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“My body is useless but at least I’m gay!” THIS IS MY NEW LIFE MOTTO

37:46 “The disability community is the only minority that anybody can join at any point in life.” -Molly Burke So true. 100%

alternative title: Molly fan girls over Jessica for 40 minutes

"Hey so I'm Deaf, prone to period of paralysis, fainting, migraines, cardiac problems, dislocating, and my memory kinda sucks. How do you feel about that?" "I just need to know, are you good around trees" The wholesomeness is too real

THEY FINALLY DID A COLAB!!!!!!

“The disability community is the only community that anyone will join at any time.” Is a true statement that is not addressed enough in our society. I truly wish there were classes in primary education that taught people on disabilities and how to assist them. Including teaching everyone how to sign. Education is the key and I am glad to be learning on how I can help and treat those with disabilities so they can live a normal life.

"I'm a left nostril specialist, I don't talk to the right nostril specialist next door."

“my sexuality only brought me joy” this is how it should be for everyone and it’s so upsetting that it isn’t

Marvel: We have the most ambitious crossover event in history. Molly and Jessica: Hold my drink!

"My body is useless, but at least I'm gay, so I have that going for me." - Jessica Kellgren-Fozard

You could do a fashion style swap, so Molly shops for Jessie and Jessie for Molly, so you don't need to meet, but can just ship your orders to the other one :)

I love the "not every disability is visible" stickers. I probably would have given dirty looks to people coming out of the toilets a few years ago if it came up, but I realise now you can't always see their struggle.

The way you know Molly is not faking blindness: no one can stay calm and ignore the cute dog randomly showing up.

"she's animated, but you do you" lol i love it

Molly THANK YOU SO MUCH for literally saying "type 1 diabetic" out loud. As a T1D, while I know that I am disabled, I often feel like an outsider to the disability community, that invisible disabilities are somehow "lesser". I am literally crying for being included. THANK YOU.

Jessica's impression of Claudia's thoughtful nod at 28:55 before asking "Do you still like to go on walks in the woods" was so accurate

I just Googled it, and less than 8% of disabilities require the use of a wheelchair.

Jessica’s voice is SO relaxing!!!

Being legally blind but also not really being all that into fashion, I admit that I skip a lot of your more fashion related videos, but I have absolutely no issue with you doing them. It’s your channel and I think that you doing fashion videos does as much to break down barriers as doing ones specifically about disabilities. It is possible to skip a video that you’re not interested in without having to make negative comments! LOL.

Angry Mom: Hmmm. Not disabled or a parent, I see. Jessica: Oh, no! Cindy! I left her in the car! *runs off*

When I was younger before I was diagnosed with Stargardts, everyone called me clumsy and thought I was annoying. I never realized that other people could see in the dark. And I always thought everyone couldn’t see when they looked straight. I’m happy that I wasn’t the only child that was considered clumsy or dumb because of something nobody knows about. Thank u! I love this collab! You are amazing Molly! Have a great day!

That moment when Molly's voice broke as she was talking about "not looking disabled enough", that hit me hard.

Me waiting for Molly to say something about Jessica's dog when it jumped up on her lap... Whoops LOL

I love how Jessica is aggressively nodding at someone who can't see her 😂

Talking about making topics outside of disability, I found Jessica while trying to find a video about the best red hair dye. But I ended up with amazing insight on disability.

I live in Canada, arguably the politest country in the world we are litterally known as being to friendly ... I am a part time wheelchair user and a couple times I've stood up to reach something because it's easier then asking for help these days, and I've had people yell at me that I was faking being disabled, I just about burst into tears because it was a horribly bad pain day, I composed myself enough to not cry but kinda flipped out on the person because I would give anything to not be in pain all day every day.. People are so quick to judge

The judgment when you have an invisible ilness that requires you to use the acessable stalls in restrooms is so real! I have multiple invisible illnesses EDS, Dysautonomia, and Scoliosis just to name a few. I need to use the taller toilet and assistive bars but everyone else just sees a person that looks normal.

"my body is useless, but at least I'm gay!" can we get merch. I want this on a mug and a shirt. actually no, I need this on a mug and a shirt. please. pretty please with sugar on top.

Best way to enjoy a Friday after surviving an 80 point exam plus a 45 point quiz and trying not to fall apart from anything vision related that gets mentioned in school

Me and my partner both have mental illnesses and that first date story reminded me of us. Like I was, “yeah I have pretty serious depression and anxiety and probably autism but never have gotten a diagnosis” and she was “ok, I have ocd and anxiety. But what anime do you like?” And now we are about to become engaged.

Being a disabled person that stems from a genetic disorder, I resonate so much with how you two explained living with a disability. I don’t constantly think that oh I have DiGeorge Syndrome repeatedly, it’s only when I’m asked about how I’m disabled is when I think about it. I loved this SO MUCH!! 😍😍

Same. Same. Same. It’s very hard when you look able bodied but need the handicap bathroom, can’t stand in long lines, and need help in an airport. Ppl look at me and go, “there’s nothing wrong with you”, I’m like, “would you like to see the large scar on my hip from my hip replacement”... quickest thing I can say instead of explaining my entire disease 😂😂😂

My god Jessica is SO eloquent! And Molly is too but their energies are so different! Molly is professional and polished and efficient, and Jessica is languorous and elegant x

I have a weird relationship with disability I guess. I have ADHD and anxiety and they're technically disabilities (especially since I'm on the crippling end of the spectrum). It just feels weird though even if sometimes I nearly burn down my apartment, get in an accident, get sent to collections, and just start to wonder if anyone should have ever let me grow up and live alone. It sucks when I get overwhelmed in public and just can't do something "normal" because of it. I can't keep friends to save my life. I can keep a job only if it involves a lot of deadlines and feedback. But I only "feel" disabled sometimes. Usually when I'm under supported and can't accomplish something. It makes me feel worse because there's no way to look at me and see how I struggle or why.

Molly, right Now i need to paint a picture for you. When you were complimenting Jessica for her fashion And vintage style she had such a huge smile on her face. During that her little white dog, sitting on her lap, looked up to her. His head straight up, ears are flipping back. The dog just had an expression filled with love and pride Just Like: "yeah, jessica my love, she is talking about you! Be proud girl!"

Jessica out in these covid hallways looking like a 1950s magazine cover😍😍

I’m so grateful for this collaboration. My name is Jess and I have EDS and POTS as well as multiple other mental and chronic illnesses so I see a lot of myself in Jessica. Molly is one of the main reasons I started accepting the label of disabled and becoming a part of the disabled community. I’m working on making content about my life and things I enjoy and this has given me more motivation to do so. I had it in my head I had to wait until I was at a better point or had better things but Molly recently brought up that she films on her phone and now I feel like nothings stopping me. I started watching Molly when she was making videos in the backyard of her parents house so I don’t know why I convinced myself I had to put out super high quality videos to be worth it. I want to document my experience as it is and where I’m at now, like Molly did and continues to do. I’m so grateful to have great role models like the two of you. Amazing video! Thank you! ❤️

I love that phrase, disability is a minority community where anyone can join at any point in their lives. That is so true. No one thinks about disabilities until it happens to them.

I come from Jessica's channel and... you talking about how PTSD is disabling to you makes me feel less bad for feeling disabled by my own PTSD. I honestly sometimes break down crying because of flashbacks, but people don't consider it because "it can be cured" and it's more like "It can be managed". Thank you.

The Internet got me my POTS diagnosis after 11 years of gaslighting. I don’t trust any doctors that make fun of “Google diagnoses”. When explaining my POTS diagnosis to an ER doctor who’d never heard of it he said “wow, you sure seem to have googled it” then told me my doctors are wrong and it’s just anxiety.

I was pulled to watch Molly because of a deep fear of becoming blind from an accident. I have pretty bad vision (I don't think I count as blind) and as a kid I was terrified about it getting worse. This channel made that idea way less terrifying and if I happen to end up blind due to an accident in the future I feel I'll be much more prepared. Honestly anyone can get a disability in the future and it's hard but it's not the end.

THE COLLAB OF THE YEAR!!

I always feel guilty when the only parent change option is in a disabled loo or that's the only loo that has space for a pram. Like sometimes there's a baby change room but it has no loo in it (I mean whyyy?) so the only option for a parent who needs to use the loo and is on their own has to use the disabled loo. Not helpful for disabled people at all! (On another note don't get me started about when the baby change is only in the women's loo and not the men's!)

I was literally commenting about how I think it’s ridiculous that the accessible stalls are used for changing stations, and Jessica addressed it. THANK YOU. I’m not disabled, nor do I have children, but I definitely think they need to be separate.

TWO OF MY FAVORITE CREATORS IN ONE VIDEO??? 😍 I'm so excited to watch this

I have Hoshimoto's disease which affects everything. I don't even feel like I have a community to help and support because I got diagnosed when I was 14 while most people get diagnosed at 35+. It's hard to not have anyone like you. I live in Alabama and doctors refused to see me because I was young so I had to drive to a specialty hospital in Florida to see me. It's crazy. Nobody looks at me and thinks "wow, she passes out, has an autoimmune disorder, is on blood pressure medication at 14, ect.". They look at me and say "she's only 21. Why is she here?" Thank you both for telling your story and for always posting amazing videos.

As someone married to a person with incurable arthritis and chronic pain, thank you for mentioning the pain and invisible things to deal with side of this. It is greatly appreciated.

I’m not disabled but I do a lot of Diversity and Equity work on my campus and I learn so much from you and Jessica that I’m able to bring into my work to try and make sure we’re paying attention to the issues of disabled students

I know that with my own disability/chronic illness journey is pretty unique. Being a black woman, medical racism almost didn’t give me a chance to figure out my illness because my mother demanded a scan and they told me that I have lesions in my intestinal tract and a week later, I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. With that, it has been a big impact in my life. It gives me a platform to educate people about Inflammatory Bowel Disease. Also dealing with mental health disorders along with it, presenting as able-bodied can be frustrating because of hearing “oh you don’t look sick” or “oh you don’t seem sick”.

It’s nice to see someone who also has Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and POTS and can actually explain it well ! It’s so important to advocate for our rare diseases :)

What I have learned from this collab: these two fangirl over each other's content just as much as I fangirl about both of their content 👍👍👍👍

I have a mobility disability/chronic pain and am working on a universally accessible digital theatre project at the moment, and this was SUCH as useful conversation to hear. Thank you. I found myself nodding along with you both so often too. I love hearing we have the same irritations or bugbears while navigating the world. Thanks again. Stay excellent.

My work place has a disabled stall... WITH A POST IN IT. If *I* sit on the toilet with no mobility aids or disabilities my knees almost bump this post. It's a government office and it makes me frustrated every time I think about it.

I love watching molly and other people with disabilities and learning about their lives. ❤️

I'm a graphic designer and the talk about the disability icon is such a great topic to bring up. Definitely a challenge to think of new ways to visually convey disabilities.

Reading these comments is so validating! I have mild cerebral palsy that affects me on a daily basis and it is very much invisible. There seems to be an assumption that people have around CP that everyone who has it is in a wheelchair and cannot speak or move. When I was born, my parents were told this might be the case. However, I can walk, talk, and even write (these things took a long time to master, but it was worth it) As a kid, my parents being too afraid to tell me my diagnosis, I was told by peers that I was faking. Not only with the physical aspects (having a narrow airway added onto that in a way that isn't enjoyable) but with the mental ones as well, which often go unnoticed. To this day, as a teenager with an invisible disability, I get called stupid for having difficulty with basic things like directions, or knowing when I'm hungry/thirsty, and have received countless weird looks for attempting to explain that I need to hold a railing, or need more space on the sidewalk. In theory, I knew there were others like me, but Molly's channel really opened my eyes to how significant that number is. To all these lovely people who have commented sharing their stories, you are incredibly brave, and I wish you the best going forward. I believe we as a community, can make a difference in this world and it all starts with coming together.

I love what Jessica said about creating stories for people and not making it about their disability. I've turned on videos from both Molly and Jessica around my boyfriend and he had no idea Molly was blind until she mentioned it randomly. He also requests the history videos Jessica makes all the time. So awesome seeing you 2 collab!

I'll never forget when my small child ran into the disabled toilet before I got there. I had two toddlers, so I usually took them in there so we'd all fit (we're in a rural area, so theyres not many people in general. Someone came in and I had to extract my toddler from the toilet... I felt so bad, we had an honest conversation and it's just hard in the bathrooms.

Cannot wait to see Molly in vintage!

When Jessica talks about watching content with disabled person doing something they love.....this is how I subscribed to Jessicaoutofthecloset.

Jessica was so accurate about people learning/discovering disability information by accident. I discovered her channel while trying to learn how to do victory rolls 😅 and it's really opened my eyes as to how accessible certain things are especially as a person who's hard of hearing. Still can't do the victory rolls but I'm happier having someone talking and normalizing disability

“You look more capable than you sometimes are” That really hit me in the feels, I live that daily. It definitely made me cry a little.

I SO love this video!!!! I am legally blind and I always go for the disability restroom stall because I am able to find it easier but I have had people be rude to me for using it. It feels so good to know I am not alone. Just because I am not in a wheelchair doesn’t mean I am disqualified from being restroom. Again thank you for this video!

Jessica and Molly: *talking and answering questions about really interesting, awesome stuff* Me: "Vital question!" *thinking* "Is that... Walter or Tilly?"

Ive had a dead ear most of my life and at 25 Im just starting to understand how my own disability effects me. Its mind boggling to me how little we talk about what a disability can look like. we can take care of eachother so much better

I'm not disabled but I love watching your content since it's entertaining and educational. You cannot imagine how much i learn from you every single video. This video for instance i learned why blind or deaf people NEED to sit on public transportation and I never knew. Many of us are not inconsiderate just ignorant. And if you only made blind related content i would've probably never stayed as a viewer simply cause i can't relate. But because I stayed now i watch you and other creators from the community. Thank you

when you're a killer bee and also part of the lovely people 😍💕

Glad to see awareness being made for EDS and POTS. Thanks for doing this video, Molly.

The "deaf"accent is because people never heard them selfs speak or others speak when they have been deaf from birth. When you turn deaf you already learned how to speak and how a voice 'supposed' to sound. Only people don't seem to see the difference between those cases. But you sure know this😉

Aaah!!!! I asked for this collab!!!

I fully recognise that physical and mental disabilities affect people widely differently, I have severe dyslexia and struggled to get a diagnosis when I was young because I was intelligent and could explain verbally what I wanted to say but not write it down as my peers could. I was labeled as lazy and unfocused, but my disability was invisible to those around me as they put it down to child like behaviour and not that there was anything wrong with me. I love these videos Molly they are amazing, and relate to Jessica's story quite closely, listening to these conversations you have with other people with disabilities very often helps me to understand and validate my own struggles and better understand those around me ❤️❤️❤️

my body doesn't work but at least I'm gay is probably the most relatable sentiment I've ever heard.

She reminds me so much of The Age of Adeline and I am 100% here for it!

Had you both not made content that isn't only disability related I would have never watched both of your channels. I am an able bodied woman with no connections to the disability community. I was very ignorant and uneducated on disability topics but your fun and educational videos have taught me so much! Thank you 😊

I agree with the diverse labeling. Everyone please support this.

Molly, you didn't laugh when Jessica talked about her parent's reaction to her announcement about wanting to date an animated character! I nearly peed my pants! Jessica can be SO funny! I just adore both of you!

I've been waiting for this collab for so long!

Omg my two favorite youtube ladies!!! Hope you both are well!💖 I love how all you had to say in the title was "Jessica", because we all know she's the best girl to do disability girl talk with!😂

My psychology professor in college is the one that diagnosed my hEDS. I feel like most of us have similar stories when it comes to encounters with doctors. They need to be doing better with these things, no one deserves to struggle with health conditions and no help. I love this video! ❤️❤️ So much love!

When I read Jessica last name I was like "Hm Kellgren sounds a Swedish" and then I few seconds later, she confirmed it haha

I love that Jessica shared her story with "coming out" when she never really had to, because that was the way I "came out" too! I don't ever hear about people with coming out stories like mine and it feels good to not feel like the odd ball for it, because I was always just very open and I knew my family would love and support me no matter what so I just very matter of factly stated things about liking women and being gay and not being able to fathom choosing to love someone based on their genitals...I started having these talks with my family around age 10 or so?? So it was always just an accepted part of me. Like you both said, I truly hope we hear more stories like this in the future as hopefully the world slowly becomes more inclusive. I love that "coming out" can be a very celebratory thing but you also don't have to have a specific coming out day to make you special or valid. xoxo

The disability bathroom is never a disabled toilet alone, it’s ALWAYS a “family bathroom” I deal with invisible illnesses that make people think I’m able bodied and the people who look down on disabled people using the disabled toilet even if they don’t look it is ableist. We don’t ask to be this way. IT freaking SUCKS

The country where I live has something called a "Help Mark" available for people with disabilities or health conditions. It's a red tag with a medical cross and heart that you can attach to your bag or somewhere visible. It boosts visibility for people who may need a seat on public transport, to use the disabled restroom, or may need assistance in other areas. I really, really think this should be universally used!

Ahhh two of my favorite KZfaqr's! The other day, I was talking to my daughter on the phone who has a wonderful wife that I also adore, and she was telling me that they had not even thought of having a Quaker wedding even though they belong to the Quaker church until she watched Jessica and Claudia's wedding video. Is that not way cool! so we are both fans of her and Claudia! How exciting she is here today with Molly!

Jessica looks like Ariel from the little mermaid and I LOVE IT

It's the first time i see anyone talk about irritable bowel syndrome! i've dealt with it since i was 7 years old, even ended up in the hospital because of it, and it can be really hard to control

I actually discovered both of your KZfaq Channels through videos that weren't necessarily disability-related. And so I kept watching two of my favourite content creators who just happen to be disabled. Love you both ❤

The story of both of you is so inspiring. I am clinically disabled, but it took me a long time to accept it because I am as well a person witj a non-visible disability. I am glad to see strong people on the internet feeling the same and inspiring others with it. keep going! I love ya!

Seizures: added issues: Mental illness, fatigue, amnesia/memory loss, forgetfulness, injury. There's more, of course, but those are the main ones, I'd say.

I am not truly disabled, I do have mild/moderate EDS. I cannot walk down the stairs without holding myself up on the rails. I got screamed at at a trainstation for 'hogging the rails' and slowing everyone down. An old lady just approached from the other side and told me to get out of the way, to the middle of the stairs. I was so scared and upset. Same with seating in a train/bus. I simply cannot stand up. 50 year olds yelling at me that I"m rude when I don't stand up, because 'they are older'. You don't know what someone is dealing with. Thank you for this talk. Also, had the same talk with my GP. He said he couldn't refer me cause there wouldn't be a cure or a definite diagnosis for it. But he said, I agree that you probably have it cause you have all the symptoms for it, and I give you permission to tell people you have it. So that's what I'm sticking with now. Took 20 years to just accept that I will not get a straight forward answer ever, and that doens't mean that it's all in my head, and that I do still have it. Even when there's no 1+1 test for it.

Wow, Jessica's story reminds me a lot of my own story and struggles in getting diagnosed.

The collab everyone's been waiting for

Yaaaassssss the collab we all wished for😍

Okay so I have to relate to Jessica on the bit about adults not listening to kids when they explained that they have something wrong with them. I have a distinct memory of telling my camp counselors that I had a migraine and then laughing at me and saying do you even know what a migraine is? And I did because my mom had told me and because I had them. And it was so frustrating not to be taken seriously and also not to be given medication

Yesss the collab we've all been waiting for!

MY TWO FAVES IN ONE VIDEO IM SO EXCITED

Why do they both have such great teeth it isn’t fair

I lost my hearing in my left ear 3 years ago and had surgery in October 2020, I have had 2 of three hearing bones replaced with metal to help my hearing, it takes 2 years to fully recover and regain hearing. It was/ is the hardest thing I had to go through. Because I was 18 people thought I made it up for attention. Thank you for bringing awareness 😊

The collab I’ve been waiting for!!!