Dude this video actually helped me come out several years ago. Now I’m a happily gay man who is 30 lol

you posted this 2011!! where are you now? are you still alive? are you doing okay? bro you gatta update us :(

Wow he's so pretty, I would like to know what happened to him, someone know his name or something abt his life now?

Would love to see an update. You are a kind, interesting, smart, handsome young man, and "You're braver than you believe".

I'm bi and when I came out to my mom she came out to me too! Honesty is beautiful!

this guy is so gorgeous to look at . I cant take my eyes off of him. WOW. so beautiful , damn . I in love , and he has a twin . theres 2 of them . mk i love u. mike

These coming out videos have helped me so much while going through a hard time in my life right now and it gives me hope to hear ur stories. Thank u for sharing :)

Even 9 years after you posting this, your story still has power. Very happy for you! 😁🎶

Good for you for coming out and sharing your story, it helps a lot more people than you would think!

When the strong crushes that you have are almost all for guys, and you're guy, that's a pretty strong sign. Coming out as bisexual first before finally coming out as gay does seem to fit a pattern. 'Tis great that your best friends were all so supportive of you. As for your twin brother, I hope that you were able to work things out in time. He is still your brother. All of your advice here is good for other young people who are thinking of coming out, and I hope that those who watch this will take it to heart. Your video is going on my "Coming Out As Gay" KZfaq Playlist.

This meant so much to me. I thank you for making this video. Please make another and bring us up to date. You've touched many lives and you are good in the way you express yourself, people can relate with you very easily.

I'm a twin I couldn't even imagine my brother doing something so mean like that. Crazy. He would be the first person I would tell, It would never be a concern of mine that he would tell anyone.

Thank you for telling my story :) Still struggling to find myself and come to terms with my sexuality, also waiting on my parents' approval. I'll get there one day...

would be great to see an update video. :)

Hi! Your video was one of the many videos I looked at 4-5 years ago when I was trying to summon the courage to come out. Thank you for posting this. I hope you are doing well!

Thank you for posting. I am 32 and still dealing with this. You are beautiful and wise beyond your years. I wish you all the best.

Thanks for sharing your story. You are really cute btw. (:

Your brother is a real shit head for doing that. Your twin brother of all people. Nice story by the way.

I'm supporting you... To get through this stage of life may be really hard but after you admit it and be who you really are, it's gonna feel a lot more better... GOOD VIDEO :D

`hope you've been doing well through this last year.Thanks for being open and sharing your story-I found it very encouraging. `will look forward to add'l postings/updates-

"This above all, to thine own self be true."

2011: Nope 2012: Not yet 2013: Wait.......... 2014:................... 2015: 2016: 2017: 2018: 2019: My coming out video :)

Wow, you know I really think youtube is one good tool to help people with that fear of rejection. I have heard more positive stories then the negative ones. I'm older and I wish that, when I was your age, I could have known there was so many people going thru the same thing. When Internet started we had IRC that's where I started to find friends that understood me. Internet is truly a great thing cause people like you, who I will never meet, inspire me and helps me be good with my own self and help me accept and be proud of who I am. I think I will make a video to soon, you really inspire me. Thanks kid I wish I could shake your hand!

I would like to thank you for uploading this. It gave some really good advice, as well as some great anecdotes.This has helped me see that I am not alone in the coming-out process. thanks again, cutie.

You are so cool and brave for coming out. And u are super cute and sweet person and seem like a great personality

Why don't you post more videos? We're curious! Do you live in a relationship?

Congrats, this was an excellent 1st video. Keep positive, forgiveness is always a good virtue to have too! I'm glad your family basically is all good too, your dad sounds cool. I look forward to more of your videos. Scott

I love that your sharing this and thank you for giving great advice. Your video is very informative and smartly told. I mean that!!! This means a lot to very depress or suicidal kids and guys that don't know how to deal with this kind of situation. More power to you and Bless you!!!

I'm gay too and I come out in the 1990's it was so challenging back then. You got it I wish you the very best

When he told his close friends he's gay, they hugged him and some even cried. When his twin brother found out, he went through the school telling everyone. I really can't imagine how I would ever reveal something so personal about my own brother. So where is Boarderboy 165 now? This was a very good coming out video.

Hey Bro, What your doing to help others is great man. Everyone in your life should be proud of the person you are because you seem to be a caring and generous dude. I hope you and your brother can work things out because family is everything. I will not bash him for his mistakes but I would like to say that even though your twins, he may be asthetically georgeous (if you are identical),but, he will never be as beautiful as you are because that comes from within. Much respect bro.

I concur with what many of your subs have already mentioned. The clarity of your story will resonate with many other LGBT youth who are struggling with coming out. Keep spreading your wings as you embark on many new life adventures as an out and proud gay man. Peace, love and happiness to you!

I can't even deal with how gorgeous you are... Where are you now?

and you're such a cutie omfg

I was like you about looking on KZfaq for advice and watching your video has inspired me to make a coming out video as well, sort of to give back, to help other people with their coming out.

I hope you’re okay alive and healthy friend! Your coming out video was a pleasure to watch I’m glad you had an awesome support by everyone and i hope your brother realized his wrongdoings and apologized! I truly wish you the best from the bottom of my heart ❤️

Would be good to have a life update.

You're adorable. Bet you're even better looking now.

Awesome vid man! Thank u so much for posting! Cannot get my head around the fact that your twin brother betrayed you - he could learn so much from you - you're absolutely amazing!!! (Don't blame you for not talking to him for a year!!) Please post an update - we'd love to know how you're doing! All the best always!

Thanks a lot for sharing. You have handled your self in sharing and dealing with friends. I am glad you are getting with your twin. If you handle the rest of your life as well as you did your coming out you will be a well respected successful man

Your Really Cute!!

Damn you need to make more videos though :)

I love your transparency. Thanks for sharing your coming out story. Hope you can make more videos about your personal experiences. You will help millions of people.

I liked your story and the way you told it. Thanks for that. I'm quite a bit older than you, and so I came out much later (sign of the times/generations). I subscribed! Write more about your life and how you navigate this issue. Many people need to hear it.

great vid. more power to the gays.

youre so cute

Congratulations on coming-out to yourself and some of your friends! You seem like a smart, articulate, sensitive person, and by achieving self-acceptance at such a young age, you will have many happy years ahead of you! Since KZfaq is such a popular website now, I recommend sitting down to talk with your parents ASAP. They might be hurt to know you were willing to share such personal things with strangers before you were comfortable talking to them. Good luck!

Best wishes for you, I wish you all the best I didn't come out till my college days so your lucky to have figured it out earlier !

i like your face!

I knew since I was 6 that I like boys...but for me it was awful because I am older! The times were very different and Christianity was prevailing. I mean the Christian hatred!

You said many truth things in this video that I admire to hear. I myself am gay and I experienced similar things, and I am glad to see that you made a video to help and give great advices. I look forward to your next video!

I admire your openess . You are helping alot of people by this video . Hope you make a update video very soon . Take care man .

lol yes your dad knows

I'm sorry about your twin doing what he did. I completely understand. My friend (female) at the time told my very best guy friend that I was gay. It devastated my world, I thought I was gonna "be straight" until high school and then tell my secret to the universe, that I would never tell any of my guy friends. In the end it was good that she told him because eventually I came to tell him myself. But that breach of trust hurts...A LOT...thanks for the vid!

Don't be afraid to accept yourself for the way you feel.Honesty with yourself is the most important thing you can do.I love and respect you for having the courage to come out and say that. II don't think less of for that.I believe you are a wonderful person. Hope we can talk to each other.

Love Your story!! Let's hear an update!

great story. And yes..you do help people with telling it. a 6 yrs later update would be nice to hear. :)

It takes a lot of courage to come out. Good for you, that you did. I told a few friends of mine as well. It took me a while to finally tell people (I'm 22). And yes, I know what u mean when u say ppl talk. I'm pretty sure they do around me as well. Unfortuantely, we can't shut ppl up. Anyways, I was just wondering what your current situation is? Would love for you to do an updated video. Good luck with everything in your life :)

I'm just so relieved for the people who found the courage to come out because I'm a seventeen-year- old guy and I really don't have the guts to do so. So yeah, I'm just so happy for you ;) Being in that state of mind must absolutely be amazing.

good for you man, great to hear things are going well for you, not everyone can say the same thing, so consider yourself lucky... and much luck to you down the road as you continue your life :)

I loved hearing your story. you seem like a great guy, and im happy you told your story. you are a great young man. (:

My story is definitely similar. IV told my oldest sister which is my best friend. I'm still not quite sure I want to tell my parents. But we will see! Thank you. These videos keep hope in my future. : D

It's always so great and inspirational to see people who truly accept who they are. I always believe it's the time in life that you feel completed. That's how I feel when I did the same thing. Have a great time in college. Best wishes from Hong Kong. Good Luck.

Aww, you're a beautiful kid. I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you. : ) It's such a head start in life to know who you are and accept it with gratitude and grace. You seem to be well-on-your-way. I hope your life is wonderful. *hug*

Thank you for your story, and remember we care about you and consider you an inspiration for all of us. Thank you.

Wow this is amazing...it sounds a lot like my coming out story...thank you for your story! Im glad that we are not alone

I thought this video was really sweet, it's good you feel so comfortable with who you are now:-). I do have a question though...did your brother apologise for telling everyone? Davidx

You did a great job on your first video. congratulations. sweet and sincere and genuinely honest. A lot of young guys (and girls) will benefit from your special openness. God bless and take care. Be Happy !

U r exactly right for me it took time and I lost lots of friends but I learned that those friends that left me they were not real friends

Great story and good advice! Sux what your brother did but glad it all worked out in the end. Easy to listen to you because you really speak well. Lots of luck to you in college!

I love the way you share the story and deliver the message.

I just came out to my mom today ... I was nervous but I don't know why because she is super supportive. But I've been looking through soooo many coming out videos!! thanks for advice

It has been over two years since you posted this video. Hope you are enjoying college and that all is going well for you. You seem like a really good person. Good Luck.

I recently came out to my dad. It's so nice to finally not have to hide it anymore. Keeping something like this locked up is so hard.

I think it's awesome that you made this video! I hope you make more because it's important that people your age see them. I hope you are having a great time in college!

I am sure that by now you have began your journey of self-discovery. Try not to lose yourself in the search. You are truly a precious soul and a remarkable young man. Your sexuality will always remain your own artwork, and you will find that the canvas will change with time. Don't limit yourself to preconceptions. Enjoy life and touch everyone. Let others learn to love and admire you first. Love will return from every avenue, and true love usually appears from the most unexpected sources.

Great video! I'm also going into college this coming fall and I haven't told my parents yet. All my siblings know but I don't know about my parents. You're dad will probably be fine with it if he's dropping hints like that. My brother drops hints and I know he knows. Good luck with everything handsome! :)

its hard at first but your family will get through it. just be strong and be honest. they may not like the idea but at the end , their love for you wins.

Thanks for sharing! Hope all is well. I’ll assume you’re busy with school and experiencing a good life.

Great video wish there was more or an update on whats going on with you now... Hope all is well!

Would really be nice to get an update, and you did not bore me or the thousands of others who’ve watched you.

Very cool vid dude! Your a natural behind the cam come across very real and from the heart. Make sure you speak out again, you are real and need to be heard from. Good luck May the partner you meet rock you for life! @21 years+ here He still rocks me!

I think your story is very heartfelt and great. I hope everything works out right!

props to you. this video really helps out and makes coming out seem possible.

Your a beautiful, courageous kid whose mature beyond your years. You will have a good life. Your twin bro has broken the bond of trust with you. 15 -16 is the proper age to come to terms with your sexuality. Stay strong. Continue to inspire others. Good luck. Al

Thanks for sharing - good ideas on navigating the coming out process ... who to tell when if at all. Went through similar process starting 45 years ago, and it still continues. Luckily friends and family have been almost totally supportive - usually I didn't tell anyone until they knew me well so they could evaluate me on more than just "gay." :-)

You're not boring at all, so any amount of details would be just fine. Anyway your story brought back a lot of memories... I kinda experienced pretty much everything you described :-) You're a good storyteller... It might be partialy because (as pretty much everyone here already said) you're so good looking but you really seem to be a cool guy... You're gonna make someone one hell of happy boy ;-))))

I was hypnotized by your hotness throughout the video lol, such a great vid man and thanks for giving me the strenght I will come out today, hope it goes well!

i don't think you'd bore anyone going into detail because half these people just like to look at you including me lol. Couldn't have said anything better myself. It's people like you that keep me moving forward. Couldn't be more proud.

well i dont know about you, but my family is really important to me and i think it does give me strengh to know that they accept me as i am. i know there are familys where this is not possible. i dont think there is a right way to do this. its important that you feel secure about yourself and that you are ready for anything. i must tell you that even though my coming out was really difficult for me, all the people surrounding me were so awesome. even those i thought would not accept it.

Hi perfect video this is really helpful (actually I'm directing a documentary about this process). I'm from france and I met a lot of gays and lesbians all around the world, I noticed that wherever we are from, we all have similar stories. Keep being truthful with yourself we can see in your eyes and with your smile that it is the most important thing. Thank you (sorry if I made any mistake in my english)

Really excellent video man and you say its your first, you are a born presenter (and unbelievably cute) ! Keep up the good work and post another video for us !!!!

I got the same thing from my Mum on the phone! "wife... or partner, or whatever" haha. I was straight until I was 13, then started liking guys too. I came out to my group as bi (9 straight guys) and 3 female friends less than a year ago. Now I have moved away to uni (college) and am yet to come out here. I like for people to get to know me for who I am personality wise not who I am attracted to. I have mainly been attracted to guys lately but I fly around the Kinsley scale.

Thanks for your honesty and openness, how are things going for you now?.

"Open for me slightly your heart and I will open the world for you" the Zohar. Nice sharing. Stay honest with yourself and all falsehood around you will fade. Peace.

It. Gets. Better. Congrats and I hope you keep your best foot forth no matter what you do or encounter throughout life.

I really liked this video. Could you make another one concerning topics on how to date and how you find know if someone is interested in you and gay. Did you ever tell your parents yet and what was their response.

thank you for sharing your story with us. good luck to you. have a safe and happy new year.

You are amazingly strong. I admire your courage. Remember God dosent make junk. Your honesty and strength are great gifts. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Keep on loving!

I seriously love this video so much please make more videos on your channel!