My ex-fiancé, me, and his wife! | Talks With Tony

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

3 жыл бұрын

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@Tangelica28
@Tangelica28 3 жыл бұрын
He is definitely LYING. No wife is giving her husband the OK to "be there" for his EX. That lady probably doesn't even know she exists.
@n.Lenice
@n.Lenice 3 жыл бұрын
Girl. You already know. That wife think those out of town times are business trips and fraternity gatherings, etc.,. He said that to lure her in. I feel so sorry for the wife, she being duped most of all.
@ashleycbla
@ashleycbla 3 жыл бұрын
Oh it’s gone come to the light. And hopefully by that time his wife finds out she will have the strength to leave him. So I don’t feel sorry for his wife at all if she’s a good woman, I feel sorry for him when his wife leaves him because he’s the dummy.
@n.Lenice
@n.Lenice 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashleycbla I hear where you're coming from and agree in part... But I do feel sympathy for those, whose husband is being unfaithful and story of unfaithfulness is being recanted by the woman (or one of the women) with whom he's being unfaithful with and all us can have an opinion about her husband and her marriage - unbeknownst to her. Her whom, woke up and is having a regular Tuesday in her life as she knows it. But yes, all things do come to light eventually.
@aura5944
@aura5944 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley B. That maybe one of the reasons she wrote, so the wife may see if she listens to Tony, then she can get her man back lol.
@Tangelica28
@Tangelica28 3 жыл бұрын
@@aura5944 LOL. She better move on and leave that man alone.
@natureZcoco
@natureZcoco 3 жыл бұрын
🤣 Talks with Tony really should be a TV show like “Tony Springer” or “Tony, Fix My Life”. 🛐🎬
@womanofgod2948
@womanofgod2948 3 жыл бұрын
For real. I'll watch it every day
@IamKarryanne
@IamKarryanne 3 жыл бұрын
Your on to something
@alinas8003
@alinas8003 3 жыл бұрын
Tony fix my life sounds good
@betterhealth1651
@betterhealth1651 3 жыл бұрын
That would be amazing. Finally something that can really help people
@clarkclarke
@clarkclarke 3 жыл бұрын
@@betterhealth1651 it is not for Tony to fix people lives though ...people either want to do the work or they don't ...it is not about the other person ......look at I.V.... It is not easy ....plus you see all the comments of people saying how funny Tony is ...(and he is). it is not about him being funny because he is really being serious ....reminds me of when I uses to listen to recordings of Malcolm X ... people laughing at what he is saying
@chaneleleanor
@chaneleleanor 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t block your blessings by holding on to your past mistakes.
@natashafreeman2220
@natashafreeman2220 3 жыл бұрын
I think this pandemic has taught us a lot of things. One being life is too short for these types of messy situations.
@SheemsOfficial
@SheemsOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Very true !
@sheloves3663
@sheloves3663 3 жыл бұрын
Tony always says he doesn’t have long today but they still end up being an hour long 😂😂🤣
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss 😂😂
@andthnwat
@andthnwat 3 жыл бұрын
I went and got me some snacks..don't wanna get dehydrated...lol
@sheloves3663
@sheloves3663 3 жыл бұрын
Right 😂🔥👌🏾
@yessi4113
@yessi4113 3 жыл бұрын
All the time lol 😂 🙏
@destinyuplift
@destinyuplift 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@GoodGrief101
@GoodGrief101 3 жыл бұрын
She needs to stop feeling as if she owes him for cheating on him. He’s no different than she is. The games people play. I hope that she blocks him because they both need to move on.
@chrissy1448
@chrissy1448 3 жыл бұрын
Yep.. she needs to just move on, before she gets used up and broken. This is exactly how women end up damaged from relationships.
@georgiasnell4342
@georgiasnell4342 3 жыл бұрын
Basically you had a Man, SLEPT with another Man, and now you have NO MAN. WOW!!! And you STILL doing wrong entertaining A MARRIED MAN!!!! LORD HELP HER, TONY HELP HER!!!!!
@briya92
@briya92 3 жыл бұрын
Basically 😂
@Isa-Amor
@Isa-Amor 3 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh lol
@bflores3944
@bflores3944 3 жыл бұрын
Not exposing a man......is not necessarily "classy". Accountability is important & sometimes people need their ass handed back to them.
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- 3 жыл бұрын
Good point.
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 3 жыл бұрын
“A man don’t ever fully forgive a woman who has cheated on him.” TG
@breannn8238
@breannn8238 3 жыл бұрын
To me emotional cheating is worst than physical cheating. When feeling and emotions start to get involved it can become very hard to break.
@Kellergirl
@Kellergirl 3 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@andthnwat
@andthnwat 3 жыл бұрын
This is better than anything on Hulu FR
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
All Day Every Day!!!!!
@TiffanyFG
@TiffanyFG 3 жыл бұрын
Right! Thankful for smart T.V's
@sadelynn2235
@sadelynn2235 3 жыл бұрын
I agree! These are mini movies and they’re always right on time.
@lashondarochell7584
@lashondarochell7584 3 жыл бұрын
YES sis Must tuned into Tony Gaskins
@IamKarryanne
@IamKarryanne 3 жыл бұрын
Right ‼️
@yessi4113
@yessi4113 3 жыл бұрын
“Now I know about 2 or 3 that breath went to changing” 😂 😂 😂
@Bgrace15
@Bgrace15 3 жыл бұрын
I screamed 😂😂😂😂😂
@ferreroreshell9476
@ferreroreshell9476 3 жыл бұрын
I can't deal with Mr. Tony😂😂😂
@MoniqueD305
@MoniqueD305 3 жыл бұрын
I literally hollered 😭😭
@pg3185
@pg3185 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony for not sugar coating MY foolish acts and helping me to take myself more serious 👌
@carolynwilliams4926
@carolynwilliams4926 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies remember this when u cheat on a man.he found out his leaving you no question. SO WHY IS IT THAT WOMAN LET MEN CHEAT ON THEM OVER AND OVER. SO THE NEXT TIME HE CHEAT LEAVE HIM. NO QUESTION CAUSE IF THE SHOE WAS THE OTHER FOOT.HE WILL LEAVE YOU.
@neesielenyea4117
@neesielenyea4117 3 жыл бұрын
She didn’t let him! She didn’t know this fool was engaged. He never mentioned it when they were talking as friends.
@VintageAfro91
@VintageAfro91 3 жыл бұрын
I can tell you right now, his wife has no idea. I feel bad for his wife and I hope she discovers the truth sooner rather than later.
@cpresley45
@cpresley45 3 жыл бұрын
Men are a trip...I had been dating this guy for about 6 months...he suggested we move in together on several occasions..I told him no I didn't believe in shacking up...so he didn't mention it anymore...next thing I hear is that he's getting married...naturally I felt some type of way but i didn't trip because the relationship was new...I just went on bout my business...wedding day came, lo and behold there's a knock on my door..I open it n its him in his tuxedo(after he got married) ...looking like he had been in a fight...I'm like wtf...he talking bout he made a mistake, he was mad with me because I wouldn't move in with him ,so he did it to get at me. I'm like baby please...and slammed my door...he knocked until his knuckles got sore...I did not respond...then he started sending me messages by people we know...finally he got the message.. from time to time he would show up trying to see me..then years passed n last year he moved back to town, divorced wanting to get back together...baby go on bout yo business
@kristinbrittanysmith535
@kristinbrittanysmith535 3 жыл бұрын
In my next serious relationship, me and my boo are going to pay the $330 to talk with Tony Gaskins...besides God's approval, I got to get the approval of my big brother/mentor on the next guy that I am serious about. Tony G. can spot them grown boys.
@lashondarochell7584
@lashondarochell7584 3 жыл бұрын
Sis Tony most definitely know how to spot the "Grown Boys"
@briya92
@briya92 3 жыл бұрын
Same !!!
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 3 жыл бұрын
Why do this man still have old videos of her in his phone like that! That’s so disrespectful to this wife. Smh I don’t consider that decent AT ALL!
@neesielenyea4117
@neesielenyea4117 3 жыл бұрын
Because my sister one of the baddest. Of course he still has pics and videos. He’s wrong though.
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 3 жыл бұрын
@@neesielenyea4117 Obviously he don’t care that much about his marriage bc he’s still holding on to them old pictures/vid from the past. I’m not talking about your sister. Just him bc she’s not the one married, he is..
@ferreroreshell9476
@ferreroreshell9476 3 жыл бұрын
@@neesielenyea4117 Mrs. Quin, are you the sister that the ex is still communicating with or do yall have another sister?
@Kymmieee
@Kymmieee 3 жыл бұрын
At this point, I'm just focusing on God and myself. Starting to believe these men are not worth it! 💯💯💯 cold world
@hpittman2413
@hpittman2413 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. Listening to these videos make me not want to deal with this kind of calculus. It's not worth it.
@BreeziDeezi
@BreeziDeezi 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I finally reached that point today after a pregnancy scare smh I don’t want to be too mean to myself but im almost 27 time to be alone bc even in this moment I could anticipate how my ex would act and that just says a lot about what I’m allowing for myself
@QueenQueen-qw2ix
@QueenQueen-qw2ix 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with you on that.
@kaielyse9313
@kaielyse9313 3 жыл бұрын
“A little furniture moving” 😂😂😂 Tony comes up with the best metaphors
@nessparadis6948
@nessparadis6948 3 жыл бұрын
What does that mean?
@SimplyFitwithJay
@SimplyFitwithJay 3 жыл бұрын
“I don’t have long today” *post one hour video* 😂lol
@mtheodoris42
@mtheodoris42 3 жыл бұрын
Right!!😆 And i be so happy too!😝
@sherig22
@sherig22 3 жыл бұрын
Same i be like ok we are getting an hour
@jasminethompson7994
@jasminethompson7994 3 жыл бұрын
It is hard to find a good and faithful man today. Real men are becoming a rareity.
@QueenQueen-qw2ix
@QueenQueen-qw2ix 3 жыл бұрын
True words
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 3 жыл бұрын
She needs to go back and watch all of your videos so she can get unstuck, she’s gonna be stuck for years. Let him go girl it’s worth it in the end. You don’t need to waste anymore of your life on the past.
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 3 жыл бұрын
Let him move on in peace
@3D3LIA
@3D3LIA 3 жыл бұрын
If my husband don’t have Tony’s sense of humor , I don’t want em 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lei673
@lei673 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lynetteclay
@lynetteclay 3 жыл бұрын
He just wants to make a fool of her. Revenge served cold.
@PrincessShinezria
@PrincessShinezria 3 жыл бұрын
✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@theresamurphy6554
@theresamurphy6554 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@akajazzy12300
@akajazzy12300 3 жыл бұрын
“When you say something out your mouth , you have to MEAN IT” 🗣🗣🗣
@unicorn4137
@unicorn4137 3 жыл бұрын
She needs to forgive herself, move on from him completely and stop standing still for this grown boy. I feel sorry for his wife😒.
@beac8238
@beac8238 3 жыл бұрын
All this man did was give her cheap attention & she thinks he still has feelings for her after he moved forward with marrying his wife. LADIESSS it’s not that deep for men. He will lay you on your back as long as you let him - out of lust, not love!
@taffyrose741
@taffyrose741 3 жыл бұрын
his wife a rebound dont matter circumstance they both getting fooled by him
@beac8238
@beac8238 3 жыл бұрын
@@taffyrose741 “his WIFE is a rebound”. Do you know how silly that sounds? He chose to sign a marriage certificate which makes him legally tied to another woman. Just because the wife came later does not invalidate their MARRIAGE. If a man is motivated enough by love for a side chick, he can easily end an engagement or initiate a divorce. But he didn’t. He’s playing them both. And you’re playing yourself with that thinking.
@taffyrose741
@taffyrose741 3 жыл бұрын
@@beac8238 I Just said he playing them both and men cheat on wives all the time his wife a REBOUND it’s obvious he even went in the lady bed chatting it up and all so Idk what your talking bout
@audreywright7788
@audreywright7788 3 жыл бұрын
@Euphora eup Because she has no standards, he has no standards, she is too lazy to meet a decent because she isnt the person a decent man would want.
@lovingme1st973
@lovingme1st973 3 жыл бұрын
@@audreywright7788 You summed her up perfectly.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@jasminethompson7994
@jasminethompson7994 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies, do not be afraid to date outside of your race or beyond borders. They are plenty of good Chinese, Indian, Nigerian, or British men, etc who will love to be the man of your dreams or what you need.
@chicsocialitee
@chicsocialitee 3 жыл бұрын
These videos further convince me that I no longer desire marriage. I must have the gift.
@InspiredUno
@InspiredUno 3 жыл бұрын
You and me both, girl!!! Cause whew this too much!!!!😭🥴😭
@chicsocialitee
@chicsocialitee 3 жыл бұрын
@@InspiredUno just too much! Life is stressful enough as is! I’m not adding any additional voluntarily!
@angelchevan1679
@angelchevan1679 3 жыл бұрын
@@chicsocialitee how I feel now, life is stressful and men are drama, never know what stunt they will pull. Their high lustfulness is really off putting to me, and to be honest I dont get it.
@chicsocialitee
@chicsocialitee 3 жыл бұрын
@@angelchevan1679 that’s the worst part... trying to understand why they cheat. But there’s no rhyme or reason. And for almost all women that’s just too hard to fathom. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@lisasmilez
@lisasmilez 3 жыл бұрын
When Tony stopped to go get the phone case so he could give us a visual of “fooling around” I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lisasmilez
@lisasmilez 3 жыл бұрын
@@aprillittleton6527 and the way he looked in the camera when he did it 💀💀💀💀💀👀👀🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ferreroreshell9476
@ferreroreshell9476 3 жыл бұрын
I need to watch this again then cause I was listening in my car driving from work tonight, and I was laughing so hard in the car, so I can only imagine how he was acting.
@georgiasnell4342
@georgiasnell4342 3 жыл бұрын
Block him, so you don't Block your Blessings!! Preach Tony.
@neesielenyea4117
@neesielenyea4117 3 жыл бұрын
She blocked him. She woke!
@myfingoodies
@myfingoodies 3 жыл бұрын
"When you say something out your mouth, you got to mean it. Your word is your bond". Amen oui
@TiffanyFG
@TiffanyFG 3 жыл бұрын
"Now I know about 2/3 that breath went to changing.".... 😆 Tony is TOO MUCH. I can not with him, MOST the time.! 😆
@sylviasalcedo8569
@sylviasalcedo8569 3 жыл бұрын
This is a severe entangled drama situation and the young lady has the power to stop all of this. It is her that needs to stop it. Sounds like she needs attention and did not receive affirmation. It will continue until she decides that she has worth and walks in self love.
@chrissy1448
@chrissy1448 3 жыл бұрын
Yea she’s digging her own grave. Just wait till wifey finds out about this.. He’s making her compete and she doesn’t even realize it. Eventually she’s going to be his side chick...convincing herself that it’s okay because she knew him first..
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 3 жыл бұрын
Tony and his “fooled around “ examples got me cracking up!! 😂😂😂😂
@Ms.Haleyy
@Ms.Haleyy 3 жыл бұрын
& Rocka’ by baby in the treetops 😂😂😂
@3D3LIA
@3D3LIA 3 жыл бұрын
That phone case about tired of him using it for examples 😂😂😂
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 3 жыл бұрын
@@3D3LIA 😩😂😂
@gigibrown_wright
@gigibrown_wright 3 жыл бұрын
@Edelia Martinez phone case getting used and abused 😂
@ashacassidy4821
@ashacassidy4821 3 жыл бұрын
The pen 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@indyTyson
@indyTyson 3 жыл бұрын
But why couldnt she just block him or change her number?!?! 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 3 жыл бұрын
Because she don’t want to close that door all the way
@andthnwat
@andthnwat 3 жыл бұрын
Thank ya...
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 3 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf she love the attention it’s an ego thing
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
@@marilynking527 Agreed! I broke up with my grown boy and blocked both his phone numbers, his email address, unfriended him on social media and blocked his mama’s # too. I moved on and I wasn’t playing. When you do this, you, him and others know you are for real!
@clarkclarke
@clarkclarke 3 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf had a friend who did the same thing ...when she started talking about online dating ...while we are on lockdown ....I wasn't understanding .... It was hard to be her friend because all she talked about was men and dating ....I just didn't have the energy ....
@arionnajames474
@arionnajames474 3 жыл бұрын
Tony U stay cracking me UP 😂😂😂😩 1 hour turns into 2 from how many time I gotta pause the video from U having me dying 😂😂😂.
@lillianthomas9046
@lillianthomas9046 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you sis...smile...alot of times l would hit REPLAY...he keeps me thoroughly entertained and l feel blessed to be blessed with the "God Given" knowledge God had allowed him to attain...smile
@patricemurray6412
@patricemurray6412 3 жыл бұрын
@@lillianthomas9046 yes girl, I had to replay so many times along the video 🤣
@jasminethompson7994
@jasminethompson7994 3 жыл бұрын
You are better off being single and pursuing a passion or purpose in life than to marry an immature, grown boy that will only use, abuse, and manipulate you, or overall just treat you poorly. It's not worth it ladies. Wish you all the best though.
@neesielenyea4117
@neesielenyea4117 3 жыл бұрын
She’s pursuing.. she’ll be a doctor in less than a year my sister good. She blocked his ass
@jasminethompson7994
@jasminethompson7994 3 жыл бұрын
@@neesielenyea4117 Good for her sista. She made the right decision. I wish her continued success, happiness, and prosperity.
@deeeeen720
@deeeeen720 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 at 1 or 2am the breath starts to change......
@brownsugarglamour
@brownsugarglamour 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of people gone be sending Tony checks, with all this free advertisements LOL
@taynaburton5828
@taynaburton5828 3 жыл бұрын
Wait..I was dating this guy when I like 21 and he was about 28. I was in love him, but he was a player. This dude told me about 3 years ago that I was the one that got away because I left and went to the Army before he got me pregnant. I was like so, you wasn't going to ask me to marry you, but you wanted to put a baby in me..Thank you, Jesus, that I dodged that bullet. What type of mess is that? How you were going to make me a baby mama, but not wife..What in the what! I didn't talk to him anymore after that, that shook me to core.
@Ms.Haleyy
@Ms.Haleyy 3 жыл бұрын
God is good! He saved you from that! Crazy how thing just work out ❤️
@tryingtotameandcontrolwhoi4479
@tryingtotameandcontrolwhoi4479 3 жыл бұрын
That’s it ‘No one can call you if they don’t have your phone number!’ 👏 You can block someone on social media, but instead of moving forward, they create another account or use someone else’s to keep tabs on ppl they never even laid down with. That is not normal! Life is too short for all of that back and forth, especially years on end! Get a small group of trustworthy ppl and keep the tomfoolery far away! A peaceful life is possible, even when you have to remind the same person day after day!
@khocolateable
@khocolateable 3 жыл бұрын
"He a decent dog" -Tony 🤣
@thatgirlcocoa
@thatgirlcocoa 3 жыл бұрын
He’s a Morkie😂
@browngoddess5340
@browngoddess5340 3 жыл бұрын
I'm really here and excited for Talks with Tony. Im hooked now.
@gilanejean7779
@gilanejean7779 3 жыл бұрын
Same🙏
@IAmKaia
@IAmKaia 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 @ Around 2 or 3 I know that breath when to changing . Tony is hilarious
@Wealthybaby
@Wealthybaby 3 жыл бұрын
I’m busted out laughing 😂
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
From the title this is messy! Hey y'all! 👋🏾👀🍿🍷
@charlottekaysworld1498
@charlottekaysworld1498 3 жыл бұрын
Heeeyyy 🤗
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@charlottekaysworld1498 🤗
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 3 жыл бұрын
Lol heyyyy🥂🍷🍾
@charlottekaysworld1498
@charlottekaysworld1498 3 жыл бұрын
@@nikkyshamz2696 🤗🍷
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@nikkyshamz2696 hey Nikky 🤗
@blacksongbird100
@blacksongbird100 3 жыл бұрын
Did he pick up the WHOLE computer to see how she looked? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Ladydiva6590
@Ladydiva6590 3 жыл бұрын
I know right 🤣🤣🤣
@eileendom5858
@eileendom5858 3 жыл бұрын
Dont worry about the lint Tony. We dont even see it lol. We paying attention to what you are saying and not the lint. Lol
@melaniegonzalezart8506
@melaniegonzalezart8506 3 жыл бұрын
Lol!!!
@seretaminez7147
@seretaminez7147 3 жыл бұрын
You helped me understand men so much and helped me get out of a long term situationship. I wish I had this kind of game and wisdom when I was younger. I’d been married with family by now. I just pray that your messages reach as many young women as possible so they don’t make the same life changing mistakes. Keep up the great work God is using you to do in this messed up broken society. Thankyou 💛🙏
@nikkiwalker2017
@nikkiwalker2017 3 жыл бұрын
...that HBCU band musta been lit it it😂😂😂😂😂😂
@vickih1982
@vickih1982 3 жыл бұрын
No, It was Lit it it Lit, 😂
@sherlesscinema2024
@sherlesscinema2024 3 жыл бұрын
BREAK THAT EMAIL DOWN TO THE TEE, TONY!
@brendabeautiful3096
@brendabeautiful3096 3 жыл бұрын
This lady need to move on with her life ...she keep saying she don't mess with married men , but what does she think interacting with this man is ...she needs to shut the door on the past..he will never trust her again , bcos she did CHEAT)..bless you @ yours MR.GASKINS..
@toririchardson2302
@toririchardson2302 3 жыл бұрын
“IF YOU AINT GOT NO IPHONE...YOU AINT GOT NO PHONE”.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@terry21651
@terry21651 3 жыл бұрын
She sounds like she was trying to do too much. They are both are in a different life phase now. He is married. (MARRIED)..... Leave him alone. She needs to move on and find a man that is not married to someone else.
@neesielenyea4117
@neesielenyea4117 3 жыл бұрын
My sister has moved to a different state to get her closure and move on guh. His married ass keep contacting her. Yo man probably talking to somebody else too. Men are attracted to multiple women.
@tonibanks2064
@tonibanks2064 3 жыл бұрын
That not her fault her husband want her 😂
@QueenQueen-qw2ix
@QueenQueen-qw2ix 3 жыл бұрын
@@neesielenyea4117 I have a suggestion, she should change her number or block him. That's very easy to do.
@KL-000
@KL-000 3 жыл бұрын
@@neesielenyea4117 why hasn’t she blocked his number then? She is enjoying the attention
@terry21651
@terry21651 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenQueen-qw2ix She has not done that because she is still wrapped up in him.
@n.Lenice
@n.Lenice 3 жыл бұрын
Go absolutely no contact: Phone, social media, mutual friends, family, if need be. Pray, ask for forgiveness and let that be your closure of this situation. Your healing which is your responsibility IS your true closure. No matter how deep your relationship ran with this man, no matter all the time that has passed - his closure and healing of what happened between you two is HIS own responsibility, the only true thing you can do is pray for him and his wife. Otherwise, he will keep you tethered and dangling, because people, especially men, are selfish and he could care less about you meeting your husband, as he sits there with a wife, bc he wants you to always be available to him. Cut it off no explanation given, none needed and never look back.
@Softest_Hard
@Softest_Hard 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@n.Lenice
@n.Lenice 3 жыл бұрын
@@Softest_Hard you're welcome
@Minister_LaShawn
@Minister_LaShawn 3 жыл бұрын
Great video. There are a lot of things wrong/out of order in this situation. Entanglement is one of the things that comes to mind🤦🏽‍♀️. The biggest issue for me is the fact another woman is entertaining someone else’s fiancé/husband. Women treat other women so wrong. There’s no respect, honor, love, etc. What happened to putting yourself in that wife’s shoes? Would you like your husband’s ex-girlfriend/fiancé face timing him, sending old photos/videos, laying in bed with him reminiscing on how things used to be? Common sense has to kick in at some point🤔. We reap what we sow. I realize she hasn’t forgiven herself for cheating on him. Please get you some healing sis. This guy does not want anything serious with you. Like Tony said, he’s breaking you down bit by bit. Block him & change your number if needed. Have a talk with your sister & other family members he’s in contact with & ask them to ghost this guy🤷🏽‍♀️
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
@ClowneryAtItsFinest 3 жыл бұрын
The man is the one hitting her up on FaceTime. The man is the one sending her old pictures and videos. The man is the one that’s married, but still Reminiscing about his ex girlfriends from college.
@Minister_LaShawn
@Minister_LaShawn 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClowneryAtItsFinest : And she’s allowing him to hit her up. How could he do all those things when he hasn’t been blocked by HER. It works both ways. Watch and listen to the video again to ‘see/hear’ what’s NOT being said.
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
@ClowneryAtItsFinest 3 жыл бұрын
@@Minister_LaShawn She can do and say whatever she wants. He’s married, NOT her! She’s moved out of state, been with different men, HE IS the one contacting her after being married just a few months. How are u a newlywed, but sitting up looking at videos and pictures reminiscing about women that you were with in college.... THAT MAN IS WRONG ON ALL LEVELS! He was still seeing other women as close to weeks of getting married. He should’ve never gotten married in the first place! I’d bet money he’s doing this with MULTIPLE women, please believe this isn’t his first time either. And I think he had ulterior motives for marrying that wife, it’s not because he loves her. I hope she doesn’t sex him again, because she’ll be stuck in his twilight zone.That man is a whole predator!
@Minister_LaShawn
@Minister_LaShawn 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClowneryAtItsFinest : Of course he’s wrong. There’s no dispute on that. I see the bigger picture here: we reap what we sow. The young lady that wrote this email is not a victim. She was a willing participant. Good day Sis👋🏾
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
@ClowneryAtItsFinest 3 жыл бұрын
@@Minister_LaShawn I can agree to disagree, no hard feelings. Enjoy your day also.✌🏿
@TheeAfroHippie
@TheeAfroHippie 3 жыл бұрын
Thankful that I have found your videos, your videos are motivating and entertaining at the same time. The truth hurts but thank God I was able to find you while I'm still young. Be blessed!
@lynngee3459
@lynngee3459 3 жыл бұрын
The way this letter was dissected 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I really appreciate you Sir!!!
@andthnwat
@andthnwat 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Tony should get an Oscar for best comedy performance..no diss it was good info. But 😂😂
@Inmychristianfeels
@Inmychristianfeels 3 жыл бұрын
“Tumultuous turbulence grab of the phone” got me screaming🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pat4eva09
@pat4eva09 3 жыл бұрын
"Decent Dog🐶". I done heard it all from Tony. 😂 LOL
@3D3LIA
@3D3LIA 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy Tony wears his hat almost in every video . That means he really likes it! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@stilljocelyn4166
@stilljocelyn4166 3 жыл бұрын
I low key feel bad for dude’s wife. 😒
@trackstar6466
@trackstar6466 3 жыл бұрын
Highkey
@chicsocialitee
@chicsocialitee 3 жыл бұрын
High key!!
@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz
@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting I felt like a jezabel because when he dare to show up to my place I felt bad and told her and she pretty much said "I already talk to his family can you just let it go and let us move on" I was welp I was minding my own business he started been a creep when he cheat you can be sure it won't be with me.
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 3 жыл бұрын
It's sad that a female can't be honest and transparent with a man because she will be judged without a shred of grace and mercy. During a period of separation between my ex husband and myself, I started seeing another man, but after about 6 months I confessed, repented and resumed the marriage with my husband's "forgiveness " NOT. He was seeing someone else before, during, and later left me and our children for another woman. Through Tony's teaching, I have confirmed that men seek revenge from our indiscretions but fail to recognize their own. Just like having a 2x4 in their eyes, but they are offended with the splinter in ours.
@kryssekryssa7443
@kryssekryssa7443 3 жыл бұрын
The Soul-Tie is real! I don't think people know how strong it is and think they can dip in and out when their spirit is weak for an individual. Don't play yourself! You deserve better...but you have to want better! Such valuable lessons we can learn from others mistakes. Thank you Tony💯😊
@t.l1357
@t.l1357 3 жыл бұрын
Did Tony literally call this woman a dog? 🤣🤣🤣 Lawd help her. Loose booty 901 is bad enough but we gotta get this teaching in our spirits. Set the captives free Tony! FR Tony got my block game on point now!!!
@lekeshiacole9065
@lekeshiacole9065 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Wisdom seekers.
@394saci
@394saci 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@lekeshiacole9065
@lekeshiacole9065 3 жыл бұрын
@@394saci Hello Queen
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 3 жыл бұрын
Heyyyy💞
@kimberlypettway9692
@kimberlypettway9692 3 жыл бұрын
Everythinh TG said is the truth....you have to cut these jokers off to the quick with the quickness. PERIODTTT....I just did it to a ghoster after 9 months being MIA. Best decision ever.
@ko89124
@ko89124 3 жыл бұрын
Lol. Check with sis!!!! All facts in the messages every time bra. Hope she’s really ready to do that work though. 💪🏿
@patriciawilliams5519
@patriciawilliams5519 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Two (2) Wives! For as long as he wants! I've seen it. Married with another woman for the whole length of the 30 or 40 years!! Foolery!!!!! Cut off. Doesn't matter what was. His now is his wife! Spend time with the Lord and self worth before he destroys your confidence and esteem.
@mitz1919
@mitz1919 3 жыл бұрын
This is a whole message here! First of all I love how detailed u explain why u have to let a person be completely cut off and how you say you are a whole 12 months from finding your husband because this lingering ex will sabotage anything new !
@womanofgod2948
@womanofgod2948 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe women go through these kind of craziness 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lord have mercy, thank God for Jesus
@sharonkeggins290
@sharonkeggins290 3 жыл бұрын
Hate to be the one to say it but “something wrong with you lady” Thank the Lord for you Brother! I couldn’t do it! God bless your patience 💕🙏
@ciaranicolet
@ciaranicolet 3 жыл бұрын
Loose booty 901 gets me every time 😂😂
@BEAUTIFULSTYLES
@BEAUTIFULSTYLES 3 жыл бұрын
“.......Send me a check!” -TG 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@alinas8003
@alinas8003 3 жыл бұрын
You kind of destroyed tacos for me😂😂😂 God bless you Tony
@sadelynn2235
@sadelynn2235 3 жыл бұрын
Be blessed, love these talks with Tony. He reads them left to right right to left wit using curse words. Right on time, keep coming.
@sarahmitchell4010
@sarahmitchell4010 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t watched the video yet, the title in itself- leave these 2 alone, they married. I know it’s hard, but it wasn’t hard for him to find a different wife. Oh, and he holding you accountable... you fooled around. And of and on is tough in itself. Take care. Oh, and no shame, but you have some mind making to do. You’re playin with each others lives! He wants to make sure you’ll still be there.
@sharomesmith65
@sharomesmith65 3 жыл бұрын
I be so weak when Tony be changing his voice & demonstrating for us. Im ready for Tony TV Show😄 Not the peach cobbler & microphone. Thanks Tony for all you do💯
@logic888
@logic888 3 жыл бұрын
this all could have been solved with a BLOCKEDT 🗣
@ginawilliams8822
@ginawilliams8822 3 жыл бұрын
Tony, you are changing people’s lives for the better one KZfaq video at a time. Thank you so much for all you do! Your dedication and effort is admirable. Also, thank you to Sheri for being your backbone. Without her continuous love and support, none of this would be possible.
@slothisasin8240
@slothisasin8240 3 жыл бұрын
I just got myself a head ache. God bless Tony for not just leaving us with this mess!
@christineporter9914
@christineporter9914 3 жыл бұрын
God Bless you Bro Tony, praying for your strength, and Thank you for your faithfulness to serve and bring God's anointed word daily on U Tube.
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like to me she got what was coming to her. She cheated, and he moved on.
@taffyrose741
@taffyrose741 3 жыл бұрын
how he move on when he in bed with her cheating on his wife she should just block him he playin games
@Channyb89
@Channyb89 3 жыл бұрын
@@taffyrose741 Right lol
@neesielenyea4117
@neesielenyea4117 3 жыл бұрын
They were young and she made a mistake. You’re human right? She spent 5 years trying to make it right. What was wrong is him popping up and not telling her he was engaged poo poo!
@freedom123-j8j
@freedom123-j8j 3 жыл бұрын
How he moved on, when he is still contacting her and laying on her bed with her?
@angelasmith4064
@angelasmith4064 3 жыл бұрын
Tony I swear...you have been all in my business with these videos...you hitting every nail on the head...where were you when I needed these videos...well I have them now...thanks for your God given talents on love and relationships...keep them coming...
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
Oh how I wished I would have known about Tony in 2009. I could have avoided some nasty grown boys!
@ak-47intelligence75
@ak-47intelligence75 3 жыл бұрын
I had to save this to my watch later. The game breakdown that he gave somewhere at 46:00 is 🥇. Thank you, Tony, God bless you.
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the extra 25-15 minutes. 😁
@gorgeousgbaby4938
@gorgeousgbaby4938 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony for the confirmation bc I had a situation similar to this women’s relationship! I cut that player off completely and still moving forward. Great video! Be blessed!
@lyndapeoples8127
@lyndapeoples8127 3 жыл бұрын
I disagree with you, Tony. I don't think he was all that decent. It doesn't matter what he's considered to be in the world of man. What matters most is what pleases God and how he sees it.
@slimalinga_
@slimalinga_ 3 жыл бұрын
The time and energy some of us have, life is short, stop playing mind games and get on with your life...
@cam4short
@cam4short 3 жыл бұрын
This is golden, per usual. Thank you, Uncle Tony 🙏
@Markitta21
@Markitta21 3 жыл бұрын
Tony!!! This video was so funny yet informative at the same time 😩 I live for it 🙌🏾
@christyfallinger8716
@christyfallinger8716 3 жыл бұрын
Your talks give insight on different situationships
@patricemurray6412
@patricemurray6412 3 жыл бұрын
This was so funny and informative 🤣 back up off the Android, we got the real phones. 😌 Now I need a check Samsung. I'm here for all your videos, Love your spirit Tony. God bless🙏🏾
@melaniegonzalezart8506
@melaniegonzalezart8506 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Brother Tony!! This was the best read I've heard in a while! I mean all TWT are gold but man this one I listened to in parts and repeated some parts!!! Great question and answer!! Be blessed.
@tachanyevans8329
@tachanyevans8329 3 жыл бұрын
Swag-gu drippin' Ragu. LOL I love it.
@Banana-lk7tf
@Banana-lk7tf 3 жыл бұрын
I love how he always tells us that his videos are going to be about 30-45 minutes, tops lol. Another great video, Tony!!
@janieh3950
@janieh3950 3 жыл бұрын
I promise my questions be answered on here. A lot of the time I don't have questions but Tony, be all up in my life teaching me, plucking weeds. It's the free game for me honey. Thanks Tony, you're very well appreciated.
@schoolwork232
@schoolwork232 3 жыл бұрын
Tony, I used to be so naive about men but your videos have opened my eyes to who men are. I really have a very different perception of men including my brothers and dad too! Question everyone, trust no one!
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