😢Bob Marley said " The biggest coward is man who awakens a women's love with no intention of loving her". Excellent video hitting all points❤

They hate you cause they aint you.

Narcissists are vengful children with adult rights. Plan accordingly.

The Narcissist never wins in the long run, they end up playing themselves.

When the narcissists plans backfires you know you've won

No other way other than to block, delete, and go full no-contact with these demonic creatures.

The narcissist can only give you what they really have the most, CHAOS !

Their plans backfire a lot because greed is their guiding force. And they cannot resist the temptation of a bigger score. This seems to work for them up to a point but eventually they meet their match. Another narc or an educated empath. Both are capable of taking a greedy narc down 🙃

Great episode, Andrew! I am currently going through a divorce, after 32 years of marriage. My mother is a narcissist, as well. My parents have completely betrayed me. I was crushed by this. However, it has been the best worst time, of my life! I have realized, who they are. I have gone no contact, and I I am healing, for the first time in my life. Keep educating us! We need you!🙏

The price we pay for love - is grief... A narc will never feel either of these.. Empty shells in their empty world.. What we feel makes us real.. That's the beautiful journey... They'll never understand... They lose...🐬✨

They always overplay their own hand and games. It’s actually really funny.

Divorcing the narcissist is the toughest thing I've ever done. Prepare for the biggest attempts at deception and hurtful acts, particularly if you have children. But it is SO worth it!!!! I've never been happier since I became free!!

they know what they are, the love you give disgusts them. They know they are trash.

My ex narc had made up a great scenario in his pea brain for after he discarded me like yesterday's news but he miscalculated big time because nothing of his plans worked out. He fell flat on his face having to start all over. That is so pathetic but often that's how it ends for narcs. The boomrang effect. Have a great evening Andrew 😊🙌💜❤️

The narc always talked to himself. Always running bing banging around expecting you to believe their ridiculous stories about where they were. Pathetic pieces of 💩!! Thank you Andrew for your daily page of hope!❤

The petulant child narc is always on the hunt for the next best thing, causing chaos and havoc constantly, whatever they use to fill the empty hole inside, whatever they use to sedate themselves never works, so off they go on their quest for the next best whatever, never to be satisfied, constant frustration that they project onto you. So happy I removed myself from that nightmare of evil. When you live in the darkness, nothing ever good comes from it. Stay in the light and follow it. ✨✨SHINE ON ✨✨

When nobody else deals with them. Run.

You’re the best for explaining narcissism 🙌

When he tried to gaslight me being crazy and mental ill I finally recognized that there is no way to deal with him any longer. So I thanked him for showing me my "instabilty" and left him telling that I dont want to be a burden for him any more Whishing him good luck in finding a better woman. He was shocked and tried to hoover multiple times until I blocked him. Heading month 11 of freedom now 🎉

I didn’t know the label for triangulation but I experienced it the whole time.

He discarded, didn’t end divorce, became the victim, got a new supply hiding her, comes back lying crying that he’s alone. Only to find out he’s in a new relationship. Cheating on her already she has no clue. They lie until they drop ! 😅

💯. I’m going through a divorce right now with the narcissist ex-wife. And it’s been going on for about a year and some change now. And one thing I can honestly say is since I’ve stayed away a lot has been growing on my side. My faith in God has increased. My finances have increased. I’ve been healing. My health has increased. My life in general has increased.

Yes and amen. I'm now free and rebuilding. It's still a lot of tormenting memories but a lesson we'll learned. Never again.

Exactly as you say. The narcissist is the one who has a failed life by spending their entire life on the Dark Side. Since you mentioned the aging narcissist, Andrew, when the day arrives that they slip away into eternity, the actions and words are unchanged and even more ugly than before.

Some narcissists have careers and their own money and still use you for yours, amongst other things.

WHEN THE PLANS OF THE NARCISSIST BACKFIRE: 1. They wonder what went wrong 2. They spend countless hours talking to themselves.... calculating how they are going to "get you back" or "make you pay" 3. They scream like a banshee 4. They rock back and forth like a maniac 5. They always spit 6. They curse constantly 7. They dig further into "the new supply" 8. They recognize what they lost in you 9. They know that you were too good for them, figured them out, and ran for your life! 10. They get twitching eyes and their head twitches 11. Repeat 1-10 🤨

I was his mother, servant, and provided him a very nice house. He also wanted me to raise the grandbabies.

I like how you think and how you explained that empaths exist. "Case closed!" Without much philosophizing. You are simply unbeatable. I admire you! ❤❤

l LOVE that you used the word 'slither'

Hello From - Ft. Worth, Texas I was married for 8.5 years to a Narcissist 2014 - 2024 I'm 50, she is 53 Just an Fyi.....

Sending love and blessings to all of us survivors.❣️

When the narcissist devalued me, she planned to have more control of me? But it backfired and I left. I leave whenever I felt someone pulling me down coz I think real friends support each other.

'What goes around...comes around'...no intervention is required...imho. Excellent piece...many thanx.

I got tipped off from a friend the EX Narc was looking for a rich person... He was telling old ladies they are so pretty...and asking what kind of car they drive...

Great video Andrew!! Everything a narcissist does will backfire eventually. If you are thinking about seeking revenge, dont do it. 🙏 That is not the person you are, that is a reaction from the person the narcissist is trying to turn you into. The biggest backfire the narcissist ever had, was you ruining the plan they had for you. Wishing everyone clarity and peace... ❤

Andrew conveys the agony of narcissistic abuse better than anyone else have ever listened to. I really needed to hear this today after another sleppless night. Maybe it is a character weakness in me but I am waiting for karma, justice, or whatever you want to call it to catch up with years of mistreatment, triangulation, and abuse from the narcissist. I guess I feel that if there is some type of consequence for his actions he will stop hurting me. I feel so desperate for others to see the light and how supressed my life has been. Sometimes I feel helpless and hopeless that I can heal and have a happy heart again. I just want to EXHALE again and be loved and valued for me... and not what I can do for him or his (sadly) entitled budding narcissistic children who I have raised since they were 1,3, and 4. If only I knew 30 years ago what I know now. Praying for others whose heart may be hurting too. (I love that Andrew always says you are loved and a beauitful bright light - a great truth filled reminder so many of us need to hear!)

Yes they rush things so desperately to replace me knowing he finds out I’m done with him 😂😂

When you're out of it, and just observe them from the outside, you see them for the messy disaster that they are, and all the things they do to try to distract themselves and anyone else from it. It's like seeing a movie set in person rather than through the camera and editing which are the narcissist's will. Thank you, Andrew!

Yes,IAM going through a divorce,and he's dragging it out. He tried to get me out of our home,and things didn't go his way. He's so angry,been together 32 years,and he wanted it all,and IAM still here waiting to sell the house,and still with the lawyer,but almost over with the lawyer. But it has been going on sfor a year and 5 months.Its crazy,it hurts still today knowing I have to find me a new safe home,when IAM all alone. But it will be better when I get out of here. God bless u Andrew and all of us

In my case the narc's timing to discard me, seriously worked against him. I received a HUGE amount of $$$$$$$$$$$ almost immediately after he discarded me! He found out and wanted to be "FRIENDS" !!!! My answer was NO and still NO! No way in HEL& NO!! Bye loser! Be strong do not walk backwards! Blessings!❤

I get my son for full custody next month. Andrew saved me. The 1st video watched by me was "Why your silence wins" Andrew I would not have my evidence stacked and got custody if it was not for you against NARC MUM-IN-LAW. THANK YOU ANDREW ❤

Andrew, watching your videos makes me feel less alone. That’s invaluable. Thank you for all you do for this community. We love and appreciate you!

Thank you Andrew. Your words have "galvanized" my resolve. I have lost my son in this mess in the hope that someday he'll realise the truth. You are awesome!!!! I have been in thiis fight for 14 years and have had no contact for 3 years. Please keep doing what you do.

Merci beaucoup for your daily pep talks. I just celebrated my 4th year narc free 😁

It's a relief when others see them without their mask. Then others see what you went through.

Good evening Andrew and friends! Hope everyone enjoyed their weekend! Received a HUUUUUGE miracle today after praying for it for almost a YEAR! BEYOND grateful, and I hope things are going just as amazingly for all of you, my friends! 🙌🙏😇🎉🎉🎉☀️🫂🫂💜❤️💜❤️ P.S.- LOVE your shirt Andrew! 😉😘💜

"Trick, Trap or Manipulate-" Andrew, once again, pure gold. I can't imagine living in their (narc) skin. No doubt- you're a heaven-sent voice of wisdom and encouragement for a multitude of beaten-down & confused people. Your posts help to free so many trapped souls. What a beautiful GIFT you are to humanity.

Love the content!❤

Spot on Andrew. We start healing and growing strong when we no longer give our energy to the narcisist. It’s all about stealing our energy. The narcissist disappears with the energy they get from us. They are hollow black holes which need external sources of power. We must not supply evil. Thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤

When you've reported them to the FBI for human trafficking and larsonsy theft over $100k..........then, their mommy calls 🤙😂😂😂😂. Don't be scared. You will win. It's your path/destiny. Master it . I love you all. You were always right 👍 😉

It took almost 3 yrs to finalize my divorce. Still dealing with parental alienation

I had to send my son's mother to jail for domestic violence. What a difficult woman to deal with. Glad she is out of my life. Everything you said is on point. 12 years of her bull crap is over. Will never see her again.

Evil people. Andrew thank you so much for opening my eyes

Just got a hoover😮. I am not allowing him no power!

Greetings from Switzerland

Powerful video my friend. 🙌🔥✨️

OMG!!!! The mumbling!!! Even sitting next to him in a car. I couldn't understand why he did that lol. And you hit EVERYTHING!!!

Hello from Australia 🦘🦘🦘 thank you for saving what's left of my life 🧬 💋💓🌹

…greetings from Barbados 🇧🇧

My narcissistic sibling tried to get as much as they could. They dragged the inheritance legal battle for four years, I never gave up. At the end, they got less than what they would have gotten had they given up four years earlier.

There comes a point when it's best to move forward with your own life & that can’t really be done by dwelling on a relationship that wasn't fair

You’ll never know their plans though, because that is always a deep dark secret… I finally put 2+2 together and realized that (in a romantic relationship) your love-bomb is another person’s discard; and your discard is another person’s love-bomb. I realized I was in a relationship with a man who was never once honest about his feelings, his intentions, or his plans. Thank you for another daily pep talk Andrew! This has been so helpful in my healing. ❤️🙏🏻

Talk of divorce will give the narcissist beach ball eyes - it dawned on me that this response was actual joy at the thought of being relevant one grandiose last time, albeit with lawyers as paid friends. Sickening.

Such beautiful and truthful podcast may God continue to bless you and give you wisdom

Wow this is powerful ! Tell it like it is!!!!

Back when my mom was young and attractive, all of her plans worked out. She was so good at manipulation to get what she wanted. Now she's old and alone, and any plan she makes blows up in her face. I can't help but pity her because she is my mom and she has no one anymore, but it's her own damn fault.

U just described my whole life with my X. A godless narcissist. I needed this knowledge 30 years ago. And to everyone else, get out ASAP. They will waste your time (years), money, energy, and speaking to brother yesterday he let it slip out that he was sleeping with my wife. Please, for the love of God, leave the narcissist before you're reduced to a crust of bread.

You’re speaking the pure truth Andrew, this is exactly what occurred to me, thank God I left before he caused more damage & pain to me! He is a straight up thief & evil! When I left he told me that I’d always go back to him & put up with his BS, this got me so mad, enough to help me leave along with his physical, emotional & drug abuse! I had to leave to save myself! Thank you 🙏🏼

Thanks for this content Andrew. They think they know you better than you know yourself. Its a huge narcissistic injury when you turn the tables on them, simply and silently.

Low vibe creatures. Another fantastic video. So well said. I graduated the hellschool, and now live up at that Pinnacle of indifference. (Great name for it!) Quick story: my younger sister Is one of the first narcissists I endured. I spent so many years trying to figure out why the relationship was so hard. When I finally understood that she wasn't trying to have a relationship with me, but she wanted power over me and she wanted slaves surrounding her, I got away from her. I didn't know about narcissism, but I figured out that first puzzle piece at least. Later relationships taught me the rest. She has been out of my life for 2 decades, and it's been so peaceful without her. But my mom died recently, and she was able to get my information somehow through extended family. And she reached out and tried to mess up my ability to do my mom's funeral. She hasn't talked to my mom in a decade, she lives several states away, but she started calling the hospice people, and the funeral director, and telling them terrible lies about me, and tried to use legal means to stop me from being able to bury her. She didn't want to do it herself, she just wanted to block my ability to do it. I'm so proud of myself, because what I did was just let her have her rant out there in La La Land, the funeral director couldn't proceed, but he was a kind man and kept me mom's remains at no charge for me while we waited. The hospice nurse had been working with me for a year so she knew I wasn't abusing my mom, like she was telling people. She knew that wasn't true, thank goodness, and she is the one who told me what was happening. So I just sat back, and waited. Every time she sent someone from extended family to contact me and threaten me that if I didn't contact her, she wouldn't allow the funeral to proceed, I either ignored them or blocked them too. I went on with my life, had a funeral without her body, and started processing the loss with my kids. We have to pick our battles. It wasn't ideal, it wasn't what my mom wanted, but that's life. I JUST KEPT LIVING. I didn't let her derail me or upset me, the only power she had over me was to put a pause on the funeral plans. Small price to pay to not get entangled with a snake again. The funeral director was a saint, and just worked with me. Eventually (9 months later!) she gave up, and I was able to proceed with the burial. And I never had to talk to her once, or anybody associated with her!!! 🎆🎇⚡👍 It kinda shocked me, that after all these years, she is still as toxic, and still as dangerous to me. But I protected myself, and was awakened again to how much they want to bomb your life. For no reason at all! What hell would she have put me through over the last two decades if I hadn't gone no contact?👀🤨🫣💣🔥🔥🔥 Thank you for what you are doing! I still need to hear it, as there will always be a new snake to target us if we let our guard down. It's just a truth about living on the planet... Trust must be earned. 🪷 🎇🎆💥🥰 Indifference really is a safe spot to keep us from entanglement with a snake. 🫶 🐍 🤺

Thank you Andrew so much for talking about this topic. These people drive you crazy.

Andrew, I love how you just allow source to flow through you, as you deliver these messages. So grateful to have found your Channel❤

I had to repeat to myself, despite the fact that my narc is my own dad, I will NOT become ill, abused, or involved with any human who refuses to be thoughtful of my life. I'm a father. I'd never cross that line with my adult kids. The overwhelming lack of kindness combined with the audacity to tell me what to do and how to feel about myself, is sinister. Kindness escapes the narc. A sense of lightness and just being "chill" escapes the narc. So, yeah, if you are anything like myself, this game of superiority via abuse and zero concern for my life consequences doing the narcissists bidding is going to blow up in their face. My limit switch broke years ago. It's especially difficult to accept that a persons whose job in life is to be a parent, decides no, I'm going to game you, cross boundaries, verbal abuse, financially drain, suck up your time. RUN! No explanation required. The narc knows exactly why I disappeared.

Thank you Andrew. This video is excellent! Take care and God bless you.

Headed towards a year and a half(?) on this channel, watching your videos and reading comments nearly every day. Has it cooled on the healing impact it had on me? NO. It still shines light. I never felt alone and isolated in dealing with these puzzling Narcs when I found this channel.. Much Appreciated!🙏

Yes, the new supply didn't know she was being played!

I just closed my eyes and tried to imagine the narcissist as less than myself and a scary foreign feeling came over me. That was dark and empty. I wonder if that's what the narcissist feels like all the time. That thought is heartbreaking. No wonder their behavior is poison and destroys every bit of goodness in it's path. I don't want narc behavior wrecking havoc in my life anymore. Parents please love and guide your children properly. And, for goodness sake, take a course or two, or get counseling if you need to.

This guy is brilliant. Thank you

Andrew I love you brother I could not do it without you thank you so much peace to you from the u.k

You are amazing Andrew ... You nailed it man.. your wisdom is no less than a creator of world himself.. ❤❤❤ Thank you brother..

This education really helps...today I met someone new and within 10 minutes I knew the red flags....I will never contact them again ...now I see these people it's an amazing education thanks andrew

They don't want anyone to have their own identity. This is so very true. Thank you for recognising it and for all your videos, Andrew. ❤

You know what’s fun? Going to counseling with a narcissist, they’re hoping the counselor will talk some sense not you or mine took over the entire conversation like he was the counselor. They had him figured out real quick.

Your videos are really helpful man !! Appreciate every video helping me get thru my narrasscist sychdelic forced fog!!!! Thank you!!!

With women, the male narc exploits the maternal instinct. (besides the free food & money etc)

Andrew ,everything u said is true to the core.55years of this way of life until at the last year before he discarded me he become just as u said. The grass for him is greater than me, can u imagine what goes through my mind. He has turned all my children to think Bad of me.Its unbelievable what’s he done to my life. 😢

✨💖🙏We are not supply. We are beautiful bright shining lights! Thank you Andrew🙏💖✨ P.S. amen that the case is closed on the argument of empaths existence 🙌 💪 ❤️

TOP NOTCH ! Thank you so much Andrew..

By the way I’M INDIFFERENT ! I just enjoy listening to you knowing I’ve healed❤

100% Correct. Love your videos 🎉🎉❤! My ex Covert Narcissist threatened to discard me and I called his bluff and left. Never to return. It's been 3 months since I left and since I did everything for him, everything fell apart for him after I left. He texted me to please call a tow truck for him!! SMH. Yes they always over play their hand. I am almost there at the Pinnacle of indifference you refer to.

I like you , Dude..... Your stealing my words !!! Nailing it ...thank you

Súper episode 🙌🏻✨ Thank you so much 😌🙏🏻

Good video, Andrew!! This is very true.💯 Many people don't believe there are Empaths. They either dont know what it is and that there are people like this. Or, they don't possess empathy and believe there are empathic people. A lot of the time, these are toxic, Narcissistic people. But, they NEED Empaths!💯 I KNOW I'm an Empath. But, I had got involved with a Narcissist BEFORE I knew my worth & value and could recognzie red flags.🚩 Towards the end, I was beginning to learn about Narcissism. I called him out and told him, "He was the Narcissist and I was the Empath. He was insulted!😆 Oh well!! 🤷🏼‍♀️ Stills rings true today and I know what I went through and what type of person I was with. Thank God it's over, I'm free & life is so peaceful. 🤗🕊️❣️✨ I'm in a good place now 💯💯

Thank you for this video. It is right on time. I am working on being honest with myself with forgiveness. Forgiveness is for self. But I am still hurt by the betrayal and manipulation and financial abuse. But I know God is bigger than this Anger so I work daily on forgiving myself for not knowing, I extend so much grace to others before but on this journey i was really taught humility and grace towards myself and self acceptance as well as trust in my instincts and relationship with the creator. I am forever changed. Again Thank you for your videos they have been so impactful. 10 Months no contact and divorced 1 month. And I only knew him for a little over 2 years. What a whirlwind these last 2.5 years. But I am free. I thought I was losing my mind. Keep pushing everyone there is light on the other side. Sending Peace Love and Joy to all. I value these things more than anything now. ❤❤

That was so powerful Andrew!! Love you & Thank you for all you do!!❤🎉

This was the perfect video for today

This is exactly what has happened. Your best video, thank you.

Going no contact with my daughters has been the hardest decision of my life! At 55 years old seeing that my life has been void of Love is a hard pill to swallow! What I can say is I now know my worth and value and I love myself even with a broken heart!!!

I actually saw the narcissist the other week. Two leg casts that went up to the narcissist's knees. What happened? Don't know, don't care. Car wreck. Baseball bat? Who knows?

You guide me Andrew and give me such self belief.....on those days of doubt....and I have them, listening to you inspires me and gives me strength. He's left me with this fallout....🤷it's lessening as time passes but the reinforcement Andrew is essential 🙏💜