That & “stay off your BA(IY)CK ! lol lol

Love this analogy!! If we would resort to our "childlike" state of mind when it comes to receiving messages, how much trouble would we save ourselves. LISTEN TO RECEIVE

@@Sugarsugar4u Exactly!!! Thank you. Listening is the KEY!!! Now all we have to do is apply!

I do!! Along with "now I don't have much time today "🤣🤣🤣

I love the "look...look..." then the pause...😂

Only in show business only people with no knowledge is looked at like this

@@yeahthatsme921 Only in the everyday world does this ever happen.

I think it happens in everyday life..

That's really saying something....

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Lol..

Ha! ikr.

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Facts!!!

😆THE HEADPHONE PURSE IS MY FAVE ILLUSTRATION/ACCESSORY!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣

"GRATITUDE DON'T MEAN CHANGING YOUR LATITUDE (going from standing up to lying on ur back)" - TONY "THE G.O.A.T " GASKINS !!!!!!!! PREACH MIGHTY MAN OF ALMIGHTY GOD!!!!!! I FELT THE HOLY GHOST ON THAT ONE RIGHT THERE SMH I DIDN'T REALIZE THAT A DATE AND A PLATE MADE ME FEEL THAT I "OWED HIM" SOMETHING. MY BODY IS PRICELESS!!! I CANNOT BE BOUGHT!!! I HAVE TO BE SOUGHT! POINT BLANK PERI-YAHHD!!!!

Real Talk

True. Rambling thoughts here.... Especially, if you are abstinence when you meet him and he is not. Now all of a sudden he'll decide to be abstinence because he met you. Ummm, how long did it take you to discipline your sexual appetite 🤔 I know it's different for each person...I don't condone sex before marriage. I feel certain kind of way of using my desire to be abstinence to be an influence for a man to be with me. If he's not on the same level of discipline, we are not compatible. We have different mindsets...A man can have sex with someone else either way married or not....Annd, he can have sex with you before marriage and be about you and marry you and be faithful. But, he can also see you beings abstinence as a challenge and go as far as marrying you for the sex and visa versa "you" as well...and not truly know the person. People do marry just for sex....Like marrying for money, status, etc... I play my role until. She's still can be blind and not see the red flags because she's so caught up with the fact he's trying to be with her without being sexually intimate. He's showing her attention, action, etc...I guess I'm saying or agreeing withholding yourself sexually or giving yourself sexually in a relationship, one still have to get to know a person. A man or woman can have a reason why they are marrying you. Showing that they will dwell with or without sex is not a big thing for me regarding a man's love. Yes, you run a risk if sex is the common glue of the relationship. But, I need someone who has discipline himself as well when we meet or give him space to try. I don't want to involve myself in a relationship until he develops his relationship with God for himself. If he wants a life change just to be with you and not God, it's not going to last.. Friends until...If he can't be friends, he's not for me. Friendship is key for me. That's why you gotta pray and be patient for God to reveal a person's intentions and level of maturity to be in a relationship. I have known women that were virgins or women practicing abstinence, the man still cheated on her in the marriage 1-3 years in. Crazy....he found a jewel before marriage to commit to only to decommit himself once married. I also feel men have brought into the idea that if she's a virgin or practicing abstinence that she's a decent woman to marry. The man as well should get to know the women too. She may be good for someone else but not you. God's blessing adds no sorry. Watch and pray and let patience have its perfect work.

@@thechristiansocialite1222 you've touch on some important points on being commited to and building relationship to your spouse and God.

Amen.

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But does it attract men? And what kind of men is it attracting? We are trying to attract men right? That has to be understood. So we as women will celebrate each other but realistically we are trying to attract other men not women. So what are men attracted to generally?

Well said 👏🏽

Exactly! Speak Beautiful woman.😊

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I always say “God bless y’all, we’ll talk soon.” 🤣

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@@TheAmberla07 same sis!!! 😆

I dont even watch TV.

Especially when there's SO MUCH out here to learn!

I never watch tv at night! I watch TWT!

Right?! Lol I always watch Tony before I go to bed

@@aalexis112 I thought it was just me. I be like “time for Tony Gaskins” 😂😂.

Right. There are a lot of women sacrificing for a MAN and not because God "demands" it.

@@TiffanyFG Right!!

Yes ma’am! Priorities! Kingdom over carnality! We are Queens!✨💕

@@naturallycandacemarie Right!

You said mouth full, Sister.

This is so true. I’m a single mom as well. I’ve had to get to a point where I’m working on building my brand as a life coach. The man that’s meant for me will come.

@@coachalexiseanes5505 I wish you all the best with your plan

@@lifeofmim thank you so much! Feel free to follow me on IG alexis_eanes. Positive quotes daily.

If you just dating a man he shouldn’t know you have a child... if he asks if you have kids say I would love to have kids etc .. woman go on a first date or two and tell the man where they live,work how many kids they have everything and don’t even know nothing about the man lol .. keep your mouth and your legs closed

@@helena3631 Oh...honey...Everyone is going to know I have a chid, because he is the most important thing to me besides God... now dud is never going to meet my child unless we're heading towards marriage...Suga I never got to any kind of intimacy with a guy because they walk away inside of one week...lol!!! I've been abstaining for many years(which I dont even get a chance to tell dudes, they walk away too fast)...my son is now 18...God empowered me with the strength and wisdom as a single mother that worked two jobs and didn't date(never had time to) nor depend on a man...if my standards scare away a man, then he's not for me...keep it moving!!

Yasss! I have experienced exactly what you are saying! My favorite is the so called men that are jealous of you and try to break your confidence...I mean literally try! And, the men that try to compete with you in the looks arena...it’s so sad! It sad that people look at you, don’t even take the time to talk to you, and already have preconceived ideas about you! I have a many people apologize to me, after they got to know me! They just assumed I was snobby, stuck up, etc! I even had a manager tell me that before and we needed up being good friends! Anywho, everything Tony said was right!

That’s so true! I had a ex bf try to do that. Took me a while to catch on but he’d say things like “you don’t get everything you want because you’re pretty”... like, what?? lol And yes, men feel some kind of way when they can’t have you as well. Attractiveness is a blessing and a curse indeed.

@@sheloves3663 it is definitely a bless and a curse! I thought it might change or get a bit better as I got older, but I’m 52 and not much has changed! It’s so sad some of the things that go on out here! I cut men off real quick now...lol

Me too! LOL My BS-o-meter stays charged and ready 😂👍🏽

@@sheloves3663 what you said is very true!

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EXACTLY!!!

👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾 say that again sis!!! I swear I look around these days at 37 years young, I keep myself in shape and am what society would consider atttactive, BUT I do not get approached like people THINK I do.

Yep!

@Vanessa Louis I doubt it's that

Well said !!! Sometimes they will approach a less attractive woman to try and make the more attractive woman feel bad ... because the think the less attractive woman will put out faster 💨 it’s been done ✅ for decades , and than he will try you later lol like bro really lol 😂 we are who we attract sometimes!!! We have to love ourselves first.

THANK YOU SO MUCH TONY 🙏🏿. This video was a confirmation that am on the right path now; God comes right on time. 💯

Thank you

Thanks for the tip! Just got it on audible

I did :)

Thank you and I am about to buy mine now..

Thank you

Jewelry? Do you have an Etsy shop? :)

Lola wishing you all the best and much success

What kind of jewelry do you make, Sis? Put it out there when you're ready ☺️🙌🏽 we're here to support however we can

Me here tonight then I heard Kenya❤️🇰🇪

Yes queen 🙌🏾🙌🏾

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😂 yep!

Loose booty 901 🤣😂

Loose booty 901 😄 I don’t know how to translate it into my language, which is frustrating, cause I say it in my head all the time.

Wow! He could have been an Angel in disguise Some come to tear down some come to build.. The husband I have now told me the same thing. Not know I needed help . He never said monetarily he just said ill take care of. No sex, drugs, disrespect. None of thst. Weve been married 6 years. I want for nothing. But God is my source Not what Tony says. Blessings to You

Faye Crawley wow! Well the timing wasn’t right for me and my intuition did not tell me to give him a chance. I agree with your statement though, some people cross our path for a reason. Blessings to you also.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@@peaceful_and_blessed2879 I'm so glad u listened to your intuition

I love your name even though idk how to pronounce it. Lol

@@roja_xo5527 ☺️ thnx! It's pronounced "Tori"

I hollered 💀💀🤣🤣😭😭

Sure does! 👏🏾

Yes!! Baaybeee that earpiece pocket book is something else!! Have me rolling, then he has to snatch it and put it on with the attitude!! I love Tony!! LOL!!

Same girl same 🙋🏽‍♀️

five years celibate and single and loving it ❤️💯🌞👑

I have made the decision to abstain as well. I don’t crave sex. However I do desire companionship with the opposite sex. Have either of you had relationships over the years as a celibate woman? What is it like? Are you dating or do you just refrain from relationships altogether? Since I have made that decision I have avoided relationships altogether.

@@jsue6994 no, I don't date,no relationships,just enjoying being single and celibate by choice, I miss having companionship sometimes but I am dead set on staying this way until I meet my mate and at 58,no sex until I marry again 👑

That’s great I am approaching almost three years .. great you are staying the course

@@jsue6994 Hey Sweetheart!! Congratulations on being a Blossoming Woman. Don’t avoid meeting someone just be yourself.. you are glowing let these men know I’m wanting marriage before sexing. The gentleman that couldn’t hang with my intentions on what I was wanting.. called himself leaving me 4mos.. guess what?? .. He’s back because it’s my intellect and my heart that’s captured his attention..,and still gotta wait.😉

I attempted to watch “Put A Ring On It” but once I seen that they were dating other people while still in a relationship just to see if they truly wanted to stay with that person, I was turned off . If you have to go through all of that , y’all don’t need to be together 😭 I don’t understand why these networks promote this type of nonsense.

This is a good idea, I wish he would. I don't think he'll do it though, he tries not to call out other people in his field anymore, he instead just focuses on teaching us the right way to do things. I really wish everyone who watches that nonsense comes here and get better insight and knowledge though.

We know right off the bat Tony wouldn't approve of Put A Ring On It lol. None of those couples are supposed to be together but thats another story lol. But Ready to Love is different cause at least the people are single.

@ericabarnett the production companies of those shows reached out to me, but I think I was a lil too real for them. I’ll try to catch a couple episodes and do a review

Those 5-8 year old relationships on Put a Ring on It are doomed already. Per Tony Gaskins go on about your business sis you wasting your time!

I agree sis. You don't have to tolerate physical touch from random strangers or those who just want to grab a piece of you. Especially women should have boundaries with men. That doesn't mean you're a B. It simply means you have respect for yourself and your body which is the Temple of the Holy Spirit. When you allow men to touch you or disrespect you, you are letting them know that you don't value yourself enough to protect yourself and your body as well as integrity. The only one who has a right to touch you is your HUSBAND!!! Gotta keep this truth STRAIGHT! Pray and be strong SISTERS, BE STRONG in the LORD!!! We GOT THIS!!!

@@nataliasolakian6717 thank you sis for the wise words amen we gotta stick it out people feel way to entitled to next person you not be able to change a person but you can correct behavior 🙏🏾.

That is so true. There is so much emphasis on being agreeable, forgiving, and passive that it makes women believe they have to accept anything. Places other people above them in value. Disempowers and "declaws". That's why we see so much bullying in younger years, which leads to abuse in adult relationships.

There’s levels of trophies. There’s super hot men and women and so on. We women try to deny that but these men keep speaking their truths whether we like it or not.

KZfaq is his pulpit.

Good insight!!

Yes sis GOD 🙏 Bless You In due season you will reap a harvest 🙏

@@lashondarochell7584 Thank you, I appreciate that!!! God bless you as well!!! 🙏🙏🙏