All women should be made to listen to this!!!

Theres a bigger problem than "resentment" if one wants to kill there own baby

a narcissist explaining narcissistic behavior

Do you have an of?

@@crimsonhawk4912 and of what?

indeed. my ex is a covert narc. nasty piece of work when the mask slipped. i i wish her the worst in life

Spot, freaking, on.

in fact it is the opposite. Society is centered on men and teaches them to use women, since ancient times men think they are powerful for collecting women.

@@Comentflix that doesn't discredit the fact that a lot of women these days, especially millenials are highly narcissistic

@@Comentflix there are men who use women. And there are women who use men. You are viewing things partial. Even if it was purely as you say, how does degrading the woman, makes her as powerful as the man. Two wrongs don’t make a single good. It’s addition of wrongs. Not minus multiplied by minus makes a positive. That’s not logic, but rather emotion taking over while loosing logic and congruence. Thinking nonsense out of desperation. Make women better. Don’t destroy them. They are irreplaceable.

She's going to blow up. I think this channel has gained 20k followers in just a week

Yes

Period!

Except she is. Just look at her own comment where sge's openly shaming men. She's toxic and very manipulative.

you simp

And who do you think takes most use of that? Women

That and dating apps it skews the dating market making many woman think they are more desirable than they actually are.

@@waynegoodman3345 WELL THAT WAS THEIR WHOLE MISSION IT IS BEING USED JUST TO FEEL GOOD. THEY DONT EVEN USE THESE THINGS FOR THE REASONS IT WAS CREATED, THEY USE EVERYTHING AROUND THEM AS TEMPORARORY NARCO ENERGY LIFE SUCKING VAMPIRES. THEY DONT WANT A MAN, THEY JUST WANT TO FEEL DESIRED, JUST THAT LITTLE VOICE IN THEIR HEADS HAHAHAH

I think that's an astute point

1000000%

Amen to that.

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So we cant be judging men or put them down if they are broke and have money, or if they don’t treat women they way women thing men should, why because they don’t have to correct information, people come on KZfaq and use words but a lot of people’s hearts are wicked and cold and lack genuine love and understanding of people

@@glecservices3114 Wait what, no lol you dont judge a man if they are broke lol the same exact way a women HATES when a man JUDGES THEM BC SHE CANT STOP EATING? Which one do you think has the more moral grown to make changes? You dont think its easy to just stop eating? Do you think a man should be judged if hes 5 foot 9? And to him he makes 50 grand a year but TO YOU , he needs more bc lol YOU ARE A GOLD DIGGER LOL I MEAN DUH HAHAHAHAH

I also agree but then it should also apply to men- like once their baby is concieved it’s not my time/wallet/energy/life my choice anymore-he already has 2 people depending on him at this so it should be seen as just as unacceptable as abortion without father’s consent. Cause I feel like this whole „my body, my choice” is women’s response to men being able to avoid reaponsibility just because it's not them having an uterus. Pregnant woman is not self sufficient, child needs both parenta so a man’s part in the decision should only be taken seriously if he is willing to be a father and a partner these two people need him to. And if abortion which is a huge pain for woman by itself should be punished, so should be trying to avoid stepping up as a father.

@ingabyczkiewicz3731 Men can't avoid that lol there are legit laws for that....

Summary: men are superficial, they choose women for the wrong reasons and then complain about the consequences.

"Women are conditioned to be loyal" ?? 😂🤣

@@unbiasedtv6525 to desirable men, yes. Not the dude they settle for...

Where did she way women are conditioned to be loyal? She said nothing of the sort !!! What a gaslight you are and typical of modern women today.

Again absent fathers causing trauma to their children. Nothing new. Men need to wake up and be better.

​@@GiaDivaful Here we have another red flag walking around willing to take no responsibility to fix herself. Once you see a chick externalizing reasons for her bad behavior, run.

men get off on performative acts of selflessness and see going through struggle as some kind of badge of honor, either way the end goal is getting something out of it for themselves, its a roundabout, back door form of narcissism... Men d not sacrifice from the goodness of their hearts, there is usually something in it for a man...

100% facts. I've always said that I believe that the reason why a higher percentage of men are CLINICALLY diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is because women are so narcissistic by nature that in order for a woman to be CLINICALLY diagnosed as a narcissist, she has to be EXTREMELY narcissistic, otherwise, she is seen as just a normal woman, lol.

covert narcissism absolutely. I would say 90% of women are covertly narcissistic today. Incredibly entitled and insecure. They gaslight and manipulate to gain control and always need external validation.

@@r.walker7986Spoken like a deflective narcissistic woman 😂😂

I was thinking the same exact thing 😂😂 you beat me to it ​@@slide5039

Literally

not quite

You have low expectations 😂

😂 she’s not lol she’s just a messenger it’s all in the books and research of psychology, you never took time to learn or understand.

She also missed the point that women with sissy dad’s pampered is also an abuse leads to unhealthy detachment leads girl becomes a narcissist etc

She probably will blame you for the cheating too.. gaslighting

@@ELMagnate581 I blocked her so never had the chance to do that but I can easily see her figuring out a way as to how it's my fault because of all the things she didn't like about me.

Men get p whipped so easily and tolerate all kinds of bad behavior

@@baldeagle4710 Because they have too if married. If they dont put up with it she walks and takes half his stuff.

But then when a man cheats in marriage, a woman is left without her youth and beauty that she has given to him. Perhaps a career, virginity and a body that she had before giving it away to give him HIS child as well. It’s also more likely for a man to find love after a failed marriage than it is for a woman. Each side has something of great value to lose in a marriage but y’all at least risk mostly renevable stuff so stop acting like y’all are the only ones that could possibly get hurt or get the short end of the stick somehow. This just shows that y’all are struggling to see things from different perspectives.

Men risk far more than women as women have the biased family courts to protect them by way of getting the house, children and there fore child maintenance. 50,000 american fathers woke up in prison today for non payment of child support so not paying it is a jail sentence. How many women woke up in prison today for non payment of child support?... oh thats right... NONE!!! So you stop Inga !!! Stop pretending and stop been so triggered. Men and society are lead to believe women do not cheat as muc has men and they most certainly do and then blow up their marriages and its there in the family courts that men learn it the hard way exactly like Mike said.

But men cheat all the time. Nothing new 🤣

I partially agree with you. I think mothers aren't given as much support as in the past when they do have children. So they inwardly push the frustrations, complications, and exhaustion inward, creating a loathed being. Therefore, projecting that hatred onto their kin. I agree that society has made it to where "women can do wrong," to the point of being believed instantaneously over the man even before the man has had the opportunity to open his mouth and give his side of the story. Moreover, going back to the basics, as the doctor pointed out, having men and women staying committed to their marriage, working together to raise their children, and being in a true partnership, is the best solution for both horrid scenarios, in my opinion. 😊

I think the narcissism exists because it’s more allowed, but it’s probably always existed because of women who have had high ranking in the past it’s just more massive now. I think because men have been more narcissistic in the past far as providing women now are taking whatever power given to them in todays society and that gets turned into narcissism by association. If that makes since but I don’t think every women saying “my body my choice” is inherently narcissistic, but maybe there’s an influx

There is even this stupid song that says it 😂... "I'm unstoppable I'm a Porsche with no brakes I'm invincible Yeah, I win every single game I'm so powerful I don't need batteries to play I'm so confident Yeah, I'm unstoppable today Unstoppable today Unstoppable today Unstoppable today I'm unstoppable today"

this is bullcrap. Humans have been here for hundreds of thousands of years. We have no recorded data on most of them. There is no way that people with npd did not exist in the past. Women are naturally attracted to evil selfish and aggressive men, they are also repulsed by kind selfless good men. Look at how women use "nice guy" as an insult and who they sleep with in their teenage years and in their twenties. If women are attracted to sociopaths, narcissits and psychopats then these traits would offer a higher likelyhood to your offspring to stay in the genepool. I am pretty sure these monsters always existed it is just in the past people did not know what they were so they just worded their condition differently.

The sad thing is it is ultimately destroying them when they cannot find happiness becuase of it.

Sadia, if an above average looking gal with a phd in psychology gets 3 nose jobs, a full face lift, a chest job, lipo suction on her thin hips, and dies her hair incessantly...... do you think that's a good example of a vulnerable narcissist?

There are soo many psychologists that has better content than yours but You’re famous because you’re pretty. That’s good though, people should listen to you instead of Kim K or Taylor Swift or Margot Robbie

@@curiousbystander9193 What's the context for this closed ended question?

@@goodtimesbadtimes5273 You sound bitter. By what metric is her content inferior to other psychologists?

@@altustalent410 the context.... ummmm? I am asking about someone with whom I am quite familiar, as it seems evident, right? Not sure what's closed ended from your perspective?

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Narcissists like Kim Kardashian made dating difficult, now we have normalized toxic humour where a guy is ridiculed for getting cheated on

​@exoticindiaa We've always has that. Since the days of Shakespeare have we long ridiculed the cuck. it is what it is.

@@exoticindiaa just wstch toxic humor against ALAN " 2 ans 1/2 men" .. where entire series is about us siting in a ROMAN Gladiatorial arena - watching a guy beig systemicsly rediculed and his torn down by brother, mother, nasty ex. Judith and legal system ... ... took him 10 years ... to slowly recover from " therapie seesins" and love of his closest from his past .

You are definitely not a narcissist, you’re the victim who dealt with that for a decade. 😒

If what you are saying is true firstly I am sorry you had to go through the narcisstic abuse, on the other hand I need to warn you to get ready to a life of pain. Narcissists are made, but these traits can also be inherited. Similarities usually skip a generation, so if your child will have her own children they might turn out to be narcissists as well and as long as you are alive you will be surrounded by these demons. Unfortunatlly, women are turned on by evil men and they pick narcissits over good men.

Totally agree. I saw your comment in action in my eyes.

Could you explain this in a little more detail? Thanks

@Anvita444 would take too long my friend, if you re in relationship, make sure you respect boundaries, not promote transactional exchanges with your girl, and tip for tap.

Actually women who have bpd or NPD are more masculine in their nature. So are you a closeted gay ?? Why do you search only such women ?

They fake emotions, they only have anger

Yes

Exactly!!

Your problematic relationships exactly describe my situation. Her father walked out before she was born and she is a mega-manipulator. We haven't had sex in over a year, I'm constantly walking on eggshells.

Maybe work on healing your gf’s and wives?? Clearly you don’t see that the MEN in their life were the reason why they are the way they are but go ahead and blame them. Idiots

@@thomasczthomash1859 my friend, if she is using manipulation tactics please do not believe things will get better, because believe me, the won't. If you haven't had sex in over a year then you no longer have a relationship, you're in a "friendship.' There are 2 sides 2 every story, maybe you have also made mistakes and in turn, have turned her off. I know I have made mistakes like this. But one of the reasons we all get into relationships is for regular sex, not just for orgasims but to feel wanted, desired and loved. I have been there, my friend. And after my relationships failed I spent alot of time reflecting on myself and why. I came to the conclusion that I was insecure, a giver and maybe to empathetic. These types of people target people like me because I stay and tolerate bullshit that a secure man wouldn't. Maybe you're the same. Maybe you're a lovely person who just wants it all to work out and mildly scared of leaving because you're worried that you may not find someone else. But the reality is, it would be harder for you to find something worse. If you're someone who has integrity, values monogamous relationships and are empathetic, you're actually a high value person and are worth your weight in gold. Because its easy to meet someone who is disloyal, low integrity. The hard thing is to find someone who is a good person. Remember, you haven't had sex with this person for over a year, you described her as a master manipulator, you're walking on eggshells.......what is this bringing you? Its bringing you misery, heartache and pain. Do the right thing for you. "You can ignore reality but you cannot hide from the consequences of ignoring reality.'

Oh my god. Same here. She never met her father - her mother left after the honeymoon. Also, no sex in over a year (when I began to assert my boundaries and disengage from arguments)... but that choice was FAR more mine than hers... I simply could no longer trust her. Constantly walking on eggshells around her since month 2 of our 7 year relationship. When she finally told me she wanted to leave, I simply responded "What's his name?". She denied, denied, denied, until about a week later she happened to have a "realization" that she had feelings for a coworker. He's a sweet boy and she's going to chew him up and spit him out. I honestly feel relieved, yet sorry for what this dude is going to go through.

What happened to the 11 yearer?

What’s interesting about narcism is that they usually attract each other because a healthy person wouldn’t tolerate narcissistic behaviour so get yourself checked out too while you’re at it 😂

Beware of who she really is, she believes men who use chat bots for their emotional needs are rapists.

She is not beautiful.

Well a lot of your development does come from your childhood years, so she is correct there. It's hard to recondition yourself especially around years of bad upbringing and influences. It creates a big disadvantage and halts massive character development especially if you're within adulthood and still being raised in such a way. There are many things to deprogram, unlearn and new habits to learn. It can happen but it takes a long time.

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So true.

No, he just wanted some strange. We're not women.

You’re full of bs, psychodynamics is the fundamentals, that attachment theory is surface level behaviors.

U must be a chrater

Yes. I hear you. I find Sadia very observant overall, but many of her (powerful) points lack nuance or are too facile.

Okay ghandi

No, she actually starts by saying "There's so many of them" specifically responding to his question about narcissistic women. She then adds the trouble of narcissistic mothers to her response.

Beware of who she really is, she believes men who use chat bots for their emotional needs are rapists.

I cannot add how important is to STAY OUT of relationships, I would rather be friends with a woman to get to know her. If she has sex or dating with others while talks with me, she is good to get lost. Women are like buying pants, either perfect fit or a pain in the ass the whole time.