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Everything you said is true. Narcisists do not change and get worse with age.

I believe the narcissist is full of shame because he knows what he is even if he will never admit it.

The best comment i ever heard from a therapist who was addressing a patient who pushed himself in front of other patients, "I know, I know, you are special. Just like everybody else!" 😂

I guess we are all here because we were all lucky enough to have this jerk in our lives and try to destroy us when we didn't do a thing to hurt them, they know what they did. We need to let it go. God said vengeance is mine you strp aside you will mess this up I got this❤

I'm graduating graduate's school as summa cum laude and with Latin Honors for having a GPA over 4.12. I'm a Psychology major and History minor and i'm also pre-law! My school even elected me to act as a Regent for the school's board working directly with the governor in a one year contract and my boyfriend sat there at Thanksgiving glorifying his son instead of mentioning my good news! I felt disrespected! My son even was accepted to an Ivy League University-Columbia!!! He never mentioned my son and he never even mentioned any of my accelerated accomplishments and it made me feel de-valued. My accomplishments, to me, are SPECTACULAR given that I have Multiple Sclerosis and suffer from pain on a daily basis and I still got my butt up for school and not only do I graduate in a week but made a name for myself! Yet, he sat there glorifying his hay days fighting in grade school and talking about his son being a chef instead. Which I mentioned I was proud of his son but he never even gave me any props for my achievements... Not even my son's achievements!!! Narcissists are jealous freaks. lol

Omg! Danish…the way you just described your grandfather…”old age hit him hard”! This is my father. He is 79 now, was a firefighter and did physical work his whole life. Was obviously proud of being so strong. Now, he can hardly balance himself. He is angry all the time because he can no longer do the things he used to.

Thank you for this video! I've been questioning "should I reach out to my mother & siblings" because it's the holidays. You confirmed that my NOT contacting them was the right choice. Thank you, thank you, thank you❤

He discarded me like a bag of trash with no closure. He is now 72 years old and alone. If they need you so much why do they push you away?

I've been binge watching your videos and thank you so much Danish for making me finally have the courage to go no contact with my narcissistic mother. Its been nearly 2 months now and there's no going back for me. I've been a victim of her abuse all my life and now I'm a survivor. I finally feel free and my life feels like it's just beginning. It all came to a head when I told her that me and my husband wanted christmas day in our new home this year (she wont put herself out to come to us) She went full on verbal abusive, I was a disappointment, a let down, my late father would be ashamed of me, she should be put before my husband and adult children. She went on, she didn't want to see me at all over christmas if we weren't prepared to go to her, how could I do this to her and what a selfish daughter I am. I was in tears, so I told her I was going to hang up. I left it an hour, text her to say that she was out of order, I would never speak to or treat my sons the way does me and how upset and hurt I felt. My father always said that my mother would never admit she's ever wrong or apologise and he was right, I've heard nothing since. Through the loving support of my husband and adult sons I now know that I'm worth more than being my narcissistic mothers scapegoat. Its not been an easy 2 months, old habits die hard. However, to anyone else going through the same, keep strong, know your worth and know when to walk away and break free.

Thank you, Doc. Interesting to hear about your own personal experience with a narcissist. They sure get pleasure out of screaming and yelling and trying to scare and intimidate their loved ones.😢

Thank you, Danish, for these essential truths! You are the savior of nearly-lost and forgotten souls, including yourself, but manage to pull us back into the center, so we can understand and heal our trauma. It's painfully relieving. 😣

Man Danish you truly lived through hell with your family!!! So glad you survived and are able to help us dealing with these evil people!!!!❤❤❤

# 4 THE TRUTH IS!… this hits home, the part wort with no identity also, I wanted dreads in my hair, now he has dreads, period he literally stole tattoos and got the exact same. He called From jail haven’t heard from him in six months and was telling me how much he thought about me every day and that this is different and he’s never thought about somebody every day…. Obviously he needs me more than I need him . The moment he was locked up. My family could breathe easily. I could breathe easily and my healing began.

Thank you much, Danish! I intend to your vids everyday, and I've been learning everyday; even though I'm 64 yr old grandma, I'm still learning and now understanding more about my own traumatized life!

Thank you, Danish. This was precisely what I needed to hear today. ❤🙏

I really related to you. Your father, my mother, both destroyers. Your calm wise demeanor, my hopes of such progress. Thank you.

Im 1 yr free from such abusive marriage, and my former spouse was somatic. He took more time in the mirror than i did as a woman. Your understanding of things has been a blessing to me. I listen to 1 other person on KZfaq, Shaneen who also deals with narcissistic relationships/people. I thank you for this sir. Thank you.

Going through a whole life, not knowing yourself sounds like hell.

Your knowledge gives me such comfort. Helps me understand what I'm going through and where to hold the line. Thank you ❤

likes the ending. "every aspect of their life is a lie". so very true.

Hey Danish, thank you for your KZfaq videos, helping many others In similar situations.

Thank you, Danish.

Watching your videos is a major inspiration to me and it let's me know that healing is possible. I used to think I would never be able to survive on my own but life experiences put me in that position and I realized I was totally capable of it and that life is so much more peaceful and easier without him. Your videos continue to help me find more and more strength within myself that I never knew I had before.

Exactly my point to, they can't even see why they are hated so much which is the biggest problem. They don't even see that they are a problem they just have automated responses which are usually triggers they say and a lot of wicked things to say

I always watch you. I think you and Little Shaman are the best on youtube on the topic of narcissism. Thanks for your work

Narcissist theory is like a toxic swamp.....Amazing.

From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA Thanks again

So true Danish,I notice there not welcome into there company "but" are tolerated with distain, as they put there public charade on show!

Love you Danish ❤

Thank you Danish. I will watch this again. There is so much good information here . Have a Lovely Weekend.

I encourage people to be charitable, because after someone helped me, they said to pay it forward, when you are able.

Blessings to you Danish for having the strength to stand your ground with your family - thank you for your videos 🙏💜 from Ireland 🇮🇪

The Third One is So Sad Danish I relate your description to that of a professional fighter fighting beyond the age of 50 . Most of We can accept Age and the fact we don't heal as fast after injury . For ladies it's their looks... CarryON Champion 🏆 Danish 🦅🏆😎

Thank you for good advice.🙏🕊️

Oh my God! That thing when he was an angel with everyone and a cruel sadist with me, at my 45 I had never seen it before. I couldn't imagine that such a thing existed ! This transgression is still confusing to my naive mind! They all see the person I fell in love with.😢

I'm very content in my own company, because not everyone's energy is safe to exchange with and I get drained so fast especially around the wrong people. Solitude, teaches me to strengthen my discernment

Brilliant… insightful thx Danish

The gifts they give are always STOLEN... They know their going to he'll, they wanna take us with them...repentance is not in their DNA...I REALLY DONT CARE, I PRAY THEY GO AWAY.

My dad is a.narcissist, and as he ages it seems like his intelligence is leaving him. He basically believes any conspiracy theory he comes across. He holds a PhD in chemistry, but he never applies any real discernment when looking into these things. It's really frustrating

If he's being honest, he gave you quite the compliment. Most narcs don't compliment unless they are trying to get their hooks into you, get something from you.

Thank you for this content. Many of us have been subject to narcissism or have these tendencies but we never know until someone highlights it. The one thing I have learned through personal experience is; that such characters hate constructive criticism.

It's very comforting to know that narcissist will pay for everything they did to innocent loving people.

In my experience, this is 100% spot on!! For example, earlier this year my narcissitic "mother" passed on. They tried all their life to look & feel good despite age wasn't kind to them either. They'd many supplies & of course as I saw through them as they treated me badly but they tried to keep using me as their main supply given their gossiping "coffee club committee" style with family/friends.. Their health suffered with old age creeping up on them too but in the end it caught up to them & was what I believe in the most as in ☯️ karma ☯️ They didn't believe in it as they only believed being so narcissitic that they were invincible & nothing no matter how bad what they did & said * alot in my case especially * would ever come back "to haunt them"? They're just lucky I didn't play into their manipulative games as I wasn't buying into it despite at their service I wasn't there & they were trying to make themselves sound good & make me look bad at their expense but it backfired as if your adult child isn't at cremation /service what type of person did that make you 😢

I so appreciate your strength and calmness when you teach us in your videos-it gives me courage and hope that healing is real! Thank you!

Starting a journal was my saving grace!!!!

The biggest sign is that narcissist cannot stand with the truthtellers as i have experienced this with my crazy partner i was fooled by love bombing 😢 but woman is gifted by divine vibes which i got and then i decide to disclose them like u i was divorced by my this action and they made me to go through this severe punishment although i did not deserve this. My hair has fallen due to traumatized body and brain as i am tying to heal but could not be able to do so.Pray for me as i am trying my best i want to become like u to disclose these monsters😊

Thank you for the guide!!

Thanks a lot for making the informative video....

100% TRUTH

Thanks!

Many thanks Danish for such an useful episode.. Your episodes has given me much strength and confidence dealing with nars..

You have excellent insight. I have suffered a vicious malignant narcissist mother and a weak father who let me suffer her abuse. Now I have a cruel narcissist adult son who allowed his narcissist gf to disrespect me while I was allowing her to live with us and supporting them both off of my little savings, while they refused both employment and even chores, Thank you.

This was a brilliant video Danish. Perfect description of these monsters.. I can only thank God he saved me from marrying this creature, they or rather she isn't human and a dark spirit lays beneath.

I wish I saw this video years ago, very informative!

a Good Heart, even if they do something against their conscience will feel badly and not want to repeat the error,. Causing harm deeply disturbs their conscience... .A Narcissist actually enjoys being a "bad heart"....they feed on the power over others and the intoxication of deceiving others what my mother enjoyed: she called it "conquering" people. Thank you Danish, for your exposing not just your pain and experience with such people but it gives those of us who have suffered, the hope and healing we all deserve.

Being a Narcisist myself, it is very sad, i would like to change but i cant.

Thank you Danish. I'm watching your videos for long time. It's a eye opener for me. I got struck in my life with narcissist as parents and friends. Now I got some points about how to make a boundry and contact less with them. Meantime I want learn more about how to step away from their financial traps

A Narc is a garbage if the victim discards them ....all victims should understand it ...never be their supply ...without supply they cannot breathe

I learned, from this video, that my narcissist ia a Altruistic Narcissist. I also learned about the existence of "intermittent reinforcement". You've answered some very crucial elements of my relationship. I'm a subscriber, for sure !

You are my favorite coach of all time you’re so right

It must have been so difficult to live with such narcissistic parents. Thanks so much for sharing your words of wisdom after having been through such pain.

Narcissists serve sin. Non-narcissists don’t. 😊

your father knew EXACTLY what he was doing.

Apparently #4 went out the window with my ex. He ghosted me, bldg a relationship with his new supply, and then discarded me after 23yrs

😄😄😄😄 I like this description of a narcissist, I am listening ... over and over and over again

thank you, Daniş!

When I had a big quarrel with my mother's big farmers' family to survive, when I was studying, my grandmother said to me: "Your mother, your aunts, and I have never done anything wrong." Her death at 95 was my fault and before her death, she said she forgave me everything? Sometimes I wonder if I am a narcissist as a whole of my mother's family is. But then I stopped being the most obedient relative and giving all my strength and knowledge to them hoping somebody would love me. Until they destroyed me after all the abuses. I realized with professional help who they are and they proclaimed me mad and destroyed me totally. My grandmother said I am worthless, like my father was. My father's family were eternal victims who died sooner or committed suicide, which I feel about myself, too. Sometimes I hope our knowledge with make some changes and sometimes I do not, when those scary abuses are driving me.

My ex (not divorced) husband who was such an evil man with demon baby tattos on his stomach..contacted me (after 4 years didn't respond)to tell me hes a minister now!!!!How on earth?????i am so upset ...i have been watching all your videos because they really help even though I thought i was healed

Thank you. This was awesome content.

Brilliant. Just brilliant.

I am 57 years , narc brother 18 months younger than me. His whole life is based lies,,he lied to immigration he lied about his education and qualifications he’s told tiberrible lies about me. I completely cut him I out of my life seven years ago, along with many flying monkeys 5all automatically blocked). Particularly now when legally everything is gonna start crumbling down. I used to so scared of my brother with bellowing voice! Now, I’m not so scared even though I stand alone

Learning so much from your content. Thank you for your hard work and words of true wisdom ❤🙏👑

My ex husband didn't want to divorce. I was certainly his best "supply"

i dont believe we have to be impaired by age... i dont believe it has to be a long term process of decline...i think we should think of death as a short term process which at most lasts only a few days....and we should not think that there is an aging process which must happen before the onset of death

And dealing with a narcissist, evil spirit, you just have to remember to rebuke it, in the name of Jesus, because it is for real

nobody likes them is the truth. one thing i remember, after kicking my narc to the curb was "she never mentioned childhood friends"? reason being, even as a child nobody liked her, no more than nobody liked her as a adult. what a absolutely sh it life to live.

Your videos Danish are very good.

Are narcissists uncapable of offering or giving help? I only ask because neither of my parents have done this, even when i was suicidal and practically begging for help. I got told to get a grip and deal with it... i was actually suicidal after this. still recovering

Nope i don't think i'm special,And know i' m not better than nobody.And i don't have the body for that.And i have no money.

The concept of narcissism can get confusing. Can a person with NPD heal and be less narcissistic or its a condition like being born with autism?

I need help. My life was turned upside down and inside out. He has entered a rehab program that is faith based. I fear for those who are in close contact with him. He has already turned a priest against the church. I need help to warn them or at the very least prepare those close to him for the inevitable consequences of his actions

I cant believe i wasnt the first comment

So true

How long does it take,ore how many contacts/interactions do the y have to have with extended family members and friends outside their homes, before they are 'found out' by those people who they really are.

@4514rooster i asked my bf what he loves about me and he went on like "the thing i love about you the most is how you put my mind at ease, my mind can rest, and how you understand things from my pov" Basically all about himself? Is this supposed to tell me something about the person that i'm dating? Is this a narsicistic behaviour?

Good day Swth,u look too worried is there any thing u want me to know? or something ur are not telling me? My narcissistic wife send me this. What do you think

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❤yes

Thats my narc husband. A predator.

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❤❤ hello I am here to get my morning danish