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27 күн бұрын

Parental Alienation Fallout When Children Are Grown
Is parental alienation real? Definitely, says Madison Wellborne, who discusses how her mother manipulated her into rejecting her father through false accusations and lies, leading to long-lasting emotional and psychological effects. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio and Madison explore the effects of parental alienation on children, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and self-destructive behaviors.
Madison describes the emotional turmoil and the impact on her relationship with her father, whom she once considered her best friend. She explains how she mourned her father's absence as if he had died and the significant challenges she faced as the only child among her siblings who was alienated. Madison also delves into the psychological effects of parental alienation, including anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem, and shares her journey toward healing and reclaiming her life after discovering the truth.
Rebuilding Relationships: Madison emphasizes the importance of rebuilding relationships with alienated parents and speaks about the formation of the Anti Alienation Project. She highlights the need for adult children of parental alienation to speak out and support each other. The episode also provides practical advice for parents to avoid alienating behaviors and foster healthy relationships with both parents.
To reach out to Madison by email at theantialienationproject@gmail.com, and the Anti Alienation Project (www.theantialienationproject....)
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@TheAnti-AlienationProject 24 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for the interview!! I appreciate you exposing this terrible form of severe psychological abuse

@airjer_ 21 күн бұрын

Keep it up! Hopefully my daughters come across your content.

@Mjciampi22 20 күн бұрын

Madi, I listen to your videos all the time, but this particular interview my husband (the targeted) listened in and started asking me questions. I was able to explain certain things to him. It's a soft way in for him to think about what his kids are going through. Thank you for your courage to continue to be open for the those of us who need to hear this perspective and take courage. We appreciate all you do

@sacheencollecutt5583 19 күн бұрын

My oldest stepdaughter, at age 11 had done the same thing about "I have my own brain to make my own decisions". Then when my husband went for his parenting time, the kids refused to open the door because they were told he might be angry at them. (I was there when they called their Mom and refused to answer the door.) In reality the mother wanted to be the center of attention, in control and to have their own "family meeting" because she heard we were doing them for the kids on his MINIMAL parenting time. His ex wife also was the one who wanted the divorce, we were having family meetings to figure out how a blended family could benefit everyone involved, mostly addressing any of the concerns she kept saying the girls had with us. She also stopped going to family systems therapy to help boundary the 2 households. Narcissists always quit therapy because they do not believe there's anything wrong with them when they refuse to be accountable for their actions, they have an inability to self-reflect. My oldest Stepdaughter was always put in the middle and she kept asking to be kept out of it by her child therapist. I heard it loud and clear, 💔I'm just sorry I couldn't have been able to protect them more from this type of abuse, but I am an alienated mom, stepmom & aunt too. Thank you Madi and Modern Law Divorce for this interview and raising awareness. 🙏

@MarcGardner 25 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing such a powerful story and important subject. This impacts my situation deeply and I hope all those effected by this can learn and heal. The truth needs to continue to be seen about this topic. Keep up the good work.

@mymodernlaw 20 күн бұрын

Such a crucial perspective

@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064 24 күн бұрын

Madi, you did a great job in this interview sharing your heartbreaking alienation story.💕

@halfpintpuppets 11 күн бұрын

Having the 4 other kids definitely helped him stay positive and have hope for you to come back, Maddie. All 3 of my children are rejecting me with varying severity. I think my oldest will never come back to me.

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

Maddie, you need our community. We will uphold you. We know exactly what you went through, are going through, and what you will continue to go through. The pathogenic is plotting. I feel it. So stay strong. We are here.

@joniann365 22 күн бұрын

Thank you, Billie, for interviewing Madi to help spread awareness of this horrific form of abuse. Unfortunately, it's something you can't completely understand through textbooks. Hopefully this will spur attorneys, courts, therapists, child services, law enforcement, etc to understand this abuse as much as possible to help save children from it. There is no amount of co-parenting happening by the alienator, and as long as no one stops their abuse or makes them follow court orders, the alienator will continue to ramp up the abuse (even after age 18). Sadly, Madi's alienation is more common than we realize. At 25:00, you mention alienators truly believe they are doing what they think is right. I am not convinced of that. For example, Mental Healness claims these personality types will blow themselves up before they will do anything that looks like they are admitting they did anything wrong, even the smallest thing. And this conforms to my experience....they know their actions aren't the best, but they aren't about to change...even to help their own children. Instead they increase the raging, threats and lies to manipulate. And on the rare occasion this tactic doesn't work, they make up lies and twist excuses to their 'followers' so they are the victim. Thank you again to both of you for your great efforts in bringing light to this subject!

@mymodernlaw 20 күн бұрын

Maddie's story is just SO POWERFUL and important

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

My thoughts: the interviewer didn’t grasp how psychologically and emotionally abusive parental alienation is. It’s almost like she was very softly debating versus trying to understand. I don’t think she made the connection…

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

She alienated you (girl) because she KNEW that would be MORE torture for your dad since you were his only girl. She kept him somewhat close (through brothers) but tortured your dad using his only daughter.

@rootintobeing 25 күн бұрын

Wow wow wow. Chills and tears and everything in between! Thank you for sharing so openly, Madison! I especially loved the examples of alienating behaviors. Truly loving and protective parents would never want their children to experience this kind of ab*se. I hope you all do another episode together in the future!

@TyMan922 24 күн бұрын

Alienators are horrible people. There. I said it. You were amazing, Madi. Brave and courageous.

@barbaraahearn7378 18 күн бұрын

With gratitude for this video, I would like to say that it might have been easier for Maddie’s dad since he had four children still in his life. And what might have made it a bit easier also is seeing Maddie at different times.

@solidstehl9546 23 күн бұрын

She knows what she did. They knew what they did.

@JacquelynNewmandivine 11 күн бұрын

Thank you for covering this topic

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

The abusers KNOW how to use the courts system people. They aren’t dumb. They are pathogenic. They learn…differently.

@KC-jr6zs 14 күн бұрын

@@sonyaclove4178 Especially if the alienator parent has money. I talked to a judge once that said, "Family Court is corrupt. This is why I retired early.". Meanwhile a lawyer in family court: "I have to see how I can spin this to win". So they're willing to lie and put your child through damage's to win. Not to mention what it does to the targeted parent.

@PaulOBrienSEOBrien 24 күн бұрын

Please do a video of 34:00 through Needs to be shamed Its your choice Loyalty bind "Can't make her go" At 36:00 not saying a single word: love, gifts, money, microexpressions Micro expression of hate or fear Weaponizing affection Rewarding rejection If youre celebrating that, at all, its alienating There is no justifiable alienation ... Etc. In fact, can you just cut that as a clip and get it out?

@TheAnti-AlienationProject 24 күн бұрын

I’m releasing a video next week about how parents can alienate without a single world. Stay tuned:)

@ItsThatAussieChick 17 күн бұрын

Thank you for a great interview and exposing Parent Alienation. This is the ultimate betrayal from someone who is supposed to love you. A child should be a child not be exposed to adults issues at all. ❤️🙏

@gregandcarrie2 23 күн бұрын

25:37 many times the children are divided.

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

By abuser manipulated a judge and got a false RO on me as well. Traumatic.

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

No…in her mind, she was rewarding Maddie for rejecting her dad. Why twist it? They are pathogenic…period. Let’s address the elephant in the room. These parents are pathogenic and can be very dangerous. What now?

@onedadsbattle 24 күн бұрын

Unfortunately apps like OFW only work if the courts enforce their orders. In my case they don't unless it is me that is breaking the order. ~Hugs~

@gregandcarrie2 23 күн бұрын

19:24 was the brothers' relationship with both parents healthy??? If a parent can abuse one child, that does not make them a healthy parent.

@barbaraahearn7378 18 күн бұрын

so true!!

@sonyaclove4178 24 күн бұрын

The interviewer is interesting…..

@wehsee912 22 күн бұрын

🌚☄️❤️💫

@jessicabrandon4926 23 күн бұрын

I hope you find healing because it seems that you are still very hurt. Please remember that there is both good and bad in everyone, as we are all human beings. Understanding this may help you find forgiveness for others who have hurt you deeply.

@gregandcarrie2 23 күн бұрын

Would you say this about a sexually abusive father? Well, he has some good in him. No, you wouldn't. Psychological abuse is a bad as suxual abuse. It makes you question your reality and trust yourself.