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Almost 28 years ago I asked my girlfriend what she wanted. Without hesitation she said, “whatever you want.” We got married the following year. She’s followed me around the world and has supported me even in the worst of times. I was almost killed and left for dead. They sent me home and I had several surgeries. Every time I woke up from surgery her lips kissed me. When my kids were born it was her lips that fist kissed them and, God willing, it will be her lips that kiss me for the last time before I get my final orders. They are out there boys. They are just hard find.

Men boycotting marriage have denied women their retirement fund.

Never seriously commit to a woman who’s obsessed with social media or possessions. They will demolish your life from the inside out, then find a new relationship in 3 minutes while you clean up the pieces.

Experienced divorce attorney here. I approve of this video. I see the “happiness myth” every day in divorce court. Happiness is an INSIDE job. Nobody can make another happy forever. Stay safe out there!

The modern Western woman wants a man that will make her his priority and work hard and diligently with all his efforts to make sure that she achieves HER goals. Many of them expect this while simultaneously bringing little more than entitlement and unrealistic expectations to the table.

I don't think it's male ego. Most men think every problem has a simple solution and for the most part that's true. If you're fat, you diet and workout to lose weight. If you're not making enough money, you work longer hrs or find a better job. If your woman is unhappy, you shower her with gifts, time and affection. The problem with that, is that women rarely work towards what makes them happy, which kills a lot of relationships.

Materialistic women should be avoided at all costs!! take it from an old guy who's been there they make your life a misery..

I once came across a woman like that on a dating app. _She_ messaged me first so I thought... "interesting." A quick google search indicated she had kids, something she had neglected to put on her profile and not what I'm looking for. Didn't want to straight up call her out on it, so easier thing to do was to drive her out. "So what are your goals and aspirations? What are you working on right now?" I could easily tell her interest disappeared and she disappeared after a couple of messages. 😂

I am from Perth, Western Australia, and I found women here in Perth now don't look at me when I am own my own ,but when I’m with my partner, I find out more women stare at me when I’m by myself I am ignored. I agree with Alexander about women having cat syndrome.

I’ve had so many failed relationships. And they can all be linked back to dating women like this. Whenever I meet one I feel bad for how unhappy they are, and I always think wow maybe I can change that for her. I show her just how amazing life can be, and I always just end up being dragged down to their level of misery

"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy

A man without a career is a "loser", a man with a career "neglects" his woman. Ah, the classic dilemma. Good luck, girls, at finding a wealthy high status guy who's working halftime.

Modern women: Being a good man is not enough.

My late wife was one of the least materialistic people I've ever met. One such example of this was when we got engaged. I had a matching engagement/wedding ring set which was from a previous engagement in my prior relationship. My late wife suggested (she suggested, not me. I didn't even hint at the idea) we just have those rings resized & cleaned for her rather than spending thousands on new ones. There aren't very many women out there who would be happy with rings originally given to someone else, let alone for it to have been their own idea. I fell in love with her all over again in that moment. because what that gesture proved to me was, that it wasn't any materialistic thing I could give her that she valued me for. It proved to me that she valued me for me. & It proved to me that it wasn't the rings, the dress, or the day that mattered to her. What mattered most to her was that at the end of that day she would be my wife & I would be her husband.

Had a friend at my first job go through this exact same thing. Woman spent his money like it was going out of style, buying all new furniture for their house, every 6 months, etc. When he had to work more to cover the bills she was wracking up, she cheated with and then left him for an unemployed loser. Wild.

Women love men opportunistically while men love women idealistically. Women will always love on the condition what can men provide be it's height, scale of attractiveness, income, status, networking. So Women are resource extractors and men always have been the providers. Men selects women on beauty and youth. And men expect loyalty, trust and respect. And no matter how independent women are they'll always expect the men to be better.

Yes and the husband also bought HER.

Social media is ruining young women like porn is ruining young men.

My ex-wife was obsessed with comparison. She was always on IG late at night (1AM, 2AM in the morning) comparing her life and her lifestyle to her friends. She would then spend all her time moaning and complaining about her reality versus someone else's IG highlight reel. These women will also prioritize her friends over you as the husband.

I fell in love with a woman that at the start seemed like a good match. She would tell me about her former boyfriend who was wealthy and who trash heaped her one day when he got fed up with her and immediately had her replacement living with him. We were looking for a house to buy and she found a massive one that she liked. To make a long story short I said no I'm not buying it. Well she ghosted me. She said she liked things and implied I should provide them. After mullinig around for a weekend I dumped her. She was engaged to another guy within a year. I dodged a bullet.

*The post-Feminist fairy tale:* _A handsome Prince asked an empowered __-toxic self absorbed-__ female to marry him and she said "No"_ _And so the handsome Prince got to ride his motorcycles whenever he liked and drove fast cars whenever he liked and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age and drank beer (not Budweiser) and Bourbon (not Jack Daniels) and drank the milk straight from the carton and_ *_never heard any f|_|cking nagging_* _and went to rock concerts and he never got cheated on while he was away or at work and he got to keep his house and his jeans and sweat-top and hoodie and all of his friends and family thought he was a cool as Hell and he had tons of money_ *_and he got to leave the toilet seat up ... in other words he lived Happily Ever After_* _The End_

Did he really just say, "When your girlfriend tells you a funny joke, that makes you laugh?" When the hell would that ever happen?

It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor. They aren't loyal. When times are good, they will stick with you. When times are bad, you better believe they will ditch you like a bad habit. I don't think I've met a single solitary woman on the planet that didn't monkey branch her way from one man to another.

I’m beyond thankful for both my parents. They cared for each other and us the children. We didn’t have much, but we were never hungry. I hope be like my father and to find a woman like my mother.

The male ego and male thirst always f*cks them up.

Never go out of your way to make a woman happy because you can never make a woman happy. No matter what you do, it's never enough. Nothing is ever enough for them. You can cure her cancer and she'll still say that's not enough. So glad I am staying single for my whole life. I don't need the headache.

Yep. This comparison model destroyed my marriage.

no woman will ever strike her claws into my flesh

I love how objective, logical and thoughtful your videos are. Never any hate or malice in anything you say.

TBH I had a beautiful ex gf who was a black hole and wanted children, but it was more of a obsession to her, she wanted to marry very fast. Well, now shes 37, she still very beautiful (geneticly gifted, im younger than her and even my younger friends says shes beautiful, still gets a lot of attetion) but got divorced for the third time. We reconected after her last divorce so we remember the old times (lol) and its kind a sad once she opened up… She said that dont want marriage and kids anymore and is very lost in life, taking antidepressives, feels that dont have a purpose and dont know what to do. I cant help but to think she brought this on herself.

Thank you! I always get a bit of a chuckle out of the social media-addicted. I mean, all I can do is laugh cause I wanna cry since it's so sad they're so dependent on a device to show them where they are in life. Perhaps looking inward and finding out FOR REAL where you are in life is the true key.

Thank you, these are some really good insights you have brought to light. I look at a person as if they're happy with what they have versus being unhappy with what they don't have.

'My husband, he bought it.' And in the next breath: 'Ayma stroong eendeependent woooman!' 😂😂😂

One of the truest videos you've made, that resonated with me so deeply, to the point where I feel a heaviness in my heart...

This is why I really don't listen to my wife I always give her what she needs and minimize the things she wants.

“ I’m so so much better at sitting in a contemplating nature” you just described 90% of the hippies

A story I heard over radio years ago has stuck with me, a guy calls to the show and says that he feels humiliated & betrayed by his wife, he said 3 nights ago my wife told me she wanted a new coat that she saw and he said "not right now, in one week I will get my pay check and I will buy it for you" then she got angry and said "well if you can't I will go with someone who will" and she left, he thought she was just making a tantrum but 3 days after right before the call she arrives with the coat and more gifts.

exactly this happened to me. I should have figured it out earlier when i badly broke both feet meeting her never ending needs for money that when she came home and saw me with both legs in a cast asked me how long i will be off work. When i seed 8 weeks she burst into tears and screamed why do you do this to me. Do you hate me. WOW

Happiness in life doesn't come from the material but from within. More people should understand that the pursuit of luxury is a sure road to nihilism. Adding on the topic of the "empty void" Alex mentioned reminds me of what Thomas Aquinas said: "Nothing created has ever been able to fill the heart of man."

This was a great perspective Alexander. You hit something uncomfortable in my recent partner decisions.

You are the man. What a good video. Never heard this laid out like this before. One of the best videos ive seen on relationships in some time. Excellent excellent content.

This video is absolutely fantastic! Thank you so much for creating it.

"My car , my phone , my husband ... he bought it. The hunk from gym, oh just a friend... my husband he bought it."

This turned out the best general life advice I heard in a long time

this is the best video you made in 4 years, please more videos about how to seperate someone datable and undatable with a simple question you can ask online or on the first date. Well done

Yes it has to do with ego, and also a lot of people think everyone is same so everyone can change to good as they are . I struggles with this because I also thought everyone is same . But in an opposite direction, like if I see a bad behaviour I don't like from one person id think everyone else is evil too and this is the norm. There was a point in my life where I thought this is the case so I stuck around with my toxic friends when I was 17. Now tho especially thanks to you Alexander grace for teaching me that people are on spectrum like low quality people and high quality people. And what are high quality the behaviours and low quality ones. It has helped me ton , reduced a ton of suffering and abuse that came from me hanging around toxic people. I can't thank you enough.

Mate you weren’t born on Earth,you were placed here.thank you so much,some how your truth doesn’t sting so much,and the truth rings hard.never stop🙏🏾

Social media now, magazines before social media became fashionable

100% agree. If you meet a woman like this, don't walk away, run for your life.

The sad thing is, she thinks she‘s smart and clever.

Janet Jackson told us a long time ago. “What have you done for “Me” lately.

My Man, You keep up the good work. Shout out from México

It's tough to accept that having good communication with a woman may just reveal that you are not right for her, but better earlier than later.

I saw where the intro story was going the instant the husband was pressured to work harder/longer hours.

This is the first video of your channel I have seen and the audio is perfect (meaning that I don't have to use subtitles to understand what is being said). The content is also perfect. and you summed up the video within the first minute and a half.

You nailed this one, Alexander! Cheers!

Almost every answer from my ex was, idk, maybe, I guess. < The most exhausting 8 yrs of my life.

Such great insight. Many years ago I spent four years trying to make a relationship work with a woman with this mindset. My life was turned upside down, and it took me a long to to put the pieces of my life back together.

When a woman says "I don't know" she means "I don't want to give you the honest answer". Noticed that many times over my nearly 60 years

TL;DR Ex-wife compared our relationship to that of her brother and his wife, which caused her to spiral out of control and for me to end up with majority custody of our children. My exwife would compare how we were doing to her brother and his wife (long term girlfriend at the time). The problem with the comparison was that she wasn't accounting for the fact that her father made a youtube channel with her brother. Her brother stopped making videos while her father didn't. yet even though her brother wasn't making videos he is still able to collect half of the money made from the channel. I pointed this out to her several times and she just would listen to reason. Then, along with the depression that she put herself in because of constantly conpairing our life to theirs, she started to lie about going to work becasue "well my sister-in-law doesn't work and they are able to make it". After which she would steal medications and spend every last dime we had on the dollar tree to make her self feel better. She would also steal clothes from donation sites and give things that costed a lot of money to buy away from free (even thing our children were still playing with) for the warm fuzzy that it gave her. After putting up with it for about 6 months and trying to work with her to get through it, i filed for divorce and ended up with 67% "Parenting time" (custody) of our kids. She has gone around telling everyone that I'm the one at fault because I cheated. I won't give myself a way out on this I did cheat. The way I cheated wasn't the normal way a man would cheat I never cheated physically. I cheated emotionally, I was ready to be done so I started talking to other people. After watching Alexander's channel for so long I realize I should have acted differently and I know I made several mistakes. I wasn't thinking about the subtle clues she was leaving that were telling me that she was a low quality woman. I also wasn't thinking about what my actions were doing to myself. Thank you Alexander for helping people like me to understand what it is that we need to improve on.

I‘m so grateful to talk to a woman who has a private instagram account, who barely uses thar app anyways and who doesn’t mind that I‘m not earning a ton of money in my future career because she understands that this will bring more joy to me than money.

Love your take and respect the way you put it together… 1000%

Remember fellas, TIME is the most valuable resource we have to give to our family!

I know it is not easy to find happiness, but one of the keys is to find yourself first. This is why there are so many men who are single and happy. They found themselves. I do not understand some women or men who are jumping from one relationship to another, trying to find happiness. At the end, they just found chaos. Happiness is free, but it is worth gold.

Sounds like such a common situation. I see it happening to my brother too where his wife got everything she wanted yet it never seems to be enough and she at the end of the day is asking for a divorce now

Thank you. Very true words. Happyness comes from inside and we all have different things, who makes us happy, because of our different needs to grow. The important thing is, that it comes from yourself, what makes you happy and not influenced by others. Maybe inspired, but then do it your own way. 😉

Thank you very much, I knew the attention problem already but now because of your explanation it is cristal clear!

My husband got lucky with me. I am the opposite of most women. I don't like to compare myself to other people, I'm not materialistic, hate material possessions, don't like receiving gifts, like simplicity, am a homebody, hate wearing make-up, never spend more than 30 minutes at the hairdressers, don't have long nails, have no social media (only KZfaq)have never taken a selfie, and am happy when I'm home with my husband and son with me. All I need is sunshine, a book to read, a place to walk, the internet (to read) and yoga plus my husband and son. That's it. My husband buys more stuff than I do and I'm the one that has to keep him in check!

This video make me insecure about relationship with women even more

A G. Your the absolute Best interpiture of womenese ! Ancient philosophers thru the ages have attempted explaining this unpredictable apparent inconsistencies ,only to fall short... It's like you discovered the ROSETTA STONE , Between realty and womanese ..

Arrived here sharply W alexanader and his uploads .

If you think you've met a dream woman, you just don't know her well enough.

My dad was a hard worker. They got married in 1958 i think, both having been raised traditionally. My dad drank when my mom met him. Both are white caucasian, with light eyes. They had 4 children. Girl, boy, girl, girl. By the time i was 12 (1972) the marriage was already in trouble. My mom increasingly influenced by feminism and hollywood (increasingly portraying dark haired/eyed men as hero's, while in the 60ies it was still mostly light) We, children mostly traditionally raised, but increasingly affected by modernity. Among which is feminism. Quarrels increased between my parents. My dad, a very sensitive man and my mom actually pretty strong minded. And as such things go, when a quarrel erupts and children are there, the man's expression is quickly scary, while mom seems safe. (maybe its tone of voice). Even though they tried to hide it, it only takes one time for a pattern to set in, So children then move closer to mom. And my dad, sensitive as he was, must have immediately felt it, but was unable to react or fix this. So a block formed against my dad. All against dad. My mom blamed his drinking. By 1980 they divorced. Soon after i heard my mom say about men "he has such beautifull dark eyes and hair'. And i was surprised, bc we were all light haired and light eyed. Where did that come from and did this mean i wasnt attractive??? Since i was the only 'man' and mostly influenced by my mom and sisters, it F'd me up good. Thank god that the basis was right, but the effects of this all, were bad for 3 out of 4 children. Since my youngest sister was still quite small, we (mom and the 3 older children) tried to keep that youngest out of all the trouble that was an almost daily routine at some point. It wasnt pretty... Both my parents got into a new relationship, which posed problems in itself for us. They are both long gone now and the saddest thing there is that even the funerals are 'tainted' bc of those new partners they found. Odd things happen then. For us; my sisters and me: My oldest sister, now 65, has never had a long term relationship. When she was 17 she dated for a year or so with a guy. Nothing since. I dont think she has se>< either. And ofcourse no children. She has difficulty with men. We've often talked about all this, but she's unable to see things differently. I mean, when i show her facts, she can up to an extent accept those facts, but she never wants to work with it. She always says she is not like that. And she isnt. The problem is that what she is, doesnt fit with the rest of society. It never did, bc part of it is based on a lie. Its sad. Me, my longest relationship was 9 years and i have 2 daughters. We split in 1997 and i havent been able to find someone. I gave up some 16 or 17 years ago, after a few disasters. No sex since. And all of this also destroyed the relationship with my daughters, who are even more influenced with modern BS. I was high IQ, high performing and because of things, saw through a lot, early on. All the illusions and lies, but it left me with one illusion that i just couldnt give up; love. And that one broke me. Of course. Bc the more illusions you swipe off the table, the more important the remaining one(s) become. We have to believe in something, so i knowlingly decided id keep the illusion of love, bc thats the only one thats possible (for some time). But it broke me, as i was and still want to be, deeply in love with that one. Im 63 now and the chance on that is long gone. Because im stuck at age 30 or something. My body doesnt agree. I ended up in prison even. I guess thats when ive had enough. I dont need anyone to be miserable. And its much safer alone. Not nice though. I decided that chance on happiness just wasnt worth the risc anymore. I cant trust anyone anymore. And am obviously very damaged goods, so which decent woman would even come close to me? Cant blame them... My next sister, was a 'hotty' back in the day. And she sure dated a lot. Ended up with 4 boys, from 3 different fathers... and is single. Dont know how long now, but it all failed time and time again. She was a handfull. A nice person as long as everything is fine, but oh boy when her relationship(s) was in trouble. Then she got completely unreasonable and dragged everyone in the disaster. I mean, to illustrate that. She once had a BF, father of 2 of hers and he had a good job and they bought a house. But it was old and needed a whole lot of fixing up. So i was helping him with that. And one day, it seemed they had gotten into a fight. I thought, well ok, they will make up and its no reason to stop working on their house, right? So i went there and worked with him. At some point my sis called me and said i needed to come over. I said ok. He was laughing and said "now youve done it". We laughed about it. As i got to her house, where she still lived, she was mad at me and started yelling. I tried to defend by saying they would get back together, bc they had fights at times and the work on the house needed to go on, right? She said NO and that they had broken up and i wasnt allowed to work there. (all for free btw,.... for her) and she got violent; slapped me, scratched me and ripped my t shirt in half. So i said ok ok, ill stop working on it. So i drove back there and i didnt have to even say "look at me" bc he saw immediately. And he laughed that she had ripped my shirt in half. So i said im sorry, but ive got to stop helping you. He understood of course. Well i could laugh about it too, but was also embarrassed and what have you. Oh man, she was a handfull. Anywise, she is more stable now, as shes 60 and not in 'the market' anymore. And then my youngest sister (which we tried to keep out of the trouble). She's i would say a high value woman. She's fair, friendly, helpfull, good morals, good looking, hard working (in a man's setting!), stable, realistic, etc. She didnt date much with different men. Eventually married a friend. Not a great looker or great intellect, or huge status, but a regular pretty decent guy. Theyve had some trouble, but are still together. And had 2 children. Theyve got a nice house. 2 cars. Etc etc. While all the rest of us, didnt only fail wrt relationships, but also wrt carreer, even social group, etc. We all keep our heads above water, but barely. I know, this is just one story, but its pretty illustrative to how F destroys marriages and leaves children with even less of a chance of a succesfull life and a chance to happiness. In the 80ies already there were studies published (still have some..) on how the chances were lowered to a long term relationship, for children from broken marriages. I remember talking with my older sis about it and how we were Fu.k.d. But we didnt know how to fix ourselves. I still dont, bc ive been taught the wrong things, and even though i KNOW it all, i cannot change much. And its all too late now anyway. Too old now. I mean, even with knowing what i know now; i still want to put that one woman on a pedestal, even though i know you should never (openly) do so. I still want to be completely honest with that one, bc in my head, it cannot be real love if im not. But i know you cant be, bc women cant deal with that. I mean, maybe there is one that can. Yea, find that one. I have some theorethical, perfect picture in my head of what love should be. Its completely unrealistic. I KNOW that now. But i cant change it. Even if i had to do it all again, id be more succesfull, for sure, but i still would fail probably. Because my idea of love is wrong. Or as another guy once said, some 25 years ago, when we were talking about it and i said i wanted true love, he said "you have a better chance of getting that island you want for yourself, than that". And i KNEW it was true. But i couldnt change what i wanted. Its unbelievable how much damage F... did.

These last two videos were really good. I like the no b******* approach to just saying how it is

Excellent video. Just excellent points all around.

In Australia; should you end up in a marriage or a "defacto" relationship that is recognised by the law, then dare you disappoint her in your provisioning and/or how you treat her and she no longer "loves" you or wants to be with you; then she has the option of divorce raping you of assets (e.g. a house) that you had before you even met her.

Alex is so right about high quality happy women are content with aging. Their value derive from her important to her family. Hence the prevelence of so many middle age women desperate to look like they used to. Madonna recent plastic surgery is a clear example. These women need attention and affirmation from not just their husbands but as many people as possible. And the higher value a male is, the more valid their validation is. Who care about a fat, bald, beta husbands' validation when chad valdiates these women? Probably why these type of women are prone to divorce and cheating.

8:30 oh, that relates to "dating market value". Lot's of talks about it feels toxic. But I couldn't figure out why. Superiority vs happiness. Yes! I'm a woman and listening to talks about "value on a market" made me anxious cause it draws me to social rat race and kinda puts a price tag on me. But my true happiness and love always come from inside. I'm priceless as a person. Thanks you.

This was pure gold.

It's an important distinction to note that although it may appear so, women aren't really concerned with material possessions, per se: What they desire, almost more than anything, is social validation, particularly from their chosen peer group. Men think in materialistic, linear terms. We build things. Women think in terms of social networks. They relate, and seek out social sources of support. What this means, in practical terms, is that a woman may appear completely "non-materialistic" externally, and yet she is still constantly assessing the social value of you, the things you provide her, and the people in her life. This can lead to a sort of "meta-materialism" that puts an unseen price tag on everything, including you and the other people in her life.

I know when this went wrong. It's when he wanted to please his wife. This is something you never do by default. I know that there are people who would say I'm a bad man. No I am not. The more you give and give to a woman, she will want always more. There is no end for what a woman wants. Be wise and say no. You'll thank me later when you're wiser and able to understand why you should tell her no..

Really enjoyed this one mate. Really well put 👍🏼💙

Having an internal locus of control can be difficult for anyone. We don’t completely control anything external to ourselves. We only truly control our perception.

Women want what other women have, especially their friends. That's you can't win, you constantly have to keep up with her friends and their lives.

Women changes expectations

Little nugget of gold from Star Wars Jedi Survivor, the happiest people find compromise somewhere between what they have and what they want.

This is was a good topic.. well explained mate. 👏

Happiness is a fleeting feeling that comes and goes throughout our life. A person that chases happiness will end up miserable

"Pride [i.e. arrogance] gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good-looking, but they are not. They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others. If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about. It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest." (C. S. Lewis)

Alexander: this was one of your absolute best, for sure

Alex keeping it real - as always

This is the exact 100% accurate depiction of my ex gf. Unfortunately I only found this out after the 5 year relationship was over. Will chalk this up as a good learning experience.

My church is on a many weeks long journey called ‘walking toward happiness’ and so far it’s been made clear happiness is not a destination, it’s an attitude you have along the way to wherever we go in life

Good advice delivered with wit. Thanks Alex

you gave me enlightenment, thank you Alex!

Feminism = I want to be a CONSOOMER and I want to pay The Man Tax

Yeah I was talking to a girl I met once and she told me she had "goals". So I asked her what they were and she couldn't expand on them. It's as if she was only saying this to look good. Yeah bad sign.

This is my new favorite of your videos.

Very intelligent insight. Any related videos for what to look for?