BTW I realize the video was not about it, but I just wanted to comment in order to both help the youtube algorithm and give a shoutout to Alexander before even watching :)

I wish I can get over the resentment though. I'm really starting to hate them and it's affecting my day to day life. I used to be in relationships but I've been used and abused, discarded, humiliated, it's like I suddenly got this target on my forehead

@@kitesupreme8907 I'm very sorry that it happened to you. I hope you will sort this out. Remember, your past does not have to define your future and also it is not a shame to look for a professional help.

yes same. I still get that resentment feeling when I watch some vids of other creators sometimes but mostly when I watch AG it helps me rationalize it.

@@altair91100 why yall alwys complaing about women improve yourself

Cope

@@KP-fy5bf Even if it is, so what? What's it to you? Let me guess, he's 'letting the side down' or you're just wanting to kick a dog when it's down?

@@KP-fy5bf you deserve to get married and then divorced.

Doing things for you is the only healthy way, otherwise it will always have an air of resentment.

@@whenpigsfly8178 please stop complaining about women that dont think about you

Rejection is nothing ive been there lots of times believe me

All more power to you man! No man needs a relationship in which he’s on the losing end. Good luck buddy

The problem is that men have been conditioned to believe they NEED a woman to have a fulfilled life. Its actually women who need men for that not the other way round.

I just want to go to sleep and never wake up again

Read Iron John by Robert Bly. Women are a pleasant distraction from men’s purpose, not the goal or reward. Stop focussing on women, they’re not the answer.

Smart. Be the best man you can be, but do it for yourself. Hang in there, brother.

You were dating the wrong kind of women.

How can they care when they were designed to bond with one or two guys at most? Care goes out the window at an early age for these women…

These people only want a tool for their ego.

@@Big_Abomination That's hilarious, considering most men only want to "get" a woman for their ego.

Ditto

Same here, after the ex wife left a couple of years ago I told myself never again and honestly once you truly let go of that feeling of need or want for women the amount of stress that has been lifted is crazy. I've literally never felt more free and while I sometimes miss the old connection I had with her honestly the idea of giving this up now to go back to something like that isn't so appealing.

@@broke123 Thanks for that input, yours is a REAAL valid variant of the "The Juice is not worth the squeeze". Hopefully you are able to mentally not picture the bad times and just move on, move ahead (I never had a LTR and the possibilities I had and messed up, I keep replaying the bad in my head, lets all collectively as men support to NOT do what I did.)

I'm telling you man, you have to come to a place where you can enjoy the single life while still sourcing leads, playing the numbers game, and pursuing women when convenient and you have nothing better to do. It's hard to get there but eventually you get to a place where you become numb how toxic dealing with women is. That said, never go out of your way for women, spend a bunch of time/money on them, or plan around them actually showing up. They'll never go out of their way for you. the reason to do this is because actually actively pursuing women and running volume increases our chances of success dramatically. Up to you of course, but it's some food for thought

Many of us resonate with you here bro.

Alexander is becoming more and more blackpilled, it’s good to see large channels like his and yours spreading the truth!

Isn't this video a bit of a cope though...? I mean, as much as i aspire to a long lasting, fulfilling relationship, a period of slaying first doesn't seem bad either...

Hey wheat...

Stupid inkwell! I'd seen wheelchair disable man with beautiful girl!

@@jkshallinheritearth3883 squirmy and grubs are your real life example of that. All for the cameras and not genuine love/attraction in my opinion.

Good man :)

If you don't mind sharing, how did you meet? Are you highschool sweethearts, meet via church or family members as common friends?

A man who realizes his blessings is twice blessed! Your wife is a lucky woman and your girls will have the foundation of growing up in a secure and loving family. So happy you shared.

We actually met in college back on 2009. So a whole different dating market back then. Also both of us grew up Mormon, which if you know anything about them they’re all about not having sex til you’re married, which usually leads many to get married young. Currently we both don’t follow that religion anymore because we don’t believe or agree with a lot of its teachings but I do think the focus on chastity as a younger individual can probably be a good thing in the long run. I think they do take it a bit over the top in some cases and cause anxiety with many youth but the generality of it could be good. So yeah in a way I’m resentful of how I was brought up but also grateful for it. And in the end it’s led to what I have now.

@@PGateBaseball trust the results you have now are a blessing, may your marriage prosper further. Dating is a strenuous exercise and sometimes after achieving what you are looking for you ask yourself if it's worth the effort. It's only good if it doesn't eat much of your energy, time, resources and state of mind.

One thing missing here those dating coach and pick up artist can get you that special person

Men have to care about other men, because women wont do that

@@Alexandratheberge He actually did mention that, you might've missed it

You know its over when Tony Stark has a hard time scoring with a modern woman

LOL !! Or to quote Dumb & Dumber: "So you're saying, I have a chance?" I think the mating part of the life cycle is a small part, not the main part. So it is with animals so it is with humans! Enjoy each part and "dance to the music of time".

someone should meme this

😂😂😂🤤

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If that's true, do it, the 90% are not worth it anyway

They’re rare. I’ve met them before though. They’re usually church/volunteer types who think outside of themselves

Women enjoy sex as much as men. Most of us have had one night stands at one time or other. As we mature we move on from this behaviour. I think it is a question of how many and if the woman continues with this sort of behaviour into her late twenties when she should be settling into long term relationships. If you are looking for a Virgin in Western Societies then you might have more success finding a unicorn.

@@20thcentury_toy And then we are all competing for the same 10% of Women. No win

"don't have" is different from "have had". I also exclude women who smoke, but not all women who smoked in the past.

@@newbiegain117 I learned that the hard way and that's why I am commenting it here I hope it's clear

You can be vulnerable without showing vulnerability. Be a man. Then be a gentleman.

If you become soft, I'll take over

@@JariSatta that is one of the most cleverly articulated comment that I have seen in a while.

If she can't suck a golf ball up a garden hose, leave her.

@@olemundoaguilar1224 but good

Thats why mid age women are so depressed they never loved just did business.

What does *having game* mean? Sorry, I am asking because english is not my first language.

@@Sang_Akrobatis having confidence, assertiveness and leadership skills.

@Miguel Alves go to different country where women are shorter and you'll have foreigner effect going for you, maximize rest of the things that'll make attractive. You re Latino, if I'm not wrong. What about south America things not good for you there either...

@@Sang_Akrobatis game means trying to create spark by talking with stacy(beautiful girl) even if you're ugly & old!

Absolutely. It feels good in the moment, but shortly after, there's no substance in it. And when you realize that the majority of them, you likely wouldn't date, it really hits then. But the thing is, the more you do it, the more "addicted" you sort of get to it and want to do so. And the more you do that, the more at risk you put your future. If you ever end up in this position, it's probably best to exit it while you're ahead. I justified a bit of it by saying that most women I've been with, I actually developed a good friendship with. But even then, the casual stuff just doesn't go anywhere. It feels empty after a while.

Worse yet when u get one pregnant

@@BeastMode-oz8qc Yup, there's nothing worse than a phone call or text message saying "We need to talk" or "I have something to tell you" from someone you would not date 😂. Your mind immediately goes, "my life is over" haha. I laugh, but it's reality a lot of times. I've seen guys lives get wrecked because they got the wrong woman pregnant. Damn I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Best to get snipped if you're going to keep doing it. Otherwise, too risky.

Why 'former'?

@@fenyx2558 it sounds like they got into a high paying job, achieved all their finanical goals and then hated the stress that they may have got from that job and then knew if they could save enough money to try and change into a job that they enjoy, even if they have now gone down the road where there is less of the financial reward?

One thing missing here those dating coachs and pick up artist can help you get that special person

@@Alexandratheberge I agree. Learning the rules of the game from them is a necessity if you didnt have men in your live growing up who showed you how to deal with women.

@@elonever.2.071For me the usefulness of those dating channels is basically about efficiency and not wasting you're time and energy.And also about showing guys that approaching the cute girl at the library and asking her out really isn't such a big deal! I don't know why would anyone read any further into this?

@@Alexandratheberge I agree with what you're saying completely friend. I think a man today has to get in a mindset where he can accept that 1) the single life is obviously shittier than a relationship with a respectable woman (which is the motivation not to just give up) 2) it takes time to find that awesome girl 3) while you're looking for that awesome girl, you have to learn to ENJOY BEING SINGLE or the anxiety will destroy you 4) you have to play the numbers and that means chasing every lead because it dramatically increases the chances of finding a woman that's worth and interested in the long haul; having every dating app despite how terrible and miserable they are for men, taking chances in your social circle/employment with girls that reciprocate interest, and chatting up and flirting with girls when you're out with friends, at the store, etc, 5) not every relationship with a seemingly or actually good girl is going to work out, and we have to exit these relationships looking back objectively to learn about ourselves what led it to failure in the first place and be better next time and finally 6) absorb all of the information from the "manosphere" (alexander grace, fresh & fit, Aaron Clarey, The Rational Male, etc) and come to our own conclusions as to what works and makes sense to us. I've come to the conclusion thats just the best chance we've got.

@@quill6408 I see your'e passionate about the subject so i will discuss a few ideas about it with you. I agree with you that you have to play the numbers game with everything at your disposal. And figure out what works best for us. As for my own experience i tried dating sites (which i hated for the same reason Alexander explained)and dating phone lines which was a lot of fun but took extraordinarily long to find a girl that was GF material and was also attracted to me. But for me By far the best way to find a girl i liked was the public pick up( street, school, the mall,pharmacy.library).Its also the hardest because it is quite scary to do for most guys including me to do this! I would like to go on talking about my experience about what i learned about street pick up and everything else if you are interested.And also listen an learn from youre experience and learned wisdom if you like ?

Why would it be much different than porn? I could never be a cad because I just felt horrible about the idea of using a girl and dumping her.

Yep the pareto rule is also evident in other areas of life like how 10 percent of men own 90 percent of the world's wealth etc.

Humble as in not rich? Women don't seem to care that much as long as you got a job.

@@hevnervals One in which you earn 150% more than they do, at least. Game is rigged, don't play unless you like insane odds. Cheers.

@@NahuCommNS 40% of married women are breadwinners now.

@@hevnervals The ones that settled for a man, or are in the process of leaving him. No such thing as a "breadwinner wife" can exist in this world, women themselves won't allow it, because they don't want to be in that position.

Not true at all you just don't know what women want

@@malikwilson7387 They want everything.

What do they want, then?

I suggest more domination and in a fun friendly way. Set a better frame or don’t go on the date. I’m NOT chastising you or your share. Your a real dude, doing real dates. But what I said is truth. Don’t go on the date, if your not going to dominate the frame and enjoy that dominating.

And just like children, they must be trained. Your woman needs to submit to your leadership or it's not going to work.

Nah, its fun to date multiple women. They sell their courses for money, not to make people miserable. The customers are not paying for misery, but results.

Beckett Absolutely true 👍 !!

Especially with the obesity crisis in western countries. No joke, a guy needs to travel to other countries it’s really eye opening when literally every woman in site is very attractive. It opens up so many more options.

@@charliedallachie3539 I think that's 1 of the top 2 reasons why dating is so hard for men in the West: a woman is in the top 30-40% simply by not being fat. So many women are fat and guys get so lonely that they give up and accept the fat women, because they don't have much of a choice! And so then the not-fat women value themselves higher just because they aren't fat, and fat women believe they're attractive when they just aren't. So, in the end, if you have standards you don't have many options.

@@jamesrussell2936 yea I had the opportunity a few years ago to travel over for a friends wedding in Poland and it’s legit attractive women literally everywhere you turn even at the mall….you stand out being an overweight dude if you are. I had only had a 2 weeks to spend there. Stopped by London on the way and it’s pretty much like NYC just more expensive. Definitely travel if you can. Tinder women were booming then overseas too I didn’t do it because I was on a short timeline.

@@charliedallachie3539 I'm from Poland and the obesity rate is low, but woman are as premiscious as elsewhere I guess, even the Catholic ones.

@@BHBalast sure but less so than here in the US. Also they’re more easy to talk to, you can strike a conversation with them easier if they know English well which a lot do. In the US women will have this “why are you talking to me” vibe often (even if you’re decent looking) unless you’re asking for directions or the time.

How to find one though? Especially, when you feel behind and missed out in a lot of things. I know dating market is brutal for men. However, in order to find the one for me I still have to date.

@@flow1465 Quantity. My wife and I met through online dating. You message 100 people to get 10 dates to find 1 that is maybe worth a second date. You have to meet lots of people to find one that is a good match. I liked it that she approached me because she liked the picture in my profile. That's how it starts.

@@InactiveAccount996 Need to up my social skills I guess.

Well you are the extreme minority of happily married men, literally everyone I have ever met in real life, has told me they regret getting married. And that they are ONLY happy due to their children. That doesn't sound like a great deal to me honestly

@@FirstLast-gk6lg Marriage is not for everyone. Some people lack self-awareness and get themselves into situations they later regret. I didn't get married until I was 37. By that point I had figured some stuff out. Getting bitter and resentful after a relationship fails decreases one's attractiveness. Alexander is right on. Choose the one that chooses you. Don't chase. Get a pre-nup. I know I am very lucky - gratitude every day. Sometimes when you don't get what you want, you end up with something better.

@@JJ-hu4cm Dating these modern women, probably. Hell! You only need 10 min. watching tiktok videos or something like that to reach the same conclusion.

At 24, my wife of (now) 30 years actually kicked to the curb a guy who was tall, rich and very good-lookiing -- for me. Because he wasn't a good person. Quality women are out there. The question for every man is whether he can recognize her when she comes along. If he's laser-focused on tits, ass and "getting some," he's likely to miss the gems who actually come his way.

That is exactly what I’m experiencing. The entitlement is astounding. Never settle for someone who thinks they are settling for you

@@graymatters7584 I'm glad you had a good experience a while ago but honestly man, now a days it's all changed, even from 6 years ago. Women have totally changed, the good ones, if there are any, are all taken. Guys do recognize a good thing when they find it generally. But in general, there is not a lot of good ones out there. A lot are spoiled, entitled brats to put it nicely.

@@JJ-hu4cm Is this a serious question or are you trying to virtue signal? I'm not interested in woke or PC culture if that's your angle. You can't have missed that there is a lot of talk of what men need to do in order to be a good partner for a woman, but there is seldom any focus on what women need to do to be a good partner for a man. Even to suggest that women also need to learn how treat a man right is offensive. The blame is always on the man. All of society tells women they are perfect just the way they are, beautiful in every size and that they deserve everything and more just for existing. It's no wonder women have high expectations on men while also thinking it is enough for women to just show up and exist. Any man should be lucky to have her regardless of how she looks, how she behaves or the amount of effort she spends. This is what I've seen myself in modern western women, and also what I've heard from others. Of course there are exceptions, but most modern women bring more trouble than they are worth in my opinion. Maybe you have a different experience? Tell me. But for the average guy. Value your own happiness and mental well-being, either find the rare exception or stay single. Don't bother trying to make a relationship work with any of the others. If you are not the top 5% she will just resent you or disrespect you anyway, for being less than what she really deserves. I'm speaking from 15+ years experience in relationships. I choose to be single now and I've never been happier.

I think 27 is way too young to settle though anyway

Bummer, hopefully he realised that and left her. (Just in case , it would be good if he make it back to the other, but not have him chase her nor anybody)

@@danballe He left but they met up again when lock downs were over. His ex has a new bf now though so too bad for him.

@@diemervdberg7661 If she did, so should he, point him out to this channel and have him on his merry ways, improving himself.

@@paulcolin9071 Possible. I've been back and forth with that also though I'm currently 29. My life has definitely been on the up the older I get and so have options. The thing is though, I think the longer you wait to settle in these current days, the less likely it'll be that you'll find a quality woman. I've met several woman that I could see myself with. Several of them are still good friends. Thing is, most of all of them were around my age. The ones that I would absolutely not settle with, have mostly been those a bit younger. Just a little joke (partially) here, but I'm seeing too much purple and pink hair these days in younger women. And I know first hand, that is NOT a good sign. I was with one casually for a bit and she had that youthful modern mentality. When I started caching feelings, I came to my senses pretty quickly and simmered them down because I knew there was no long-term potential. They are out there doing nasty things but are emotional wrecks. And lots of sex is a coping mechanism for many of them. (Obviously this was one experience, but there's something to it). My advice is to live it up as early on as you can if possible. And when you find someone of quality, at least consider locking her down. I don't think the dating market is improving anytime soon. If anything, it's on an exponential decline.

Alpha is about doing what you want to do. Not what others want for you.

I agree with Ashley, don't let another man tell you what being a man is. in my opinion sleeping around is just a threshold, different for all men, once you have slept with enough women you don't feel like you need to anymore. And in my opinion this is where a man STARTS seeing women truthfully.

I read "The Game" by Niel Strauss and thats been my impression- most players get ABSORBED by the process and addicted to external validation - its a trap bc now they've invested all their spare energy on playing - and - ended up with mostly nothing.

​@@fm2dmax I read that too, about 20 years ago. Was surprisingly dark. But also fairly extreme cases set in a particular time and circumstance.

Ain't that something?

THis is bullshit. Only people who say that sex sucks is people that have it. LIsten i have never had it and i want it, so dont come to me and say it is no good. It's like an olympic gold medalist coming at me and saying "yeah it is no deal, i am not so happy" yet he worked to get it. It is very fulfilling, especially if you are very lonely and ugly. THe only people who don't like it are the ones who have a LOT of it.

@@brickgraims83 yep. Something I realised in highschool, only people who said having a girlfriend isn't worth were those who had no problem getting them and stayed getting them lol. Let me EXPERIENCE those things for MYSELF damn. Same deal with how "pusywhipped" I noticed friends, my dad, and other people get when it's put on them. I always wondered "damn, is it THAT good to make them act that way?" My dad would say all these negative things about women whilst being whipped at the same time smh. Still a mystery of how crazy pusy is that make folks act up.

@@brickgraims83 also same with people who like to preach that money mean nothing to them are those who have it in abundance lol. Like haha, yea, must be nice.

@@respomanify it legalized the drug of sex and deleted love

For sure. And also: c) it will aid you in better identifying high quality and distinguishing it from low quality trash.

That is a thought I had some time ago, must dating sites and advisors preach / teach that mind set that there are women a plenty. but is is kinda a sham. Hear me out It is on point of what Alex states in this vid (and others of his) the women nowadays wants the 1% of guys so unless you are in that 1 % men top tier, that abundance mentality is skewed and glass half full without making you aware of the whole picture, HOWEVER IF you go into the current dating place with the scarcity mentality you are as you mentioned here, going to come of as needy and low class/game/quality, whatever (be it as it may intentionally or evidently) in your interactions with women, specially nowadays. Prepare for the best and the worst expect either, just stick with the process, do not fall into this dating market "Gaming" and constantly having to keep yourself into this market game. As Alex points out at 8:15.

No they shouldn't at least not marriage through the state. Until men and women can pre negotiate their own marriage contract as real equals it should be avoided. Having to maintain her life style upon separation even though you now have two residences? This is why so many men end up living in their cars upon divorce they get financially raped

@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh I haven't seen him mentioning marriage, so I'm not sure I understand this reply. I always operate on a non-marriage basis, unless it's specifically stated about marriage. Because marriages nowadays simply aren't viable. I'm assuming he means any sort of LTR.

So true

You still kept the car and the house though, right?

@@trippmoore Yes. I was smart enough to not get married!

@@SVAdAstra In another comment you wrote, that you have an ex-wife.

@@tonim.9460 Correct. I was married and divorced prior to moving to California.

Bro just go and get a son via surrogacy and you will see how fufilled you will be.

Lol I hear that 😂

Exactly we have no choice either way

Swim my friend. Be like water 🤣

Take the bus

So very true honesty we just need a reset as this is not sustainable anyways. If it wasn't for the lies of omission from our churches, cultural institutions and mainstream media men would have woken up long ago but no... Go on plow horse. Alternative media finally giving us the brutal truth but it's still better than a pretty lie

@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh war for RESET?

@@robbenvanpersie1562 it doesn't necessarily need to be a war. All it takes is men in meaningful numbers not committing and investing in women. Kinda like the herbivore men in Japan.

You can only have an abundance mindset if you have abundance. An undesirable man cannot get abundance

@@JamalW239 If only there was abundance. Most guys just have no standards.

@@0bsmith0 imagine if guys only slept with and gave attention to women they would be willing to be in a relationship with. The women would be brought back down earth real quick

@@JamalW239 based and high IQ. Relationship attractiveness and I would sleep with you attractiveness are not always the same thing.

@@JamalW239 You can have an abundance mindset even if you don't actually have abundance, you just have to be able and willing to walk away at the first sign of bullshit or when the relationship is more trouble and anxiety than it's worth. Most men stick around for all of the bullshit and drama, and if women see that, they'll walk all over you

A quality woman is a myth in today's time, now we are calling women who act in the right way high quality women? that's how every women should act, I don't know any high quality women exposing/educating low quality women and fighting for men{maybe 1 or 2 exists}, making the world a better place and I bet even Alexander himself can't find one for himself, one day he will get divorced and admit that he was wrong.

True

Love does exist. Love is the good feeling both sides get to feel when there is chemistry, and love is the feeling of happiness both sides feel when there is genuine physical/personal attraction. Relationships are about love. What is love? Love is 2 things: first it's a good feeling an emotion, but second it's an action (the action of giving to fulfill each other's needs) Relationships are about love (the emotion) and love (the act of giving) to fulfill each other's needs. Women are meant to receive affection, security and protection. Men are meant to receive sexual intimacy and good companionship. Love so real, we just don't understand it.

There's always people who need to tell us how amazing they are. Dude there are many comments like yours

@@Genevasplaytime More and more couples are having 3 some and are swinging too. Never ever get married, the grass is never greener on the other side. Lots of sexless marriages.

Lucky, keep living in peace.

I agree it is a facade. Especially social media. Every happy picture is like the happy clown who takes off his makeup and cries.

Yeah, I pretty much gave up on the idea of marriage. As a man, there is just so much you have to bring to the table, you give up all your freedom, you put in all the effort, you get all the risk, but you get no guarantees and not very much out of it. I haven't met a single happy family in my life.

completely agree. ALL MY hardest party friends female/male both side when they used to brag "yay56 weeks Clubing straight", now they msg me "so appreciate my wife doing it day after day for me. I feel embarased for being so arrogant n immature". The happiest dudes these days i know r the ones didnt get the 'idea of play boy as happy guy" stuck , they plug them out n realize the happiness is within reach its just up to them if they want it.

There Always a chad who chadder

@@v2xerxes580 😂😂

But what you are ignoring is that you now have an edge over the average guy in terms of options. Use this to get the best you can, then keep the chadiness with the chosen one so se keeps chasing you and getting on your program. This will lead you to a happy LTR.

You just need to be a “chad” in a few other countries and life would be more satisfying

@@AnjekD Facts! And Alex doesn't acknowledge this. The Chd not only finds and gets a higher quality women. But he keeps her, women are loyal when they feel like they don't have a complete hold over their man. When they feel that their man could get another girl as good or better than them, THEN they make the best partners. Alex is describing a Beta dude with no experience or prospects, if this guy gets married it will be to whatever chick looks his way and he will likely not be valued or treated well in the relationship.

@Censored CensoredTrue, relationships only work if the girl wants it to work and not the other way around, any girl can lie and make it look like a perfect relationship, every guy needs to get red pilled before even trying to salvage or get into a relationship.

Agreed. I'm 50 years old. I've known hundreds of people in my life. The number of truly happy long-term relationships I've come across is probably under ten. Off the top of my head, I can think of three happy-ish relationships where it was two genuinely nice people together. I can think of a couple others where it was two raging a**holes who worked as a team. Beyond that, it's a desert. Many people stay in miserable relationships for a long time.

@@patricksquinlan1 Men educating men is what's gonna save men. Amen.

@@patricksquinlan1 I agree with that sentiment and I've found that in my own experience as well, but with that information, what are we supposed to do? given modern relationships are absolutely hopeless and modern dating is an irradiated hellfield. just give up on it completely?

@@patricksquinlan1 Facts, I am the same. Known men all around the world from all different cultures and couple dynamics, and yet 100% of them have told me not to get married. Even the ones who do actually like their wives(rare) even them tell me, stay single unless you want kids.

LOL, been my experience too.

@@sethaldrich6902 Or a gold digger :lol:

If you aren't the gold at the end of someone else's rainbow you aren't likely to find any for yourself.

Something has to suck in a relationship.

@@doomguy9049 That’s true - however, that is only a necessary criterion; not a sufficient one. 🤓

Love, truth, compassion, reason, perseverance, courage, goodness, virtue, discipline, responsibility.

Facts. I have been in both great LTR with high quality women, and also been seeing 10 women a week. And frankly I would rather be alone and just occasionally date, I almost always enjoy solitude more than company.

@@FirstLast-gk6lg your mbti type? Also are you a loner.? Or introvert?

@@searchrankoptimize idk what mtbi means. And definitely loner and introvert. I am extremely content alone and essentially 100% of what i need from a women is physical release

Amen

Depends who you are with really, I've been on both sides of the spectrum. One where I thought it would be forever, living the dream and unfortunately it ended because of circumstances. There was also this other relationship where she was so toxic because of past trauma that I left because I was becoming a monster I never thought I'd be able to become and I didn't want anything bad to happen. Love is double edged sword, it can be the most beautiful feeling or the most damaging one, depending on the partner you have. Now I'm stuck in the dating market and I've been thinking about leaving it. I've got projects so women are only distractions at this point, but at the same time I would like to feel again, the type of love the first LTR I described in my comment provided me with. These girls are rare nowadays, sadly... One in a million kind of girl.

I think so too, it feels more bitter now compared to more "analytical" videos of articles and such

He got blackpilled

@@prens4049 He woke up to reality and the toxicity of modern, overly entitled women.

Womanizing is great at 20 yrs old when all you can think about is sex but after 30 yrs old you do feel empty

So you're saying as part of an abundance mentality, you shagged a bunch of uggos and fatties.

@@Alexandratheberge yep and women above 30 feel Worse

@@robbenvanpersie1562 doesnt seem to affect Leonardo decaprio though!

I never really had that phase of just sleeping around (34 years old now). Don’t feel jealous, but small piece of me feels like I missed out. Even in my 20’s I enjoyed how my life was going and the thought of contracting and std or knocking up some girl I wasn’t in love with caused me so much anxiety that I just never gave into those temp stations if sleeping around. I think everyone is different.

Can modern Western women DO that?

This almost sound like if you have hope

Modern women are only worth staying away from.

Same with a job.

@@senister14 isnt that so true lol

all bs 55 here

@Kang The Conqueror yup. Keep away from when they’re feeling hostile.

High quality women understand that they are tricked by the only one who benefits and that’s Chad. And that also the name of the real trash in the game. And the evidence is the pool of 35y old women wanting to settle because Chad is now abusing the next generation. Just last weekend I told my 2y grandson that the oven running at 200C is hot. He looked at me like the Chad chasers look at this video and tried out. He learned something he will remember. (I took care it only hurt but was not dangerous). How many Chads are needed to find out counting d.cks is not mentally healthy?

@@fromgermany271 the key is that it was your grandson. The number of chad d.cks needed to be counted is infinitely high for the very same reason that guardians generally don't put their grandaughters through that same oven lesson - they instinctively know that such lessons are futile on little girls because they instead operate on intense instinctual fear and avoidance. Also, because females are not expected to navigate the world in such way.

I agree. Feminism changed society to suit only women’s needs. We need more balance back in society. Young Men need more from society than they are getting.

@@whittakerwinstanleyiii4051 time will change

I cannot agree more. Leaving a perfect life, wife, children....Its just too sad. Atleast he could've had a side fling, not saying thats ok either, is even more selfish but as long as nobody found out. Atleast his kids wouldn't suffer.

Women do it a lot as well - I know of several who were sure that they had "settled too soon" and wanted to "explore their sexuality." Quite a few started affairs (and not by accident, they schemed and plotted to get an affair going with a man they had identified).

​@@JstJaybeingJay My issue is with the sympathy that he treats this man with whereas he is often very harsh when talking about women who do the exact same thing.

@@farmerbrown84 That's not the point the point is that when a woman does this she is labelled 'low value' but when this guy does it Alex makes excuses for him.

@@josetheman239 I'm confused why are you guys complaining about women

Then live happily! And if a partner just happens to come into your life, you aren't dependent on them and you have no false preconceptions (expectations) that the partner has to live up to. See where it goes... or not. It's up to YOU - the greatest form of freedom. 👍

If you're happy being alone, then there is no problem, obviously.

@@s.m.g.2391 " fine with being alone and happy, but a little bit of hope would" This sounds like a contradiction.. I guess you're mostly fine with it, but far from desirous of it in the long term.

This. Once you realize that being alone is liberating and incredibly peaceful your self confidence rises exponentially. This takes work: working on yourself. Working on your health, financial stability and mental acumen.

Yeah people are allowed to have an intended audience that doesn’t include everyone.

When you get loved proper, you don’t want anything else.

What died that mean sound like you complaining

@@malikwilson7387 What.?

Beautiful analogy

Good for you bro! Keep giving it everything you’ve got. Keep in mind, women generally need more space than men in order to get turned on. Use that, live a robust life.

In reality as you get older post 40 etc just the scraps are left anyway. Finding a high quality mentally sound women that is available and into you less 1-5% if that.

how do i find a woman like yours?

Because he 10 years before, suffered to be neglected by these kind of beauties? Women don't know what young women do with youndg man's idealism. Work hypothesis.

@@jemacofra yes, you're right. My ex was very idealistic. He has since also left his second wife!

That's disappointing. I wish you the best. 👍🙌

Why was it nearly divorce? 25 years marriage is an accomplishment even 10 years, assuming you have a 100% faithful women that never stepped out in all those years, and you wife didn't weaponize affection or children, or gaslight abuse.

My experience was the opposite

It's only fractions of a penny. Sign up for his patreon, I bit the bullet a few months ago and no regrets

Every man thinks his wife is "his world" and that she's "given him purpose". But most of the time, he's just deluding himself. Half of marriages end in divorce, usually initiated by the wife. And men lose everything in a divorce: their house, their kids, their money. Hopefully this doesn't happen to you, but you should be mentally prepared for it, otherwise you won't be able to deal with it.

@@VirideSoryuLangley that's usually because people don't exercise good moral judgment in partner selection, and because either the family and friends don't hold them accountable like they're supposed to (that's literally the whole point of marriage ceremonies having witnesses) or not having other people actively involved in their life and wanting what's best for them (lack of community).

@@VirideSoryuLangley I think diamondback is fine without adopting a cynical, paranoid approach. Sounds like he's got his act together and is quite happy.

17. Your body count is higher than 90 percent of guys.

I can see how it would be degrading to your self-esteem to sleep with women you don’t value.

One thing missing here those dating coachs and PUA can help you get that special person

@@Alexandratheberge Do you really want to resort to using narcissistic manipulation tactics to get a partner?

@@lamalien2276 No and i am certainly not talking about manipulating anybody!

What makes her fantastic and why do you love her so much i like to know