It’s crazy misogyny is so bad we get bullied just for existing

Right? You can't even find a single female comedian without men 1) humbling her and the everlasting "Not funny, where's the joke" OR 2) talking a gddmn comedy skit seriously and sensitively. Which proves men can't take a joke when it's directed at them 🤷

Men will absolutely go and rage on posts where women share their stories about SA. Or any post that informs about stuff like this. But when there is a post that talks about SA that men went through, they rage there too? Being on insta really made me loose my faith in so so so many men its sad

Or they just sexualize her to the point of harassment.

i feel bad for women and future daughters

fr they're always really hateful

It's so true, I freaking HATE it

It's like Twitter Lite- All the edgy teenage white boys saying offensive shit and thinking they just wrote the next Eminem track or smth

there was literally a 16 year old Indian guy who committed suicide because of the comments telling him to khs over wearing make-up recently. insta really is just one of the WORST

yeah and I've noticed it starting to bleed over onto here unfortunately :/

especially on reels made by plus size people or children 😕

People also comment on the worst replies, and that drives it to the top with the most discussion. It's classic FB tactics of outrage engagement. I miss pre Facebook instagram so much.

Yess😭

@@franciswilkersonballsTHIS!!! im fat and i tried to use reels. never again. people are so rude once they see that youre something bigger than a large.

@@plagueparchments I’m so sorry that happened :( people can really suck :(

For real. Finally someone is talking about it

KZfaq is a hell fest too wtf are we really going to act like it’s just instagram 💀

​​@@CallMeSkinnyand its literally just as bad as tiktok. Theres a lot of good reels on insta with funny comments too. Dont know why we gotta act like its worse than all the other platforms (esp. Tiktok)

Right! I remember I was just watching a video about a kid dancing or something and opened the comments to see just, rampant racism. N-words, awful name calling, horribly negative things

FR!! When Cooper said "I can't say most of these cus they have the N slur-" I immediately flashed-back to checking a couple normal reels and seeing the N slur EVERYWHERE

Thanks for the explanation. That's awesome😎

Honestly i saw this video on instagram and with how everything is setup i was confused but it was obvious she was meant to be there and doing what shes doing so i was shocked at the comments acting like she was bad for that idk. Wasn’t that cursed to me.

because its owned by facebook/meta! They DO NOT REGULATE ANYTHING, people have looked into how they treat the staff and the darker side that fb and insta allows on their platform

@NotVille_ sir what the ever loving fuck

@NotVille_ You're hilarious

the other day I wanted to do these really cute heart space buns for school. for Valentine’s Day. I got bullied so hard I didn’t even have it up for two hours. the world’s “normal” is becoming so odd to me.

this is why they turn off comments on advertisements, on most platforms. People get NASTY 😂

lmao I remember doing that on the ads from one of those companies trying to peddling a box of like *16* colourful pimple patches for like $10 and they eventually got so mad and started fighting me in the comments about it.

Not asexual but fr bro also omg poe profile

Not asexual but everytime a man does things like this it might just make me

Fellow asexual!

Same!

@@miizerry yep :3 poe best bsd character canon real

i mean. y’all falling for it. just delete it and they won’t get what they want

​@@twothousandandchewwish you men had this mentality when worrying so much about a girl with OF or leaving hate comments on any girls account. Practice what you preach.

​@twothousandandchew and before you say you don't leave comments, you literally replied to someone that you got banned on Instagram for hateful comments... lmfao the jokes write themselves

instagram gonna have the same nosedive twitter is having if this keeps up. no one except those exact people wanna be on an app that promotes that

@NotVille_that can seriously get you investigated

fr that would be horrific

This actually makes a lot of sense

I like this theory a lot

your hypothesis is 100% correct, if you’re interested in the research look up the (free access) paper “Angry by design: toxic communication and technical architectures” by Luke Munn. facebook and youtube make lots of money by encouraging hate speech via their algorithm design, and it’s basically an open secret?? absolutely horrifying

You'd have to look into it for exact info but it came out several years ago that Facebook prioritizes showing users content that makes them angry because that gets the most engagement. The goal of any social media is to keep you on the app as long as possible.

Yeah, this is literally Zuckerberg’s formula for engagement

@NotVille_ nobody cares

@NotVille_ ideas I want you to consider: shut up

​@NotVille_ Lots of love, may the holy bible find you, let Jesus be your true savior, let him into your heart and free you of your sinful flesh. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

proud of you! keep it up

Heck ya!!! Keep on going ❤

Hope you kept it up! Congrats

Holy shitsicle twist! Congrats!! 👏 Quitting nicotine is a royal pain. I hope you're doing well so far 😊🩷

Never give up bro You got this

that someone was me. kzfaq.infoUgkx217PwnICXo-uQZiwHESFSZiLLgJUfO9H?si=l8dFbbau-LjzTx-L

I love your profile pic

@@Unknown_creature_bones thank you, i like yours too :3

@@Ghost-Tea thx :3

Yeah it’s horrific over there. I kind of do want to see those tik toks on Instagram reels in a social experiment kind of way

there was a 16-year old queer artist who died by suicide due to the extreme amt of hate was getting online

Same unfortunately :/

I don't mean to tell you how to feel or anything like that but I don't think you should be forced to be ok with white people saying the n word 😭 You're rightfully upset about that imo, those people are crazy..

That’s sad. As a white person, I hate that word and it’s unfair that you are constantly exposed to people saying it online.

no literally cause if u even try to say anything ur j wasting ur time cause they rlly dgaf n will continue to say it no matter what 😭 n it’s so annoying when someone asks why u won’t call someone out, like bro i’m not their fucking mother, why should i have to lecture them when they know better

I'm sorry white people are still saying slurs like that. I can't imagine. I wish we could grow up in a more respectful and caring world.

why doesn't youtube take care of these bots 😨

@@HopeIsADrug11037 because KZfaq is run by an idiot

@NotVille_think you responded to the wrong comment bro

They’re just so angry at women for what 😭 were just trying to vibe they gotta relax

@NotVille_ 🤓☝️

frrrrr

you know i was going to post art reels cos they get more views, but now I'll reconsider.

Moral of the story, They are disgusting and deserve nothing

lowkey if seeing someone say a slur on the internet hurts your feelings u need to take a step back from being online, i mean that in the nicest way possible

@@spooky_kitty901 It'll be worse than people "just saying slurs" though, I have seen some abhorrent shit in comments. Especially towards disabled people

⁠@@spooky_kitty901 if I read hate speech then of course I'm going to be uncomfortable, that is my right and I don't need to keep my feeling down and act like everything is ok. If we pretend everything will stay that way forever and ignore those comments then we give them power and they think they can disrespect us forever but we need to fight back to let them know where their places are. The internet maybe our anonymity heaven but those people who comment are real people and they have that hate deep inside them and it just doesn't stop with comments under some reel. Let's not forget teenagers or even children read those comments and think that's what they're supposed to say. Someday they'll grow up and have to interact with the people they throw slurs at or they're already bullying their fellow gay/black/trans peers. I want the world to be a saver place for my nephews and nieces and the other kids from marginalized people.

@@spooky_kitty901Seeing that shit constantly wears on a person. It’s not like one slur is going to ruin my day but if I keep seeing it constantly it will ruin my entire mood.

I’ve actually gotten the most vile abelism from a 14 yr old white boy once

IG and social media rhetoric are indeed not representative of the majority. In fact, many of the normal healthy men aren't on social media enough to create much of a presence. They are busy engaging in life responsibilities and in their IRL relationships.

I don’t blame you, it has legitimately made me feel uncomfortable around men knowing how many of them feed into that crap. I know, I know, “not all men” but when you see thousands, and I literally mean thousands if not millions, of men acting this way, it creates a fear.

I am so relieved to see that have the same problem as me. I also thought about finding somebody but if most men think like this (superficial, see women as pieces of meat, against feminism) it makes me want to stay celibate for the rest of my life alone with a lot of cats. I am not joking when I say this. If a lot of men have these horrible thoughts, then I don't have a lot in common with most of men

​@@squishy3248get therapy please if you can't realize the internet tough guy incels don't leave their house and are too cowardly to act like this irl. Being paranoid does nothing for you other than degrade your mental health

​@@mississipi1103they don't if you think that way again therapy

One thing I learned, people on the internet HATE seeing other people happy when they aren’t. Misery loves company, especially when they aren’t held liable for their words

Fr most of these commenters would be incel idiots who have never talked to a woman in their life

theyre always just projecting over the fact no women want them and someone else is happy in a relationship

i've seen grown men and teenage boys say awful creepy things about CHILDREN

ME TOO same with posts about the Gaza crisis. I pray for them but seeing them all the time is mentally draining fr

“evil cousin” is absolutely hilarious 😭😭

I WAS GONNA COMMENT THIS LMAO*

Do you mean hating straight people or ‘straight up’ hatred?

@@sunnyandthechlobased on content of the video and the generally agreeable tone of the comment, I think they might’ve meant “straight up” hatred :) not hetero-phobia lol

@@sunnyandthechlo just hatred in general.

That guys actually nice. He streams on twitch. I'm guessing he was reading a line from a game he was playing or something. It's cringe without context though. But he's nice and silly on his streams.

Oh! Phew! He's quite good at acting, then! (like literally, I'm not joking when I say I was terrified and was about to cry)

@@dumbstudios9713 Yeah, I think he said he does voice acting too. I've seen him have little mental health chats with chat before, not like claiming to be licensed or anything weird, but like a general discussion of how he and everyone are feeling.

Agreed!!!

YESSIR 🔥🔥🔥

Yes .

I AGREE

I'm at school right now, don't worry it hasn't started yet

Dude, I am definitely thinking about deleting my Instagram. It's just not an enjoyable place to be anymore...

@@bekkajeanmusicit’s worth it, that or just try to make boundaries to not touch the xplore page. That for me is where all the bad stuff happens

@@bekkajeanmusichonestly, go for it. I deleted majority of social media (only keeping KZfaq and Pinterest) and my mental health been WAY better. ❤

There’ll be some one feeding homeless puppies and will be a 20k liked comment upset that the food wasn’t wagyu

Even on cute dogs/cats videos, people can be brutal! Like what?! How is this sweet video causing so much hate??

I heard that Instagram isn't very adamant about getting rid of argumentative, controversial, and outright inappropriate comments because they get more engagement and keep people on the app longer. Instagram commenters will find a way to be mad and argumentative about literally any video. I've never had tiktok, so I didn't realize until recently how much worse Instagram comments are. Instagram can be really draining and depressing, but it's also pretty addictive 😔

Yeah I don’t make comments on there bc the one time I made one it was awful. It was a body builder kid who in the previous reel had talked abt struggling w an ED, he wasn’t sure if he was physically healthy anymore, and had body dysmorphia. He looked barely 13, and posted that and other body checks. I told him to keep his head up, that continuing to post body builder content isn’t good for him, and recommended seeing professionals for his health. The amount of gym bros that were pressed was INSANE. Comments shaming ME, saying I’m crazy or blind, one called me a pedo for being on the kids page when I was literally a minor too (and they weren’t). Many just kept talking abt how the kid is ripped, looked amazing, and encouraged ED behavior. They were recommending supplements for performance enhancement. Like this CHILD made a call for help, and grown men sat there and encouraged ED behavior in a 13 yr old.

@@melissadropdead4619they just hate on everything ig

For real, one time in a feminist video I said that something about women being able to choose to have kids or not (which is normal hello?) and a man or boy or idk said he was gonna r@p3 me. And that’s the new normality on Instagram…

Can you delete this comment? 😊😊😊 I wanted to be first thanks

​@@ImjustkendallGirl-?

@@Imjustkendall 😭😭😭😭😭😭

A little late but do you happen to know his name?

They'll ban you from commenting for saying the dumbest things too. I had that happen because I made a "your mom" joke meanwhile people are getting away with commenting things far worse than something that's obviously not that serious

I love how they ban people for the simple harmless stuff but when there is actual hate speech in the comments they don’t care. Prob bc the hate gets the videos attention and keeps users in the app longer arguing.

@@rolypoly1404dude, insta banned me for being aggressive at someone who said that he was going to r@p3 me but they didn’t ban his gross comment 💀

@NotVille_ girlie pop you have 36 subscribers.

@@Snapdragonangelhe’s niche 🥰

that's some insane parasocial shit

I think they trolling lmao

@@KxmpleteKxllapse you'd be surprised

@@AlisterBlackwellblud, have you been on the internet at all in the last 15 years? This is no where near the worst of it.

@@ImElliePaige it doesn't have to be the worst for it to be deplorable

I WAS LOOKING FOR A COMMENT LIKE THIS-