I still don't get how shoulders are seen as sexual body parts. They're shoulders. They keep you arms in place.

Amazes me that women bring others to help pick out their dress. I went alone and got the dress I wanted! The wedding dress is supposed to be a secret. Who cares if others like it?

if i ever get married this show has made me question so deeply who i should bring 😭 it’s gonna be so hard to choose bc i feel like everyone is a wildcard

I didn’t know there’s a Canadian say yes to the dress!

The Body shaming of the second bride from the seamstress and her Mother 🥺💔 the poor girl probably starved herself for those 5 days. The groom never has to feel stress about fitting into a suit 😠

That second girl is gonna regret that. Cuz having to lose a few pounds before your wedding or being in a dress that you can't breathe in are not options that seem reasonable.

All horrible dresses they put on that beautiful girl! Couldn't they have done better with her choices. The last dress looked cheap & outdated. Losing pounds in five days means being weak, uncomfortable & possibly splitting your dress on the wedding day.

It irritates me when they pull dresses for the Bride, to suit the entourages tastes. The appointment should just be about the Bride and what she likes

She said she doesn't want anything with a corset but she ended up choosing one with a corset. She also said she doesn't want a mermaid dress but she picked a mermaid-ish dress. And said this was what she was looking for... smh...

Oh damn it ,I know I'm getting old when I question the wisdom of brides getting married at 25😂😂😂

My mom handmade my dress to exactly what I wanted because I just couldn't find it in stores. This bride found a beautiful dress that made her happy.

I think the cap sleeves should have been added to the strapless gown she liked and that would have been perfection! The dress she chose was just ok in my opinion.

"Frankie wants to eat pizza all the time." Same, Frankie.

I just think the dresses that they showed in the first bride are just awful 🤷‍♀️ it looks like old designs

Bride: I don't like this dress. Attendant: Let's try it on anyway. Not once, but twice. Attendant to owner: the bride doesn't know what she wants. *insert eye roll here.

I am happy that Christina found a dress that she and her family liked. I personally am not a fan of that satin, ruched, mattress style.

The mother was so sweet. Even when her daughter disagreed with her, she just remained supportive.

Wow they both looked so gorgeous and I loved both dresses! But the woman with her last fitting that dress was definitely my favorite 🥰💕

Mom: “it is very important that her shoulders are covered” Also mom: **is wearing a shirt that shows her shoulders** Ok then

Both brides’ dresses looked really gorgeous.

To be honest I don't really see the difference between those tiny sleeves and without they're not really covering her shoulder 😅

The 3rd dress on the 1st bride lovely silhouette. Not a fan of the skirt, but she loves it and That's what's important. 2nd bride could have a corset put in for a better fit.

Mom's shirt hardly covers her own shoulders, yet she's harping on her daughter being covered and "respectable." I love the dress she chose, though.

It's nice to see a happy supportive family,and not jealous!

The problem with trying to lose a few pounds in 5 days is you could lose it in your feet, your calves or your chest. Not necessarily in your stomach or rear end or hips which is what would make it tight when sitting. I'd have had the seamstresses do the alteration.

When you have to please the mother, the daughter always picks the not so fabulous dress.

Hopefully the 2nd bride was able to fit comfortably into her dress on her wedding day

When my daughter shopped for her wedding dress...it was just me & her. Because she knew I would be honest about what looked good on her.

Other possibilities for the dress to be modest enough for church would be a lacy bolero type jacket. Another approach would be a long sleeve gown. Paris Hilton just got married in a high neck, long sleeve gown and looked fantastic.

When I got married I wore a pale bamboo colored dress that had under an under skirt with muted pale pink and blue Paisley on it. It was so muted it was like those colors weren't there. It was almost like a a suggestion of something there I know it doesn't sound beautiful but it was extremely beautiful. It was home made by my mother in 1967, and it fit my hippy self perfectly. My mother sewed all her girls clothes. She also could make lace by hand. I still have the beautiful hand made lace table cloth she used on the holidays. No where in the Bible dose it call for white.

Honestly this was so iritating, nothing about getting the brides to be happy but their families. Also giving dress to try after girl says she don't like it is huge 'i don't care what you want' sigh.

Because shopping for a wedding dress is supposed to be an exciting, once in a lifetime experience, it’s often shared with the bride’s mother, siblings or close friends. A special moment in your life is that much more enjoyable and memorable when shared! Who wants to experience such a memorable time alone!!

Y'all, she decided to skip the alterations because it was too big of a job to do in 5 days. This was her second and final fitting - they could have done something a few weeks ago but now it's too late. Better to have a tight dress than risk having no dress!

Canada? Im canadian & din't know we had one :O

Wish they would lift the bride’s hair so that we could see the top part better. Something the producers have not considered....

I don’t think the church cares what dress your in. It’s your special day and I think if she wants staples then it’s her choice.

I LOVE off-the-shoulder dresses. I’d be so sad if I couldn’t wear that style.

When I’m being zipped into a dress, I want to hear the seamstress go “uuuuhhh-oooh!” 🙄🤣

I find it funny that the dress the mom was crying over (#2) had more than half of her back showing but she's making a big deal over the shoulders.?

I dislike when parents use paying for the dress as a way to get what they want.

why not add an attractive coordinating shrug for the church ceremony which she can remove at the reception.

the girl with the fitting looked fabulous, both beautiful brides

The 3rd dress was beautiful on her, she should not have felt pressured from her mum

her mother sounds like a teacher in school losing her mind bc a girl is wearing a tank top. honey, they're shoulders relax, and in all honesty I think the cup sleeves threw the dresses look off.

I WISH GOD GAVE ME A LOVING FAMILY.

4 girls she is a lucky mom

Wow 4 stunning daughters to marry. What fun Mr Bennett!!

The dress is perfect, so beautiful. 💕

Personally, I don't think it's anyone's business what you wear to YOUR wedding. It's about the bride and groom. NOT bride, groom, her mother, his mother. What's next, is mom gonna dictate what goes on in the marriage too? The dresses she put on were fine for ANY venue. Very modest. Mom's gotta cool her jets!

The gentleman with the silver hair sounds just like randy 😯

The bride is beautiful.. so are her sisters and so is her mother 😍

I just feel like God wouldn't care if your shoulders are exposed or not. Shoulders were often exposed in the 1800's (1840's, 1850's), for evening wear, and almost everyone was Christian back then...

Tulle-"ing"???? Oh boy. From one Canadian to another...that's not a word. Hehe. ☺🍁☺🍁😜🍁🤯

That mother already had her day, let the daughter be young and live.

She literally said she wanted to stay away from Mermaid and Trumpet style and as soon as she puts it on she says, " This is what I was looking for" I think a lot of times people will assume they don't want or don't like something even though they've never seen themselves in it. They should first try it on to rule it out. I have always said I DO NOT want to get married in white but I've never seen myself in a white wedding dress. Because of that, the first thing I try on will be a white dress, to rule it out and to make sure I actually don't like it and not just think I don't like it.

She looked so pretty

The third dress I liked more than the rest, because it has a moderate amount of shine

If you are old enough to get married you decide the dress you want

I hate the bottom of the dress. I’ve never seen anyone wear anything like that in Australia, the way the fabric is draped looks messy to me. But I’ve seen lots of American brides in say yes to the dress go crazy for this style. Must be an American thing

All of their names are Croatian except Melisa

Why are there no shrugs, jackets, boleros in these stores???

Very pretty dress have a great wedding day

That guy has to be related to Randy from Klienfelds!! A big brother, uncle, long lost cousin, something... 😁😎

Joseph and Randy sound the same lol

I’m glad the sister said u care more about the church then .. bc that’s true .. the sleeve thing when it’s fitted to ur body sometimes it gets to tight it itchy and you can’t even move some ppl get it removed bc it’s hard move in ect

Mom wants sleeves on her daughter’s dress but she doesn’t have sleeves on herself.

She tells her she doesn't like the dress...well let's try it on anyways. NO!! Don't waste time. Bring her what SHE asks for.

Me too, Amen! That was in 1965.

Yes ❤️

I can tell, none of those liked the last dress the bride chose, but seeing her so happy in that dress, they all supported her decision, well I must say she got the wrong consultant, the designs she picked were awful.

"Respectable for church" is not an unreasonable request.

This is more about what mom wants. Mom! please let go and let your daughter choose, the is the bride and not you!

Nooo, I liked the first and third dress. But I'm happy she is happy in that dress. ☺

Cute🥺

The bride was not in the least confused. Her mother was forcing her to adhere to a dress code that did not work with her desired style. And how are those two chunks of lace a "perfect match" for that heavy satin gown with not a scrap of lace? She would have looked much nicer with a little shrug she could rip off the moment she hit the reception.

The forbidden shoulders! Oh no!

Lol, I don't like the bottom so the stylist says so we'll give it a try 😂😂

I really like this family time. What kind of dress does anyone look good on? Sometimes you don't know. Still, I think she chose a dress that maximized her charm.

I have issues with the whole sillouette, just because you attach a little fabric it is still the basic strapless tight style. The only thing I like is the skirt. I understand the shift to this style of wedding gown. You get red carpet vibes plus it is much easier to alter usually. I like the slightly off the shoulder look myself that has actual armholes as opposed to straps. Ever since I was a little girl, my dream wedding was going to be a vintage style, as someone in love with edwardian fashion, I want a gored skirt, with a slightly off the shoulder cap sleeve. I wish I saw more of that type of stuff on these shows.

THIS IS WHY TO MAKE A CUSTOM DRESS 👗 IS TO RISKY. BESIDES THAT'S WHY IT IS SO EXPENSIVE. YOU ARE PAYING A GROUP OF PEOPLE. GREAT BUSINESS, RIGHT.

I love that guy's hair

‘I need their approval’ 🤦‍♀️🤨🧐.

Is that just me who think that her sisters melisa looked like mia khalifa and suzana looked like kendal in the past

I love the Canadian version better than all the sniping on the American versions.

Wow, I never thought 4 people was a HUGE entourage…. 😳

What the heck with covering up. As a mom, whatever makes my daughter happy makes me happy.

Christina got that dress to please her mother - period. I did the SAME thing and I regret it 12 years later. I honestly hope she doesn't. (I should have gone ALONE to my appointment.)

I wish I could try dresses there

Why does every iteration of the SYTTD franchise have female consultants doing all of the work and a pompous guy who come in and mansplains, then takes all of the credit? It’s annoying and sexist.

I don't understand either. Your mom should not be paying for anything.

Love I canda 🥰🥰 conada 🥰🇨🇦🇨🇦🍁🍁🇨🇦🍁

.Why do these brides care so much about their mothers' opinion? I didn't even ask my mom whether she liked my dress or not, I didn't care as long as I liked it

They were doing the staff meeting and I was like “who are these people??”

That last dress looked like my granny's curtains and not in a good way.

On this episode of, it’s not your wedding!

Shoulders need to be covered?? Her Shoulders aren't covered🤨

She looked so much better in the sleeveless one, it balanced her figure much better. The dress she chose doesn’t look cohesive to me, it bunches up at the bottom, and the sleeves look tacked on and look like an afterthought

is this the walmart version of Randy I see 😭😭

who cares about what the sisters and mom want? shes the bride, shes the one wearing the dress.

Omg why does the mom care about sleeves so much they barely cover anything anyways and also it’s not your day mom!!!