Men Gain Respect For You When You Behave Like This…

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@katze2260 Ай бұрын

1) don’t get rushed, talk and move slow 2) boldness and audacity > get angry and crazy 3) just leave, show that you are bold > make up your mistakes by upgrading your level of boldness > don’t contact them, Ghosh them 4) ask for the moon, demand a lot 5) regality > little of words, big with action, learn to communicate with a normal tone etc. > don’t be vulgar and unprofessional > be conscious about people watching you (assume everyone does) 6) have a difficult side > if someone is disrespecting you, show your angry side; if someone is nice, be nice > have two sides

@khplaylistyt9729 Ай бұрын

Thing is, narcs are great at this

@Shay_845 Ай бұрын

Did all of those and still got played

@khplaylistyt9729 Ай бұрын

@@Shay_845 it said respect not love

@Shay_845 Ай бұрын

@@khplaylistyt9729 I did all those mentioned believe me I am very vocal but understand you need to say it in a neutral tone to a guy and not shout. I don’t ever sleep with a guy before marriage and they will play you by ghosting you rather than communicate like a grown man.

@khplaylistyt9729 Ай бұрын

@@Shay_845 you can't get love by doing more is what I meant. He loves or doesn't love you. All of these vids by Alex should not be used to attract anyone but to improve oneself.

@khplaylistyt9729 Ай бұрын

I grew up in a household that enabled toxic masculinity and babied abusive, incompetent good for nothing men. Any attempts to tell people what you want, to draw boundaries, call out disrespectful behvior were faced with violence and criticisms even with the women in my life. This made me lose my voice, suppressed my anger and aggression, fear them even. Now I am trying to heal all of this! I am going to binge watch your vids ❤❤❤

@oliverivers 10 күн бұрын

Wow!!! I’m sorry you had to go thru this. I relate to you so much. Matriarch in the family enables the men even when they do horrible things and when I voice my concerns, I’m treated like I did something wrong or I’m told I’m acting “Jealous”.

@ladiijay3126 5 күн бұрын

Hope you find your voice then be as loud as you can 🙃😉

@afrocentricallyshakina 2 күн бұрын

Proud of you you’re not alone!

@makeishainniss2440 Ай бұрын

Yep! Walked away from a guy who wanted me to stick around while he date someone else. He could gtfoh with that 2nd option bs

@realtrenchbaby12 Ай бұрын

wow thats hurtful but just act like he never happened 😂❤️ sending love!

@makeishainniss2440 Ай бұрын

@@realtrenchbaby12 Girl I was rattled but I'm moving on, thanks for the love.

@ladyjaz6817 Ай бұрын

These 🥷s crazy! 😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

@Kenyanma254 24 күн бұрын

Same thing happened to me

@mrsropaxo 7 күн бұрын

This is not just about dating… this advice can be applied to all areas of life. I enjoyed this video a lot!

@patriciapeeters7 Ай бұрын

"At that time I was a very nice person" 😂 Not any more?! 😮

@eveheart2876 Ай бұрын

😂 now he is matured and settled

@patriciapeeters7 Ай бұрын

@@eveheart2876 But that's a good thing, right?! 😄

@basshunter9018 Ай бұрын

i still think if you don't react when somebody lays into you - then you're showing you're soft pushover, and they learn to disrespect you more n more

@Challenger2A7 Ай бұрын

Agreed. Shouting right back can absolutely stun the one treating you like a doormat. I've had to do that a few times. I can only conclude that I look like a doormat. 😂

@kourtenayt1927 Ай бұрын

I think it's more powerful to use your actions and show you won't even waste your breath on it.

@jelizabethpetrie6656 Ай бұрын

@@kourtenayt1927 Actions always speak louder than words❤

@elinsings 25 күн бұрын

Removing yourself from the situation is the most powerful response because you don’t lose your cool, let them ruffle you, or show your seams. You just walk away, which trains people that that behavior doesn’t work on you. That said, it’s not like you just let them address you again if they’ve treated you badly - not without addressing what happened and making sure they understand you won’t accept it. Do they even get to be around you again? Not without the proper apology (which can mean many things) and showing/saying they understand where they went wrong and what they did that can never happen again. And then show you with their actions this is true. Other than that, they’re permanently cut off. However, it’s always up to you. If you want to scream at them when they scream at you, be my guest. It’s just not my way. I won’t be caught engaging in their foolish actions. Remember Alex said always keep your composure and remain regal. And once someone shows you who they are, believe them, the first time. -Maya Angelou People should only get one chance to mess up, and some folks don’t even give that. One strike and you’re out. 😂

@name9601 11 күн бұрын

depends

@eveheart2876 Ай бұрын

Father Alex is funny. He always state his point with experiences

@mahogany_honey Ай бұрын

I make sure to always protect "my buttons" ....i never want to react in a way that reveals some kind of weakness in my character... while I appreciate the growth/learning that happens when discovering what triggers you. .i just never want to let anyone know they can push that "button" anytime they want to elicit a certain reaction out of me.. that's too much control to give someone other than myself....and the code changes based on the environment.....

@Sincerelypaulette 27 күн бұрын

FACTS… MAKE A BOLD MOVE … 1 year later… I can’t even tell you the RESPECT AND ATTENTION

@princessmandy1757 Ай бұрын

As soon as I smell bologna, I say something. Yeah, I'm not crazy, you are up to something. 🤨 But I'm usually a very nice person..... until.......

@MS-ns4ki Ай бұрын

Until you try to frugal me to death

@Diarrheagod Ай бұрын

I’m not nice, I’m kind 😬

@tinyking11 Ай бұрын

@@DiarrheagodFacts. 💯 I’m not nice or friendly but I’m a kind person for sure.

@QueenTilaTequila Күн бұрын

That girl probably was trying to push your buttons to see what your limit is since you said You used to be a nice guy.

@adreadaline Ай бұрын

I have been watching your videos for atleast 3 years now and it helps me so much, not only in my love life but life in general! Thank you

@MyatNoeKhin-jd1gf Ай бұрын

you are gifted, Alex

@xw6475 23 күн бұрын

This is GOLD!! Buen trabajo padre Alex. You're getting so much better

@iyaloyola4026 Ай бұрын

Speaking at a calm and easy pace.

@Itnnd Ай бұрын

Fubu shirts is fuckin crazy 😂

@Aaliyahjetoi 20 күн бұрын

Been watching you since 2019. Love you man! You are the truth and you still got all the sauce🎯

@Suerenity Ай бұрын

Queen Isabella. Great message though Father Alex. I've employed this/these tactics many a time and have never regretted it. Kind of a basic dark Scorpio trait but it takes loads of experience to perfect.

@priolanicole74 Ай бұрын

Great video I have to try and be a little less hood. 😂 Enjoyed this Thank you !

@ashiekajohaadien1837 20 күн бұрын

So pleased to have discovered your content. Thank you for the good advice

@Konykomebeauty 29 күн бұрын

I really liked this video. Thank you father Alex 😊

@cubanadiense 21 күн бұрын

Father Alex, that was amazing guidance, thanks a lot

@oumaymabenadjel6830 Ай бұрын

When you spoke about having a dark side, having seriousness and being professional. These are personas..the PERSONALITY traits that we show to people in different situations. The other thing that is consistent in people and that is their true self is the CHARACTER… Thanks for the video btw.

@B89Stranger Ай бұрын

Thanks big or little brother. Great wisdom

@kekemeech Ай бұрын

You imitating hunny’s laugh 😭🤣 “hehehehehe” loooool

@GailGreen-tq8jd 12 күн бұрын

I'm back. Thank you for this Alex.🎉🎉🎉

@nephola815 23 күн бұрын

Your analogies are gold 😅

@kekemeech Ай бұрын

Loveeee this video! Soon as you brought up goku I knew it was real haha 😅 🙌🏽

@diana_christman Ай бұрын

Excellent video

@christiel4302 Ай бұрын

I enjoyed this video 😊

@KereolaPatunia Ай бұрын

I'm either sigar or spice. I need to work on balancing my reactions. I'm always think I'm being too spicy and then over think it.

@PrepperRapperFairy Ай бұрын

You aren’t about to draw Adolph mustaches on Larry Bird GTFO ! Lolol😂. If he had the stick waiving around tho

@banybaby129 Ай бұрын

alex i love this video

@junewade6859 Ай бұрын

Awesome content! Thank you for sharing ❤️

@RC-ud4qo Ай бұрын

Thanks for your dragon Ball Z reference, I get it 💯

@jesuslover5968 Ай бұрын

I love your stories you are hilarious

@ladyindigo1649 Ай бұрын

Love that movie Inglorious bastards! Hilarious 😂 Gotta watch it again. Thsnks for the tips.❤️🙏🏽

@dg-qn5mi 17 күн бұрын

💯💯💯

@zitroneyellow995 Ай бұрын

Excellent video! Please more content like this, thank you so much 🌟

@KevonnieElaine Ай бұрын

“Jesus Christ what’s wrong with you?” 😭😭

@eclecticd9953 Ай бұрын

You’re the first person to say Goku has more depth than vegeta.

@mmg_722 Ай бұрын

Love love love this 1

@mmg_722 Ай бұрын

U only saw Titanic to see rose naked; admit it kinda hot how he paints her body out

@yep-jf4qm 15 күн бұрын

Great video. You have pretty eyes😊

@user-ph2by9tr1o Ай бұрын

Alex, please make a video about the difference between confronting the other with what you don't like (which you said brings you respect and creates positive tension in the relationship) and being honest about one's feelings (which you expressed that you like yourself in another video), and sounding needy in a way when expressing one's expectations, straight-up what to do in order to express emotional dissatisfaction without turning the other person off, or is there a way to communicate it without sounding needy, or should one be fulfilling oneself in this aspect?

@user-ph2by9tr1o Ай бұрын

I'm a broke student that's why I didn't book a call with you or such. If this differentiation interests you and there is something to say about it, bless us with a video about it, because at some points I felt that you might be contradicting yourself

@MindfulAttraction2.0 Ай бұрын

The difference is, is that speaking to someone about your feelings while being willing to walk away. In other words, it's like going into a fight with a gun in your pockets. There's going to be a certain confidence to you that will radiate from within because you know you're packing heat LOL

@user-ph2by9tr1o Ай бұрын

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 Understood! Thank you!!!

@cbrown4293 Ай бұрын

@user-ph2by9tr1o omg ty for this question ,I couldn't word what I needed to ask properly but u did and I too would like an in depth video if ever he needs some ideas for content .the male ego is a touchy one , the fine line of speaking up and insulting is brutal

@AshlyRa Ай бұрын

Loveeeee this the topic, the office situation example the other anime etc examples makes it easy to understand i wanted to learn it since i was a kid loveee this video I have a narcissist as a mother so when i used to show different layers of my personality she used to try to suppress it in her mind and her to like me i always had to be a good girl people pleaser it was extremely suffocating thats why its a fabulous video for me. You are doing a great jib alex 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

@sweet2sourr Ай бұрын

I like your facial hair

@sweet2sourr Ай бұрын

When I bite back

@CosmicEnergy369 14 күн бұрын

Absolutely 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

@abigailhandsthatsing3901 17 күн бұрын

Queen Isabella

@TinaSellsLasVegas 21 күн бұрын

I will just be myself and that should work 🤣🤓

@dg-qn5mi 17 күн бұрын

Never 😩

@leilahadams955 13 күн бұрын

Omg thats me 😆

@Yola_yolana_ Ай бұрын

Lmao when Virgo men get upset it’s serious because it takes a lot for them to get to that point.

@djamilaahmed3228 12 күн бұрын

Is he a virgo?

@katherineamarante7133 Ай бұрын

The fact that you felt the neeed to say “not like a sloth” sometimes I think we have the same mental processes

@stephanienicole4742 Ай бұрын

😂

@Diarrheagod Ай бұрын

My mind immediately went to Flash Flash 100 yard dash from zootopia 😂

@stephanienicole4742 Ай бұрын

@@Diarrheagod omg your name lol

@kairosunltd130 Ай бұрын

Papa Alex 😅

@FindYourFree 14 күн бұрын

why do men feel so important?

@Strong_Libra_Scales Ай бұрын

Men need to worry about how to gain respect and be respected in the first place. Next caller! 😂

@septemberjai5216 27 күн бұрын

2:09…

@CeciledeLuire Ай бұрын

i won't slow down my speech, but love all the rest!

@EricaBellaHairBox Ай бұрын

Omg slowing down your speech WORKS I actually learned that years ago before seeing this video

@CeciledeLuire Ай бұрын

@@EricaBellaHairBox good for you! I realized that too much self-control in too many areas is not good for me. Prefer developing my soul, the rest follows automatically

@EricaBellaHairBox Ай бұрын

@@CeciledeLuire yes, I use to be a fast talker and I had to slow down my speech for business meetings .. Thank you love bug 😘 I hope all go well for you too !

@CeciledeLuire Ай бұрын

@@EricaBellaHairBox cool! Glad this worked for you. And yes i'm fine as well, thanks 💛😉

@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes Ай бұрын

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@Kate.Sangalang Ай бұрын

Peaky blinders

@evek2572 Ай бұрын

Professional vs unprofesional.

@emmab.3120 28 күн бұрын

@4:35 😂😅

@LadyStephanieArtist Ай бұрын

Why have I only just realised that you have a dreadlock. Haha cute

@ladyfxllc Ай бұрын

You and your Bronx comments. 😂😂😂

@eveheart2876 Ай бұрын

😂 @im closing the channel 😝

@angel33333333 Ай бұрын

Talking about dragon ball z to a woman’s channel 😅 I’m so confused

@MindfulAttraction2.0 Ай бұрын

🧐

@tanikae966 Ай бұрын

I watch DBZ & Anime🧐🤷🏾‍♀️

@_Diaryofwealth Ай бұрын

Father❤😂

@Smashapotomus Ай бұрын

AHA!! So basically act like a GEMINI!! 👍

@eclecticd9953 Ай бұрын

Oh gawddd

@senorita-qh6bm Ай бұрын

People get obsessed with you believe it or not

@name9601 11 күн бұрын

@@senorita-qh6bm in your own mind

@nicole.gallardo 14 күн бұрын

Alex, I'm worried. Your eyes is so yellow. You don't even look healthy in the video. Have you gotten checked? I'm concerned. ❤️

@user-cz9dh4yy3g Ай бұрын

listeeeeen nobody can respect you with that haircut...bro wtf is that?!!!!

@SwedishGFE 8 күн бұрын

I like your input and advice. But when I noticed your sweaty armpits I am starting to wonder how you are doing in the dating scene. Hygene is an important factor in relationships as well. Unfortunately that made a bad impression.

@Chrisia-Queens Ай бұрын

The intro is annoying. Why can't you just go straight to the point?

@MindfulAttraction2.0 Ай бұрын

I literally started the video with the three reasons why people don't respect you LOL

@sweet2sourr Ай бұрын

Maybe you should create your own channel, get monetized and see how annoying a comment like yours is.

@sweet2sourr Ай бұрын

@@MindfulAttraction2.0it was fine. They have a short attention span.

@spirulina3924 Ай бұрын

What the heck? The intro was piece of gold

@sherryb1083 Ай бұрын

Wow rude much. 🤦‍♀️

@Suckafreevibes Ай бұрын

I’m exactly like this 🦂 and through life lessons and living in Vegas for 2 years then moving overseas to Jamaica..I’ve became a great negotiator😂 I know how to shape shift into anything I need to in a good way.