She's not only had sexual trauma, She's trying to find the love she didn't get from her parents and trying to fill it with sex/boys/romance. Which hurts to see cause she's worthy of being loved, and I'm glad she has a sister who loves her so much to try to help her have a better life.

As soon as the older sister said she’s a “sex addict” I knew the younger sister was being hyper sexual as a result of sexual assault & trauma. She’s very self aware for her age but didn’t have the resources she really needs. I hope the best for the 3 of them

Her parents failed her and now her sister is trying to pick up the pieces smh. What a shame. She needs a psychiatrist.

One thing this baby's sister was right about, she sure can articulate herself beautifully. To be 16 and able to tell her story and state what she needs? Moved me to tears. Please give this young lady the help she wants and needs ❤

Omg she’s beautiful! Her hair, her skin, her style. The way she communicates is powerful. She’s more aware than most adults! Her sister just needs better language and ways of how to guide her into adulthood that’s not condemning. With therapy and positive hobbies/outlets she’ll be on a better path.

Don’t talk bad about your sister in public when you know she faced so much trauma.The young sister is just so smart, she truly needs support from all she has faced.

Sometimes us adults have to say sorry first. The baby sister is so beautiful & intelligent. I pray she turns her life around. She has a lot to offer the world!

I like how Karamo goes out of his way to not embarrass his guests or make them uncomfortable. When he was handed the screenshots of the things J'Lea was texting to boys he only read one text message compared to other shows where they would have just aired all of them out because they only care about their show ratings. From the very beginning when the sister was describing how J'Lea was interacting with boys I could already tell she might have been looking for the love she needed from her parents in the boys she was dating. She is a beautiful bright young girl and props to her sister and the girlfriend for looking out for her.

I feel really uncomfortable hearing about a teenagers sexual behavior being broadcasted to millions of people. I don’t think it’s healthy. Just imagine how terrible she will feel looking back at this vulnerable time in her life. She needs a therapist or child counselor not to be outted or shamed on television. Children should be protected at all times.

i'm freaking out because i went to school with this girl and it's so surreal seeing someone you knew on a show like this. Watching this video has put me to tears because everyone at my school in North Carolina judged her, and made her the outcast, and I fell under that umbrella even though I knew little about the situation. But even though, I kept my thoughts to myself and I texted her on the regular, I told her that i'm here for her, I tried to help mediate a situation she had with one of my friends and i never tried to make her feel like an outcast. And now i'm so glad that I never said anything bad or judged her outwardly because you really do not know what is going on in someone's life. It's such a shame that we can be blinded by other people's thoughts, and not really try to help the hurting. I hope she is doing better now that she moved away.

I really appreciate you hugging this baby as sincere as you did. SHE NEEDED IT🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

It felt like the sister tried to embarrass her to make her change. I’m happy Karamo got a understanding and gave proper tools.

I’m really in love with this episode, he corrected them and let them both know she’s not being disrespectful, she’s in pain and asking for help. They both had their tunnel vision on now but it’s a good thing they all know what will work now!

First I want to say I’m proud of this young lady for being so open with her pain and trauma and I want to commend her for acknowledging where the hurt is coming from and what she believes is the healing she needs. My advice to her sister is be mindful of how you portray your little sister during such a trying time in her life. Your support during this time will make or break your relationship going forward. She had to process the reality of abandonment, the hardships that comes with abandonment, being violated and no one to save her, watching her mom engage in sexual activity at all is horrific let alone at 6, as well as doors constantly closed in her face. Yes, she is acting out sexually however she is telling you verbatim why and that is your cue to learn how to be a vessel of unwavering love no matter how she shows up, as well as be the one to speak the life into her that her parents never did. That is the role YOU took on when you took over guardianship. I’m praying for everyone’s healing. I see myself in that baby and she just needs to feel heard so she can work through these traumas in a safe space. Much love 🫶🏾

I felt this deep in my soul .I was a out of control teen got pregnant at 17 I am now 31 . as a teen I wish I had someone to understand me and hear me . I'm so glad she have them hopefully now they have a better understanding of her pain and can help her through it .

She made me cry..I hope she find her peace ❤she has a bright future!

Poor child. It’s unfortunate this is on the internet too. Even if she changes, this will be immortalized on the internet. 😢

This might honestly be one of the best “talk show’s I’ve seen. He uses a neutral therapeutic approach versus a combative approach. I love this!

That baby needs all the help and love in this life . Somebody that has not suffered parental abandonment really before won't actually understand her pains . It hurts .

This grown man wasn't expecting that sudden rush of tears when she said "That's all I ever wanted to hear."

I just wish we could normalize educating and validating our kids. Instead of shaming and condemning them for having age appropriate feelings. When we shame and condemn we push them towards doing the very thing we don't want them to do. Create safe spaces of your kids.... This baby has so much trauma and her sisters are contributing to her trauma. " Complex Trauma is a real thing. I send love and light to this baby and her family.

calling a 16 year old a “sex addict” is crazy

I love Karamo. He really tries to help people.

I felt this episode deep down in my soul!! . As a 33 yr old man & Childhood Sexual Abuse/Physical abuse survivor I can 😢totally relate to the sister . It’s heartbreaking 💔 because I can totally relate to how it feels to be abandoned… Trauma never leaves you & we all cope differently with childhood trauma . I am a Recovering Sex addict/alcohol thank God for therapy / healing ❤️‍🩹, inner peace & a good support system now . At 10-11 yrs old my innocence was taken away an I’ve never ever been the same again. Sexual abuse/molestation/physical abuse changed me but I’m forever grateful I didn’t become what hurt me !! I choose to break generational curses. So proud of J’lea 😥😥😓 that’s exactly why you never can judge a book by its cover. I’m still healing from a lot but determined to be the best version of ME. Wish I could jump through this screen & give J’lea a Hug 🫂. All she needed was genuine love & to feel wanted

I’m glad they apologized becuase calling her a sex addict was extreme language, especially with her being 15. Sexual assault at a young age can make them hypersexual, it’s not her fault she’s trying to take control of her life and her choices

The fact that she was able to self diagnose is mind blowing. what an amazing brilliant young girl. I wish her nothing but the best. I truly hope she heals so she can just flourish and be great. shout out to the big sister too for stepping up - it sure takes a village.

I understand wanting to intervene and help out a child butttt why bring her on a national show ... that's embarrassing plus putting her business on full blast

I’m so proud of this young lady for speaking her truth. Now I do have an issue with her sister knowing about her trauma and, instead of calling a therapist, she called a talk show. I’m just gonna hope this was her last resort bc this really felt like she brought her younger sister on TV to embarrass her & give her a wake up call & that’s not what she needed.

The teenage girl might be doing the wrong things but, I don’t like how her older sister said things that embarrassed her on tv. She didn’t have to say she was having sex in stairwells & reading her personal messages. She’s going through enough.

If the sister knows about these things, why is she so confused about her behavior?

The apology at the end causing her to break down. She probably never heard that before 😞

She is such a beautiful young girl. I pray she receives counseling, support and healing and that she goes on to do well. I applaud her sister and her friend for stepping up and filling the gap left empty by her absent parents.

No but seriously. Give this man an oscar or SOMETHING. Dude hits the nail or the head everytime.

This made me cry so hard because every documentary that I watched where the child is promiscuous and acting out they have either witnessed sexual violation or been sexually violated themselves. I need all of us to start realizing that when children cut up to this extreme they need help. It is a cry out!! Control your anger and listen and get them help!!

I think the sister and her wife are doing their best and commend them both.

Man I wanna give this baby a hug. Omg she's hurting and needs someone they cares and stay by her side. She's so precious. She can be great if she can get help with healing this trauma.

I’m crying so bad 😢I’m so glad she has a sister who loves her. I hope she start to heal, she is a very intelligent and beautiful young lady! I really hope she keeps going and make a good life for herself ❤❤

I wanna make this very clear these aren’t no fake tears my little sister is hurting she wants to share her story I understand everybody has a opinion but don’t sit here and say my sisters are faking this is something my little sister felt comfortable sharing with the world and more teens have went through this as well think wiser before using those typing fingers everyone isn’t perfect ❤❤ I LOVE U LITTLE SISTER APPRECIATE THE POSITIVE AND the negative I’ll pray for y’all

As a teacher, I never know what my students are going through at home. I just receive their backlash. It is HARD. Hearing this helps me understand some of the behaviors. The disrespect is strong but I’m trying. It is so difficult to try and teach a child who goes through stuff like this. I feel helpless but I’m still trying. Not sure how much longer I can last but these kids need help. It is so hard.

She’s such a dynamic child, been through so much she didn’t deserve. I hope she finds her true path.

her little yes sir at the end...... thinking about her and wishing her well always on her healing journey

The worst pain that is not often talked about is rejection and abandonment from your mother. We get our identities from our mom, we need both parents and this is the direct result of being motherless. I pray she heals and navigates life after this 🥹❤️

Big sister is handling this so so well. Unimaginable! 😢

The older sister and her gf took heed to Karamos advice and Im glad they are trying to understand her and communicate better. Blessings to these sisters and the gf as well ❤️

as soon as i heard “sex addict” i knew that she was sexually abused/assaulted bc being “promiscuous” or boy crazy is a HUGE sign of sexual assault

This was excellent. When children are acting out in whatever way, that’s the tip of the iceberg. The bad or unwanted behavior is a symptom of a deeper issue. What a bright and beautiful young person she is. Once her older sister & girlfriend have the right tools and that understanding, that young lady is going to (continue) thrive! Her being there, as beautiful and intelligent as she is, is already a testament…but her testimony once the healing starts is going to be extraordinary. Many blessings to this young lady and her older sister & girlfriend, glad she now can truly experience love being in their care.

She doesn't deserve all that has happened to her...atleast she has a someone that loves her wholeheartedly,She'll get through this.

God she is such a beautiful young lady. I am praying for her strength! She’s going to be so amazing 🤍

I just wanna run and adopt this baby and give her hugs all day long and tell her how valuable she is!!!! This was so sad 😢

He’s a genuinely caring guy who goes out of the way to make his guests feel comfortable. He ain’t like someone who will tell you to get off his stage. And you know who I’m talking about

I couldn't hold my tears back. 😢I would like to hear an update, and I pray the sisters get some counseling.

Wow . At 16 she’s been through enough, she knows what she needs , she’s asking for it and her mind is on another level than the adults in her life. I truly wish her the best and pray she gets the guidance she needs

This is one of the saddest episodes I hate when children have to suffer like this 😢

I felt this deeeeep in my spirit . I resonate w both sisters from being a traumatized teenager to now being a 33 yo mother of 3 (w a 10yo daughter whose growing into herself everyday) !!! This had me in tears . I salute Karamo ! He brings out the REAL in ppl everytime ❤❤❤❤

I don’t like how big sis is coming off!!! She should have booked a private session , not a session on National tv downing and airing out her 16 yr old lil sister sexual business for the world to see and hear, especially knowing she’s been sexually traumatized as a young adolescence💔Than on top of that, being judgemental when I know for CERTAIN she than done things she’s not too proud of and wouldn’t won’t the world to see or hear. So why do that to your little sister?? This should have been a private session for baby girl❤ Wishing her much love, healing, and peace🫶🏾🙏🏾❤….

*”What was the excuse when she was with her mother”?* Umm, she spoke in great detail and made it very clear that she was living in an extremely dysfunctional situation, so that is her “excuse”. I think the sister and the GF do truly love this beautiful young lady, and they want the best for her, but I think they’re going to need a lot of ongoing guidance to help bring her through this situation, and she definitely needs some professional help. I applaud the GF for encouraging the sister to bring her into their home. Also, just so we’re clear…babygirl is getting those good grades because of *HERSELF.* You all are the facilitators, but it’s her own intelligence that’s banking those grades.

Hats off to you Karamo, love the way you handle young lady who’s in so much pain. I pray they will get her some therapy and continue to show her love.

Wow she’s stunning ❤ She’s going to make it. I’ve sealed my prayer 🙏🏾 I also pray strength to her sister ❤

she is so cute and respectful i wish her well 🥺💕

There's something I've been noticing that's so underrated that Karamo gives his guests, and that's giving them a hug, even though not everyone can be receptive of that, I think its such a beautiful gesture and can actually mean a lot to someone. ❤✨

This hurt me so much, what she went through. I feel so much for her. The sister should have given us this background. Don't make it seem like she is just a bad person. This baby is crying out

She’s a very smart girl, she knows exactly what she needs help with. That baby is crying inside and her sister cannot help her at all.

If she only knew that never goes away. I got abandoned by my dad TWICE in the same lifetime. It sucks, but you gotta realize they are weak and you are strong. You will never get the love you're screaming for from the person you want it from, but instead look at all the other people that surround you with love. Karamo is such a gem❤

Oh my... what a beautiful and intelligent young lady. I pray she finds the support she needs to heal from the hurt her parents caused, it won't be easy but just listening to her, I know she can do it. Bless her sisters for stepping in during this time, I know it's hard trying to raise a teen sibling... I've been there and felt like a failure. Even when I thought I was giving my all (love and support) it was never enough to heal those wounds that caused them to act out. I'll be praying for this family 🙏🏾

This poor child. 😢 I pray she gets what she needs. But often times situations like this only lead you down a long road of mistakes until you surrender your will and desires to God who loves and cares for you. I hope her journey isn't as long as mine. 🙏🏾

I want to hear the updates with her 🥺 she’s so sweet and her sister and her girlfriend were open to listening and growing for her.

Pretty, Articulate & Eloquent ! She is feeling pain. I pray that her mother will get see this show and turn her life around. I would have!!! But then again it is the willpower. Proud of the sister and the friend. They genuinely wants the best for her. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Karamo, I am surprise you didn’t offer her counselling 🤔

as someone who took on their younger siter after she's been so much. I understood the sister's feelings but I also needed to hear Karamo's feedback. It's a hard spot to be in as a sister/guardian.

From experience. A young girl that’s looking for affection or love from relationships too early is because they aren’t feeling enough love, support and affection from their parents or the people they really desire it from.

She seems manipulative. The fact that she knows right from wrong and still chooses the latter

She looking for love in all the wrong places. She is trying to fill the void for abandonment. She was painfully honest with her pain listen to her and help her heal.

This show has not been around very long .. but where it was at the beginning and where it has been these past few months is incredible. Karamo and staff are killing it.

People that are on drugs should never have children, period!

She made me cry seriously. This young lady is so smart.

Karamo is such an amazing person for communicating his knowledge around trauma in such a perfect way that actually helps people. This made me sob so see a girl be so open about her pain and for Karamo to be able to help her. He's such an amazing person. ❤

Omg this baby🥺🥺 I pray she gets the support, guidance, and love that she deserves and needs 🥺🥺

Beautiful, bright young lady. I pray nothing but, the best for her. Gob bless her sister & her sister's partner 🙏🏾

She is so beautiful. She needs alot of love and guidance.

He’s such a great, caring host. You can tell he genuinely cares and that it’s not just about the views. This one brought me to tears because she’s clearly crying out for just love and affection- she’s just going to the wrong places for it. I pray she’s on a path to healing today 🫶🏼🙏🏼

God bless this baby, I’m balling my eyes out. She is so articulate and self aware. I pray she evolves into the powerful force she is destined to.

This was so beautiful. I literally cried. May God bless and keep these ladies. 😇❤️

Her sis, though essentially lovely is ill equipt to take this phenomenally clever beautiful and abused young girl on.

I would love to hug her. I hope she knows that she will be ok. It’s hard and I know what she is going thru hurts …. I hope she will be surrounded by positive people.

She still in survival and fight mode. Hope she heal and overcome her pain. Blessings🙌🏾💫✨️

These are beautiful women & I know they will thrive. The baby sis is more self-aware than most adults I know! Big sis, just be patient. Y’all are amazing human beings for taking your sister in. You’ll see.

i totally understand how she feels because im going through something very similar .

She is so self-aware and smart. She is going to change so many lives. She is so beautiful. She has taken her mom's addiction personally and that it's her. We have to get follow up on this princess

My heart breaks for this young lady. Please get her the help she needs because they don't have the compacity to understand what she's going through! Of course, she romanticizes things when her life has been hell. The gf is speaking from her own pain and projecting it onto the young lady. It doesn't matter what you've experienced and survived it. It was still dysfunctional. She's not built for that! She's looking for love!

MAN Karamo my guy. I’ve been courting your channel for awhile now and this segment right here did it for me. You just don’t know how many tools I be taking from you it’s ridiculous. I appreciate my brother!!!

She was so beautiful . From the inside out . I pray for her healing . I send love to her and her family as they navigate through this .

From someone who felt like they were a inconvenience as a child, I know exactly how she feels, this is what happens when parents don't parent especially when a father doesn't make their daughter feel important and that she is loved and she matters. She will grow out of it but she is going to need help. She's hurting but most importanly she feels abandoned.

I felt this on a whole different level as a girl her age .. stuff really gets tough and you don’t know how to go about things until u find a loved one thag actually hears you and sees what you’ve been needing to hear.

Those that seek love, have lost love.

I’m so glad Karamo Hugged her, let her speak her heart out because she needed that ! She’s in pain, she just want the attention, the love and to know shes wanted by her someone ! But mainly her parent but since her sister has taken on the motherly role she desires that hole to be filled by her sister in the most vulnerable and genuine way.

Man oh man this episode had me in tears! That young lady is so beautiful, so articulate! She can do and will do great things if she allows healthy love in her heart! God bless her sister opening up her home to give her what she never had ❤

OMG I LOVE THIS YOUNG LADY ❤ I PRAY THAT SHE GETS THE HELP THAT SHE NEEDS🙏🏾💫

THIS! Gods- this is so similar to my own situation and I’m just so glad she’s able to speak her truth

I pray she gets the help she needs because she so young. It hurts to hear her say the people she needed in her life the most are not there for her. Thats her parents she loves and feels they don't love her by neglecting her. Just so sad, god blessings and love to this child. She needs to feel gods love would make all the difference. 🙏❤❤❤❤🙏👍🥰

I couldn’t hold back tears watching this, im 18 now but i get how the younger sister feels.

Got me ugly crying. The pain and struggle that they all are going through...I pray that it gets better for them