To anyone reading this , just believe in you're self and TIME ! Trust everything will eventually work out sooner or later💕 STAY STRONG ❤

My mother and father stayed together for over 50 years. They went through good times and bad times . But not once did they ever talked about leaving each other. Honestly I don't think true love exists anymore. People arent willing to make things work. Its easier to just leave. Meanwhile u destroy your family and relatives who love the both of u. Unless some is truly abusing you leaving someone because your bored is stupid. U can always fix things by communicating.

I can personally tell you guys I’ve followed EVERYTHING coach lee has said the past few weeks and I it 100% works. No contact is your best option, your ex WILL reach out to you if you stay strong and don’t contact them!

You're on opposite sides when a break up begins. Those tables through no contact and working on yourself eventually shift. I got dumped a few weeks before christmas.......devastating as it was. I've noticed a repetitive pattern within my life. Every time I walk away.....I'm always amazed at how people come running back. Sooner or later the tables turn around. Even if it seems like they haven't shifted. Trust in yourself. Believe in yourself and KEEP GOING!

Just act as if they don't exist & my boyfriend came back in a little over two weeks.When they lose the ability to expect you to reach you out they'll contact you.Take each day at a time!! When I say the power of silence & absence is deadly it truly is. Love from Georgia💕

I'm 3 months in NC and haven't heard from my ex fiance of 10 years. I probably screwed up a bit since I continued to see her after she first broke up with me. Her final words were "I don't want to keep giving you false hope" On the plus side, I've been working on myself a ton with therapy, working out, lost 52lbs, finding a confidence I never knew I had, saving money, started new hobbies. Good luck to everyone out there, stay strong and focus on yourself, it gets better!

Going on 6 months of no contact. Feels good to keep my dignity. Thanks for all the advice and help coach!

I swear coach Lee is like my therapist. He has given me so much strength.

Day 39 NC and feeling a lot better than when I was 5 days in. Feelings are fading away and making me focus more on me. Thank you Coach Lee!

Hello from Germany. First, sorry for my bad english 😁 Coach Lee ist complete right. No contact works. My Girl breaks up with me. Bad communication was the reason. Direct after the break up i go radio silent. No begging or pleading. I disappeared complete. After 61 days she suddenly appears at night at my door. She wanted me back so desperately. She cried and begged for forgiving. While the break up lasts, we both figuered out our Problems and faults. And we worked it out. Now we are stronger and we are more in love than before. We are talking more and having deeper conversations. We both know, what we could loose. Believe in no contact and listen to the words of Coach Lee.

The one reading this You are phenomenal my friend. you are not alone. You are Loved. You are beautiful, we are all connected through our pain, and in our pain we come out stronger. For all of you hurting inside, for all of you wanting to scream, to jump, to cut, to fall, to pull the trigger,- for all of you who can't do it anymore, I'm here and I pray for you. *Hug if needed - take care of yourself and stay safe❤.

To everyone who is heartbroken read this comment bad things happen always But the most important thing is to stay strong and learn from such situations and always believe that good things and good people are everywhere just find them and remember never let the people who left you broken be the reason of ruining your bright future, NEVER LET IT HAPPEN because not everybody deserve a good person like you. You are BEAUTIFUL SMART and also AMAZING and most important STRONG please move on and have a wonderful day

I was devastated 5 month ago when he left me, went through all the stages! I can’t say I am 100 percent back, but I feel so much better! He just told me he wants to see me through a text message. But I was strong enough to tell him no!!! Guys you will be fine at the end of the tunnel. Time will heal you! And they always come back!

When someone breaks up with you that is them basically saying " I can do better". Do you really want them back??

Week 7... This is excruciating, I'm always in fear and wake up every day with my heart racing and a terrible anxiety.... But I'm staying strong, I'm not breaking NC. I love them and I want them back and if this is what it takes to get them back so be it

I need these reminders. As time goes on my over thinking mind lies to me. These videos bring me back to earth and help me to refocus. Thank you, Coach Lee.

Almost 6 months of NC.., no sign of her. Best of luck to you all!

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Tysm! I watched lot of your videos for daysss, followed everything from videos and got my ex back in 2 months. Best channel in KZfaq. 😊

This guy is so genuine. Best coach out there hands down.

My advise: don’t get them back, someone way better is coming, just trust the process.

I don't want my ex now! I want coach Lee.

Thank you, Coach Lee! I like how you said not to keep company to our ex, but to take it away because that's what they wanted. Amazing! THANK YOU!

TO EVERYONE WHO IS READING!!! PLEASE LISTEN TO COAH LEE,IT REALLY WORKS! HE IS THE ONLY COAH THAT SAYS THE TRUTH. RIGHT NOW MY EX AND I ARE TALKNG AND ALMOST GOING BACK OUT ❤️❤️❤️❤️✨🤭

Anyone reading this just want to say trust coach lee he says everything which is absoloutely right and im experiencing it practically just trust him and believe in yourself let the time act in your life, believe in youself and time. thank you lee❤️:)

Thank you Coach Lee for all your great videos, you were always there with me during the most difficult, full of anxieties, pain and tears first 6-8 months away from my wife and my child. Now, nearly 13 months after the breakup and 9 months of doing Intelligent No Contact i have finally moved on, I'm ready to date, I see a bright future for myself even though i know, deep inside I still love my wife... It has been a long journey but it is time to close the chapter and start a new one. I wish everyone good luck in their efforts and remember what Coach Lee repeats constantly; you need to give yourself and your ex enough TIME either to get your ex back or like in my case, to move on. All the best from a Pole living in UK.

Love this guy. He knows what he’s talking about. Making pure sense

Thanks Lee. I wanna stay constantly improving and maintaining my mental and emotional state even when i'm not in a relationship. Keep it up, love all your vids.

Thank you coach Lee I’m working on my healing. Been in no contact for 2 months now…And focusing less on wanting him back and more on my self esteem, self concept and self worth. ❤

No contact rule really works..... Thank you coach ❤

Coach Lee . You are the best . I am going to go ahead and purchase your kit . My ex broke up with me because I could not fit in his after hours schedule as often as he wanted . But you are right he thought he was better than I am . Thanks to you I ignored him and did not argued about the break up . Most importantly , since he wanted to be with me and see others I realized I don’t want him back . He has not called me yet since it’s being a week . But I am positive now he will because I am a very good woman . Thanks for giving me back my confidence and your recommendations prevented me from looking weak and unattractive. You completely rock . I went to see the videos of other people that coach , but you are the best !

I’ve watched your videos ever since I broke up with my ex. I focused on myself lost 30 pounds and stopped caring been in NC 4 weeks and with me it’s got to a point I don’t care if they come back or not we went out over 3 years and now it’s my turn to live for myself. It WILL get better and I hope you find yourself more valuable and a stronger person for this.

Couple things - 1. It would be great to have a Q&A video with viewer submitted questions (of your choosing, of course!) and 2. Would be great to see a video for those with more than one breakup. Some of us are here after not doing so well once things were rekindled. I haven’t seen any videos on YT about that yet and you talk in your videos about on-off couples.

Honestly the best relationship coach I’ve watched

6:22 - Wow. Such a powerful message. The penny just dropped. Thanks Coach Lee, absolutely amazing!

The comment section on these videos are such a happy and positive place for everyone. I love it🖤 this is such a great community I'm proud to be a part of. I've been in NC for like a week, and it sucks, but I have faith its gonna turn out OK because we both have that deep connection and love like Lee said. He even told me he still wanted to marry me and he still cared. I just gotta wait it out and it's hard, but like a cake in the oven its gotta take time!

Just know it can only get better from here. Focus on yourself and make yourself happy first, then go ahead and achieve anything you want!

Coach Lee you helped me get my ex back. He reached out to me after 3 months but I ignored him. He reached out again after 2 months I still ignored him. Then finally on thanksgiving he reached out again and we started chatting on messenger. December we are back together. Your videos are my strength during No Contact. It helped me clear my mind. Thank you!!

Hey Lee it’s been well over a month since I watched one of your videos. I’m sure you’re glad to hear that man. Thanks for your work!

Listen to Lee and the key points remember you have the key to the lock and as long as you keep the the key and don't throw it away the lock will open and you can move forward Peace ✌

2 years of no contact. Used to want them back. Overtime I was Able to move on and fall in love with someone new

Two weeks of NC....tomorrow would mark 2.5 years....need strength and Coach Lee is there when needed

This hair cut looks great with you .

thank you coach lee youre amazing, helps me regain focus and the main goal! whatever happens happens

So far so good. I swear all the steps from coach lee have worked like a text book regarding my ex.

Coach Lee is right....My Ex just contacted me after 2 years of No Contact. He had deleted me from his phone and he had to look up my email address...his email said "Is this You?". I didn't get his message until 3 weeks later, and when I finally said only "Yes, it is.", he responded immediately, and we have been corresponding for 3 days now...I'm gonna go slow. Thanks Coach Lee.

I'm best friends with Coach Lee😍😍😍 Our mentor who gives us the bullets to stay within our senses.... thank you so much,Coach Lee!

Spot on coach Lee!! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻🍀

This might sound weird but your words are like a literal hug. Thank you so much for your comforting videos. It helps calm my anxiety and keeps me from reaching out.

Thank you so much for the video and great advice! It is helpful and comforting. My 11 year relationship abruptly ended, and seeing these videos eases my mind.

Coach Lee you keep me focused. Every time I doubt I repeat your words "trust the process " your video on anxiety after a break up has helped in that i have implemented your "laugh and say whatever " whenever the anxiety gets unbearable. My break up is slightly different than what you discuss, my break up occurred during a depression episode that came about after the covid quarantine, a serious family illness and the stress he was being put under. I watched as he struggled with everything and his trying to explain what was happening and feeling at a total loss to help him i watched as he distanced himself from his friends, his family and ultimately me. I heard him question his worth, his belief that he had to be a better man. He told me repeatedly he felt like there was a black hole he was falling into and that he wasn't himself, he wanted to be himself again. He finally broke up with me saying it was to protect me, that the way he was feeling and the way he was acting was going to push me away forever and that he would rather not have me now in this moment than to lose me forever. He said he need time to sort this out, he started therapy and said he just needed to be alone. That was it, 2 years done, i of course broke the rules, begged, offered to stay by his side, he kept saying I don't mean to be cold to you but you're making this worse. I didn't contact him for close to a month, i was greeted with please I just want to be alone, a couple of weeks later he cleared my nickname on messenger, i again broke no contact and asked him why he did that and he replied because you're not my gf anymore, which I stupidly replied but I thought we were going to work this out, he said i don't want to work anything out, im not happy, i haven't been happy for a long time i just want to be left alone, i asked my just me or by everybody and he said everybody. I ran into his best friend a few days after that and he said that my ex hadn't called or come around to wish him or celebrate his birthday,, i asked had he seen him much since may and he said no, like a couple of times ( these two saw each other on the regular at least 4 times a week). A couple of weeks passed and I was messing around in messenger, rereading, dissecting over thinking every message (I know crazy) and I went into the settings and changed the color of the messages, this was a stupid attempt to see if I was still on ignore, the settings changed, i didn't think anything of it, i didn't message him just satisfied my curiosity so to speak and went to bed. The next morning i woke up to a message that said "could you just leave me alone, please " i responded ???? I have (i didn't know they were notified of chat color changes " i learned my lesson and have been in absolute no contact since Aug 1, we broke up May 27th. I don't know how well no contact works for a person in a depressed and anxiety ridden state but I know that my obsessing is not healthy. I know in my gut this is not over, so for now I must give him the space he has asked for, i must respect his decision and live my own life. I was just curious if anyone on here has tried no contact with a person going through depression and anxiety and how did it turn out for you?

Hey Lee! Big Fan! Quick one! I have a situation in which my Girl essentially did the dumping, all the normal stuff you say applies, attraction dropped, was my fault, doing no contact. she did have very strong feelings, the only CATCH is, the relationship wasn't very long, 2 months! does this change anything in terms of no contact? or can emotions fade quicker for a short relationship?

Man coach lee your videos help me so much and I'm trusting the process!

Coach, too back you don't branch out from just getting an Ex Back. I love your presentation style. Your videos have helped me greatly after I was dumped from what I thought was my life partner. I didn't purchased the Emergency Breakup Kit because from the moment he broke from me, I wasn't sure I wanted him back. NEVER BEGGED! I went into high gear taking care of myself. He kept texting and ghosting for a couple/few weeks afterwards until I texted back "I'm healing. Please don't contact me for at least thirty days. Thank you." After that, my HP thought it was best I knew he was also cheating on me prior. Two months after being dumped, I feel wonderful now. Not to say that I don't have my energy dips and emotions that surface, but The world opened up with opportunities and options that wouldn't be there otherwise. I KNOW he will attempt some kind of reunion, but I know it won't be sincere. I don't want him back!

I'm so glad coach Lee exist. it made my eyes wide open.

I have following coach Lee for emotional support and guidance ever since my ldr break up. My ex was in a rebound and after 3 months of no contact. He contacted me. We are considering rebuilding our relationship despite covid lock down. Coz we realise we cant live happily without each other

Hey Coach Lee, Just wanted to say Thanks. I followed the No Contact rule and after a year of hell I found Love elsewhere. Ironically when my ex found out I was moving on she told me she is devastated and is still in love with me. So this no contact rule works in many ways.

Coach Lee your my diary! Always on point here I am with my coffee thank you for helping me go through my day! You look handsome today 🙏

When they say " I love you but I am not in love with you" - BELIEVE THEM.

This is so powerful!! As always amazing. Thank you coach Lee!❤

Thanks Coach Lee for making me pick myself up and put my dignity back in my pocket.

Thanks again for your logical advice! 😊

Your voice give me so much peace in such a difficult time during this separation from my spouse. He is not living with me and our son. He already started his new life in another state. Your voice give me peace and I fall asleep listening to you while I’m trying to move on with my life 🙏🏻

Been listening to your channel for some time. Your sincerity and professionalism move me…thank you

I on NC almost 3 months. During the NC, she contacted me few times, i replied with subtle and flirty. Then she disappear after 2-3 texts. I almost break down recently but when i watched your video. I feel better, motivated not to feel angry or break down.

Had a terrible break up which led me to researching no contact. Ive tried no contact several times (on different people and sometimes multiple times on the same person), and it works pretty much every time, even when I thought all hope was lost. Sometimes it would take weeks, sometimes months, but it's like clockwork. It changed my life (part of no contact is improving yourself). It is one of the hardest thing to go through internally, but believe me, stay patient, and strong - it is the best and frankly only option. Once you do it once and have confidence in it, it's easier the times after that since you know it works. Now, I almost wonder how break ups even work - ironically, when you try to move on the proper way (not begging and pleading), the ex's always come back and you almost cant stop yourself from trying it again!

45 days down the lane and I am sure that I don't want him back since the first week. He is not a bad guy at all, but there were so many things that weren't working for us that it was a blessed

Just follow whatever he says it really works even if you have no hopes ❤️❤️ Stay strong 💪

Slaves - Down for the ride 🎶 in no contact jamming to this song

Suddenly feel a bit better after listening to you coach. My situation i a bit different however im broken hearted and wrecked. It hurts after he left. I want heal with time ..

U are great yr advice is great nd make so much sense Thanks coach Lee I learnt so much from you

You are truly awsome coach lee! I very much appriciate you, you help me alot in this diffucult time.. thanks alot!

Thank you for your great video Coach Lee. Put your money where your mouth is! Thank you.

Everytime when I'm about to lose hope, your videos keep me positive. Whatever points you said really is spot on exactly my situation. It's been 2+ months of NC and I'm always thinking he won't contact me because of how he was so confident and cold during the breakup, that he doesn't love me, doesn't see a future etc. Or maybe he was cheating behind me, I don't know (I hope not). Everytime I think back, I lose more hope. But after watching your video, it brings my hope back up again. Thank you Coach, I will try to be more positive and believe NC more ❤️

Love your advice,A lot of Thank you.🙏

Excellent advice subscibed from Dublin Ireland

Thank you for the light coach!!!

11:59 ❤️ We love you Coach Lee

Coach Lee is great for all his new videos.i am a big follower of all ur videos n it really makes me a much stronger n confident person within a month.If relationship cannot handle properly , our life’ will be very miserable. This will stop us from pursing our goals. Very grateful to coach Lee . From we woman from Singapore

Dude I freaking love you!!!

No contacts really works !! Thank you 🙏

This is a refresher video. It keeps me stay strong. Thank you Coach Lee!

My girl broke it off with me 3 weeks ago after 8 months and i didn't behave particularly well and made a lot of the mistakes mentioned. I didn't go full no contact but backed right off, but i can feel her very much pulling at me again just now. Whatever than means time will tell but she appears to be coming round having denied her my presence. Your videos have completely changed my perspective on things, i feel almost immune to negative emotion right now and it feels good. I feel in control again. I didn't really do anything wrong in the relationship, the problem is more to do with her own past and how she had been hurt badly.

Yo thank you for all the advice, to anyone out there watching these vids. *PLEASE LISTEN TO HIM* I don’t have my ex back fully but everything is in its right place at the moment, you just have to follow the advice and trust the process ❤️

Amen to that Coach LEE 👐👐👏👏👏

Awesome advice!

People, please listen to Coach Lee, it works. My ex just reached out to me after a month and a half. I was doubtful at first but no longer. Work on yourself in the meantime.

Coach lee,you have given me the best advice,you are a master

Been a lik over a year since me and my ex broke up I’m over it but I still watch these videos from time to time

Coach Lee, I wish to hear your thoughts about the feeling of rejection. How to interpret that and take a position of strength.

The key is to become a better person in all aspects in life! Grow as a human being and find happiness in yourself and they will come back 💯 Coach Lee is a the pioneer of relationship breakups!!!

No contact works! I did not contact for several reasons, but primarily because we were divorcing and he started a rebound relationship shortly after I left him. I didn't chase, beg, reach out...nothing. This drove him nuts. Curiosity, fear, unhappiness, displeasure with the TWO women he tried to replace me with all fueled his actions in wanting to save our marriage. He did the comparing thing, which I don't fully understand, and he realized he didn't want to divorce ( I filed).

Yoooo Lee, I'm waiting on your new video... patiently I promise 😇😋

Had a relation for 4 years. After 3 years i started struggeling with depression from my childhood. I understand she left because i was tired and sad most of the time but when she left it destroyed me. I turned it into motivation to better myself. I trained my body and trained my mind. Now 3 months no contact later she still dint reach out but slowly im getting proud of myself what i did on my own. If i ever get her back il proof il be the best i could be for her. Untill that time i wont stop working on myself maby she wil notice some dat im a better man. Thanks man u really helped me push harder when i was down. You helped me not contact her when i really wanted to.

Coach Lee I love your videos the no contact rule really works im so shocked.

Thank you coach lee so much . This video is Awsome. ❤🙏God Bless you.

Coach Lee, I love watching all your videos! I'm so heartbroken right now. Been with a guy for 10 years and married to him for 4 years. Now, sadly past 7 months we've been in a long distance relationship. Incredible difficult and also due to pandemics unable to visit each other. For 2 months he got really silent and I had no idea what was going on. A week ago he told me that living apart like this doesn't work and that life where he's, is not suitable for me that I cannot really blend in. So his suggestion is to divorce because he's unable to leave that country and leave his family behind. I'm so devastated, so so upset because a few months ago he was telling how much he loved me and that he wanted to have children with me. I've been crying and not sleeping for almost a week now during NC. Today, I had to reach out to him to sort out something important-strategic contact rule and he asked me whether I reconsidered his divorce suggestion and said that we have grown apart. I didn't react to that. I'm feeling even more upset. This really hurts. Should I continue with NC or respond to him?

I've never had any social media, my preference. My ex does, It's going onto 3months of NC. I'm literally in the dark as he is with knowing anything about me. I was blindsided, he moved away a few wks after he broke up w/me. To move away, after he made it clear he could never do that. Chances of him ever looking for me seem unrealistic, I have no idea how to move on or start to heal, regardless of all my efforts.

thanks 4 the advice sir..now i am getting stronger by listening 2 ur programme..

This WORKS!!! It worked for me. Will it work for you??? I hope so but if it worked for everyone we wouldn't be watching Couch Lee but it almost always does!!! Genius!