So excited aaaa

Hi

You're beautiful

So excited

Ok

funny enough i watched a video about the oreo stereotype yesterday

I hate when people say OREO like stfu

Exactly..like last time I checked I'm black and there was no handbook or rules as to what I can or can't like🤷🏽‍♀️

I agree your race is not a personality trait!

Im black, and i used to do this unfortunately 😅 but i know better now. I didnt realize how dumb i sounded🤦🏾‍♀️

Exactly it’s weird asl. I saw this alt girl saying “dressing basic so I can get ready for work” (something along the lines of that) and she really thought she was all that because she doesn’t dress “basic”.

@@kiamichelleee. its really annoying how people use basic pop abbreviations like "asl"

Being like everyone else isn't a good thing thats just being a follower(: be yourself

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@@kiyana7995 I think we have different definitions of basic. To me basic is like a simple or average person. And what’s wrong with that? Not everyone has to/likes to go above and beyond with everything. I feel like the people who try to be the most quirky are actually the real basic people because they all copy other “quirky” people like Emma chamberlain and they try hard to be something they’re not.

PFTR☕️

That’s kinda true there are things where it isn’t bad but like it’s not the best thing ever, with so many people on earth most of us are gonna land on average lol. And it’s not bad depending on your personality and style there will be at least someone who might think you’re attractive

It’s true average isn’t bad per say. But I think it’s sometimes they way people use it especially when comparing people. For example: “Ariana Grande is an amazing vocalist but Victoria Justice is an average vocalist.” That doesn’t sound like a compliment at all. Maybe that’s why so many people associate average with “bad”.

I love how I completely disagree. If someone called me average at something I care about, I’d be a little upset

🤌🏾 period!!!

That’s what my mom told me too. Confidence is an eye catcher and attractive to a lot of people

Dang!! This was literally such an eye opener, thank you so much

SOMEONE SAID IT!

it’s everytime that a girl that’s wearing makeup gets complimented someone comments ”she’s wearing makeup” ...so????

@@lbz6412 makeup is also kinda hard to do and takes a long time.

SHEET

THIS OMG!!!

Word. We out here seeing noncing in plain sight (James Charles) and he doesn’t even get a proper investigation.

That’s a fact!

It’s like Restrictions are just for us normal people

Deffo

Sometimes you're the villain in someone else's story

@The Antagonist yup

@@z.d.4795 yep that happened to me last month after this 1 girl was being toxic to me

@@z.d.4795 yes

Or Black people who aren’t cast by mixed race people

@coffee cats yeah like us Latinos/Hispanics. We can be white, brown,Asian,indigenous, black. We are not a race so I guess they meant something like that.

THANK YOU- I didn’t want to seem rude, but like they cast them so much, they really said if we can’t have a full white person we would have one with 50 in them

They need to cast asians from south east asia, I feel like we're the most left behind(when it comes to asian representation).. I can barely see full blooded filipinos on movies at the west. Theyre mostly mixed.

That’s what sucks about being half half people will push you to one side and define you as such. Like, a white and Japanese character. Asian people will see that character as just white , but a white person will see them as asian.

@@mollieb.1238 exactly

@@mollieb.1238 If I had a penny for everytime that assumption has been made about me, I'd be a millionaire.

@@mollieb.1238 exactly I'm not gonna be talking to everyone. And when people say "you don't tell me anything". I'm a private person, you don't ask, I don't tell. And even if you did ask, I still probably wouldn't tell you 💀

Yeah! People are like “you’re shy” just bc I do not talk a lot or I’m calm but I’m just calm not shy

Yeah like I just don't have anything to say lmao

@Stuffypie i understand what you're saying and u do have a point but he did explain the fact that old Town road was about adultery and cheating on someone, but I'm pretty sure he did say montero and Industry baby music videos were not for children

@Stuffypie u are talking like his old town road song isn’t full of gay undertone, it was as clear as the Sun but u were blind

Right it’s your fault that your children are surfing freely online, their content is not for 4 year olds.

@@deadchannel3610 Legit have relatives that say they should know better, they should know children use the internet, they should know their behavior can influence children and so on. Like at this point, I'm exhausted. 💀

its the parents fault really, kids cant help it when they see it everywhere, their parents are responsible

☕️☕️

Is that unpopular?

This kinda depends on what they're parenting about.

i agree, but i think in some cases people just kind of feel obligated to say something. idk i think some kids aren’t monitored at all by their parents, atleast not what they do/say online. it’s scary how much these young kids see something an adult is doing and want to do it too. i see it a lot on tiktok and instagram where really young girls want to copy what adult woman are posting. they have no idea what creepy people could be watching them

And again, period 🤌🏾

Yup

yuppp

its always been toxic

@Jungkooksleft ballsack interesting, I find that nowadays tumblr is one of the least toxic platforms but idk, maybe it depends on which side of tumblr your on

Tru

Honestly I say that because I do care just not enough to make it a big deal or something that will make mad .

It’s so disingenuous. Idk y but it rlly rubs me the wrong way

To be fair some people have ASPD and barely care or even don't care at all.

That is particularly true , because people are all different and care about different things more or less than others.

Yeah I say it all the time. But I use it as an affirmation for myself so that I am not weighed down by the opinions of others and I can focus on what I want who I want to be.

exactly

It's just threatening for no reason. My mum literally came into my room after she shouted at me (for a stupid reason may I add) and told me to fix my face when I was LITERALLY LOOKING FOR A NEFLIX SHOW TO WATCH 💀

My Nigerian mom thinks if she slaps me that'll make me smile when really it's the thing my makes me cry in my pillow and brings out my anxiety.

@LoveBug I wanted to bash my head into a wall ngl 😀

In that situation, no face you put on could be the correct face tbh.

Yasss time to lock sister up and throw the key in the ocean 😉

Yes! Cancelling is for holding people accountable for bad things that aren't illegal, racism, toxicity etc, but now we've cancelled james and Tony Lopez and zoey laverne, everyone is like okay that's good. No, they need legal action against them.

@@indiascarlett They haven’t exactly been cancelled they haven’t lost followers and they still have a lot of fans

@@Amelia-pk2ls this shit is honestly wild

The only person who can put them in jail is the victims or the chold victims parents

Beauty standards bae

It's weird, because light eyes are usually praised on people with rich skin(people want to know your genetic breakdown, etc). If you're fair, it's just another Tuesday.

@@pinkforever3844 not necessarily i know a lot of white people who are still praised for having green / blue eyes

@@kianaw.8096 Absolutely, but thanks to colonization they're fetishized on people with rich skin. I say praised in a sense of "model minority" stereotype, a trait viewed as positive is super imposed over a person to the point that they're viewed as said trait instead of a multifaceted human.

@Stuffypie the op seems to be black or a poc. there is an obsession in the black community with having lighter eyes, it’s not just a dress up or makeup thing. i’ve met and seen too many black people who try to distance themselves from their blackness by wearing contacts and claiming it’s their real eye color all to seem more “exotic”

AWW.

YESSIR 💕

@@Itzkeisha Keisha i like art and i wanna be your friend 😩😩😩

I’ve noticed this also !

Periodt sis 💅

TV show writers and authors often forget that to be a healthy couple you need to be each other's friends too. That's where the chemistry comes from. They need to have common interests, respect each other, stand up for each etc. Gazing into each others eyes and having passionate sex does not make a good couple

Simarkus ship from DBH says hello. Literally more people ship them than North and Markus, which was the intended forced romance, because they have absolutely no chemistry

Additionally, lots of media just straight doesn't develop the women in the cast as whole entire characters, so they're very flat compared to the fully fleshed out men in the cast.

I hate that. And then when you see many people saying that body type makes women look like guys, it makes you question your own femininity. I have a lot of pet-peeves on this topic. I could go on.

now its the beauty standard lol

IKRRR

I think she gets enough recognition

NIkki I couldn't agree more.

@@Simperwolf she gets like none compared to what she should have :/

@@Liz-abeth maybe cus she doesn’t rlly put out music like other artists do. and when I mean other artists I mean artists who hop on features or remixes. Artists who drop albums back to back. I think she’s good where she’s at now, also probably after 2 albums she’s done with music

A lot of people think I'm a bitchy and don't approach me because they see feminine as bad🙄

Yea. I personally don't have basic interests (you know like the basic white girl interests) but I respect girls who do. And it's not like everyone or majority of people are basic, bc we all have differences and similarities from one another

THIS. I’m part of some fandoms and from the time you give constructive criticism or hold them accountable for actions that are unacceptable the fandom comes at you with so much hate. It’s really sad to see and it’s immature. Idols are human beings. They’re not perfect. Giving someone constructive criticism is actually a sign that you care for the person and know that they can do better.

@@ImORtalRAin718 AGREEEEEED

Beehive and kpop stans

That’s not unpopular at all.

Something random but I love your hair

100% 💕

SO MUCH

exactly!! I feel like that timothy situation hindered her image

exactly exactly

YES

Yeah I'm Arab and deadass the only Arab characters I can think of are Jasmine (and the movie she's from is completely off in regards to Arab culture) and Ramy. We're not that small of a minority, idk why Americans act like we don't exist (of course until they need some kind of soldier or terrorist then they remember arabs exist -_-)

I’m starting to see this recently

@@Itzkeisha Damn 😳 I really thought I saw things when I got this notification. But yeah I started to see this too.

I agree and disagree. Often times when people say black they mean African American. Which in that case I would agree. But in terms of Caribbean black people or people of that decent (not just Jamaica), you don't really find them.

Yes!!! I totally agree.

That’s a popular opinion

@@Itzkeisha oh fr? i never heard that! but dats great

How am i suppose to clean the toilet then.

They sort of banned them in my country but now people are replacing them for "whitening creams" which is basically the same thing just not straight forward

soo has tanning products

I feel like a lot of people mistake confidence for arrogance and vice versa

@@realnookes6482 Tbh I confuse it a lot

when someone that fit societies standard (ex: white skinny "beautiful") is confidant people call them arrogant, but if someone doesn't fit the standard (ex: POC fat "ugly") than every is "go queen, 🥂🎁🎈🎉🍾🎂

@@porrnesianparrapio5063 Well with that (not saying hate is justified at ALL for anyone despite who you are) big girls + POC get made fun of WAY more than pretty white girls. So people are more likely to praise a poc or big girl for being confident because of how much they get put down. ALSO most famous women on social media are pretty white girls who get endless amounts of praise so idk how far your statement goes,

@@realnookes6482 yeah and I see the difference between the two being how they treat/view others. A confident person may be content and sure of themselves while still being generally nice or at least neutral to others. They might see themselves highly, but don't use their esteem to put ppl down (see them as an equal). An arrogant person is sure of themselves in a way that they believe they better than others, and view/treat others as such. Of course, a confident person can also be an asshole I guess,,

Ooooo I see what you mean !

yea i see what you mean, when i was younger using the internet i thought i wasnt a real black person since black mainstream media only consisted of african americans

My eyes roll to the back of my head every time I hear American Black as a blanket for Black ppl Worldwide, like Black people worldwide are so diverse it’s crazy,I personally think American culture should be less popular worldwide it’s honestly erasing and changing cultures imo

@@no.reply_ THIS. I’m Black-Canadian and I feel that the current spread of American culture is literally like a new form of American Imperialism, this time it’s just through the spread of their own culture and beliefs, which then suppresses and overpowers the original countries’/communities culture. This specifically bothers me when it comes to english speaking Americans being surprised when other people around the globe adopt American speaking patterns, specifically AAVE, despite knowing full well that American culture, esp AA culture by proxy, has literally been spread around the world, usually without consent and quite subversively. Don’t get me wrong, ppl definitely need to stop appropriating Black culture, but Americans of all races need to understand that American culture and mannerisms literally dominate the lives of SO MANY PEOPLE that live outside the States. This has also done a BIT (not a ton imo) of damage to the overall image of the black community in terms of grouping us into one conglomerate based on Black American culture, totally disregarding the cultures and histories of Black people/people of African descent in the Caribbean, Africa, Europe… etc. This then makes Black people in other parts of the world seem “less Black” bc they don’t conform or match people’s expectations of what a Black person is (which is largely based on Black American culture). Ofc, you should never generalize a whole group of people, but this is even a problem within the Black community and it just sucks.

I agree, most times when people say black culture they mean African American culture. And growing up in a Ghanaian household I feel more connected to Ghanaian culture than American culture so it sounds very ignorant when ppl assume that two black people from different parts of the world (example: a Ghanaian and an Ethiopian) automatically share the same culture bc they're the same race..

Agreed. I think the body positivity movement should be more focused on health. Yes, I want people to be happy with themselves, but when it gets to a point when your actively killing yourself (I.e. morbid obesity, anorexia) then it’s an issue.

why is health relevant though? i’m disabled and chronically ill, i will never be healthy. does that mean i’m not allowed to accept myself? health doesn’t = your moral worth on this planet. i highly recommend you look into this more.

THIS! I swear I say this to people in a daily basis.

@@jifij89 That’s not what we’re saying at all! We’re just trying to say that people should do their best to take care of their physical health as well as their mental health. As a Type 2 diabetic, I am sick, but I can still do my best to manage my health by eating right, taking medication, and exercising. I guess my point is people should do their best to manage their health and take care of themselves as well as they can. From my own experience that really helped me with my own self-esteem and body image. But that’s just my opinion 😊🤷🏾‍♀️

@@jifij89 There are issues that you can change just by putting in a little bit of effort at a time, killing yourself shouldn't be normalized.

Facttss especially when they just throw in token characters or change races of original characters when it doesn’t add to the story or character... It happens sooo often in live adaptations from books the changingof races to appeal to a larger audience and hook in minorities...but they’re just met with a token character that’s under developed and lacking in story

This part there's tokenism and then there's good writing

Righttt like in the doctor strange movie when the girl was speaking Spanish…… girl we get it, I’m Latina btw

EXACTLYYY

😂😂😂

Same

Sameee I would wanna go like to the arcade or something

LMAO RIGHT

jajanajaja giving Gemini energy

just an example: i have an emotionally-abusive parent, and when i told my school, they were defending them way more than they were defending the rest of my family. this person is obsessed with an 11-year-old and taunts an autistic child non-stop, but he apparently "loves me" and "doesn't intend it that way". my dad is in his 40's. what kind of fucking 45-year-old doesn't understand "please leave me alone", "please don't fight" and "stop"?

I agree 🙌 My friends would say, "what if you want a kid one day?" or "why not?" like please stop I already said no multiple times.... 😒✋

That’s not kind of unpopular at all. It’s common sense

I don't want kids but I can understand if they're curious about it. I have no problem explaining why. You shouldn't either, because it's a weird and different pov to them😂

Very weird lmao also heyyy ✨

@@Itzkeisha hey, great video

Lmao same un Mexico they say Go marry a gringo so you can live in the us But when the say a “gringo” they’re referring to a white person never a poc

Wow. Just wow.

Or the guys on the road saying they want a woman(most of the time 'a white gyal')to take care of them, pay for their things, etc. 'Mi want a gyal fi tek care a mi'. Or the awful red eye crab inna barrel mentality that most of them seem to have

It definitely depends there are some people smarter in community colleges then in higher standard colleges and vis verse But you are right they aren’t less then just because they aren’t in a big mighty school

Period

Agree!! I didn’t bother studying for my SAT exams in HS. I knew I was going to community college since it was closer to where I lived & glad I did. The classes were taught better than the ones in university

I would also add that people who don’t go to college at all can be just as smart as people who are at any type of college. We should let people live and not pass judgement :)

@@snowbunny2675 very true 😌

yes! ppl on stan twt always make fun of u for being 20+ and I never got that

Yeah it’s kind of crazy. I want to see a music industry with more older people in too. People don’t always do their best work when they are kids.

Literally...like are we just gonna ignore apartheid in Zimbabwe was only abolished in the 1900’s, the casual constant civil wars and changes in government causing unrest and instability? No? We just gonna Ignore or the internal unrest and violence happening? The deaths? Come on now

What platforms are you looking at because i remember everybody and their momma were (and still is) concerned for africa and all the problematic shit that was going on.

key chains maybe to depends on what country you’re from and therefore my feed is different and I don’t see any news about such issues

I’d say go in with like 5 strong talking points and a few things you should never bring up and keep them in your head. I like people who are naturally funny and can hold a conversation so I prefer dinner dates but that’s just me.

I have Misophonia (which is a phobia to all type of sound that came from someone mouths, such as eating something, chew a gum or the sound that sunflower seeds make when you eat them) so a dinner is the worst option for me lol

THIS. I've seen time and time again people sympathizing with the closeted person and completely disregarding their partner of the opposite sex's feelings or immediately expecting them to "forgive them because they had no other choice" smh. It really irks me because it is a form of deception and it should be seen as such.

That part! In the UK, we have a host called Phillip Schofield, and when he came out in his 60's after 40 something years of marriage, everyone empathised with him, but no one cared for his wife. Yes, it's sad you were in the closet for so long, but his wife had to be humiliated in the process and it is unfair. Even in the gay community, the rule of not outing particularly gay men, is such a toxic culture that has to stop because of the lives in danger.

YES !!!

Yeah if you don't wanna come out, don't date anyone you'll just be hurting them too. I have no problem with people that are closeted but if your in the closet and dating someone, that is very selfish.

It was justified back then, but In todays time, it is extremely wrong. Because back then, if you were gay, you would pretty much be killed or beaten. So I understand back then. But now we are more accepting than before so doing that now is just extremely selfish and morally wrong.

I don’t get how someone who is 5’1 would want a bf a foot taller than them.

@@popoffpeppar It is just so ridiculous to me too!

I'm 6ft and I do not care. It's up to their ego tbh. I’ve dated a 5”5 dude before and besides a weird reaction from some friends the first time we met the only issue Was his drug problem

People are allowed to want people who are taller than them 😂. Besides I don’t think any completely sane person looks for ONLY height in a partne. But I get you

@@chidiogoikeh4550 Of course people have preferences and that is completely fine. But when they make such big deal out of such an unimportant thing I just get frustrated.

Agreed

truth be told, i’ve never understood why people compare them because outside of having high pitched vocals, the kinds of music they make are pretty different

Ooooo

Yea I agree her new album the songs are pretty plain except happier then ever They didn’t have a main part to focus on so it was flat

melanie >>>> billie

UGHHHH

UGH!

Why does it annoy you?

@@ndapandulaipinge790 as a tall woman i just want someone at least taller than me so it’s an unnecessary standard for short ppl to want someone over 6'2 when 5'10 will do but thats just my opinion

The fact that short guys go for short girls and tall guys go for short girls, tall girls have no one😭. It's also sad that being tall is associated with masculinity like excuse me I'm sorry I can't control my height I'm 5'6 which some of you may not consider that tall but most women in my country are short 5'3, 5'2 😭.

@@africanawakande1111 That makes perfect sense. Thank you for replying.

Sis...your name☠☠☠

Damn I imagine

I’m 5’2 idc about height

Don’t worry, shorter girls usually care less about height (I’m 5’1) because it just becomes awkward when there is a WHOLE FOOT difference in height

5'9? That's tall, well at least in my eyes

I literally have a friend who is like 5’2 and her first criteria is always 6 foot. Like ma’am what about his character, you could get a 5’6 guy and he would still tower over u. Priorities are messed up lol

Ok but Ari songs are bops.

There are times where I felt I wasn’t black enough because I just don’t like rap like that, while everyone around me does. The only person that I like, is Logic the rapper, and even then I barely listen to his music. 🥴

Thissss!!! I used to be so embarrassed in middle school because I would only listen to Japanese songs and not rap songs. I used to literally force myself to listen to rap whenever someone pass by me lol. Now I don’t care to do that no more. I listen to rap but I don’t like current rap. I prefer old school rap but even then I don’t really listen to it that much. Rap just isn’t my cup of tea. I’ll listen to old school R&B, Soul, Pop, Rock, Disco, J-Pop, and pretty much all types of music.

Sorry about this. By that logic, I'd be labelled whitewashed as well, because my favourite music is soft rock, which is often dubbed "white music". Just pay no attention to them

XxchildishdreamsxX okay I just want to mention this, I read about 2 hours a day which definitely isn’t enough to isolate myself, and me and my friends use Snapchat to make plans and I’m out with my friends almost everyday. Also ALONE does not always mean LONELY! I took a break at the beginning of the summer holidays to work on myself and I was alone then but I didn’t feel lonely, now I’m back and doing even better?

Dude, who is bullying you for reading?? Lmao. All I see are these reader community girls acting like they're the shit for not being like everyone else, no one gets "shamed" for reading. If that has actually happened, those people where garbage, do what makes you happy.

Enough do you live in the uk? There isn’t really a community for people like that, it’s a nerdy trait round here of shy girls, but I’m not shy which makes me feel like I don’t belong

Can u give examples of this

@@somegrill7561 james charles

I get what you mean but this is not an unpopular opinion, gay men get called out for everything and anything while straight men don't. wlw fetishazion (idk how you spell this and idc lol) is so much more normalized and will always be. also why are both of your comments against gay men thats so weird lmfao

@@charo3149 what? this person just said that straight men shouldn’t have their sexuality questioned or be called fragile because they feel uncomfortable with men hitting on them…? what makes them against gay men? i think you’re the weird one

@@charo3149 ur Wrong

Same here I’m 4’11 on a good day 💀

Exactly 5’2 here and female I just want a guy who is taller.

This!

it's SOO contradictory. They don't like being associated with the obviously negative stereotypes of black people but enforce those same stereotypes on other black ppl who don't conform!

Exactly!!! As a person who grew up in the hood I was surrounded by other races, so if they picked up slang or whateva else that is considered "black" than that's their prerogative, because that's the environment they grew up in🤷🏽‍♀

@@liastorm795 EXACTLY I HAD WHITE FRIENDS LIKE THIS ! Being that I grew up in the south and grew up in the hood

@@tanelyamn I totally get were you coming from sis👌🏼 And on the flip side people would say I'm trying to sound white, because I speak English "properly" whatever that means🙄

THANK YOU!!

I’m sorry but you had me laughing at .. it’s difficult to kiss 🤣aww bless

ik what you mean girl...i'm 5'2 and rather petite and my boyfriend is 6'1 like y'all think that's cute and stuff but noooo his neck hurts and hugs are weird bc im short af

Fair point but your choice of words weirds me out, why are some people so into calling women “females” but then they don’t do the same thing for men👀

Exactly, I’m 5’1 and all I want is a man taller than me, and that’s really not much to ask for

REALLY DID

most of us were and now we look like morons

@@whatthehellisthis we kinda do ngl

Nah, after the Tati drama, I wasn’t a fan of any of them. We been knew James’s character, like that wasn’t his first scandal. On the internet, things are forgotten too quickly, like why is Zoe laverne’s scandal “old news”?

It isn’t a scandal, it’s a crime and this isn’t the first time

that’s just common sense ☠️

@@pinky8631 it is, but some people seem to forget that just because skinny people are the beauty standard, WE CAN STILL FEEL INSECURE

That’s a fact tbh

That’s a fact though

@@Itzkeisha in our country men think its okay to do so

i grew up in a congolese household and i too find this annoying! i cant cook to save my life and my moms ex husband would always say “no man will want to marry you” or “you will grow up lonely” or some typa bs like that. like whats their obsession with getting married? i think they personally want to live a fantasy through their daughters because their own marriages dont turn out well. i agree cooking is an important skill but if it affects your marriage then you’re the problem!

Or things like: "WHEN you have children"/ "Your children....."/ "Would you do that around your KIDS?" When I tell them that I'm not planning on having kids, they look at me like 😕

LOUDER👏 FOR 👏THE 👏INDIAN/ASIAN👏 AUNTIES 👏IN 👏THE 👏BACK

A Nigerian and anytime I don't fit up to my Mom's standard she said "You're gonna act like that to your husband?" I don't even wanna get married. And it happens to my brothers any time my brother gets a math question wrong she's like "Are you gonna let your children become bums with you on the street" It's so annoying. She also tells me I have to get married to a Nigerian man? Like what?

YES SISS GO OFFFF

Same fam

@coffee cats True. Idk what it is about simply watching something that made some people think they had the green light to attack others for it. Bullying aside tho, there was something about anime not being so trendy at the time and no one making a big deal out of it that made me appreciate having watched some back then, even years after I left it alone. Trends are just an instant turn off for me.

This is true, at least in my experience i've even be told that I was weird in school for not like animes. I think maybe even in the first half of 00's this was some "quirky, weird" culture or something like that but in the last years definitly become mainstream, also we should remember that there's nothing wrong to like mainstream things but weebs tend to like to think they are very different or something like that.

How was anime considered “ nerdy “ in the first place?💀

@@woahcalmdownjamaldontpullo8828 Thats how people categorize it. Theres many “nerd” attributes that were considered as such back then, and later on people have made them trendy or widely accepted bc of the fact that they made it look good. (Braces, freckles, having glasses, and ofc, liking anime)

@coffee cats Even when they were not big they're not forced. BangPd trusted them to release a song in their debut despite almost going bankrupt. He also helped them in producing a few songs but not to the point where it's all about him. He treated them as equals and family. Yes, BangPd is flawed but at least he's doing a better job when it comes to his artists.

I feel like half the group wants to work and half the group wants to rest. like on interviews you can see some members zonning out, feeling forced ( Jin, V for the most part) .i also feel like they are putting as much content as they can now so they can go and do their military service.

@@elroe327 i think the zoning out happens if the interview is not interesting or boring like example when it's the same questions over and over again. And for the videos, some of them are pre-recorded

Yayyy

That and also her taking a long hiatus, but the fandom has been growing a lot too

@@revehoneyluv3940 she never took a "hiatus" even saying that is so disrespectful since our bb WORKED her bum off on that album + movie! she had been working on it since 2016 writing a million songs while on crybb tour, co-producing them while also writing the script for the movie, doing pre-production stuff, casting, warming herself up for the choreography and stuff, designing the outfits, location scouting, having meetings with various production companies and her record label and what not, like that's not even all I can't even sum up all the work that only she herself put into that project. It's nowhere near a hiatus that was literally the most stressful 4-5 years of her life tbh! social media moves at a speed of light, for us it had been like "no new music for 4 years" but she was literally working continously without any break whatsoever to achieve what she had envisioned. you should definitely check out the K-12 documentary she did with KZfaq Music and I'm sure you'll know all the work that went into K-12. she said she had to sit on the music for 4 years and she herself was as eager to release it as we were to listen!

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@@revehoneyluv3940 Yeah but in that time she was off, she has making a whole entire movie and writing songs for it as well.

@@sarahsmusicalselections9845TW:SA in 2017 Timothy heller came out and accused Melanie of tying her up and sexually assaulting her, which Melanie denied and claimed was consensual, so because of this situation Melanie kept a low profile for awhile then came back with k-12 but because of that low period she didn't interact with anyone on social media nor teased any new music and she received tons of hate from soke of her ex fans which sparked a trend of them destroying her merch but recently more people have been more suspicious of Timothy since right around the time she came out with the accusations she released a song.

It’s lyrically amazing tho!

I definitely get your POV tho!

Ik this is controversial but back in the day i would listen to her unreleased song (i dont do it anymore cause melanie doesn’t like that) and i rlly connected with them cause it’s rlly raw and different from her other material which i also love.

@@Itzkeisha oh no doubt about they are a Lyrical Deity 😍😍😍

@@boredasf4856 i love her unreleased songs too! And they’re much more authentic imo and darker than the songs she released.. for example is History which was cut from the afterschool ep.

Bro i have seen so many bad excuses for whitewashing on qoura or whatever you spell the app name

the world is not a hivemind, you can find any large group of people who will agree with your opinions especially in the west nowadays

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This isn't in every groups but it happens on a lot of them i think.

@@wheresmyjams1 yeah, it's not every group, but it usually happens with girl groups. it's either most skinny or most popular member

@@bbavrse and it's also the youngest

@@adettessubs444 unrelated but i love your username omg

Yea

she IS the most talented, creative and original artist of our generation point blank purr! she's literally a multi-hyphenate and has been doing stuff that no other artist has ever done before tbh and she's soooooooo under appreciated for all that effort and creative artist vision!

HONESTLY!! She’s very creative, amazing voice, and awesome style

But it does perpetuate him being a pussy. I mean this scenario you created is kinda stupid. I’m a gay man and I’ve had straight women come up to me and talk to me in some type of romantic way. I didn’t feel uncomfortable, I just said I wasn’t into women. That’s all I needed to say. Now why can’t a man say “sorry bro, not into men” why do they have to make a big deal out of it?? Is it because of fragile masculinity? Definitely.

@@andrewaguayo115 not really , they just say it straight up , no body questions lesbians if they say something straight up to straight men about how they ain’t interested in them but when a Straight guy says the same things y’all cry Fragile Masculinity .

@@zorlockts5744 literally no 😂😂 Straight guys are called fragile when they insult, put down, or hurt gay men for hitting on them. What if the gay guy didn’t know you were straight? Just tell him and go, that simple. If ppl still wanna shame u that’s on them (.)

@@xxchaotic1849 maybe he should ask first

@@andrewaguayo115 it doesn't make him a pussy at all. it doesn't make anyone a pussy for being uncomfy when someone is hitting on them. it's called setting boundaries and we all do it. if that's not something that bothers you, great! but don't insult others who feel different.

AYYY😜 thank you boo

yesss

It’s so weird to me that people always feel this compulsive need to put in their two cents on somebody else’s life when absolutely NO ONE asked them😂😂😂

I don’t know why people are so bothered. It doesn’t affect you that the person has transitioned into the gender they feel like they belong in. People are just sad and lonely

I really hope that this isnt an unpopular opinion it seems like common decency. But maybe common decency isnt popular.

and also like people staring out of the blue “i would never date a trans person” okay???? who asked???? if you don’t want to date a trans person, don’t, but you don’t need to announce it

Yes! It's such a weird thing, the whole "if they hate women so much, why don't they date men", it's (1) implying a reason for homosexuality is hatred of women and (2) trying to use the suggestion of homosexuality to make fun of the misogynistic men, playing into homophobia and toxic masculinity in our culture. Ugh, so weird how seemingly progressive people will still talk as if being gay is inherently bad/shameful, using it as an insult, and not even notice it

@@radiationshepherd this is exactly what i mean!! couldn't have said it better

she's literally a multi-hyphenate! artistically she has done stuff that no other artist has EVER done also writes about relevant and dark issues that no other pop artist would even consider talking about but somehow she's sooo under appreciated for all that! smh

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PREEEECH!

@@BeyondMagical K-12 was FILLED w songs talking about important topics! Orange Juice was about ED and Teachers Pet was about pedophelia . Like omg she’s such an amazing artist

As a someone who is apart of the black community, I have to say we aren’t the most underrepresented minority in Hollywood, or media in general. I would say people apart of the Asian, indigenous, and Indian communities are most underrepresented.

fresh off the boat was hilarious though ngl. (i'm not asian just saying)

i actually agree sm! i always tell people this and then they assume i'm religious and i'm not BUT i think people don't realise that religion is still important to many people and there r certain people that feel fully confident invalidating their beliefs saying like god isn't real or what ever... this being said i still also won't allow for people to justify terrible things with religion cos some people definitely do. a balance can exist

I think it’s because people equate the term religious as conservative which isn’t exactly true. You could be religious and not believe in religious superiority or theocracy either.

@@popoffpeppar right my mom grandma and pretty much everyone in my mom side of the family execpt me and one of my cousins are catholics but they haven’t practice it for a while

No. Organized religion is evil.

@@christophermorgan9512 I guess you just proved my point to be right then?🥴 I take it that you are agreeing with me that it's an unpopular opinion. Take care.

But I also think the same goes for people who want to lose weight. Losing weight for vain reasons shouldn’t be considered toxic but in many cases it is

@@vrianawashington2599 it’s seen as toxic when losing weight is not necessarily for health bc sometimes people go to desperate measures and it affects them negatively.

Lmao this is a fact😂😂

I disagree on that take BUT i disagree that it's the case when you're really skinny. Like "not really healthy skinny". Edit: i realize that my comment sounds really wrong i don't want to label skinny as necessarily unhealthy since that's also part of shaming skinny women but i think that there is a certain level of skinny that isn't approved of by people.

@@anonymoususer9197 as a skinny person i just don’t think it compares to the systemic oppression that fat people face, i’ve been educating myself on it and it’s awful

@@diya-hn2wy oh yeah it is but I'm just saying that there also is a standard for how skinny you're allowed to be. If you go below that i do think those people also face systematic oppression. Especially if you're skinny because of mental issues like body dismorphia (hope i spelled that right) and resulting EDs since these things are already stigmatized. Either way i wasn't trying to say any experience of fat shaming is invalid i just disagree that no skinny person will ever face systematic oppression.

@Stuffypie Really? Whenever a I see a skinny person the comments I would usually see is insecure people saying they would kill a body like that or I should stop eating. When I see a fat person the comments would be body shaming tf out of that person. I agree when you said slim thick is technically the beauty standard. I was just trying to say that people would rather be skinny or see skinny as the beauty compared to being fat....

Nope, fat shaming is not one bit worse than skinny shaming

honestly we should have body neutrality instead of body positivity. I feel like with body positivity people will always go for the Instagram model body type while other body types are overshadowed by it. body neutrality is honestly a way better way to just accept everyone for how their body is

Honestly it’s only getting worse. I was pretty self conscious in school and insecure as well, but when I look at my little sister now in her teenage years, I can’t help but think how much better off i was because i didn’t have tik tok or instagram (pretty big age gap between us)

@@citrusbutter7718 i agree you’re totally right. Girls are put on display while boys are told to hold everything in. They are both such unhealthy opposites… people just don’t see the boys’ stuggle as much BECAUSE it’s all held in. Everyone thinks they’re just hormonal and horny all the time, when really there’s a lot of fake shows of confidence going on

The logic behind those videos is so stupid. So if the putfit doesn't look good on everyone it's not fashion? People need to accept that certain things look better on certain body types. If we're going to go by their logic, 80% of the fashion outfits girls like Zendaya, Bella, Gigi, Naomi, Rihanna etc. wore are not fashion bc vast majority of people can not pull them off. And they only do it to girls, never guys.

I think the main reason that she is so underrated and not talked about is because of the accusations with Timothy. That really ruined her reputation and name.

As someone who's half white half Hispanic i agree w this. People really dont feel comfy when someone is two races. They try to label us one or the other but we never fit 100% in either cus we're mixed lol

I’m also biracial with a black mum as well

@@AURIELLA333 hispanic is not a race. You can be white, black, asian etc hispanic.

Hispanic is not a race, and Hispanic also includes Spain.

@@porrnesianparrapio5063 i didn't want to burst their bubble

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Fr!! It's so hard for me to get into kpop when some of them have done some questionable things💀

They definitely favour the more pale Asians and they look down upon the more tan Asians

Im so interested in which kpop groups yall be looking at cause yall got me feeling like im not a kpop fan (in a good way) i aint never tried to seek out a group being problematic or showing the vybe of being colorist. Imo its kinda dumb to not enjoy a certain type of music becuase the country the artist is from is PROBLEMATIC or that the artist's fans are problematic Like?? Why?? as long as the artist is not promoting something terrible, get into their music. we nearly never did this for the western industry (who also has the same problems but just are succesful in hiding it) BUT the line is crossed when it comes to the kpop industry?

@@keychains5806 obviously, you'll be left with nothing to listen to if you completely separate the music from the musician. pretty much every celebrity is problematic. however, it's perfectly understandable for someone to reject the kpop industry because the labels AND the idols are sometimes racist and colorist. not to mention many idols, primarily female are bullied into getting plastic surgery and forced to starve themselves. the kpop industry crosses many lines on top of the racism/colorism.

@@alanapierce6667 now this is where we get generalizing as a major factor of this. I won't say you're not valid if you DONT get into kpop just because of a few problematic idols BUT it just completely disregards the kpop idols who arent problematic and just want to make music. Its just hard to empathize with that choice. Like i dont see yall not listening to frank ocean, meghan thee stallion, or tinashe (all non problematic western artists) just cause of people like dababy, azealia banks or any other problematic person... or their country. We all still pick and choose so why cant we pick and choose for kpop? Thats what i mean.

indian here, i completely agree w this!

I agree somewhat but if your parents are abusive they dont deserve respect

I feel like you are talking about spoiled children....so sure. The issue is, is that kid really being a spo!led bra:t? I think this can be a very privileged opinion and it’s unfortunately a common one. Society looks down on you if you don’t get along with your family and decide to cut them off/distance yourself. Some are still too young to escape the toxic family they were raised in and have to endure years of abus€. Abus€ isn’t just physical. It can be harder to see, it can be quiet and cruel. Having a family you can rely on and that supports you is a privilege. Family doesn’t get a special pass to mistreat you. No one has to respect a family that mistreats them.

@@princesspeach7936 no I get that so much, I just don’t think you should be demanding things from them if you don’t respect them. Same way as if your parents are abusive as you say and they still want you to do things you wouldn’t like that. I just think there should be mutual respect from both parties not someone just using the other for their own benefit without respect. Hope that clears it up ❤️

@@bamb3928 yes, don’t respect them if that’s your wish, they did you wrong so I understand. What I am saying, if the parent supports you and is decent I guess I should have added that, and they are there for you and they don’t mistreat you, yet you are disrespectful to them and use them for your own pleasures, then you yourself, in my eyes, do not deserve respect.

@Stuffypie thats ur opinion on it though

@Stuffypie article?

@Stuffypie cringe is subjective bozo

@coffee cats ikr, they're really interesting.

Yeah, for me both the mvs and the choreo are what sometimes get me into a kpop song, not the song itself. The same happened to me with the Chaeyeon dance break.

Fr

FRRR

You can't hate an plastic surgery person when themselves is and was insecure when they got the money for it.. you don't change what the most high blessed you with

Ok, I'd never hate on some random person because they got plastic surgery (I don't have the energy for that, but I'll roll my eyes at them when they claim they did not 🙄" but why don't people have the same reaction to people bleaching their skin because they are insecure about their original one, (Plastic surgery is also dangerous)

@@Cybershadowz what?

Istg

Swear

I swear

I'm sick of these comments

@@wheresmyjams1 me too, sick and tired

I see it like this , he departed in 2014 or 15 and we haven’t really been left with much , my perspective is obviously from a fan of his ! Something is just not making sense

Word. Kpop idols are overworked and we (rightfully) complain, blackpink get to take it easy and we complain? I’m glad that they get to be ‘lazy’.

@@Itzkeisha that’s a good point but i think it’s because he suffered from so much in that band and has anxiety and had to cancel his first solo tour because of it. but at the same time he did sign to a label and on the contract you have to do certain things aka constantly coming out w/ music or some project so they can get there money as a label