That visualization is already making me smile wide for 5 minutes at a stretch now 😅

Life is complicated and the relationship even more, and even if it’s avoidant ex in a long distance relationship!! A deadly combination!!

Love the step out of this process. I am kicking the goals but wouldn't know it without this amazing presentation. And the visualisation was just a joy to behold. Thank you.

Wow toke a lot of great advice from this video :) thank you alexis :) x

You are spot on with this

Had something special.. 5 years.. we broke up.. she had someone a month later .. said she is "head over heels" with this guy and never felt this way about anyone...

No contact: woman is free, she just moves on. ALL the times. Simple. I had a very good lover. We were always in good terms. We fell out in question whether to move together or not. I wanted to live separately. No contact for three months. Finallly I asked how she is. She answered she`s happy with another man. That was it.

Hey Alexis, i booked the free 15 min talk and no one showed up :/, i rescheduled it however. May i know what was the issue?

I’m in contact and we’ve been in contact since we broke up. It’s been 8 months. He and I are nice to one another and he’s done some favors for me like my car breaks and stuff back months ago. He’s been working a lot. He’s not moved on and neither have I. We plan on going to cedar point with my daughter next month so we shall see. We were together for 5 years. His mother passed away during the break up so ya know it’s been hard for him and everyone. I was chasing him and crying a lot and begging in the beginning but he wasn’t having it. It pushed him away more. He asked if we could he friends and we both agreed but then he said “you need to accept we might always just be friends so I make no promises.” Yet he’s left all his garage stuff here and a car in my driveway of his. 8 months later…. I don’t really know what to think. But it seems like he’s giving me false hope or just like doesn’t know what he wants and wants to keep me around Incase he don’t move on or find anyone or maybe he really does love me. He’s taken my daughter out a few times and stays in contact with her.

I’m conflicted here… I took the test, scored -15. He is avoidant.. but I met his kids, I’m his first relationship in five years… it’s hard to believe it wasn’t special. So i don’t know if I need to have hope or no

I think you are perfect, too, Alexis.....tell your mother that. ♥

I left a bad last impression, after having such a loving relationship for years I didnt take the break up well, kept asking for answers and asking for her to talk to me, she ignored and blocked me, then told me she didnt want to hear from me again and she felt anxiety everytime I emailed and to please stop. its been over a month since I attempted to contact her, will she ever come back round ?

Last Week Me & My GF of 5 years have called it a day.Her Choice lost feelings!! I was mature about it and said she needs to be happy. This also happened in Feb 2021 and wanted me back in July 2021…Which we did.Her hysterectomy Op in 2020 change her,Sent her in to early menopause. I really hope this turns around!! She’s had a lot go off her life this year.Her mum has been diagnosed with throat cancer & her daughter has has mental health problems for the first half of this year!! . We work at the same place . She’s not asked me to pick up my clothes from hers . Said she wants me to sit with her at dinner time still ( work ) . Still got our pics on her FB . She’s NOT bagged my clothes up and told me to pick them up Edit:Today Obviously we work at the same place,I’ve been applying no contact since last week ( the split ) , Walked in canteen for my dinner could see her sat at our table with the neck stuck out looking where I was going. As I paid for my food went to eat in the other side,All I could hear was “Luke” luke “ sit here…. I was so confused,but never sat down! Just said I need to off back to work. Gets back to my office which is 5 mins away,pulled my phone out and have a message of her asking if I’m okay?!?!

My ex broke up with me on nov. 4, i did the no contact and radio silence after the break up, after 2 weeks he unfriended me like i am doing nothing, i never disturbed him and i never reach out to him because i gave him time. I get it of unfriend me if im being clingy to him or im begging him or post something on social media but he unfriend me while im doing nothing, what could be his reason? Pls help me

scorpio male, no x but I think it's just selfishness, that's it! but heres my problem with an explanation, its always going too be half assed true,