My DAD & I Traded NUDES - Revealing Your Secrets Ep. 11
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Күн бұрынMeredith is back and y’all are really putting her through it today! Alyx and Meredith talk cheating with hundreds of people behind your partner’s back, admiring your dad’s, uhhh… natural form, and being addicted to Internet gore. Then they talk to a se*ual assault survivor slash badass Queen whose r***st is hoping to become a LITERAL COP. Plus Meredith shows us a tool we can use to help us make decisions more effectively. Don’t say we never gave you anything okay!!!
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Video Contents
0:00 - INTRODUCTION
10:59 - AD: Studs
12:25 - Ad: Everyplate
13:40 - WRITTEN SUBMISSIONS
13:43 - My Dad & I Traded Nudes
25:26 - I’m Addicted To Internet Gore
34:21 - I SAed My Nephew
41:36 - My Boyfriend Becomes Violent When We…
49:33 - VOICEMAIL SUBMISSIONS
49:40 - I Am Cheating With 100’s Of People Online
58:26 - GOING PUBLIC (Our R***st’s Charges Were Dropped Because His Dad Is A Cop)
1:24:40 - ROUND OF A PAUSE (The Dime Game)
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My name is Alyx Weiss. You may have seen my Hidden Camera Uber Prank series, where I distress innocent people, or Revealing Your Secrets, where I expose and react to viewers' submissions. Revealing Your Secrets is now a PODCAST! Every week I will reveal your secrets in whatever way you’ll let me - through voicemails, written submissions, or even talking to some of you about your secrets on the phone! New episodes every Thursday!
My DAD & I Traded NUDES - Revealing Your Secrets Ep. 11
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@cinnamon5675 Жыл бұрын
how’d the dad not question his son when he’s continuously making excuses for him to show his thingaling?
@sabrinalocke2846 Жыл бұрын
That’s what I’m saying
@rubypetralli2353 Жыл бұрын
Seeems sus
@Upper_echelon_exotics Жыл бұрын
Yeah. That's weird for sure. Does anyone know what the therapist was saying about sending nudes? It sounded like she was saying to have your face in them? I feel like it would be better to not have your face in them 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@cosmicalsims Жыл бұрын
@@Upper_echelon_exotics she said not to
@Upper_echelon_exotics Жыл бұрын
@@cosmicalsims okay. I must have misheard her.
@skysantiago7360 Жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you for putting up your boundaries babe you don’t have to talk about anything your not comfortable with I hope your coping well and wish you the best
@Donteatmahfood Жыл бұрын
Yes! You go with your boundaries
@Kas_Styles Жыл бұрын
💯
@jackfoxottv Жыл бұрын
I LOVE when OUR therapist is on
@nicotinedietcoke Жыл бұрын
Purr
@Upper_echelon_exotics Жыл бұрын
@@nicotinedietcoke meow
@katzies Жыл бұрын
@@Upper_echelon_exotics woof
@Upper_echelon_exotics Жыл бұрын
@@katzies lol 😂
@psychxmania Жыл бұрын
sameee.
@hurricanecatrina9548 Жыл бұрын
The bonding over stepmom porn I’m crying 😭😂 That’s why I love this podcast
@Upper_echelon_exotics Жыл бұрын
As a step mom...🤮
@Upper_echelon_exotics Жыл бұрын
If it were hypothetical I could understand it being hot. But as a step mom it grosses me out.
@rhiannonsubliminals Жыл бұрын
I am a successful youtuber. People love my videos. People search for my videos. My videos got millions of views daily. I have millions of subscribers and getting more and more everyday. KZfaq is my fulltime job. I am financially free and can afford therapy. I can afford to move from my toxic situation. I am so.happy now that KZfaq is my job.💙 I am so grateful. Thank you Universe i love and trust you forever!💙🍀💵💸🍍🧿💰
@kdkorz10211 Жыл бұрын
@@Upper_echelon_exotics That’s fair, but porn is, well… porn. Meaning what they’re talking about is fantasy, either fiction or adults role-playing a scenario. So not actual step-family.
@Mayyyuh3000 Жыл бұрын
I love how it slowly transitioned from my therapist to OUR therapist
@ahhhhhh8493 Жыл бұрын
As a survivor of child on child sexual assault I can tell you they know more than you think. 13 is way way way old enough to know you don't do that to someone else.
@milowalker2256 Жыл бұрын
i won’t lie it did upset me a bit that they both assumed that the person who submitted it was a guy as well, it could’ve just as likely been a girl :/
@avalons6029 Жыл бұрын
@@milowalker2256 honestly i listened to the story as the submitter being a girl, maybe because of the way it was written? not that it would matter but yeah.. kinda weird that they assumed
@theworstdadjoke6518 Жыл бұрын
I really didn't like that either. At 13 you have the capacity to understand at the very least that you shouldn't do that to someone younger than you or someone you're related to. Even if they don't have a full understanding of consent, which I think they should at that age but some cases not, that person knew it was wrong to do to their nephew. They knew they were not equals and it was not just experimenting it was sexual misconduct
@jungwonfilms Жыл бұрын
that's exactly what i was thinking, i recently just turned 14 (literally yd lol) and as a 13 year old i DEFINITELY knew what consent was + i knew that if i ever did that it would be absolutely wrong, so i found it really weird that they said "13 yr old are children and they probably don't know much abt that" but no? im pretty sure most 13 year olds do know especially with social media and everything rn- idk abt 5 years ago ig it wasn't as common for 13 yr olds to know abt these things again bcs the content 13 yr olds consumed back then was definitely different than the ones they do now, but still, i think anyone above the age of 11 would've known it was wrong
@KP-ness Жыл бұрын
The sex offender lists for Megan's Law was specifically made to protect children and has saved many lives, and each person is usually labeled according to their 'risk or danger' toward community. We need to hold people like this far more accountable than just a list online. I believe their faces should be plastered EVERYWHERE
@olis2073 Жыл бұрын
While it is extremely important to protect people from sex offenders, what I think our therapist was getting at is that our justice system should be rehabilitative. It is very difficult to rehabilitate and reintroduce someone into society if everywhere they go they are subject to a system that subtlety supports vigilante justice. The example she gave of that guy getting a nude from his girlfriend being a particularly horrendous one. Obviously this is about balancing the needs and rights of the community vs the needs and rights of offenders, which can be difficult to get right. My personal bias leads me to care more about victims and protection of the community, but that lends more to a retributive justice system.
@mewmew6158 Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of the survivors who came forward and I'm so sorry they didn't recieve justice. I'm glad she's been healing and working on herself! Congrats on almost graduating girl! And it's totally cool to have boundaries Alyx, you don't have to share everything!💖💙💛
@bizcoch1t0 Жыл бұрын
In regards to what the therapist said after the call on going public, I agree with most of her points but bringing up the fact that “you don’t know what he could’ve been through either” felt very invalidating to the victim herself. Sure there’s always mistakes in the system but I feel like that conversation shouldn’t have been brought up right after the call ended implying you’re thinking more about the abusers feelings and or circumstance you have no idea were true or not
@dylan-tristamoores2077 Жыл бұрын
Little later in the evening then normal for this lovely treat of a podcast. However, that is not a complaint I just got my kids to sleep, just cracked a claw and I’m here and ready. Perfect timing actually 😂 I look forward to this every week
@Katherine-bk7eh Жыл бұрын
why is that me im getting off work and making dinner 😂😭
@elifitzpatrick4608 Жыл бұрын
I’ve just gotten through the intro and Alyx I just want to say, we all deal with things in our very own way and there is nothing wrong with that! I’m also so happy to see you set boundaries, you can be open and honest without telling everyone all the details 💕
@masonmulder687 Жыл бұрын
Don’t ever feel you owe us to tell us anything you aren’t comfortable sharing. We all appreciate you and I’m really sorry for your loss Alex ❤️
@jenniferbest4336 Жыл бұрын
Alyx* 😅
@lenny4ever68 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to potential harm to an offender who might be rehabilitated, i think it’s important to remember the harm done by the victim bc of a lack of justice. I understand where your coming from, but the conversation after the secret was personally very upsetting
@Anna.ooxxoo Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for saying his name, Alex! It means so much for those who haven’t been able to receive justice or are too afraid to seek it. I had such a similar experience as the caller and it still affects me deeply years after. I didn’t recognize or wanted to admit at the time that it was SA and felt so much shame over it. I just wanted to say that I tried to find the humanity in him too- for 3yrs. He dealt with a lot of abuse growing up but in the end that did not matter anymore to me bc he continued SA me constantly and later found out he did it to other girls too and never looked for any help. So as much as you want to find humanity in someone’s actions- They. Do. Not. Care.
@alilwildwithcat167 Жыл бұрын
I love high fives 😭 i wasn’t validated or celebrated growing up so the little clap of “you did it! Good job!” it makes my inner child happy
@jordank146 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear about the death in your family, you shouldn’t have to declare any more than you feel comfortable with, just because you’re an internet personality and you share certain aspects online doesn’t mean you owe anyone any sort of personal information. I hope you’re feeling okay, I hope you’re able to give yourself the ability to take a week or more off the podcast if it feels needed, we’ll all still be here when you return. Haven’t finished the episode yet but so far a great episode as usual, just got home from drinking and this is exactly the kind of wind down content i needed :)))
@LoveBubba Жыл бұрын
I love the way alex talks. Like everything seems thought out. Makes me want to really think about my words.
@ladyequinox4758 Жыл бұрын
4:31 when she mentions the queen...
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat Жыл бұрын
Therapist Meredith’s aversion to high fives is strangely amusing and entirely relatable. I realized I’ve never initiated a high five in my life and now I’ll just think of her and weird volleyball players next time someone tries! 😹
@Spookyypunk_ Жыл бұрын
I hate when people talk about rapist or predators trauma or experience. It doesn’t matter they did what they did so at the end of the day they don’t deserve any pity for what they’ve been through. Trauma doesn’t give you an excuse to hurt others.
@laureng7116 Жыл бұрын
Good on you for setting the boundary of not sharing info you don't want to! Please don't be harsh on yourself for how you reacted after the initial call. You were in shock and confusion and you just were trying to put yourself in a positive place so that you were able to record the podcast. It was a coping mechanism and you cannot judge yourself for that. Sincerely sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. ❤❤❤
@mondler107 Жыл бұрын
"So what made you wanna know that?" "I wanted a hug! Just kidding" Lmaoo I love this relationship so much, I'm so happy you have such an awesome therapist. I just love ya'll's back and forth so much. Like five minutes into the podcast and I feel so much serotonin and comfort listening ❤️
@katu3390 Жыл бұрын
I think that the story about the person who watches gore sometimes might be a coping mechanism. its common that people try to take control over their trauma by exposing themselves to some form of it.
@user-mi7rk4bx2p Жыл бұрын
yeah im the same way
@user-mi7rk4bx2p Жыл бұрын
definitely a coping mechanic
@ardennn. Жыл бұрын
alyx i literally love your podcast so much. you’ve helped me a lot lately, and i’m really glad you’re staying strong. stay safe, we love you
@alaskawashington Жыл бұрын
I’d never watched one of these podcasts before, I love the series it’s built off of but those vids always kind of leave me feeling queasy and sick to my stomach so I was a little hesitant to listen to the hour+ long version. HOWEVER I actually really liked this and having an actual therapist talk about the secrets in a way that validates my feelings about them… idk if that makes sense but I feel like it would be so long if I tried to fully describe how it helps lol.
@nurayy7180 Жыл бұрын
I wish whenever the therapist is around, Amanda also would be more involved in the conversation🥺
@sydneysovern Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss Alyx, no judgment for how you handled it whatsoever. A lot of us probably would have done the exact same thing. Take care 💖
@nataliehoffman9591 Жыл бұрын
we love you so much! you don’t owe anyone an explanation. especially about something so hard and personal. sending love to you and your family ❤️
@hattiepartington9043 Жыл бұрын
Processing the death of a friend or family member can be really hard im so sorry youre going through that 💕at the beginning of the year my best mate who was 21 died. I know this period is really difficult, its really hard grieving the loss of a friend and the loss of the future that you had with them 😔 💕 even when you are aware of yourself and actively trying to process a situation, it doesnt make it any less difficult and i know it can feel hopeless. You sound like you have a great support system as well which is really helpful 💕 love your videos x sending love 🌸
@tessafisher1976 Жыл бұрын
Watching this on September 9th and that Queen of England comment had me gagged
@manisha3455 Жыл бұрын
so sorry for your loss babe I wish you the best in healing. I am a chronic oversharer when I’m anxious so I understand some of the weird regret feelings and despite your mixed feelings about sharing I appreciate your vulnerability.
@sydneyisjaded Жыл бұрын
thank you for the dime game. I remembered hearing about it first when you posted this. I went through all your videos to find where it was that you talked about it, because I couldn't remember what it was called. I needed it tonight to help me make a choice, and feel VALIDATED in that choice. I have always been a people pleaser, and that is something me and my counselor have worked on for a while. I really appreciate your "round of a pause" segment. Thank you for the help!! Sending lots of positive energy to you 🥰💫💞
@adrianamorales3574 Жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this!!! Love the podcast, never miss an episode 😍
@emmaminer3780 Жыл бұрын
i’ve been refreshing youtube every hour today waiting for you to post
@courtneymelkert Жыл бұрын
This is so random but during this video I couldn’t stop looking at the picture of the squirrel ridding a moped.
@ellie848m Жыл бұрын
You don't owe anyone anything, especially about a loss like that, in my opinion, you have done more than enough to create a safe space for your audience. ❤ hoping your family and yourself are all healthy and getting through this.
@mariasamartin1624 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy!!! I had just finished catching up on all the episodes because I missed a few, but forgot it was Thursday until the new release popped up. I love this podcast! It’s literally my favorite
@Sesekorch Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing what you did with us. We are all here for you. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through right now. Sending love and support
@aftrlif Жыл бұрын
Im on a Facebook page for women in my area to post guys and write their dating experiences with said person to keep women save from predators like the douche in the call. Unfortunately theres always some snitches in there and some guys will get intimidating back if they found out who posted about them.. But honestly there should be more pages like this.. we fact check phones we fact check cars why are we not trying to fact check the people we are letting in to our intimate and personal space
@mrspabloyt7348 Жыл бұрын
i’m so sorry for your loss alyx :( i love you!!
@apalmer12 Жыл бұрын
For the callers story could she contact the state's attorney general about how the police handled the collecting/ collision to not prosecute
@Skaggsss Жыл бұрын
I love the podcast but I miss you doing videos of just reading written submissions. Those are my favorite.
@Dodo-qm4vl Жыл бұрын
me too tbh, i feel so bad becaues she worked so hard for this and hyped it up so much but i just dont like it
@Skaggsss Жыл бұрын
@@Dodo-qm4vl I know it would be a lot of content for her to make but I wish she would do 1 podcast episode and 1 reading your secrets video a week or a reading your secrets just written submissions every two weeks bc I don’t feel like I get enough out of her reading written submissions for 5 minutes and then moving on. I wish she would do more written ones at least for longer or do some in the beginning and end or something. I need my fill 😩😩
@Skaggsss Жыл бұрын
@@Dodo-qm4vl Espically since this show has gained a lot of popularity you’d think she would have plenty of secrets to go through and that way she can read more secrets and people can feel good knowing their secrets have been heard instead of them getting jumbled in the mix of all the other ones.
@yuifunami1525 Жыл бұрын
A rando in the street after a convo asked me for a hug and I was like sorry no. And then he asked for a kiss . Gag
@Kenzi24 Жыл бұрын
I love these episodes because I analyze everything and everyone so much and I just feel at home in this circle of conversation. Psychology and therapy are my biggest interests but I have horrible adhd and school never worked for me so I feel like I'm a wanna be therapist and constantly think about things and people in these ways
@kc7227 Жыл бұрын
Having a close death in the family is difficult as it is but to have loads of people that you feel you owe information to can make it so much more difficult. I hope people respect that you don't want to share and that everyone respects your boundaries. I'm sending so much love and virtual hugs to you and your family even though I'm just a stranger who watches your videos
@noahrouble7608 Жыл бұрын
23:42 when your therapist says cut that I actually cackled out loud 😂
@erbbbs Жыл бұрын
Im so sorry to hear about your cousin, I’m proud of you for your boundaries and the respect that I can tell you have for yourself, your dad, and last but far from least your cousin.Sending love
@eatass Жыл бұрын
i like to crochet to podcasts and this one always has some jaw droppers throughout.
@keirahutchinson7006 Жыл бұрын
Such a coincidence she brings up the Queen regarding what happened today🥹
@JoeyRoo Жыл бұрын
This title made me click so fucking fast! Yes I have major daddy issues
@ayydubs Жыл бұрын
👨🍼🥰
@monalisalima4575 Жыл бұрын
Didn't even watch it, but thank you so much for this Alyx, it's your birthday gift to me ❤️ love your vids ( and your therapist )
@1991LMR Жыл бұрын
"There's a generational gap happening here" 😂
@veryhighvlogs Жыл бұрын
Alyx: Do we have any hope for us if even our therapist has trouble setting boundaries? Meradith: well that’s just rude😭
@unposterr4935 Жыл бұрын
This is just what I needed for today, watching from Chile 🇨🇱 ❤️
@annalese135 Жыл бұрын
In June, we lost my great-grandfather. He was 89. My mom and I lived with him and my great-grandmother (Gram) for most of her life and a good chunk of mine, so I was closer to him than most people are with their great-grandparents if they ever even get to meet them. I'm still young (20), so it was my first significant loss. Unfortunately, we can tell my Gram (88) won't be far behind him as she's just getting worse and worse. She's always treated me like her own baby and she's my favorite person in the world. I truly cannot fathom how I will deal with the loss of her. However, she's lived a fulfilled, full of love and joy, life. I'd rather suffer the loss of her being gone than her suffer being here. My situation can't, nor should be, compared to yours, Alyx. Your cousin was taken way too soon. I empathize with your loss and send you all the love. To anyone else in a similar situation, I send you all the love as well. We will get through this. ❤❤
@brittany2539 Жыл бұрын
The barbaric guy part I lost it 😂
@bbibbibu Жыл бұрын
not liking the “what abt the poor r4pists mental health” kinda attitude :// like ew wtf. a repeat offender n ur worried about HIM??? after literally just talking to his victim and knowing that they’ll be hearing u try to justify his actions in a way?? seems very distasteful
@olis2073 Жыл бұрын
From what I understood, that perspective came purely from a treatment sort of mindset. It is entirely justified to be angry at and hate rapists and sex offenders, but that is not effective in a therapeutic or rehabilitative sense. In an ideal world there would be no rapists or SOs, but because there are, professionals have to consider what caused someone to commit those acts and how those crimes can be prevented in the future.
@fakeyolk Жыл бұрын
@@olis2073 exactly! ty for saying this. the issue will never go away if we dont figure out and solve the root of the problem
@bbibbibu Жыл бұрын
@@olis2073 but i feel like after literally just talking to his victim, knowing there were multiple victims AND knowing that he got away with it again and again .. and knowing that his victims, who’s lives he’s ruined, would be watching, it’s not a very appropriate time to be playing devils advocate
@olis2073 Жыл бұрын
@@bbibbibu I don’t necessarily disagree. It wasn’t really the time or place for that discussion, I just don’t want people to think Meredith is a rape apologist or anything.
@porcelaincats86 Жыл бұрын
@@bbibbibu I think the problem here is taking a rehabilitative approach is viewed as "devil's advocate". If we want to stop rape and sexual assault then understanding why it happens and formulating treatments is EXTREMELY important. Many people, particularly Americans, get so caught up in a vengeful and punitive view of justice that nothing is actually achieved. Of course, it is perfectly reasonable to be violently angry at predators and rapists, but to leave it only at that violent anger and without an attempt at rehabilitation (at least on the part of people whos job it is to do so) is not going to better society in any way. I understand a visceral reaction, but we must be understanding to those who take a rehabilitative approach towards rapists because they are actively trying to better society.
@1991LMR Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss, Alyx. Also so proud of you for setting boundaries and understanding how your dad was also maybe not the best at relating the news, but that he tried
@1991LMR Жыл бұрын
Meredith was really put on the spot in this episode 😂
@astraleblanc9447 Жыл бұрын
I may or may not have found the callers attacker's Instagram...🙂
@maite3557 Жыл бұрын
don‘t be shy drop the @😅
@maite3557 Жыл бұрын
is it the dude with the hunting pics?
@astraleblanc9447 Жыл бұрын
@@maite3557 yess
@lucya9520 Жыл бұрын
m_blazejak19 for anyone who might stumble across this comment, doxxing a rapist isn't gonna stop me from sleeping at night
@maite3557 Жыл бұрын
@@astraleblanc9447 yikes.. he even looks like a psycho…
@thelovelyunicorns Жыл бұрын
Alex never feel like you have to share anything with us. I am sorry I asked seriously 😐 I was one who did but I’m sorry genuinely
@thelovelyunicorns Жыл бұрын
Also sorry for your loss.
@chelsea5595 Жыл бұрын
I am very interested in why the therapist said that there are sexual predators where it is beyond their control. Unless she was talking about people who are attracted to children. But to actually assault someone, how is it not in their control?
@olis2073 Жыл бұрын
I doubt she meant the act itself wasn’t something they ‘chose’ to do - but rather what was behind that choice. Things like addictions and compulsions take away a lot of a persons actual autonomy. As she said though, that doesn’t make it right or excuse that action, it is just something she in her profession has to consider if she ever has to work with a client like that.
@chelsea5595 Жыл бұрын
@@olis2073 Well I think she should have chosen her words more carefully if that is the case because my mother have been assaulted and I don’t care if they can’t control their thought because they can control their actions or they can kill themselves if they can’t 🤷🏻♀️
@olis2073 Жыл бұрын
@@chelsea5595 and that is an attitude towards a client that a therapist cannot have :P
@chelsea5595 Жыл бұрын
@@olis2073 yeah obviously that was me talking, and she did not have to say on the podcast that it is beyond their control
@olis2073 Жыл бұрын
@@chelsea5595 she is on the podcast in a therapist adjacent capacity (not fully because she isn’t offering actual advice or therapy). The views she is expressing come from that perspective. A therapist is not and should not be concerned with judgment and retribution, even when most people would agree it is deserved. It is her job to look behind people’s actions at the cause and how they might be treated. Clearly you disagree, but I believe she was right in saying that people cannot always control their actions - that is why her job as a therapist and mental health in general is so important.
@AmberrRae Жыл бұрын
intriguing and shocking podcast as always alyx 😭😂
@mommadeenaa Жыл бұрын
Last night I was watching this while my husband and kids were sleeping lol (quiet time for mommy😂) and my husband woke up during the one we’re the guy got pics from his dad Lmao he asked me “wtf are you watching” 🤣🤣 I had to explain 🤪💀
@davidwheaton5087 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god I love you and your vid’s so Entertaining
@Logirt Жыл бұрын
man so sorry for your loss, i have a cousin i am extremely close to, i talk to him every day and if he ever passed away i would be so sad love the podcast
@graces.a8992 Жыл бұрын
My favorite reason to be alive is this podcast
@alisonmiles8791 Жыл бұрын
Almost 3 months of this podcast!!! Time flies 🤯
@breannaklimek5942 Жыл бұрын
the best days are waking up and looking for something to watch on youtube, and seeing one of these were uploaded.💋
@miaasf._..132 Жыл бұрын
why am i so early i- also i'm sorry for your loss alyx ily
@seaseabamba Жыл бұрын
Omg I feel the same way about high fives 😂😂😂
@lindsayrouse1226 Жыл бұрын
Great job on boundaries you handled it great I’m so sorry that your cousin passed and am sending you love and prayers ❤️
@thelovelyunicorns Жыл бұрын
I love this podcast so much ❤️
@gryakh Жыл бұрын
i think they knew what they were doing. like why mention that the kid blackmailed u? ofcourse he did, you sa’d him. at 13 you definitely know what consent means
@sullensleaze Жыл бұрын
i really disagree with saying the 13 year old "didnt know what he was doing", im glad they feels remorse but we can acknowledge what happened and the awareness of it whilst acknowledging that they are now feeling the guilt for it. But what happened, happened, no matter what age rape is rape. I don't like the excusing of it because of ones age. I know people who were SA'ed by their younger family members, age means nothing. what they did to their nephew was horrific and damaging. Imagine you are the nephew and you are just now remembering and realizing that you were SA'd by your uncle/aunt. You most likely had repressed that memory and dealt with the outcomes of it without realizing it. You finally regain knowledge of the insident, most likely dealing with the denial of it. But you feel that in your gut something is wrong, you build up the courage to ask your uncle/aunt, and they deny. But also imagine being a victim of child on child SA and watching this video and seeing two adults finding ways to excuse and sympathize with your rapist, you may feel influenced to think the same. "well he was a kid too" "they were both children tho" "atleast he feels guilt". All of those phrases and phrases similar are so damaging to victims of Rape, especially when they were children during the SA. Instead of giving the Rapist reasons why them SA their nephew can be excused, focus more on how it affected the 9 year old kids who had been molested by their 4 years older uncle/aunt.
@stephaniemhoover4741 Жыл бұрын
It's really satisfying to know someone feels the same about high fives, like I do. People give me strange looks, cause I refuse to high five.
@kawaiigameryt753 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry about the death in your family Alyx, I hope everyone goes well, and you are never obligated to share anyone you don’t want to, and you are so strong, godbless.
@dominiqueluque4520 Жыл бұрын
I HAVE A PHOBIA OF ESCALATORS TOO OMG LMAO
@kaileecannady Жыл бұрын
Meredith seems like the coolest therapist ever omg
@natalie_373 Жыл бұрын
i definitely knew what consent was at 13. if that happened to me, (i sat on little kids lap [which why would i??] and got aroused) i would immediately get up and feel shameful. i would remove myself from the situation. you definitely feel the age difference when you’re 13 around a 9 year old. “i didn’t know” isn’t a very good excuse. i definitely feel bad for the little kid.
@Key2MyHeart Жыл бұрын
I'm terrified of going down escalators too!
@HeatherMcTrevor Жыл бұрын
My question is, why would the cops go through all this effort interviewing victims etc if they didn't think it was going to doing anything (or maybe they really thought they had a chance?)
@clockworksum Жыл бұрын
LOL just right after you said 'If had any advice what would it be?' it cut right to an ad saying 'If you trying to find cute and cheap clothes, Come to cider! Uwu' (Not spon unfortunately)
@buttons256 Жыл бұрын
When my mum told me my nan died I laughed very hard, she was the closest person to me in my life and of course I was devastated (I was 9 at the time) now I’m 20 and I’m worried that if I was told someone else died I would react the same way 😭 one of my biggest fears
@devinmercer9150 Жыл бұрын
This podcast helps me so much! I'm so sorry about your cousin Alyx. 😔 💓
@kaylaniemi5254 Жыл бұрын
Does anyone else think the therapist looks like Frankie from Wentworth ? At least a little bit
@alexisclarke7860 Жыл бұрын
i love your therapist omg
@HeatherMcTrevor Жыл бұрын
I'm not good with down escalators either, I get super wobbly on them lol
@pansai_ Жыл бұрын
EARLY I LOVE YOU ALYX
@xonscreenxromancex Жыл бұрын
I can speak on the morbid curiosity!! I am 1000% morbidly curious. Anything and everything- I’ll watch it. I am very death positive as I’ve worked with end of life care for years. And what I’ve found is that this country in particular is verrrrrry scared of death and try to make it something it’s not. Not to take away from trauma. But I think as a whole we need to get back to honoring death. Just because you watch or are curious, doesn’t mean you have negative motives. I am all about living life to the fullest!! But we need to become comfortable with the inevitable.
@albertocervoni3297 Жыл бұрын
I love when Meredith is on and in videos !!!!!
@kdkorz10211 Жыл бұрын
I did the whole year of DBT *twice* and I’d never heard of the dime game before the end of this video! That’s a shame, bc that seems like it’ll be *hella* useful!
@starsforkara Жыл бұрын
I'm scared for this
@r4innyd4y91 Жыл бұрын
I love when Meredith comes on she is so pretty and gives great advice
@morganruport4038 Жыл бұрын
I love this podcast 🤍
@ScifiJoe01 Жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss /hug
@dmoutdoors332 Жыл бұрын
The whole people being attracted to their parent is thought in physiology. I took a college course for my major, and we indeed learned about it and how that's a stage of development that naturally occurs. Children MAY want to get ride of the one of the parents bc the want to try it with the other parent.....
@Konnordawg Жыл бұрын
Huh? What is that last sentence??
@llljmendes8815 Жыл бұрын
It is a true theory, just search Sigmund Freud
@Konnordawg Жыл бұрын
Can you answer my question? Wtf?
@molly863 Жыл бұрын
It never fails, anytime my dad has delicate news to deliver, he does it in the absolute worst way possible. Dads are just silly boys who need lots of patience. (not excusing actual bad dads with this statement, just talking about good dads who are emotionally stunted)
@shaidaazzam Жыл бұрын
SO EXCITED
@nelliemaxwell6197 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss alyx. heal yourself and do not feel the need to do anything for the sake of your channel.
@mondler107 Жыл бұрын
Oh Alyx, you didn't owe us anything; even to say who it was. When you didn't mention it last week I figured you would rather not talk about it which is totally understandable. I am so very sorry for your loss though, sending love!!
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