I was 28 years with a narcissist. I am 60. I left him 18 months ago. Have to go to court to get financially free. I have been listening to you for the past two years and can’t tell you how much you have helped and supported me on my journey out of this living nightmare. I thank you Andrew.

“The truth is… you just met your worst enemy.” 🎯🎯🎯

“ believing their looks haven’t changed in 20 or 30 years..”boy are they wrong

"No" is a whole sentence, ,

If you don't believe in empathy come and work with me for a day and see the destruction you the narcissist inflict on children and families. Actually no point...you have no heart...no love..no care...no remorse....you have nothing. You are dark, you have lost and continue to lose. We have light, we are light 🌟😉💜

Besides losing their souls, minds & tempers.. ....the narcissist continues to lose the gift of genuine love from the hearts of beautiful people of empathy. Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

Everything is returning. I got my life back. My hobbies have returned and I’m more creative than I’ve ever been. I’m an empath who always puts others above myself.Not anymore! I see narcissists! ;)

Even Empathy can Be Swallowed Up By the Black Hole of Narcissism.....Hi Everyone

Sing to the Tune of "We Are the Champions" by Queen 🎵🎶🎵🎵 We were supply Time after time We did our sentence But committed no crime And bad mistakes We made a few We had our share of sand Kicked in our face But we've come through! And we'll always go on and on and on and on Yes, we are narc-free, my friends And we'll keep on blocking till the end We are so narc-free Yes, we are the narc-free! No time for losers 'Cause we are the champions over Narcs! We've taken our bows And our curtain calls The Narcs tore our self-worth And everything that goes with it We gave our all! But it's been no bed of roses No pleasure cruise We consider it freedom to let go of these Narcs And we'll never lose! And we'll always go on and on and on and on Yes, we are narc-free, my friends And we'll go NO CONTACT till the end We are so narc-free Yes, we are the narc-free! No time for losers 'Cause we are the champions over Narcs! Yes, we are narc-free, my friends And we'll go NO CONTACT till the end Yes, we are the narc-free! Yes, we are the narc-free! No time for losers 'Cause we have control now, over Narcs! 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

As an empath, it’s shocking to me that there are people on the planet who don’t believe empathy exists…shocking, but the more educated I become, I see that it’s true. Most people are living in the everyday fog, with a minimal level of empathy or awareness. Learning that most people do not have my best interests at heart was a revelation. I’m glad I learned it at 45-better late than never.

I can see thru the mask , my narcisist olderst brother has 4 flying monkey brothers, me and my sister are outcasts, im alone but happily married with children and wonderfull friends and a church comunity.

Andrew, you always speak the truth about narcissism. I am so glad I found your channel. You've helped me tremendously 🥰

Thank you SO MUCH Andrew - my fav empath! I grew up as the scapegoat & married a narcissist. When you pointed a finger into my living room, stating "You are winning!" I cried. Devaluation, abandonment, emotional abuse hurts. I have no relationship with my toxic mother; or flying monkey sister who lives with mom and tolerates her, expecting a large inheritance oneday. The pinnacle of indifference is the delightful environment I now embrace. X0

WOW!! 199K subscribers! I was here at the beginning and still grateful. My situation is with a malignant narcissist - a brother. What a nightmare. I went No Contact 3 years ago. Thnx again!

my partner said yesterday after his therapist said to him yesterday that he'd never come across anyone like him before and i said that's because you're a narcissist and he said to me no i don't think i'm a narcissist I'm more like a psychopath 😢..getting myself ready to break free now

I was a young boy under five when the abuse started. My father Albert Pluim, would fly off the handle especially when his friend Ray Steele would show up. I realize that my father and my two brothers are and were narcissists. My sister, I have no idea and I hope that I never see my siblings again. A very toxic family. My mother was the only empath other than myself that I know of. God help me if those monsters ever try to contact me. The police will be involved if that happens. I have the law on my side.

What a gorgeous background. You look great. 🪽🪽🪽💐🪽

They are the master destroyer. Blessed to be in No contact 👍 Thank you Andrew 🤝🙏🏼

Thank you as always, Andrew. I have healthy boundaries. I declined the hoovering. I’m not merely an Empath, but an Educated Empath. My level of empathy and understanding is still present but I listen to my instincts even more so now than ever. Namaste 🙏..

Sometimes life smacks us in the ass to where we finally create a tipping point to where we are right now and then we need to let go.

My daughters mother is now on a hoover trip and playing her narcissistic mortification show...her smoke show has only worked for a short period this time trying to catch other fish in the ocean...what a zero bore she is, and no change whatsoever..I know her mask games in and out, and are almost vomiting when I see her fake face and disguised facade ..I only care for my daughter being caught up in the narc mothers maskarade and slimy mud hole...I wish the empty mother will one day say to me I can come and pick up my daughter 10.000 km away from me because her mother is getting tired of my daughter or has spent all my daughters money in the bank...a new supply guy will not last long because the mothers share value on the stock market is rapidly declining and will continue to shrink into more chaos, stupidity, loneliness, paranoia, indifference and finally ending up in a vast black hole....I use the small word no with a big importance to avoid abusive people. And I also use the small word yes with a big importance to do what I like and feel for...thank you Andrew. Enjoy your day and keep up your good work

"We treat life as an experience." 💯❣️

My wife once broke down crying and told me she thought she was possessed.

Well, my parents (the narcissists) won. They have millions of euros and i am starving to death from mental illnesses. The way how my parents destroyed me is unprecedented.

Your channel has helped me so much.Words of wisdom.

SO CLOSE to 200,000! 🤗👍🥰

Yess indeed Andrew so true. ❤❤❤

hey andrew😊home from my vacation happy to see you this evening❤🥹🌚

Im realizing the “romantic” relationship with a narcissist guy had to happen so I could discover who I am and why relationships/interactions in my life have played out the way they did. It happened to wake me up and reveal to me my own strength!

Thank You Andrew🙏

I've been watching your channel for the past year and always love the locations you shoot at. It'd be cool to see you do videos in Alaska one day. Every time I see amazing scenery I say, "that's a great shot for an Andrew video!" 😁 Thanks for all you do, you bring lots of positivity to so many!

Everything returning especially the Bank Account!!

Thank you Andrew. First, Second, Third now. Doing the best I can do much solitude.❣️

Support for Andrew and everyone here,💗💗💗💗💗💗💗t.y.😊

I love you Andrew. Your talks and walks in nature help me so much. Your smile is awesome. I wish we could meet and just walk a trail together! In peace and just enjoy each other's company and smiles!

Andrew,,,, it sounds like you were there all of those years. This is Not a coincidence folks!

Got used to it from so many directions just seemed normal until I started getting better. Wow! Glad the worst was over. No idea where I was in the process. I had a "you are here" experience through this channel, constantly making it make sense. Priceless

Thank you Andrew :) Congrats on 199 subs !!! I am going to listen to “silent battles of relationships” next * Friend sent it to me/ of your videos Appreciate your channel ❤ For me this channel is about positivity not just about narcissism education

❤Thank you Andrew ❤

I love this channel. I know you are an empath because your compassion is palpable. Your words help me to feel better. Also, thank you for the injected humor!

Powerful...Amen brother 🙏

My son Andrew told me..Mom if it's too good to be true then it is. Don't believe it. Funny how your young adult children know better sometimes.

I was with a Narcisstic for 8 years I finally left and it took me 6 years to get financially free and another 2 years to get divorced Finally free with no contact Thankyou for all your videos they all ring true to me ❤ I have always been an empath It’s easier not to date anymore

Thank you, Andrew. Your delivered narrative helps. You are a warrior.

Keep the guidance and strength coming ..nothing but love to you

Wow, all so true!! Awesome video

I’ve missed watching you, love it!! Be strong everyone, it took me 2 years to reach “indifference” you will get there! Keep listening to Andrew! 💫💚🙏🏼💚💫

never knowing the difference between right and wrong never knowing what is . up from what is down

Spot on Andrew. Thank you 🙏

Run for the hills! Absolute truth!

I always love❤ when you refer to the Narcississt as a having a "tiny little pea brain 🧠!" So funny!! 😆They think they're in a movie, forrel. Life is not a movie 🎥 Feels to go laugh at them now🙃😆😆 Good video, Andrew!!😃

Black or White ? Good or Bad? Angel or Demon? Coke or Pepsi ? Lightness or Darkness? Normal empath or monstrous Narc? Choose Wisely. Thank you for this very insightful video. So happy I found this channel😊😊😊

Very helpful Andrew but the flying monkeys are the worst

I deleted some photos off of my phone today from a vacation 3 months ago. It's unreal how when I look in their eyes they knew what they were doing. Evil, pure evil. God is love. Embrace God. (One month free yday)

Great Video … Spot On … 💯🎯🙏❤️

New subscriber this has helped me so much.

Hi Andrew, I could not agree more. Here in France we unfortunately have the same kind of freaks. I managed to get rid of mine few weeks ago in a way he did not expect before going no contact. As a yoga teacher (he took advantage of this by the way) I have my own ressources 😊 Now I am recovering from this toxic relation thanks to really good ayurvedic massage I had (abhyanga marma). It allowed me to get rid of all this toxicity in my body and in my mind. It is vital to break this negative energetical bond. My body and mind weren't free despite the no contact. During the massage, I have been told that my muladhara and anahata (root and heart) chakras were completely unbalanced. This was confirming me all the bad I felt physically and emotionally. The narc is so evil. But since this wonderful massage I feel so much better and relieved. With all the yoga postures, breathing exercises, meditation and this massage I feel now more at peace. The bond has broke. Hope this can help some to find the strenght to move forward and go in grace in this beautiful life. Sending you all lots of positive vibes and thanking you Andrew for all your helpfull videos. Take care of yourselves. Blessings from France. Namasté 🙏🌞

Hey there Andrew! You’re looking very handsome today! Hope you’ve had a wonderful day!🙌😉😍❤️💜

"Narcissism as a personality trait doesn't require a cure or treatment" -that's true of "community narcissists" people you might describe as "arrogant' or self-centred" We aren't talking about those people here. We're talking about people who have *an agenda* -for you before you meet them. It's typified by quick sex (to get you hooked) -then the emotional abuse begins (put-downs, name-calling, flaking, faking and taking) that's followed/sometimes concomitant with the smear campaign -which is designed to isolate you socially. To use a metaphor -the *community narcissist* is the guy who cuts you off on the freeway -without indicating. *The Pathological Narcissist* is the guy/girl who identifies you/your home/car/kids/bank account and then *infiltrates to destroy*

YES, the narcissist does not know he has ALWAYS dirty fingers...💯%!!🌠👍🌟

They have the spirit of self sabotage.. they will destroy the next relationship

Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is helping me very much! Cheers,

Your right Andrew sometimes love is blind,it’s even worse when your physical challenged😎

I blocked the narcissist and packed up all my things in my car but I'm homeless now trying to figure it out, at least I'm saving my mental health.

You are my current motivational coach!!👍🏼

Hi Andrew❤you knowledge & wisdom is wonderful

MAINTAINING NO CONTACT IS KEY💯

Thanks Andrew as empath to empath, you’re great! For sure empaths exist and it’s exactly why I started my channel when I met one of these demonic entities. Couldn’t believe it. But I was in a battle for my life. I’m out! Get out and stay out! ❤

My X gf isn't hurtn for supply her new guy is taking care of her, but I think their relationship is a " open " relationship, I believe he's a Narc too. But idk fosho. Don't care anymore

Thanks, I needed to hear this.

I went through all of this with my mother and daughter. I am an Intuative empath. I wasn't the golden child, but dealt with it cognitively. My daughter I put up with a lot for the sake of my suffering grandkids.- they lived with me. Essentially, I brought them up and they know this behaviour is bad and not their fault. I taught them to love themselves, and be kind to others. I will break this cycle. Thank you Andrew. Light and love will always win out.

Thank you for all of your videos. The one I met was from another country. He was my first narc and hopefully my last. He has supply all over the world. Didn't realize they existed. 5 months no contact. It's still hard to unsee what I seen.

I appreciate you Andrew! I can rewatch every single video over and over... Each time every bit of information is spot on & makes more sense now that I am on the other side with you! Cheers!

The worst part for me after walking away is completely understanding what happened while nursing a broken heart. It’s taking so long to heal and it’s a lonely journey. I have to pretend I’m okay most of the time because family and friends don’t understand

I would have to say they lose attention and resources. Namely someone to pin it on. I said it 2 years ago, "The most valuable resource on Earth IS attention." The Interwebs is a perfect example of external validation. It baffles me how many people are externally validated, when they could just look inside and be happy. I have dated women that did not have a personality, they mimicked mine, my interests, my mannerism, all the things that make me an individual. The last one, I lost myself in the relationship, later to discover, once again humility and an undignified soul searching. That crap took 8 years to heal from. I am still an asshole, no doubt, but fairness and generousity comes first, not gonna budge on that. We can heal these aged children whose parents failed them out of fear of shame or judgement. And there it is, it is parenting that failed them. Andrew I thank you for helping folks understand this crazyness, Could you please cover the parents role in developing or continuing this awful character disorder? Thank you sir, you are appreciated and meant for what you are doing.

Great video as always. This morning I woke up with the message I’ll have a friend spending his holiday for a couple of days. I moved to another part of the country, speaking another language. A couple of days later I’ll have another guest from the US, a French American, whom I met last summer. Great, looking forward to some positive vibes!

Thank you Andrew for your daily dedication ❤

I am a year on my healing journey. I had no idea what a narcissism was until I came across your channel. Healing for me has been life changing. I still deal with the hoover, etc. because we have two children. I come to this channel for strength and knowledge. Thank you so very much for sharing your wisdom.

I’ve always know I was an empath too. I never knew what to call it till now. Thank you Andrew.

Another great reinforcement of the truth!

Really appreciate your breadth of knowledge Andrew, thank you.

There you go again 😅 making me laugh 😁 I just love your sense of humor Andrew! You always make your point, but the medicine goes down better with your humor! Thank you .. 🙌 just do you! Looove you Andrew!! God bless you 🕊️🕊️🕊️💞

We are Judged Relentlessly by People Who Think We Are Weak for being an Empath

We were three children raised by a narcissistic father and an enabling mother. We were all treated like shit by the narcissist.

😮I never understood and never met a NARCISSIST before. 2 years of a roller coaster ride. I'm so happy he dumped me. I can breathe. ALL he has left left is hovering with words fooling himself that I still care. Him dumping me was a blessing

Never stop little brother, never stop.

Tu Andrew. Definitely needed to hear that today….❤❤❤

Here's what I experienced: 1) Love Bombing - She completely had my trust and love. She said we were Partners - She said we would spend our lives together. I was committed 100% 2) She started to distance (7 months into the Relationship) 3) Super Distance: Started listening to her Children that said she could do better. 4) Discarded: 1 month later - She came over and she told me she could not do the relationship any more 5) ME Heartbroken and shattered for 6 months at least 6) Started understanding and still wanted her back 7) (90 days later) Burned all the shite that she left in my house 7) Started hating her (and that felt much better) 8) 18 months later I am educated (Andrew - GREAT JOB) 9) Looking for another Woman that will treat me like I treat her. Ex can kiss both sides of my azz. And yes.... she took alot of my finances with vacations - meals - Presents etc...etc... And YES ..... She is AGING !!!! And aging BADLY. You get what you Play for.

At my mothers funeral i saw how disgusting those monsters truly are. It took every bone in my body not to embarass my sister,her husband,and others but the Lord told me my child no. When i got back home the Lord told me forgive them and move on from them my child.

Thank u Andrew I was lost 3 yrs ago. U helped me find resilience and a new life. Ur the best.

Thanks, Andrew, you are 100-percent correct. Your insights are extremely valuable.

Two years ago when I found out my second wife cheated I got my eyes opened to the fact that narcissists exist and thanks to Andrew and the community I now have a far better understanding of what took place during our five years together. I've also come to realize that my first wife has heavily narcissistic traits. I took her through med school to become a physician and supported our lifestyle with hobbies and travel during that time. Once she was finished I didn't amount to anything, knew nothing and did nothing right. Looking back I think I understand her behavior better and realize that she has no old friends, always complains and picks on her sister, her mother, her ex brother in law and her step mother. She's constantly in some form of conflict and I'm now grateful for not having to deal with her since our son's are now legal adults.

The part on the being a friend to my daughter, never set boundaries, not letting me parent her is spot on. Was waiting for this be said. Thanks for this helping me heal. Saw my daughter half hour in the last 2 years. It’s all getting clearer. Tnx !

You are right on!! Love your teachings and that you are helping to bring awareness to narcissism and the damage and destruction it can leave behind. We empaths must learn to love ourselves enough and learn to set boundaries. Narcissists hate boundaries because they love control. Love you Andrew! Namaste 🙏

I don’t know what is worse from a narcissist, the silence treatment or the non stop talking. My ex never gave me silence. This person lived to talk non stop. It got the point that just hearing the voice will get me irritated. I never thought I could feel hatred towards someone but I did to this person.

Bingo. My ex wife wanted our daughter as a friend, someone to go shopping with. I was a parent first, friend second. Ex practised parental alienation. Daughter has grown up and keeping very little contact with mother. Unfortunately I have none. The ex is isolated from people who have seen through her lies. I am indifferent and live my life in peace and balance. God bless

You are a good 👍 man Andrew keep up the great work thanks for helping me get through the flames 🔥

The best advice I could give anybody who is healing from narcissistic abuse, especially in those early days, is to get rid of all social media and ask your friends and family not to post any pictures of you or tag you anywhere. You need to go really cold to them, so they have no idea what you are doing, who you’re spending time with etc. you’re probably at home taking life slowly and trying to recover from the trauma, but they don’t need to know that. They will be the one posting everything they do, exaggerating their every move, new clothes, probably found religion and virtue signalling with that. But they need to have no idea at all how you’re spending your days. Blocking them won’t do much because you know they’ll have 5 fake profiles to stalk you on. Love to all xx

Awesome video Andrew! Thank you for providing these videos.

I used to tell him that I was an empath and he would say yeah right? What??? So manipulative.