bv7jt Жыл бұрын
50 year old woman here.🙋🏻♀️ I’m child free, with no regrets. I’m post menopausal and happy, happy, happy.
@chrissy430111 ай бұрын
These type of men are not seeking a legacy, but an anchor for a bang maid to mommy them. It has nothing to do with actually caring about children or they would scold their own to shape up, step up and be a good parent.
@VeeKayGreenerGrass Жыл бұрын
We still don't want kids.
@PatriciaGrady-tl5qh10 ай бұрын
They want women to have babies but they always abandon them . Make it Make sense !!!
@catarena8031 Жыл бұрын
Let him seethe and cope. Men like this are choosing to suffer knowing there are women out there who, hypocritically, won't take his seed and I have no empathy for them when reality hits.
@Hannah-nm6bn Жыл бұрын
I bet this young man think that earth is flat....
@maef7026 Жыл бұрын
On the other hand, when a woman does decide to have a child and she's going through pregnancy, sometimes the man is all upset that nobody is acknowledging how he contributed to her pregnency. Like... Dude... Are you really trying to hold you c*mming for a few seconds at the same level as a woman going through a pregnancy for 9 months and then giving birth? What do you expect other people to say? "Wow, Steve, you really c*me hard."
@airilove17 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 Like they have it so bad. They have the easiest job of making children. 😂
@maef7026 Жыл бұрын
@@airilove17 Woman: " Im pregnant." / The husband: "No! WE are pregnant." Boy, STFU.
@canesugar911 Жыл бұрын
Ikr. Like God forbid someone else is getting attention. They always try to insert themselves with their made up suffering. Even worse,those that are jealous of the attention their children are getting. Imagine being jealous of an infant 😭
@amymarquess818810 ай бұрын
"Wow Steve, you really c*me hard" ☠️
@juliebella12219 ай бұрын
😂😂😂Those be the buttons for the men at the baby shower..."Wow, Steve, you really c*me hard." How about some hard candy to celebrate your hard word Steve. 😂😂
@sarahtrickey534510 ай бұрын
I'm 50, and a mom, but I wanted to be a mom. I know quite a few women of all ages who chose, or are actively choosing to be and remain childfree. They're all happy. Good for them!! Motherhood isn't for everyone, and to say that choosing to not be a mom is a slap in the face of one's foremothers is entitled and severely undereducated on the topic. Women throughout history have been killed for speaking out against forced marriage and rape. Quite a few of our mothers and grandmothers were forced into marriage and motherhood against their will - and nearly every single one of them wanted choice for their daughters. Our foremothers are rejoicing for the women of today and our ability to choose for ourselves. If women's choices frighten men, so be it.
@juliebella12219 ай бұрын
When people say they had bad Mothers, oftentimes, the women was bread against her will, either due to society or religion. Why should any woman love or care for a child that was put inside of her by force? Majority of unloved by their Mothers....their Mothers didn't have a choice, so get over the fact that she doesn't love you, or want you. You literally ruined her body and entire life...why would she even like you? The disconnect between how babies are created and Mothers actually wanting them is beyond illogical. If he left her with the entire burden of raising the child in poverty, why would she be happy? He gets a pass and she is blamed for all the world's problems men created. Men make the rain and then ask why it's raining. Oi! Our Fore Mothers wouldn't have had any children if it was a choice. Majority are slaves bred by slave owners and the kids of that type of horror is who our ancestors are. Not exactly a legacy or lineage anyone should want to continue. You get a birth cert. that is literally sold on the stock market. What do people think it's for? Literally - Live stock. Why keep birthing more slaves for the slave owners of the world? it's not like women are birthing children into a utopia all warm and joyful. Wasn't Cry Freedom just a major movie...and what was that about? Maybe that's why men are sad and mad women aren't just popping out babies, less live stock for them to use and abuse. What would men sell if not the fruit of all females, from plants to animals to women? They're not protecting the sacredness of children and life, they're protecting their investments and resources...aka all females of the world. What if all the females of the world simply stopped giving men free labor? From bees, to hens, to cows, to really anything in existence? LOL!! They enslaved the womb in the past for workers and soldiers. That's it. To say it's anything else by men is simply a bold face lie. The writing is on the wall and all the women of the world are reading it and saying n the no, no, no to men, men, men. Whoop whoop!!! So refreshing and delightful to see. 50!!!! and young!! Tante auguri a te!
@LunarChaos Жыл бұрын
Have kids? To have them get on the internet and embarrass me like this. Absolutely not! These men act like women can’t see the ADULTS they become. We not interested in creating the next generation of women’s problems. 😂 sir you won’t be able to abuse my future child. If I get to that point.
@LadyJoolree Жыл бұрын
Why is he so pressed about other people's decisions. Is it because no one wants HIS child? 🤷🏾♀️ I'm 51, childfree and happy - no regrets! So glad I trusted my instincts and didn't give children to the two fiancés who begged me to do so. Oh, and I think I'd be at least a good mother, I'm a great Auntie and Godmother. I just don't want to be, especially if it's without a good father and a great husband. Even then I'd probably stay childfree.
@mixtapewrecker10 ай бұрын
my father wants me to continue his legacy 😂 sir, what legacy? of DV, SA and having another family? legacy of being born poor? the audacity of this man 😅 not having kids, never will.
@BoringTroublemaker11 ай бұрын
I’m 41 - can confirm that I still do not want kids. 🤷🏻♀️
@scrapraptor6574 Жыл бұрын
Love how he says its disrespectful towards the women in my family. When my mom is my biggest advocate for my sterilization
@fraternallove437010 ай бұрын
I am in full support of this. I know men like this and it is nauseating. Stop telling people what to do with their bodies. Stop telling people what they're "going to want in the future", you don't know them; speak for yourself.
@omfgcarpetmuncher Жыл бұрын
😅 my grandma had to stay home all her life going through 7 pregnancies(5 children). 14 grand children. she wasn't allowed to be on birth control, wasn't allowed to drive, wasn't allowed to have a bank account. She lived at home and for the home.it was a different time but she would never want any of her daughters or grand daughters to live this way.
@kawaiiavril1658 Жыл бұрын
" When your 40 your going to want kids!"... But by who though? These men never want to anwser that because alot of them wouldn't even be baby worthy.
@zerotolerance202610 ай бұрын
No amount of shaming is going to make a woman want to have children. So these men might as well find another hill to die on.
@TwoMenAndALady2011 Жыл бұрын
Umm my mom is the one who suggested I either not have kids or stop after one…which I did. Trust me, she doesn’t feel disrespected or disappointed. She’s…PROUD. And one more thing…NO man needs to speak on what goes on in my womb.
@chibaby800 Жыл бұрын
The reason I know the “concern” is fake is because these men don’t care about anything other thing pertaining to women but suddenly the fear mongering with this “you’ll be unhappy” is pushed by them. Even women that carry kids and have the experience don’t go out of their way to instill that fear. Like why are you so concerned about my potential happiness or unhappiness. This is how you know it’s about them and not women.
@zetharerey3761 Жыл бұрын
My question is, what do you want? for women to have babies left and right so you can leave them with the kid and then talk trash about single mother with kids? Because let’s be honest, that is exactly what I see mainly in the black community, I don’t like bringing race into this but I have to because I see too many black men trashing black single mothers for being “SINGLE MOTHERS” and I’m here like “wait but didn’t a man make that kid too, where is he at and why aren’t we talking about how irresponsible are those fathers” I’m glad women aren’t just getting pregnant from irresponsible men and having to bring up kids without a father. 👏👏👏👏
@funnatopia7048 ай бұрын
They’re concerned about child free women for the same reasons they’re concerned about women who are single by choice. They don’t want to end up old and alone.
@MrObsidian1015 ай бұрын
If only men knew, the responsibility “The first day a man gives birth In this country, is the last day a child will be born” judge Judy
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner Жыл бұрын
He is forgetting that people are not finding the RIGHT partners that match them! There just isn’t enough of everyone tbh. Having kids and a family is a nice thing but not everyone gets lucky in love!
@aj2thamaxx74211 ай бұрын
Do you want to know why men are bothered by women who choose to be childless? it’s because the women that they’re attracted to tend to not want children in this day and age……..for a multitude of reasons. But what I’ve always noticed is that these same men don’t want to share the labor associated with having children 🤦🏾♀️
@AS-kf1ol Жыл бұрын
Im mid 30s female. Married 7 years to the love of my life. We are so in love, happy, and doing very well financially. My husband says it's MY CHOICE whether or not we have kids bc he married ME and he is not interested in the physical/emotional toll it would take on me nor the rearranging of our entire life and future for a hypothetical person. He will ONLY give that to me if thats something i truly want and he will make it as lovely a life for me and kid as he possibly can all i have to do is say the word. WOMEN, PLEASE HEAR ME, FIND A MAN WHO LOVES YOU. If he can't treat you like a human being with your own mind desires and feel compelled to cater to them HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.
@heatherbaker4538 Жыл бұрын
"It's an insult to the women of your family that made you- what if they had decided not to have kids?" Then I wouldn't be alive to give a crap. By your logic I should be pretty darn upset about the nonexistence of the billions of potential sibilings I could have had. Well gee, ma, you coudn't have popped out a dozen or so? So rude.
@AyaneSoto Жыл бұрын
The mindset of that guy complaing about childfree women it's what's makes me don't want to have kids.
@cosmicreef5858 Жыл бұрын
These men(not all men) are worried that women finally start to respect themselves and will not take their bullcr*p. Good, because these abusers and man childs do NOT deserve a partner