Omg ppl saying that is what I get for pranking him So you’re saying that’s a reason ??????? Are y’all serious???? That is a disgusting way to look at this. Very disappointed in y’all for that !!!!! There is no good reason for cheating or ghosting me !!!!!!

Lisa no hate. Stop dating young boys look for someone close to your age, dating young boys is a waste of time in my opinion sooner or later they will leave for a younger woman

I’m sorry but he sounds fruity. 4 hours “comforting” his guy friend is a lil suspicious

Why does mama lisa always get these type of guys? I think you should not date online theres so many guys that lie on the internet. I feel you should just date in person to person.

He’s seriously gaslighting you. Mama Lisa, you gave him a boost of ego and now he thinks he can get anyone. He ain’t shiiiii!!! Not to mention if you have a gut feeling, trust it !!!

Don’t feed him any more attention. That’s what he wants. Let him go! Especially if he’s going to act like that. You deserve better ❤

Most likely a narcissist. How quickly he moved. From being lovely dovey, sweet, wanting to move to where you live etc… screams “love bombing” stage. A narcissist gets you hooked and then treat you like shit. I want you to be happy Mama Lisa, but he is not the one.

Mama Lisa if he's being distant it's for a reason. A man who was invested as much as he was then all of a sudden becomes this way is being shady. I think either sum one came back into his life or he met sum one else. No man is gona act like that just becuz. So wit that being said I think you should just give him the same energy back. Be distant too. Don't hit him up at all becuz if he wants to text or call you he would. If he doesn't then that tells you everything Yuu needa know. Don't chase no man! Don't try n keep a man that don't Wana be kept. Ur better than that. ❤️

Patty the type of friend we all need she knew from the jump he wasn’t no good and warned Lisa listen to them friends that really love and care about you they really want what’s best for you ! 💘

C’mon let this kid go. All the red flags 🚩 are there

Just FYI sometimes the location says “location not found” it’s not that they turned it off, I think the satellite loses signal sometimes. If he would have turned it off it tells you that they turned it off.

Not in a rude way but, maybe he saw the video where u said u would go back to pac if anything went wrong with luis so now hes acting weird😅

Dang 😟 This is tough. I agree with Patti, let him know your doubts and ask him questions about his friend that needed help. Im starting to not have a good feeling about him, especially since you noticed his dry responses. Why is it so difficult to find good men? I think it’s time you let Jehiely set you up on a blind date.😅

It could be the fact that he asked her not to talk about pack anymore and she still did so he could be upset. Maybe if she sends him a message explaining how she only did it for the video and she agrees to just completely let go of pack he will get over it and try again

ILOVE HOW REAL PATTY IS ! THANK GOD YOU HAVE EACHOTHER

Lol 4 hours later I'm finally able to watch this. 2 daughters under 2 and a baby boy on the way. Hands are full but happy I can relax watching a new video of yall!

I’m loving the consistent uploads, you guys always make my day when I see a new video ❤

Remember to trust him until he’s giving you a reason NOT to, badgering him like he’s guilty when he’s not is only gonna ruin things nobody likes being told they’re doing something they’re not , definitely suspicious and get to the bottom of it but you’ll truly never know what he’s doing because he’s far and that’s your choice to stay or not , you got this and I’m team Lisa ! Off with his head if he is cheating lmfao

Mama Lisa that’s called a lizard lot! Look it up lol it’s where truckers go like a rest stop and they get some 🍪 🤢

He does not deserve you lisa, you are too special for that,let him go.

Mama Lisa! Girl u deserve a good man.❤️You’ve been through so much. Don’t fall for these tricks and games.

Mama lisa youre to good for him!! You deserve better!! Love you so much!! ❤ i hope youre okay!

Mama Lisa he does not deserve you , sending you hugs and prayers ❤

Hey Mama Lisa I’m sorry ur goin thru this with ur man & if he cares about you he would go OUT OF HIS WAY to ease ur mind of any negative thoughts if he ain’t up to nothin ❤️💕 U deserve the best nothin less beautiful lady 💝

I got to give my Honest Opinion here. Both are Toxic for each other and it wont work out. Two broken hearts won’t cure each other. Lisa, Firstly you are fooling around like a 15 year old texting other guys while talking to this other one and making everything public Then You embarrass him in-front of not just your two kids but your “friends” and the rest of the internet, play pranks on him and you hurt his feelings but when he is not answering you, if he is getting you back for doing all that sh*t to him as well but being done to you, you don’t like it girl. Pues no te des a llevar asi. Act your age Lisa. You are insecure because you have been cheated before but yet you have cheated too and that adds more to your jealousy and insecurity. The guy has gone through similar things. Im not defending him but you are being a Narcissist just thinking of yourself. I am married, of course if my husbands friends need him, then i will let him go with his friends. Without meeting this dude you want him to choose YOU. Think of him too not just needs. All i hear is What YOU want but not what HE needs from you. You got to give too you know. If not then why play with each others feelings? Yall keep hurting each other and the trust will never be there, doesn’t matter how hard y’all try cause like you’ve said it before. You will ALWAYS be insecure and will never trust Men. Just let him go and keep living your life. You deserve someone but its not him. Not that he is cheating on you cause that might just be your insecurities but he also need to move on and find someone that will also give him the attention, affection and support he needs that you aren’t giving him.

I was waiting for this video to drop after seeing Lisa's ig! Have a great week❤

Gosh I can’t believe what I’m hearing. I’m so sorry Mama Lisa I honestly was rooting for Luis 😢😤 I’m truly in disbelief. I don’t know if he’s cheating but he definitely didn’t make you feel better or secured with his cold answers. I’m so sorry Mama Lisa sending you many blessings from California ♥️🙏🏻

Hey Mamalisa. If you’re sharing locations with a significant other on “find my friends”’and one of you decides to removed each other from seeing the location, it would send you an ALERT and you would know you were removed. The ALERT would be under the messages thread. It should say something like ****(insert name) has stopped sharing locations with you**** If you’re sharing locations and you go under the app Find Friends and it’s showing “no location found” that means their phone either died or they don’t have cellular service at that moment. Hehehe hope this helps!!!

Run, Lisa !!!

I absolutely understand why Lisa would cry I literally had the same thing happen and it's not like you're crying for them you're crying for yourself yknow? Also that phone call he definitely sounds like he's over it or something but still wanting to explain maybe even excuse himself but not wanting to listen to you, I'd be careful lisa!

Awww mama Lisa, you’re a beautiful rare gem! ❤️❤️❤️ If they wanted to, they would. You’ll find true love one day. ❤️ Love yourself and everything else will fall into place. 🙌🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

Don't let someone you don't even know in person do that. Guys you only know online.. i mean what do you expect. Meet him first Lisa. Don't put yourself in those situations anymore. Protect yourself.

I’m sorry mama Lisa but it’s super rare to have a genuine connection 100% online. Get out there you don’t have to do clubs & bars to meet men! Do things you like take a self defense class, join a gym, go to local events you are bound to meet someone you can connect with in person!

I love you mama Lisa and I have the out most respect for you 💜 But you deserve better let this man go ! Long distance relationship don’t always work for some people . And from my past experience with long distance and similar situation to yours… he’s lying. Move on baby girl we all want the best for you!!

Trust your intuition - long distance is tough. Don't give up on finding love - seek and you shall find.❤

ALWAYS trust your gut intuition! 99.99 percent when something feels off,IT IS. Going against it will only hurt YOU,confronting him is good and hearing his reaction said IT ALL. Love you mama Lisa you deserve the best❤

Honestly Lisa regardless if he isn’t or is if you in your heart feel like he’s cheating you should end the relationship. It’s better to find out now that he is cheating and end things then to find out later down the road when you are more attached to him.

Love you Lisa ❤ You deserve a better 💗

I don’t know I feel like he’s kinda telling the truth. Seemed like he needed a little break from you 🥲 all the past few videos have been at his expense. He’s definitely trying to break things off without explicitly saying it so I recommend you just break it off cold turkey

Maybe he’s just pranking you back.

Guys do this after you are any kind of intimate w/ them. They play. So fun.

Lisa dont let this man get to you, God has a man for you he handpicked and until he finds you, dont mess with these clowns. They're playing with your heart and it makes me sad for you😢

Patty couldn’t have said it any better, she said it exactly how I would. I can see she is a very sincere and caring friend she shouldn’t pay attention to the negative comments ❤❤Mama Lisa please think things through and allow yourself to be loved the way you would like to be loved if there is any doubt I don’t think you should linger on in this relationship it’s not worth the stress❤❤

No hate or anything Mama Lisa but for you to talked about you still have feelings with someone from your previous relationship is wrong tbh He seems he was into you seriously but your still bringing up your past and it not fair for him tho and the last video he literally told you if you talks about Pack ever again His done maybe thats whhyyyy but hope you let go of your past and focus on your present and learn to love again seriously 🫶🙏

from alot of experiences I think she's looking for him to much he doesn't even think about calling her that means he really don't care about her I think she can do better and get out her confer zone and change her style and make herself feel better and show them she's better then that

I wonder if he got mad that you kept talking about pac after he told you to stop. Maybe he’s over it. I’m sorry Lisa maybe find a local man that you can actually spend time with you. Best of luck !

❤❤❤much love mama lisa jehiely always supporting have blessed sunday ❤️🙏

Mama Lisa you are a strong beautiful wonderful woman is his loss💯👍💕💕✨️✨️✨️🙏🙏🙏

Its because you pranked him and kept telling him you didnt think it was gonna work out if you push a man so much hes gonna give up and find someone else .

mama Lisa don't feel bad about this or let it stop you from moving forward this happened to me and it feels like it's your fault but it's not stay strong and confident be yourself and keep talking to other people you'll find the one it took a while for me to find a good one too so remember you're not alone

My opinion is that when something sounds too good to be true there’s something hidden. Is like he now knows he got u invested so now he feels he has the steering wheel and has some control with you. And advice to you Lisa if someone doesn’t answer your calls or texts then stop calling him or texting because basically you were begging him to answer you and none deserves that kind of attention. I will only call my man if i did something to him or I am worried of him. But his behavior totally shady!

Aww mama Lisa u deserve better

Once you start get feelings for someone you start to over think things that they do cause your afraid of losing them and with him he was giving you a lot of love and attention that you weren't really giving back at first so it seems like he's slowly giving up and your falling for him. When this happens it breaks relationships and bonds cause you guys both are on different pages. You need to talk to him instead of yelling and ask him for proof but don't be rude and come at him for it cause it'll just start an altercation. I'm not putting no hate I love you guys n watching your video but I'm speaking from experience and things I've realized about how my feelings were during the relationship cause I started acting different when I got scared of losing the person. Then again don't let your overthinking ruin something you are happy in. Give him the benefit of the doubt n hear him out cause not all of us have people we just cut off when we grow up even if they hangout with bad people. He could be telling the truth, he might not be close with the friend but he'll always be there for them in their time of need. That doesn't necessarily mean it's a girl.

You deserve better Lisa. I’m sorry you had to cry all night 😭😭😭 but how is he saying he did not take off his location 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ yes he did take it off & he knows it

Mama Lisa you deserve so much love, I hope he isn't cheating on you, but remember it's his loss not yours because the man that does get you will be a very lucky man:)

I think also that when you see people’s location sometimes it’s bad reception and it doesn’t let you see their location good and it’s happened to me all the time

What a loser, i knew the being all nice well too/xtra nice to you was an act, you're going to find the one and he's going to pop up outta no where an be the 1 for you Lisa💙❤

You are friend you got to tell us anything don't be afraid to tell us how you feeling we are friends don't listen to you can talk

Yes I completely agree w/Mama Lisa n every one else, he cheating because if it would b true that he was w/a friend he could of answer, he didn’t had to go to the restroom to hide. Hope everything clears out. Love y’all ❤

Maybe after watching your videos, he saw that you want a bad boy, so now he's playing the role 🤔

Beautiful inside and out ❤️❤️

When someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM

Patty was right she was the only one who was hesitant from the start like she knew it was too good to be true

In A long distance relationship, you really don't know what the other person is doing. I would pack up and visit him to find out the truth... you deserve better

These younger men got alot of growing up to do..... I am 42 and my boyfriend is 32 there is a 10 yr age difference..... We have been together 14 yrs and have 3 beautiful babies together and he has done some shitty things to me and i stayed with him but there comes a time when they need to grow the hell up.... I understand they are younger than we are but they are still grown ass men❤❤❤

His voice got high when he said “ no it isn’t a girl “ that’s a sign of lying !!

Don't cry and stress about men Don't open up easily to anybody till you meet them personally mama lisa just live for you enjoy yourself love find a purpose to live for you. Learn to love you first ❤❤❤❤❤

The fact patty didn't said anything in the first 8-10mins of the video makes me think she thought the same as me. Mama lisa for me its not okay to check all his movements or having him or even you sharing location. Like why? You said you didn't like him being to sweet or whatever but yet you like to have him like in your hand knowing everything he does, where he goes and all.. This is not okay, everyone has the right to have some privacy. Yet, ofc not ghosting but you shouldn't assume something. If there's no trust on each other then there's nothing and its not gonna work.

Girl don’t chase that man, you feel the vibes and even I hear it too, he doesn’t sound as sweet as he normally does (maybe he was just “sleepy” but I don’t buy it) he should have the common decency to tell u he’s busy or unavailable at the moment, trust your gut, but please stop calling and texting that man, block him I’m sorry, the sudden coldness and everything especially when u said u we’re crying and him clearly not caring… I truly understand I’ve def had a moment like that before 💀I called that man a million times, never again, simply leave don’t even argue, you’re beautiful and shouldn’t have to tell anyone how to treat u right like the most basic respect, God bless u mama Lisa 🩷🩷🩷love u, jeilely and patty (:

Oh hell no!! Lol Mama lisa you dont deserve this! You deserve to be loved and happy!! It is a little fishy, why wouldn't he just say look babe ill call you back im helping a friend, if It was a guy friend why was it so hard to just communicate that and whats been going on. And then he thinks he didnt do nothing wrong. Communication is #1 especially long distance!😊

Omg, so sorry to hear that! I mean if it was a man friend he was helping I’m sure he would’ve picked up the phone really quick and said hey I’m helping a friend really quick let me call you back. If it was a woman he was helping In a situation that she really needs him of course he’s not going to answer and that’s why he turned off his location if he sees a possibility with this woman. && why is his bed time so early now? So he can go out ? 🤔 I mean can he prove you wrong and have his “guy friend “ verify this ? Because at this point I feel like it would be too much to ask. He would’ve done this to make you feel comfortable . I call this bs too all of a sudden he doesn’t want to talk much on the phone. Hope he takes the time to clear things up because you don’t deserve this. He needs to take your feelings in consideration and not just disregard them. ❤

Ms. Lisa first thanks for uploading blogs more frequently. Love that! Trust your gut! Tell me why he sounds like Rocko. Tetes brother. You deserve better ignore him. That sounds like you have gave him to much of your attention and he thinks he got you in his pocket. Take care of yourself and don’t give up the right man is out there for you. GOD BLESS 🫶🏼

He up to no good. If he had nothing to hide why did he ghost u . Why didn’t he reassure u . If he truly cared abt u he wouldn’t leave u on read . Why couldn’t he answer your calls or messages in front of this friend . 🥴.

He acts like he dont care. Go with your gut feeling pretty lady❤

Patty smiling the whole entire time

I love you guys....fu*k em Mama Lisa! You deserve so much better..if he's not fighting for you, don't fight for him. He's not worth the heartbreak. I love you! 🩵🩵

first of all i think Patty gives great advice and secondly that boys story do sound sus Lisa! Internet dating isnt the best way to go but in some situations it does work out…

Love you Lisa ❤

No excuses for any of it but thn again he is a kid still sorry but u have to talk to him like he’s one of ur kids he’s too young too immature love ya Mama Lisa but upgrade to older thn ur kids

I'm gonma kick this mans assss whyyyy. We will manifest love for mama Lisa. You will find someone honest and whi give you all of their love and attention. I'm sorry mama lisa!

Mama Lisa 🩷it seems like this guy is soft spoken but he’s holding back both with you and y’all’s relationship. Speaking from experience guys arnt as complicated as us girls if they want something they will make it very clear ! Follow your guts your a beautiful lady 🩷

I met my bf online almost 2 years ago. He lived in Cali I'm in Ohio. First 8 months of our relationship was online. Never did he ever make me feel like it wasn't in person he went out of his way to make it seam like the distance was never there. I did the same for him. He moved in officially a couple months before our 1 year anniversary. All I can say is if he truly wanted to and he truly cares he would and he would show it. The guy you are seeing most definitely is showing his true colors trust those instincts they are there as a sign. Never doubt the colors people show.

Love you mama Lisa ❤❤❤ you desirve a lot more

Yes I have friends who I grew up with that if they need me I’m there but I don’t hang out with them at all!!!!

You know what this calls for, a reunion with Pack 🎉🎉🎉 The best way to get over someone is to get under someone 😂😂😂

Been wearing my Q-me shirt 😊 i got my friend one too because q-me is a inside joke for us 😅❤

I knew he wasn’t good! Who says I love u too someone you never met or anything…. Mama Lisa don’t go for these young guys please please they aren’t good us girl these young guys age don’t even treat us good. This man is showing their true colors RUN

Mamma Lisa, I love you and that’s why I just want to give you this point of view…. You’re a mature woman, and this whole situation reminds me of high school relationships. Don’t waist your time with these type of BOYS. Get yourself a MAN! ….. if this dude is like this now, that your relationship is new, imagine in a few years, he’s gonna turn into an even bigger ass. Don’t waist your time anymore, please. Know your worth, and have expectations.

Like a bus stop like a bus truck stop

Could be he seen your video saying you dont like love dovey type sheit and now hes delivering a hard ass idk just a thought. Patty knows her sheit thats amazing lisa needs to get offline and go out more if guys come that easy online they should in person

Lisa follow your gut!!!! Cause we could give u our opinion but it’s ur life at the end of the day

I just think you shouldn’t have pranked him and messed with his feelings and maybe he just lost interest mama Lisa

Respectfully mama Lisa, stop dealing with these little boys. You have no time for the stress and the worries. Stop feeding into this relationship drama when you know you’re to grown for that! Find someone a little older and is ready to settle down for commitment. Drop the men who make you worry like this. A good man would not let you stress like this. Do good for you! No more “investigating”, tell him bye! All due respect mama Lisa , you can do better and find someone who appreciates you and your happiness and values who you are. Tell that boy bye ✌🏻 !! Love your videos 🥰, you know your worth Lisa !!

I want to say the guy is shady for his behavior....yes maybe there is another female and he is cheating....but then again you did mention he was too nice and over did it. Now he is acting up like baddy and you are feeling upset....there so many possibilities either is an act from this boy or he is just showing his true colors. Follow your gut...never fails a girl. I feel you should date/fool around with someone who is in your 200 mile radius you deserve better...don't cry for someone you have even met in person

Sadly it's the brutal truth of how this generation is nowadays, once you fall harder for them that's when they ghost you and you expressed your opinions publicly of how you didn't like his sweet personality and that takes a toll on people too but lowkey he faked the sweetness it was too good to be truth, you don't need this type of energy, you need a real man mama Lisa you deserve that much 🥺

Agree with Patty, tell him straight up how it is…

Love you mama lisa ❤❤❤❤

Yes they can see when u check location. If you're talking about snapchat

Am sure because he told u if u talk about pack again he will ghost u and u did talk about him on the last video so maybe thats y

Mama Lisa u deserve better don't find a guy online find a guy in person not online there jerks they just want to play around