exactly. because from what i'm learning about males, they are hardwired to want to have their genetic material passed on. so if they're smart enough to outwit their biology, they are probably a little more evolved than the typical male. not always, but more likely.

Yes exactly I respect any man who chooses to be childfree like dave franco and Christopher lloyd

well what if the world doesn't want child free adults 🤷 you're a burden on the system when elderly, you don't replace or contribute to the need for humans in the economy, and you take annoying stances on children which is something you can never understand because of your infantile position.

@@CS-mf5un I am 24. I am sure I am not just for reproduction. You do you.

@@DesiBTS-Army1999 everything you said was meaningless.

How would you fail as a parent?

​​@@AlwonDomz It so Many answers to your question

@@Hardawayfits 2-3 answers would do

@@AlwonDomz Not being able to financially support a kid, raising a kid in a broken home, no emotional support for a kid, not being able to prepare a kid for the world, etc. It's so many ways to fail as a parent and use the excuse I did the best I could at raising you.

@@Hardawayfits You know what fixes all these problems before they start, right?

Same!!!

@@notyourtypicalcomment2399Your sources of joy and fulfilment in life are yours, and not shared by everyone on Earth.

@@notyourtypicalcomment2399 Money rules the world. Its a sad fact

Yes, sleep !!!

Yessss to all of this. 🥰🙌🏾💯

Less deadbeats dads

& come find me😅I've never meet one of u

@@monejohn9973 😂 if I find one, I’ll gladly send him your way sis.

It's okay to exacerbate demographic collapse. It's okay to remain a perpetual adolescent. It's okay to be taken care of by other people's children in old age. It's okay to be a burden. It's okay. It's okay. It's okay. (it's not okay)

@@newglof9558 Keep crying 🥱

I did too. Most men I know say they want kids and I, as a woman, always feel weirded out by that because I've never felt strongly about having one so it immediately limits relationship potential with so many men who claim they want them. Hopefully more women saying they don't want kids will make more men comfortable with coming out and saying it.

Same!

@@Liz-wz8dhand it’s usually the ones who would be the worst most absent fathers

@@Liz-wz8dh men are more cavalier about children because they aren't the ones who have to carry them. they’re not worrying about the possibility of death during delivery. and 9 times out of 10, they're expecting the woman to do most of the child rearing. they want kids because all of the responsibility falls on women.

Women get it worse.

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PERIOD

It's good u turned her down. 😂

@singstreetcar5881 OH no! The one friend PRESSURING me to have a kid....NOPE. YOU wanted kids. Now deal with it. I notice if you help them once, they come back 2,3, and 4 times. Then they just expect it. Nope.

wise woman

lmfao as a female its worse

yes @@halcyon3116

I am glad no one is telling you you'll end up with cats or giving you death threats.

​@@halcyon3116yea u get deaththretas Or get told u need to know ur place and worth and stuff

For us women it’s even worse and the tone can get more aggressive and hateful towards women as they say those things and more too.

Can you explain number 4? Fear of your kids putting you in a grave early or kids dying before the parents do...

@@zraj3433 I got confused by #4 too but I think you answered it. The fear that the kid might get killed/die before the parent.

My brother died almost 20 years ago, trust me the death of a child will destroy your parents. I watched them fall apart and neither of them have ever recovered (not to mention my own trauma) it's not something I would wish on anyone.

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​@@zraj3433 a fam member forced her mom or tricked her to signing everything in her name. (Her daughter's name) the daughter evicted the mom out of her house and left her to rot in a nursing home. She put her in a lame nursing home. She died from broken heart. I hear many of these cases. The rest of the kids in my fam are well older than me and are leaches off their parents and do nothing but suck all the money out of them. The other kids are entitled. I see this and I don't want that parasite in my life.

They really are. For real, dogs are a better investment.

Specially when xx doing all the work😅

​@@Liz-wz8dhdogs all the way.

I’m a parent of a two year girl don’t know how this video got recommended but yes kids are truly expensive. Because they need clothes, shoes not to mention food my toddler eats a ton of food. With this inflation it means cooking dinner and my kid decides to eat extra piece of chicken then I have nothing. So its alot of sacrifice.

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As a woman I am terrified of childbirth and just imagining something growing inside of me makes me want to get rid of it. It is Like a parasite. Something out od the Alien movie. Childbirth looks alien to me, doesnt seem human to be carying around something for 9 months and then push it out in gruelsome pain. Yeah, its a hard pass for me.

thank you

Get a vasectomy, bro. Spare all the women

Honestly, the horror comes after the child is born.

I was afraid too but in the end It wasn't that bad and if I could I would have lots of children even though with first kid I nearly passed away from septic shock and was paralyzed for week but with second which I had few months ago it was easy I could function almost like nothing happened. We all come in this world with suffering, we suffer while live and no matter what choices we make we will end with suffering. In long term hedonistic pleasures are way more destructive than suffering which is what brings growth in humans and nature by causing evolution. How will you get fit if you are not willing to make your body suffer in gym, how will you get good job if you are not willing to suffer going through university, much easier to live like slob in dirt and then pay for it by starving or getting kicked out on streets for unpaid bills. Ironically your reasons for not reproducing could make you to be good father because so many men are just making kids left and right but then abandoning them and not even willing to do bare minimum like child support by that causing pain and destruction of his children and child's mother.

There are more of us. Believe and you will find a childfree partner.

@@gogicbasic7629 you’ve given me hope ☺️

❤❤❤❤❤this is beautiful

Same I've never found one😅 o well

Same.

Student loans to feed 😂😂😂

💀 girl I feel you on “student loan to feed” lol

😂😂😂😂 Right, and I tell you at least ONE of them 3 is always hungry and damn near NEVER satisfied 😭😭💸💸💸

I have 2 guinea pigs and a doggy to feed 😂

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It’s like parents (or potential parents) see it as a personal attack for some bizarre reason if you say you don’t want kids. They crazy!

@@whitneyanders5945 some people think kids are inevitable mind you this are usually the same people that think the pull out method is a good contraception method. Others don't think at all and make a snap decision when their window of opportunity for children is closing or feel it's closing. For these two groups childfree people confront them with the reality that you CAN think about whether to have children or not and choose and enforce that decision. It confronts them with evidence that children are a choice, that's what's grating for them. It goes against their beliefs either that they are inevitable and you are going against God, Nature, motherly instincts or whatever and that you can't possibly be happy going against it. and those who are postponing their decisions or made a last minute snap decision are the ones projecting. They didn't take responsibility for their choices when they didn't have children so you most surely are doing the same and being irresponsible and when you "change your mind" and want to do the same snap decision you won't be able to. They weren't responsible enough back then and now they must take responsibility of their children so people are immature and irresponsible if they don't have children. Or they made the snap decision because they fear loneliness. They recognise they can't or won't be able to connect with others outside their immediate circle. They are the ones terrified of what they threaten us with. But and here's the interesting catch. Happy parents, those who pondered all the pros and cons, those who did their best possible to time the arrival of their kid to a point where they could take of it. And most importantly freely CHOOSE to have them understand that childfree people thought about kids too... and choose different. It's like people who followed a career, because their parents told them. They are the ones that are bitter with their life and get mad when they see people jumping to other major or career. They are confronted with the reality that they could probably could have chosen too.

Ppl tend to feel validated or invalidated due to the choices of others 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I loved kids and wanted my own. I have two. That is the life I WANTED. However, I've always understood that life ISN'T "One size fits all". Humans are individuals and we each have our own dreams and needs from life. It's so detrimental to children to be born to ppl that don't want or care about them. Parenting isn't for everyone and there's nothing wrong with that. Ppl know their limits and ppl that don't want kids are making the right decision to not have them.

I agree.

It’s because they’re probably trying to convince themselves that they’re happy with kids more than anything

I get a fair amount too, along with “You would have made a great dad”. The latter comment only demonstrates how low the bar is

@soultune908 Agree that it is the women who really get 💩 on for this. I don’t let it bother me but I don’t get nearly as much in terms of volume, and people are quicker to get off their high horse with me. I have some thoughts as to why this might be so. If you would like to share yours, feel free to

100%!

This video is about men not wanting children, and women gotta come in here and make it all about how they have it worse. Y'all are so up your own asses about oppression that you just can't help but hijack conversations that aren't about you and somehow make it about you.

I don’t know why you care so much because if you cave in and have kids it’s YOUR responsibility not the people judging you.

Meee tooo girl!!

Say it louder! They don't even get pregnant or birth them so they just don't want kids because of costs (that many countries law oblige them to). But you know, many of these men will reach their mid 40s and 50s and suddenly they want a kid so they can live their 'legacy' also impregnate a younger woman so she takes care of his old ass in the future

Right…..

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Lol they don't wanna stop fuckin women now, do they? XD

I agree girl!

literally what i’m saying!

Well that’s where we (men and women ) are different…no point for a relationship.

@@mkelleyaggie do you mean there’s no point in marriage or no relationship at all? I can maybe understand your point to not getting married if both parties don’t want children but I don’t agree with no relationship.

@@douse89 yeah because your a woman nothing wrong with how you’re thinking but once the child energy is broken…in a mans head we are thinking I don’t won’t children due to being “locked down” in a any sense in life..and a relationship is a “lockdown” . No kids means no true strings …why lose the power because if I get 1 million while with you idk where I’m going. But honestly not wanting kids is only a thing because the world is unbearable and in a very bad state…bc both are naturally ment too nartually. Because why eles are you even having s3x?

People who want kids are usually narcissistic and think too highly of themselves. They think they're doing everybody else a favour by reproducing. That's the only reason.

well said

Technically, there is no "right" reason to have kids, nor want them. Hell, there's no "right" excuse to have, nor want them! Don't get me wrong, I FULLY agree with you. 💯 However, people give the most selfish *excuses* for wanting and having kids. Its disgusting, honestly! And it's those same people that will call their kids "selfish", "entitled", "bratty", "ungrateful", "too sensitive" and more! It's those same people that will abuse their kids, gaslight them, traumatize them, be narcissistic towards them and then look goofy in the face when that child grows up with a mind of their own (*as they should*) and goes no-contact with them! That same child they EXPECTED to wipe their ass when they got old! That same child that'll get labeled as "selfish" if they take their own lives! I've literally heard people get asked and say that if they, their partner and their kid(s) were lost at sea and they could only save one, they'd save their partner and let the kid(s) die! People need to learn the difference between: • ‘amenity’ vs. ‘necessity’, • ‘lineage’ vs. ‘legacy’ and • ‘reason’ vs. ‘excuse.’ Children have literally *never, ever been* ( *and never will be!* ) a "necessity." Like you said, reproducing is not a requirement. And kids are no one's "legacy!" A lot of people (*if not most*) come up with poor excuses to lay up, screw and procreate and normally its the former. Its sad, disgusting and selfish! I agree with you WHOLEHEARTEDLY! 💯 People need to *RESPECT* other peoples decisions to *not want, not need, nor have kids* .

Or to get an ab#*#*#* if pregnancy does occur…I hope they are taking their reproductive responsibility seriously as well.

Yeh I am super antinatalist but I would never get a vasectomy. Its destroying part of your body.

@@spino1i How is it being destroyed if you can actually reverse it? That’s not even a real argument anyway. Things are being destroyed in your body all the time. But I guess you want your female partner to destroy her physical and mental health with the contraceptive options on the market for her right? Or are you going to pursue lifelong celibacy?

- [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

@@spino1i - [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

Agreed! 💯

It really is.

Absolutely, well said!

Yup

Exactly. Imagine glamorizing kids while this world is trash. We literally had a mass shooting in my State a few days ago. Wtf would I want to have kids in this world especially in this country. Why? So I have some to teach how to run for cover during a mass shooting? Or someone to feed into the poverty system. My eggs are safe where tf they are.

This right here!

You are not alone Sir, but even if you were, so what? As a black childfree woman, I am in a very small minority. You think I care? No, because being different is something I have always thrived on. I love being a glitch in the Matrix. 😂

@@Childfree334 Lol I Like How You Put This. The Glitch In The Matrix Is Something I’ll Always Hold On To🤣. It’s Because I Get So Many Side Eyes And Rebuttals Always Because I Choose To Be Childfree. I Knew From A Very Young Age (I’m 26 Now) That I Didn’t Want Kids.

Nah we people who do not want kids exist.. don't let them pressure you....

Agreed. No kids from you

Quite the contrary

It has been going on for years. It’s now starting to become much more discussed on the internet.

They've finally admitted it outwardly 😭

I thought I would see more comments on this one, I dnt think the women are going that extra mile either

@Misspnklips true however women have more options and often cost less than us men so they are more likely to go that extra mile I'd say

A majority of women are taking birth control... Theres no birth control for men thats available yet.​@@Misspnklips

@@Misspnklips If you're a woman below the age of 35 and have no kids, you're gonna play hell finding a doc that will perform permanent sterilization. It's a whole circus' worth of hoops.

​@@Misspnklips having a sterilisation as woman ist far more complicated than a vasectomy for a man. It's more expensive, you have to have a general anestetic and a full operation at the hospital, as a man can have an ambulant vasectomy leaving the doctor after 30 minutes. After sterilisation it's more likely to have complication for women, like an ectopic pregnancy. For a woman it's not an extra mile but an extra marathon...

- [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

Men take a big financial hit

and help with the house and kids.

I’m wealthy and I don’t want kids.

Because you get your head bit off by people if you say that.

​@@bettemiddler7756Fine, then I will say it.... I..AS..A...MAN...DO...NOT....WANT....CHILDREN.... BECAUSE......THEY .....ARE....ANNOYING......AND.....A.....PAIN.....TO......DEAL..........WITH.... ,🤫🤫🤫

I cant stand the screaming and crying and tantrums. Rolling on the floor in public just to get their way 🙄 I am not having that energy in my life. I got places to go and things to do. To busy to be watching kid tantrum.

@@vanessasmith6925like you weren’t the same when you were a child? Lol and human beings are annoying in general, no matter what age, so that’s a weak and soft-hearted excuse

- [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

@@user-vl6dc2mc8h Nah, I don't need imaginary friends. But thanks for the offer.

This! I have severe anxiety and I am also Autistic. Although I love some of my autistic traits, I find it incredibly difficult to navigate this world that is catered to neurotypicals. I wouldn't wish any of this on anyone, including potential children.

No sperm no kid no child support. Birth control fails but vasectomies don’t! Tired of men not taking their birth control!!! Sex is a responsibility with real life consequences but they treat it like every other activity and then get mad at the consequences of their own sperm. Most children are unwanted since the womb the cause of much mental health. Less unwanted children in the world growing up without purpose. No sperm no abortions.

There are lots of

I think both men and women who don't want kids are becoming more common, for a variety of reasons.

I’m pushing 50 myself. I used to get asked why I wasn’t married or have kids all the way up into my early to mid 40’s. The older you get peeps will stop asking.

​@jonathanaldecoa1099 No they don't. I'm older than you & I still get questions & crazy looks 🤣🤣🤣

- [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

No sperm no kid no child support. Birth control fails but vasectomies don’t! Tired of men not taking their birth control!!! Sex is a responsibility with real life consequences but they treat it like every other activity and then get mad at the consequences of their own sperm. Most children are unwanted since the womb the cause of much mental health. Less unwanted children in the world growing up without purpose. No sperm no abortions.

Is it better in Haiti? Sudan? I work at McDonald's and drive a Mercedes must not be bad here

@@aig5429 we can all drive fancy cars if we wanted to. Had my first fancy car at 23. Easy peasy. Adding children into the picture changes everything. Food, diapers, medical visits, vaccinations, clothes. Come on now formula costs.

@Thereisnotmr Well duh I can afford kids but I will not have kids I prefer material things

You should look up the economy in the US. It hasn't been this good in decades. We have some of the lowest inflation rates of the industrial countries.

This. And we need to accept that some people are going to have to get abortions. That's just life and that's the responsible thing to do if you don't want to raise (and probably traumatize) a kid.

Abortion is better than suffering through an unwanted pregnancy while the prolifers wait that stockholm syndeome kicks in.

Voted w/ my vas deferens and had my plumbing snipped and tied back when I was 26. I’ve never looked back on that decision

- [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

That's false. The child discussion and the why question is normal conversation if the topic comes up. Especially while dating. Your wealthy friends don't ask you likely bc they know you're broke, and/or sing with not many spouse options.

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100 ❤❤❤❤ Happy content or aware people don't ask this at all... The brain works outside themselves... If uve experienced society u already understand why people r childfree

@@misguidedpearls7456cry

You don't look 42. You look 35.

@@Vietmac1993 Wow, thank you!

Immoratality? If your kid dies or their kids - it's over. There is no such thing as immortality. Life is finite - period. So, everyone's bloodlines will eventually come to an end.

Guess it's a good thing I have no love for the world and so don't care about "immortality." Can't threaten me with a good time. 😂

No sperm no kid no child support. Birth control fails but vasectomies don’t! Tired of men not taking their birth control!!! Sex is a responsibility with real life consequences but they treat it like every other activity and then get mad at the consequences of their own sperm. Most children are unwanted since the womb the cause of much mental health. Less unwanted children in the world growing up without purpose. No sperm no abortions.

The men who don't want kids often do not want to get married either, so good luck if that's something you want. There's really no point in getting married in the modern age if you don't want kids.

Lm a man and l don't want kids. For all the obvious reasons

@@HeatlerTFP make sure you are taking your birth control then

Lol tell them you'll have kids if he's willing to become a part time babysitter for a full year before hand. If he can handle someone else's kids getting all his free time for a full year I'd consider him worthy as a parent. Most dudes would crumble at that idea. To them, having kids just means getting your girl pregnant and having to put up with crying now and then. They don't actually do any parenting, so of course its easy for them to say they want kids.

Laughs! The TRUTH!

Laughs! The TRUTH!

You got this girly! You can def find a man who wishes to be CF. Good luck to you!

I hope I find a man who doesn't want kids but does want to get married and wants a vasectomy

I got the opposite lol. Most women on dating apps wanted them, or would keep the baby if she got pregnant 😅

@@b-41subject57most people in general want children

Nothing is wrong with you. Quite the opposite. You are self aware and introspective.

They’re going to the wrong place

Societal programming to make them think they must have children

Why are they getting married, to play cards?

​@@ravagetimeMaybe because they actually like being around each other. And also because marriage has social and tax benefits. It's not just for having kids.

Facts!! How many of these men actually have had a vasectomy?🤔

Exactly, I was thinking the same thing. If they don't want kids, they have no business messing with fertile women. Either they should get a vasectomy or marry an older woman. It's way too easy to put resposability on a woman than ask her to terminate a pregnancy.

It's $900 😅 this is the issue with male birth control we gotta fork out almost $1000 to not have one which is absolutely ridiculous 😒

@@MrEOM41 $900 don’t compare to 18+ years of paying for a child or dealing with a female you hate.

@@MrEOM41 a hysterectomy for a woman runs $5,000+

weird,everyone has a different mindset. if they can raise children, have them, if not, your choice also.

​@@tavurPeople get criticized harshly for NOT having kids. While people who have kids, no matter how shitty they are as parents, are congratulated. So, yes. It does take a tremendous amount of courage to take face the backlash from society.

You will find someone, it took me a while to find my wife who also didn't want kids. Granted there are fewer childfree men than women but we do exist.

Maybe find a guy who is asexual

Ah....brainwashing

so people who do'nt have children are: self aware, responsible, smart, rational thinkers, selfless and people who have are: selfish, lazy, unresponsible have you tried an argument with less namecalling?

Men have them for the status, im a father. Its all ego, i was a successful male and i bred...they dont care about you all the baby its all about there image

@@Lora_Beolab Ever consider why single moms exist?

Nothing really wrong with being selfish.

There is double standard for men and women lady

Its other people with children or the established Churches who play the "Guilt" game.

Nobody asked you if you want. Yeah, that sucks

Exactly.

This. I didn't ask to be here and everyone tells me this world owes me nothing. That's true However by that same token I don't this world a goddamn thing especially not more slaves

Exactly.

- [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

@@roshellegouldbourne787 - [ ] If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I had thoughts of revenge and the other things. But God saved me, he gave me the people in my life and he showed himself to me. Even in my darkest days he was there with me, he never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with him. There is still time to repent love one another and believe in Christ for he will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard and he will help you too:). me in hard times he will help you too:)

Exactly!

I became extremely upset at the thought of having to explain to my imaginary baby, racism and that for no reason people will judge and discriminate against you bc of how you look. It made me sick to my stomach. I get even sicker when I think about having to explain mass shootings, the cost of giving birth and childcare. It’s best that my baby remains in fantasy.

@@FolasadeXO EXACTLY. Kids are the safest NOT existing in this world.

Seriously!

Let's get rich :);) Dink. What's new ?

@@J-pn1dt men say that until they face constant sexual rejection.

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You are a f*cking adult, grow up. Not having kids isn’t an excuse to be immature and foolish.

Amen, brother! I have five younger brothers. My youngest has a severe form of autism. Why have boys when my mom and dad have a boy for me to help out with due to his autism. And girls? Well I read all sorts of things about them. Girls after other girls are the worst. And so many kids want or have surgery to change their looks due to bullying. And finding the right girl to marry and have kids.....go try looking for a needle in a haystack!

@@JSharpe427Being a parent is not necessary for finding meaning in life ❤🔥

@@tbn22 very true.

agreed

No sperm no kid no child support. Birth control fails but vasectomies don’t! Tired of men not taking their birth control!!! Sex is a responsibility with real life consequences but they treat it like every other activity and then get mad at the consequences of their own sperm. Most children are unwanted since the womb the cause of much mental health. Less unwanted children in the world growing up without purpose. No sperm no abortions.

Most women don’t take their pills

@@tyronelorenzovalentio3414 get a vasectomy and always wear a condom. Birth control is not just the responsibility of the woman. Why should it be? Do you want child support??? If not protect thyself.

@@tyronelorenzovalentio3414 Source?

No sperm no kid no child support. Birth control fails but vasectomies don’t! Tired of men not taking their birth control!!! Sex is a responsibility with real life consequences but they treat it like every other activity and then get mad at the consequences of their own sperm. Most children are unwanted since the womb the cause of much mental health. Less unwanted children in the world growing up without purpose. No sperm no abortions.

If ignorance really is bliss, then the crazy procreation psychopaths must be having a BLAST right now.

Definitely! I know other peoples children and love them, but I always know I can send them back when they act up!

What kind of novels?

It's always the ones who aren't supposed to be parents making the most kids. And we wonder why tik tok exist? See stupid people outnumber us. Because parents.

Where are you from?

So is dealing with a lot of grown people lol

Yet there are so many childish and irresponsible breeders. Go figure. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@@Childfree334 Projecting one's faults onto other people is a rather wild, damning, and interesting concept, isn't it?

Did anyone ask your grandmother if she was willing to raise you? Women back than were used to be abused for caretaking their whole lives. It's a good thing that this abuse is less and less tokerated. I am not sure if a tombstone compensates your grandmother for the life she was stolen of. And sorry but your mother just assumed that your grandmother would raise you? Where were father and grandfather?

@@CordeliaWagner My father is a drug addict his father was a drug dealer who got murdered. My mom’s dad lived 6 states away, my great grandfather had no idea I existed until I was 12. So no my greatgrandmother & grandmother help raise me because my mother workered like a racehorse. I don’t know where these abuse questions are going but I can’t speak to that I wasn’t present. Just stating it takes a team to raise kids, & my grandmothers were my team

​@@librafever495her point is that women are always shafted with these responsibilities because help is desperately needed, women and the women's work expected of them are constantly taken advantage of, it doesn't mean reliance on help makes you a bad person because desperation is urgent, the male relatives who should be in the equation being all over the place, up to no good or in the dark only proves the point further, this is all too common.

@@CordeliaWagner shush Not all women were abused for care taking