No Decent Girl: A Memoir by Jane Hayward

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‘No decent man will ever want you.’ Jane still remembers the words her father said to her when he found out she was pregnant, although she was still a schoolgirl.
No Decent Girl is a moving literary memoir that captures what it was like to be young in 1960s, a time when the generation gap was wider than ever before.
In 1962, Jane’s family moved from the quiet English countryside into the heart of swinging London. Like all teenagers, she went to parties, drank alcohol and danced with boys. Jane’s parents were strict, middle class people and struggled to accept their daughter’s new life. They found her pregnancy even harder to deal with, believing it brought shame and disgrace on the family and all connected with them. Jane’s parents decided their only option was to send her away to a mother-and-baby home.
In the 1960s, thousands of pregnant girls were sent to homes for unwed mothers where they gave birth before making the heartbreaking decision to give their babies up for adoption, believing it offered the best future for their child.
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@youthworker62
@youthworker62 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story Jane. I was one of those Babies, from a unwed mothers home Called Prospect House in Hoylake, Wirrel. I have put your link in there for people to see. mothers and babies :)
@zoedark7101
@zoedark7101 6 жыл бұрын
It was very different in Irish mother and baby homes as they were more like prisons,if not worse.You must be very strong to forgive your mother because I know I couldn't.
@doylec27
@doylec27 3 жыл бұрын
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time
@zoedark7101
@zoedark7101 3 жыл бұрын
@@doylec27 what crime?
@snowpro90
@snowpro90 2 жыл бұрын
These were different times for sure and difficult to know what my mother went through.I am now on the verge of getting in contact with a sister that was forced to be put up for adoption in the early 60’s.
@AllBling
@AllBling Күн бұрын
I told my mother only about a month ago that this was said to me way back then, and so THAT'S why I had made the choices that I did. She was horrified. She hadn't realised quite how bad it all was. Adoption is not a "better life". No one can guarantee that. It's simply a 'different life'. One without their mother chosen by God.
@zenzen1916
@zenzen1916 Жыл бұрын
There need to be more homes for pregnant mothers. I was forced to marry an abusive alcoholic, who wasn't even the father. My parents were awful people, and when your physically and sexually abused from young childhood on you just fall in line. Glad my abusive husband died at 42. I wanted to be with the father of my child, who was a famous musician, but my jealous bi- sexual stepfather wouldn't allow it. They say my soulmate died at 43 of an overdose, but I think my stepfather was involved, as he was insane, my phone was tapped , and we were going to escape together. I'm so sad, but know we'll be together in the "after life".🥀
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