I'm sorry I'm not pleading next to a man who embarrassed me. Let the mistress stand by his side.

There is no way, if my husband stepped out and made a baby, put my health in jeopardy that would say we both failed. HE FAILED

I think its unfair of the pastor to put his WIFE in front of his church to defend him. Versus HIM vocally apologize and re-devote himself to his WIFE and secondly to his church. This is bad behavior

She's been humiliated yet she's defending him, and he's says nothing just pacing back and forth. 🤔He has to Go.

All those poor kids witnessing this chaos is just awful! The kids are looking at elders as an example, especially the pastor! Smh

She's taking responsibility for her husband's adultery? I have no words.

He lost a bunch of worshippers,in that church. I'd be gone.

Not only is he cheating on his wife but he’s not using protection. He could have given her a STD. This is an excellent example of why women should protect themselves, even if they are married. Marriage does NOT guarantee that a man will be faithful.

He made her look sooo stupid in front of the church. I am amazed that she is still standing next to him.😔 I don't think I could do that one. Imagine being in the middle of a sermon, and what you've been doing or who you've been doing it with walks in to expose you for your wrongdoing for the WHOLE church to see?. He needs to step down PERIOD!! I'm glad they voted him out. It could've been about the money as to why the wife was trying so hard to plead her her husband's case, and present him as if he committed a minor offense. Judging by how composed the wife was, I wouldn't be surprised if she had already known about the mistress being pregnant.🤔

The simple fact that the pastor wants to stay at his position is crazy. 😑

Men never seem to stick with their cheating wives though 😂

Honey- stop. No one expects the pastor to be perfect, we expect him to do his job. The pastor needs to be gone. If the pastor was an accountant and he was found to have embezzled funds, not only would he be fired, he would be arrested. Forgive. That’s good. You can forgive and still tell the pastor to get gone. Pastor - GET GONE!

MOST Pastors these days are so corrupt! This is a main reason I REFUSE to go to church. Touching kids, cheating & money hungry frauds.

She standing by her church hats, her purses, her mortgage, tithes and a parking space and that prenup that is now null and void!

I've always disliked that phrase, "nobody's perfect and everyone makes mistakes". I feel like it misleads ppl to do wrong, on purpose. For example, if I'm in a relationship and I want to cheat, and I'm struggling with this situation, that phrase can pop up in my head to justify it. I mean, I'm not the only person who's ever cheated before... I feel like phrases like this is a breeding ground for evil. Bc if I do it once, what's wrong with me doing it 4 more times. 🤷 Next thing you know, I'm just a cheater. But it's ok, god will forgive me tho, right?❤💙

It takes a lot deception and planning to cheat...

We all fall short yes but as a pastor you have responsibilities. Using the fact that we're all sinners to forgive the fact that her husband cheated and got another woman pregnant is a no no. I hate the fact that the higher people are in the church hierarchy the easier we find excuses for them. If it was somebody else I'm sure that person would've been shamed and never forgave. You cannot preach something but not apply it it's hypocrisy.

The problem is a lot of them so called pastors are not called by God, it’s a hustle to some.

I don't believe I could publicly defend my husband's actions that quickly. Or at all. However, I also understand that conversations happen behind closed doors that we are not privy to. I pray that she steps out of the way and lets him sit in his actions before trying to make things right on his behalf. Yes, God forgives, but there are also consequences. We need Pastors who are held to a higher standard and this man, unfortunately, does not cut it. Romans 12:2

The pastor had no discipline or discernment ❤ sad and pathetic

All of this “stand by your husband” nonsense comes off more like she’s just trying to save her husband’s _income_ . No one is saying he can’t continue attending the church, but he’s proven he’s not fit to lead it. There must be consequences, and said consequences must be REAL.

Fallen and living are not the same thing. The fact she doesn't take any time off to process it, 1 week later, she's lying about how she feels. To forgive is a process... She's not standing for him, she's standing for their income.

We can never walk this walk alone. We must daily ask for God's leading and be filled with His Spirit!

Nobody’s perfect but He needs to step down and spend some time with God. “Whom much is given much is required” Luke 12:48.

And herein lies the problem. Why is the wife speaking? It should be him apologozing to the church and his wife, he laid down with that woman. Yet you have the wife protecting him and to her own detrimemt, openly accepting abuse, disrespect and humiliation from her husband. The problem is that a lot of these men are looking at pastoring a church as just a job, when it is about an anointing and a calling into that role from God.

The wife is a fool. He has no fear of losing her, which is why he’s cheating. She just confirmed that he can do her any kind of way. She didn’t even react in the heat of the moment. She’s standing up trying to prove her loyalty to a disloyal man. This is not of God! Yes, no one is perfect but he’s living in willing sin and needs to step down ASAP!

God isnt mocked, what we sow we will reap.

Everyone falls Short, but I couldn't be apart of that church. I'd be looking at him confused 🤔 and not believing in what he preaching.

That's one thing that I cannot accept. If someone cheats, the faithful partner gets to walk away from them and move on with their own life. Forgiving cheating only condones cheating and unfortunately we women are highly encouraged, even almost forced, to stay anyways. It's time that every faithful partner walks away from cheaters. Betrayal is betrayal.

To add insult to injury, he wasn’t responsible enough to wear protection.

I’m disgusted with the members in the second clip. We are too quick to remain sheep and accept unacceptable behavior. He is not deserving of a flock to lead. #FAIL

Sinfully out of pocket 😢.. I feel for the unborn child being born out of selfish madness.. and the wife blindsided by shame and defiledness of the marriage covenant 😢 that Young lady, and I use the term loosely, bold too proud and the audacity .

I feel so bad for the wife.

The wife better get herself checked! The cheating, the humiliation and to add insult to the injury being a pawn to deflect his wrongdoing is point-blank abuse. If he was able to cheat then he's able to speak to his congregation🤦🏾‍♀️

The Pastor when tested cannot resist temptation. He needs a lot of growth, maturity and his own understanding of himself!

What’s done in the dark shall be brought to the light luke 12 2-3

That title should be man of SIN NOT of GOD....

Brother we are living in sad, disgusting times..Study To Show Yourself Approved..Stay Blessed ❤❤❤❤❤

He is the one who failed. I really abhor when women take ownership for what their men do. HE should be the one speaking and trying to make amends. This is a key reason why some of these people get away with this mess. No one is asking for perfection. But there are BASIC standards. She's trying to keep the bag coming but no. He needs to sit down and she sounds crazy. Sorry. This is triggering. Lord have mercy!

The wife defending her husband’s cheating is why the mistress acted out publicly. Those people would keep lying and pretending like nothing happened and no one would be the wiser. This was a great illustration of what happens in the darkness will come into the light.

If all of this is true, The man should step down and his wife should divorce him. Forgive him, and divorce him. Because he cheated not once but continuously and got her pregnant. So unprotected sex; opening up his married to sexually transmitted diseases. Your actions have consequences, even God says so. He cheated on his wife and brought this sinful behavior into the church. I hope his wife doesn’t get too depressed because of this.

Maybe it’s her fault because this isn’t his first time and she’s an enabler..They might be swingers on the low. Whatever it is, she definitely wants to keep her position and benefits.Perhaps this is how she maintains control over him, I say control because she’s the one speaking for him, that’s not manly behavior, more like hiding underneath mommy’s dress.

Feel so sorry for the First Lady....it's completely shameful for what he did to her..

That's how it is, women always fight one another over a no-good man.

You teach those in the congregation biblical principles and he not following what he preaches.

My sympathies lay with the wife despite her actions here. We will never really know what he put her through or what she is trying to process right now. May God get her through this pain.

They are both as wrong as water is wet. I don’t condone any of it, but I have to say, as a female, she wanted to be pregnant because we all know how not to be. HE KNOWS he’s married and did this anyway. The woman KNOWS, yet, continued anyway. This didn’t have to be…This is sad.

He needs to step down. The Bible says that. His wife is an enabler.. She's just as responsible as him.

I agree with what the wife said. However, The husband should be the one apologizing & asking for forgiveness. Not her. Sometimes, we can take the scriptures out of context. This also shows that he’s not equipped & able to handle the role & responsibilities of a pastor.

One thing a out God is that He will not be mocked. He will expose and reveal what is concealed!! Amen!!

I saw the title and I’m not surprised at allllll. These pastors are a trip down here.

For the wife- The bar is being set so low, you almost can’t see it. Stick with the Word of God and you can’t go wrong. Unless she’s not telling them everything then she should not include herself in the sin. Doesn’t make sense. Just say you forgive him and want to stay together, spiritualizing the wrong behavior doesn’t make it right. Don’t bring others into wherever he and that women made a baby talking about nobody’s perfect. There are plenty of people striving Day by Day to see Jesus in peace and not making sin plans simultaneously. A struggle is when there is resistance. Anyhow, heaven is real and so is hell and Jesus said that Many will come on that day saying they did this and they did that in His name and he’s going to say Depart from me, I never knew you. And what does her response teach other young people or new believers? Probably should’ve taken more than a week to address.

Instead of protecting the pastor they should be rebuking him and telling him to step down from his position. This is why people see this religion as a joke.

I’m not taking a single drop of responsibility for a cheating husband! He would get served divorce papers that same week.

Honestly, if she wants to stand by her husband, that's her prerogative. I hope that she feels the same way about taking care of his additional child! Also, pastors are called to a higher standard! If this lady was a member of the church. He had to have built up some sort of rapport with her before sleeping with her! I'm sure that God convicted him BEFORE he got exposed! Where is the team of ppl that are going to hold him accountable? He should have been confiding in other pastors and men of God about this beforehand! He SHOULD willing step down because of this!

I'm so sick of this excuse! Infidelity has nothing to do with not being perfect! Cheating will ALWAYS be a choice. Ladies stop making yourselves look so foolish by excusing this mess

This made my heart drop . Why would he embarrass his wife like this and this is the person you want us to follow no thank you. I RAN from religion because of stuff like this smh

The wife doesn't want the checks to stop coming in, period.

I can only imagine what has been going on between parties for her to walk into service pregnant looking to fight. Entire situation is insane, and who is right at the middle, the pastor. 😒 Baby on the way into this chaos and he’s running a church.

Why he ain’t talking, begging and pleading?!! She the only one talking?!! It’s a big hell no

This hurts; this is not even a laughing matter; this is actually very serious.

You're spot on; that man isn't suitable to be a pastor. He let down his wife, family, and the church 💔. My prayers go out to everyone, and yes, including him. May the Lord transform his heart.

Thank God they voted him out 👏👏...start holding these preachers accountable to God's word.

The scripture never said there wouldn’t be pastors who are terrible… but that God will judge them and God allows the congregants to remove such terrible leaders. It’s time to start exercising the scriptures and not continue supporting these undisciplined infidels. Forgiveness and reconciliation is for everyone but there are still consequences and “adulterous Pastor” should never be a thing

It's not just society that holds pastors to a higher standard... It's GOD who holds them to a higher standard! ”Therefore thus saith the Lord God of Israel against the pastors that feed my people; Ye have scattered my flock, and driven them away, and have not visited them: behold, I will visit upon you the evil of your doings, saith the Lord" (‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭23‬:‭2‬ ‭KJV‬‬.)

I have no notion why she came to the church acting a fool when she is what she is, a side chick. Who did she think he was going to choose? She put herself in that situation and so did the pastor. These people need to stop playing with God. If you are not strong enough just go sit down.

She's a good woman 😢 I respect her. God bless her ❤

Yes, we do all fall short, are flawed, and make mistakes, so I understood her point about that, but he knew better about adultery. Unfortunately, this will cause the flock to be apprehensive of who they may get next to lead.

If I go to a church and the “pastor” gives me the eyes I’m out and never looking back…..

This is soooo embarrassing. Lord please help us! The devil is turn to have his way with the church and we are letting him.

I think anyone in their right mind would leave. Even biblically speaking. She has the right to leave. He's an adulterer. God would understand. This isn't no they had to many fights and they couldn't tuff it out or work it out point blank and period. She's being a fool for staying with that

Nope, that's so embarrassing! I would be packing my things up and moving right along. The humiliation that will follow that wife for the rest of her life.

No matter what, that Pastor has to be removed from office.

I’ll say this, at least the congregation stood up and said this isn’t right! A pastor is not a perfect leader, as we can see, pastors are often the ones who fall the hardest, but we as congregants have to be well versed in the Bible and have the discernment to say, this isn’t right! Paul didn’t write his letters to pastors only, he wrote them to the church body. I don’t know what happened to this pastor but based on the video, the congregants did not seem pleased and it would be fair to the pastor to be forced to step down for a while while he rebuilds his relationship to Christ

They sure know that can try and try to flip the meaning of a Bible scripture it doesn't make it okay.

THIS A DAM DISGRACE. ITS WRONG, BIUT WHY COME IN THE CHURCH TO FIGHT THE WIFE? GO TO COURT ASND GERT THE GUY TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILD.

She was prepared with that speech. She wanted her husband to keep getting that pastor salary.

Why is she the one speaking? He's supposed to address the church for HIS actions.. 🙄

💔 This is the very reason why women need their own money and stand on her own two feet. If stuff like this happens, she can leaves and not have to worry about finances which I feel the main reason this pastor's wife is spenk8ng on his behalf. Not me, no way.

He ain't the first pastor caught, and he won't be the last. Nooooowwww there's a baby involved!

I don't know about being perfect because we are all imperfect and are liable to sin. What they have to be is honest with themselves to know that when they are not doing right they must step away from that role. Why is she confronting the wife anyway. She must have known he was married..is she in the church as well? And for the wife to have to come and take part of the blame for all that mess. If they had issues how he went about it NOT the way and she has no blame in that nonsense. She is a better woman than me because cheating is one thing...unprotected sex and getting someone else pregnant is a whole different ball game. Can't be holding these positions and doing those things. I hope they voted him down.

This was sad to see happening, kids were there and even I myself, was confused as to what was going on... so I can only imagine some kids being scared too. This is why it is important that we have Jesus as our Shepherd, and focus on Him, and develop an intimate relationship with Him so that He grows more in us and we ourselves become small, then we will be ready to do the good works He prepared for us beforehand. My understanding, based on how the Bible explains things to be done when something like this happens, is that we speak privately first... and that means recognising every time we sin, is against God firstly and when we confess and repent, God forgives and tells us not to do it again. I don't know if the "pastor" confessed, repented before God, but before the brethrem too, the flock he is responsible for. There are so many things gone wrong from the start... I am glad you brought God's word to the subject, it is and should be the foundation of our life and our living while we are here, and to be a light in the dark world we live in. Thank you Shumake 🌷

Facts! 💯 He can stay as a church member, but no longer as the pastor. He brought shame upon himself and his family and needs to step aside and take a humble place outside of congregational leadership. It's really a sad thing to when so much rebellion against the Holy Spirit takes place in the heart that we give Him no choice but to allow private sins to become public. To allow shame, disgrace, to become a new way of life. I hope this former pastor will truly repent and learn in humility to allow God's ways to become his own personal ways. Pray for him, the wife, the mistress, and the soon to be newborn child, too. God wants them all to be in Heaven, too.

In my church,one of the pastor was caught having extra marital affair. He is now out of his job... the church made him resign and gave him time to repent for his sins and return back to church as a ordinary man.

In addition to the church not paying taxes?! So you know it was all about the money. Got his wife looking crazy. 😵‍💫

If anything, both the pastor and his wife must be removed from their place of leadership by the church elders. This sinful behavior on the part of the husband did not happen over night. So then why are they both acting like all is forgiven and forgotten? Its not. They both need time away from the pulpit. Its a place of holiness and its been made a mockery. The wife speaking to the congregation is all unnecessary. The pastor and his wife need to step away and deal with their issues privately and in prayer with the word of God.

This happened in ATL! The Pastor was sat down for a couple of months.

Great breakdown of the situation.👍🏽

The man tells these women "my wife this or my wife that" making the reason for him not being able to claim them the fault of the wife. This sometimes gets the wives of these unscrupulous men killed or injured. The side chick blames the wife for not letting their "man" go. It is sad and dangerous for the wives of these "men".

I can't stand when people say we are not perfect.... you don't have to be perfect to be faithful.

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She was trying to secure alimony. She's about to file for divorce and needs to secure her finances, so she knows he needs to keep his job

He not even a man to stand there like that. A real man would voluntarily step down. God warns what will happen to the person who is given pastoral responsibility and leads people astray. He need to step down, repent and plead for Gods mercy.

I'm with sis behind the camera. Y attack the wife? Because she wanted that man despite the fact that he lacks self control....

My pastor always says that there’s a HUGE difference from God’s church and your church. That wasn’t God’s church that was their church because God’s churches aren’t ran like that

I would still divorce him and he needs to be REMOVED from leadership!

It’s sad that law enforcement got called into God’s house. Normally, they don’t come to churches because it’s private property. They (law enforcement) could not contain the crowd and look at all the chaos in God’s house. The Pastor just should of left while he is still there trying to elucidate himself like it really mattered. Just no order at all. This is why there are more people in the world than in churches. We are to bring people to Christ and not to send them in the other direction

Absolutely disgusting!

Imagine our small or teenage sons seeing this shit and growing up being this freak. Our kids not safe in the streets and they're not safe in church anymore.