Giving you food water and shelter was not out of the kindness of their hearts. It was a legal obligation. Just because they did that doesn’t mean they care.

Dude wake up and ditch them go low contact. Quit the family shame dinners and do not give them money. I think it is against the law to get your info like that.

I'm not a divorce expert, but I'm certain that many places can legally withhold the division of property if the divorce is due to infidelity. In other words, you wouldn't owe your ex a cent. As for the rest, parenteral alienation is very serious

Why does everyone feel obligated that their parents did what they were legally required to do? They choose to have a kid they choose to house clothe and feed said child for a minimum of 18yrs. That’s not an option unless they want to give you up or go to jail.

Don't pay your parents a cent before you were 18. That part was their legal responsibility. They are crap parents. Go NC. Get therapy.

i hate it when people say things like "I know i have to be grateful, because my parents gave me food, shelter and filled my basic needs when i was a child living with them." HELL..NO. Its basic human decency that they take care of the child THEY wanted. and they could have gotten into legal trouble if they didn't do that. So please for deity sake. Stop thinking you have to repay your parents just because they fed, clothed, housed you and gave you a basic education. It was their DUTY to do these things.

Taking care of basic needs as parents is their job, they signed up for that when they decided to have op he doesn't own them shit.

Parental alienation is against the Law. Get your lawyer on it.

That second story was heartbreaking. Mothers can be vipers when things don't go their way.

Relatives are blood, family is love.

Please go NO CONTACT with these toxic ass people!!! They DO NOT care about you AT ALL!!! Block them EVERYWHERE and change your number. 🚫🚫🚫 #ProtectYourEnergy #ProtectYourPeace #SelfPreservation

If they hadn't allowed the OP's brother to violate the OP's privacy, the parents would have high ground, but they don't. The gaslighting and permissiveness deserves what the OP did. The sister is the only adult in the family who deserves contact with the OP.

Why on earth would you "pay back" your parents for raising you???

As an adult why subject yourself to the tornent and insults of your family? Your free to make your own life.

In 1990, I was 26. I had gradated college at 22. With 4 years of professional work experience and no college student debt, I moved out and far away. I went low contact with my toxic family, and I started living a better, healthier life. 34 years later, I feel as though I crawled away from a train wreck. 2024 and beyond are onward & upward!

Parental alienation. The man you need to document every single word. Also try and get it on camera with your kids are telling you. It could help. Your ex-wife is crazy get rid of her. Best of luck

he needs to go No contact with his parents and brother. He also does NOT owe his parents for raising him. No kid asks to be born and the parents choose to take on the role of caregiver when they decide to have a kid. Plus doing the absolute bare minimum DEFINTILY does NOT warrant any type of reward or gratitude. Especially given how emotionally and medically abusive they were towards their son.

Here the kicker

My sister and brother were the golden kids. I went no contact with all of them.

Story 2. Be honest with the kids. Period !

In my mind OP2 is just Officer Luigi because he actually used freakin Mario names for fake names

With story, two dude needs to sue for parental alienation

Daisy? Mario? Peach?! Sounds like me naming pets at 9 years old

The AI needs to ditch the thesaurus. It honestly makes the story so bullshit because absolutely nobody talks like that outside of greenhorn d rate novelists.

Story #2 the OP should go to the court and tell them about how the Ex-Wife is using Parent Alienation tactics with the children. That is a big no no.

I wonder if Daisy started dating Bowser.

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates To The 1st Story & The Updates To The Last Story!*

I also love the fact he said smack dab.

Your parents rip you out of nonexistence without your consent. They owe you basic care.

Tumultuous to say the least 😂😂

Honestly if a grown child doesn’t ask their parents for money. Then you can’t really ask for more

Story 2: OP, it’s Not the divorce that is hurting your kids. It’s your soon to be ex. She is using something called parental alienation. She’s trying to turn your kids against you and it can actually work in your favor if you let your attorney handle it. Your ex is not only cruel and narcissistic she is vindictive and can’t handle that she is the bad guy, so she is gaslighting your kids. Put an end to it immediately.

Parents are supposed provide for your basic needs. They had you, they are responsible for you. You don't need to pay them back.

Is unbelievably sad when grown adults use children as a ploy to get their way and deflect from being horrible parents.

Nah people who suddenly found their orientation while being married are the worse I never saw, witnessed or heard anything good from them… just evil people

90 -120 minutes is not that long or far. It under 100 miles if you are on a major highway. It's closer if you are driving through cities. You must be a very small state, like Delaware, Connecticut, or Rhode Island. 90 minutes does cover a lot of state in those states. If you are in Houston, TX 90 minutes will get you from one side of the county to the other side.

Last story... LAWYER... NOW!

This reminds me of the episode when Meg points out that she's everyone's punching bag and points out all their issues and then let's them destroy each other. Unfortunately, I hated the ending where she became their punching bag again. Family guy

So they ran an employee background check on him (to which he doesn’t work with them), then get to ping his credit? That sounds illegal as hell

Story two talk to your lawyer and Go to the judge and let them know what’s going on and cps! Get them therapy and let them know that no matter what you love them. Just you and wife aren’t in love anymore and she has found someone else.

You do not owe them for raising you. They chose to have you.

for the guy who was dealing with depresion since forever, you should go to a doctor to check your dopamine level, since you can naturally have depression if you have very little dopamibe in your body

this story sounds like its made by AI since it keeps saying dynamc shift and profund and new discoveries and navigate something.... the only reason i think its made by AI because AI love to do this when writing something... normal people don't repeat this few things over and over again... or even use them all in 1 story.... this is what an AI normally writes in a story...

I think you should help your parents if possible and be grateful for all that is given. BUT, if there's no balance, entitlement, boundary breaking etc then you have to adapt.

I feel like people are taking advantage of PI’s at this point and there needs to be restrictions or requirements for hiring a PI (plus a background check) and probably a minimum price for PI’s.

Damn. That was unnecessary.

Damn, i want to see the end of the 2nd story xd

4:16)Does he turn off the lights when telling a long story?

GO!!! no contact?

Story number 2 what you're describing is Parental alienation it's against the law take her back to court take your kids in their have them testify to the judge that those two said those things to your daughter that you hate them and the judge will come down on them really hard

Daisy, Peach, and Mario? I call *massive* bullshit.

Hoe do PI obtain such personal info so easily?

Lets talk about how the second story is pretty much mario characters

I have asthma which is really bad at times

oh story 2 is not AI generated.... lol,....

treated like st all your life whats a good number to come up on a you would o.

Not going to lie I feel like that poster could have chosen better nicknames for his kids for his internet story it'd be one thing like if he named the daughter peach and then the son something like kid Icarus or pit or something like that but Mario I'm like that's a little weird like I get okay yeah his kids aren't dating but it's the fact that Mario and peach are an actual couple real life in the game That's the only part that kept kind of weirding me out

Story 2: OP is a cop, so most of the story is probably lies, and theres very likely abuse from OP involve.d

This cannot be anymore fake

😢

Nice AI page

Story 2 is fake just by listening to the names of ops family 💀😭

These stories have to be fake. WAY too many weak OPs. Also, these stories are too wordy, and use words 99% of people wouldn't know to use.

Dude, can you try better to weed out fake stories? Story 1 sounds fake as hell. I'm not sticking around for story 2

The video is driving me made please stop..

I'm thinking story 2 is fake they just happen to All have names from super mario. hmmmm?

Simp

This man needs to quit acting like a victim and man up a bit he needs some hardening in his heart he likes to whine too much

peach and mario. fake as f

AI

dude those parents need to go back to their century

Story 1: >OP mentions having a therapist multiple times. >Gets a comment to see a counselor to talk things out. 😐 Story 2: Choked on my chicken and dumplings when I heard the names. On all my years of internet stories and fake names, never have I ever heard someone go full Mario-verse. Well done, OP, well done. 👏🏼👏🏼🤌🏼